Why Virgo Men Keep Disappearing
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- čas přidán 10. 08. 2021
- This video discusses reasons why Virgo men have a need to disappear for long periods of time.
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The disappearing is just a Virgo trait you will have to to take it or leave them alone. I'm not saying that in a bad way. That's their way of reflecting and recharging which is actually a good thing. It means they're reflecting about their life, about you and anything else that's important to him. When he's back, he's refreshed and in a better state of mind to communicate with you.
That was very well written and I totally agree! But I'm never gonna leave him alone, he stuck with me for life 😅
I always knew he was for me since 8th grade 😍 there's always been a special glow around him for me! Such a great man always motivating me, definitely full of lessons and tests 😅 omg lmao but I love it all and wouldn't trade it for the world 🌍! He'll be my husband one day...hopefully sooner than later thou cuz our parents wants some grandkids 😂
I love my Virgo!
@@Nofurtherquestions not this 1 😁
Yes I agree. He’s refreshed just to leave AGAIN and then complain about loyalty🤦🏽♀️
I don’t want him communicating with me ever again he was a mistake and thats on periodt
As a Pisces, I understand the need for personal space and time to reflect and recharge. I think the difficulty with the disappearing act for me is the lack of communication that specifically says … I need a moment or I need a little space. There have been times when I needed space and I clearly communicated that was what I needed and that all is well. It’s about being considerate of the other person. I love my Virgo but whew…..
I’m a Pisces and my husband is Virgo and we’ve been together for 11 years and married for 4 years and he does the disappearing act for days and don’t communicate and we have a toddler. He really sucks at communicating and when he disappears like that. I feel extremely unloved and rejected. I just don’t understand HOW virgos can love but yet be so inconsiderate to others feelings. This ghosting behavior makes me feel emotionally unsafe in my marriage and a lack of trust.
My baby father ghost me 11 days now we have two kids I do t like it the blowing him up is not working I don't know what I did it'd drivi g me crazy
The big problem with this, is they expect the woman to be all warm and fuzzy when they "return ". If they want to work on things and do self improvement, start by keeping a connection with the one woman that supports them. Ignoring someone OR NOT KEEPING promises is not the answer. SMH
It may be something all Virgo’s need. But, do they ever realise that this ghosting thing does to the person who is at the receiving end of it.
And how to talk to the person who ghosts you anyways? I am so tired of the games Virgo man has been playing with me. Yes, they are intelligent and usually good looking and put together, but it doesn’t mean you have to take so much insensitivity and emotional abuse from them. If they can’t a recognise a genuine person and a good woman who cares for them then what is the use of their perfection and over thinking.
You touched on everything and did what they don’t like-questioning them lol bc they’ve calculated everything to perfection but the issue is…they apply logic to romance so of course, it’s never going to initially work unless you really have someone that understands their thought process to then communicate properly to them. Love/romance should be a balance of intuition and logic, but Virgos lack the intuition part bc again, they’re more head over heart, it has to logically makes sense and when it comes to love, you just can’t know every exact step-it’s not a business deal but even in that, there will always be risks. It’s like they try to skip over the actual “living” part of….life avoiding feelings. We’re not robots, it’s okay to feel, you’re actually supposed to, but feelings are too foreign for Virgos hence the overthinking and trying rationalize it all.
So so true! My virgo man is the same when it's good it's sooo good when it's bad it's heartbreaking I find this hard as a libra woman with a virgo man
Wow perfectly said. Thank you. After dealing with the slow bs, I wish they realize they can't be taking forever. Then they need to recognize they need to be single and just stop trying to be a smart-ass. I don't know how they manage their day to day. 👏 👌 🙌
@@Quartzone6145 right! I’m a Libra and my boyfriend is a Virgo and you’re so right when it’s good it’s soooo good and then all of the sudden he’s gone and I’m like I don’t where to begin 😢
Get rid...
I’ve always been interested in him but he ghosted me, twice and now I’m just tired of holding on waiting for him. I’ve told myself that he’s working on himself but the communication: gotta work on that boo. Let me know or pick up a phone and say “I’m ok.”
Man I had it, I was patient for a long time with it. I just told my Virgo I needed time and he snapped and said ok we can call it off. So me being a Aquarius I agreed. I only said I needed time because he picked the wrong times to ghost. And I had it. He would ghost right after us having a great time together or we getting closer and I’m dropping my guard. So I said let me get time so I can regroup and focus on me not the ghosting. But he snapped and said we can end it. I was offended because I was a real good person to him and to have him just drop that made me feel some kind of way.
That happened to me too as an aries woman he made me so depressed when he disappeared and I did nothing wrong to him he lied to me gave me false hope
Well Taurus did that to me, we had good times then she dipped but the difference was ignored me would message me the next day and we made plans and she canceled twice. I was like cool we done. Took my shit and left without warning. She got mad. I got mad for her lack of accountability.
@@cr_ystal5147I also did this, she made me believe she didn’t want me or appreciate me. I wanted more than just friends but she made me feel that my feeling were threatening the connection. I left got a relationship thinking that would help but she got jealous.
We recently are working things out and like the message below I broke that other relationship off. I’m being very honest to Aries and I think she understands what she didn’t before, that I trust her and care for and genuinely love her. With that said she was willing to give me a second chance with everything I did to HER.
@@cr_ystal5147If you think you can work it out I would try but you both have to understand each other first. I made a lot of effort to understand Aries. My approach in the begging was wrong and I listened to my needs not hers. Once I let that go I realized I was wrong. Accountability no matter what sign is key
Happen to me , he can do it but when i do it he blocked me lol
tbh as a capricorn woman with my rising in Virgo i actually relate to this😂😭😭 ghosting people with no solid reason and thinking that they’ll understand is probably my weakness and i can understand but i dont like it when people do it to me but i’ll let it be depending on how close i am with the individual... however if its a reoccurring thing then i’ll let the relationship go because i need reassurance and if you ghosting every other day that is not okay in my opinion..
I'm capicorn woman too!!! December 27th 1981 and yes I agree we ghost as well. I feel it's pretty much for the same reason as the virgo does. Capicorns are also loners by nature and our alone time is extremely important to us. Do you ever feel like if you don't get any alone time it throws you off mentally?
@@crystalcormier9376100% it throws me off mentally if I don't ghost. I'm a Capricorn 29th December. I ghost people too and if people have to take it personally, they can go to hell!
This was right on time, thanks
I love my Virgo peeps. They make good friends, but they suck in communication. Ghosting is not ok. If virgos don't like to be ignore, then some genuine attention needs to be given from their part. I wonder how much progress virgos can make when they can Master their over thinking and over working.
Omg YES! Im with you!!
Being ghost really hurts. It's like he was interested in me and then he just ghosted me and now he stalks. Sadly I now know it will not lead anywhere I just have to have faith that there is someone for me
@@neetipalacios9262 the same happened to me. It's hard to realize that we need to let the Virgo go
How are you gonna be ruled by the planet of communication, yet suck so badly at it ! Lol😅😅
Hard to talk when their ghosting you
Right!
My dawg is backkk with a GEMMMMM 💯🔥
The saddest part about him disappearing all the time is me wondering if he will come back 😔I don’t like this
That's tough not never knowing which can put your emotions on a rollercoaster so me I left mine alone because of that but I wish him well
What's your ig?? I wanna talk more about this and be needing some advice
Yesterday I found out the real reason why he disappear all the time after 10 months of us dealing with each other, he has a baby that’s not even a year old and I assume he is in a more serious relationship with her. Idk…he didn’t tell me anything about this. 😒 he wasn’t disappearing to recharge all that nonsense are lies. Virgo’s disappear because they have 2 families they juggling around.
@@jessicajackson2438 yep I know that to do now and I hope he doesn’t come to my job stalking me…I never want to see him again.
@@skye6066 Omg stalking you well I hope the best for you and hopefully he'll move on and leave you be 💕
Welcome back to CZcams Nation☺️.... You've been missed🤗
Thats crazy I was watching your old videos wondering where you went. Glad too see you
Hey! Welcome back Jonathan! 😊
U the goat u telling the truth about everything
If I hadn’t found your videos I would’ve been done with my Virgo. You’ve given me so much insight, and let me say this Pisces have no patience when it comes to the disappearing acts, and lack of communication. However, the patience Virgo men have for our moods and emotions makes for even more reason to be patient with them. Thanks for these videos!
This is where us Virgos can be just like the opposite sign Pisces!
Thank You for this , helped a lot .
Wow welcome back
This is accurate I'm a ♍ man and I will leave and let myself regroup and recharge so that it will not be chaotic and messy with our soulmates this is a great video brother 💯
How many soulmates at one time, that's the question.......
Soulmate??? Y’all be just about 110yrs old talkin bout “im about to get married!” 🤣🤣🤣
Wassup with the finger nails?👀
Thanks for the drop in!!! Always great to see your vids… they help a lot!
@cRisPy FrEnCh FriES :) Um dm’d him? I didn’t insult him. Just a clear direct question. His nails are clean… yet long. So I asked… no worries, he didn’t mind.
@@locdinwkrissyy9016 I don’t see anything wrong with the question-these video’s emphasize how much Virgos pay attention to details and like for their partners to be presented a certain way so 🤷🏻♀️😬
From my experience Virgos expect it from everyone and they perfect apparently but their room be a mess and they be a mess.
@Babe Bree She probably a Gemini! 🤣 And he didn't respond back.... 10 months later. 😂
Heeee's baaaaackk
I will say im working on not ghosting i don't do it to hurt them. In my mind i do it so i can come back and be a more honest, open, and joyful person. I went ghost for a year due to i needed to heal from some things. I needed to understand how my actions created where i am, how i view love, and what i want from life. I did apologize for people who were worried. I also recall dating someone who didnt value my need for personal space and it made things tough.
You are my favorite Virgo youtuber so I hoped to see a video on Virgo cups one day being a virgo cusp my self.
My Virgo ex insisted that we keep saying happy birthday to each other. I wanted a quick conversation. He would always find a way to drag the conversation out, leave me hanging about where he went for a week or two or three as he got his thoughts together. I had to wonder how I alienated him with a simple "happy birthday." I had to worry he wasn't hurt, because his pain is something else. No wonder he has anxiety, he makes a simple thing difficult. When I tried to end this ritual, he just came back years later to start it again. Why is it so important to him to keep me in his life, just so he can subject me to unnecessary suspense?
This is so true I've even disappeared from my job for 3 months to retreat and when they finally got in touch with me.I was rejuvenated I had to let them know I needed a break from everything.
🤣🤣🤣
Me too
It’s almost Virgo season… happy (early) birthday! Turn up! ♍️♍️♍️♍️
It be like that. I meet a lot of people that are too possesive to under that virgo's need distance at times. And that someone intent on actually listening to understand goes a long way.
Yes but If someone becomes interested in them they start to disappear and the moment attention is withdrawn they send mixed singnals. It do feels like lack of interest even though it's not.
It's not that we don't understand needing space. The issue is you guys don't give us the courtesy of letting us know as much. Look if you need space and are dating someone you don't just disappear and leave the other person wondering what is going on. You let them know you still care but are going off the grid for a bit.
@@neetipalacios9262 all I can say is that there are billions of men out there. If that Virgo moves on, let it be and attract another man.
@@ashaduplessis2772 reciprocity can be expected, but not demanded. Obligation kills attraction.
@@I-own-your-feelings yes it's now time to let go.. I m determined to have more faith than fear! Thanks :)
It’s crazy because I’m a Taurus and I’ve been dating a Virgo man for four months and his name is Jonathan as well. I love my Virgo 💋
We miss you ❤️
God bless you bro! I too am a Virgo and you hit the nail on the head.
I know that's not your intent but sometimes it has a major effect on the other person..
Pisces men are the same Too has far as disappearing acts
Well then he should take it personal when I ghost his ass too!! I’ve tried to be patient I can’t do it! I’m a Aquarius we love communication!
Going through the sam me thing. Are you still with your Virgo?
@@JazminesBacon actually we just started back speaking and his doing the same ol shit! Ok he’s doing alittle better but still not enough to keep me interested! 🤣😩
I don’t know what I’ve done to deserve this type of treatment … I haven’t heard from him for 7 days . He hasn’t been on social media either.. Im worried about him at this point … I really care for him and I could be there for him if he would let me ❤️😔
Erm ok turn it around
Would you treat someone like this ? There’s your answer .. have your boundaries and don’t stay around to be treated this way .. we show Poe how to treat us by our actions .. if they think it’s ok n you going to be there they will do it .. dump meet someone mature
@Dani Ela any updates now ?
Can i ask you please to make a video how we should deal with virgo man dealing with bipolar disorder.
I have question i believe im stuck in 3rd party relationship with virgo man who was married in 10yr relationship n is currently divorced however still live in same home as they are supposedly selling it !! Do virgos typically do 3rd party relationships?? I told him 2day im not doing 3rd party relationship cuz his lingo communication changed like using code words for sex n he saw msg but hasnt responded n i might be pregnant n hes aware of this
I love ur videos...me and my Virgo we're born 5 days apart. And even thou we're sooooooo alike sometimes it's hard to get it right with us 😔
You should look at your birth charts
Male virgo born in Sept?
@@jhaszmyn. yes he's 914 and I'm 919
@@Mocalate91988 mine is also 9 14 he is distant since two months
@@smilebigiloveyou do you have a site that you use?
How much time are we talking Jonathan? It’s been happening more frequently the past month …. Doesn’t help that I just met this guy end of May 2021
Being Capricorn♑ I kept lot of patience with this virgo man tried to understand that he need space but so much non communication on his part made me feel it is just me who is into him. Once I reacted to his non communication & he just disappeared. I came across this channel later wish I knew things. He stalks me on social media like some of my posts but never initiate conversation. We both are looking for partners. I see him on dating app in search of partner. But it is so sad that things didn't work out with this man it's been an year I haven't come across anyone I feel as inclined as I was towards him. Also sometimes I feel he likes brown skin & I am on fair skin side so he never had that attraction towards me. I m just focusing on my work & trying to trust that may be I ll come across someone who loves me.
Any updates ? Did he come back ?
@Blue Sky yeah... Poor communication in text, but when we meet he would communicate a lot. He claimed never have feelings for me , but when other men talk to me in a friendly way, he would explode and accuse me of flirting. Weird !!
@Blue Sky been a good friend to him for 3 years now . He's been damaged and broken from his divorced ages ago and is not stable to commit yet.
really exhausting . whenever im on the verge to give up on him, he would be attentive to him & i forget about my plan to walk away 😒
Typo . I mean Attentive to me*
All my life I was surrounded with Virgo. Me as a Capricorn woman have dealt with this crazy sh*t the whole life. 😂😂😂 I'm not sure if I deserve this but them Virgos be protecting me a lot but they already know how they are and they still don't try to work on it. 😂
25th August here
Faxxx we need to reset. Figure out a strategy, make a plan, calculate, ect
I’m a Pisces woman and I know I’m the biggest introvert ever. I’m dating a Virgo man and he’s a great guy I mean we all have problems. He does drink a bit too much but I don’t know what he’s been through before we met each other. He has an illness that I won’t mention here but I think it’s a very painful situation for him. He leaves and doesn’t come back for hours. Like right now it’s one am I have no idea where he could be. Thank you for this for video it’s very helpful.
Yes u know u a Virgo man disappearing😆😆 but on that note good to see you and happy that u been doing okay
My boyfriend did let me know he was gonna do some stuff and then he cut off all communication. Phone turned off. I’ve been texting his mom but now I regret it cause I feel like I’m bugging. 😢 Despite of everything this guy this man is my soulmate. And I can feel that’s he’s taking care of things and not cheating. If that makes sense. Thank you for helping me understand now. Do you think he will come back? 😢
Did he comeback?
Ayeeee We back live 👀!? Virgo man popped back up after a year ….I need a live chat vent Jonathan 😩🤗
Do they really come back when you have completely moved on? 🥺 It's been long time waiting on my part
lol
One year! This is a lot
I think you gotta put your foot down with Virgos. 🤷🏿♀️
he's my seatmate and after a few days, he act distance it so weird but then he stares at me w/ a smile even he always distance for no reason.
And i am the only and first person he help even i don't ask something, he always carry my own chair 🤣
Probably because you go around covering your face..🤔
They lack intuition... they don't listen to their inner guides.
Girl bye Virgo intuition rivals pisces. They’re on the same wavelength, opposite signs.
Never excuse bad behavior. As an adult this is not ok.
Your nails 👌🏽
Why i attract a lot of virgos??🥺🥺🥺i tell myself all the time i dont want Virgos coz of ex but still lotta admirers😂😅🤣🤣🤣
When I disappear, you just need to call or text.
I called and texted my Virgo and still nothing. I was sweet too. I’m a Virgo woman myself. I texted him “ Daddy Im sure you're super super busy with work ,extremely tired and probably have no energy to talk and just want to sleep. I get it. And I am so proud of you.
Maintaining communication is important though daddy. Don't forget I am over here being patient and waiting on you daddy. “
Now what?
I texted that to him yesterday by the way.
you have to be,to know.
First off hello Jonathan! 2nd of all how you going to be gone all this time and only give us a 9 min video😒 this is unacceptable and we will not allow this kind of behavior I guess you seen them other videos views going up even more because I been watching a lot of them and I’m not even dealing with a Virgo anymore I just love your energy and the way you speak with logic! Hey Jonathan I know you a minister but do you mind doing some sexual healing videos from a man stand point as far as not mixing energy with different ppl sexually I feel like having a lot of sexual partners is not good because everyone holds a different spirit! I don’t see many ppl talking about sex and energy it’s always sex and pleasure but anyway just a request I feel like you’re perfect for, and I’m happy to see your looking good and healthy😊
I dont ghost people but I do stop putting in effort. For me it's usualy because people put too much emotion into things that don't require it. And they want me to match their energy. It burns me out. Some people it feels like I'm hanging around children. So when it comes to us needing to shareing my genuine emotions, I'm complete burnt out.
It's part of our superiority complex that comes with high intelligence. Most the things most people are into are boring and Childish to me. Where as everything that matters in the world is ignored.
I cant get excited over a marvel movie. Sorry. I'm an adult.
(That would be the cut throat , cold Virgo showing)
I like y'all, but 'all r cray cray!
😂😂😂
Show up out the blue after 2 months of disappearing and stalk me at my job for 3 days. Just go away weirdo🤦🏽♀️ these dudes are weird to me.
Hey Rev. I am a virgo myself and a lot of what you talk about and exhibit is similar to me. I have a question for you, what is your view on God and astrology? Do they oppose each other or are they in harmony with one another? I follow God and I don't think astrology is against God's ways but I just saw a post the other day that bashed astrology in the name of God and wanted to hear your opinion.
I think they go hand-in-hand. The bible is full of astrology, you just have to understand what you are reading. Astrology is not bad, evil, or pagan, it is a tool to help us further understand who we are.
@@JonathanRWhitfield Understood.
I'm not in the medical field... it's hard to see an intelligent man
I understand. You look like you put on a little weight. Looking good 👍🏽
Bro I haven't even watch this video but I'll comment and say I'm so sick and tired of trying to date women. I'm talking with a Cancer Queen but only hope it may work out in the long run but we have a small distance issue like 2 hours distance.
Sarcasm lol
You are so cute
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