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  • čas přidán 16. 08. 2024
  • If you are a parent or want to be a parent, you might want to know how you can create a secure attachment style. Or if you are healing and want to know what you should have heard as a child. In this video, I will talk about 5 things secure parents say to their children to create a secure attachment style in their kids.
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Komentáře • 13

  • @jkhawkinsjk
    @jkhawkinsjk Před 19 dny

    These phrases are gold! I’m going to use this on my kids and also on my own inner child, thank you.
    It’s bittersweet whenever I find some parenting advice that I didn’t even realise was missing.

  • @Yecats313
    @Yecats313 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This content is so helpful, thank you!! There's lots to find about healing my own insecure attachment, but it's hard to find information about parenting a child/teen with a fearful avoidant attachment style and ways to help them become more securely attached. ❤

  • @pompom8030
    @pompom8030 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @leeannparish8331
    @leeannparish8331 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This was so good and also reassuring for me. I feel like I can provide that for them and I believe it will make a difference. It helps me feel less anxious to recognize I am able to set boundaries in loving ways. Thank you.

  • @jellyrcw12
    @jellyrcw12 Před 4 měsíci

    Your videos are so relevant. Thank you for your channel. I really needed your videos when I was starting to date again.

  • @coreygeiger81
    @coreygeiger81 Před 4 měsíci

    Hope all is well with the 2nd pregnancy. I don’t have kids but it definitely educated me on what could have been said.

  • @readingnarcissism
    @readingnarcissism Před 4 měsíci

    A really tricky topic to cover this, im of the understanding that its about an individual child's 'perception' of what has been said, or the behaviour displayed by a parent, as we take things in differently when it comes to trauma. Great content in your videos 🙂

  • @umutkara739
    @umutkara739 Před 4 měsíci

    The most important thing to create a secure attached kid is first you have to find someone to marry. 😂

  • @whiggygirl
    @whiggygirl Před 4 měsíci +2

    I think it's unfair to say "disorganised parents say"...this and that. I'm a Fearful Avoidant and very disorganised, but have been told that my child (who I'm a sole parent for, with zero family support) is a "securely attached child". I appreciate your tips, but I think it's very unfair to judge us as parents, merely because we aren't securely attached

    • @readingnarcissism
      @readingnarcissism Před 4 měsíci +1

      this is a good point, human nature is way too diverse and dependant on so many factors to be sure, I believe there is a saying 'the only rule is there are exceptions'

    • @emisterr
      @emisterr Před 4 měsíci +3

      She kept repeating "lot of" or "many" FA parents, not all. There are certain patterns that repeat and I, as an FA, can see myself saying some of them (not all) to my own child as well. So maybe you're just an exception that proves the rule? 😉

  • @j.s.201
    @j.s.201 Před 4 měsíci +2

    This is amazing "inner child work" for us adults who did not hear these things / heard the opposite as children. It really gave me a path for understanding, and how we should all be talking to our adult selves every day too. Thank you!!! 🙏🥹❤️