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Nope! I've been hitting the gym, hanging with friends, writing music, I'm making money. Im actually the most motivated and least depressed I've been in years.
@@Kapybarland I'm praying for you homie, this year so far has been full of ups and downs for me. I got rejected by the girl I had been crushing on for months, my depression spiraled again (multiple times throughout these last few months), got stuck in a job with a shitty abusive boss, everything in my life became a mess due to aforementioned spiraled depression (my self care was shitty and my room looked like a tornado came through it), I started isolating myself. Only very recently has life picked up again for me, and I'm sure it will get bad again, but that's just the way things go. I can't really offer you any advice outside of the basic shit you hear everywhere ("Pick up a new hobby!" "Be positive!") because while its good advice I know how it feels to be told that when you're down. All I can say is trust the process, shit gets worse before it gets better, but the better times will be great, and full of joyful and fulfilling moments. Sorry for the ramble lol.
When I saw this in my feed I thought it was gonna be another one of those “hustle 24/7 no fun or rest allowed only sigma male grindset” videos. I was very pleasantly surprised to hear the balanced perspective. At the end of the day life ain’t that deep. You just gotta put yourself out there, pursue your goals and hobbies, and enjoy the blessing that is life. I definitely wasted last summer but from that I learned the importance of not wasting my time, and I’ve been doing much better this summer in all aspects. Stay blessed and focus on what matters in life.
"put yourself out there" is the most broad, cliche, and in-actionable advice I hear from people. What am I supposed to do with that? It could mean anything. I could go take a walk and that would count as "putting myself out there", but what does walking achieve? Nothing.
my boyfriend who was my best friend, died in a wreck the first day of summer. it was supposed to be so good and we were so excited and had so many plans. it's been 2 weeks now and it's still tearing me apart. i'm 16 and so was he, i'll miss him forever and i just hope i can heal this summer
I’m so sorry, that’s absolutely horrible, and I hope you’ll be able to heal from that - take your time and don’t feel pressured to move on really quickly but also try not to let it hold you back from the rest of your life. I went through a similar thing about a year ago and I promise you it will be okay eventually even if it doesn’t feel like it right now, I’m not saying you will move on from him but make sure to focus on the good memories you had together and do those things, the things that would have made him happy. You’ll be ok, I promise :)
I’m sorry if this comes off as rude but I want you to know that God sees you and he heard you, he knows your pain and he does love you, he wants to help and heal you from your broken heart, seek him
as a 16 year old myself, I couldn't imagine myself going through that type of pain. I just want to tell you that you are stronger than me and probably everyone else in this comment section. Hope you can heal❤
I saw that many i was a active consumer of motivational content . but then i opened my eyes and started a youtube motivational channel.i became a producer instead of consumer.
so many people are so judgemental that you can't do anything other then waste your life on games, but the judgemental go out and take advantage and abuse of the things that they try so hard keeping you from enjoying life.
I very rarely comment on videos but I can't just leave this video without commenting. You have really nailed the perspective. A lot of people are one of two extremes. Either they are a victim of hustle culture and do 'monk mode' (as you mentioned) all the time and take no time off, basically work themselves to death. The other extreme is people who are lazy and sit around and do jack sh*t. It's very important to live a balanced life because neither of the extremes are sustainable in the long run, which is what matters. Especially now during summer, I completely agree with your point of view, it's important to socialize and spend time with family and friends. Have a great summer
Im not letting this happen to me anymore. well said man, you help others to appreciate the time they got left on the world and didn’t make any great of it. W video and keep it up m8!
I appreciate this casoops. I just came across your channel. No fancy editing. None of that. Just authentic advice. I love this message. Much love from me to you!
Thank You so Much for your words of wisdom. I've been struggling with opening my heart out to people. Ive made it my goal this year. But im struggling, and i dont know if i can carry on anymore. Hearing your advice makes me feel that im not alone anymore. I need to keep my head up
Jesus loves you man, I found my purpose in Christ and only He fills that void in my heart. I feel what you're saying man and I'm not gonna waste this summer 💪🏾💪🏾thanks for making this vid
A perk is that im an mbti psychology nerd, so i read stuff about my personality type and cognitive functions in the internet in moments where i’m not gaming. So i’m doing a hobby while also learning more about myself
I don't have friends rn, my parents dont let me have social media or go anywhere I'm not supposed to be so I basically just have to sit inside on the Internet. I'm not gonna do anything this summer which makes me kinda sad but hopefully one day in the future I'll be able to make summer memories like everybody else
Seems like this is the common agreement, but I really needed to hear this, I feel like I lost the last two, if not three summers just being a "24-7 monk" and then its July 29 and school is coming and you feel like shit. I took up skateboarding, as a hobby with a friend to go along, i've gotten better so Its nice to be able to just ride around and shit Definetely gonna try to do more of "that" And by that I mean, like you mentionned, hobbies, going out at night for a stroll This is life, it isn't that deep just put yourself out there and just be yourself And sure enough, once in a while, reward yourself, play your favorite song or your favorite game. ~ Cheers.
I’ve did the same too. It’s hard to go all in the summer when your mental health is bad. I’ve always felt like there was something missing or more I can do. If you enjoy the summer, arguably you can accomplish more.
Last summer in 2023 is the only summer i feel like i really progressed in life. I turned 18 recently, i just really dont want to waste this summer as well. Like the past 8 months really have been kinda wasteful, i did do some productive stuff i always wanted to do, but i really could have done a lot more. I want to run a marathon in almost 4 months here in Bulgaria. It is said that that is enough time. Will also try to focus on doing my Yoga practices and Kriyas outside in nature, playibg guitar, working out, working in our small family business and so on. Yep nothing so special planned. Will be getting my drivers license hopefully in like 2 months so thats gonna be pretty cool
This video is really helpfull, and I hope that makes a lot of people open eyes... It's very difficult start to do something, but it's better late than never, we need to start, because if we don't, in the future we were regreting of the past and all our life. I'm a young teen, and I know that every single day I'm ruining my life more and more, and I don't know how to proceed or change it to better, but thanks, I will try to change it. A new summer. A new sunrise.
Amazing, but remember, when you are creating change in your life, it may be uncomfortable, and that’s great. It may be uncomfortable trying new things out, but you won’t regret it, even if it feels uncomfortable.
That’s amazing man, but please don’t go down the wrong path with trying to glow up. You already have the confidence with you but it can hard to bring out. Nourish yourself and please please please don’t go down the wrong path because the opposite will happen. Sorry for the long reply and also love your humility.
I'm at my brother's place watching this video. He introduced me to Delicious in Dungeon. He's a big anime guy. Doesn't necessarily outwardly say it but the joy in him is infectious. There's no time wasted when there's memories made ❤
There is so much you can at home. It’s the little things like learning a calisthenics skill, instrument, view the sunset and much more. You have so much available to have a great summer, just take a step back and write down some things you want to learn and find something to work towards. Have an amazing and beautiful summer!
Well I'm only kinda a kid but todays my first day of summer but it's going good! I wanna get better at rugby and football so yeah those r my goals for summer and for the new school year
No I won’t cause if I do my dreams will be dreams and I’ll continue to be ugly and I’ll get nothing for Christmas and want something for Christmas so if I wastes this summer I get nothing for Christmas 🙂
great video, man. You got your point across in an excellent way, and you have a very balanced perspective that I agree with. We can have fun, we can make good memories, but we shouldn't do such things (like playing video games) ALL of the time, and we should make time for other things like journaling or meditation, and spend some time on things that are more meaningful. No extremes, no "go monk mode isolation sigma alpha grindset, no fun no hangout," but not "don't care about anything have fun all you want" either. Overall great way to come across the subject. Jesus is here to guide us all to our purposeses, and I personally like to meditate and try to see what Christ has told me throughout the day, with some Scripture reading added in. Just a great vid, man
Yo Bro .. im 33 and i played games for 20 years . Now i dont have a job or a friend or a girl .. so yeah i Need to take a step foward and find a job ect . XD
This is how I kinda feel about my city, but the thing is there so much to do. Take some time to think about some of the opportunities that you have because there’s tons.
It’s only take 1 or 2 hours a day to enjoy your summer. I don’t know if studying for 12 hours a day and if you’re, that’s ok because you’re not wasting your summer. It’s same for basketball, guys grind during the summer for the winter season. Did they waste a summer? No. Take at lease a hour a day to enjoy something like the pool or a sunset.
@@casoops1385 Very true. I do have to study for most of the day, but it still feels like a waste looking outside and seeing the nice weather and other people having fun.
@@DasMonketime management is key here. Set a goal for studying or a page goal per day in the textbook, and then force the discipline to complete it so then you can hang out. Call up some friends or literally go talk to some new people. I made the mistake thinking studying would take up my entire weekend and it did, so try to balance and set a time for studying and right when you’re done try to do something with friends!
Christ is King, Mock, Judge, make fun of all you want he is truth not “science”, not Buddha, not the Islamic god, But God the father through Jesus Christ.
I wished I would have sold my soul for the life I want and deserve! But no I choose GOD AND HIS LIES ! I’m so blessed GOD HAS BEEN THE BIGGEST DISAPPOINTMENT IV EVER HAD TO ENDURE! That’s my testimony!
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The guilt of not doing something is terrible.
Nope! I've been hitting the gym, hanging with friends, writing music, I'm making money. Im actually the most motivated and least depressed I've been in years.
Amazing, I’m rooting for you bro
Good luck bro for future
completely in reverse for me, because i lost all my friends in the spring, and i have nothing to do. So for me it's the most depressing summer :
@@Kapybarland I'm praying for you homie, this year so far has been full of ups and downs for me. I got rejected by the girl I had been crushing on for months, my depression spiraled again (multiple times throughout these last few months), got stuck in a job with a shitty abusive boss, everything in my life became a mess due to aforementioned spiraled depression (my self care was shitty and my room looked like a tornado came through it), I started isolating myself. Only very recently has life picked up again for me, and I'm sure it will get bad again, but that's just the way things go.
I can't really offer you any advice outside of the basic shit you hear everywhere ("Pick up a new hobby!" "Be positive!") because while its good advice I know how it feels to be told that when you're down. All I can say is trust the process, shit gets worse before it gets better, but the better times will be great, and full of joyful and fulfilling moments.
Sorry for the ramble lol.
When I saw this in my feed I thought it was gonna be another one of those “hustle 24/7 no fun or rest allowed only sigma male grindset” videos. I was very pleasantly surprised to hear the balanced perspective. At the end of the day life ain’t that deep. You just gotta put yourself out there, pursue your goals and hobbies, and enjoy the blessing that is life.
I definitely wasted last summer but from that I learned the importance of not wasting my time, and I’ve been doing much better this summer in all aspects. Stay blessed and focus on what matters in life.
GIGA Garfield pfp talking, if Garfield agrees... than I agree...
"put yourself out there" is the most broad, cliche, and in-actionable advice I hear from people. What am I supposed to do with that? It could mean anything. I could go take a walk and that would count as "putting myself out there", but what does walking achieve? Nothing.
@@dale2283 walking is better than sitting in your room complaining, walking and being outside is good for your health
@@randomcommenter395 Yeah well I walk 2 miles every single day and it hasn't done anything for me beyond what I'm doing at my destination.
my boyfriend who was my best friend, died in a wreck the first day of summer. it was supposed to be so good and we were so excited and had so many plans. it's been 2 weeks now and it's still tearing me apart. i'm 16 and so was he, i'll miss him forever and i just hope i can heal this summer
I’m so sorry.. I will be praying that our Lord brings you comfort. ❤️🙏
I’m so sorry, that’s absolutely horrible, and I hope you’ll be able to heal from that - take your time and don’t feel pressured to move on really quickly but also try not to let it hold you back from the rest of your life. I went through a similar thing about a year ago and I promise you it will be okay eventually even if it doesn’t feel like it right now, I’m not saying you will move on from him but make sure to focus on the good memories you had together and do those things, the things that would have made him happy. You’ll be ok, I promise :)
I’m sorry if this comes off as rude but I want you to know that God sees you and he heard you, he knows your pain and he does love you, he wants to help and heal you from your broken heart, seek him
my condolences I Pray that Life will get better for you and that you grieve well
as a 16 year old myself, I couldn't imagine myself going through that type of pain. I just want to tell you that you are stronger than me and probably everyone else in this comment section. Hope you can heal❤
I saw that many i was a active consumer of motivational content . but then i opened my eyes and started a youtube motivational channel.i became a producer instead of consumer.
so many people are so judgemental that you can't do anything other then waste your life on games, but the judgemental go out and take advantage and abuse of the things that they try so hard keeping you from enjoying life.
I very rarely comment on videos but I can't just leave this video without commenting. You have really nailed the perspective. A lot of people are one of two extremes. Either they are a victim of hustle culture and do 'monk mode' (as you mentioned) all the time and take no time off, basically work themselves to death. The other extreme is people who are lazy and sit around and do jack sh*t. It's very important to live a balanced life because neither of the extremes are sustainable in the long run, which is what matters. Especially now during summer, I completely agree with your point of view, it's important to socialize and spend time with family and friends.
Have a great summer
Im not letting this happen to me anymore. well said man, you help others to appreciate the time they got left on the world and didn’t make any great of it. W video and keep it up m8!
Nice video man, hope that shit blows up. I want to enjoy summer by taking trips and vacations and go outside play sports and the outdoor pool
WOAH!!!!!!! THIS WAS FOR ME SERIOUSLY!!! OMG. IM GOING TO WATCH THIS DAILY!!!
This is another one of those videos that strangely feel like they were made for me. Love your work! ❤
I appreciate this casoops. I just came across your channel. No fancy editing. None of that. Just authentic advice. I love this message. Much love from me to you!
Thank You so Much for your words of wisdom. I've been struggling with opening my heart out to people. Ive made it my goal this year. But im struggling, and i dont know if i can carry on anymore. Hearing your advice makes me feel that im not alone anymore. I need to keep my head up
Jesus loves you man, I found my purpose in Christ and only He fills that void in my heart. I feel what you're saying man and I'm not gonna waste this summer 💪🏾💪🏾thanks for making this vid
Fr summer is time of elevation, separation, great video man 🤝🏾
Thank you brother
Thanks man this video showed up for me just at the right time.
A perk is that im an mbti psychology nerd, so i read stuff about my personality type and cognitive functions in the internet in moments where i’m not gaming. So i’m doing a hobby while also learning more about myself
thank you, appreciate your words. hope this video blows up soon.
I think i speak for all of us when I say that we really needed this video!! Thank you so much and God bless you King!
I don't have friends rn, my parents dont let me have social media or go anywhere I'm not supposed to be so I basically just have to sit inside on the Internet. I'm not gonna do anything this summer which makes me kinda sad but hopefully one day in the future I'll be able to make summer memories like everybody else
Try your hardest to change that, your parents probably do let you go outside, but if they really don't, make the effort to figure something out.
@@hypatch8014 yeah I'm going to college in the fall. I definitely dont plan on living this way
Massive respect for you, because not many fellas would talk about this shi. But ay, you got a new subscriber
Yo another young and vibrant positive peter sup 😂😂😂
wonderful video man, brought a tear to my eye
A much needed wake up call for me. Thanks mate. Wish you the best!
Last time I didn't waste my summer was 2018 and i absolutely love 2018 its my favorite year
What’s different now?
i agree, the weather in the background is amazing ))
Great video man! Really appreciate the effort and time.
Seems like this is the common agreement, but I really needed to hear this, I feel like I lost the last two, if not three summers just being a "24-7 monk" and then its July 29 and school is coming and you feel like shit.
I took up skateboarding, as a hobby with a friend to go along, i've gotten better so Its nice to be able to just ride around and shit
Definetely gonna try to do more of "that"
And by that I mean, like you mentionned, hobbies, going out at night for a stroll
This is life, it isn't that deep just put yourself out there and just be yourself
And sure enough, once in a while, reward yourself, play your favorite song or your favorite game.
~ Cheers.
I’ve did the same too. It’s hard to go all in the summer when your mental health is bad. I’ve always felt like there was something missing or more I can do. If you enjoy the summer, arguably you can accomplish more.
Thank you bro, I really needed this ❤
Last summer in 2023 is the only summer i feel like i really progressed in life. I turned 18 recently, i just really dont want to waste this summer as well. Like the past 8 months really have been kinda wasteful, i did do some productive stuff i always wanted to do, but i really could have done a lot more.
I want to run a marathon in almost 4 months here in Bulgaria. It is said that that is enough time. Will also try to focus on doing my Yoga practices and Kriyas outside in nature, playibg guitar, working out, working in our small family business and so on.
Yep nothing so special planned. Will be getting my drivers license hopefully in like 2 months so thats gonna be pretty cool
Yea I feel like if ppl wanna do monk mode, do it in the winter. Don’t waste the waste warm weather it’ll be gone in the blink of an eye.
This video is really helpfull, and I hope that makes a lot of people open eyes... It's very difficult start to do something, but it's better late than never, we need to start, because if we don't, in the future we were regreting of the past and all our life. I'm a young teen, and I know that every single day I'm ruining my life more and more, and I don't know how to proceed or change it to better, but thanks, I will try to change it. A new summer. A new sunrise.
Amazing, but remember, when you are creating change in your life, it may be uncomfortable, and that’s great. It may be uncomfortable trying new things out, but you won’t regret it, even if it feels uncomfortable.
@@casoops1385 Thank you so much, really 💜
Thanks man ive been insecure for a bit during school. But now im trying to have a glow up. And also fix myself. Thanks.
That’s amazing man, but please don’t go down the wrong path with trying to glow up. You already have the confidence with you but it can hard to bring out. Nourish yourself and please please please don’t go down the wrong path because the opposite will happen. Sorry for the long reply and also love your humility.
@@casoops1385 its all good and thank you
thank you for the wise words bro
Bless the algorithm for sending this video my way 🙌
thank you for this video man.
its 12:5 at night and this thing comes to save me
The 3AM brain 🧠
I'm at my brother's place watching this video. He introduced me to Delicious in Dungeon. He's a big anime guy. Doesn't necessarily outwardly say it but the joy in him is infectious. There's no time wasted when there's memories made ❤
Thanks a lot brother
Thanks brother real heart
Geez bro is underrated
i am trapped in the house with parents that are working so im locked up and cant do anything so yeah but thanks anyway ill do it in the future
There is so much you can at home. It’s the little things like learning a calisthenics skill, instrument, view the sunset and much more. You have so much available to have a great summer, just take a step back and write down some things you want to learn and find something to work towards. Have an amazing and beautiful summer!
Thankfully my summer is getting better, as I just caught my first citirail!
"you're about to waste another summer" - yes.
No
lmao no way that I got pinned comment for this 💀
@@redblueboy885 lmao bro did not get pinned
@@pazuzu1 my yt must be fucked then
Thank you
bro back up
Thanks man
Thank you🙏
Amazing video brother
As people in russia says "Summer is a small life"
thanks bro
Great video✨🔥🔥
I wish I watched this video 3 weeks ago, it's a bit too late now.
Well I'm only kinda a kid but todays my first day of summer but it's going good!
I wanna get better at rugby and football so yeah those r my goals for summer and for the new school year
nice vid bro
Nuh uh you can’t make me
Thanks
No I won’t cause if I do my dreams will be dreams and I’ll continue to be ugly and I’ll get nothing for Christmas and want something for Christmas so if I wastes this summer I get nothing for Christmas 🙂
woah this video appeared at the right time
Amen
🙏🏽
who play video games I played last game 10 years ago and watch tv 5 years ago . Is self talk ?
great video, man. You got your point across in an excellent way, and you have a very balanced perspective that I agree with. We can have fun, we can make good memories, but we shouldn't do such things (like playing video games) ALL of the time, and we should make time for other things like journaling or meditation, and spend some time on things that are more meaningful. No extremes, no "go monk mode isolation sigma alpha grindset, no fun no hangout," but not "don't care about anything have fun all you want" either. Overall great way to come across the subject.
Jesus is here to guide us all to our purposeses, and I personally like to meditate and try to see what Christ has told me throughout the day, with some Scripture reading added in. Just a great vid, man
yes
Hello
My life is wasted
I have a fucking exam
good luck
banger
Yo Bro .. im 33 and i played games for 20 years . Now i dont have a job or a friend or a girl .. so yeah i Need to take a step foward and find a job ect . XD
None
You talk like early game coryxkenshin
Sadly I am forced to go with my parents to visit family in a country where’s barely anything to do :/
This is how I kinda feel about my city, but the thing is there so much to do. Take some time to think about some of the opportunities that you have because there’s tons.
No u
Wrong, my exams are about to waste my summer
It’s only take 1 or 2 hours a day to enjoy your summer. I don’t know if studying for 12 hours a day and if you’re, that’s ok because you’re not wasting your summer. It’s same for basketball, guys grind during the summer for the winter season. Did they waste a summer? No. Take at lease a hour a day to enjoy something like the pool or a sunset.
@@casoops1385 Very true. I do have to study for most of the day, but it still feels like a waste looking outside and seeing the nice weather and other people having fun.
@@DasMonketime management is key here. Set a goal for studying or a page goal per day in the textbook, and then force the discipline to complete it so then you can hang out. Call up some friends or literally go talk to some new people. I made the mistake thinking studying would take up my entire weekend and it did, so try to balance and set a time for studying and right when you’re done try to do something with friends!
@@zimpitt5253 thanks, there’s two hard tests left anyway I’m nearly out of it. Just hope the weather gets better
Im gonna bet 100 dollars your video wont solve anything
Christ is King, Mock, Judge, make fun of all you want he is truth not “science”, not Buddha, not the Islamic god, But God the father through Jesus Christ.
im edging to this vid
I wished I would have sold my soul for the life I want and deserve! But no I choose GOD AND HIS LIES ! I’m so blessed GOD HAS BEEN THE BIGGEST DISAPPOINTMENT IV EVER HAD TO ENDURE! That’s my testimony!
I'm not wasting, I'm sacrificing this summer for better summers🫀
Even if your sacrificing this summer don’t forget the small things. For example, sunsets, walking or exploring something around your city.
“don’t escape this summer” definitely needed to hear that. you got it boss 🫡💖