Virgo Men And Mind Games
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- čas přidán 21. 02. 2021
- This video explores how and if Virgo men play mind games!
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From my experience with a Virgo man they are manipulative of the mind games, When they find out you have feelings for them. The reason he ignores you (if you believe prior you felt a connection) is that he’s playing the game, he wants to have you but doesn’t want to come off too needy, so even if he really likes you, he”ll ignore your messages for a few hours days months or years just to make you want him more. Including spying on you and watching your stories. and not replying back to you. It’s the perfect plan because now you want his attention and he comes off cool calm and collected and not needy. The ball is in his court. I would just mirror his actions. In cases like these from my personal experience and from second hand experience, firstly if he's watching stories he definitely still likes you. They like to stalk and watch. If he didn't at least like you he wouldn't be doing that. Virgo is a thorough researcher, and only they’ve got their mind on someone, they will tirelessly examine all of their victims’ social media post and photos over the years, a (Virgo stalker) will learn everything about your life that you’ve ever made public... and then dig deeper to find things that you didn’t. for numerous years you not knowing they have kept all this information. A Virgo will stalk if he didn't get an answer and the person is dramatic. In this case they will think they have a shot because the dramatic person will feel validated.
I've seen numerous of stories of Virgos stalking exes and in all cases..it was the exes that were playing games for attention then turned around and felt stalked. Virgo men will be sulking for ages and hoping his ex might take him back. But he will either extend his friendship or just sulk in silence still watching... He just hates rejection and the girl he tried to move on with and make you jealous backfired on him. His mind games and passive aggressive tactic didn't work on you so now he will sulk and wonder why you did'nt feed into his games on wanting you to chase him. Now another guy lucked up. Virgos hate to LOSE. These guys move like snails. You wait until he wants to come see you again and you act busy and flip the script. His mind will start wondering who else you are seeing because he's noticing you're not accommodating. This will weigh on his ego.
He will then either step up or disappear. If he already knows you like him... He also knows you can do better so he is playing a few games to get the upper hand. Don't feel bad if you gave him the upper hand, it usually goes like this with guys like him. If you decide not to see him explain why very clearly. They hang on to every word. He will read and analyze your text and make a decision and then proceed as he wants. Also You also don't know who else he's seeing. I figured this one real quick. They like to have multiple women around them. I felt he was weighing his options. He's deciding who he wants to be with. They do respect you standing up for yourself so if you express your feelings like I said they will listen and at least respect you. Virgo men do want lots of attention from whereever they can get, and our challange is not to let them transform us into a tool for their ego gratification. When He's watching your stories so you don't necessarily need to see him for him to be reminded of you per say. Whatever you decide ( see him again or not), back off, And go silent and respond with one word answers. They are slow like I mentioned. Guys are slow in general-for example you tell them something and they get it a week letter. These guys are slow because they're constantly over analyzing and weighing the pros and cons of being with you. Give him room. I figured He will either come back with an invitation to a relationship or some BS.
Women who have never delt with him before would think that the (low vibration Virgo man) is the one playing mind games, when in reality ... they get what you willing give them and leave. They may come back to get more. but, in the meantime, they pretty much ignore you, which means ... no games of mind, because their minds aren't even there to play with you. Yet, the low vibration man who is a player, and will wrap an illusion around your mind that you think is love, but it isn’t.
When a Virgo man plays games with you like this, it means he's not fully committed. Virgo men are distant from strangers by nature, but if they aren't upfront and honest, then they have something going on in their lives preventing them from being totally honest with you. It could be emotional baggage, it could be something they saw/heard that they didn't like, but wouldn't mention to you; it could even be ties to another female, like an ex coming back into the picture or him feeling interested in someone else. Something fishy is definitely going on, but because he's not the type of person who can communicate or be honest with you, i don't think it's worth pursuing. I know that's easier said than done, especially since there's always the possibility of it working out, but trust me, it would be a rocky, dramatic, dishonest road with this guy if he can't be upfront from the getgo. Virgos are sweethearts when they wanna be, but they can be emotionally unstable and bring you along for the ride with mindgames and the hot/cold thing. Virgo's are known for having double mysterious lives. Virgos are huge on words, masters of fantasy worlds they create with their alluring language. They make us feel like the queens of the world. But, those are just words. When it comes to actions, they vanish, ghost, and disappear. They tell you all these nice things but disappear & act emotionally distant due to insecurity or ego. Virgo men’s unavailability leads to the same result. They drive you mad with the wondering about what is going on between the two of you. Leave you feeling hurt by their disappearing acts without any explanation. Make you feel like the bad guy because their personal lives are oh-so-complicated and sad. They take advantage of your sympathy and tap into it when they need it, but never when you need it because they have none to give.
I think that's what Virgos do a lot of the time. They are into you, then as soon as you are into them, they don't want you anymore. I'm not saying it happens that way every time but with the Virgo guys I've been around, that's the way it's been. It's too bad, really, because they can be so charming and sexy and into relating to women at a close level. Then boom. Cold, distant, mean really. Go find another. When it comes to the old saying of wanting what one cannot have, Virgos are the ultimate suckers. They love chasing after women who ignore them. As for the disappearing act, he was likely entertaining other women, AKA being a Vir-HOE.
They tend to be closet perverts then try to show off the innocent angel image to the world. But very perverted and they love dirty porn. Virgo men suffer from Madonna/Whore complexes. A Virgo man with a madonna-whore complex will sleep with and lust for a sexual and beautiful woman but he will never respect her as "wife" material and he will never marry her. In his eyes, she is tainted, impure, unworthy of the status of wife, yet he may possess passionate and contradictory feelings for her. He may even be in love with her but will never allow himself to be with her in any real sense. He will look for a "good girl" to marry, usually a woman who is cold sexually but, for example, is good at "wifely" domestic things: cooking, cleaning, homemaking in general, etc. A proper, pure "madonna" type woman who will bear his children. They can only truly let go sexually when the sex is extremely perverted. For this reason you see so many posts online about how Virgo men keep at least two realtionships going at once. He sees the wife as the Madonna and is very uptight with her. He must always have someone else on the SIDE to maintain the dual life that all Virgo men live. Virgo men seem to get a very strong rush from lying and cheating. There is something for them about hiding facts and truth that is like a drug to their system. Due to their pathological lying they are often shockingly successful at keeping a mistress/escort for years on end without the wife ever finding out. Why? Who knows? I do think it has much to do with the fact that these Virgos cannot actually love anyone (including themselves). Rather they obsess or fixate which never allows them to have a conscience.
These men are to be used for errands, favors, dinners, gifts, and nothing more. The good thing about them is how transparent and easy to manipulate they are, so have fun, make them your b*tch, then drop them and move on. Do this, and they will be stuck on you forever...🙂 The misconception about Virgo men...they are completely aware of everything they do.....they do have guilt which is why they stalk your life after you end them....but their insecurity and need to be needed and liked doom them forever. There's a reason they're never in relationships, or they never last.
If there's anything I've learned along the way of life, is you can't make someone like you or love you no matter how long you "hang out". So, go find someone else who really appreciates you and someone you can be "real" with. Time is something you can't get back once you've spent it.
Exactly right...you explained it well..
This makes a lot of sense. I am undecided whether to stay or go. We have an intense connection though. Being a pisces, I'm so intuitive and I know there is something there, and it's felt on both sides without even saying a word. I also know I have what it takes to play his metal gymnastics. Check-mate. I'm the queen. I'm just over being confused, ghosted, and the game. When in person, he is a whole different animal. He is completely present. He's got that virgo stare watching my every move. I'm mutable as well so I am completely mirroring him, watching him. He is slow as fuck to come toward me with communication when we are apart. It's tough to because we hang in the same social circle so we both know we are going to see each other again. It's beyond frustrating!
I like the way u said it geminigirl22 yeap that is a virgo for you my son is a virgo they very manipulative but i found gemini are running by Mercury as well and they can play mind games as well but me honestly Virgo makes great friends but as far relationship i am a lady a Queen i love chilvary attention and not get ignored if i put in 50%u got to meet me the other 50 %or nothing i dont have time for games ..
They playing too much for me and PETTY OMG...
You copy and past lol
@@nancydrew3615 what sign are you?? well it’s also not just his sun sign. You have his moon sign? his rising? and his Venus placements and Mars placements too. on how he loves and his emotions cause that can weigh on how that effects you too! I know I have only attracted Virgo guy that I was very interested in and they get cold feet. best advice I could give you is don’t depend on him. Love yourself and don’t ask him for validation. work on you. From what I have learned from these guys. They are a whole different breed but I know it’s frustrating and difficult but just focus on you. And I wish you happiness :-)
Dating a Virgo now and he’s sooo hard to read that it could be annoying and frustrating smh!!! He’s so closed off that I’m losing my patience’s at this point.
Virgos are very easy to read. Just pay attention cause they like to talk in parables. Sometimes it can be exhausting trying to interpret their parables and they get embarrassed when you figure it out, but if you really like him, you’ll figure it out.
@@netta569 ughhhhhh yeahhhh it’s definitely like playing cat and mouse loll I like him but sometimes I wonder if I have the patience to deal with it
@@amypiliposian5908 haha no doubt... I’m a Taurus so I find it very easy to understand him. Unfortunately, sometimes even tho I do, I make him interpret what he’s saying because I know at this point he is more fond of me, then I am of him and it forces him to be vulnerable. 🤷🏽♀️ It’s better when we have that leverage. 😊
@@christopherc1976 Absolutely!!! Taurus are great listeners too so we catch everything lol. It’s a great challenge in a positive way, except when we are very tired or in a disagreement. We don’t have time to be listening to parables. Lol... that’s where I need more patience. 🤷🏽♀️
Virgo male here. Best way to know what a Virgo is thinking? Ask.
As an Aries, virgo men give me such headaches sometimes, such a mystery, my fight or flight response is always provoked cuz they’re so fascinating yet cold as ice. Great video, thanks for insight!!
I'm an Aries woman dating a Virgo man and it is very frustrating!! Definitely a roller-coaster ride.
@@tekeaoquendo3831 i think aries men are the worst. I have a crush on my virgo man, but idk he's scared of me at times.
@@maryvillalobos2672 lol well so far I'm still holding on to my virgo man and he's really starting to open up more so 🤞🏽we have a great relationship.
@@maryvillalobos2672 lol well so far I'm still holding on to my virgo man and he's really starting to open up more so 🤞🏽we have a great relationship.
@Mystery yeah only if we get cheated on .. you get what you give
I can smell strategy way too easily but I usually play dumb & don’t call it out. It’s like I’m strategizing right back by playing dumb and just letting them think they’re so darn smooth 😩😂😘
😂😂😂 LOL!!! Exactly 💯 I'm a Leo 🦁 and it's actually quite enjoyable to see him sweat😅😅😅😅
Im doing the same and Im Aries 🤣🤣
Yes .....I'm a Leo also! I got him hooked and he's met his match because I learned how he operates. At 1st I felt played mentally and fell for everything. But now game recognize game. LETS GO!
Lol same. I’m like do you have to be that intentional..？But calling him out would be quiet awkward so😂
Yess I a Leo baby I 2 can play this game lol I always say this lol I mirror’s back haha
I was dating a Virgo Man and I'm a Cancerian Woman. We lost contact over the years and he finally tracked me down so I finally gave him a chance only to find out that he's inconsistent and not capable of having real conversations with me. He was more of a narcissist so I decided to walk away from him.
Virgo men and cancer women don’t belong together
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Who are you to say what signs belong together or not?
Sagittarius.. We see through it. Ignore us and we out
Yea i dont play the ignore game, im so on point he can dress it up and make it sound good and im just a smooth #Sagittarius
I swear
We def do and it’s hilarious and a waste of time to us.
I'm a sag female and my bf is Virgo. After 9 years I learned to let him think he is smart/right. I mostly ignore him when he is being childish or over thinking and imagining foolishness. I only bark back when he crosses specific lines ( and he does it for attention/ revenge cause he thinks I'm mad at him) 🙄 I learned he loves to argue and I hate waisting my breath just to prove a point to a hard headed person 😊 they also love their ego stroked... P.s. most Virgo men want to be in control/ wear the pants but they don't have the emotional stability needed to be in control of others and they know it.
Cancer sun with a Sag moon. Yep, it’s dull, all this icy reticence You’re either hot or you’re not.
My experience with a Virgo man was more so out of lust.... then I started catching feelings for this "low vibrational" However my intuitive feelings kept reassuring me that he wasn't all committed not that I feel he was really dealing with me just only. Although he seemed compassionate and understanding, I just feel like he was just being nice but using that "emotionall" side of me but I caught up to is lies. He made it seem like everything was okay but it wasn't. My advice with a Virgo men: BE CAREFUL and think twice.
As a Libra dating a Virgo he is absolutely right. My advice to you can not be clingy or needy when dating a Virgo bc if you are that will drive you insane on how distant they are. If you are needy don’t date a Virgo. As a Libra we like our space anyway so that doesn’t bother us really. We will just treat you how you treat us. We mirror people naturally 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t know how you do it. I dated 2, one for a couple of months-he was mind f*ery in action and I broke it off with him. Second one only lasted one date, I’m not needy but don’t make plans with me then don’t even bother canceling and I have to ask. Absolutely not! There was another one, didn’t even make it to the date. He asked me out, I said ok, this one said he was going away to visit family and I saw him walking in the park lmao 🤣 ok bye you fool. I feel like looking back, they may have all been in relationships. I’m blunt and shoot from the hip so they probably hate that too 😂
I’m also a Libra, have an interest in a Virgo and I naturally mirror his energy, we both bring cold and distant now. You gonna decide how we gonna act.
Yasssss I’m so glad your back!! Give me all the virgo secrets!! Lol I luv my virgo, the good bad and indifferent!!🥰.
Virgo mind games are actually fun. They make you think.... If you're patient, you can figure them out.🤔🤔🤔🤔
Lol, the Virgo I’m interested in literally asked me if I had enough patience for him and I said yes. I had noooooo idea I’d need THIS much patience.
😂😂😂 .. no
@@MzNellieNellz talk about it. 😳 Like sir what exactly are we doing here
But it's a very immature mind games and they are big lairs😂No thank you
#VirgoMenSucks♍
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 :/
It’s the “God ain’t please with that.” for me! 😁You are showing up and showing out with these videos....The consistency is appreciated. Keep it up. #All2021 😂
lol, I appreciate that!
If you or someone you know has been victimized by a virgo you may be entitled to compensation💯 lol jk
cancer woman & I avoid virgo men at all cost. I do enjoy studying them. If it weren’t for this channel I’d still be in the dark about these men. I tell any woman who’s dealing with a virgo to watch this channel. Virgo men are by far the hardest men to read. Thanks for the content.
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I’m a Cancer too. Seems like the more he falls in love with me the more distant he’s coming. It’s weird.
"Virgo men are by far the hardest men to read" - You said a mouth full!
I find Virgo and Scorpio men the hardest to read. Thoughts?
I am a virgo guy. You exposing us bro 🤣🤣🔥🔥🙆🏾♂️ #NewFan
Hey i know you on fwcebook 😆😅😁😂
@@bestcartoonmoments9070 look here, the digital world is way too small 🤣🔥🔥
Sup bro.
@@teezyk5745 Nmal gee, i dm u for fb
Like wtf bruh😂
Cancer with a Virgo. I feel like we truly understand each other. We're a great match ❤
Lolll Libras too only difference we don’t always feel like we have to acknowledge what we see you doing but we see it and we be on to you 😉
Exactly. Apparently he’s not familiar with Libra 😂
So true. Libra here dating a Virgo. I already know his next move before it’s played.
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Exactly libra here I play I don't know what they up to
@@destinyegu1572 I'm a libra too..how do u know?
Boy you know Gemini’s don’t take NO shit from a Virgo so I’m so glad you mentioned we can keep up with them intellectually... but the headache my man gives me is endless 😩
If they’re taking too long you’re not IT.
-Virgo ♍️ woman
What’s took long?
Everything you said is 💯💯💯.. I'm a taurus woman married to a virgo man he always says measure twice cut once
And he also says he's a lover not a fighter... he is a man of his word... but he works really hard never dependant on anyone for anything... but he is always thinking...and gives me the silent treatment so he gets a dose of his own medicine and cannot handle it.. also I've learnt that when he's venting or complaining about a situation to just let him do it. Usually I just start going off and he shuts down so I just calmly sit and listen to him and let him get some peace...but all in all they are the most loving signs..but my God I feel sometimes I need a drink..😂😂😂🤭🤭
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I feel you on this they don't like the silence treatment but stand your ground that what I do
Girrrrrrlllll
Omg girl.... tell me bout it ! Im a taurus woman with virgo husband too . Good days we are so so fuckin good but sometimes uffff i wanna Pull my hair out . Really im simple , i dont like them makin things complex and the mind game . Lately his been makin me insane man . I too need a drink .
Oh my gosh.....I appreciate this video, THANK YOU... It brings confirmation in the way I've been feeling, I am a Cancer in Love with a Virgo Man and it seem like sometimes we just go round and round... I really do hope that this message helps me too better navigate within our relationship and understanding of each other, Thank you
How is it going now Melissa?
If ur a Virgo & watched this video & start laughing 😂 because we know exactly what he talking about the we do.
I swear bruh this shit crazy then a mf😂
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My Virgo man looks at other women sometimes and it hurt me so much that I cried I stopped crying over him because I didn't wanna feel hurt anymore, I explained how much it hurts to have him looking at other women he don't care instead blames my insecurities.
I really think being a Virgo doesn’t have anything to do with it. If he’s not loyal then leave him be. Loyalty doesn’t care about your signs.
@@icedareaper thanks for telling me
He ain't shit. Dump him and don't look back
reversed psychology 😅🤫 but I tell you what : we Virgos ♍ are extremely loyal
@@sedakuday610 my ex wasn't loyal he would let exes text him claim they were lesbian which they were bi and go hang out all night then home the next day would gaslight me and would put locks on all his devices to hide his tracks tell me about his friends cheating in their girls and even asked me if he could have sex with other women I said no called me ugly and fat tell me I'm insecure he admitted that he cheated and I provoked him i moved on.
Cancer here and I’m a magnet for Virgos 😆 I’m always playing chess with these ppl .. my dad , my son , my sons father, 2 Bestfriends, and current dude all Virgos 😩 y’all pray for me
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I’m a cancer sun with a Sag moon, I find then dull.
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Ooh my God,all family are virgo. We will pray for you.
Funny thing is when 2 Virgos come together it comes to who will last the longest and who's the most stubborn eventually i just walk away because i ain't about mind games i like a challenge but i don't like my time to be wasted i love virgo men but only evolved had a very beautiful spiritual connection with one but he was too insecure and said he wasn't good enough for me he thought i was too much of a powerful woman i think he'd rather had someone he could fix instead of growing together and be open to heal and put his pride aside
I wanted to give up but I like him too much. so I'm trying to build tolerance
Yassss lawd!! I had to hit that subscribe button!!!
Im new to you so ive been goin back watching some of your older vids leading up to recent vids .... You, LITERALLY get better Aesthetically with time.... nice
Engaged to a Virgo.... I'm a Taurus Woman, I definitely know how to handle my King... He get on my nerves sometimes but i don't pay him no mind 🤣💙😍😘💪🔐🙏
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Congrats girl!!
Y’all are meant to be lol 😂
lol that's bc ya'll are 2 different sides of the same earth coin
Virgos meet their match with Aquarius. Aquarius are very smart and intellectual like a virgo. Can't mess with a Aquarius. I see that you don't talk much about the Aquarius, meaning you haven't had much encounter with one to learn that they are highly intellegent, creators, guiet and play the game under the radar .
Virgos are on a whole different level it really runs deep we are the most purest sign 🤷🏾♂️
@@christopherc1976 we don't know where we stand with virgo so we just friend zone yall
Aquarius ain't all that most of them are bat shit crazy or somewhere stirring up trouble
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 What Aquarius hurt you?
@@chanelmone4000 None, I have Aquarius female friends and they all nosey and keep trouble going on
Man you giving us away like Steve Harvey does men in general 😭😭😭
I am sooooo happy I am back subscribed to you! You popped up on my feed after I was unsubscribed from you for some reason! I am with a Libra and my Virgo has met his match, and he loves it!
CZcams be doing that for some reason 😒
@@JonathanRWhitfield Gotcha! I am back tho!!🥰🥰🥰 I am sooo proud of you! You have stepped your game up with you presentation and production!! Lots of love her for you my Brother!!!!🥰🥰🥰
With Virgo I’m Cancer women. We definitely have great intuition!!!
My man is a Virgo and he play mind games. Remind you I’m a Sag woman. Sagittarius can smell and call out BS. I call him out as soon he try to do it. Of course, he will play dumb or act like he didn’t say it. I tell him you can’t hustle a hustler, so I ignore just to get him under his skin
Absolutely I’m a Sagittarius and I do not play games with them Virgo i check they ass!!!
@@lalixlili ..yes give him space. I act like he doesn’t exist until he comes correct. I live with my Virgo and he’s 45 but, he “feels” 24. As mutable signs we can adapt to situations especially; Sags. Virgo men don’t like it when you beat them in their own game. (Don’t argue with them) play dumb think smart
@@tymeishalovell4830 He reached out and apologized. He deals with discrimination and racism so it got under his skin. he will quit his job for another one.
@@lalixlili ..I’m glad he reached out and apologize. Dealing with discrimination is hard. Virgos are sensitive. My man, called to apologize as well today. He couldn’t take the silent treatment anymore
@@tymeishalovell4830 After him coming at me like my blood pressure went super high. He threatens my well being at this point. He scared me. I just said I was his and I wanted him......
This is so interesting because I'm a Virgo woman who's recently started a connection with a Virgo man. It started off very intense. We had a lot of life similarities and interests. We really enjoy hanging out with each other. Things got too intense to the point where he said that he needed a break to sort out his feelings because we have so many similarities. I just gave him some space and he was back a couple of days later. I catch him staring and analyzing me, but it's only what I decide to allow him to see. I am highly intuitive and can feel and receive messages. I also study and analyze. We actually know how to reel each other back in when we start to overthink. This is my first Virgo and I am actually enjoying this "getting to know each other" stage. Now, when it comes to lying and cheating, he should already know a Virgo's wrath and that's all I'm going to say on that. I'm really focused more on my career and my studies at this point. If something comes from it, then fine. If not, then fine. I'm a hermit as well and know how to vanish off the face of the earth as well 🤣🤣🤣 and pop back up like how's it been.....if I start to really see mind games, I'm checking out.
yet female Virgo's are same. my stepmother is a mind gamer like me when pissed off. lordie you lady Virgo's are no different.
I've been focused on just being positive. once we become high vibrational and tap more into our moon sign we become more chill and less Irrational.
Literally my life right now
Love this!
My GAWD.. I'm dealing with one right now. I've been documenting it on my channel. I just realized I have to really mirror his nonchalant attitude towards us. Its hard because he is actually a decent guy, helpful, considerate helpful.. but such a fricking rabbit... Uggh
Dating a Virgo... I’m a Taurus woman , we challenge each other! We both playing chess! “LOL “side note I can play chess .. he can’t” LOL great video !😉
As a virgo man I agree. My last taurus beat me fosho 🤣💔
You sound like fun. Virgo guy here🤣🔥
Same thing. Im Taurus and He is Virgo.
@@optimisticgirl07 yall both earth signs yall compatible!!! Im capicorn
Same lol I am a Taurus woman with a Virgo rising and Pisces moon .. and he is a Virgo man with Cancer rising and cancer moon and man we would both challenge ourselves on pettiness .. sarcastic shit .. smart mouthing each other .. lol I outsmart him a couple of times .. didn't have anything else to say just say you got me lol we had a strong connection.
Love your material
Looking guuuud J! Luv ...the beard😂❤️
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Looking very well & sounding SOLID
Hello J
Im becoming a regular viwer on your channel,
Im a pisces and my Guy is a virgo
And we do have alot of challenges
We get to points where we stay away from each other for months
And when we get back, its like we were never apart
You know the virgo man is a romantic, right
If you know how to operate with him,
Youll have the best guy
He can be your prince like in the fairytale stories
And im a pisces, i own dreams and farytales ( smile)
I’m a cancer and I swear I love me a September Virgo but it stresses them out when they can’t pull a wool over my eye 😂
😱 you are definitely right about that....
I’m Virgo and my mind game is other level
How did I Miss this one 😫!! Been about 2years of chit chatting with a Virgo ….a year of not talking and he came back like nothing happened! Last time we talked a year ago..he pissed me off (he was jealous)😂!!! He knew I played no games and I’m quick to let you have it and never hear from me again! Which is what happen for a year!! Some odd reason he gets turned on by getting me frustrated!! I will literally be mad & laughing at the same time! There’s no chasing from my end! I decided long ago to give his Timid ass space to do him. I asked him this time around what does he want, he said friendship, companionship, etc like okay finally he speaking up, but no action just yet! We can be on the phone talking and singing songs (together) lol but I realized that I have to be more direct or else he will never make his move lolol he is shy as hell! So asked when we’re going to hand out …& now We’re suppose to meet up soon!! I’m a Gemini sun, Cancer Mercury and Virgo rising ….😏He met his MATCH!!!! As he put it “I kno him”
I am Libra, but I have Venus in Virgo. So I can understand all this and how they are operate, because I have some of these traits myself. I listen to everything everyone says and I don't forget. In a way its a bit stressful for me, because I'd rather be easier going. The libra in me takes up more of the personality, but the Virgo part is the one that comes out in love. I do like a Virgo man. And I think he likes me too, just doesn't show it. Sometimes, he does show it.
@Katie Garcia Moon Libra and aqua rise. When I'm in a peaceful mood. I'm the chillest dude you will ever meet. press certain boundaries first. my defense mechanisms kick in. psychological mind games. he ain't lying. I can't be outwitted by a lot of women. I can see constant tests. my intuition is extremely powerful. I hate being right.
I guess when I get angry, I turn into a master of defense. so I have to retrain on restraining my mind when I'm angry. Women get surprised by just how cunning my mind is. Turns out I can be more cunning than a lot of women my age.
An empath that can relate to feeling unsafe just like women. well it taught me a lot my trauma. it made me smarter in a lot of ways. gave me PTSD though. something I must fix.
I agree about the mind games, I recently met a Virgo man (I'm an Aries) and he does like to play mind games, but I really like this. It's a rare thing to find someone who understands subtly and psychology enough to lay down a good mindf*ck but I find this super exciting, like a fun game. Mentally, he is able to keep me on my toes and I've been surprised that he's one up'd me a few times and in retrospect, I saw that he set it up that way, strategically, which was a huge indicator of interest, so I appreciated it so much and I had to hand it to him like, "Ohhhh, you motherf*cker...okay...Okay, I admit, that was a good one, I can't even front...you got me...THIS TIME...I see now that I need to step my game up..." One thing that does bother me is across the board, I've seen a bunch of videos that say Virgo men are liars and I don't mean just omissions of truth or exaggerations but flat out liars and fatmouths. and if that's the case, this is going to be a BIG problem.
Hmm idk about the lying, or at least in my case. I don't lie..ever really I cant really see the point in it most of the time. Just tell the truth let it hurt you for a bit then move on because it was the right thing, to know what the truth was. Not just going to sugar coat everything in a nice little fairytale. That's how things get out of hand. I would say the only time a Virgo male would lie or cheat is if something is f*cked up in his life. And even then that's a huge stretch. Again at least that's how it is for me. I absolutely HATE cheating. Its the most horrible thing you could do to someone you "love". If a Virgo is happy in life they wont need a reason to lie.
They love toxicity so it sounds like a match made in heaven? Hell? Ugh they’re really perverted and have high body counts with everything. So gross 🤢
"I'm not saying we're perfect but I'm just gonna let you know the ways we are perfect" lmaoo chile Virgos crack me up...
Low vibrational Virgos are savages boi😳 🤦🏾♀️ beware ...high vibrational Virgos are complicated but a vibe, 😌💕 if u have patience. Just my observation. ♉️🙋🏾♀️ girl here
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Im a Libra Scorpio Cusp and i approve this message!
Lord it takes them a while to come out that low vibrational stage sis (Taurus here) but I will say they tend to make great life partners and have a lot of wisdom on life in general. Married one and lord help me but it’s gotten much better through the years.
My ex is a low vibe virgo. He did the mind games thing with me and it ended up bitting him in the ass. playing around to see what he could get away with, and i just played dumb the entire time like i didnt peep it from the start. I let him dig his own grave then bought him a nice bouquet to R.I.P with. i could finally say adios ✌ Im not the one to play this game of mind chess with, cause i win in the end every time lol. If you arent just going to love me and be genuine, youre going to end up hurting yourself, and then you cant even blame me for your heartache 🙂
Im a Pisces sun sure, but my virgo moon, scorpio rising and venus in Aries aint nothing to mess around with.. Its been a year since i left him and he's STILL chasing after me trying to get me back. let that sink in.. a VIRGO man is chasing me for a YEAR to get me back.. I have enough virgos in my life to know thats a phenomenon, hell my mother, brother, and uncle arevirgos. he knows he fucked up. he literally showed up to my house yesterday to tell me he doesnt want to see me with another person, cause he heard I was dating somebody else, and he still loved me.
@@KunoichiL3e how did he treat you? Could you go in detail? Btw, imma leo sun, aquarius moon, virgo venus
They are very intuitive just like Cancers they know what you want and how to give it to you
Can you do a video about Virgo and Scorpio I a scorpio and my husband a virgo and he all way trying to get over on me but I always one step a ahead.
Yes Jonathan man of God they talk you out of anything is sad in a way because u can use that for good or bad ..
But people have feelings and be honest from the beginning is very essential
But then if they can get they way they want act Petty oh no ..my son is virgo trust me you pin point alout i love to listen to you...
Being a Virgo is a blessing other way Is frustrating times can’t just control little things off mind
They need to stop Virgos , who has time for Mind games ? know what you want and get it
Sincerely, an ♈️
Play chess with us if you desire us to stop
Don’t sleep on Aquarius, we peep everything with Virgos.
That’s why they hate us . We are 10 steps ahead 😮💨 and we don’t back down from a good argument because we know we are right
@@fabulousitytv5668 Aquarius has to get that head smacked a bunch of times to learn.. that gets old quickly.. watching y'all run into the same wall again and again... Add to the fact that most Aquarians will sell their soul to their family and allow themselves and their resources to be utterly abused... Aquarius Women are the vibe when then get over 35. .. and even then the unnecessary stubbornness exists, just not as much. My BM is an Aquarius Woman and I'm Sep 10th.
@@chunkyhebrew8805 Aquarius actually are very observing at we only gotta learn once , especially since we are very intuitive . And we are very caring for our family and go hard for them. Once your in our circle it’s a hard bond to break . Virgos think they know everything but they really don’t . Y’all have a hard time understanding that everyone has a different perspective and that things don’t have to be y’all way. Especially since most of the time y’all way isn’t even the right way and that’s where the conflict comes from Aquarius because y’all want to control us and y’all can’t . We know the mind games y’all try to play and y’all project a lot of y’all insecurities and failures on other people because y’all don’t feel fulfilled. That’s why y’all can criticize other but can’t take criticism from others. Y’all are experts with no expertise . Majority of serial killers are Virgos btw . Y’all are very twisted
@@fabulousitytv5668 madam you are absolutely entitled to your opinion, that is your right and your free agency in life. I accept that I know myself, my worth and am a go getter. I am not a low vibe Virgo... Its amazing how disrespectful you are verbally towards your opinion of Virgos as a whole and how I stated my opinion and left it just like that. Y'all mouths as Aquarius Women is off the chain... And that's why whatever Virgo you were dealing with gave you the experience you had or they were low vibe. I can accept my faults and flaws as a Virgo man with a Sagi moon. You though have already shown you don't have the same ability to verbalize your short comings, which is typical. The reality is that although Virgo Aquarius have great convos and vibe... It's best experienced as purely just friends or a fling.
@@fabulousitytv5668 the ultimate reality is hurt, abused and tormented people hurt people regardless of their birth sign. Respect, Self reflection, accountability, having God First and responsibility, forgiveness of self and others and daily self examination are the wave that we should all strive to ride. When you have two people who are able to exhibit these qualities, regardless of sign, will have their issues but will make it and be successful.
As me being a aries I cant deal I’m quick to walk away !
Amen ♡
They bring out more of my intellect then my emotional side. I look at Virgo's like a puzzle about time you figure it out & put the pieces together you are very exhausted that's when table turn. They want you then, you can get anything out of them naturally. But you are so exhausted you don't even wanted..lol. Cappie🥰
They’re so transparent 🙄
Girl, I simply couldn’t agree more.
Like, I am also a Capie here. And the Virgo I am interacting with is literally playing mind game of “hot and cold” to me. The point is yes Capie can be patient, but if the Virgo checks all the boxs on the list of our limits, by the time they feel safe to open up to us, we are probably ready to say goodbye and move on to find a partner that is willing to earn our trust, not the other way around. We do invest in people but I guess we are not that generous after a long time of being disrespected by their mind game.
Knew I wasn’t trippin. We really be doin all this shi😂😂😂
I hate being a virgo, I'm also a middle child, and I hate thinking this way as well. What in God's name did I do in my past life.
My parents are virgos…they dated in high school, my dad (aug 30th) was quiet, my mom (sept 11th) was apparently friendly and popular, my grandma love telling me about her being homecoming princess …20 years and 3 kids later he told her he never loved her but she was good for his image in high school and then as a navy wife.
That’s awful 😣
Lol my Virgo man and I go back and forth sometimes and he be like “well don’t be with me then. I’m cool” lol like I kno he be saying that bc his feelings hurt or I beat him at his game, I just say. “Babe, stop I love u I’m not going anywhere” and he immediately calms down 😂😂😂. We crazy together 😭😂. I think it takes another Virgo to understand a Virgo in my opinion.
Yes you are right, it takes another virgo to understand s virgo 💯💯
On god I understand him. Also a Virgo
Facts!!
i literally absorbed everything from these comments I’m a Scorpio sun Sagittarius moon and Chile I used to obsess over him till i found out he’s a stalkerrr and he tried to replace me with look alikes💀but regardless at the end of the day I’m focused on my goals and I still love him🥹 he’ll come around but he better hope it’s not too late!❤️
I been loving a virgo man for over 20+ yrs all he do is lie to me ion know why he can't just say he don't feel the same about me its so weird
I am a Virgo woman dating a Virgo man. So far it’s great.. we connect so much and understand each other in everyday it’s crazy.
Our Match LOL ♍️ good one he does stand up too
Oh I feel like the greatest rapper
They’re evil!!! 😂😂😂 I’m jp rev!
Btw you resemble Andre 3000
I just went on a date with a Virgo and come to find out he wanted to try to sleep with me to get back at an old ex of mine who spread rumors about him. Mf was calculated af luckily I dodge that bullet lol.
Wtf lol
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WOW
🙄😂🤣
This guy is good no doubt
I've been on and off with a Virgo man for 6 years straight. I'm a Pisces. He always seems to come back to me and when we're together it feels like I've known him for a whole lifetime.. It took a while for me to understand him and I still am. The stealth mode is such a real thing. He doesnt talk about his feelings and all that but wants me around a lot. It's odd.
Yeah i know what you mean. Look maybe this might help, as a Virgo male and especially with a Pisces female, we are somewhat standoffish because we dont wont to spook you off and loose you. I know Pisces very well. My Mother. brother, ex, and every female that ive ever had feeling for are all Pisces. I just cant help myself, yall are just so awsome. Even the girl im crushing on hard rn is a Pisces. The last thing we want is to scare you off by telling you exactly what we are thinking because there's a lot on our mind. We are thinking of a millions things and one of those thought might run you off.
@@JohnPro5511 i couldn't get that, what you virgos think that what kind of things if you say, will spook us pisceans off?? Could you please guide
@@mhk9359 Well maybe it's like this, we have a hard time saying what's on our mind because we don't want to say the wrong thing and blow our chances. We might say something that is a little much at the moment we don't want you to think we're being pushy or even creepy?😅 We're thinking a lot of things at once and trying to figure out what to say when to say it, how to say it. We get nervous because we just want anything related to love to be perfect.
So like this. There is this girl (pisces obviously) that I've liked for a sometime now. And last night during 4th of July fireworks show we were swimming, and it took me a bit to get the courage to ask her out but I did, she said yes btw!😊. I had multiple chances before, but the timing or the place just wasn't right, to me at least.
But last night at that moment was perfect.
Idk I'm just rambling now but hopefully you can take something away here lol.
@@JohnPro5511 i get your point, very grateful for this comprehensive note.🙂
Literally
Im a Cancer and his a Virgo and you are absolutely right we bump heads alot because we usually go toe to toe at times , but he normally burn himself out... I usually match his energy and at times he despise...
OMG .. when u said let it go man lol .. I’m like this to him all the TIME .. like chill out sir .. Virgos 🤦🏽♀️
Hahaha same chill
I literally don't understand this virgo man mixed signals so much I got mad
I had two conversations one min he can't stop kissing me next minute says he sees mess his sister 🤣
@kaya star OMG lol 🤦🏽♀️
@@kayastarlove Omfg so accurate. Tongue in my mouth one second the next he calls me his sister. Then if I play along and call him “bro” he gets upset. Lmao!
@@christopherc1976 Yes! I guess to get a reaction out of me? But, if I call him “bro” he gets mad. Always says things to try to get under my skin to see if I care and when I speak on it he tells me I get in my feelings too much but he picks with me constantly. 🙄 help lol
Lmfao😂😂😂that light was killing me I had to do somethin about it , 😅it’s a Virgo trait
Thank you 🙏
I so feel you on this…..
The man I'm dealing with is playing games and he is ultimately playing himself because I'm only one inch from closing the door entirely. Yes, I am a Cancer.
On a more inhumane scale crossing the line above your means abusing power and authority and then leave behind a pile of mess someone else has to clean up whether the actions were carried out concsciously or subconsciously but what it leaves you with is carrying that weight and it being seen from a far as someone who hasn't done the inner outer work on themselves and it holds you back.
I’m an Aries woman “trying” to date for 1 year now, a Virgo male… sooo hot n cold/distant but he swears he’s not distant…but I “feel” it and facts he won’t call or text for 2-5 days and then gives short texts when coming back… I’m pretty direct by nature but I’ll try to be even more direct because I’m seriously getting tired, can’t hold back my emotions much longer to stay logical anymore, and about to call it quits… I NEED my attention and connection to be consistent. Just sucks because our connection is 🔥… when he’s actually checked in.
This is me too like wtf and it’s crazy because at first he was more consistent but I didn’t like him now I like him he’s all excited feeling himself now I’m the one calling 😷 I hate men😂
I don’t really mind the mind games cause I’m good at it. I Always walk away from thing fast and with no remorse !!! So I have two Virgos that’s still trying to come back. One who has mommy issues the other one is looks challenged and to young!!!! Naw I’m good
🤣😂😅😄
Ahahaha 😂😂 not the best looking sign for sure
As being a virgo myself I want to just add that this man in this video be feeling way too much man! “Breathe”
🤣🤣 i ask my Virgo friend all the time if he would like to breathe or just monologue without taking a breath between words
What I love about people and their mind games is that you never know what's going on in someone's life. It doesn't matter how 'intelligent' you are. Drop the ball. Your soulmate might end up leaving the country. 😂 Sorry 🤷🏾 I def respect Virgos ambition and will to get what they need in life. But relationships is not their ace toolbox sweetie. When Virgos play games with the wrong ones, they end up playing alone. Trust me... I've seen it in 21 to 81 🤯 A lot of people who take distance from those interesting creatures don't lose in the end. Those who will match or exceed ➡️ #aries #sag #gemini #aquarius #cancer #leo Virgos, vibrate high, or vibrate low, but take the mask off. Because when you don't, You will lose.
Mines perfect because he tries to be so therefore he is as much as he Can be as much as anyone can be.
Well this Libra can go toe to toe with a Virgo anyday...
I goin tru that tooo
Same here
🤣♥️🤣♥️🤣♥️👌 We sure can! Playing checkers on my chess board
with diplomatically yes. with kindness yes. but Libras ♎ are not mentally challenging as Aquarius or Scorpions . they don't know the tricky ways we Virgos love Libra s thoughtfulness and compassion. don't let Virgo men to use it 😅🤫
This mans a living FACT
I'm a Virgo and I rather never love than love a Virgo man again 😒
What happened?
I love my Virgo man ❤️ I’m a Virgo woman
This virgo from new York is crazy as hell
I love being a Virgo woman, I can talk my way out of anything. Great video.
Im a virgo man
same, it’s the easiest thing
@@jackyy8234 yup
Lol you guys are ‘captain obvious’ and a lot of people see right through you. Also, in general, they are a very unlikeable sign. Def not smooth operators 😂
Very good
.if that's ya though process let me fall back so you can roll with it..
Scorpio. Ha 😄 🤣 😂 ..
I can't lol
Virgo men can be very difficult when they play mind games but I stand my ground and I don't pay him any mind.
Mine is a Virgo sun Scorpio moon and he is more of a Scorpio moon he doesn’t play mind games he hates liars and is straight up , he is not even critical . But he’s very analytical and very smart lmao I’m a Librascorpio sun cusp
I have Gemini rising , Venus , mars , and mercury all in Gemini
Virgo moon in the 12th house. I am so aware of what people want or what they aren’t even aware of there thoughts I am able to manipulate people for there inner desires I understand better than them most times
Aries women here ....I acknowledge that Virgo men are hard to read ...they're all over the place .
Virgo seems to be a very critical sign. Is it true that they’re more critical of the people closest to them?
Yes
Yes! I’m a Gemini woman a Virgo mans natural counterpart. And no matter how hard I go, he will find fault. Don’t take it personally that’s just them. And keep building yourself for you. Because living for him is a tall order.
@@SheriCheri94 Virgos are crazy
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 😂😂😂 Yes they are but I feel like if they are the right one it’s totally worth it.
@@SheriCheri94 I'm dealing with my new friend he's a ♍ Virgo but his communication sucks
♍️ 🧠 get on our Level
I know what you mean by Virgos being smooth talkers and becoming yanno its a family show here but I know what you mean😂. Recently when I pushed through a virgo man and he kept going in and out like you said i be thinking they dont want me until their emotions show. But when I pulled through and pushed and thought he wasn’t interested i stopped but yet he told me he wants me in his life and wants to know me in deeper depth but sometimes i thought he wasn’t interested or got bored. But i know now how he showed certain things and ways. I dont think they’re playing mind games as much but they do test you to see if you fit into their lifestyle/World. But i also never try to argue with a virgo no matter how hard I think i feel upset for the things they do that will make me feel like confused😭.
Hello I have a question about this Virgo man I've been involved with for 16 years and he says he loves me but he also said that we are friends when the whole time I thought we were in a relationship. I'm REALLY REALLY hurt by this Taurus female and I told him that I think we should leave each other alone. Also he introduced me to his female friends but lately he's been talking to this woman now and he says that I don't know what's going on. I feel as though I'm being played but he told that he would tell me if he wanted to leave me alone to be with someone else.
I'm a Sagittarius and going out with a Virgo and I love how he love to Communicate we talk alot together ❤ he's the sweetest man alive. He wild in bed . I love him so far
I proved him he is lying through my own mind game and he was shocked and acted like hurt 😂 So sick of this mind games. I guess we all are able to play mind games but honest people dont need to play games
I was here
Gardena : Libra ♎
Ayyy ♍💪😁
He does the tick of the tongue sign of a guru