just delete social media, see what happens.

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  • čas přidán 18. 10. 2023
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  • @reaganborland900
    @reaganborland900 Před 2 měsíci +13017

    its so sad that we were the last generation who got to have a genuine childhood without screens

    • @morisan42
      @morisan42 Před 2 měsíci +172

      I do get the sense of knowing what the "old world" was like, i mean i was honestly always a nerdy kid and played a lot of games from a young age, but there was a barrier to that in that I had to use a PC or console which had some oversight from my parents. i think mobile devices are so dangerous because you always carry it with you

    • @kain6590
      @kain6590 Před 2 měsíci +66

      I have two nephews who are in love with CZcams and video games. They don’t know how to go outside and have fun. It’s sad to watch

    • @FlyEagle-kd5yg
      @FlyEagle-kd5yg Před 2 měsíci +60

      The best we can do is raise the next generation the right way 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @derrickoson
      @derrickoson Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@kain6590how old are they

    • @kain6590
      @kain6590 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@derrickoson 7 and 6

  • @onionallium2543
    @onionallium2543 Před 2 měsíci +5453

    its so terrifying how much a phone resembles an actual drug addiction....

    • @thatsamshow
      @thatsamshow Před 2 měsíci +142

      That's dopamine for you. It's one hell of a drug!

    • @flufychickens
      @flufychickens Před měsícem +73

      It's much much worse. Everyone everywhere is openly addicted to their phones

    • @Canadian_4Ever
      @Canadian_4Ever Před měsícem +12

      It is. One of the worst.

    • @calypsoelise
      @calypsoelise Před měsícem +3

      its crazy

    • @gustavorosas4065
      @gustavorosas4065 Před měsícem +17

      This comment really hits hard. All I can say is that staying off of instagram for months made a huge difference in my life as far as I’m concerned.

  • @CENZ.
    @CENZ. Před 2 měsíci +7429

    I fear that when I die I won't see memories in front of my eyes but thousands of reels

    • @aafkgirl91
      @aafkgirl91 Před 2 měsíci +360

      Wow, this was deep

    • @edal13
      @edal13 Před 2 měsíci +137

      and that sounds so real

    • @slimghost645
      @slimghost645 Před 2 měsíci +250

      We generally don't remember the reels we watch. It's literally a waste of time

    • @edal13
      @edal13 Před 2 měsíci +69

      @@slimghost645 yeah but we also don't do anything besides watching reel so more than half of our memories is nothing but scrolling. If only we utilised that much time to create some actually realistic memories! But anyways we are on our phone 24/7

    • @normang3668
      @normang3668 Před 2 měsíci +47

      You won't remember 99% of what you've seen on social media.

  • @shaista.saffari
    @shaista.saffari Před 2 měsíci +2879

    The scrolling through gmail hit different😭😭

  • @zoecysewski6319
    @zoecysewski6319 Před 4 měsíci +25716

    The part "scrolling through your photos" is so real

    • @davidlakaka6240
      @davidlakaka6240 Před 4 měsíci +1028

      This week I had 3 hours screen time on photos 😭😭🙏🏼

    • @cloud6318
      @cloud6318 Před 4 měsíci +88

      @@davidlakaka6240REAL HAHAHA

    • @Nefuyu0228
      @Nefuyu0228 Před 4 měsíci +83

      Even I have social media, I do that.

    • @plagueratsss
      @plagueratsss Před 4 měsíci

      @@davidlakaka6240ME TOO😭

    • @boredyoutubeuser
      @boredyoutubeuser Před 4 měsíci +7

      For real 😂

  • @pwelsh6501
    @pwelsh6501 Před 2 měsíci +8348

    Saddest thing is seeing the older generation waste their remaining years just staring at their phone. No final goals and dreams just wasting their remaining years glued to social media

    • @CringePoop
      @CringePoop Před 2 měsíci +181

      i mean theyve been doing this for years but with television

    • @VINTAGELSDDRUGUSER
      @VINTAGELSDDRUGUSER Před 2 měsíci +136

      seriously. they always said growing up that i shouldn’t be hooked on technology now im seeing them rot away watching TV or on their phones

    • @gabrielrobles4200
      @gabrielrobles4200 Před 2 měsíci +98

      Exactly! And it seems to me that the older generations are getting addicted to phones but are not realizing the troubles it is causing to them, so it's even worst than it is with the younger generations

    • @senbebe3320
      @senbebe3320 Před 2 měsíci +19

      Ahh yeah definitely :( but also on the positive side they could be consuming content that’s good for them e.g educational videos or videos on nature etc 🥰 but yeah definitely it’s bad to see sometimes that there isn’t rlly a healthy balance and that a lot of their time is spent on their devices which also may not be bad but hard to see this loss of mindfulness in their lives almost 🥺❤️

    • @Lillybelle.
      @Lillybelle. Před 2 měsíci +10

      Let them live lol

  • @kamillacsanadi6498
    @kamillacsanadi6498 Před měsícem +1321

    "I only have like 2 friends anyway" REAL

    • @ekberekberov2058
      @ekberekberov2058 Před měsícem +6

      repeat after me:
      LA ILAHE ILLALLAH

    • @QKuasar
      @QKuasar Před měsícem +2

      facts

    • @Jamesgu1989
      @Jamesgu1989 Před měsícem +3

      me the same when little, now look back it's good thing.

    • @annibvn
      @annibvn Před měsícem

      @@ekberekberov2058la ilaha ilalah

    • @user-hd4sr6ii4n
      @user-hd4sr6ii4n Před měsícem +7

      I don’t have any😢

  • @salwaabdullahi5945
    @salwaabdullahi5945 Před měsícem +547

    The fact that this felt so accurate. Deleted Instagram and tiktok and i found myself visiting my gmail every 10 minutes😂

  • @amysteriousviewer3772
    @amysteriousviewer3772 Před 4 měsíci +30699

    To add to this: stop constantly listening to or watching things „in the background“ while doing other tasks. It doesn’t matter if it’s podcasts, audiobooks, CZcams, etc. You may feel like you‘re being „more productive“ or „multitasking“ but most of the time it is just noise that clouds your mind and numbs your thoughts. Embrace the silence.
    Edit: To clarify, I am not saying never, ever listen to things or that it is always bad to have something on in the background. I'm just suggesting to be more mindful of your consumption and to also allow for periods of silence from time to time during which you can experience your thoughts and emotions more clearly.

    • @Patapouf_
      @Patapouf_ Před 4 měsíci +491

      I will test it out and see if im more productive, thanks buddy

    • @fanny.07
      @fanny.07 Před 4 měsíci +144

      totally agree

    • @olivegreen7881
      @olivegreen7881 Před 4 měsíci +76

      Sooo true….

    • @MCSorry
      @MCSorry Před 4 měsíci +561

      I second this. Doesn't matter if it's work, taking the bus, gaming, reading; be present and focus fully on what you are doing. Everything feels much more engaging and rewarding.

    • @sy_33_priteshlungare27
      @sy_33_priteshlungare27 Před 4 měsíci +15

      Well Said !

  • @Angel-mk3em
    @Angel-mk3em Před 4 měsíci +8002

    People lived for centuries without social media; it's extremely easy to be without

    • @sadiemaxfield7566
      @sadiemaxfield7566 Před 4 měsíci +708

      Its not when its all youve grown up accustomed to, its mass addiction

    • @ToastFrench-xy7xq
      @ToastFrench-xy7xq Před 4 měsíci +153

      A lot of people are on social media nowadays so it's harder

    • @thesheriff720
      @thesheriff720 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@magical_lizard731it's not a massive revelation, it's more about trying to get more people to not waste their life on a screen

    • @boom5732
      @boom5732 Před 4 měsíci +156

      ​@magical_lizard731 Yeah because they've grown up used to it, it's not easy to completely remove something that's been there most of your life even if its something as small as social media

    • @Wizard_YT_4
      @Wizard_YT_4 Před 4 měsíci +29

      People years ago didn’t have stuff we do now,that’s why they all their stories on CZcams.

  • @joeyywill1234
    @joeyywill1234 Před měsícem +475

    side note: having no socials etc makes you more interesting. People don't know what you've been doing so you have more to talk about with people

    • @roselimonta
      @roselimonta Před měsícem +6

      @@countluciomorgasson now that part is so true

    • @_draind
      @_draind Před měsícem +3

      ​@@countluciomorgassonfocus on yourself, achieve your goals and you'll never run out of invitations.

    • @lazysquidward
      @lazysquidward Před 29 dny +2

      @@countluciomorgassonI agree, but honestly, it also gets better after getting out of high school. i’ve slowly started deleting social media apps but retained all my friends; it just matters on fufilling those connections first :)

    • @leolycachavez6171
      @leolycachavez6171 Před 28 dny +7

      ​@@countluciomorgassonthat's true, but if that connect got lost after deleting ur soc meds, y'all r not friends to begin with

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Před 2 dny

      Fr​@@leolycachavez6171

  • @humanwiggle
    @humanwiggle Před 26 dny +158

    getting off social media gave me the mental space to create so much change in my life. started reading books, going on bike rides, simply spending time outside with my dogs, learning guitar, knitting. literally became so much easier to do the things i've always yearned to do without the incessant and uncontrollable urge to go on social media and waste away so much precious time. my brain definitely tried to convince me not to delete it and i even have cravings to re-download it at times, seriously feels like trying to overcome a drug addition

    • @mari-qs7wu
      @mari-qs7wu Před 11 dny +2

      is youtube not social media

    • @humanwiggle
      @humanwiggle Před 11 dny

      @@mari-qs7wu that’s a valid question. I do think it is social media. Since it is a platform run by ad based revenue and the purpose of it is to sustain our attention on the app for as long as possible. It allows people to share a curated version of what their lives look like and who they are, but it is not always authentic or the full picture of their experience. It also has the endless scrolling feature of shorts that most other social medias have too. And it collects data on us and shares that data to create personalized ads for us based on our likes, preferences, short-comings, etc. It also has the auto play feature that keeps our attention held in spending more time on the app.
      I try not to watch the CZcams shorts and remain conscious of the amount of screen time I spend on CZcams. But I do keep CZcams as a learning resource for topics that I am interested in.

  • @Goonztz
    @Goonztz Před 5 měsíci +3964

    I’m a broke kid at a rich kid college, and needed to protect my mental health. Deleting instagram felt like the most rational thing to do 🤷‍♂️

    • @MauricioSaIas
      @MauricioSaIas Před 4 měsíci +99

      I’m in college too & I deleted instagram as well. It’s hard, but I do agree with you: it’s rational

    • @nguyennguyen-be6ny
      @nguyennguyen-be6ny Před 4 měsíci +74

      I went to private school and the stuff I saw on my social media makes me question my existence lmao

    • @krishafyme
      @krishafyme Před 4 měsíci +29

      Bruh that honestly sucks so much, sometimes I m perfectly okay but seeing some shit gives me instant sadness bad feeling pangs

    • @indiebish7045
      @indiebish7045 Před 4 měsíci

      literally word for word stg sum about college makes u compare ur experience to everyone elses online @@jimjamjerry

    • @ManicMaidenASMR
      @ManicMaidenASMR Před 4 měsíci +32

      I’m in college and I cannot spend more than an hour on Social Media 😂 I’m also a STEM major with straight As my ADHD would be a nightmare if I was using Social Media like these kids nowadays I would fail 😂

  • @DenimAubreyRynkievich
    @DenimAubreyRynkievich Před 4 měsíci +6884

    I deleted all of my social media for 9 months at the beginning of 2023 and it was THE BEST decision I’ve ever made. I went to college and downloaded everything again but after a month I decided to be done for good. It’s so toxic and the attention rush never ends. I’m finally reading long books, watching movies, and finishing tv shows again. As well as playing outside or just going on walks or journaling. Deleting social media was literally what saved my life. I highly recommend! Also, great video, thank you :)

    • @lottegroenwold202
      @lottegroenwold202 Před 4 měsíci +180

      Hey I wanted to ask, how does CZcams work for you. Personally I deleted insta, but I tend to scroll a lot on CZcams. And I don’t really feel that deleting insta made a difference. Do you have any tips?

    • @st4vr331
      @st4vr331 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@lottegroenwold202youtube is also a social media, delete it

    • @Patapouf_
      @Patapouf_ Před 4 měsíci

      yes ! IDK too, do you delete ALL the social media ? @@lottegroenwold202

    • @ashlinpw2453
      @ashlinpw2453 Před 4 měsíci +124

      @@lottegroenwold202 unless u have really good self control the answer to that question is to delete youtube unfortunately

    • @swanlake7333
      @swanlake7333 Před 4 měsíci +52

      hey can i ask a question? i usually contact people through instagram and that’s how I talk to my friends, and stay updated with ‘pop culture’ in a way 💀 i just wanted to ask if you considered the fact of not remaining in touch with many people before you deleted social media, and what made you follow through with deleting it despite that?
      i want to delete social media but i’m scared of not being able to talk to my friends as easily anymore, or make new ones as i usually do that through social media 😭 ignore the long sentences i yap a lot

  • @imjazzlyn
    @imjazzlyn Před měsícem +158

    One thing that held me back was the fear of not understanding my friends' conversations, not having topics to talk about, not getting the latest jokes, and overall feeling out of touch. If you're going through the same thing, don't worry. As the days, weeks, and months go by without any social media, you realize how useless they are. There comes a point where, if you were tempted to download them again, create an account, and commit to using them, you simply have no interest. They bore you, just like the first time you ever tried them. Because that's what they are-boring. The idea that "oh, if I don't have social media, I'll be left out of everything that's happening" is a lie to keep you consuming. Trends and memes are so momentary that they don't even have an impact on real life. Unless you hang out with other people who are chronically online, who can't talk about anything other than the content they consume on the internet, quitting social media won't have any negative impact

    • @Peachgirl-cq8sg
      @Peachgirl-cq8sg Před měsícem +4

      This… I still use social media but I use them widely different than my friends. My friends use them and stay up to date with trends, our generation, the basic stuff you see on TikTok. And because I use them differently, example to stay up to date with my hobbies, I just don’t connect with what they talk about or find myself not interested.
      Even with my hobbies, I do want to eventually lessen my social media use as much so I can do more physical productivity with my hobbies and less being online indulging them.

    • @AnishaVerrathu
      @AnishaVerrathu Před dnem

      IFKR like recently I just created ig new acc again and when I just started scrolling I felt so guilty and insta drained me alot.

  • @philiprake7485
    @philiprake7485 Před měsícem +231

    We all deleted our social media accounts but we’d never give up CZcams. It’s pretty much impossible

    • @slhblink7564
      @slhblink7564 Před měsícem +6

      Its so real...

    • @byersvhs
      @byersvhs Před 27 dny +14

      ikk, but I honestly think social media is not all so terrible...but the real takeaway here is that, too much anything is bad.

    • @ally1921
      @ally1921 Před 21 dnem +21

      true, but it honestly depends on what you watch on CZcams. it can be a great place to educate yourself, plus they tend to be longer (20-30 mins) so they aren't detrimental to our attention spans unlike social media.

    • @samibichumani1176
      @samibichumani1176 Před 20 dny

      @@byersvhsbro it’s terrible. They (Google n Mark Zuck) misused people.
      1) Incognito mode- with history enabled people used to have self control on chrome
      2)For You Instagram- when the feed used to be by the following. People controlled their following list to limit or see what they wanna see. Now it’s like explore page
      3) For you Twitter- same
      If these 3 things were gone then people would be to blame. But now these billionaire mindgamers are to be blamed

    • @Unoriginal-Username69
      @Unoriginal-Username69 Před 10 dny

      i ijust want some background noise that isnt my brother talking as loud as he can or saying slurs🙏🙏🙏

  • @No-wy2qd
    @No-wy2qd Před 3 měsíci +3751

    I deleted social media and honestly my life feels so much more quiet. Like I’m not constantly searching for something to fill the silence, I can just instead sit and enjoy it or do something with friends.

    • @highestpeeqs9532
      @highestpeeqs9532 Před 3 měsíci +33

      Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!!!!!! !! !

    • @mattm7050
      @mattm7050 Před 3 měsíci +29

      This might sound dumb but what do you do ? I deleted all my social media I couldn’t last a day because I was soooo so bored and didn’t know what else to do

    • @lemonisafurry
      @lemonisafurry Před 3 měsíci +31

      ​@@mattm7050It's a lot harder for me in the winter because it's always cold and school and stuff takes up time, but trying new hobbies is a good place to start. Like my favorites are baking, crocheting and coloring!

    • @ffion8815
      @ffion8815 Před 3 měsíci +40

      but youtube is social media no? or you mean the ones that are used for messages ?

    • @matjsz
      @matjsz Před 3 měsíci

      @@ffion8815 i think that youtube works as a spotify thing, you just use it to watch or listen to something, but if you use it correctly can be very good, since you can watch interesting things and not only short videos (although, youtube shorts exist)

  • @guillermoramirez7548
    @guillermoramirez7548 Před 2 měsíci +1520

    “You’ll feel like a kid again” is the perfect description. I did this for 6 months and it was the best decision I ever took. You can seriously turn your life around by doing this.

    • @123asdasdasd-jh1iy
      @123asdasdasd-jh1iy Před měsícem +3

      Can you describe the particular changes in more detail?

    • @Daburp
      @Daburp Před měsícem +61

      @@123asdasdasd-jh1iytime goes by slower, u enjoy being outside more, u get way more productive, etc.

    • @frodidaniels1354
      @frodidaniels1354 Před měsícem +5

      Why just 6 months?

    • @tusaispasquijesuis7433
      @tusaispasquijesuis7433 Před měsícem +3

      Did you stop after 6 months or are you still doing it ?

    • @kenryuguji3054
      @kenryuguji3054 Před měsícem +1

      What about after 6 months? Is 6 months the limit? 🤔

  • @EugeneBlack-wb9qk
    @EugeneBlack-wb9qk Před 2 měsíci +71

    I’ve been doing this ever since I quit my job 1.5 years ago. Spent the better part of a year in rainforests and climbing mountains, I’ve filled like 7 journals, started crocheting, my art game leveled up big time and I literally learned how to think. I realised I have so much more potential than I knew when I was working from sunrise to sunset and then revenge scrolling to feel some control over my time in the little portions of nighttime that I didn’t spend crying. I genuinely believe that meaning in life is found in movement, play and authentic connection with others. This is where you find love. Not just intimate love but the deep platonic kind philosophers talk about. It’s just a shame I’m autistic and extremely antisocial though , I actually use social media as a tool to stay connected with certain people on purpose now, and to share my art occasionally. I don’t know who you are but I really enjoyed this video and the message it sends. Keep it up

  • @Yui-im9su
    @Yui-im9su Před měsícem +34

    I totally agree. I’m letting myself consume everything I see from social media. I’m literally sick of myself overthinking everything

  • @IkerUnzu
    @IkerUnzu Před 4 měsíci +8003

    Best decision ever. I made it because I felt deeply depressed, but I’m so happy now. Also started meditating and exercising, which also contributed to me being happier and more aware. Being present is life changing and it’s sad that social media is taking that away from people… I also started painting which I recommend a lot !! It’s very therapeutic 🌱🧘🏼✨

    • @cartoonhyperfixated
      @cartoonhyperfixated Před 4 měsíci +17

      Woah

    • @wojownicza12
      @wojownicza12 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Nice

    • @AlFirous
      @AlFirous Před 3 měsíci

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@examplenameyoutubeEverything can waste time if don't have good purpose or context. For CZcams I usually only open if I need search for something. I even using extension called "Unhook" for remove home, comments, recommended, sidebar etc. But, you do you.

    • @alexandraaikonika
      @alexandraaikonika Před 3 měsíci +94

      CZcams is still a social media. You are only posting without analyzing current trends? I don’t think so

    • @josunecamposorive4282
      @josunecamposorive4282 Před 3 měsíci +7

      Iker eres de los primeros tiktokers que empece a seguir en mi vida, y no sabes la motivación que me da que tu tambien te hayas atrevido a esto. Gracias de verdad🫂

  • @kausturmer
    @kausturmer Před 7 měsíci +4688

    I just can’t be bothered to social media anymore

    • @firedaisi
      @firedaisi Před 4 měsíci +18

      Real

    • @KYYYTISZAI
      @KYYYTISZAI Před 4 měsíci +15

      Here you all are tho. Subscribe 🎉❤❤❤

    • @Radman2617
      @Radman2617 Před 4 měsíci +17

      LMAO. I quit 2 years ago, after COVID I realized how much time I spent. You've articulated this feeling beautifully.

    • @chasethefeel
      @chasethefeel Před 4 měsíci +35

      u are literally on youtube

    • @kausturmer
      @kausturmer Před 4 měsíci +50

      @@chasethefeel I meant the others social media bro

  • @Dylan-yv6ko
    @Dylan-yv6ko Před 22 dny +13

    Already did like 10 years ago. People will judge you super harshly for not having any social media, and people won't wanna talk to you because you can't increase their follower count. Works for me!

  • @cheylie157
    @cheylie157 Před 21 dnem +8

    I made this VERY difficult decision in 2022...
    I still find myself gravitating back when I am struggling but I am slowly but surely learning. It's so beautiful. I am getting back into my passions I am finally figuring out what I want to do in my life.

  • @tinylifeoflin
    @tinylifeoflin Před 3 měsíci +2000

    i only kept youtube and have actually learned so many more things. i started editing cinematic videos, learning languages, reading, crochet, go outside on hikes and stuff. i love this. i ofc am still texting ppl sometimes, but i do prefer calling bc its easier and more real. im so much happier now

    • @Joseph-im8be
      @Joseph-im8be Před 3 měsíci +13

      Love this!

    • @yadiraa4594
      @yadiraa4594 Před 2 měsíci +81

      That's what I did and that's how I got addicted to CZcams

    • @MSN539
      @MSN539 Před 2 měsíci

      @@yadiraa4594same

    • @iamfrancesmusic
      @iamfrancesmusic Před 2 měsíci +23

      But like how do u not get addicted to CZcams too tho 🥲🥲🥲

    • @iamfrancesmusic
      @iamfrancesmusic Před 2 měsíci +5

      Especially since it also has shorts

  • @ChanYiChing6L-rv6ow
    @ChanYiChing6L-rv6ow Před 3 měsíci +3138

    ‘Will my friends think that I’m weird just because I don’t use social media?’ This is the biggest problem that I face.

    • @anthonylucero6650
      @anthonylucero6650 Před 3 měsíci +1

      You’re a mook😒

    • @Sabeeh
      @Sabeeh Před 3 měsíci +419

      dont care about ur friends care about urself, whatll make u truly happy

    • @bholedg
      @bholedg Před 3 měsíci +194

      Hang out with them in person and you’ll enjoy it more than before, when you go off social media, likely you woun’t care about a trivial thing like that.

    • @bigotis9042
      @bigotis9042 Před 3 měsíci +15

      ​@@Sabeehexactly

    • @highestpeeqs9532
      @highestpeeqs9532 Před 3 měsíci +37

      Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!!!!!! !! !

  • @mihh2005
    @mihh2005 Před měsícem +8

    I felt confused, lost and didn't even know what i wanted to do. I just realized that the things what I loved to do hadn't pleasure for me anymore, hobbies like read, draw, watch videos or study about the things that I liked just was in a "second plan". Then I turn off my cellphone for a couple of days and then it looked pleasurable again. It made me alive again (im sorry for my English )

  • @MontsCherry
    @MontsCherry Před 20 dny +3

    this video is so accurate, in recent months I've deleted my accounts and social media, but I still end up falling back on them or on the coping mechanisms, it's important that we realize what things are directing our lives to be aware of where we want to go and who we want to be! thank you for sharing your experience ❤

  • @nixplicit6988
    @nixplicit6988 Před 2 měsíci +903

    In 2016 I deleted all social media except for youtube. Life is extraordinarily better without. Never going back.

    • @itstej1249
      @itstej1249 Před 2 měsíci +42

      Same I don't have an insta , fb or any kind of social media except YT

    • @HotelHackerr
      @HotelHackerr Před 2 měsíci +104

      my issue is shorts lol. its so bad and if you have ever been on shorts, yk its just brainrot

    • @dioanindra2920
      @dioanindra2920 Před 2 měsíci +16

      ​@@HotelHackerrand sometime its really tempting to open and watch those videos on YT shorts even though you already know it is just a time killer

    • @HotelHackerr
      @HotelHackerr Před 2 měsíci

      @@dioanindra2920 fr

    • @Eizan---69
      @Eizan---69 Před 2 měsíci +4

      ​​@@HotelHackerrI was also very addicted to shorts but i disabled them now its much better.

  • @Goonztz
    @Goonztz Před 5 měsíci +904

    Deleted twitter, TikTok, and instagram. My attention span has already gotten better within a week, and I’m enjoying real life more.

    • @user-ws2ho9xk2g
      @user-ws2ho9xk2g Před 3 měsíci

      Did you delete your account also ?

    • @Hayden_Cat
      @Hayden_Cat Před 3 měsíci +46

      Short form content is awful

    • @user41222
      @user41222 Před 3 měsíci +6

      u are doing great!enjoy the real world!🤍

    • @iLoveBread260
      @iLoveBread260 Před 3 měsíci

      Your life spam increased that you're gona live up to 70 years 👍

    • @ambo9569
      @ambo9569 Před 3 měsíci

      Same!!!

  • @Lkb6
    @Lkb6 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Sorry you’re going through this. I wish someone told me when I was your age that going through the ups and downs is literally a part of life and it happens for the rest of your life. Learning to be resilient and managing and coping is the best way to manage it. It’s hard, but understanding that through every trial, you are learning and growing and trying to appreciate all parts of life make it easier. Lots of love to you, you’re amazing! ❤️

  • @KimberlyFaith260
    @KimberlyFaith260 Před měsícem +9

    I’ve had minimal social media, basically none, since middle school and now I’m in college and it’s done me wonders.

  • @macewindu6853
    @macewindu6853 Před 3 měsíci +1109

    When we were kids, we didn’t have all this tech and social media, when we were bored we had to find things to do, and our parents wouldn’t let us get everything we wanted. This discipline is lost when we’re older, because now we make our own decisions. In a weird way, we kind of have to be parents to ourselves, making the uncomfortable decisions that will only make us better, healthier, and happier

    • @EepyEdd
      @EepyEdd Před 3 měsíci +20

      wise words, coming from a wise jedi. I really love that analogy!

    • @Mainsterr
      @Mainsterr Před 3 měsíci +4

      100% agree, well said

    • @Emma19863
      @Emma19863 Před 3 měsíci +6

      In the early 2000s all of this Instagram, Tik Tok... garbage didn't exist. Everything was better. Imagine it's the early 2000s again. It would be so nice.

    • @NostalgiaRant
      @NostalgiaRant Před 3 měsíci +6

      Shoot, good statement. I remember recreating lightsaber fights, and asking the boys on how the walking dead was because it was rated R and mom wouldn't let me watch it. If I was bored I would go and pick Lukes lightsaber from hasbro and go beat the living hell out of my brother, now its just hopping onto a mobile game. The same kids who where playing Jurassic park are now watching corn and making A.I corn. Phones are not the problem its how much people abuse it, corn and all that bs.

    • @DepressedPvt
      @DepressedPvt Před 3 měsíci +6

      Man you are 100% accurate
      We just enjoyed too much we got everything we wanted
      I miss those old days when we didn’t have mobile and internet
      Life was so so so good💔

  • @elliechriistine
    @elliechriistine Před 4 měsíci +908

    I cant wait til this is the new wave and social media becomes less important and we go back to present living

    • @albertalfaro
      @albertalfaro Před 4 měsíci +46

      It sadly won’t, specially with devices such as the Apple vision system.

    • @disco_depression
      @disco_depression Před 4 měsíci +84

      ​​@@albertalfaro I honestly don't know. It mind not sound much but as a gen z freshly out of highschool I see so many people my age trying to fight against their phone consumption and such mouvement indeed has begun in the youth, you can see all sorts of "quit your phone" videos now everywhere. Also I might be saying nonsense but I don't see the Apple vision system as the revolutionnary thing everyone thinks it is. This must be the 3rd time we are introduced to some VR headset-like concept. Of course it'll integrate many people's everyday lives (especially in the working field) but a lot of the noise seems to come from paid promotion by Apple on social media.

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci +17

      We should start a movement!

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@disco_depressionthey prolly don’t work that well anyway.

    • @albertalfaro
      @albertalfaro Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@disco_depression Oh yeah, I’m part of gen z but sadly my friends don’t think like us, last time I closed social media and they instantly told me I was crazy and such lol.

  • @officialmediamike
    @officialmediamike Před měsícem +19

    If you are reading the comments, don’t ignore this video. What he’s saying is true I can confirm that this works. 👍💯

  • @Snackattack411
    @Snackattack411 Před měsícem +9

    I feel so silly admitting a small device had such an impact on me- but it left a cave in my heart I'm trying to mend right now.
    When I was younger, I felt inadequate and insecure about myself. I found solace in scrolling through social media, seeking validation and connection. However, looking back, I realize that this habit only fueled my insecurities and prevented me from truly improving. I used social media as a coping mechanism to fill a void and as a form of self-harm. This behavior became a long-standing habit, lasting for nine years, where I spent most of my time scrolling and playing games. Eventually, this led to a period of depression lasting eight months during my freshman year of high school when I realized I needed to start living my life. The impact of this habit on my mental health was significant.
    I'm a junior in high school. I'm struggling still. Whenever I put my phone down I feel overwhelmed by the amount of doors that open for me.

  • @TommyGee.
    @TommyGee. Před 4 měsíci +1415

    No insta, no snap, no tiktok - only CZcams: I tell myself primarily for study videos - although I still get distracted here, which is what I'm trying to stop. Good luck folks 😊

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci +20

      Honestly same, all I do is post and watch Spyro content. It’s nice 👍

    • @firephoen1x
      @firephoen1x Před 3 měsíci +74

      Yep, i find CZcams to let go of the hardest. Fb,Instagram is a walk in the park

    • @Moonshine449
      @Moonshine449 Před 3 měsíci +64

      @@firephoen1xproblem is I’ve watched YT my entire life. Deleted all socials but YT I just can’t keep off of

    • @iLoveBread260
      @iLoveBread260 Před 3 měsíci +90

      Just as long as you don't go to yt shorts

    • @ir7fan_
      @ir7fan_ Před 3 měsíci

      Is there any way to turn off shorts in the mobile yt version?​@@iLoveBread260

  • @youraveragejosh-
    @youraveragejosh- Před 3 měsíci +1473

    The irony is that this video is on social media. We can’t digest this value without being here on social media.

    • @maryam3093
      @maryam3093 Před 3 měsíci +584

      I don't really consider CZcams as social media, it's just media somehow 😭

    • @melodyishere1908
      @melodyishere1908 Před 3 měsíci +37

      Thank you! This video felt so ironic

    • @ellenmulcahy1575
      @ellenmulcahy1575 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Great video, feels good to put the fone down!

    • @mistypedhi
      @mistypedhi Před 3 měsíci +141

      Making content is not the same as consuming content. Plus, he specified that it is different if you use media to learn something useful.

    • @JQIsabella
      @JQIsabella Před 2 měsíci +52

      And who do you think this video should be targeting? Probably people addicted and on social media

  • @jadenfields3702
    @jadenfields3702 Před 2 hodinami

    i love how realistic this is. when i tried digital detoxs, i was unsatisfied with myself because i wasn’t using my time cinematically. but your right. in the beginning it looks like multiple walks a day and doing chores. and then you become comfortable enough with your boredom to take a class, reach out to people you haven’t spoken to in a while, or check things off your bucket list. thank you for the video ☺️

  • @nfz8603
    @nfz8603 Před 19 dny +2

    Totally right and same experience for me too , while I'm away of the phone I asked my self why not just be board , why just sit and think and do what I was not doing , and that's really helped me alot.
    And a simple advice for everyone who will keep using social media , just don't use it too much okay , and be aware that its only taking your energy from you , give it atleast a time of the day but all the day keep working and holding and scrolling the same time.
    Keep being healthy and love yourself more.

  • @caitlinloismaxfield
    @caitlinloismaxfield Před 4 měsíci +2250

    doom scrolling is like channel surfing the tv. It's aimless and time-consuming. Shorts and Tiktok are channel surfing. The fact that I didn't have Tiktok until 2020 is actually wild. What did i do before that. Ahhhh

    • @doubraagbere3699
      @doubraagbere3699 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Good question… hmm

    • @pfftxoxo1502
      @pfftxoxo1502 Před 4 měsíci

      TikTok genuinely ruined my life like the amount of insecurities I picked up off that app that i never did on Instagram

    • @Weeb_laz
      @Weeb_laz Před 4 měsíci +82

      I still don't have TikTok 💀

    • @temikgl
      @temikgl Před 4 měsíci +70

      I didn't ever install tiktok, and i'm proud of that
      Now the last and hardest socials media to reduce my time on are youtube, and discord a bit

    • @Kotifilosofi
      @Kotifilosofi Před 4 měsíci

      Knowing that tiktok has especially been designed to be addictive to the max by the very efficient use of algorithms (btw, the same is true for shein & temu), and seeing what kind of effect it has on my friends, made me decide to absolutely never have it myself. I was devastated when my friend suggested me a video on yt she found interesting and she apologized it's "a bit long" and I expected it to be something like 30-60min, but it was literally 1min 30sek, was the last warning sign I needed. I'm used to watch over hour long lectures on yt as my standard, for her anything longer than a minute is exhausting. And she's very addicted to tiktok.

  • @Dylanlemay
    @Dylanlemay Před 3 měsíci +2357

    Me watching this on my phone 😅

    • @masyumar0_0
      @masyumar0_0 Před 3 měsíci +12

      same

    • @simsolyn
      @simsolyn Před 3 měsíci +55

      I was thinking the same, after all CZcams is social media right?

    • @fran1675
      @fran1675 Před 3 měsíci +165

      ​@@simsolynYeah, but i think that CZcams has a way more positive impact on your mental health rather than other apps like tiktok, instagram or whatever.

    • @ivyyaninatu3551
      @ivyyaninatu3551 Před 3 měsíci

      @@fran1675 CZcams has more positive impact if you watch videos instead of shorts, like I never had tik tok but I find myself scrolling none stop CZcams shorts. I really need find a way to block the option of watching them (which I think is impossible).

    • @cola980
      @cola980 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@fran1675, not in any way trying to tell you you're right or wrong, but out of curiosity, what makes you say that?

  • @SaraCollins-vo9vf
    @SaraCollins-vo9vf Před 28 dny +7

    I deleted twitter, tiktok and instagram because people are mean, toxic and I don't know if it's me but I feel forced to do things to be valid in social media, I only kept youtube to distract myself because I have anxiety and I feel so good, it's just like freedom, I don't know if i'm overreacting but I think social media is the reason why people feel so depressed nowadays😊

  • @royalvartist
    @royalvartist Před 2 měsíci +8

    Gonna be honest this was the first video recommended to me this morning as I opened CZcams, and I'm gonna try and take your message to heart. Thanks man ✌️💛

  • @mosslandia
    @mosslandia Před 3 měsíci +820

    I'm heartened to hear this and to see the comments, because you are discovering something important: there is so much more to life than the virtual realities of social media. I'm 70 years old and grew up in the material reality of real social interactions, real things to do, the real streets and woods, making things, doing things. This real world was stolen from your generation and I cheer for you as you reclaim your lives from the virtual reality. Keep making videos, Tadeo! You're doing great!

    • @christineeberth8280
      @christineeberth8280 Před 3 měsíci +17

      Thank you for your comment you really hit me with that, now I finally feel like someone has the same opinion like me. Love send💖

    • @minecraftwithgadget1848
      @minecraftwithgadget1848 Před 2 měsíci +21

      thank you for acknowledging it was stolen from us. I want more parks and libraries and third spaces again

    • @christineeberth8280
      @christineeberth8280 Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@minecraftwithgadget1848 same here. I miss the old times and I want to change some things a little bit, all I can. Sadly the world around us doesn't change. People build more things, mordern, digital. It will be a downfall one day.

  • @StarrSky
    @StarrSky Před 5 měsíci +780

    This this is why I want to delete social media. I want to feel like a kid again

    • @LenovoProGaming
      @LenovoProGaming Před 4 měsíci +39

      then delete it

    • @trashy.cat_.
      @trashy.cat_. Před 4 měsíci +14

      Its not always that easy..​@@LenovoProGaming

    • @ratvolver
      @ratvolver Před 4 měsíci +9

      it really is

    • @StarrSky
      @StarrSky Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@LenovoProGaming I did.. I feel 10x times better

    • @StarrSky
      @StarrSky Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@trashy.cat_. at first it wasn’t.. at times I still deal with fomo

  • @calculusfalconerd
    @calculusfalconerd Před 2 měsíci +2

    I agree with everything you said! Honestly deleting social media last month was a great personal decision for me! It was a distraction, toxic, and a coping dopamine mechanism to stay away from reality. Now I’m reading my Bible more, hanging out with my friends, playing board games, and reading books. I honestly feel like my life is more free and productive now. My life doesn’t feel fake. Thanks for sharing this information! 🙂

  • @syakirasyah6959
    @syakirasyah6959 Před měsícem +2

    Fr i haven't gotten a new phone ever since it was broken and that was since last year. It's been pretty peaceful and kinda life changing without all the scrolling. I feel more relaxed and I'm not too worried about other people's lives. No more comparing. Just me being present in life. The best part about this is that i didn't expect for it to happen and take away all the access of my socials, friends, etc. Because of it i started going back doing all the things i used to love like my hobbies. Its really refreshing. I recommend

  • @Badj4s
    @Badj4s Před 7 měsíci +980

    Did a dopamine detox a few times. No phone, no screen, fasting. Doing absolutely nothing. It's nice and helps with social media usage. Haven't used Instagram and Facebook for years (apart from managing FB ads) My only vice is CZcams shorts, but time to cut that out as well.

    • @Starr_lit
      @Starr_lit Před 4 měsíci +3

      No phone ??? What did you use ?

    • @Badj4s
      @Badj4s Před 4 měsíci

      @@Starr_lit nothing, sit on your ass and think, maybe do some walking

    • @spacebar9733
      @spacebar9733 Před 4 měsíci +44

      @@Starr_lit telepathy.

    • @yo371
      @yo371 Před 4 měsíci +6

      If you want to cut out youtube shorts is the only option deleting the entire app itself or more a matter of willpower?

    • @shaquilleoatmeal7389
      @shaquilleoatmeal7389 Před 4 měsíci

      @@yo371 there are some extensions you can download that remove shorts, but mostly it is just a matter of willpower. you can begin by just closing the shelf on the reccommended page, helps me a lot

  • @laurasangalli7231
    @laurasangalli7231 Před 4 měsíci +1012

    I am a watcher from Brazil. I stopped to use social media a few days before Christmas and you described exactly what I am feeling. It was the best choice in years. I can see the world like a young and happy person again! It's a freedom feeling.

    • @gabrinjos104
      @gabrinjos104 Před 4 měsíci +14

      especially for you man, I know when summer hits in Brazil & if you're still off the socia media it will get WILD!!!

    • @tydendurler9574
      @tydendurler9574 Před 4 měsíci

      Crazy
      How did everyone and their mum become heavy drug addicts in a span of not even 15 years?!?
      🤔

    • @Klo-papier
      @Klo-papier Před 4 měsíci +37

      I Love how brazilians always, at every Chance they got, say That They are From Brazil
      (No Hate, i Just find it incredible funny)

    • @catoroki2039
      @catoroki2039 Před 4 měsíci +19

      @@Klo-papier I love it when people write before the comment where they are from.))
      I’m from Ukraine, for example, although in Germany. You understand how many people in the world know English.
      And you can imagine how he writes it in his country, and you read it in a completely different place

    • @williaminenglish
      @williaminenglish Před 4 měsíci +12

      It's amazing, I'm also from Brazil

  • @raresandrei1603
    @raresandrei1603 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I love when people speak from experience. I’ve been wanting to distance myself from my phone for a while now but couldn’t find the motivation and this video kind of did it for me. I’m writing this more as a promise to myself that from tomorrow on I’ll uninstall my social media apps and try to use my phone as little as possible and we’ll see how it goes! Thank you man! 🙏

    • @aven5630
      @aven5630 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Good luck, you can do it 🙏🏼❤️

  • @Kunal_jain540
    @Kunal_jain540 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Absolutely! Literally iam getting lost & disturbed day by day in this gen, but one day I Stopped watching reels & social media & it impacted I got my school days back.

  • @delighthailman8082
    @delighthailman8082 Před 3 měsíci +345

    Getting off of social media is one of the best things I've ever done! My mind feels quieter and calmer and all of the thoughts in my head are my own. I didn't even think about how many of my thoughts were influenced/regurgitated from strangers online. I've truly never been happier.

    • @peryshko1273
      @peryshko1273 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Oh yeah, exactly my thoughts. I want my thoughts to be truly my own because i noticed how easy it is to manipulate people. Also I genuenly didn't care about content i saw there

    • @Funeral_Mannequin
      @Funeral_Mannequin Před měsícem

      @@TomTom-bh2wf What have you been doing instead now that you've quit, may I ask?

  • @hyunjinsbrat
    @hyunjinsbrat Před 2 měsíci +83

    i didn’t delete my social media, i’ve just spent a lot less time on it. my life feels a lot less anxious now.

  • @reginauhsofiaandes
    @reginauhsofiaandes Před měsícem

    This is so true. I started to delete social media when i realized that i felt more happier off the screen. I also realized how productive or how many things i could do without my phone. As a teen, this was a really eye-opening observation so i just decided to do it. It's honestly so sad when i look around and i see people my age being addicted to their phones. I wish that someday people realize how much there is to life than some glowing screen. It doesn't matter if no one liked your story, or if no one texted you. Its life. Go do something that will actually benefit you and make your brains less overstimulated so you can actually focus on tasks you need to do. I would also like to add that ever since I deleted social media, ive started to get better results in school, appreciating more, connecting with nature, appreciating relationships with my friends, family, and ive even started working out! Please, people, there is more to life than your phones. Life is precious, appreciate it while you can or you'll regret later on.

  • @belovedbeauty
    @belovedbeauty Před 17 dny +1

    This really spoke to me as I’ve been feeling it lately after transitioning out of a really busy season. I feel like even younger generation needs to hear this, get it, and try. I heard there is not real creativity without boredom & since we are never bored we are just filling up space forcing it vs living and being. I want to try this soon.(although I noticed my total screen time equals what yours was after but still could use it)

  • @SamiaNowrin-gc6ur
    @SamiaNowrin-gc6ur Před 2 měsíci +159

    Also put your phone into a drawer and write down your to-do list. Now do the work and once it's completed, use your phone as a reward. In this way, you will be more productive. You will tend to finish the work for faster.
    Bonus tip: In to-do list, write down this: going for a walk for 30min, meditating, drawing, taking a nap, shower etc. Remember to-do list is not only about chores, it can hold anything 😊

  • @FlooKooTV
    @FlooKooTV Před měsícem

    I’ve resorted to mostly an analog way of life nowadays. Been getting in touched with nature for the past 4 years more than ever, switched over to film photography entirely, abandoned pretty much all of my socials, I started reading books a lot more too. If I wanted to contact someone I’d rather write an email or a letter to them to show that there is a transcript and intent that I actually want to communicate with them. I’ve been in a much slower and tactile environment than it makes you really think about the things that we do. Social media is all trends and most of the trends are stale. And those who chase trends after trends are harming their personalities in the long run.

  • @rainyp6
    @rainyp6 Před 16 dny +1

    I deleted Instagram 2 years ago and I never went back. I've never been happier than I am right now in my life. All the time I was on social media, I felt depressed and miserable, trying to "prove" that I "had a life." I spent so much trying to look like I had a life that I didn't spend enough time actually living mine.
    Now I have a lot of friends irl and a couple of really good close friends. I jam with my fellow music majors, cram and study for my assignments, and go out and do stuff with friends. We just feel happier when we're hanging out even if we're just lying down and talking.
    It was so scary initially, but now I'm just like, "what the heck had me so attached to that dang app in the first place?"
    It was so incredibly hard to do. But remember, you're living your life for you. I wish yall good luck. Whether you delete social media or not, remember that you're living your life for yourself, and just being in the moment sometimes makes a big difference.
    I'm studying American Sign Language right now and it takes a lot of concentration/awareness!

    • @romieabel2629
      @romieabel2629 Před 11 dny

      Personally, I want to develop my own personal and official website someday. That way, I will have more control over my original content on my websites, such as Marina Nanami.

  • @miloyall
    @miloyall Před 3 měsíci +247

    For anyone who isn’t willing to give up social media but still struggles with their mental health; I point to exercise and meditation. Words cannot describe how much better I felt when I started working out, and I actually ended up finding out that I really love running and joining my schools track and cross country team.
    I’ve also just recently started meditating (nothing much, just 3-5 minutes every day here and there) and I’ve noticed how much more clear and creative I feel doing tasks afterwards. Start small, you’ll immediately notice the difference.

    • @amethyst1062
      @amethyst1062 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yeah, I want to delete sm but….
      I kinda have to have it to stay in the group
      I thankfully opted out of TikTok by saying I was banned from it from my parents(which was true, but I also hate it due to ppl eating Borax and their feces)
      Yeahhh, I hate life

    • @highestpeeqs9532
      @highestpeeqs9532 Před 3 měsíci

      Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!!!!!! !! !

    • @donkeyexpresss
      @donkeyexpresss Před 3 měsíci +1

      TRACK AND XC ON TOPPP

    • @hildamariaviljamaa
      @hildamariaviljamaa Před 3 měsíci

      I second this so hard! The same two things changed my life. ESPECIALLY meditation :)

    • @miloyall
      @miloyall Před 2 měsíci

      @@donkeyexpresss true 😂😂

  • @soupplanet909
    @soupplanet909 Před 4 měsíci +519

    So glad I quit social media back in 2020. Social media is information overload. My headspace feels much more free to wander and imagine when its not packed with information about other people's lives. Social media can make you feel like you're being "let in" on the every day details of other people's lives, but often it is only a highlight reel that leads to jealousy and miscommunication. Connection and learning about my friend's lives is most satisfying and fruitful when its in person.

    • @st4vr331
      @st4vr331 Před 4 měsíci +15

      youtube is also a social media

    • @moisttowelette4668
      @moisttowelette4668 Před 4 měsíci +16

      For like youtube is the most addicting app for me

    • @lovelylexa
      @lovelylexa Před 4 měsíci

      ⁠@@moisttowelette4668i agree it’s so much information in one app

    • @dearreader9739
      @dearreader9739 Před 3 měsíci +3

      You did not quit social media. CZcams is social media. You are here. So ...

    • @LuznoLindo
      @LuznoLindo Před měsícem +1

      I am glad to see you chose to ignore the three users who "corrected" you. They aren't wrong, CZcams still social media, but the fact that's all they pointed out shows how little they really cared for your words.

  • @oumaros
    @oumaros Před měsícem

    PERFECT VIDEO! Thank you a million times! I’m 23 and really felt the addiction the past 2 months I REALLY need a reset right now!

  • @shriyanshijaiswal5188
    @shriyanshijaiswal5188 Před měsícem +1

    I did this for a few days during my breakup phase and I found myself and Found out that no one is ours here: we are all alone here, so love loneliness and do not make a habit of anything that is not you: you are the best.

  • @druvingame
    @druvingame Před 4 měsíci +291

    Best Start :-
    Deleting the social media. ❎
    Understanding the Damage of social media. ✅

  • @xmcerer
    @xmcerer Před 2 měsíci +262

    I deleted TikTok a few days ago and man, when I tell you it changed me, it really did. In just three days I feel like a more productive and happier person. Instead of doomscrolling and watching all the horrible things happening in the world that you can’t change, you focus on your own world and you just need to get away from all that bad news.
    For example, I’m pro-Palestine and so many videos in my feed were about the bad things happening there, and it just came to a point that it was hurting me more than helping, as I couldn’t do anything to change the situation and it was just making me feel depressed.
    Deleting TikTok and twitter, you’re right it did make me feel like a kid again. I go outside more, I read more, I feel like I’m building an actual life for myself instead of watching other people live their lives and wishing that I was them.
    I went cold turkey and i have honestly never felt better, it might be the best thing that’s happened to me. If I hadn’t deleted it then who knows, right? It’s good that I’m breaking the habit early, as I’m fortunately still a teenager and have so much of my life left, so I’m lucky I haven’t wasted it yet.

    • @anonymouslyadweeb7265
      @anonymouslyadweeb7265 Před 2 měsíci +16

      I feel the same way. Watching people being hurt everyday and not being able to do anything, but it overwhelms your feed. It just wasn’t healthy

    • @Elevenhopperjane
      @Elevenhopperjane Před 2 měsíci +3

      Same I deleted TikTok a month ago I feel better

    • @wispyfae
      @wispyfae Před 2 měsíci +17

      To be honest I was very hesitant on deleting social media for this very reason because it felt like if I did then I’d be ignoring all of those people that have to suffer. But at the same time I know that there’s little to nothing I can do about it and I’d only be harming myself by continuing to consume that kind of content. I didn’t realize how negatively social media has been affecting me until now.

  • @ebruozyurek5266
    @ebruozyurek5266 Před měsícem

    You make a vital & honest presence not overwhelming at all or acting up in any way. Nice energy & great motivation 👍🏻👏🏻

  • @lafandedadou491
    @lafandedadou491 Před 4 měsíci +269

    This is really true ! But I think we can eliminate something else of our lifes too: watching time too often. No, seriously. When I was a child, I didn't have this consciousness of time than now. At this age, I didn't have the need to know what time is it, I just didn't care. The more we grow, the more we have obligations and the more we watch what time is it, but I surprise me to do it the weekend or at moments where I have nothing urgent to do. Thinking constantly to time is stressful for me, and prevent me to be fully lost in the things I love to do. Because when I watch time, I think on what I have to do in few hours, or tomorrow. So I think that, when we don't really have urgent things to do, we can delete watches, clocks, in addition to screens.

    • @divyanshusaroha3554
      @divyanshusaroha3554 Před 4 měsíci +5

      wow man this is something I will surely do

    • @LibraryofAcousticMagic3240
      @LibraryofAcousticMagic3240 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I got rid of my old wallclock cause I didn't like the design anymore and it wasn't sticking to the wall all that well anymore. But I very rarely miss having a clock in my bedroom. I need to know the time when watching a series or youtube to keep track of my screen time - but my computer has that. And when i really need to know I can always nudge my phone to show me the time on the lock screen. Easy and out of sight when not needed.

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I can’t exactly delete my clocks. And it’s not because I care what time it is 24/7, I just have a huge clock collection that I love to death. 😁
      Honestly, waiting for a chime clock to sound on the hour will always be the highlight of my childhood.
      So if I wanna feel like a kid again, I guess I’ll do that, run in when my Seiko goes off. 😁
      (And my other chimers, it gets pretty chaotic on the hour. 😁)
      Little bit joking, but I can’t get rid of my clocks for that reason. 😁

  • @wheresheidy
    @wheresheidy Před 4 měsíci +138

    I've been off Instagram and Tik Tok for 4 months, been visiting the botanical garden more often, playing board games, watching movies and its to true... I feel like a kid again and its brought so much joy to my life! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @PrincecyPlays
    @PrincecyPlays Před měsícem

    I’ve been on and off social media for years but this recent delete was the best feeling ever I finally feel like it was a permanent choice this time and I have found so much joy in printing physical photos of my loved ones

  • @fabulousvic7041
    @fabulousvic7041 Před 24 dny

    ugh, i really felt this message!! i delete my socials every now and then but I am starting to think about doing it for real next time. I can't pinpoint the reason why I go back and forth with it but the one thing I am sure of is that deleting social media boosted my productivity not so much in the academic aspect but on a more individual/spiritual level so that is great

  • @cordelilah
    @cordelilah Před 4 měsíci +149

    Maybe the future is people revert to flip phones or even just house phones bc they realize how counter-productive it can be to possess so much so easily. I hope that is our future, where human connections are established wholesomely and valued higher than they are now. Great vid, short and to the point for those who have lost their attention span from doom scrolling (aka me)

    • @Moonshine449
      @Moonshine449 Před 3 měsíci +6

      That’s a great idea. After my phone contract is up I will definitely buy a flip phone

    • @imustaway
      @imustaway Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@Moonshine449 Same

  • @doopsyquirk
    @doopsyquirk Před 2 měsíci +117

    Man that is so true. I do not usually comment but yeah youtube is far far far more positive and good than other social media platforms. I liked it how you shared your experience and yeah if I put my phone down I will become a better person. I did this for a week and yeah i could realise that.
    if anyone reads this, all i wanna say is, pls do not waste your presious time LITERALLY indulging into things which serve you nothing!

    • @aven5630
      @aven5630 Před 2 měsíci

      Hope you're doing well, thanks for your comment, I'm trying to be a normal teenager again without being addicted to social media and internet 😥🙏🏼
      Cheers from 🇵🇹🇵🇹

    • @IksanHaris
      @IksanHaris Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yeah but I hate short on youtube it seems like tiktok or reels

    • @connythebean
      @connythebean Před měsícem +1

      ​@IksanHaris exactly, I've never had tiktok or insta but youtube shorts is just as bad in terms of addiction, and you can't disable shorts without having to get rid of youtube entirely which means no more long form videos either

    • @BVBsniper
      @BVBsniper Před měsícem

      ​@@connythebeanPersonally I deleted CZcams from my phone so now I'm only able to watch vids on TV or on my tablet on the evening. Now I finally can take a piss without opening CZcams 😂

    • @osmoes5674
      @osmoes5674 Před měsícem

      ty for this bro

  • @tanishkadas1511
    @tanishkadas1511 Před měsícem +2

    I deleted my wp and insta about 2 days ago and I realized that I have a lot of free time and I could be productive in this free time and also I feel so relieved and peaceful. I do meditation very often and also I can't see the unrealistic social media standards anymore which I used to compare myself with others and now things just changed a lot and I'm happy now and carefree. Carefree of that no one will judge me and even I won't compare myself. It's a great step and the more you start avoiding your phone, the more productive and happy you'd be. ✨

  • @kelsielichtenberger7664

    I deleted my social media about 2 weeks ago. I’m actually shocked at the difference it’s made in my life. I’m more productive, more creative, happier, sleeping better, spending more time outside in nature, reading, have a longer attention span, been calling friends and family members just to say hi. And a major thing I’ve realize is that it is GOOD to be BORED !! That’s when your brain can reset from overstimulation, and you will come up with other ways to entertain yourself. I don’t plan on redownloading the apps any time soon. I think everyone should at least try it once.

  • @UnexpectedAmy
    @UnexpectedAmy Před 4 měsíci +146

    Thanks for the reminder! It really is like smoking, I quit for months, feel great, then it just takes a certain trigger and I'm scrolling in the fog again...
    Lets all keep trying our best!

  • @RR98guy
    @RR98guy Před 5 měsíci +152

    Best thing I ever did was get rid of ALL social media and the smartphone back in 2016. Wasn't easy at first but now I do not miss it at all and I enjoy doing other things so much more like being outside when the weather is good and spending time with my dogs. I am also limiting myself to a maximum of 1 hour per day of internet use at my desktop..

    • @dearreader9739
      @dearreader9739 Před 3 měsíci +5

      You did not quit social media. CZcams is social media. You are here. So ...

  • @amandaelle_
    @amandaelle_ Před 18 dny +1

    I'm about 2 weeks into this social media free freedom and I am never going back. It is the best thing in literally all aspects of life.

  • @michellemartinkom.
    @michellemartinkom. Před měsícem

    man everything you said is so real like i been doing this for like eight months now where i only use my phone on the weekends and like only for school work, deleted instagram and all that and never downloaded it until like a big break comes as in summer or christmas break but other than that? im literally free. i DO get so much work done and like i read more than i used to. i love doing it bro people think im crazy to do that and how i survive and all i can say is like try it out for yourself. trust.

  • @RosannaLee-vn6jc
    @RosannaLee-vn6jc Před 4 měsíci +97

    Haven’t used for 3 years and it taught me one of the most precious lessons ever. I recently reopened my social media and I have developed complete self control over my consumption of social media - i mainly just use it on weekends. Heres what i learnt: first, you don’t miss out. By spending less time on shallow relationships, in return u realise u build much deeper relationships with a few close friends who maintain the relationships through intentional conversations. Second, you have clearer head and saved a lot of time that you can focus better on your goals and things that truly matter to you.

    • @Listerinepeddler
      @Listerinepeddler Před 4 měsíci +1

      Need this to happen to me.... Happy for you...
      My self control is really poor

  • @sofiaassecondi8635
    @sofiaassecondi8635 Před 4 měsíci +123

    I love this video. I deleted all social media as a New Year’s resolution when I was like 14, and honestly it was one of the best choices I ever made. I’m such a big advocate for leaving that addictive brain rot, it changed my life and I feel like I’m really enjoying my teens like no one around me because it feels more like a prolonged child hood, because of all the curiousity and wonder at the little things you feel constantly

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Exactly! Hold onto your childlike wonder, life is so much better with it.

    • @Apella98
      @Apella98 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Making a decision like this in the time we live in and especially being a teen is a big brave one, congratulations!

    • @dixie.normus2k
      @dixie.normus2k Před 3 měsíci +5

      fr!! I'm 15 and I deleted all social media and it actually got me out of depression

    • @dearreader9739
      @dearreader9739 Před 3 měsíci +1

      You did not quit social media. CZcams is social media. You are here. So ...

    • @ambo9569
      @ambo9569 Před 3 měsíci +2

      That’s amazing. Wish I had ur wisdom at 14!

  • @SoniyaChoudhary9205
    @SoniyaChoudhary9205 Před měsícem +1

    Yes, it's all worth it. Better sleep, better presence of mind, and obviously better vibes. Yes, it's true that in starting, you will face a weird type of feeling, anxiety etc. for some days but just continue, in some days you will feel much better.❤✨

  • @satansouls-
    @satansouls- Před 15 dny +1

    Here i was feeling dumb that instagram had such a grip over my self-esteem, you made me realize that it's just a toxic app and that it doesnt really matter after all

  • @kutlinho
    @kutlinho Před 4 měsíci +35

    Social media makes you feel like "Everybody having beatiful life, why I'm stuck here?" and this initiates depression in human brain. Very nice content, loved that Gala shirt in 1:25 ❤ greetings from Turkey

  • @vincentmichael7979
    @vincentmichael7979 Před 3 měsíci +108

    I’m 28 and I haven’t been on social media for 9 years. The feeling of just opting out of something so negative is just great. Being on the outside looking in at my brothers and friends makes me kind of sad for them. However I DO have to have them explain a joke sometimes because I’m out of the loop

  • @davidkhachaturov4880
    @davidkhachaturov4880 Před 26 dny +2

    thanks mate, i appreciate that you made this video, so i’m gonna delete every social media and then comment here a year later and see what will
    happen)

  • @skinnylegend5651
    @skinnylegend5651 Před 17 dny +1

    This completely just changed me. Thank you

  • @peppek8631
    @peppek8631 Před 3 měsíci +24

    Bro your skin is majestic. Thanks for inspiration to detox from social media having 2 friends is so relatable

  • @user-sw5po4fh5b
    @user-sw5po4fh5b Před 3 měsíci +20

    This video resonated with me so much. I *always* tell people I want life to be like when we were younger, we would call each other to hangout, we wouldn’t get upset if someone didn’t talk to us, (ex.texting, people get so upset about being left on delivered but what if someone was just busy? Getting too attached too fast), there was never ill feelings if you disappeared and then reappear, it would just be like “oh hey! Long time no see what’ve you been up to? Where did you go??!” But now it’s all like “oh you ghosted us, you left us hanging etc”
    I loved your video so much because 1. You went straight to the point 2. You didn’t add anything extra like other CZcamsrs 3. Super short video and super informative in just 5 MINUTES?!? wow
    This was the push I needed, you’re so right about scrolling being a coping mechanism, I’ve deleted all social media but I still see myself trying to find any website or something to scroll on. I’ll try what you did and I’ll update my comment in maybe 6 months!!

  • @gaeuwl2266
    @gaeuwl2266 Před měsícem +1

    I did this one year ago, i was in the last grade of highschool so the two months befor finals i gave my phone to my mom and told her to give it back when i finish finals, i spent the two months without phone studying 16hur a day so i was busy to do other things but..even my study was different without phone i be more focusing and understand things way faster, i had a great organizing for my time per day and i could finish many things in one day that i used to finish in a week with phone being near me, i became smarter and felt that one week is enough to learn a whole new different language! Yall im telling u that i almost became intelligent lol, i wanted to stay like this after taking my phone but couldn't tho, i took my phone after two months and became addicted again really quickly😕 but ik that i can live without it and it will be so cool to do it again but in the holiday so i can do more than study!
    ❣️Quick note since u read my journey i took my finals and graduated with 93% avg and now im a pharmacy student🫶🏻

  • @SantiagoDiaz-lu9cc
    @SantiagoDiaz-lu9cc Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm starting tomorrow dude, i found this video on the right time at the right moment, i feel like horrible with my self bc mostly my day time is spend on my phone. Thanks for sharing this information

  • @easoo_
    @easoo_ Před 2 měsíci +38

    I recently turned 20 and while I still have a lot of adulthood left to experience, it already feels like so much has changed since I was a teenager. I don’t get joy out of being on my phone anymore, I miss having hobbies and feeling like I’m enjoying the present. Social media is just this toxic, energy draining presence in my life and videos like this are what keep me going with my goal to essentially quit my phone. Even when I don’t have energy for anything else but mindless scrolling, I’m trying to remind myself that the less I’m on it the closer I’ll get to that childlike wonder that I thought I lost

  • @sivyh
    @sivyh Před 4 měsíci +110

    You would be amazed how much tasks, especially creative tasks, may be done without phone, computer or digital platforms at all. That's what I've been exploring and posting about lately, and there are certainly things to develop.
    Thanks for your video. Also, being alone with own thoughts is often sooo useful!

    • @VaporChad.
      @VaporChad. Před 4 měsíci +5

      You would me amazed how much you CAN be done with a phone and computer. Literaly thanks to it I was able to learn and make a living with music.

    • @sivyh
      @sivyh Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@VaporChad. i agree, and digital tech is one of the greatest inventions for sure.i believe that in XXI century, humans will find balance between digital and physical technologies

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@VaporChad. same here! Except to get the best ideas I just have to not worry and yes, stay off my phone and alone with my thoughts (or out and about with my thoughts. That helps too.)

    • @DoofenSpyroDragon16
      @DoofenSpyroDragon16 Před 4 měsíci

      @@sivyh I feel like I have a pretty healthy balance, I didn’t start CZcams til about middle school and I only used my iPod to make voice memos, play games and write little stories in notes. Even that got addicting I’ll admit. But as a kid I wasn’t allowed on the internet, and now I’m thankful for that because now I know how to manage my time on the platform more. (Better than most people I know, who feel like they can’t put it down for even a second. It’s sad.

  • @cheryrj8305
    @cheryrj8305 Před 2 měsíci +3

    i am really tired of social media , i agree with u it really consumes you , your time , emotions and mental health . i am going to try getting rid of it also

  • @extrasmalldoll654
    @extrasmalldoll654 Před 14 dny +1

    I'm a 48 year old mom, and I just deleted all my social media apps today. I'm spending way too much time on them, mindlessly scrolling and it feels lame.

  • @ClarityEmerald
    @ClarityEmerald Před 3 měsíci +42

    To be genuinely Present in our day to day is a big blessing. Our phones are just distraction from the present and everyone feels comfortable living in distraction. But little to we know, it’s even more comfortable to feel connected by being present

  • @JBBEST
    @JBBEST Před 2 měsíci +9

    Just caught myself mindlessly scrolling through comments. 5 minutes gone. Time to go to sleep.

  • @mxstoney67
    @mxstoney67 Před měsícem

    You've come a long way with your subscribers man! thanks, i think i needed this.

  • @jhanvee007
    @jhanvee007 Před měsícem

    You are so relatable Tadeo! And I don’t say that just because you are cute, you are actually relatable.

  • @asiatsar780
    @asiatsar780 Před 3 měsíci +64

    Hey! I’ve been on and off social media for a while now, but somehow it kept coming back because of excuses like “ not missing out “
    or “ i look good so I shound re-download TikTok to film myself “, etc.. But honestly I feel like it’s just so mindless and I need to rediscover the peace and joy in my life! So I have decided I’m gonna quit social media for good so that I can focus better on the meaningful things 🙂 Thank you so much for this videos that motivated me to do this! I’ll update u guys on my progress 💕

  • @levinstudying
    @levinstudying Před 3 měsíci +27

    ive deleted social media back in 2021. Ngl I've never felt more empty, just isolating myself and trying to do productive things even when i dont feel like it. But i did try to went back on ig and ive never felt more depressed than ever. Thats when i tell myself to wonder around in the nature and spend time reflecting on myself rather getting back on the social media phase where mostly were fake.

    • @auralla
      @auralla Před 2 měsíci

      @@JophielThesame… awful for attention span