The Chaotic Mother In Every Award Winning Indie Film

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  • @icedteainabag
    @icedteainabag Před rokem +32631

    "I WAS PREĒę̋GNANT WITH YéËw" 😭 she harnessed all the indie film mothers in that one line

    • @amazinganna9982
      @amazinganna9982 Před rokem +964

      She does that scary low growl too well

    • @willtroy1986
      @willtroy1986 Před rokem +238

      I thought of the movie Anywhere But Here. Only thing missing is her character believing she met her fiancé on the first date, and calling the guy at 6am after the date the previous night.

    • @frameturtle
      @frameturtle Před rokem +109

      its giving dear evan hansen 😭

    • @glengamble526
      @glengamble526 Před rokem +187

      It also sounded like she harnessed Satan in the voice department 😂

    • @amyaalex
      @amyaalex Před rokem +20

      💀💀💀💀

  • @enticingmay435
    @enticingmay435 Před rokem +13319

    And she literally has no idea what’s going on with her children, she seems really involved but has no idea who her kids are and what they are going through. Totally clueless

    • @ThinWhiteAxe
      @ThinWhiteAxe Před rokem +8

      ​@@pathibe .....what

    • @humanwithaplaylist
      @humanwithaplaylist Před rokem

      ​@@pathibe shut up boomer

    • @abjectmadness1111
      @abjectmadness1111 Před rokem +4

      @@pathibe what

    • @whatever3145
      @whatever3145 Před rokem

      Yeah...shes busy. Being a mom fucking sucks. Thankless. You never question what the dad is doing or expect him to care. W roe v wade overturned this is inappropriate. Id rather blow my brains out than have a kid

    • @whatever3145
      @whatever3145 Před rokem +66

      ​@Harry Satchel..yeah. that is how inter generational trauma and epigenetics work

  • @AtypicalAdventurer
    @AtypicalAdventurer Před 11 měsíci +3402

    that "Let's just dance" is the most well-acted, drunk-but-clearly-hiding-crippling-depression line I've ever heard.

  • @seanbelltv
    @seanbelltv Před rokem +2373

    Oh God this is the darkest thing she's ever done. "We don't have to go to school tomorrow." I am chilled to the bone.

    • @piloterodactyl
      @piloterodactyl Před 5 měsíci +50

      That fucking killed me

    • @21minute
      @21minute Před 4 měsíci +13

      I don't get it.

    • @blanchebau8807
      @blanchebau8807 Před 3 měsíci +191

      @@21minute Might mean that bc the mom is the one driving to school, the mom is basically taking her daughter's right to go to school the next day away whether she likes it or not. So it's not really "we", its more "I don't have to drive you to school"

    • @neckbackcripplinganxietyattack
      @neckbackcripplinganxietyattack Před 3 měsíci +170

      @@21minuteit’s just something parents say to soothe children in chaotic households, with no order and no idea how to help a kid.

    • @blairemusic-ws7hh
      @blairemusic-ws7hh Před 3 měsíci

      @@blanchebau8807idiot

  • @k.win8843
    @k.win8843 Před rokem +6958

    The really good fresh-out-of-prison-mechanic is 100% played by Mark Wahlberg 🤣

    • @anggrekbulan100
      @anggrekbulan100 Před rokem +41

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @weirdgirl7475
      @weirdgirl7475 Před rokem +32

      Yes! 😂 👏👏👏

    • @amber619pop
      @amber619pop Před rokem +76

      No that can't be, because he is only in comedy/action comedy movies now. This video is about Indie dramas specifically.

    • @juiceboxfrog
      @juiceboxfrog Před rokem +121

      nowadays its probably jon bernthal haha

    • @b_charging
      @b_charging Před rokem

      FcVk you for your accuracy! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @philmccracken2534
    @philmccracken2534 Před rokem +7269

    “Because I was BRRREGNANT with YEW!!!!” 😂😂😂 so chaotic
    Edit: OMG thank you for all the likes!!! Only my second famous comment ever 🥰

    • @aaronbeauchamp5994
      @aaronbeauchamp5994 Před rokem +191

      “And now look at me” 😂😂😂

    • @Jazzmaster1992
      @Jazzmaster1992 Před rokem +200

      I am URMUTHER. DonchuEVER speak to ME like THAT.

    • @rosmarbal
      @rosmarbal Před rokem +18

      I laughed out loud

    • @misteryemisterye
      @misteryemisterye Před rokem +71

      "₳₦Đ ₦Ø₩ ⱠØØ₭ ₳₮ ₥Ɇ!"
      Her Godzilla mode surfacing out 😂

    • @inzabeli
      @inzabeli Před rokem +24

      I was gregnet

  • @rachelthornton4442
    @rachelthornton4442 Před 10 měsíci +866

    This mother in this indie movie is going to win the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress, and during the speech she’ll thank her own mother.

  • @conclavecabal.h0rriphic
    @conclavecabal.h0rriphic Před 8 měsíci +567

    Watching her drunkenly weep/rage dance to ABBA just unlocked a long suppressed childhood memory that I’d very much like to forget about again.

    • @EF-kk3vh
      @EF-kk3vh Před 2 měsíci +26

      I know I’m five months late to this comment but oh nooo hope you’re doing ok that is rough 😭 rooting for you

    • @Raven74408
      @Raven74408 Před měsícem +6

      Same 😂

  • @yolandaponkers1581
    @yolandaponkers1581 Před rokem +13367

    I often worry that Caitlin was raised by a thousand maniacs because there is no other explanation for how perfectly she becomes all these characters.

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 Před rokem +261

      Yeah.
      I worry one of her parents had a high functioning personality disorder and/or was a WASP stereotype

    • @alexanderg1935
      @alexanderg1935 Před rokem +248

      ​@@melissasaint3283​​ Yeah you're right. I worry that Anthony Starr's parents are actually egomaniacal superheroes bent on world domination... Then I remember that it's called *acting* and I go outside.

    • @thevegimeatatarian
      @thevegimeatatarian Před rokem +21

      ​@@alexanderg1935 😆

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 Před rokem +185

      @@alexanderg1935 No, it's because of her particular choices, how often she depicts them, and the intimate, household details.
      They are painfully well observed.
      (Sidenote, ten years working in mental health)
      At the very least, I wonder if she did nanny work or was a personal assistant, etc, for someone in those categories.

    • @whateverlolawants
      @whateverlolawants Před rokem +49

      10,000 maniacs, to be exact.

  • @whatthewindblewin
    @whatthewindblewin Před rokem +6964

    Can we appreciate the genius of her saying "now look at me" like a possessed demon and then transitioning into "look at me now" by ABBA? We have fear, we have dancing, we have heartbreak, and we have the ugly mustard-yellow dress in less than two minutes.

    • @elizabethweigle6146
      @elizabethweigle6146 Před rokem +139

      Can’t not have the ugly mustard yellow dress. It’s a staple

    • @TheRealCocoColours
      @TheRealCocoColours Před rokem +140

      Caitlin reading the part about the dress and thinking to herself that she just wanted to show off one of her fav pieces for the skit: 🥲

    • @pochiche6398
      @pochiche6398 Před rokem +24

      pretty sure it's her actual dress, dude

    • @sleepynoodles6425
      @sleepynoodles6425 Před rokem +48

      I wouldn't think Caitlin bought a mustard dress just for the skit 😂😂 YALL ARE ROASTING HER

    • @plumenommershpadoinkle7575
      @plumenommershpadoinkle7575 Před rokem +29

      that song is called mamma mia

  • @360shadowmoon
    @360shadowmoon Před 5 měsíci +325

    And somehow the audience is always supposed to sympathize with this character 😭

    • @Moments93-
      @Moments93- Před 16 dny +3

      NEVER

    • @nachoguy5
      @nachoguy5 Před dnem

      TikTok edits with highlights of this paired with soap making footage

  • @winterbutterfly8861
    @winterbutterfly8861 Před rokem +1012

    Love the "you ruined my life when I got pregnant with you" trope. Like, sure, ignore all the bad decisions you took yourself and blame the yet not existing creature that came to be because of them. Then ruin their life and blame them, sounds fair to me 🤠

    • @curlybebe
      @curlybebe Před 5 měsíci +5

      you sound pro-life

    • @giordanodsouza9563
      @giordanodsouza9563 Před 5 měsíci +111

      ​@@curlybebe Idk dude.. pro choice people are usually pretty good at holding themselves accountable for their choices and not blaming people who don't exist.

    • @minuettewelborn
      @minuettewelborn Před 5 měsíci +11

      @@giordanodsouza9563 That phrasing doesn't make sense to me. Why would being in the womb mean you don't exist? Is the womb a separate reality? lol If an infant in the womb is the same age as a premature baby outside of the womb, why would one be more human than the other? Some food for thought.

    • @Necro352
      @Necro352 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​​@@giordanodsouza9563they just dont tell you when they screw up

    • @Chad_Chadrick
      @Chad_Chadrick Před 3 měsíci +40

      ​@@minuettewelborn because I'm pretty sure living is having somewhat of a consciousness, which babies don't have half of their time in the womb (I think half?)

  • @AndreeMon8
    @AndreeMon8 Před rokem +8592

    The way she comes from happy - to batshit crazy - to sad dancing, nails it

  • @loganeggleston9744
    @loganeggleston9744 Před rokem +21093

    It’s not narcissistic abuse if it’s set to abba, she’s just a complicated free spirit✨💕

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +273

      Let’s stop conflating NPD with abuse ❤

    • @LifefulLife
      @LifefulLife Před rokem +1015

      @@DeathnoteBB well the person specifically said narcissistic abuse. they didn't say everyone with NPD was abusive so.

    • @zeppelinzeppelini
      @zeppelinzeppelini Před rokem +408

      ​@@DeathnoteBB yall gotta know the difference between npd and just plain narcissism

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +157

      @@LifefulLife Narcissism is what you call NPD… hence you know… the name…

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem

      @@zeppelinzeppelini NPD means _narcissistic_ personality disorder

  • @briansounalath
    @briansounalath Před 9 měsíci +129

    “Mother really needs this baby. I’ll be back later. There’s dinner in the fridge.” She comes back 3 days later

  • @Vampwars
    @Vampwars Před rokem +1030

    “I AM YOUR MOTHER!!!”
    Whenever someone says that, I always think of Toni Collette & how she got lots of praise but not one trophy for that insanely powerful performance she gave in that chaotic rollercoaster called, “Hereditary” ❤️
    Also, you delivered all them performances, honey. This was fabulous 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @h.canhas3564
      @h.canhas3564 Před rokem +44

      She reminded me of Fred Armisen yelling "I am your motheeeeeer!"

    • @As-jj2rc
      @As-jj2rc Před rokem +30

      She should have won an Oscar for that role

    • @AF-dn2bz
      @AF-dn2bz Před 11 měsíci +58

      The Academy and their ridiculous bias against horror movies. It just made them look bad because everyone knows she deserved it.

    • @Vampwars
      @Vampwars Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@AF-dn2bz, exactly.

    • @KHCoasterKid
      @KHCoasterKid Před 11 měsíci

      @@AF-dn2bzMaybe it was because it was a shit movie

  • @sophial.6633
    @sophial.6633 Před rokem +5754

    Complaining about not being able to go to college and then telling your kid “we don’t have to go to school tomorrow” cause your going be hung over, is such a good wrap up to this whole toxic mother trope lol

    • @rdiv
      @rdiv Před rokem +75

      And she was unable to go to college as she was "pregnant with yeww" because she couldn't keep her legs closed. Being chaotic, drinking, going to parties and most likely being an avid 420 person. lol
      Edit:
      Interesting replies to say the least...
      Elaborations for:
      @Pheobe Scott:
      The goal isn't to slutshame the fictional character. After all she does an amazingly great job on her own to sully her name and bring shame to herself and perhaps even the parents that raised her to be this way, on every chance she gets.
      Simply a reply that the fictional character deserves to get for being and acting the way she does.
      Also I am giving the responsibility where it's due. The fictional character is trying to blame her child and heavily-directly implies that the child was a mistake(which is a terrible thing to do and say to your child). While the blame falls all onto her. It wouldn't be this way if she wasn't having sex at that age or if she and the person she chose herself to be and do this act with, was being more responsible with it to preferably prevent or worst case scenario abort soon enough. And even now at older age and with a child she is openly trying to hook up with pretty much every guy she meets, even obvious horrible choices. Ruining both hers and her child's lives constantly, then daring to ask for respect while her behavior doesn't deserve it and while she shows no respect to her child and it's life that she has already ruined, most likely beyond repair.
      Tired of seeing people becoming parents when they are clearly not cut out for it or doing just because they think it be cute and cool to play with a live doll or as if they are getting a pet(and a lot of people treat getting a pet very lightly too, being irresponsible pet owners).
      @Fairy on Ice:
      Read above and I don't think I ever said that slutty-ness=Toxicity. Although if you think about it, it can bring a lot of toxic and drama situations with the people around you.
      She is clearly not enjoying life as you can see on the video. She is pretty sad and depressed. This isn't enjoying life by any means. It's like she did everything in her power to ruin it and then she blames her offspring for it.
      @Cydney M
      Of course I am and I also speak about this fictional character. That being said, unfortunately this fictional character type of person does exist in real life. And even worse ~ "sometimes reality is stranger than fiction".

    • @phoebescott6787
      @phoebescott6787 Před rokem +294

      @@rdiv bro thought we were all on board with slutshaming just bc we're mad at this one toxic mother 💀

    • @sarahg7996
      @sarahg7996 Před rokem

      @@rdiv You seem like a really unpleasant person to be around.

    • @fairyonice9504
      @fairyonice9504 Před rokem +91

      @@rdivit’s fine to be a young mother, but don’t hold it over your kid’s head. Even older and more responsible parents do this BS. Take it from me, a child of a way more traditional and conservative person, slutty-ness does not inherently mean being toxic. And ofc, enjoying life doesn’t make anyone a bad person.

    • @PickyVickyVindictive
      @PickyVickyVindictive Před rokem +20

      ​@@phoebescott6787 That's slutshaming? Lol The toxic mother isnt always graped. Sometimes she's a terrible person since a teen and hates her own mother for not letting her do what she wants. Then she takes it out on her own kid.
      Also since when is it a bad thing to not party all day and use drugs?

  • @cutietucious
    @cutietucious Před rokem +6190

    Bonus: a mom buys her youngest children new, expensive toys and the oldest gets angry asking where the money came from. The money either came from somewhere sketchy or was their only rent money. The mom justifies it by saying they all deserve to have a lil fun and then tried to offer the oldest her gift like a new scarf of something. The oldest rejects it and the mom gets irrationally angry and then the oldest asks, “mom, are you high?” The mom denies being high when she is in fact high

    • @anisebergemann1720
      @anisebergemann1720 Před rokem +90

      georgia miller🤔

    • @therainbokitty9574
      @therainbokitty9574 Před rokem +247

      My good ma’am do you know my family personally

    • @williamrisbridger60
      @williamrisbridger60 Před rokem +344

      ‘We need to get things straight here, Laura! I’m the mom! You don’t get to tell me how to run this family! That’s my job! Your job is to go to school, get straight As, and get Billy McKinley to ask you to senior prom!’

    • @sweetfreeze5528
      @sweetfreeze5528 Před rokem +78

      ​@@williamrisbridger60 and then the cycle continues

    • @HetaClaude
      @HetaClaude Před rokem +108

      not the eldest daughter syndrome 💀💀

  • @rudyruiz6287
    @rudyruiz6287 Před měsícem +21

    The way "Mommy's not sad, she's just dancing" would have the internet in a chokehold if this was a real indie film.

  • @jbauer72
    @jbauer72 Před rokem +307

    The hand gestures whilst dancing at 1:01 is the icing on the cake for me. I love it with all my heart.

    • @Joe_Parmesan
      @Joe_Parmesan Před 9 měsíci +8

      That's definitely part of the movie's trailer

    • @jbauer72
      @jbauer72 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@Joe_Parmesan 😄😁😂 I can see it. It would be slightly muted as that movie narrator voice would be saying something akin to, “Coming. This. Fall. Caitlin Reilly. In her most powerful. Role. To date.”

    • @Joe_Parmesan
      @Joe_Parmesan Před 9 měsíci +6

      @@jbauer72 The song plays for a major part of the trailer too, likely toward the end to pick up the mood and serve as the movie's unofficial theme song as it shows a montage of clips from the movie.
      Along with a clip of someone dramatically running, the montage also includes a quick clip of the mother-child duo eating like pizza or something while sitting on the living room floor, to keep thinks quarky (if it's a mother and daughter, they're wearing tiaras or something). Oh - and the montage starts with a close-up shot of the mother pressing play on her audio device, followed by the line you wrote ("coming. this. fall.")

    • @jbauer72
      @jbauer72 Před 9 měsíci +3

      ​@@Joe_Parmesan We're going to win an Oscar when we finish our screenplay. I'll take your last name and change my first one to "Gene."
      rrrPizza is the perfect choice of food they'll be eating; that's when they'll be laughing. Some menacing music plays when the kid is introduced to Jeb, who was released from prison because of a sheriff's mistake when filing paperwork. Jeb is very dangerous. The narrator will end the trailer stating something with some type of warning (e.g. "You never know who might not like you for no. Reason. At. Alllll..." As this is the end of the trailer, the camera zooms into the both the child's and Jed's eyes. There's a beeping noise like one you'd hear in a hospital and - BAM! - the credits roll Are you related to Gene?

    • @Joe_Parmesan
      @Joe_Parmesan Před 8 měsíci

      @@jbauer72 "In fact, he was NOT Gene's nephew. He was a fan of Gene's work, but only an admirer."
      With Jeb - I see him being this mysterious and dangerous figure, but he's a solid guy and the mother just ruins the relationship

  • @sandydog426
    @sandydog426 Před rokem +2812

    YES oh my god why are they always walking around the house so damn fast and frantic lol?? The daughter (and it's usually a daughter) is always the same too, a parentified lonely stick in the mud who is her mother's living emotional crutch but also the physical manifestation of her mom's resentment. The girl, probably named something like Mia, will have to be shown how to loosen up by a quirky manic-pixie dream friend or by falling in love with a boy; Mia will eventually have to choose between her mother and this boy.

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +366

      And the mom will be angry at her for daring to be an individual person at the young age of 25+ and the movie never shows this as unfair

    • @trose9213
      @trose9213 Před rokem +128

      Thank you for giving me an accurate description of what my mom thinks of her children - physical manifestation of resentment

    • @benjaminroman916
      @benjaminroman916 Před rokem +22

      It's giving To Leslie. I didn't watch it but read something about it and secured a last minute Oscar nomination.

    • @willtroy1986
      @willtroy1986 Před rokem +25

      @@DeathnoteBB it’s almost like they don’t know to initiate a character arc, and just start with the lowest hanging fruit.

    • @xlunarmiax
      @xlunarmiax Před rokem +29

      i got scared when i saw my name 😭

  • @Wilma.Flintstone
    @Wilma.Flintstone Před rokem +4378

    This is what Lorelei would have been like if Gilmore Girls had been a full drama instead of a comedy-drama 😂

    • @ColRusSer
      @ColRusSer Před rokem +39

      So true!!!😂

    • @vaughn1993
      @vaughn1993 Před rokem +16

      Right 😂😂😂

    • @tommypsue
      @tommypsue Před rokem +77

      And a "gritty" alternative film or series.

    • @bootsmade4walking
      @bootsmade4walking Před rokem +13

      Omg wow forreal

    • @kalpic11
      @kalpic11 Před rokem +71

      I don’t get this. I didn’t watch all if GG but she seemed like an emotionally intelligent mom to me.

  • @KazukiP
    @KazukiP Před 8 měsíci +24

    The whole suddenly goes serious and goes “this is going to be good for us” or “we need this fresh start” is so real

  • @disco_depression
    @disco_depression Před 11 měsíci +46

    I read this as "The catholic mother in every indie movie" and was waiting for something much, much different

  • @chrystie_bowie
    @chrystie_bowie Před rokem +5676

    Ah yes, allowing guys that are no good and potentially abusive close to her children too soon, a heavy layer of, "my life is trash because I have to raise you," and top it off with implying the burden is on the child to stop everything to make her feel worthy in her weak moments ... the generational trauma trifecta. She nailed it, just like her other characters. This woman deserves her own skit show.

    • @ShimmySnail
      @ShimmySnail Před rokem +44

      I honestly think she’s going to get one. Quarter million+ views in a day, CR is on fire! If Netflix looks up from its Excel charts about how to come up with yet another justification to jack up fees and offer less service, they’ll see CR as the answer to, “How to more money?” and they’ll give her a show. She’s a one woman Key & Peele.

    • @shadow_realm47
      @shadow_realm47 Před rokem +26

      Her acting and scripting is really reaching Chappelle levels.

    • @notkerrystolcenberg
      @notkerrystolcenberg Před rokem +3

      YES

    • @juliegreen9000
      @juliegreen9000 Před rokem +2

      This whole comment you just made. 100%

    • @error-try-again-later
      @error-try-again-later Před rokem +71

      There's a dinner scene where her oldest child doesn't get along with the trashfire boyfriend, and after he leaves there's a huge argument where the mom screams "I DESERVE TO BE HAPPY" 💀

  • @jstarASMR3103
    @jstarASMR3103 Před 11 měsíci +17

    THE VOICE YOU MADE WHEN YOU SAID “I was pregnant with YEW👹🧌” I DIED🤣💀

  • @friesandrupees
    @friesandrupees Před rokem +24

    You just embodied every character Toni Collette has ever played all at the same time.

  • @0just00me0
    @0just00me0 Před rokem +308

    Because I was *bRegNaNt* with yo *uuuu*

  • @DolliMiu
    @DolliMiu Před rokem +2721

    I had an ex whose mother was like this. She screamed at her pregnant daughter once because she dropped a slice of cheese on the floor, blaming her for her anger issues because she’s a mom now, then downed a glass of wine and started cooking as if nothing happened while Madonna’s Papa Don’t Preach played on her phone.
    Shit was wild.

  • @redvli8746
    @redvli8746 Před rokem +44

    😂 This type of crying 00:54 is so cliche I love it!
    It’s amazing how she’s able to isolate and capture that specific way of crying!

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607

    “I like this one for us”
    Perfect 😂😂😂

  • @thiagorodrigues556
    @thiagorodrigues556 Před rokem +1797

    Her and Jeb will be chaotic together at first, but somehow in the end everything will magically work out

    • @drcbeartooths
      @drcbeartooths Před rokem +77

      yes, cause all she needs is a good man.

    • @mayhewfisher62
      @mayhewfisher62 Před rokem +38

      Until he does something Good Samaritan like that causes his parole to be yanked and off she goes again.

    • @jwhippet8313
      @jwhippet8313 Před rokem +196

      This is an indie film. Jeb's going to be terrible and hit on the daughter the morning after the mom brings him home after their first date. Mom will be passed out in the hall and jeb will be wearing only the sheet he pulled off mom's bed.
      In the end the daughter will realize mom's not going to get better, and she'll drive off to go to college that mom had no idea she applied for.

    • @benjaminroman916
      @benjaminroman916 Před rokem +33

      It's an indie Thiago! Usually they never have a happy ending. Neutral at best or tragic at worst.

    • @archangelz558
      @archangelz558 Před rokem +21

      nah, new films are gonna embrace the not so typical happy endings. they will give you a happy part and a sad part. like the mother od's but her child becomes a much more stable person because of what she went through.

  • @ilford6x6
    @ilford6x6 Před rokem +21

    I had a dream Caitlin was a coworker at a school and she chewed me out for being a fraud teacher and made me resign from my position. One of the scariest dreams I've ever had

  • @ravennalovecraft421
    @ravennalovecraft421 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Why does Cher and Winona in Mermaids IMMEDIATELY come to mind-😂😂😂😂😭

  • @TVDumpsterFire
    @TVDumpsterFire Před rokem +1079

    And then at the very end of the movie, she makes up with her adult daughter who finally understands that her mother has always loved her and just has her own beautifully toxic way of showing it.

    • @einahsirro1488
      @einahsirro1488 Před rokem +256

      Yep. It always seems like these films are made by the mothers themselves.

    • @_lexi
      @_lexi Před rokem +16

      oh god

    • @Swenglish
      @Swenglish Před rokem +136

      @@einahsirro1488 Or by the kids trying to imagine a scenario where it gets better.

    • @elisamaza8909
      @elisamaza8909 Před rokem +19

      The „Ginny and Georgia“-vibes are strong with this one...

    • @buckshot_honeymoon
      @buckshot_honeymoon Před rokem +52

      her own beautifully toxic way of showing it, lmfao im dead.

  • @heidi_1love
    @heidi_1love Před rokem +192

    The dancing scene lol. The kid would be like "mum STOP ✋ your drunk again. I hate you why can't you just be normal?" And then they would leave and the mum would be alone just crying whilst slowly sliding down the wall, with a bottle of alcohol in her hand... or something like that lol 😂😂

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee Před rokem +9

      Haha, you should write screenplays 👍🤣🤣

    • @doctorhunger921
      @doctorhunger921 Před rokem +13

      LMAO at the slowly sliding down the wall
      I can just imagine it; when she finally reaches the bottom of the floor, her entire shoulders and chest heave up and down with her incredibly dramatic sobbing

    • @skyr5247
      @skyr5247 Před rokem +19

      Alternatively, the mom doubles down and screams something back at the daughter like “WELL SCREW YOU TOO!” before turning the music up louder, taking a very large swig of whatever she’s drinking, and going back to dancing but being visibly upset about it because she’s in denial about how much of a mess she is

    • @heidi_1love
      @heidi_1love Před rokem +3

      @@doctorhunger921 yeses, this lol. Gotta have the shoulders moving so we know just how upset she really Is lol

    • @doctorhunger921
      @doctorhunger921 Před rokem +2

      @@heidi_1love and despite all that, the crying is gonna be pretty silent too (briefly interjected by her taking a swig from the bottle every now and then lamo)

  • @rachelg3120
    @rachelg3120 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Mommy's not sad, she's just dancing 🤣🤣

  • @angelavenable7308
    @angelavenable7308 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The “you don’t have to go to school tomorrow” cracked me up. They always throw that one in.

  • @laundrygirl
    @laundrygirl Před rokem +435

    they ALWAYS walk so fast 😭😭

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +57

      They gotta walk fast so you can tell they’re full of stress and regret

    • @laundrygirl
      @laundrygirl Před rokem +9

      @@DeathnoteBB LMAO

    • @jons9239
      @jons9239 Před rokem +15

      Clock is ticking. Gotta find a man before their daughters do.

    • @MrsFroyyyd
      @MrsFroyyyd Před rokem +4

      Walking really fast away from their problems 😢😅😢.

    • @PassTheMarmalade1957
      @PassTheMarmalade1957 Před rokem +8

      Gotta make it clear to the audience that she's not really listening to her kid, as she rummages through her wardrobe of outfits to selfishly pursue a dating life.

  • @_lexi
    @_lexi Před rokem +502

    MOMMYS NOT SAD SHES JUST DANCING 🥹

  • @LegendarySparantus
    @LegendarySparantus Před 10 dny +1

    The last scene lmao, this is exactly how they talk-whisper-shout when they get called out by their kids. It's so spot on.

  • @Comicatt
    @Comicatt Před 3 měsíci +9

    the pregnancy thing is literally my mother irl

  • @RamaNarayanan15_garud
    @RamaNarayanan15_garud Před rokem +1001

    the "i am your mother" gave me such a visceral flashback to that one snl skit where fred armisen keeps screaming in zac efron's face while filming a gino's pizza rolls commercial. so real, so true

    • @adityashankarnarayanan
      @adityashankarnarayanan Před rokem +20

      Lmao YES! I had to go and watch that immediately after reading this comment.

    • @booterfly6367
      @booterfly6367 Před rokem +12

      OMG YOU'RE SO RIGHT

    • @Animallovercomedian
      @Animallovercomedian Před rokem +25

      Wait right after she said that I parroted “I am your MAOTHER” like that skit and then had no idea what came over me. It was that. Thank u

    • @elusivemayfly7534
      @elusivemayfly7534 Před rokem +1

      😂😂😂

    • @casperbutwithaj
      @casperbutwithaj Před rokem +17

      “I GAVE BIRTH TO YOUUUUUUUU”

  • @mjssankeerthana1255
    @mjssankeerthana1255 Před rokem +372

    "come on, dance with me" - i swear i have seen the mother do this in EVERY indie film

  • @Randomly454
    @Randomly454 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Can’t forget the “fresh start” she promises her after everything falls apart

  • @OnlyRoke
    @OnlyRoke Před rokem +254

    "I am your mother, don't you ever speak to me like that." Dumbledore said calmly.

  • @lucyburke3362
    @lucyburke3362 Před rokem +62

    The kid is a gentle effeminate boy who knows he is different but doesn't yet quite understand why. He has a creative spirit which is nurtured by his mother but she can't quite seem to give him all he needs. The film is based on the writer/director's own life growing up which is why the chaotic mother is written in way that is loving but also has an undercurrent of anger and resentment that can only come from the mother wound of a neglected child. There are a number of comments from film bros on the films' reddit thread that call the chaotic mother a 'heinous bitch'. The actress who plays chaotic mother will go on to star in Guardians of the Galaxy VII playing a spunky space mechanic.

  • @sentientcabbageman4140
    @sentientcabbageman4140 Před 9 měsíci +3

    This gave me flashbacks. This is literally my mom. There's a reason I don't speak to her anymore.

  • @StoneyInSeattle
    @StoneyInSeattle Před rokem +5

    “We don’t have to go to school tomorrow” got me a lil too close to home 😂😂😂

  • @fattesttitsincairo
    @fattesttitsincairo Před rokem +846

    That barely audible yet deeply aggressive "DN'T YOU EVR SPK T'ME LIKE THAH" is brilliant

    • @yougotgamesonyourphone6947
      @yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Před rokem +17

      I literally screamed when she said that 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @roseythebean
      @roseythebean Před 11 měsíci +13

      same ahahah she really channelled her inner Stitch with that one 😂

  • @tysonperna8844
    @tysonperna8844 Před rokem +197

    I don't know what trauma she's carrying but now I have it too.

    • @Kiara_Wrestler
      @Kiara_Wrestler Před rokem +2

      😂

    • @PumaArg
      @PumaArg Před rokem +1

      😂😂😂

    • @jackieocean3511
      @jackieocean3511 Před rokem +3

      Yes, we need a backstory! Caitlin is the best, I wish she would be on like a Netflix short series ❤

    • @_lexi
      @_lexi Před rokem

      hahahahahahaha

  • @jonathanmurphy3920
    @jonathanmurphy3920 Před rokem +1115

    That voice on “now look at me!”. You are phenomenal. The husband and I are constantly quoting the Euphoria one.

    • @tommypsue
      @tommypsue Před rokem +5

      telling me you have no kids, but are prepping...without...?

    • @MrLachapell
      @MrLachapell Před rokem +28

      *THE HUSBAND*

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 Před rokem +2

      Oh Lord, is this what Euphoria is like?

    • @ninab.4540
      @ninab.4540 Před rokem +3

      ​@@melissasaint3283 I'm so glad I don't watch that show there are only so many teen shows I can watch without laughing

  • @jalfonsodelbusto
    @jalfonsodelbusto Před 4 hodinami +1

    This is a masterclass in the art of nostril acting

  • @teogregorbadoc7757
    @teogregorbadoc7757 Před 5 dny +1

    Omg congrats on being in Dead Boy Detectives! Nailed that character so much! We need more!

  • @certifiedspacebisexual
    @certifiedspacebisexual Před rokem +292

    the fact that she’s having a breakdown to an upbeat ABBA song is killing me

    • @_lexi
      @_lexi Před rokem +8

      happens to the best of us

    • @Dirkus17
      @Dirkus17 Před rokem +7

      I have news for you about ABBA.

    • @soldkingdom
      @soldkingdom Před rokem +1

      @@Dirkus17 😂👏👏👏

    • @CatholicZola
      @CatholicZola Před rokem +4

      ​@@Dirkus17what's the news, I genuinely do not know

    • @whatkaeread
      @whatkaeread Před rokem +2

      it's me at 2am

  • @euomu
    @euomu Před rokem +652

    As someone who was raised by a depressed single mom, I don't know whether to cry or laugh

    • @Chs919
      @Chs919 Před rokem +18

      Dude same

    • @imabit2lil
      @imabit2lil Před rokem +37

      Right I laughed and then became filled with instant dread and distress

    • @slksol
      @slksol Před rokem +45

      I also did not realize my mother was an indie actress...

    • @tziporahgoldberg7921
      @tziporahgoldberg7921 Před rokem +3

      Saaaame

    • @sophierescigno5064
      @sophierescigno5064 Před rokem +32

      Single parent households can be some of the most traumatizing and abusive environments for kids growing up, so sorry to hear that

  • @shannonkelly3569
    @shannonkelly3569 Před 10 měsíci +6

    This is probably the millionth time ive come back on her channel to rewatch she’s hilarious and if she gets picked up by anyone i hope her humor doesnt changed or get tweeked bc thats what they like to do to the great ones!!

  • @jaynsilentboom
    @jaynsilentboom Před 11 dny +2

    “Mom…..is that…you?”
    - complex trauma survivors

  • @casperrabbit7254
    @casperrabbit7254 Před rokem +744

    Okay so we have:
    -Constantly hooking up unsavoury men (and no doubt blaming men as a whole when the relationship goes to shit)
    -Emotionally abuses her daughter (it's ALWAYS a daughter) by constantly bringing up the fact she could've done so much better for herself if she'd just gotten an abortion
    -Listens to ABBA to show how cool and quirky she is
    -Tries to be cool and hip and spontaneous to try and connect with her daughter but it never works
    -Lowkey alcoholic
    I feel like the only thing that's missing is her getting extremely jel when the daughter inevitably gets a bf to cause conflict in the story 🤣

    • @error-try-again-later
      @error-try-again-later Před rokem +65

      She either blames men or her own children for not "connecting" with their weird aloof stepdad.

    • @Axqu7227
      @Axqu7227 Před 11 měsíci +17

      This was my bio mom with more CSA from the shit men lmao.

    • @ktaztrofk9923
      @ktaztrofk9923 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Not always the daughter, see: Moonlight, The Fabelmans, etc etc

    • @mecanuktutorials6476
      @mecanuktutorials6476 Před 9 měsíci

      @@ktaztrofk9923or Shameless.
      I remember there was one crazy woman who made her son a trans.

    • @tuney7319
      @tuney7319 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Holy shit this is so accurate

  • @BunnySlippers82
    @BunnySlippers82 Před rokem +390

    The full on gremlin voice comes just before the kid runs away and they're reunited, no problems fixed and mom's still single but they learn to be happy about it. Cuz mom has a good attitude now for no reason at all.

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +34

      The reason is she felt super guilty so now she’s repressing her problems even more! Yay!

    • @BunnySlippers82
      @BunnySlippers82 Před rokem +11

      @@DeathnoteBB Ahh, Hollywood really does have all the answers for life. 😁

    • @Illustraful
      @Illustraful Před rokem +1

      Hey Bunny, you watched Thirteen too? 😂

    • @amber619pop
      @amber619pop Před rokem +1

      ​@@Illustraful 13 was such a good movie. I think that was the first movie I ever saw Rachel McAdams in

    • @Illustraful
      @Illustraful Před rokem

      @@amber619pop Do you mean Evan Rachel Wood? Rachel McAdams wasn't in Thirteen.

  • @jbauer72
    @jbauer72 Před rokem +5

    I’d love to see what she and Jay Nedaj would come up with together. They’re both wildly smart, creative, funny, and talented. They’ve both brought me joy for the past year and a half and I’m grateful for these content creators.

  • @sullychow4123
    @sullychow4123 Před 5 dny

    You're shockingly good at acting. Didn't expect how much this resonated.

  • @thislovesposessingme
    @thislovesposessingme Před rokem +677

    It’s honestly strange how accurate she is with these

    • @cristinatorregiani3144
      @cristinatorregiani3144 Před rokem +8

      Yeah tjat s right. It takes pointed observation pf movies and characters in real life, it takes hood acting, it takes genius to fo so. I think she is phenomenal 😊❤

  • @SovereignSmurf
    @SovereignSmurf Před rokem +122

    I wasn't prepared for her voice to spontaneously drop 10 octaves

  • @nehaharikrishnan4346
    @nehaharikrishnan4346 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Went full Snape in the end 😂

  • @InThisLifeYouOnYourOwn
    @InThisLifeYouOnYourOwn Před 9 dny +1

    Her acting is toooo good! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @spa-peggymeatballs4861
    @spa-peggymeatballs4861 Před rokem +198

    I know we have psychological horror. Do we have psychological comedy? Cause.. shit.. this is hilarious and yet half your videos bring something out that I hadn’t previously acknowledged and it’s kinda scary. Lol.

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 Před rokem +12

      Right?! Why am I so triggered when this scenario doesn't even apply to my life?

    • @eh.440
      @eh.440 Před rokem +16

      You've hit the nail right on the head "psychological comedy" is the perfect name for this style of humour

    • @error-try-again-later
      @error-try-again-later Před rokem +7

      This genre sounds like it could be a goldmine ngl.

  • @zenzangzong
    @zenzangzong Před rokem +153

    The scene where the mom cries and dances to Mamma Mia is beautiful, soul wrenching, and captivating. A scene that removes all sense of self and contrasts such an uplifting song with such a dark twisted moment. Haunting, poignant, and will live on in my mind forever. "Hit Indie Movie Vaguely Inspired by Lady Bird and Slated for Several Awards" is one for the history books.

  • @SoniCraft98
    @SoniCraft98 Před 10 měsíci +2

    As someone who has never seen a indie film, I can confirm this is 100% how mothers act in indie films.

  • @cjgilmore283
    @cjgilmore283 Před 19 dny +1

    “Pregnant with you” killed me

  • @KamathVaishali
    @KamathVaishali Před rokem +35

    Indie Mother: We just really need a good guy. He's a real good guy.
    Also Indie Mother: He's just got out of prison.

  • @OccuredJakub12
    @OccuredJakub12 Před 2 dny +2

    "I AM YUR MOTHR.
    DNT U EVA SPK T MI LK THT👿!"

  • @free2tingleasmr918
    @free2tingleasmr918 Před měsícem +2

    She's so good

  • @LunaVioletta7
    @LunaVioletta7 Před rokem +28

    The demonic “I was pregnant with YOUUUEWW” ☠️

  • @mikemartin6748
    @mikemartin6748 Před rokem +12

    Rotten Tomatoes Critic Score: 98%
    Rotten Tomatoes Audience Score: 5%

  • @Brandon-yg7mw
    @Brandon-yg7mw Před 11 měsíci +7

    She's so funny in this I love this clip I watch it multiple times a week

  • @syedarizvi7290
    @syedarizvi7290 Před 11 měsíci +2

    People in the comments, I am so sorry for what you had to go through. Please stay strong, take great of yourselves, eat enough, and sleep enough. Please don't give up. Please keep working for your betterment. I hope and pray that one day you all will have victorious and successful lives. In Sha Allah Ameen. Please do vent if you need to. You are needed in this world, you belong here, you are valuable. You can do it!

  • @EpicBeard815
    @EpicBeard815 Před rokem +158

    I'm so happy Jeb! landed on his feet after losing 2016

    • @m.a.d.m.5425
      @m.a.d.m.5425 Před rokem +4

      I barfed lol

    • @wanusanus4061
      @wanusanus4061 Před rokem +18

      The exclamation point has me dead

    • @willtroy1986
      @willtroy1986 Před rokem +6

      By daring to exist, the daughter will probably ruin her mom’s relationship with Jeb too.

    • @blahdelablah
      @blahdelablah Před rokem +3

      @@willtroy1986 Jeb! isn't any ordinary Jeb, the ! changes everything, the voters just weren't ready for such bold exclamations.

    • @willtroy1986
      @willtroy1986 Před rokem

      @@blahdelablah I guess they were telepathic because I didn’t notice any

  • @ganchos2849
    @ganchos2849 Před rokem +200

    Oh my God, the ending is just... *chef's kiss* nailed it to the dot.

    • @amber619pop
      @amber619pop Před rokem +1

      The end was the best part, because I've seen that exact scene a million times in movies, exactly the way she did it!

  • @luism644
    @luism644 Před rokem +1

    The way she dry heaved that “pregnant with you”🤌mwah

  • @ArianaZ6
    @ArianaZ6 Před rokem +2

    Im convinced shes an actor, who plays every role possible 💀💀

  • @disasterjones5798
    @disasterjones5798 Před rokem +81

    Caitlin really captures the feeling of a 5-star 2 hour performance in less than two minutes regardless of role or genre, she HAS the range

  • @TheBartgry
    @TheBartgry Před rokem +11

    The Toni Collette really shimmered through at end there

  • @AGoodHairDay
    @AGoodHairDay Před rokem +1

    “Mommy’s not sad, she’s just dancing” 💃🥹

  • @SOULJAJOE010
    @SOULJAJOE010 Před 5 hodinami

    Seriously, I'm impressed by the acting, real talk

  • @oest2029
    @oest2029 Před rokem +48

    "this one will be really good for us... Thats what we need right now baby" is SO true! Why do they always have lines like this??? And then the dancing 😂 Who does this? None of the chaotic divorced/single mums i know in real life ever behave like this and i've worked in social services 😂😂

    • @JuniperLynn789
      @JuniperLynn789 Před rokem +32

      These ones fly under the radar. They are shielded by their parentified children who have been cleaning up their messes since age 6 😂

    • @error-try-again-later
      @error-try-again-later Před rokem +8

      These ones still have the delusions of grandeur about "keeping up appearances" so they slip under the radar a bit more. Most of the social service cases I witnessed as a kid were fellow working class families, i.e hardasses who were a bit more jaded.

  • @aceofjacks7071
    @aceofjacks7071 Před rokem +152

    we can't forget the part where the mother emotionally manipulates her daughter into stuff like clubs or churches or something like that

    • @faithbasedliving9391
      @faithbasedliving9391 Před rokem +5

      Clubs or churches? I’m confused by those two being compared. Are they one and the same to you?

    • @aceofjacks7071
      @aceofjacks7071 Před rokem

      @@faithbasedliving9391 no? stuff like sports clubs or drama clubs that the kid may not like, or being roped into church when they'd rather jot be. wait you're a church nut, that makes more sense.

    • @pepperminterica
      @pepperminterica Před rokem +4

      ​@@faithbasedliving9391 I think maybe like clubs/extra-curriculars

    • @avelynn5976
      @avelynn5976 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@faithbasedliving9391 yeah

    • @Joe_Parmesan
      @Joe_Parmesan Před 9 měsíci +4

      I feel like this character would be somewhat opposite. Maybe not unsupportive, but overly supportive, to the point where she causes a major scene with a possibly strict instructor or coach, embarrassing the kid - all in the name of love. It's the lead-in to the argument in this video

  • @AdrienneJung.M
    @AdrienneJung.M Před 8 měsíci +3

    The sad dancing is so spot on!

  • @minibrain711
    @minibrain711 Před 10 měsíci +2

    "CUZ I WAS BREGNAT WITH YOU" every melt down before the child moves out for college

  • @christinemerritt974
    @christinemerritt974 Před rokem +91

    Any mother that drinks and refers to herself in the third person as “mommy” to her teenage son or daughter and forces them to dance with her while she reeks of whiskey and snot are most definitely going to grow up with long term psychological issues😂😂😂I could not stop laughing through the whole skit😂❤

  • @aster4026
    @aster4026 Před rokem +215

    Truly an animated performance! And a heartbreaking story :(

  • @clarkem.5269
    @clarkem.5269 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Movies will portray an emotionally abusive parent and act like they made something deep

  • @Vercanya
    @Vercanya Před 10 měsíci +2

    ...Why did I relate to this on a personal level? Is my mom a chaotic (=dysfunctional) mom from an indie film?

  • @sunshakes
    @sunshakes Před rokem +14

    the hereditary I AM YOUR MOTHER speech at the end 😭

  • @BillundBerries
    @BillundBerries Před rokem +92

    Exactly what I went through growing up with an emotionally unstable mother who was an alcohol abuser extraordinaire!

    • @syedarizvi7290
      @syedarizvi7290 Před 11 měsíci +7

      I am so sorry for what you had to go through. Please stay strong, take great of yourself, eat enough, and sleep enough. Please don't give up. Please keep working for your betterment. I hope and pray that one day you all will have a victorious and successful life. In Sha Allah Ameen. Please do vent if you need to. You are needed in this world, you belong here, you are valuable. You can do it!

  • @tobennaokoli4450
    @tobennaokoli4450 Před měsícem +1

    Nah the “good one for us” is all I needed to see 🙅🏾‍♂️

  • @LandonStrauss-hc1sc
    @LandonStrauss-hc1sc Před měsícem +1

    Dance with mommy, we don't have to go to school tomorrow. 😅😅😅😅

  • @DisappointingPorn
    @DisappointingPorn Před rokem +66

    Jeb is salt-of-the-Earth, has one of those pre-fab tiny homes by a lake that always has a loon in it, no matter the region, strands of Christmas lights framing the carport to make a little magic out of nothing, plays a mandolin or a squeezebox because he’s quirky like that. He’s got a pickup truck he has genuine affection for and won’t drive anything else. But he’s just a regular guy. Oh, and he’s ripped. And white.

    • @karakanb3039
      @karakanb3039 Před 10 měsíci +17

      He also has severe anger issues, that'll become apparent a month into the relationship, when he stops charming the mom with "perfect boyfriend" facade and starts being increasingly abusive.
      Also, the daughter doesn't like him even during the "perfect boyfriend" phase and he's extremely upset about it.

  • @biggrayalien4791
    @biggrayalien4791 Před rokem +54

    I feel my PTSD surfacing from this. Damn you were spot on

  • @josephmiller3822
    @josephmiller3822 Před rokem +3

    You should do: Every teenage girl in a prestige drama (like Dana Brody in Homeland, Charlotte in Ozark, Jill in The Leftovers); and Every non-comedic actor doing an SNL monologue.