Why Virgo Men Lose So Many Good Women. đđ
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 16. 10. 2019
- This video explores reason why Virgo men lose good women and why some women tend to walk away!
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Time Stamps:
Intro: 1:18
#1) We Take To Long To Decide: 3:23
#2) Afraid of Commitment: 6:30
#3) Financial/Social Mobility: 10:18
#4) He's "Not Ready": 15:30
#5) "He Doesn't Want To Hurt You": 20:16
Virgo Story: 22:10
Final Thoughts: 26:08
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From my personal experience me being an aries , dealing with a â man he was the sweetest was the ,realeat brutally honest man I loved that I could talk to him and he understood me and always gave me best advice,he taught me how to shut my loud mouth sometime.đ...the downside was how he would ghost me,and not express himself and wanting everything to go as "planned" me being an aries didn't really understand,,,this is why I watch your shows for advice and you always hit points I need to hear.
black magic same here..im aries and i dont understand my virgo manđ
Black magic as a Virgo female who is dating a Virgo guy, I can tell you they're really different from most guys I know and the best advice I can give you is to let him open up to you first.
@@mtkspeaks1223 thank you đ
Ausra Dwyer Gasilioniene I agree his grandmother raised him and he listens too everything she says and it ruined our relationship and heâs too stuck in his ways too the point of me being done.
I am a Virgo âïž woman my guy is a Virgo man and girl you and I are in the same boat. I fell in love with my dude and he just canât get it right on âourâ time, only on his time. But itâs hard for me to let him go because I know deep inside he wants to be the best and he wants the best for me
Dealing with Virgo men are frustrating. They play too many games. Don't waste your time....just run
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Facts!
No don't say that
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Yes! Run! Unless you are there for the mind games, confusion about their feelings, no compliments, withdrawing, 500 female friends...then go for it! Lol
Donât get in a relationship if you donât wanna call or text.....itâs not fair to the woman, especially when youâre not explaining to her what is going on.
Thank you, it is that simple. Virgo men complicate their own lives and then make it seem like you're asking for the impossible when they led you on from the jump. The mind games, I just can't deal. I can see right through them hard and it's not understanding them, deep down he wants you but chooses to keep playing games so that he can have you closer when it's convenient for them. Why must I go through shit for me to be considered worthy? No. They need to do some inner work, refrain from women and grow mentally, spiritually and emotionally. The unevolved ones just love the attention of a good woman yet don't put fuckol the work. They overstep boundaries and instigators of their own demise. You can them out, they throw their toys out! Not mature but very much grown wounded boy energy. I've heard about the discomfort he is going through and all. What needs to be addressed is how to stay away from unevolved virgo men and how to notice the red flags upfront than to find out when you're emotions in deep that you're dealing with a coward.
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Relationships are about communication and when men shut down on women, we back off more.
I never told him I loved him cos he refused to speak ... I need communication As a female i canât run the whole relationship .
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Why is it that Virgo men do not like to communicate? That's kind of weird when you in a relationshipđ„ș
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 we not big on talking like that
As a Virgo Man we like simple communication easy not complex ladies some of you want A-Z men Virgo men A-B-C 1,2,3 how we are you have to be a woman who is quick to point with less emotions we don't deal with emotional peaks well
As a Virgo man communication isn't the problem we or myself I time a week too think so nothing stupid is said leads to heated cussing out. Most Virgo men seek peace
I didn't lose a Virgo man, but he sure as hell lost me!âđŸïž
đ IKTR!!
Me too. And by the time he realised it, I couldnât tolerate his BS anymore
@@carolinemaingi4879 Taurus- gemini here, and yes you're rightâ
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A Virgo man here logic and in the mind being earth sign were a mess ladies gotta understand a virgo man we can't move at light speed
People are not cars!! Theyâre people. Thatâs the issue with Virgos. Yâall act like youâre the only ones that have feelings at stake and yâall generalize how you handle things instead of treating things case by case. Yâall also try to keep things stoic and secretive so that the people involved with you arenât clear on whatâs happening. Yâall like to sit in confusion which leaves your people in confusion.
Very true
You absolutely hit it on the nail. It seems that everything that's said, is how to treat a Virgo, be patient with the Virgo. There's nothing special or grandiose about a person who's so secretive, full of anxiety and at the same time, full of themselves and likes to play mind games. In fact, it's really a turn off. Most Virgo men end up alone because of this.
"Stoic" is the rights word to describe a virgo man.
Virgos man here
Preach!
Also that hot and cold behavior makes us think there may be another woman or 2 or 3.
Exactly. They are damn complicated.
fulcher renee Sometimes there are other women. BUT theyâre not serious about them. Some of them are players but at the same time theyâre looking for that perfect match. They have enormous hearts, it just takes SEVERE PATIENCE to get there.
That's how he act exactly!!!
I'm a Virgo woman and I understand how you feel. I also do that with people too because we are often hurt a lot and sometimes we always end up in toxic relationships and that leads us feeling so broken and it makes us doubt people whether they're lying or not. We don't like to rush things if they're not the most logical choice for our life.
Because there are.
Damn I feel like this comment section is a support group for women who have had the misfortune of falling for a Virgo âïž man đ No shade to Virgo men because I think they will be good friends but itâs a hell no to relationships for me now.
yall lose good women because yall have unrealistic expectations , stuck in your ways and have too much pride to say sorry.đ
Very true. I want it all
Yep and that's why I'm moving on.. A relationship can't survive without intimacy
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@@amadeon827 you ain't never lied đŁđŻ
Sooo trueđ©
First time dating a Virgo âïž and this will be my last time dating one.
The virgo men I've met have very high egos self esteem arrogant attitudes...stand by the motto "don't chase replace"....mind games manipulation
đđœ! đđœ! đđœ! đđœ! I've never heard the last part of that saying before. But I did tell him a few weeks ago that "I DON'T CHASE!"
U hit the point gal
@@sherrysargent6800 I need to tell my Virgo men that aye
The truth is itâs all fake. Underneath it all they are super insecure.
Naw y'all females wanna use and play on a man's emotions and be manipulative and use mind games want a man to be a puppet slave and fool for y'all and it Happenin' Ova here Capp' đ«đ§ą đŻ
Virgo men is one I will never date ever again. Very toxic
If it takes you as long to buy a car as long as it does to be in a relationship....you will be without a car for years. It's ridiculous.
Scorpio just left a non communicative virgo man who has ghost me too many times and now he's driving by my house and watching me. He has come back just to leave again. Proposed to me and then ghosted me again. No time for this!
I am a Scorpio as well I gave the Virgo I was with a taste of his own medicine I ghosted him 7 weeks ago and I refuse to look back!!
@@missselfspoiled9753 Scorpio..lol đ Yip
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He seems real immature
I'm in love with a Virgo man but... I'm starting to feel like... maybe Virgo men ain't for me. I'm a Taurus with hella patience that I'm finally running out of. I don't have forever to wait...if he don't know what he wants by now...he needs to stop stringing me along n leave me the eff alone. Periodđ
Dear Taurus I'm a virgo...virgo has many levels the best Virgo is The God level virgo who is more manly than any other...perfectly developed in every way...hope your virgo man is developing...
By the way I'm having a crush with a Taurus all I'm now is getting to know her and get married to her...it's a yes or no...if yes she's gonna receive the heavens I have for her.
Aaron Castiel things has gotten better. I wasn't looking for marriage. Just a commitment and openness which we have now. âșïžThanks for your input. Wishing u well with ur Taurus. I think Taurus and Virgo are a great match! I'm a Taurus sun, moon, Venus, Mercury n Mars đ
@@Starr0581 exactly and I'm happy for you...open yourselves to each other it takes time but it will amaze both of ya. Don't worry good things take time
I'm a Cancer women and I feel the same way too
If yâall unstable , just say that đ€Ł
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Really now, đđ I feel attacked
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Women who care will stay with him through it but if he's shutting down and not saying anything it can be hard to understand where his head is at. All bc you tall to him doesn't mean he will open up about it.
My Virgo is going to lose me because he is hardly ever here for me. He is moody and selfish. I have done so much for him and have showed him time and time again how much I care. He just seems incapable of showing love in return. He's all words and no action. I care for him so much but I can't take anymore of his selfishness.
Sammmme, I swear u just wrote my life right now with my virgo
Yes I call my husband Baby Boy lol so true
I'm a Scorpio woman and that's exactly what I have been through, I can't go through that anymore.
Omg same here...im a leo haha
@@Vette76 I don't like aries. They r manipulative and major liars. They literally lie about everything.
Virgo men keep finding me I wish they would leave me alone đ
Lol!
@Beautiful Hoodlum I just found you beautiful
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Hey how you doing beautiful?
In your opinion why is virgo man that bad? Lol
Virgo âïž men need therapy. Iâve dated one and I think he was Bipolar because me being a Leo I donât have time for that they are too much into their feelings. Will never date a Virgo man again.
Somehow you're still in his energy seeing that your on virgo groundsđ we welcome youđ
Elegant Pharoah no heâs still in mine. He keeps trying to get me back but I have moved on and he should to
Ur welcome
Girl yessss... they have a evil jealous side to them and me being a libra ain't having it
I'm a leo too and it was so frustrating waiting on him in the beginning. I cut him off a few times because of his inconsistencies. Now, I'm just at the point where I'm no longer waiting and if it gets more serious it does, if it doesnt it doesn't đ€·đŸââïž. Im just focusing on what I need to do and where I want to be.
I'm a Leo woman and I can tell you that Leo woman and Virgo man relationships are some of the most passionate combinations. That can go on either side of the coin, When things are good they are very good and when bad they are seriously bad. There is no in between with this combo. You can find the love of your life or worst enemy, sometimes both in the same person lol
Virgo men just need to stay single đ€Ł
A 100000000000 %%%
Run!!!!!!!!!! Get out!!!!!!!!! Fell for a Virgo man and thank God he played games and it never went anywhere because I made it out in time. Iâm a Gemini so Iâm always going to be ten steps ahead of you so you canât play me. I pissed him off because I wouldnât feed his ego and give him all the attention the thirsty women do. He was indecisive and never gave to me equally. He was a lesson and I donât need anymore of those, just accepting blessings. This video is real af.
I donât date Taurus âïž men and now Iâve added Virgo âïž to the list.
I remember one video Jonathan, you said "it's the woman who choose the man, who ultimately chooses the woman." No matter if he a virgo man or not, the man himself has to be ready PERIOD. When a man is ready, he knows who he is and what he wants. Nothing can stop him from getting and keeping the woman. Its all about timing.
I understand about taking your time to commit but why lead a woman on by initially saying how much you like a woman, make plans for the future, etc. but then abruptly cut her off?? At least communicate, thatâs the mature thing to do đ€Šđœââïž
Right!!!
thats because they arent mature đ no matter their age
Definitely married a virgo, and in the beginning before we had our daughter he was the best man ever.. Moral of the story he's told me he wants a divorce, so I'm preparing for my exit. He's put me thru alot and I've reacted out of emotions as a result... Not the best but I definitely can't deal with his hot and cold antics. Lack of communication, lack of intimacy.. He went 2 years without any sexual intimacy'.. No one can survive without intimacy and he expected me to just accept it. And didn't mind gamble on loosing me.. I've since picked up 4 jobs to give him all the space he needs. And I'm moving on. He's a great dude, but the emotional abuse, sometimes physical I've encountered.. I can't they use what you tell them against you. Great at playing victim, manipulate you too a fault.. I'm done four years down the drain.. Oh well ill just charge it to the game.
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@@JonathanRWhitfield stop defending these psychos. I'm Capricorn woman, I'm supposed to get along with Virgo BUT I can't date another Virgo man. I'm currently in a New Relationship with one Virgo already He is acting up like a Girl. Can Dish out insult But Can't take it back when is dished back at him. Coz you know I'm a Capricorn I don't tolerate someone belittling me. I give back the taste of their own medicine. He then Ghosted me after that saying I "hurt" him. When he was "hurting" me emotionally it was "OK" but he can't take the same treatment. He Ghosted me after that. Been Silent for Days now. Oh Well... Bye Virgo Men
@Delta Radiance " He then Ghosted me after that saying I "hurt" him. When he was "hurting" me emotionally" girlll playing victim is their bread and butter.
When i sat down and told my ex virgo how i felt when he'd yell at me, curse at me and call me out my name even when i never did any of that to him, and just how he'd speak to me in general. how after he'd do that it would leave me in tears and that he hurt me, this man ignored me for 2 days, called me on the 3rd day only to tell me I broke HIS heart telling him that and that I made him feel like shit.... THEY LIKE TO FLIP THE SCRIPT ALOOOOT i am so glad i left that idiot.. i have a lot of love in my heart, im a Pisces, but i cant ever be with another virgo and honestly i shouldve know how he'd act.. my mother, brother, 2 cousins, and uncle are all virgos and the things that i dislike about them my ex was that x10
@@KunoichiL3e I'm sorry that happened to you honey, I'll never date a virgo ever again. These low life psychos are trash and don't deserve anyone. You dodged a huge bullet and should be proud of yourself.
Yes they are loosing some really good women, in my opinion, due to playing games. I am a Virgo myself and I go after what I want and hold on to a good thang. I wish Virgo men were the same. Instead of constantly playing games with good women and remaining selfish will only cause you settle for a woman in the end and not the one you really want deep down inside. âLive and Learnâ
Agreed
So how old are you now? I ask because I wonder if years of experiencing and maturity could also be one the top reasons right?
-Virgo Women crushing on a Virgo Man
Dying a lone doesn't sound that bad I wouldn't mind being a sugar daddy no need for commitment when you're committed to the pentacles
A'Marrie most definitely
Selena Cervantes You ask how old am I? Iâm in my late 30âs, and Iâve been with one Virgo man and heâs the most recent. As far as experiences, yes I definitely have some not a ton because of being other long term relationships. I made my comment solely off the facts that. Virgo men appear to be or their âMOâ can be love em and leave them. My thing is thatâs all good until itâs time Seattle down and then theyâll have to Seattle for whatever they can get for the most part, because theyâve let every good woman before walk. In my opinion, due to being overly picky and selfish. Most definitely Virgo women crush a Virgo men is so many ways but I do still think their good people for the most part. Just not the best at committing. Not all, but most.
This was very insightful content. I've figured alot of this out, through reflecting and analyzing. I appreciate your honesty, because you're articulating what alot of men may not be able to express and hopefully us women can take this in and know its deeper than what's on the surface.
Virgo Men n Libra Women are so much alike, especially when it comes to OUR SPACE n being in Hermit ModeđđŸđđŸđđŸ.
This is a fact. I'm a Libra woman
Ms. Queenie Libra women and Virgo men are similar creatures. But that causes an attract/repel situation. Libra women tend to mirror back to the Virgo man his dark side, which they canât handle very well. These men can dish it, but canât take it. Theyâll teach you everything you need to know about protecting yourself from manipulation of others, but God forbid you point out their manipulative characteristics. All of a sudden youâre the bad guy, and theyâre the helpless victim.
Im a libra woman.. I hermit mode if I cant see a future with someone.. but yeah extreme hermit mode đ
Lies, I hate virgos
I love this brutally honest video!!! I learned a lot about commitment and the Virgo man!!! Thanks for the insight!đ
One last thing...And players....!!!!!
I was wondering this after your last video where you were talking about all these great women you dated. I was wondering why you weren't with them any more:) Great Video!
This video was the truth. I walked away from a Virgo for two of those very reasons, and he regrets that he lost me. But Virgos can be different as well. I'm dating a Virgo now ( I'm a Capricorn), and it is working out beautifully.
Iâm a Capricorn And Iâm interested in a Virgo. How is your relationship going with him? Is he good with communication? Or do you find yourself having to figure out and ask him about things?
I am a Capricorn I dated a Virgo for 11yrs when I say run while you can!!! He was the sweetest EVER than he start seeing if he could manipulate me! when you start being your self and you point his flaws out! Get Ready to be "The negative person he doesn't want to be with any more" You will wreck your brain trying to figure out "what did I do wrong? How can I fix it, if I don't know what's wrong?" He will not tell you then will ghost you! Then you will find out there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong that you did! He is just ARROGANT & STUCK IN HIS WAYS!! He will SWEAR everything you do is wrong and he has been letting it build up! Then he leaves!!!! HE GHOST YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE SO SELFISH THEY DON'T want YOU TO MOVE ON WITHOUT THEM!!! YOU CAN TRUST THAT THEY DON'T WAIT AND ARE OUT HAVING FUN!! THE WORSE PART IF THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU TO DEEP HE WILL RUN FAST AS HELL TO CUT YOU OFF!! THEY ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENT!!!!
@@daquiriprice5100 you don't tell someone to run because things didn't work out for you! What work for others may not work for you! Because you dated a Virgo man and things didn't work out for you doesn't mean it won't work for others!!! "After all the man you dated isn't the same man she's dating... Not all relationship led to marriage...
@@daquiriprice5100 , after all they said that things work perfectly well for Virgo and Capricorn yet it didn't work out for you!!! So don't judge all Virgos for your bad experience
@@humbleugoo8306 SHUT THE FXXK UP YOU DON'T REPLY WHEN I'M NOT TALKING TO TO YOU!!! CLEARLY THE FIRST VIRGO WAS NO GOOD NIT WIT!!!! SO RUN UP OFF MY COMMENT CAUSE I SAID WHAT I SAID!!!!
Im so impressed, we need MORE like you to attract our family such as myself to the metaphysical world which is part of our heritage!! Thx so much brotha!!!
Virgo likes authentic intimate relationships; she likes to go from friendship to love. And its love last forever...
Thanks for the video. I respect you even more. God bless you
on point as usual!đđ„°â
Iâm a Pisces married to a Virgo man n while dating he was very slow to open up but I like that because it allowed us to build as most men just want sex itâs was very refreshing communication was key but get together took time n patience we have been together 13 years n married for 7. Virgos are a lot to deal but if you give understanding n patience they will do anything for you. All my friends n family often tell me my hubby is everything n yup I know
Omg same, I'm a piesces and my babe is a Virgo. We go through the same thing. With them it just takes patience, and I really love him but he refuses to open up. I dont want to give up on him.
I am a pisces who just broke up with a Virgo man and I just want to know how can I get him to realize he fcked up
This is compelling stuff. Thank you J.
I never asked him anything but to be himself with me . Money and all that means nothing to me itâs the manâs character Iâm interested in
He's thinking..."that's what your mouth say."
Thatâs why it didnât work đ€Ł their partners need to care about that. Financial security means everything to this sign. They usually fare well with ppl that have that same priority.
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Most people want financial stability but not everyone actually work towards it. Character is everything because all it takes is one unusual bad day in life and all that financial stability be GONE! God is real. Even God doesn't set riches above character.... đ€
As a cancer woman. I really like virgo men but like anyone else if they are all in their heads it's complicated.
Cancers, Yâall tend to have the most patience with them.
Who wants wait/waste a decade of their 20's, 30's, 40's, or even 50's for a Virgo man to get comfortable?? It took 3 1/2 years for this Virgo man to invite me to his house. But I've been to the mother, friends, and out of town family homes. I understand why somewhat of the wait on his house he was rehabbing it himself but its been over 15 years that he's been doing that because I have known him that long. But we only been seeing each for almost 4 years.
U guys should not say that us
It would be great
Virgo men are attracted to me way to much. Younger and older they still are confused. Me being a Gemini woman I'm losing interest quickly. If he doesn't man up and talk
I'm a virgo.. I have dated a genimi.. Gemini are crazy as hell. Ghost her quickly
ty's general auto service how? Iâve always been curious what people mean
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@@happywings15 the Gemini that I been with don't know what they want or they all over the place as a Virgo man I can't deal with that
I'm a Capricorn woman I'm "supposed" to be compatible with Virgo men But I'm no longer gonna deal with another Virgo. He just Ghosted on me right now. GREAT.
Thank you...thank you...thank you so much! Your videos are helping me to understand and love my special Virgo man, theyâre so timely.
Iâm a Sagittarius, and weâve been together over a year, man did I have some learning and growing to do. I prayed to God to send me that special one, and He sent me a Virgo. I asked God after a period of time if this man is truly for me?
My wonderful man is my sandpaper. Iâm growing and loving in new ways. Heâs opening up and blossoming like a beautiful flower. Every time something crops up, I go to God first then Iâm led to your videos. I implement what you teach, then boom! My man draws even closer, God gets the glory and Iâm changed. Iâm from and live London and lived in Atlanta for five years. Hope to meet you on next year when I visit. And youâre right âThe world doesnât resolve around meâ. In serving lies the greatest love! God bless you sir...đđœđđœđđœđđœđŹđ§đșđžđđœ
Hi im sag too, i pray to God to find me my future husband and i found virgo men, well he's super complicated idk, tell me yourstory how you hndle him?
Most Virgos got SOOOO MUCH LOVE (passionate love at that)...Alpha men for sure...but dangđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïž....to my Virgo men "Things could be sooooo much easier"....Lawdđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïž
Do Virgo men take long to build a relationship?
I am going to use the principle of attraction to move on until he catches up with me
Deep and informative video thanks man how I feel as a Virgo Man a lot
Thank you for explaining, it really helps. đ
Thank u for being vulnerable đ
My husband is a Virgo and i notice heâs like the black sheep of the family. Iâve been married to him over 20 years and I see positive and negative traits. He is loyal to a fault, but he also talks too much and says things that can be hurtful and when itâs flipped back on him he runs, isolates and breakdown. Whew emotionally draining. He tells me Iâm the only one can keep him calm. Iâm like no, you need to learn how to control your emotions. Libra here...how the hell I end up with a Virgo lol
I love library run baby
They lose a good woman because they pick the basic oneđ
Everything your saying is trueđŻ
So very true real reality!
I love your videos bro your spot on with everythingđŻ
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You really should consider on air round table discussions. Aseâ
This helped a lot . Definitely experiencing the Hot & Cold now .
Thank you so much Jonathan. I feel like I'm listening to my Virgo guy talking to me. đ So straight up. This helps me to not take it personal anymore. And think that he's so cold or that he really doesn't care. You always helps me understand how his mind works. That's what makes him a unique and special man. I love him. đđ
My Virgo guy told me all of this but Iâve been played so many times, I didnât believe him. This video has been an eye opener and from now on Iâll be more patient and understanding. I feel like heâs definitely worth it and heâs overcome a lot already in terms of us. So thank you for this! Maybe youâll get a wedding invite in the future đđ
Donât Procrastinate because someone else will snatch her Virgos âïž
That part. Too much overthinking and others don't take years to decide.
đđ€Ł Then it just wasn't ment to be, Virgo wish you well have all the kids you can. While we chase that nine figure dreamđ love is poison, delicious poison đ
They dont care if you get snatched up. Their head is so far up their ass that they charge it to the game, no matter how much in love they are with u and no matter how many kids you try to trap him with lmao. They take care of their kids and keep it pushing. I'm in a relationship with a Virgo man right now, and I've watched his bm try since we've been together. That situation is dead. They know how to ghost ur ass in the worst way. It's been a long irritating process, but I'm finally breaking him down lol. Best advice... IMO. Just be consistent and patient. If he's giving u any time out of his busy schedule than know he does value you. The beginning is emotionally draining, but the outcome is the best relationship ever.
caramelapple Virgo man here can confirm. I was heartbroken when I lost my BM, but itâs been 8 months and Iâm moving on still taking care of my boys.
@@caramelapple4053 "The beginning is emotionally draining, but the outcome is the best relationship ever." i am not going through toxic childish behavior because he wants to have a stick up his ass and think people need to just deal with how he WANTS to treat you instead of how he SHOULD treat you đ virgos aint worth that and definitely arent the "best relationships ever". they think theyre god sent and dont realize theyre basically the devil in human form đđ
Thank you, you helping me đ
Thanks for the video, this was insightful. Let this be a lesson to all fire signs women.........you see a Virgo man, then you shouldnât be there.
Am a Sagittarius with a Virgo and we get along great. He told me when he first laid eyes on me he knew he had to make me his. We've been dating for a year and 5 months. And he is also going thru a lot of drama at home with his mom moving in and then she brought his brother in also, in the beginning of our relationship. And he eventually told me that's the reason we're not moving forward in the relationship. It's kinda exhausting but now that he explained everything I understand more. This video also helped so I know now how important it is not to bring me home to meet the kids when everything is out of control at home.
But that still shouldn't stop y'all relationship from growing, most Virgo men have many many women in their life
As a Virgo Iâve been cheated on so many times to the point I donât want any relationship. It suck because I wanna be a great guy to a female but I just keep getting played. Now if I speak to someone. I would wait to see the real you. I dont look for a bf, gf relationship. Iâm just tryna live and do me.
Iâm a Virgo woman dating a Virgo man with the same birthday just two years younger than me. He tends to forget that I understand him but he chooses to push me when itâs not necessary. When I have shy moments he gets agitated and that makes me what to run away.
you still with him?
The Virgo theme song is Neil Young's "Heart of Gold"
Too many ain't gots..
To quote Mark Cuban(Shark Tanks)
For that reason I'm Out .
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Long story short Virgo âïž men gotta be healed before approaching me a âïž Periodttt
Straight Facts sis!!! Alot the virgo men have unresolved issues that they haven't taken care of. To be honest they don't take care of those issues in health way. Lot times they don't deal with it and carries into there relationships with women. My mother is married to virgo and he's September Virgo. For the past month he completely ignores her. He Comes home from work takes shower hops in the bed watches TV and totally ignores my mother. He told my mother he doesn't have anything to talk about. He doesn't like to go anywhere nor do anything. He doesn't like being around people at all. My mother says he doesn't even look at her. My mother says after the first of the year she's separating from him. Virgo men have poor communication!!!
Iâm a Scorpio with a Virgo man and it was great in the beginning but now Iâm being critiqued for every little thing and everything is my fault he barely apologize for anything..but I was perfect in the beginning according to him...at this point Iâm irritated and I donât believe itâs going to last much longer...but he wasnât slow at all he asked me to be his girlfriend after a month and talkin about babies, marriage everything all that is now out the window...so idk about the slow part but confusing and complicated YESSS!!
Sounds like a virgo/leo cusp was he born in August?
Elegant Pharoah August 28th...any advice?
Sommer Skye you gotta set your boundaries with him or anyone who does that to you whether they're Virgo or not. Most of us Virgo will criticize only if you don't set your too
Everything speaks thank you
I experienced the same thing their too busy looking for perfection instead of seeing what they have. they rarely say sorry and the marriage and children went out the window. i regreted waiting on him in prison đąđą
Wow! .this is deep, thanks for posting. and btw has anyone ever told u that u favor anthony hamilton?
This video makes alot of sense and i can be pushy and needy too much. Which is crazy because ima Sagittarius and we known for getting what we want and bouncin but i like being in a relationship.
So we all just dating the same virgo man?đđ€Šđœââïž
So why my virgo man calls me everyday, calls me to tell me what he's doing and going, for advice on his life, good morning text everyday we hang out almost every weekend. I met his mom and sister and son. We been friends for ever but he's not there yet???
It's been 10 months already
For real!đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
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I'm a Virgo and when you hurt our heart it going to take a long time to fix specially if we keep see the same thing over and over
I think that's a good thing for Virgo Man âșïžđ because it gives us more time and freedom and growth on our own without being in relationship with them instantly. And I can also test the time if we are really meant for it. As long as your not in a hurry because it will really takes time..
I strong woman can handle the drama, it hurts more not to let us go through it with you. I respect you for not wanting to put the woman through the drama though.
Virgos are like the merry go round with the tune skips and pauses
Thank you soooo much for the video! The last 3 you stated just happened in like the last 2 weeks. This has never happened to me before like wth. Normally you date someone and if itâs chemistry u continue and if not things just slowly fade. Not this Virgo. Iâve dated a Virgo before years ago, a crazy stalking abusive one. But this one was so careful and kind and sweet all of the above and for 6 months might I add, weâd just got back from Costa Rica celebrating his BD and had a wonderful time. Next thing u know- âI need to work on myself, I feel like Iâm not taking care of myself properly. My finances are not were they should be and I donât want to hurt you but I donât think Iâm in a place to be the man U need me to be right now.â I was like hold the damn phone!!!đłwho told you that? Right now idk whether to call or just give him some timeđ€I tried to convince him otherwise but I can tell he was hell bent on being in that space so I just let him be. Iâm doing the no contact ruleđŹper youtubeđ. But I truly donât know how to deal with him. I would like to talk to him but I donât wanna push so to speak. Iâm a cancer and would love nothing more than to nurture him back to a healthy mental and spiritual place.
Ahhh.. I sensed that you were a cancer, so am I. They are amazed and in love with us, so much so until it overwhelms them. Especially when they are not exactly where they want to be financially.
What happened? Did the no contact method work?
Thank you! So much Iâm Virgo men but Iâm so focus on my purpose then fall in love and be broke
That's how it be, fam, you already know!
Virgo's be drumming to a different beat the rat race ain't for us no offense to the crabs in the bucket đ€šđ€đđ
Do you have a video on Virgo men being stubborn in their decisions?
VIRGOS are not easy to understand...complicated ..honestly good thing they are caring kind and loyal...I'm a VIRGO
I'm a gemini he's a virgo yes I'm willing to wait but I'm not gonna wait forever either I'm 57 he's 57 but I'm three months older than he is.hes always saying he's afraid that people will think that we are in together when in his opinion we are not.in my opinion he just wants to be a player
actions speak louder than words..Yeah Iâll hold on to a lot of stuff and when females that yâall in relationship with be trying to talk yâall.. and If it ainât what yâall I wonât to hear Yâall wonât talk back
yes its deep what Virgos go throughđđ«đ«
A lot of woman do put a lot on men and some men put a lot on the woman. Us coming together especially black relationships shouldnât be this hard or complicated. We should blame ourselves and realize what slavery and oppression has really done to us.
Big facts
21:46..Help me by not making me LOVE AND EXPRESS LOVE TO YO SELFISHLY then letting go...you took my LOVE FOR SELFISH GAIN! Like you said, YOU KNEW YOU HAD NONSENSE going on and still involved yourself with her. You didnt think you were over your past, you just wanted love and stole that energy from another. Per 2 go-rounds with the same Virgo man. But I love him. I am a Libra, I DONT MOVE FAST IN FACT I BARELY MOVE, THATS THE OTHER PERSONS LOST.
So truth about them was dating a Virgo but his mood swings thinks so am giving him space
I'm a Virgo and am a straight shooter. If a Virgo man is playing games, that has nothing to do with being a Virgo.
As a Virgo man this video does describe us very much ladies yâall have to work with us we canât nothing about the sign we was born under
You make your lives more complicated than it needs to be and lose good people that way. A damn shame
you could try to be a little more pleasant to deal with đ
Just saying Y'all are confused ppl
sum this up with virgo men need to stop thinking everything has to be perfect in order to accept and enjoy a good thing that is the virgo man issue. the same time you trying to calculate perfection while pushing away goodness he attracts what is bad to fill the void of not being able to accept his true love for fear of rejection or hurt pride and ego from the fact the time wasnât right meaning his image wasnât wasnât he expected while receiving you into his life. At the same time he will cherish any girl who he feel is below him and give her all the love he couldnât give you because you were too strong for him while he was going through. Virgo man understand is women here to help our man pull through whatâs the point of partnerships if we canât prove to you we are strong for you, reciprocate stop feeling sorry and pushing good women away cause they too good
open space and communication is key
Exactly!
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Bingo!
I feel ppl run off horoscopes instead off personality a good Virgo is a good guy a bad Virgo is a bad guy they choose the bad Virgo thatâs why they get ghost not all the same thereâs women with good or bad experience
I have been with my virgo man for five months and today he texted me saying he doesn't want to meet me because he ain't sure what his plans are i am confused I don't know what to do kindly help
Man I love myself better then any women ever could, no person completes anyone in my opinion
†Iâm happy with a happy meal âșïž
18 yrs married to a Virgo man and now involved with another and very dramatic and undeceived but I love him! â€
Im a Sag heâs a Virgo his solution was to break up with me. Due to me voicing my concerns about his family. I felt I shouldnât have said anything maybe we would have still been together.Then our relationship wouldâve been unhealthy. He felt I was trying to take him from his family which is untrue.đ
He sound immature
I love my Virgo an I am not going anywhere I now he is worth the wait. But I am trying to get him to understand. He says he doesn't want to hurt me an can't give me what I need but Ifeel like he is what I need an I will wait cause I am happy.an I know I make him happy he told me
I broke up with my Virgo 2 year relationship, he was so jealous and passive aggressive,always needy and never giving,kept score on everything he was a mamas boy too, she coddled him into uselessness it was really sad, if his mother didnât make him so helpless, and if he couldâve kept his hands to himself he wouldâve been alright
September 4th and All Facts đ€Łđ©â
I swear I chased this virgo woman and showed her all signs of interest and she kept ignoring me
2 months after I have completely forgot about her she comes back and wants to be friends again like wtf ?
Yep, they want you when you are no longer around.
run. the moment you show interest because shes now showing interest shes going to ignore you again. once you give them the satisfaction of attention they feel you arent worth the time. then it leads to this back and forth cycle of "i want you cause you dont want me but when you want me im going to ignore you like youre some thirsty peasant chasing after me" save yourself the headache
@@KunoichiL3e yeah i left her 4 months ago. she turned out to be extremely shallow and low key racist
@@user-rd6uc2sf6i yeahhhh, thats the other part of virgos i dont like. they act like elitists. They have a certain "standard" of people (doesnt have to be race related) theyll communicate with and be around. if someone doesnt fall into that standard they treat them like they arent worthy and judge the mess out of them. That type of attitude in someone who might think someone is better or worse because of background and heritage or judges based off those things makes for an unapologetic racist. good on you leaving that mess alone