Women Need to Divorce Men
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- čas přidán 18. 12. 2022
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Sisters motto is to make sure the next generation goes through the same trauma and heartbreak as them. Kevin Samuels said it best, women keep other women single.
Sad he passed away 😞
That means that their main motive is HASAD. They hate seeing other women feeling happy and successful in their marriage life.
@Original Blizzardhawk yeah I know
The truth has been spoken 👏
Kevin Samuels was a bum that said women should ignore their daughters complaints of abuse from their stepfather's
Nothing elevating about divorce. A red flag to look out for is when the divorced woman or man completely blames their ex for the breakup without taking responsibility for their part in it.
I was being cheated and every female family member blame me for "allowing" that cheating happen
@@thelaymenmuslim4603 sorry to hear that, may Allah make things easy for you Ameen 🤲🏼
Sometimes it is just the blame of one spouse. Not always but it happens
All divorced men and their families blame the woman for the divorce in our culture. Every single one of them. Same with the women.
@originalblizzardhawk644
Best version is little bit subjective.. so I cant explain it.. but objectively I provide her more than enough, since my wages cover her THREE children. I never had any fight with any of her children.
And also allowing her freedom, well actually I asked her quit her job many times before and focus being a housewife.. she flatly refuse all of them. And also there is a lot of times where she goes out without telling me and I reprimand her many times and "hit" her in accordance to islamic teaching using a siwak on her thigh.
What is worse, before I marry her.. she is always promote herself as good character of muslimah using her family member to do it.
When she cheated on me, I NEVER intent to find if she was even cheating on me... heck I never had an negative inclination on the matter.. I ACCIDENTLY found it.. is like Allah ta'ala pitying on me and handed me the evidence for it.. and even after being found out.. I still gave her the chance to fix herself.. and she still being treated like a queen by me despite still blueballing.. is like one year after being found cheating before I ACCIDENTLY found out again she still cheating on me with same guy 🤣 enough was enough, I divorce her. Consequently, her childrens KNOWS long time their mother double timing me 😱
Now you thought my stress is over, when my family found out I'm back to single.. once I tell the full stories.. EVERY FEMALE FAMILY MEMBER BLAME ME ANYWAY.. I mean.. what kind of mindset is this? That has been infecting our women 😓
here in the UK such a large percentage of the muslim women are delaying marriage despite being 28-30 it is unreal
They will soon regret badly and cry and say "why no one marrying us, marrying old/older women is Sunnah" !
They can marry their degrees and cats then
The Disease spread to the third world countries as well. Im 25 and before all my female classmates im the frst to get married and im a guy
I don't think post pandemic stats are accurate because 2 years of pandemic has also has delayed marriages.
Sahl reported: A man passed by the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and the Prophet said, “What do you say about this man?” They said, “If he proposes in marriage, it should be accepted. If he intercedes, it should be granted. If he speaks, he should be listened to.” The Prophet was silent and then a poor man among the Muslims passed by. The Prophet said, “What do you say about this man?” They said, “If he proposes in marriage, it should not be accepted. If he intercedes, it should not be granted. If he speaks, he should not be listened to.” The Prophet said, “This man is better than the entire earth filled with the likes of the other.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5091
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@@DailamiPuang Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@@DailamiPuang Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@peterwilliams6361 Brother i just looked up the woman’s name and if your muslim, your committing shirk and leaving the folds of islam if you contact a voodoo psychic
@@peterwilliams6361 please brother. If you bring back a person through magic, it means you are forcing them to stay with you. Turn to Allah, you'll find peace. I've been in your situation before.
AND THE SAME DIVORCED WOMEN WONT ALLOW THEIR SONS WHO ARE ESTABLISHED IN THE SOCIETY TO MARRY DIVORCED WOMAN WHO HAS 4 KIDS FROM TWO MARRIAGES. THESE WOMEN ARE HYPOCRITES, NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY SAY RATHER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY DO
Alhamdulilah, after educating myself about Islam this ramadan and watching multiple videos of sheikh Gabriel, I am proud to say that I am hard to corrupt (as an 18 year old).
I totally agree that girls get influenced/corrupted VERY easily if they don't know the difference between right and wrong and the actual truth or have enough knowledge of islam. I was like that before 16. I wouldn't pray all my prayers. Wear hijab yet still not modest. Get influenced really easiy. But I also knew that what I was doing was wrong and I wanted help to change, and for past 2 ramadans I ALWAYS made dua for myself to get on the straight path, make my iman stronger, etc. And Alhamdulilah my wish was granted, after 17 I barely missed any prayers, I wear loose clothes, cover, etc. (still trying to be close to perfection). I noticed that prayer helps A LOT.
Since I am the very youngest in my whole family tree, I get to see everyone's experiences and struggles and learn from them, especially those who who r married. There's always something happening between the couples. Either the guy's not good or the woman is rebellious. I was actually influenced by the west and these little videos that the "woman should be independent, the guy can cook for himself, etc etc". (After overthinking too much about failed marriages) Then I FINALLY on the last nights of last Ramadan, I did straight 4 hr research on each gender's roles, responsibilities, the deeds, the punishments, and all the "whys" I had, the hadith, the context of each verse, the group discussions, LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE THING, even the 4 wives topic, and the context behind it is beautiful. I'm willing to help other women, sounds easy but I'm pretty sure it'd be hard (cuz emotions) but it's ok.
Anyways, I'm proud of myself for where I am now, still striving for the best and improving. I'm also proud because this change was hard since I live in the US. But I'm so grateful Allah helped me and put that thought in me to educate myself.
I didn't just educate myself and watch many Islamic videos, I applied it as well, even with little things i.e. stopped doing my eyebrows and making my bun very low under the hijab.
Do make dua for me to stay on the right path and make my iman even stronger. Get a good spouse (because I AM SCARED based on what's happening today).
Plus I just found Sir Gabriel a week ago and already watched 20 of his videos. So grateful for you. Your language, knowledge, the words u use are so respectful and ur always so careful and.......... Idk what to say anymore lol. I agree with 99% of the stuff you say.
Allahumma barik. Keep going. May Allah make you steadfast and increase u in knowledge.
💕💕💕💕 - from a sister.
"Alhamdulilah, after educating myself about Islam this ramadan and watching multiple videos of sheikh Gabriel, I am proud to say that I am hard to corrupt (as an 18 year old)." Be humble and pray Allah keeps you firm. Trust me no one free from doubt no matter how much knowledege they have. Thats why we pray to Allah to keep us guided on the true path. Especially on this age, where there is fitnah.
@@Idris.1994.Norway aameen
@@nimaahmohamed1571 🥰💕
Jazakallahu khairan
So true!!! Jazaka ALLAHou khairan 🤲💖
جزاك الله خيرا
Exactly, there is so many women/girls who travel without a male marham today .
@@thaknobodi assalamualaykum, yes but atlest it is not haram for men to travel alone but in other hand, it is haram for women to travel alone without a male marham. Sadly, women take it lightly today . And when we remind them, they say "go back to your old cave time , or stone age etc... " ( which kufr because of hating sharia ) . Also, the liberals "imams" or or so called muft simp menk are not helping the situation but instead they sugarcoat the religion for these women .
@@pilgergufy get bent.
Yes, you are right. Property is not allowed to go against quran and sunnah. May Allah help us control our property.
@@LtGregoryStevens czcams.com/video/PAWfbFN5X68/video.html
@@LtGregoryStevens Don’t use biblical language for Islam. Women are Amanah, meaning Trust that one must protect and maintain.
It’s unfair to women who divorce or r widowed to be told most men don’t want you bc u were touched by another man. She was lawfully married.
The preference may be for a never married before, but our prophet pbuh married almost all previously married women.
Sister maybe the phrasing sounds harsh but men want what men want. It is why the Hoor in Jannah are described as virgins because it is something ingrained in men, it is why there are hadith about marrying the young fertile playful virgin.
At the same time, this doesn't mean that men won't marry a divorcee or widow or have no desire at all for them. It is just a biological preference. It just means if a man could have what he truly wanted he would perpetually for ever have a rotating door of young virgins. This is unrealistic however, and it is why it is something a man can habe in the next life.
Don't take it so hard, it doesn't mean a man won't love you or find you desirable. It isn't the end of the world
Many things aren’t fair my dear!. This is the real world!. It’s also unfair to reject a man cuz of his height (something assigned to him by the creator).
@kingsultan5093 are you even married?
Some of the comments are very immature. But honestly- there is nothing wrong with muslim men wanting to marry virgins for their first wives. Maybe second or third they would consider a divorcee or widow. But in my opinion, divorced women have the best chance with divorced men.
Widow or virgin both are halal for men to marry as long as she's muslim... But as a man i prefer virgin woman even prophet Muhammad recommended a sahabah to marry virgin in a hadist.since a lot of nowdays women don't prefer under 6 ft guys I'm ok with that too.. I will take what of my preference as long as that's halal. I'll take it.
You can too sister have preference maybe an Arab rich prince or some tall guys with muscle or big boned man and etc it's up to you but just make sure that kind of guy you want will come to you..
حفظكم الله ورعاكم
The most important woman in Islam being a widow Sayiddah Khadija, along with Prophet Muhammad (SAW) married Divorcees and widows outside of Aisha. Divorce is not elevating to no one whether it’s man or woman, but, if Allah wills it, you might get divorced or you might remarry, nothing you can do about it but it isn’t something we should or have to promote in Islam.
Khadija was a widow not a divorcee.
Widow. 🤣😂.
She was a widow not divorced
@Moonlight widow, you clown. don't speak about Islam if you haven't learned anything.
@@m.hassan8145 what you idiots dont know is that khadijah married three times, so she was most likely a divorcee then a widow
Unfortunately,those days some people get divorced for picular things.I am not talking about serious issues like abuse,but getting divorced for a stupid reason is nonsense.A day comes and everyone who does that will feel regret in the end.
Allahumma barik sir, thank you so much for this video. I totally agree.
@Moonlight of course not, I know plenty of marriages personally that faltered and needed a divorce, as well as abuse unfortunately not being uncommon then divorce would 100% be necessary in that regard, but if the woman during a great marriage believes she'd be better off independent or living alone then that's when problems arise
@Moonlight Well if she wanted to remain independent then why get married in the first place ms feminist 😂.
@originalblizzardhawk644 What if the man gets divorced for no reason?
Good video brother, keep it up 🔥
i can tell these videos are popular since theres almost 150 comments in 12 hours. بارك الله فيك
These little tiktoks will not console you after your emotions have passed, nor will your friends who supported and yas kweened you to get the divorce from your husband.
That's why a lot of smart men keep their women far away from "other women"
Depends on the context of divorce, a woman in an abusive marriage would find happiness and relief very normal human emotions
@Incel & Spoilsport physical abuse is because of human limitations?
@Incel & Spoilsport Lol such people should not get married, end of.
@Incel & Spoilsport I'm pretty empathetic where i deem it fit.
@Incel & Spoilsport Exactly, only marry if you have the temperament for it.
@@incelspoilsport thats on you bruh. this is all from Allah tho, so u gotta say Alhamdulallah
Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa barakatuh
That’s funny I know 3 people who got married again and they have lots of kids.
Basically what this man is trying to say is _” sisters you have to stay in your marriage even if the guy is a asshole” why? Because you won’t have a life after……….
I never realised that marriage was the destination………
So What happens when your husband dies? No-one will marry you because you have been touched.
This is great in keeping women to not overshadow men 🎉🎉 great way to monetise crap~~~
women divorce for fickle reasons. The west proves it. It cannot be denied.
Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
Ninja here, love the katana (please store it properly, blade up) ;)
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Mashallah
Divorce is elevation?
Even western feminists don't stoop that low.
Ajeeb
Brother I think the volume is a bit low. I have a device that has a very high volume by today's standards and I start hearing your voice normally when everything is maxed out on the volume. It is comparable to when usually my volume is only at 40 and not 100. Perhaps reedit the video with higher volume and reupload?
May Allah Bless you as well as us all. Ameen
true the vol is low
I agree
Assalamu alaykum , volume is good here, Galaxy s10.
Note 9, no problem
1:47 is this true? I've heard the opposite. Could you give a reference?
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته l و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته
This is an unfair portrayal of divorce from a woman’s perspective. Usually women exhaust all resources before even contemplating a divorce, let alone acting on it. All her time is spent ruminating on whether she should take khula or not, even after doing istikhara. There is no elevation per se, but there definitely is an exhale and the statement “qadr Allah” comes often with tears. The fantasy of a happy healthy marriage has been broken and the relationship is past mending at that point. However, it is to be noted the provision within islam regarding three talaqs and khula. So reconciliation is always on the table if the couple chooses to do so.
It’s not her problem if a man is too immature to realize she has been touched by her previous spouse. It’s laughable in fact. And if he doesn’t desire her despite that, then there are plenty of others to choose from. These same men desire and watch supermodels and p*rn stars with no hesitation- women that are professionally touched by MANY men. yet a woman with one previous halal marriage is all of a sudden undesirable 🤔
Selective hearing- typical emotional woman
@@yourfamilydoctor172 your response is why feminism exists. Dismissing women as “emotional” doesn’t help us in our fight against feminism and liberalism. We need to respect each other as men and women and hear each other out.
Actually. I feel a lot of men dont deserve their wives. I also feel a lot of women are a bit naive. We all need work.
@Azrael yes the famous hadith when the Prophet s.a.w. was shown hellfire and saw mostly woomanz.
@@maryammohammed9558 which part are you actually referring to? I see no specific criticism from you.
your intro nasheed pls pls pls
Lesson #6: Want a divorce? Don't want a divorce? Doesn't matter. She can leave you for any reason or no reason at all. She gets to take at least half your wealth and custody of your children, and you pay all her legal fees. She might even end up living with her boyfriends in the house you bought with your kids.*_
One answer to that ... liberalism
Allah will throw her in hellfire for asking for divorce without a valid reason.
Allah will also give you every penny she took from you in deeds from her.
Because she takes kafir law over what Islam says and rejects Islam she will be labelled as a kafir
@Moonlight are you a kafir? if so don't speak. the comment section is for Muslims
@@shadowstorm5261 *Atheists claim that they are intellectually superior to religious people because they are willing to question their beliefs, whereas religious people are dogmatic and refuse to question their deepest beliefs and won't consider evidence that could potentially undermine those beliefs.*
Well, have you ever heard an atheist say:
"I wonder if constantly increasing individual freedom is a good thing."
"I was wrong about democracy being a viable system."
"Maybe the sexual revolution was a mistake."
"The evidence shows that equality of the sexes is destructive."
"Let's have a debate on if freedom of speech and religion is good for society."
"Could it be that women need fewer rights?"
I have never seen an atheist raise these questions or hold these positions up to serious scrutiny. Nor do they provide any evidence for their beliefs on these matters. They simply assert them and ridicule and mock anyone who disagrees with them.
Do you know how alimony works?
My Qur`an teacher tells us there are a lot of requests to raise help for sisters without husband but they dont want to marry. So they take the zakat and other sadaka, that should be given to people really in need. Im not saying its all their fault but a lot of them dont wand to be married and that happens... and about moral, what should we talk about?
I find it highly incorrect to respond on a tiktok of a sister without understanding the full context. Similarly, the sister should not have posted on this subject without providing sufficient context for others to understand. Our ummah is undoubtfully lost!
Can't hear the whispering, sound too low
Put your sound higher 😱🤷
سلام عليكم..
And Divorce not to be celebrated 😳
It's been normalized now... and I feel a waste of time explaining the outcome especially when kids are involved until they crash and realize when it's too late. Offcourse there are exceptional cases for divorce. Influencers, psychologist etc mostly discuss topics how to process the divorce or how to deal with it or how to be friends with your ex etc etc ... very little is being done or discussed on preventing or saving that marriage. Friends, influences etc generally nail the final nail in the coffin for that sister
Women as well as tge men should divorce the strawberry world of Insta,Snapchat n tiktok.
Nailed it!
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
USTADZ/USTADZAH MUALLAF/MUALLAFAH,
CONGRATULATION MUALLAF DAY IN THE WORLD.
BARAKALLAHU FEEKUM.
(at Indonesia, 25 des is MUALLAF DAY FOR THE WORLD).
👍
What so elevation about getting a divorce.
@Moonlight
Advice about bad marriages must be counselling first, not straight command to divorce.
Let them do it, and will see who will lose.😂😂😂
Akhi you have had one of these feminist so called councillors as a guest on your channel before.
As salaam alaikum, the katana on display, flip it. The way it's sitting is bad for the edge. Glad to see a sword on display 👍🏼
Then what are you talking about bro? Abuse = devorce
@Incel & Spoilsport.... We not talking men here, just women. And to me abuse is mening, I can se u are expert.. Abuse define for me
@Incel & Spoilsport... SUBHANALAH this bro was talking women, not men. Do you think I bliver man er worthless, I had a best father my Allah give him Jannah. And 8 brothers. Think before you write a ignorant comment
@Incel & Spoilsport really, u don't know nothing what u talking about. U read something some where, and u think u understand everything. Sorry for u ga back to manhood..... We done here 😞
@Moonlight she talking and he talking 🤔
@Moonlight 🤔
I had a Turkish Sister interested in marriage and demanded EIGHT GOLD bracelets. I had an Indonesian Sister request a QUR'AN in Arabic/Bahasa/English. Which one do you think I married?
I met several other Sisters from different backgrounds that were interested in marriage from around 30 to 40 years of age. I couldn't marry any of them as they all wanted children because they haven't had any yet and I'm done with having any more children.
Wise man
That women was VERY stupid to ask for a Quran
@@razamughal4582 I guess that makes you VERY intelligent, by your own standards
@@razamughal4582 I bet you are not proper muslim.
Asalaamu alaikum.
Bis Millah ir Rhaman ir Raheem.
This is a tragedy! I’m so sad listening to this message. It requires strong counter messages. I have never made a video of any kind, yet, this may be my first attempt.
I’m almost 57 years old and 20+ years married,Alhamdulilah. I’m in no way perfect, but I can see the younger generation Muslims in a Fixed Mindset directed towards Dunya and I’m requesting that Mature Sisters (45+) find a way to speak to this travesty. May Allah help us to improve ourselves and be a resource to the youth. Ameen
Most people in hellfire are women and most people who are followers of Dajjal are women. This will tell you a lot about women. I hope men care about women after life and not the women in this life.
No, it doesn't. wallets are creatures of simple absolutist thought, and so naturally, they'll perceive this in a very black and white fashion. There is nothing more undesirable than a field droid
Still some people better if I say women will come specifically at muslim men for all this
the truth ain't always pretty!
There is no sound
The sound is there but its pretty low. Max your device volume. If its still low, then maybe hear on another device that has higher volume.
I see no problem with the audio, maybe the brother fixed it
I have no audio issues either thankfully 😊 Maybe the good old, "turn it off and back on again’ as a way to fix most glitchy tech issues?
@@deanamyers57 lol
Oh it is okay now! Thanks all!
Big loss for such women till death
Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa barakatuh