As a former aau coach, I saw this behavior all the time! I picked kids who had good parents!! Only had 1 incident in 4 years, unfortunately I had to let a talented and respectful young man go from the team.
Have to say this is mostly American behaviour/problem. In Europe for example it's different. Of course you see toxic parents there too but as soon as young players are talented they get the possibility to play with grown man which humbles them very quickly despite of their talent. So sometimes 16 year olds playing 30+ yrs old and as you know you can't do all that stuff on grown men and most of these kids definetly wouldn't do.
No more class in basketball just a crazed bunch of kids, coaches and parents all throwing tantrums. Mad respect to all the refs giving their time and heart to such a great game.
It existed back then too, it's just we didn't have a 4k video recording the size of our hand to record and put it on the internet for the world to see through the internet, couple that with there being billions more people on the planet which introduces even more kids, and more interactions. Relax, this shit has always existed, it's just you didn't notice it because back then you had to be there to witness it as opposed to seeing 100's of videos of it with the few clicks of a button on CZcams. It gives the illusion that it's much more frequent than in the old days, but it's really not.
This should embarrass every coach, parent, fan, etc., that encouraged/rewarded this behavior. This includes college and NBA players. No wonder there is a shortage of refs. Why would someone put up with this for $25 per game (or whatever it is)?
The first one there’s nothing wrong with what the coach did!! He’s teaching him a lesson and parenting! There’s no cursing or yelling!! That big needs to calm it down
Thats actually not true at all. If that coach has an issue, he goes to that players coach to explain what happened and then more on. You don't go to the player. Clearly his muscles are over compensating for his lack of morals. He seems like a very angry individual who wants people to bow down to him.
Only in sports that don’t display open violence. It is rarer in violent sports because acting like a jerk has for direct consequence to be physically treated as one. So there is usually more respect for the refs like say in rugby, MMA, etc. In basketball contact is prohibited most of the time so you can’t meet violence with the same degree of violence which in turn corrupts the leveling field of said violence. Soccer is another sport in which people exhibit the worst behavioral patterns and most of the time that comes directly from the fact that violence is not permitted in the game even if someone exerts some on you. Comes now the sentiment of injustice and you get players, parents and fans to cross multiple lines very quick.
The possibility to T up Lebron and tell him that he isn’t in the NBA anymore, he can’t treat refs like that in the real world would just be too tempting.
Once my friend was in a aau game and he passed the ball to the ref without looking and the ref turned his back and didn’t see the ball which ended up hitting him in the back (the pass wasn’t hard or anything) instead of giving him a t or ignoring it this grown man picks the ball up and throws it as hard as he can at him and hits him in the leg his dad came onto the court yelling at the ref the ref got ejected and was soon fired
If i was the coach or one of the coaching staff, I’d teach the young kids to play calmly without using a hyped up “adrenaline beast mode” cause you could actually know the talent of each individual without using that trick. For Example, Tim Duncan, after he posterized an opponent, he would just calmly bow his head back towards the defensive side
I played travel baseball and had noticed it seemed to have calmed down but now I know where it moved to. I used to get this at my baseball games… parents throwing ice and m&ms and cussing at me while trying to catch a flyball and I would give it back to them when I would full slide and rob a base hit… good times.
My daughters have been playing U12 in Japan for 5 years now. The level of play here is pretty decent, but the action never gets that heated here. I can understand players losing control sometimes, but some of those parents... 😅
In my day, this was considered unsportsmanlike behavior, and the kid would have been ejected from the game, and the coach would have kicked you off the team. Not to mention, your parents would have kicked your butt when you got home. Everyone in those gymnasiums should be ashamed of themselves. Thank you, NBA, and thank you, parents, for setting such a fine example.
Thanks for your comment i was wondering if it was a sign of the time or if it was just not my culture. Seing those kids having 0 ability to control there emotions ... and then you see their parents and understand why. If a time machine could bring their grand parents to see that, my guess would be a concerto of big old slap in the face
0:52 #1 literally didn't know he missed the opposing coach, in the beginning his teammates started to shake his hand as if the line was over, so I'm sure he thought the line was over, good kid, great coach, good moment caught on film, for both sides to learn from.
I understand when competition gets heated things can happen but they should teach kids more discipline like no stare downs or unnecessary roughhousing. It’s unbelievable how these kids play dirty.
The one-armed kid was a great player. The red head that tapped the other kid on the head would have been KTFO in a lot of places. The last ref is a disgrace. Calls a held ball on an obvious holding foul on defense. Gives the "F you" signal for the two techs, which were way too close together and should always be called by two different refs. Then threatens to throw the fans out. Dude needs to retire.
Be careful parents. Control your temper. Every year in America we average one referee getting killed because someone does not like the call he made or didn’t make. It’s not worth spending the rest of your life in jail.
11:28 "We are not really sure what this kid is crying about." About 20 seconds earlier at 11:05, he was put in a headlock by #34. Courtside Films should watch the clips before writing comments like that.
Would’ve had a field day recording the rec game we had last week. Trash talking throughout the whole game at us and the refs as well as two getting ejected at the end. Embarrassing stuff all round!
Good sportsmanship is about competing and humility. The arrogance in today's sports and increasing in youth sports is a direct parallel to the decay of morality in America.
If the ref has to tell the coach to stop his 8 year old players from shit talking, then hes a bad coach. Anyone talking trash before high school ball needs to sit his ass on the bench.
i believe #34 @2:57 timestamp was banned from basketball for life everywhere in the world.. but subsequently received several offers from WWE scholarship program
In my opinion of when players family or friends or that player comes onto the court to confront a ref or player should have to forfeit the game and not allowed back into the game and if it’s done more than once that player should not be allowed back at all! If something isn’t done about the violence in sports, something serious is gonna happen.
Parents bringing their issues to the game and gave the ref a very hard time. Ref, please it don't hurt to stop the game and talk to those kids. The basketball court is not a warfield. Showcase your talents and be a sportsman. All parents are there for their children only. But you, the Ref, all kids are within your scope. So stay focus and do your job.
I reffed one game that was after mine and thats because nobody wanted to ref. Bruh i wont ever ref ever again lol ive always respected refs. Ive always kept my cool beceause i understand you cant see everything but high school i played the 5 and i played big. I understood i would get hit alot and nothing called i just played through it but man sometimes youd hear the fouls and nothing. I showed a ref my busted lip and nothing. My teammates will tell you i should've went to line 15 times a game. Id leave with scratch marks, bruises the whole nine but it definitely made me even more tougher when i went to the next level
As a coach multiple players from the opposing team chose not to shake my hand, it’s not my place to hold them accountable but their coach or parent. My players would never do that.
Watching that kid with one arm is pretty impressive. Imagine if he had two handles like that!!!
Most definitely agree 100%.
When I first saw him dunk I felt so bad for anyone guarding him fr fr he definitely makin it to the league
He wouldnt
@@flyguyry1 hater ur mad lmao
it's easier to run with one hand, i think he has advantage
As a former aau coach, I saw this behavior all the time! I picked kids who had good parents!! Only had 1 incident in 4 years, unfortunately I had to let a talented and respectful young man go from the team.
Good on you coach!
Have to say this is mostly American behaviour/problem. In Europe for example it's different. Of course you see toxic parents there too but as soon as young players are talented they get the possibility to play with grown man which humbles them very quickly despite of their talent. So sometimes 16 year olds playing 30+ yrs old and as you know you can't do all that stuff on grown men and most of these kids definetly wouldn't do.
you the reason we cant see real and obvious talent.
@@fab9727 I don't think its a cultural thing. Basketball is just a much higher octane and competetive sport than anything you guys play over in europe
I bet you lose a lot lol
The two lil guys we’re bout to duke it out. Best part hands down. 😂😂😂😂
Yeah! The belly bump??😂
@@evanabbott2737 I know right. Hit him with the chest bump! Where the hell he learn that shit from?? 😂😂😂😂
they were cute, but definitely needs some discipline.
your comment doesn't make sense
4:15 is the cutest fight I've ever seen
No more class in basketball just a crazed bunch of kids, coaches and parents all throwing tantrums. Mad respect to all the refs giving their time and heart to such a great game.
It existed back then too, it's just we didn't have a 4k video recording the size of our hand to record and put it on the internet for the world to see through the internet, couple that with there being billions more people on the planet which introduces even more kids, and more interactions.
Relax, this shit has always existed, it's just you didn't notice it because back then you had to be there to witness it as opposed to seeing 100's of videos of it with the few clicks of a button on CZcams.
It gives the illusion that it's much more frequent than in the old days, but it's really not.
You can tell a lot of these boys grew up without fathers.
your sentence doesn't make sense
@@TheAliisawesome
yeah all usa idiot like this
@@airkuna I'm talking about how emotional men typically come from a single parent household, mother typically.
This should embarrass every coach, parent, fan, etc., that encouraged/rewarded this behavior. This includes college and NBA players. No wonder there is a shortage of refs. Why would someone put up with this for $25 per game (or whatever it is)?
$16 for us
@@sweatysmack9574 That's absolute insanity. I would think $100/game should be the minimum.
@@OriginalFortniteCombosI thought it was volunteer work tbh
you get to control who wins, take it or leave it
why @@The_Cartoon_Guy_Jim_Graves
The first one there’s nothing wrong with what the coach did!! He’s teaching him a lesson and parenting! There’s no cursing or yelling!! That big needs to calm it down
i was thinking the same thing, he wasnt saying it as he was going to beat his ass, more as a show respect to your opponents regardless the outcome
Parents ain't teach em respect clearly
He'd be asleep talking to my kid like that for not touching his hand in some after game ceremony
@@davidpoole5595 and that is literally why the coach is having to do what hes doing, cause you think your kid did nothing wrong
Thats actually not true at all. If that coach has an issue, he goes to that players coach to explain what happened and then more on. You don't go to the player. Clearly his muscles are over compensating for his lack of morals. He seems like a very angry individual who wants people to bow down to him.
As a basketball player myself my games have never got this heated
ye right xD
They aren’t suppose to too many people just get in their feelings
Fr
tbh with u. i had a aau tournament in Maryland and things got heated with my team and with another team.
@@laylaj7773 I had a game yesterday I had to punch this kid he kept touching me but I had 51 points
The ref had nothing to worry about with Nate 🤣🤣🤣
A sign of the times. Sportsmanship has taken a backseat in sports just like we've seen civility and character take a backseat in society.
Get off the internet
Only in sports that don’t display open violence. It is rarer in violent sports because acting like a jerk has for direct consequence to be physically treated as one. So there is usually more respect for the refs like say in rugby, MMA, etc.
In basketball contact is prohibited most of the time so you can’t meet violence with the same degree of violence which in turn corrupts the leveling field of said violence. Soccer is another sport in which people exhibit the worst behavioral patterns and most of the time that comes directly from the fact that violence is not permitted in the game even if someone exerts some on you. Comes now the sentiment of injustice and you get players, parents and fans to cross multiple lines very quick.
This dude clearly has not seen the Pistons in the 90s.
7:28 ,,#8 with the sneaky slap😂😂😭
😂😂
The last ref is exactly the type of refs we need in the NBA 💯
There's no way in hell that I would ever be a Referee in youth Basketball 😂😂
The possibility to T up Lebron and tell him that he isn’t in the NBA anymore, he can’t treat refs like that in the real world would just be too tempting.
Once my friend was in a aau game and he passed the ball to the ref without looking and the ref turned his back and didn’t see the ball which ended up hitting him in the back (the pass wasn’t hard or anything) instead of giving him a t or ignoring it this grown man picks the ball up and throws it as hard as he can at him and hits him in the leg his dad came onto the court yelling at the ref the ref got ejected and was soon fired
Wtf
Crazy
4:30 the way he dug his head into him 😂😂
Think about all of the refs have to go through. They don't get paid enough
If i was the coach or one of the coaching staff, I’d teach the young kids to play calmly without using a hyped up “adrenaline beast mode” cause you could actually know the talent of each individual without using that trick.
For Example, Tim Duncan, after he posterized an opponent, he would just calmly bow his head back towards the defensive side
I played travel baseball and had noticed it seemed to have calmed down but now I know where it moved to. I used to get this at my baseball games… parents throwing ice and m&ms and cussing at me while trying to catch a flyball and I would give it back to them when I would full slide and rob a base hit… good times.
My daughters have been playing U12 in Japan for 5 years now. The level of play here is pretty decent, but the action never gets that heated here. I can understand players losing control sometimes, but some of those parents... 😅
This video was real entertaining haha 👌🏼👌🏼
What a great generation of kids we’re raising. It’s not enough to win, you just gotta make sure the other side knows you be the top dawg!
yeah it's sad you're raising your kids like this..they'll all be idiot disrespectful people growing up
Them: "I'm not even talking to you."
Me: "Now you ain't watching me either, cuz ya gotta go. BYE!"
In my day, this was considered unsportsmanlike behavior, and the kid would have been ejected from the game, and the coach would have kicked you off the team.
Not to mention, your parents would have kicked your butt when you got home.
Everyone in those gymnasiums should be ashamed of themselves.
Thank you, NBA, and thank you, parents, for setting such a fine example.
Thanks for your comment i was wondering if it was a sign of the time or if it was just not my culture.
Seing those kids having 0 ability to control there emotions ... and then you see their parents and understand why. If a time machine could bring their grand parents to see that, my guess would be a concerto of big old slap in the face
Bro my way games beef never got like this
I always love that clip of meechie because he still on tiktok milks that clip and who in the nba now and who plays out they local rec😭😭😭
Pushed her into a brick wall after getting ripped💀
💀
0:52 #1 literally didn't know he missed the opposing coach, in the beginning his teammates started to shake his hand as if the line was over, so I'm sure he thought the line was over, good kid, great coach, good moment caught on film, for both sides to learn from.
The kid with one arm.. smashing that 3 on 1 trap.. Man, impressive.
4:16 Future Draymond!!! 😂
i swear i’ve seen almost of these vids in all your other vids
This IS What Our Sad World of SPORTS Has Come To! So Who "EXACTLY & SPECIFICALLY" Should We BLAME For This Behavior???
coach in the first clip a goat
I understand when competition gets heated things can happen but they should teach kids more discipline like no stare downs or unnecessary roughhousing. It’s unbelievable how these kids play dirty.
Glad to see the coaches and parents setting such a good example.
No way it’s called being dunked on if ur behind the guy
Lol because some folks know they may never get that chance again so they will take what they can get but we know what a poster dunk is
Its not 🤣he just cant dunk on him normally so hes hyping that bullshit up
The one-armed kid was a great player. The red head that tapped the other kid on the head would have been KTFO in a lot of places. The last ref is a disgrace. Calls a held ball on an obvious holding foul on defense. Gives the "F you" signal for the two techs, which were way too close together and should always be called by two different refs. Then threatens to throw the fans out. Dude needs to retire.
The look that the little girl gives at 1:47 is meme worthy. 🤣
"Youth basketball" Latin translation: thug life.
Wait really..?
In basketball, u respect ur opponent by disrespecting them.. 😂😂
And the theme...
ALL YANKS 😮😂😂😂😂
Enough said 😂😂😂😂
those kids man, getting out of control, yelling at the ref like its a right or something.
I retired from refereeing AAU games when 2 parents followed me to my car😳
Chill… I had all of this in any games i played 😂😂
5:52 - the backstory with these two is they're actually great friends and he used to work on her game with her
If my son or daughter acted like any of these kids,i would go down to the court on a time or end of the quarter or half,and pull them out of the game.
I was playing at the Eli ellis tournament and it was packed over there 😂 I wasn't able to watch the game tho bc I had my game 😒
Triple lolz at the little kid behind Mini Zion hyping him up, after his shot 5:26
respect is earned
I saw the 'this and-1 finish and my dyslexia said 'this 1--hand' finish. No kidding.
Refs be the calmest
Fr
6:21 thats not a foul thats an assault
A lot of Technicals needed in these games.
Be careful parents. Control your temper. Every year in America we average one referee getting killed because someone does not like the call he made or didn’t make. It’s not worth spending the rest of your life in jail.
11:28 "We are not really sure what this kid is crying about."
About 20 seconds earlier at 11:05, he was put in a headlock by #34.
Courtside Films should watch the clips before writing comments like that.
Bronny fouled and pushed like his dad, that's a foul
These coaches and parents are terrible role models for these kids. It's no wonder they pick up such disrespectful behavior.
Love the Asian Mom getting in there lol.
Nelson didn’t even get dunked on he’s to short, and idk why the guy who did “dunk on him” was talking all that to a younger kid
Fr
8:45 crazy squence and when Hansel cooked the team in white a second time shiiiiit.
Would’ve had a field day recording the rec game we had last week. Trash talking throughout the whole game at us and the refs as well as two getting ejected at the end. Embarrassing stuff all round!
4:28 not the KG head butt XD
the kid with one arm,just amazing!
Jim Abbot would be proud
Mr Jefferson 😂 on lamelo
Good sportsmanship is about competing and humility. The arrogance in today's sports and increasing in youth sports is a direct parallel to the decay of morality in America.
Talking shit all game, and then got REAL quiet when the coach came up to him.
As a former ref id love it if melo said some shit. I’d have come right back with the Shanghai sharks are looking for a sixth man line.
LEbron is the most winer in the NBA and carries it to his son's games. A flopper, fouler and winer.
If the ref has to tell the coach to stop his 8 year old players from shit talking, then hes a bad coach. Anyone talking trash before high school ball needs to sit his ass on the bench.
i believe #34 @2:57 timestamp was banned from basketball for life everywhere in the world.. but subsequently received several offers from WWE scholarship program
These NBA dudes are total karens once they get in the bleachers.
the korean dude took up for his lady! i respect that! @1:45
The one at 6:37, how can the Ref not call that? Her neck could have got broken like that.
Thought that was Shaq in the thumbnail I'm like oh someone bout to dealt with.
Gone are the days of coaches teaching respect, sportsmanship, and humility. Sad.
The coach in the 1st clip was the only one hate to see it
Personally if I see Nate Robinson heckling a ref I either join in, or remind him of the time he got Knocked out by Jake Paul😂
I love the YOUR NOT ANYFIN MATE as a British this beef is true
Bro that wasn’t a boy that was a grown ass man 😭😭
that bold headed guy looks like that carachter from mad tv(the coach)
In my opinion of when players family or friends or that player comes onto the court to confront a ref or player should have to forfeit the game and not allowed back into the game and if it’s done more than once that player should not be allowed back at all! If something isn’t done about the violence in sports, something serious is gonna happen.
everything that is wrong with youth basketball summed up in a single video. Worst parents in sports
7:43 had me weak😂
And this is why international players are taking over
And some of us are so blind, (we wonder why) it is laughing😅😢😢😢😢.
is this stuff really that common? i cannot believe how out of control these kids are and no one is stopping it
Kid has one arm/hand and his name is Hansel Emmanuel. Hands and manual in one name. This is crazy. He's named like a one armed super hero.
Imagine being a volunteer ref and you have idiots like Lechina and Carmello giving you a hard time.
Chill… I had all of this in any games i played . 7:28 ,,#8 with the sneaky slap.
Parents bringing their issues to the game and gave the ref a very hard time. Ref, please it don't hurt to stop the game and talk to those kids. The basketball court is not a warfield. Showcase your talents and be a sportsman. All parents are there for their children only. But you, the Ref, all kids are within your scope. So stay focus and do your job.
Rec ball. Gotta love it
They out here acting like 4 eyes Colton rly gonna do sum lol
Kids today talk entirely too much shit, even after routine baskets they're in each others face, from 3rd graders on up..shit's crazy 😂😂
I reffed one game that was after mine and thats because nobody wanted to ref. Bruh i wont ever ref ever again lol ive always respected refs. Ive always kept my cool beceause i understand you cant see everything but high school i played the 5 and i played big. I understood i would get hit alot and nothing called i just played through it but man sometimes youd hear the fouls and nothing. I showed a ref my busted lip and nothing. My teammates will tell you i should've went to line 15 times a game. Id leave with scratch marks, bruises the whole nine but it definitely made me even more tougher when i went to the next level
Dude should have told Nate Robinson don’t make me call Jake Paul!
First dude in the beginning shit his pants when terry crews stepped up on his ass 😭😭
@5:22 Easy to dominate when you’re Shrek to the other kids.
📢 The dude with the One Arm is a real G.
As a coach multiple players from the opposing team chose not to shake my hand, it’s not my place to hold them accountable but their coach or parent. My players would never do that.
Man kids nowadays just plays basketball for the highlights reel
The girl's face at 1:48 🤣🤣🤣