I think men do not understand that when a woman is giving you all her love, it is actually hurtful to think that her man is going around giving the same kind of attention to other girls. I understand it's just platonic, but it hurts
Not to mention it’s highly disrespectful and immature to be taking a risk of catching a disease and passing it around to some unsuspecting person because a man can’t be honest. A man would be livid of the tables were turned.
But I do think Virgos have double standards like if your with a Virgo he wants to be the only man friend you have but he has friends but doesn't want you to
Wow that’s so true. He’s want to control each and everything in your life while he does whatever he wants and hides it from you and if you bring it up to him it’s just a mess
I truly started listen to your videos trying to learn my Virgo and it was so helpful. Love your videos. But as a Gemini I will say I’ll NEVER date another Virgo!
Kristie Miller gems can’t deal with Virgo and the sarcasm they dish out always trying to correct them rather it’s vocabulary, what they need to be doing diff etc I’ve heard Gems say they will not ever date a Virgo ♍️
You're right this doesn't apply to all Virgos. I've seen a Virgo cheat and still stay routine and always nervous. Hang onto relationships while entertaining other women.
Is that a sin🫣 just for the record people, there's nothing wrong with loving multiple people or having multiple relationships, as long as the other party is aware. So they can make a decision to start a relationship or not. Real Talk
I felt his nervous energy....and then he seemed to flip out. Asked him some questions - he would not answer...I walked. I already knew he was sharing. He was a exaholic.
For me I've never cheated bcuz if I cheat on someone I cheated on myself ND it doesn't feel right, we are one in a relationship with a partner that's how it supposed to be
I love my Virgo and being a Aquarius I love myself and he knows I don’t play those head games FK a trait.. I don’t chase em I replace them.. he don’t wanna change up a routine bc I’m a wild card and I will change my zip code and my number period. He don’t want it.. I could be aloof and elusive, I’m a flirt too so pls don’t do it.. I’m Gucci with mine he’s a grown man and I treat him as such he’s a much better man and less critical of himself and I make him face his truth and besides that - CHEATING is another thing bc I would give him a taste of his own Medicine a overdose!! Pls this Aquarius is dynamite I don’t play games I don’t have daddy issues or low self esteem. My father raised me to love me and build me for me not to build a grown man SUPPORT yes raise him HELL NO!!
Patricia Lee Spoken like a true Aqua! Yes I agree, Aquas will destroy you for cheating. We come to relationships very faithful, but if you don’t....you will regret it.
I'm on the cusps of aquarius and I am with a virgo too. to be honest I am the same way, I will literally ghost him and change everything up asap. I don't play that shit either, I will teach your ass a lesson. I am an Aquarius Pisces cusps (Lethal) rare Rhianna on the cusps too you see how cutthroat she is.
Scorpio woman here feeling like she’s not getting enough. I talked about it to him, he apologized and promised to do better but he’s still the same. I may just stop putting in effort and see if it all fizzles away or he sits up. My silence would provide the answer I need
Perhaps... based on my experience, to most Virgo men, the more is less, and the less (simple) is more. They seem more of an ultra sensitive type that you have to tango with them well in order to maintain the harmony and balance they can handle and enjoy in a relaxing manner. Don't necessarily need to be always nurturing but be completely gentle with them.
@@barbss.7578 Yup. They can apologize. But if they are a Narcissist the apology isn't worth shit. It's just more manipulation for their sick game to continue.
im starting to not like my virgo man when things dont go his way he runs away to dating sites. its like he finds every excuse to talk to other women. but what he doesn’t know is talking to other women is gona make our relationship worse. he needs to understand just because we have a argument doesn’t mean u run to dating sites. he has alot of growing up to do.
Im dealing with a Virgo male now. So far it's been up and down. I'm a leo woman and us leos don't deal well with the behavior of how these Virgos are. However, he can be fun to be with when we are both are in sync. 😩
Leo woman here and I know exactly how u feel. It's like the relationship could be perfect if we could stay on the same page. I can't deal with the hot and cold, and the roller coaster ride. They claim to be so down to earth, but bring more drama by their actions. There's only so much I'm going to tolerate as a leo female
@@caramelapple4053 you've got a point there. It's like it's hard to figure them out. And another issue I have with Virgo men is they're always looking for validation from others & insecurities. My Virgo partner stays on social media looking for likes on the things he post especially from woman. Its annoying and when I speak on it, he says it's not that deep however he's checking to see whose responding to me on mines. 🤷🏿♀️
Mine does the exact same thing, but swears he doesn't care what people think. God forbid if you check him on it, he'll either turn it around on you or downplay it like it's not that serious baby, or you being real petty 🤣, but Leos are supposed to be full of drama. I swear I can't take him sometimes, but tbh I'm not going nowhere anytime soon. I love his complicated ass.
@@caramelapple4053 lol, omg it's like they don't change from the script lol but I feel you, hun. I wouldn't trade mine for no one else in the world. I put too much work in this one already 😉💪🏿.
That ending part we have a bond we can chill without sex and just watch movies and cook 👨🍳 sleep cuddle relax but when it’s that time to get busy it’s AMAZING
Tiana Thompson right it gets challenging at times because he can get boring but that fire 🔥 we have in us makes them open up completely he be dancing 🕺 singing 🎤 soon as I get ready to record he try’s to run but eventually lets me 😂😂😂😂 when an Aries ♈️ and Virgo ♍️ together which they say isn’t compatible (opposites do attract) it’s explosive 🧨 that’s truly my best friend!!!
I think Aquarians need more freedom, not necessarily more space. IMO, Virgos need alone time to decompress and to think. Alone time recharges them. (Not an expert on this though. My guy is a Virgo and my brother is Aquarius 😊)
Nah...ive been surrounded by a lot of aquarius..my ex is one too...they do like their alone timr or enjoy being alone. BUUTTTT they r still good at communication. They don't FORGET to text u.
Ha! I’m Aquarius with Virgo boyfriend, we both need alone time but he needs more mental space. Like I can dig deeeppppp at any moment, but he needs to be pre decompressed 🤣
My Virgo asked me if I had a GPS on him because I knew things and he called me crazy when one time I thought he was doing something I drove by his house and he wasn’t he was at home sleep he’s a truck driver I felt so stupid you on point WOW 😮
A lot of the things you say are contradictory honestly. I agree they are distant/detached, busy/multiple jobs, funny, intuitive, introspective, analytic, hypochondriac, anxious, germaphobes but they are also judgemental, picky, slow to make a decision, have unreal standards even for themselves etc
I been watching your you tube, you brought me insight about my virgo man. We been together for 7 years. He require a lot of attention. His been cheating for half of the 7 years in our relationship, I'm ready to move on my life. I'm tired dealing with him. I love this man with all my heart. But he put me in to much confusion, manipulation and lies.
I have been friend with him for 4 years. Suddenly things all changed we started to become more close. After around 7 months he said he like to marry someone else. I feel like shit now. How can a person be so rude. And he need my advice for his decision. I used to think I know him very clearly , after all this I don't know. But I love him madly , it's very difficult to move on. We were best friends, we had no secrets in between us. But now I don't know , I can't trust anyone. PS : I'm a Capricorn.
@@trueline328 please if you know me or we both know each other, you know my live in boyfriend for almost 8 years, in box me. I feel like you are a different woman. He deals with multiple woman. He even brought a woman at the house were sharing while I'm at work found her in our bathroom taking a shower naked and I know he brought the bitch in many times according to my neighbors til i caught it. I'm getting to the point that his not going to change and his other x girlfriends is right about him.
@@trueline328. Lol, I'm so sorry. You some people told me before that Virgo man are great to be friends with but boy friend they said I'm setting myself with heart ache. Now I'm finding that's true!!! I feel the same way your feelin. I feel like shit also, and if your empathic person like I am. It's even harder. But I'm planning something. I wish you luck and I will pray for us me and you strength and courage and fresh set of mine. I been with my virgo almost 8 years. We had talk a about this several times already and give him chances, so I cant change him so I will be the one to change for better myself.
Info is spot on and I know this because I’m trying to get over this Virgo guy I dated. He changed, acted sus, his whole behavior, it’s like he turned into another person. I found out yesterday he has a wholeeeee another relationship idk when it started or what but I feel like it’s been going on before I dated hm and they got back together once he started acting distant. He use to see me and call me every single day all day and out of nowhere he ignored me messages for days and I kept bringing up stuff trying to talk about it and get answers and he kept ignoring it. I went to his fb profile and his status said in a relationship with this girl I caught him texting while he was with me. I went to her Snapchat and saw pictures of them together and then everything fell into place. I’ve been through hell dealing with this dude. Btw I’m a Virgo girl.
Girl, you left me speachless... Im so sorry that you had to experience this. He will get back what he gave to you, for shure. Go and find another one, there are great men that would die to have you. ❤️
hey, so I've been talking to this Virgo man online for more than 1 year. We are quite compatible with each other and our interest and personality is very similar so we always had good conversation and we are from different countries and our culture is different. But he was the first one who said i like you and after that we become more closed to each other. Though when i told him that he's precious to me and an important part of my life he said he's just a stranger and he backs off but he came back again. Whenever he act a little distant i gave him space and when i asked him what he's ideal type he told me YOU!. He even sometimes ask me when I'm coming to his country to meet him and go out with him and on January 2019 he again asked me this question and from February he started acting very strangely he became way too distant that he started ignoring my text and one day I asked him what happened why are you acting like that he said we even never met each other and we are just friends but I already like him so much and he never had any relationship in his life I never felt this much care and respect from someone I just love him so much that i don't want to lose him. What should I do now?? I really love your channel so much and it really helped me to understand him but now I'm totally confused what should I do? :( Sorry for my bad English.
Rev J, I have been watching your Virgo man videos trying to figure him out. And it’s scary that everything you said Virgo men are, is actually on point about him. He got the foot fetish, the short text message, wanting to FaceTime. He is also a huge chatterbox & it is very draining for me mentally. As a Leo Sun, Libra moon, Capricorn rising… my way of breaking it off is by putting the man in the friend zone. I feel bad for the Virgo man that I friend zone. But I just can’t deal w/ the drama. I just deleted his number on my phone. but y’all are just way too much. As a Leo woman, I will NEVER date another Virgo!
I'm a taurus woman married to a virgo man.. been together 20yrs married for 18 yrs.. still can't figure him out.. he's not a cheater Always tells me any and everything.. because I have a low tolerance level for bull..but he's always in his head omg... really frustrating.. never ever contented always going the extra 💯... don't think I can ask for anything else just trying to figure him out.. thanks for enlightening me
I had to tell him to ditch the friends. Those “females” were getting the wrong idea and calling him hun and baby and we are married. No thanks, things are better now.
I have been friend with him for 4 years. Suddenly things all changed we started to become more close. After around 7 months he said he like to marry someone else. I feel like shit now. How can a person be so rude. And he need my advice for his decision. I used to think I know him very clearly , after all this I don't know. But I love him madly , it's very difficult to move on. We were best friends, we had no secrets in between us. But now I don't know , I can't trust anyone. I even had a thought he may come back , as still he talks about all his life except love. I can't clearly see him as a friend, he is more than that for me. PS : I'm a Capricorn.
Thank you ,pastor for that information i had a virgo we met at work we got so close he started dating all the woman i was there i look out for him when he got out of jail made sure he ate got a ride home he dog me i didnt expect nothing from him butt respect i didnt get it i guess i wasnt his type he left me for a woman who stayed with a man a they still talk too her i just let him do him he left me in a hotel never said.nothing else that was dirty i deserve better then that i luv my self more hes a fuck boy
Ok so my virgo has a double standard-issue going on see im a pisces and sometimes i will purposely do the same thing but a little bit different to my Virgo and he be so upset let's just be like all into his feelings and I'll be living like the fuc you just did the same thing the other day he be looking Stuck on Stupid and don't know how to explain it smh
I just call it one sided. He hates it when I mirror him. I tell him warnings in advance yet we have the same cycled convos. I always said that he needs to watch his mouth bc one day hell say sh he can't take back... of course, nevermind all the low hurtful things hes said to me. But let it linger what I say then. I say what I mean & its all truth. Its not games, its just im not a door matt. I wasn't one when I met him. Hes either w/ me or he isn't. I require the bare minimum. He can't even accomplish that sometimes. And guarantee it he sits around and wallows and sh before ever considering to act on it. Hes younger too so I can't help but to feel the need to damn guide him to do right. Yes sometimes I feel like I'm lecturing him. Calling him a child has prob got to him by now. Sure as hell doesn't help when his dad seems worse. Your son is fn 26. Time to leave the nest, daddio. Legit its like 3 generations of dependency. I'm sorry but at his dads age, I'd hafta stop and think to myself at some point, wow. That should be a guide on what not to become.
I was about to say please skip to the facts when I clicked on this video 😂I know virgos say a lot of things in detail just like my baby and thats why I love you guys
I told my virgo partner that he's beginning to behave like a cheater by accusing me over text. He responds that , " cheating is something he understands." He's always so vague . He leaves me wondering if he is cheating ???
I'm Gemini Women You. ladies are tough you can Handle them just with the right tools. I was raise by A Virgo and my mom. was a Gemini [ RIP]. I said lord I will not date a Virgo. Then i had 3 Sons so that means I had to Raise a Virgo son a Leo son and a Aquarius. my home was excited. they are just picky men, if you can pinpoint their action you have to pay attention to them it's Easy. they love hard but you have pay very close to them be yourself. never go in looking for anything with them. Stay honest and true to the game you have to want things to put it like this don't be lazy when it comes to them what you put into them, they will put it into you. Treat them the way they treat you. 'Always do self-love first. Self loves explain a lot to them. stay consists with them, I'm married know and Guess what to a Virgo it is a very worldwide of the marriage it's fun its outgoing and I will always keep it real. but Iam a Gem I don't play
BRO YOU ARE AWESOME. IMA VIRGO ♍ MAN. ALOT OF WOMEN CONFUSE MY GOALS WITH CHEATING. I GET CALLED MALE WHORE, CONCEITED, AND THINK ABOUT MYSELF. IM JUST VERY VERY VERY MOTIVATED BY MY BUSINESS. IM A ENTREPRENEUR, AND I MEET FEMALES EASILY BUT WE BREAK UP QUICKLY. THEY THINK THE CAN DEAL WITH MY BUSINESS. I DO HAVE ALOT OF FEMALE FRIENDS BUT MY GIRLFRIENDS USUALLY THINK THAT SOMETHING IS GOING BECAUSE IM HEAVILY LOVED.
Hey Jonathan 👋🏽 In your opinion: Is it likely that a cheating ♍️ man who gets caught while trying to leave a long term relationship would completely ghost the other woman he's in love with? Ex: After being exposed..never contact the woman again (no conversation or explanation) ?
My Virgo man is also texting his ex’s saying that they’re just friends. He doesn’t talk or communicate with them around me openly. He’s so hard to read and he only shows me affection when he’s interested. I don’t know what to think?
I think my situation is unique I have known him for 20 yrs we are dating taking it slow. We had a few fights and he pulled away it's been 2 weeks off and on contact. While watching this video he calls to explain our conversation yesterday. I'm just in a new place he's complicated but he have a bond built over these years. He said he would tell me if it's another woman.
idk with my virgo , he use to do alot with me on spending time, but then he stopped and only did things once a week and it's been 2 month... and then all of a,sudden he wanted me to meet the family...... idk what to do . he is not every open to me on things ...... what would u say that is ?
I live with him and I see that he only wants sex now we haven't gone out on a date in a long time if I don't feel good health wise and I don't feel like having sex and I tell him we can't after I've cooked dinner for us he looks at me very upset and he says okay but he's very sexual I'm in my 50s now he's 63 years old how does he still want sex from me every night.
Jwhitfield how do you feel about an Aries woman dealing with a Virgo man? We have been on and off he's gone 1 1/2 month with no communication AT ALL yet we somehow reconnect he messaged after month to meet up says he wants relationship am I just a fuck to him? Or could he have possible feelings? He does have trust issues which is one of the main problems in relationship!!
What about change in Libido? Went from having a super high sex drive to low? The fool even had the audacity to say “Sex is overrated” when confronted lol
... "if hes not open to you about something, then hes cheating" .....but them again be careful with this, because virgos, we are very private people, so it doesn't necessarily mean hes cheating, it just means that he is being reserved? But it might be that he is cheating, but don't assume he is for sure, cuz he might not be? Wtf? Kind of help is this. You left me more confused than my possible cheating husband!!! You flip flopped, and contradicted yourself so many time. I feel like you're cheating on me, and idk even know you. Every other sentence that came out your mouth, left my head spinning so much, that I think a cheating spouse would be more clear, and straightforward than this whole thing. If he does this, well hes cheating But: it might be he isn't because hes virgo, and that's how virgos are. If he does this, that also is an indication that hes cheating But it might not he that hes cheating because he's a virgo, and virgos do things that look like hes cheating, bit they're not, but they might be....you know that's just how virgos are. So basically, this video is a contradictory waste of time. Got it. Thanks.....for absolutely nothing, or something? Idk....cuz you know you're a virgo, and well virgos are just confusing as hell like that.
Love, I understand your confusion oh, you may want to slow down a little bit and listen carefully to what I was saying. Virgo men can be very confusing when it comes to feelings and emotions and behaviors. I said make sure you know your Virgo personally so you can tell the difference between these behaviors. You want an easy and simple answer and I'm giving you exactly the things that Virgo men go through. Sometimes it is very complicated
My virgo gave me a heads-up and his work has been crazy he's saying he's still up for meeting up but doesn't know his schedule. I'm busy too but idk ... He hasn't called either just texts a few times a day vs the many before the heads up. He does have alot going on work, parent and car situation. He's been consistent since day one and communicative. So idk. We aren't dating
Lol sounds like my virgo... hes a real catch. I bet he does question if ill leave him at any given moment. So its no wonder hes sketch. Stay insecure... bc I can give him more reasons... also, our convos are lit. :/ no they're not
So this Virgo and I at first we used to call each other on FaceTime and he used to call me every day that was before we met after all this he asked me to be his girlfriend so we see each other every week but doesn’t call as much as before. Idk what I can do in this situation! Also we we talk on the phone he says that he’s tired before he have to work early so hangs up.
@@JonathanRWhitfield What influenced your decision? I know your a Virgo and all but do you talk about astrology with your congregation?? not to ask all these questions but I've never heard a pastor admit to using astrology since they all taught me it was evil.
No in church, it'll be more on an intimate level but everyone doesn't accept it and it's fine, not a big deal. I just started seeking more self-knowledge and I learned a lot about it in seminary. It is not evil, the entire bible is built on astrology.
He's cheating on me and there is no such thing as someone loveing two people I don't like him anymore nir love him I'm going to leave him soon, he's acting strange around me he's not telling where he's going it's not fair I tell him where I'm going I will never date a Virgo man again sorry I know your a Virgo but no disrespect for you but I hate cheaters I literally gave him all my love and wasted my years of youth with him no more I'm done with him I don't even care what's he's doing anymore I hope he's not cheating on me but I get that female intuition thank you for your messege you are very smart you seem like a good loyal man.
I'm Dealing With A Virgo Al's He's Very Private And He's Going Through A Divorce I'm A Cancer Woman I Understand A little He Work A lot We being See Each Other For A Wild He Comes To My Place Because It Very Secluded And Private He's Dealing With A Lot Right Now.
Johnathan if my Virgo is obviously still in love with his child’s mother should I let him go? It makes me uncomfortable that he talks about her so much. Like to the point he showed me her on fb the other day. I feel like he needs to let all of that go before dealing with me. Is my best move to distance myself?
I would suggest letting him be finished with that situation first or at least let him know that it bothers you. You all need to have a very serious heart to heart about it.
Design Joy you have to let him know I’ve been through this with my Virgo I don’t know what makes them think you want to hear about another woman period smh it’s better now that we communicated about it and they love showing you stuff but when you show them something they don’t seem Interested smh it’s challenging but he’s so worth it!!
Shakita Gabriel that’s true. I thought it was just me. Sometimes I’ll bring something up and he won’t get involved in the convo at all. If I sound upset he’s all over it. But general convo. His mind is in too many places.
Design Joy yes they can be one sided sometimes only caring about what’s on their mind and also them doing things but wanting you to be ok with it but if you do it they’ll have a fit!! Smh takes a lot of communication and compromising to be with a Virgo ♍️
I have a question ... The guy from my class has a Virgo Moon. When the two of us talk hes rly into it and talks alot w me, i can feel hes comfortable around me. But for some reason when one of his friend in our class comes then he doesnt talk to me ? Do u know Why he might do that??
Also, since the day we met hes shown me body language cues that he likes me & i like him too (friendship wise) but i dont understand Why he doesnt even say a simple ”hi” u know?? And i dont even look at him so he doesnt feel that he has to now that we’ve made eye contact
@@beautybybella3770 wow and I read up everything I could and I guess we just don't mix ,,it.says maybe if the two are really good friends then it could work because u know each other way😊I really like this Virgo man and I know I'm attracted to his calmness,reserved and stable ,,I'm 33 and when I was young i was into air signs ,now that I'm older I can't do it I need calm cool and collected 😊😊thank you for your response
I think men do not understand that when a woman is giving you all her love, it is actually hurtful to think that her man is going around giving the same kind of attention to other girls. I understand it's just platonic, but it hurts
Not to mention it’s highly disrespectful and immature to be taking a risk of catching a disease and passing it around to some unsuspecting person because a man can’t be honest. A man would be livid of the tables were turned.
But I do think Virgos have double standards like if your with a Virgo he wants to be the only man friend you have but he has friends but doesn't want you to
Wow that’s so true. He’s want to control each and everything in your life while he does whatever he wants and hides it from you and if you bring it up to him it’s just a mess
@@7Pxndx7 girl yes and as a Leo we shine and very bright virgos don’t like that they will try to dem you’re light
Hit it right on the head
@@kenyagirlxoxo3923 yep, virgos can be jealous of your success and accomplishments
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I truly started listen to your videos trying to learn my Virgo and it was so helpful. Love your videos. But as a Gemini I will say I’ll NEVER date another Virgo!
Don't leave us! :(
Me too😡😡
😂... all the loves..hates... Virgos are really something
Yes dear. They are not for us
Kristie Miller gems can’t deal with Virgo and the sarcasm they dish out always trying to correct them rather it’s vocabulary, what they need to be doing diff etc I’ve heard Gems say they will not ever date a Virgo ♍️
You're right this doesn't apply to all Virgos. I've seen a Virgo cheat and still stay routine and always nervous. Hang onto relationships while entertaining other women.
Is that a sin🫣 just for the record people, there's nothing wrong with loving multiple people or having multiple relationships, as long as the other party is aware. So they can make a decision to start a relationship or not. Real Talk
I felt his nervous energy....and then he seemed to flip out. Asked him some questions - he would not answer...I walked. I already knew he was sharing. He was a exaholic.
I think VIRGO starts to ghost you and act really misteries he's cheating.
I found that out the hard way
@@7Pxndx7 that's what you think but that's not it you both
Everybody is different souls
For me I've never cheated bcuz if I cheat on someone I cheated on myself ND it doesn't feel right, we are one in a relationship with a partner that's how it supposed to be
These are signs that anybody could be cheating... no matter what sign someone is tho
I love my Virgo and being a Aquarius I love myself and he knows I don’t play those head games FK a trait.. I don’t chase em I replace them.. he don’t wanna change up a routine bc I’m a wild card and I will change my zip code and my number period. He don’t want it.. I could be aloof and elusive, I’m a flirt too so pls don’t do it.. I’m Gucci with mine he’s a grown man and I treat him as such he’s a much better man and less critical of himself and I make him face his truth and besides that - CHEATING is another thing bc I would give him a taste of his own Medicine a overdose!! Pls this Aquarius is dynamite I don’t play games I don’t have daddy issues or low self esteem. My father raised me to love me and build me for me not to build a grown man SUPPORT yes raise him HELL NO!!
Patricia Lee Spoken like a true Aqua! Yes I agree, Aquas will destroy you for cheating. We come to relationships very faithful, but if you don’t....you will regret it.
Patricia Lee I am a Virgo woman and all I can say is Man! You said a mouth full!
Did he leave you yet? Just reading your post is a major issue.......
Knicks Fan We are happily married .. so maybe your issues are your own!! Byeeeee no need to reply.
I'm on the cusps of aquarius and I am with a virgo too. to be honest I am the same way, I will literally ghost him and change everything up asap. I don't play that shit either, I will teach your ass a lesson. I am an Aquarius Pisces cusps (Lethal) rare Rhianna on the cusps too you see how cutthroat she is.
I completely agree., there are patterns of randomness. Its so interesting that most Virgos don't think others notices that.
#Facts!
Scorpio woman here feeling like she’s not getting enough. I talked about it to him, he apologized and promised to do better but he’s still the same. I may just stop putting in effort and see if it all fizzles away or he sits up. My silence would provide the answer I need
Perhaps... based on my experience, to most Virgo men, the more is less, and the less (simple) is more. They seem more of an ultra sensitive type that you have to tango with them well in order to maintain the harmony and balance they can handle and enjoy in a relaxing manner. Don't necessarily need to be always nurturing but be completely gentle with them.
You actually HEAR AN APOLOGY? Wow... seriously!
@@barbss.7578 Yup. They can apologize. But if they are a Narcissist the apology isn't worth shit.
It's just more manipulation for their sick game to continue.
It is impossible to love two people at once. Real love is exclusive not inclusive.
loving your children? or am i off
That s a diferent kind of love.
That's a lie
I've been with my Virgo man for 8 years n I have to say this is 10000% accurate
At this point, I'm mfn tied.
I'm a cancer that dated a virgo man in the past.This info is very accurate👍Your voice is very calming by the way. Great video.
I gave him space for life 😂😂
I know that's right
Literally
im starting to not like my virgo man when things dont go his way he runs away to dating sites. its like he finds every excuse to talk to other women. but what he doesn’t know is talking to other women is gona make our relationship worse. he needs to understand just because we have a argument doesn’t mean u run to dating sites. he has alot of growing up to do.
Yes, sounds like he has a lot of growing to do, sounds like he "feels" misunderstood and frustrated, no excuse but that's what it sounds like to me.
Im dealing with a Virgo male now. So far it's been up and down. I'm a leo woman and us leos don't deal well with the behavior of how these Virgos are. However, he can be fun to be with when we are both are in sync. 😩
Leo woman here and I know exactly how u feel. It's like the relationship could be perfect if we could stay on the same page. I can't deal with the hot and cold, and the roller coaster ride. They claim to be so down to earth, but bring more drama by their actions. There's only so much I'm going to tolerate as a leo female
@@caramelapple4053 you've got a point there. It's like it's hard to figure them out. And another issue I have with Virgo men is they're always looking for validation from others & insecurities. My Virgo partner stays on social media looking for likes on the things he post especially from woman. Its annoying and when I speak on it, he says it's not that deep however he's checking to see whose responding to me on mines. 🤷🏿♀️
Mine does the exact same thing, but swears he doesn't care what people think. God forbid if you check him on it, he'll either turn it around on you or downplay it like it's not that serious baby, or you being real petty 🤣, but Leos are supposed to be full of drama. I swear I can't take him sometimes, but tbh I'm not going nowhere anytime soon. I love his complicated ass.
@@caramelapple4053 lol, omg it's like they don't change from the script lol but I feel you, hun. I wouldn't trade mine for no one else in the world. I put too much work in this one already 😉💪🏿.
@@bk3mpress718 the Virgo I’m dating goes to his mom and friends to get their opinion on should be together like wtf
That ending part we have a bond we can chill without sex and just watch movies and cook 👨🍳 sleep cuddle relax but when it’s that time to get busy it’s AMAZING
Facts
You're definitely an aries, me and virgo partner rule together 👏💯😎♈♍❤
@@tianathompson2725 Im still new to astrology
Rod Man you’re a Virgo ♍️ huh???
Tiana Thompson right it gets challenging at times because he can get boring but that fire 🔥 we have in us makes them open up completely he be dancing 🕺 singing 🎤 soon as I get ready to record he try’s to run but eventually lets me 😂😂😂😂 when an Aries ♈️ and Virgo ♍️ together which they say isn’t compatible (opposites do attract) it’s explosive 🧨 that’s truly my best friend!!!
In all your videos, every time you say, "relax" it Instantly pisses me off 😡😂😂😂🤣 ain't nothing about this behavior causes relaxation.
What’s with Virgo men using ‘relax’ like it does the complete opposite 🙄
Aquarius need more space than Virgos lol
lol, ain't no way!
I think Aquarians need more freedom, not necessarily more space. IMO, Virgos need alone time to decompress and to think. Alone time recharges them.
(Not an expert on this though. My guy is a Virgo and my brother is Aquarius 😊)
Nah...ive been surrounded by a lot of aquarius..my ex is one too...they do like their alone timr or enjoy being alone. BUUTTTT they r still good at communication. They don't FORGET to text u.
Ha! I’m Aquarius with Virgo boyfriend, we both need alone time but he needs more mental space. Like I can dig deeeppppp at any moment, but he needs to be pre decompressed 🤣
My Virgo asked me if I had a GPS on him because I knew things and he called me crazy when one time I thought he was doing something I drove by his house and he wasn’t he was at home sleep he’s a truck driver I felt so stupid you on point WOW 😮
A lot of the things you say are contradictory honestly. I agree they are distant/detached, busy/multiple jobs, funny, intuitive, introspective, analytic, hypochondriac, anxious, germaphobes but they are also judgemental, picky, slow to make a decision, have unreal standards even for themselves etc
Omg u said it on the head. Thanks
Chicago love
Yeah. It’s ass backwards. lol
This applies for us virgo woman too...currently taking my time with my virgo man and it’s just magical ❤️
That's beautiful!
I been watching your you tube, you brought me insight about my virgo man. We been together for 7 years. He require a lot of attention. His been cheating for half of the 7 years in our relationship, I'm ready to move on my life. I'm tired dealing with him. I love this man with all my heart. But he put me in to much confusion, manipulation and lies.
I have been friend with him for 4 years. Suddenly things all changed we started to become more close. After around 7 months he said he like to marry someone else. I feel like shit now. How can a person be so rude. And he need my advice for his decision. I used to think I know him very clearly , after all this I don't know. But I love him madly , it's very difficult to move on. We were best friends, we had no secrets in between us. But now I don't know , I can't trust anyone.
PS : I'm a Capricorn.
@@trueline328 hi are you replying on my comment? Why is it that I feel weird with your comment!!!
@@trueline328 please if you know me or we both know each other, you know my live in boyfriend for almost 8 years, in box me. I feel like you are a different woman. He deals with multiple woman. He even brought a woman at the house were sharing while I'm at work found her in our bathroom taking a shower naked and I know he brought the bitch in many times according to my neighbors til i caught it. I'm getting to the point that his not going to change and his other x girlfriends is right about him.
@@katherinefoster5659 I definitely don't know you, I'm from India. When I saw your comment I can totally relate to my situation.
@@trueline328. Lol, I'm so sorry. You some people told me before that Virgo man are great to be friends with but boy friend they said I'm setting myself with heart ache. Now I'm finding that's true!!! I feel the same way your feelin. I feel like shit also, and if your empathic person like I am. It's even harder. But I'm planning something. I wish you luck and I will pray for us me and you strength and courage and fresh set of mine. I been with my virgo almost 8 years. We had talk a about this several times already and give him chances, so I cant change him so I will be the one to change for better myself.
Info is spot on and I know this because I’m trying to get over this Virgo guy I dated. He changed, acted sus, his whole behavior, it’s like he turned into another person. I found out yesterday he has a wholeeeee another relationship idk when it started or what but I feel like it’s been going on before I dated hm and they got back together once he started acting distant. He use to see me and call me every single day all day and out of nowhere he ignored me messages for days and I kept bringing up stuff trying to talk about it and get answers and he kept ignoring it. I went to his fb profile and his status said in a relationship with this girl I caught him texting while he was with me. I went to her Snapchat and saw pictures of them together and then everything fell into place. I’ve been through hell dealing with this dude. Btw I’m a Virgo girl.
Girl, you left me speachless... Im so sorry that you had to experience this. He will get back what he gave to you, for shure. Go and find another one, there are great men that would die to have you. ❤️
hey,
so I've been talking to this Virgo man online for more than 1 year. We are quite compatible with each other and our interest and personality is very similar so we always had good conversation and we are from different countries and our culture is different. But he was the first one who said i like you and after that we become more closed to each other. Though when i told him that he's precious to me and an important part of my life he said he's just a stranger and he backs off but he came back again. Whenever he act a little distant i gave him space and when i asked him what he's ideal type he told me YOU!. He even sometimes ask me when I'm coming to his country to meet him and go out with him and on January 2019 he again asked me this question and from February he started acting very strangely he became way too distant that he started ignoring my text and one day I asked him what happened why are you acting like that he said we even never met each other and we are just friends but I already like him so much and he never had any relationship in his life I never felt this much care and respect from someone I just love him so much that i don't want to lose him. What should I do now??
I really love your channel so much and it really helped me to understand him but now I'm totally confused what should I do? :(
Sorry for my bad English.
Rev J, I have been watching your Virgo man videos trying to figure him out. And it’s scary that everything you said Virgo men are, is actually on point about him. He got the foot fetish, the short text message, wanting to FaceTime. He is also a huge chatterbox & it is very draining for me mentally. As a Leo Sun, Libra moon, Capricorn rising… my way of breaking it off is by putting the man in the friend zone. I feel bad for the Virgo man that I friend zone. But I just can’t deal w/ the drama. I just deleted his number on my phone. but y’all are just way too much. As a Leo woman, I will NEVER date another Virgo!
Sounds too contradictory to me. Shouldn’t be that complicated. 🙄
I'm a taurus woman married to a virgo man.. been together 20yrs married for 18 yrs.. still can't figure him out.. he's not a cheater
Always tells me any and everything.. because I have a low tolerance level for bull..but he's always in his head omg... really frustrating.. never ever contented always going the extra 💯... don't think I can ask for anything else just trying to figure him out.. thanks for enlightening me
I would appreciate it if you kept the video short and brief
I had to tell him to ditch the friends. Those “females” were getting the wrong idea and calling him hun and baby and we are married. No thanks, things are better now.
Wow I’m a 24 year old Virgo man and it’s like your my Virgo brother from another mother 😂 hit all the points with that first two videos I’ve watched 👍
Thanks for the confirmation fam!
I'm enjoying watching the growth. Keep it up!
Libra abd Virgo 8 yrs theres something always not right feel like he stuck in the past nomatter how loyal i am as a friend or lover
Why don't they just leave if they are so unhappy 🤷🏿
Probably don't want to pay the Bill's.....🤷🏽♀️🤣😂
@@tianathompson2725 yea fucking scum bags 😂
Because it's a way to control and they usually have the personality of a Narcissist
@@KsBadass88 very true so sad people gotta bring others down with them bc they are miserable 😖
I have been friend with him for 4 years. Suddenly things all changed we started to become more close. After around 7 months he said he like to marry someone else. I feel like shit now. How can a person be so rude. And he need my advice for his decision. I used to think I know him very clearly , after all this I don't know. But I love him madly , it's very difficult to move on. We were best friends, we had no secrets in between us. But now I don't know , I can't trust anyone. I even had a thought he may come back , as still he talks about all his life except love. I can't clearly see him as a friend, he is more than that for me.
PS : I'm a Capricorn.
Hey Rev J! You are shining bright like a Diamond.Thank you for the insight and detailed clues.
Thank you ,pastor for that information i had a virgo we met at work we got so close he started dating all the woman i was there i look out for him when he got out of jail made sure he ate got a ride home he dog me i didnt expect nothing from him butt respect i didnt get it i guess i wasnt his type he left me for a woman who stayed with a man a they still talk too her i just let him do him he left me in a hotel never said.nothing else that was dirty i deserve better then that i luv my self more hes a fuck boy
Stay away from those type of guys!
Thank God my Virgo man is the opposite. .. thanks for this video... I feel more confident
Ok so my virgo has a double standard-issue going on see im a pisces and sometimes i will purposely do the same thing but a little bit different to my Virgo and he be so upset let's just be like all into his feelings and I'll be living like the fuc you just did the same thing the other day he be looking Stuck on Stupid and don't know how to explain it smh
I just call it one sided. He hates it when I mirror him. I tell him warnings in advance yet we have the same cycled convos. I always said that he needs to watch his mouth bc one day hell say sh he can't take back... of course, nevermind all the low hurtful things hes said to me. But let it linger what I say then. I say what I mean & its all truth. Its not games, its just im not a door matt. I wasn't one when I met him. Hes either w/ me or he isn't. I require the bare minimum. He can't even accomplish that sometimes. And guarantee it he sits around and wallows and sh before ever considering to act on it. Hes younger too so I can't help but to feel the need to damn guide him to do right. Yes sometimes I feel like I'm lecturing him. Calling him a child has prob got to him by now. Sure as hell doesn't help when his dad seems worse. Your son is fn 26. Time to leave the nest, daddio. Legit its like 3 generations of dependency. I'm sorry but at his dads age, I'd hafta stop and think to myself at some point, wow. That should be a guide on what not to become.
My virgo man cheated on me because im a capicorn woman
Can you do a what causes virgos to cheat please .
I was about to say please skip to the facts when I clicked on this video 😂I know virgos say a lot of things in detail just like my baby and thats why I love you guys
I think you also described traits of a virgo woman too.
I told my virgo partner that he's beginning to behave like a cheater by accusing me over text. He responds that , " cheating is something he understands." He's always so vague . He leaves me wondering if he is cheating ???
I'm Gemini Women You. ladies are tough you can Handle them just with the right tools. I was raise by A Virgo and my mom. was a Gemini [ RIP]. I said lord I will not date a Virgo. Then i had 3 Sons so that means I had to Raise a Virgo son a Leo son and a Aquarius. my home was excited. they are just picky men, if you can pinpoint their action you have to pay attention to them it's Easy. they love hard but you have pay very close to them be yourself. never go in looking for anything with them. Stay honest and true to the game you have to want things to put it like this don't be lazy when it comes to them what you put into them, they will put it into you. Treat them the way they treat you. 'Always do self-love first. Self loves explain a lot to them. stay consists with them, I'm married know and Guess what to a Virgo it is a very worldwide of the marriage it's fun its outgoing and I will always keep it real. but Iam a Gem I don't play
Scorpio woman may not be a good match for him after all
jumoke Hussein oh wow? I’m a Scorpio n just met a Virgo 🤔🤔🤔
@@nesha50421 how's that going? I just met mine 11 days ago
A.A Ali not good... I stopped kickin it with
BRO YOU ARE AWESOME. IMA VIRGO ♍ MAN. ALOT OF WOMEN CONFUSE MY GOALS WITH CHEATING. I GET CALLED MALE WHORE, CONCEITED, AND THINK ABOUT MYSELF. IM JUST VERY VERY VERY MOTIVATED BY MY BUSINESS. IM A ENTREPRENEUR, AND I MEET FEMALES EASILY BUT WE BREAK UP QUICKLY. THEY THINK THE CAN DEAL WITH MY BUSINESS.
I DO HAVE ALOT OF FEMALE FRIENDS BUT MY GIRLFRIENDS USUALLY THINK THAT SOMETHING IS GOING BECAUSE IM HEAVILY LOVED.
@Ase Kavy LOVE YOU 💯💯💯
Lol He said "Girlfriends" Plural
Got Caught Red handed lmao
I'm Aquarius and Virgos are not emotional enough very distant
Thank u for this information young man, you keep on shining your light on the world God bless u.
Love the channel, I subbed a while ago, trying to understand my Virgo guy better. The vids have been SO helpful!
Thanks, glad I could help!
You Say This Could Be Complicated But As A Taurus I'm Following Easily. Lol I Have A Few Virgos In My Life & I Can Say This Is Accurate.
Hey Jonathan 👋🏽 In your opinion: Is it likely that a cheating ♍️ man who gets caught while trying to leave a long term relationship would completely ghost the other woman he's in love with? Ex: After being exposed..never contact the woman again (no conversation or explanation) ?
Hey J, that patio & sun is doing ya video good lol
Thanks! :)
My Virgo man is also texting his ex’s saying that they’re just friends. He doesn’t talk or communicate with them around me openly. He’s so hard to read and he only shows me affection when he’s interested. I don’t know what to think?
Alot of respect bro always on point keep up the gud work
I think my situation is unique I have known him for 20 yrs we are dating taking it slow. We had a few fights and he pulled away it's been 2 weeks off and on contact. While watching this video he calls to explain our conversation yesterday. I'm just in a new place he's complicated but he have a bond built over these years. He said he would tell me if it's another woman.
Yeah!! I like how you said that ...we growing😆😆.
Welcome newbies to my Bro,Advisor,Virgo Guide,etc.. channel 😂😆
We take the time to develop connections and purposeful relationships friends etc
They definitely can love more than one at a time... too bad for them cuz that don't work for Gemini! Bye!
I Appreciate you speaking the Truth about Virgo's especially being vulnerable about dating two woman at once💯
This is all factual
very clear! Thanks
Jonathan you are really helping me out with this situation like fa real thank you...
Great points and good information!
idk with my virgo , he use to do alot with me on spending time, but then he stopped and only did things once a week and it's been 2 month... and then all of a,sudden he wanted me to meet the family...... idk what to do . he is not every open to me on things ...... what would u say that is ?
He likes u...
What about a Virgo man doing stuff with you except the def has stopped? I’m a Scorpio. Been with my Virgo for 15 months
I live with him and I see that he only wants sex now we haven't gone out on a date in a long time if I don't feel good health wise and I don't feel like having sex and I tell him we can't after I've cooked dinner for us he looks at me very upset and he says okay but he's very sexual I'm in my 50s now he's 63 years old how does he still want sex from me every night.
I just realized I wasn’t subscribed to your Channel. I had to hit that subscribe button quick.
What’s your moon sign?
:( :)... my moon sign is ironically Virgo I think,
@@JonathanRWhitfield oh jeez ...... indeed a supa virgo 😂
I recently dated a virgo and I have found some texts messages that I question. I will definitely hit you up
Love 💕 your Videos. I had to show my Virgo Man your videos. It’s trippy. You describe his behavior to a T. We enjoy watching your channel.
Thank you, I appreciate the love!
Jwhitfield how do you feel about an Aries woman dealing with a Virgo man? We have been on and off he's gone 1 1/2 month with no communication AT ALL yet we somehow reconnect he messaged after month to meet up says he wants relationship am I just a fuck to him? Or could he have possible feelings? He does have trust issues which is one of the main problems in relationship!!
Eh that love two people thing equally .... nah
What about change in Libido? Went from having a super high sex drive to low? The fool even had the audacity to say “Sex is overrated” when confronted lol
... "if hes not open to you about something, then hes cheating"
.....but them again be careful with this, because virgos, we are very private people, so it doesn't necessarily mean hes cheating, it just means that he is being reserved? But it might be that he is cheating, but don't assume he is for sure, cuz he might not be? Wtf? Kind of help is this. You left me more confused than my possible cheating husband!!!
You flip flopped, and contradicted yourself so many time. I feel like you're cheating on me, and idk even know you.
Every other sentence that came out your mouth, left my head spinning so much, that I think a cheating spouse would be more clear, and straightforward than this whole thing.
If he does this, well hes cheating
But: it might be he isn't because hes virgo, and that's how virgos are.
If he does this, that also is an indication that hes cheating
But it might not he that hes cheating because he's a virgo, and virgos do things that look like hes cheating, bit they're not, but they might be....you know that's just how virgos are.
So basically, this video is a contradictory waste of time.
Got it. Thanks.....for absolutely nothing, or something? Idk....cuz you know you're a virgo, and well virgos are just confusing as hell like that.
Love, I understand your confusion oh, you may want to slow down a little bit and listen carefully to what I was saying. Virgo men can be very confusing when it comes to feelings and emotions and behaviors. I said make sure you know your Virgo personally so you can tell the difference between these behaviors. You want an easy and simple answer and I'm giving you exactly the things that Virgo men go through. Sometimes it is very complicated
Noemy Villatoro AND that’s a VIrGO MAN to the T! A walking fucking contradiction!
Noemy Villatoro
Yess girl, I agree
I agree
My virgo gave me a heads-up and his work has been crazy he's saying he's still up for meeting up but doesn't know his schedule. I'm busy too but idk ... He hasn't called either just texts a few times a day vs the many before the heads up. He does have alot going on work, parent and car situation. He's been consistent since day one and communicative. So idk. We aren't dating
Lol sounds like my virgo... hes a real catch. I bet he does question if ill leave him at any given moment. So its no wonder hes sketch. Stay insecure... bc I can give him more reasons... also, our convos are lit. :/ no they're not
Thanks.. I have a question what about long distance relationships...
they can work!
@@JonathanRWhitfield thanks
Oh god... this not gonna be good to hear 😂
@@jordanallen8420 how many times are you gonna post this?
So this Virgo and I at first we used to call each other on FaceTime and he used to call me every day that was before we met after all this he asked me to be his girlfriend so we see each other every week but doesn’t call as much as before. Idk what I can do in this situation! Also we we talk on the phone he says that he’s tired before he have to work early so hangs up.
I’m a Capricorn and I can’t stand Virgo men 🤣🤣
Well dang! Lol
Congrats on 2k
Thank you! :)
Like you said i have a good heart when he get hurt he ran too me i stop that real quick im going too hit you up for a private reading god bess you
JwhitfieldInspires@gmail.com
Can I ask you what your views on astrology and you religious teachings?
I love astrology, I think it is one of many tools that can help one on one's self journey.
@@JonathanRWhitfield What influenced your decision? I know your a Virgo and all but do you talk about astrology with your congregation?? not to ask all these questions but I've never heard a pastor admit to using astrology since they all taught me it was evil.
No in church, it'll be more on an intimate level but everyone doesn't accept it and it's fine, not a big deal. I just started seeking more self-knowledge and I learned a lot about it in seminary. It is not evil, the entire bible is built on astrology.
He's cheating on me and there is no such thing as someone loveing two people I don't like him anymore nir love him I'm going to leave him soon, he's acting strange around me he's not telling where he's going it's not fair I tell him where I'm going I will never date a Virgo man again sorry I know your a Virgo but no disrespect for you but I hate cheaters I literally gave him all my love and wasted my years of youth with him no more I'm done with him I don't even care what's he's doing anymore I hope he's not cheating on me but I get that female intuition thank you for your messege you are very smart you seem like a good loyal man.
I'm Dealing With A Virgo Al's He's Very Private And He's Going Through A Divorce I'm A Cancer Woman I Understand A little He Work A lot We being See Each Other For A Wild He Comes To My Place Because It Very Secluded And Private He's Dealing With A Lot Right Now.
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Johnathan if my Virgo is obviously still in love with his child’s mother should I let him go? It makes me uncomfortable that he talks about her so much. Like to the point he showed me her on fb the other day. I feel like he needs to let all of that go before dealing with me. Is my best move to distance myself?
I would suggest letting him be finished with that situation first or at least let him know that it bothers you. You all need to have a very serious heart to heart about it.
Design Joy you have to let him know I’ve been through this with my Virgo I don’t know what makes them think you want to hear about another woman period smh it’s better now that we communicated about it and they love showing you stuff but when you show them something they don’t seem Interested smh it’s challenging but he’s so worth it!!
Shakita Gabriel that’s true. I thought it was just me. Sometimes I’ll bring something up and he won’t get involved in the convo at all. If I sound upset he’s all over it. But general convo. His mind is in too many places.
Design Joy yes they can be one sided sometimes only caring about what’s on their mind and also them doing things but wanting you to be ok with it but if you do it they’ll have a fit!! Smh takes a lot of communication and compromising to be with a Virgo ♍️
A virgo called me his babymom name once it broke my heart. Virgos have broken me n i will never be the same way ever again
This sounds more like a Capricorn
Female friends??? NAw....
Virgos must be mad at you for selling them out 😂
Lol
A minister talking about astrology 😶😶😶👿👿👿👿
Yes, the bible is full of astrology, from Genesis to Revelations
Not he exposing y’all😭
I have a question ... The guy from my class has a Virgo Moon. When the two of us talk hes rly into it and talks alot w me, i can feel hes comfortable around me. But for some reason when one of his friend in our class comes then he doesnt talk to me ? Do u know Why he might do that??
Also, since the day we met hes shown me body language cues that he likes me & i like him too (friendship wise) but i dont understand Why he doesnt even say a simple ”hi” u know?? And i dont even look at him so he doesnt feel that he has to now that we’ve made eye contact
Shiiiiiiid.... Yall viro guys dont need more space than Scorpio Guys.... maybe its similar but not More
I wanna know why Virgos and aries are considered to not be compatible?
Lisa Wesby aries is hardheaded and virgo is stubborn. doesn’t work. fire and earth doesnt mix unless you’re trying to cook a stir fry😂😂😂
@@beautybybella3770 wow and I read up everything I could and I guess we just don't mix ,,it.says maybe if the two are really good friends then it could work because u know each other way😊I really like this Virgo man and I know I'm attracted to his calmness,reserved and stable ,,I'm 33 and when I was young i was into air signs ,now that I'm older I can't do it I need calm cool and collected 😊😊thank you for your response
I'm an Aries & we've been together for 10 months and we're planning our wedding. We have our moments yet we communicate thoroughly.
black magic Also, it all depends on your birth chart...what is your moon and his? It can still work even if you are fire and he’s earth.
@@tavy311 10 months 😱😂
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Figures..... He just out for my 🐈💦😭🙍🖤🤦
blah blah Blaah !!!!!!!!!