How to stop a drug addiction FOREVER: #1 Real cause of addiction revealed

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  • čas přidán 7. 02. 2017
  • Overcoming Drug Addiction - the real root cause revealed, so we can heal the root instead of endlessly fighting the symptoms.
    Only when we know the real cause, we can heal the root and therefor automatically liberate ourselves from every other DRUG ADDICTION-symptom too, like not being able to stop taking drugs, drug cravings, moodiness, bad temper, feeling powerless, loneliness, relational problems etc.
    You don’t have to feel ashamed for the fact that you are addicted to something. Because without any exception, most people are first addicted to something or someone, before the real root of the problem arises.
    The only difference might be that some people are better in hiding their addictions behind a mask than others. Until their mask cracks obviously.
    Only if we know what the real root of the problem is, we will know how we can STOP OUR DRUG ADDICTION completely and for once and for all.
    A DRUG ADDICTION comes down to FEAR, fear for feeling what we would feel, without any distraction from DRUGS.
    To end the root of the problem together with all it’s symptoms for once and for all, and therefor to shine the light onto our ‘dark’ addictions or fears, I came up with a drawing to show you.
    If you wish to gain more insights about this, please visit alive-academy.com
    I'll see you in the video's 💎🍀🙏🏼

Komentáře • 971

  • @celonsus
    @celonsus Před 5 lety +165

    Thank you for your dedication and sincerity in telling us what you have learned, I'm going to keep this video so that I play it every now and then, it will help me remember who I was and who I can choose to be.

    • @celonsus
      @celonsus Před 5 lety +6

      Today I was able to get an interview at a job, I was afraid of failure and covering it up with drugs. Now I'll have duties to take my time instead of time that I have to find distractions for. Thank you. You inspired me.

    • @NESSAsLoyalty2GodLuvAlwaysWins
      @NESSAsLoyalty2GodLuvAlwaysWins Před 4 lety

      Love this video

    • @pennalopievalentine6604
      @pennalopievalentine6604 Před 4 lety

      @@celonsus it has been a year how are you?

    • @abdulkarim2265
      @abdulkarim2265 Před 3 lety

      My name is azaan yohann karim I'm a herion addict help me

    • @abdulkarim2265
      @abdulkarim2265 Před 3 lety

      @@pennalopievalentine6604 I'm an addict help me

  • @Nat-ys8hn
    @Nat-ys8hn Před 3 lety +130

    The root of the problem for every addict is wanting to avoid reality because it's uncomfortable for a multitude of reasons.

    • @146-
      @146- Před 2 lety +7

      Too true.👍🍻

    • @Moonhound1111
      @Moonhound1111 Před 2 lety +1

      So true

    • @williamrothschildakatheman8980
      @williamrothschildakatheman8980 Před 2 lety +3

      Yup. Ppl don't wanna face Thier true feelings. And what's worse if u quit drugs. U have to control you're anger.

    • @jw1527
      @jw1527 Před rokem

      @@williamrothschildakatheman8980 ce

    • @tshiota
      @tshiota Před rokem +4

      It's possibly to be physically addicted to a drug. It's not avoidance only.

  • @sachinbhujel2303
    @sachinbhujel2303 Před 4 lety +83

    Three must steps
    HOW
    H=honesty
    O=openness
    W=willingness
    Get well soon everyone...and pray for everyone in this cycle

  • @JOHN-ht6zc
    @JOHN-ht6zc Před 3 lety +91

    GOD i want sobriety so bad today is my 1st day im gonna fight for my life..i hope NA is open now

    • @JOHN-ht6zc
      @JOHN-ht6zc Před 3 lety +1

      @King nostalgia GREAT thanks..

    • @Flower-gg3rx
      @Flower-gg3rx Před 3 lety +3

      Praying for you 》 our God is an able God..

    • @marufrafique6298
      @marufrafique6298 Před 2 lety +4

      How are u now ? now im surviving from addiction... pray for me too

    • @JOHN-ht6zc
      @JOHN-ht6zc Před 2 lety +5

      @@marufrafique6298 I've been sober since March 11th
      Thanks be to God...I will pray 4 u as well..i cut everybody out of my life ,plus changed my phone number..

    • @JOHN-ht6zc
      @JOHN-ht6zc Před 2 lety +1

      @@Flower-gg3rx Amen I believe

  • @berkeersoy6965
    @berkeersoy6965 Před 6 lety +426

    i do drugs to be happy.. take it too far forget i took any drugs waste money and end up sad and depressed.. awful cycle

    • @JohnLee-ov5pe
      @JohnLee-ov5pe Před 6 lety +3

      Berke Ersoy i feel u 😢😢

    • @glennwyles
      @glennwyles Před 6 lety +25

      Same thats why im here im tired if it now never got any mooney not going anywhere i need to stop

    • @theinternetgavemeaids5393
      @theinternetgavemeaids5393 Před 6 lety +19

      Berke Ersoy if u stop using drugs you’ll be happy again eventually, take’s a couple months to feel back to normal.

    • @theinternetgavemeaids5393
      @theinternetgavemeaids5393 Před 5 lety +3

      CK Coupe if you’re a tweeter you won’t be alive in 10 years. It’s the worst drug in America:

    • @662dodz
      @662dodz Před 5 lety

      CK Coupe how long are you on the benzos???

  • @AI-212
    @AI-212 Před 3 lety +40

    Drugs made me lose a lot of opportunities in my life , im 32 years old and i have to start over again, please wish me luck, and your encouragements are welcome, it is so hard for me

    • @veritazdlamini1449
      @veritazdlamini1449 Před 3 lety +3

      I'm in the same boat buddy. May the lord guide and protect and I wish you the best

    • @El-sr1id
      @El-sr1id Před 3 lety

      Good luck , you can do it.

    • @ayazmario5914
      @ayazmario5914 Před 3 lety

      Same boat man from mauritius add mi on fb on ayaz lallmahomed

    • @europeanliving6077
      @europeanliving6077 Před 3 lety

      Anything you want in your life you can ACHIEVE. Look at people like Gandai, Mother Teresa, they both had nothing and ACHIEVED so much ! Wishing you LOTS OF LUCK!

    • @victortoll9392
      @victortoll9392 Před 3 lety +1

      Am 31 samehere

  • @reinierdavedumandan5451
    @reinierdavedumandan5451 Před 2 měsíci +6

    It's my first day, I hope I can make it. I decided to quit for my baby, I want to be a better father to him. Hopefully, I can achieve it🙏

    • @Stanovi244
      @Stanovi244 Před 2 měsíci

      First day for me aswell and been unsucessful for 50-60 times in the past 3 years… we got this bro

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před měsícem

      Having your 'why' clear is a great start. To help you break free from the inside out, so you won't be needing any addicting distractions anymore, I suggest you to watch my 4 videos @ www.alive-academy.com. Enjoy your liberation!

    • @dsposse4140
      @dsposse4140 Před měsícem

      You got this.

    • @dsposse4140
      @dsposse4140 Před měsícem

      I am doing the same for my daughter

  • @00wrongun
    @00wrongun Před 5 lety +141

    Been sober 3 year's 5 month's without help got to the stage enough is enough after 27 years the first step is admitting you have an addiction

    • @kylewilson7772
      @kylewilson7772 Před 4 lety +12

      Ya n making real changes . I was iv h and coke and it took my soul from me but in Oct I will have 1 yr clean. I've tried so many times , rehab ,jail ,cold Turkey but I had to want to change myself besides the drugs . Not needing drugs to function is amazing

    • @kimfuruwal9285
      @kimfuruwal9285 Před 4 lety +4

      How long did it take to feel normal again?

    • @jacksonobrien9635
      @jacksonobrien9635 Před 3 lety +1

      How do you prevent your self once you’ve made the right changes from being like it’s just a little bit and it’s not looking the most quality stuff. I’ll be okay then it’s easier to say yes again and again?

    • @swordofyeshua
      @swordofyeshua Před 2 lety

      @@adapabon3036 me too

    • @swordofyeshua
      @swordofyeshua Před 2 lety +1

      @@adapabon3036 let’s keep trying together

  • @pgh412east
    @pgh412east Před 5 lety +202

    Anyone else here cuz of using coke? Grateful for this video.. All true.

    • @shujarehman1068
      @shujarehman1068 Před 5 lety +16

      I wish I will get clean within few days from today. Ameen

    • @joshuaj932
      @joshuaj932 Před 5 lety +11

      yes i'm struggling right now and i keep relapsing knowing that its never just this one time i never have it under control or will.i'm 23 been depressed since i was 14.my mom was murdered and i been running from that pain.

    • @shujarehman1068
      @shujarehman1068 Před 5 lety +11

      @@joshuaj932 Don't give up Brother, In whatever situation you're going through just Keep trying. Sympathies with You.

    • @PraneshArry
      @PraneshArry Před 5 lety +7

      I used both amphetamine and coke, even smoked some weed sometimes, it's embarrassing, I want to quit, but these drugs help me overcome my problems

    • @spork4964
      @spork4964 Před 5 lety +6

      I'm just here because I fap 1 or so a day. Doesn't seem bad, but it leaves me little time for other than things and I have no will power.

  • @theinternetgavemeaids5393
    @theinternetgavemeaids5393 Před 6 lety +105

    When u hide from your problems you’ll never solve them and they’ll come back for you everyday like a debt collector.

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 5 lety +5

      Or to wake you up that you are not allowing yourself the liberated life that you deserve ;-)

    • @micheleruddle-evans6507
      @micheleruddle-evans6507 Před 3 lety

      Amen!!😆🤣

    • @dreama8996
      @dreama8996 Před 3 lety +1

      That is so true yall. Nothing gained its all loss from whatever u survived at the time u will lose later anyway.

    • @jamesechevarria4813
      @jamesechevarria4813 Před 2 lety

      @@dreama8996 ending w one's life

  • @Thomas-446
    @Thomas-446 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental
    health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating
    how effective they are against depression
    and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @TomasChacon-oz8di
      @TomasChacon-oz8di Před 3 měsíci +1

      Can you help with the reliable source I
      would really appreciate it. Many people talk
      about mushrooms and psychedelics but
      nobody talks about where to get them. Very
      hard to get a reliable source here in

    • @jonessunday8510
      @jonessunday8510 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes, dr_williams_tripsz. I have the same
      experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD
      and addiction and Mushrooms definitely
      made a huge huge difference to why am
      clean today.

    • @jeffsmith2447
      @jeffsmith2447 Před 3 měsíci

      Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of
      my worst depressive episode, a three year
      long episode, enough to start working on
      my mental health.

    • @Precious-bt8bd
      @Precious-bt8bd Před 3 měsíci

      Can Dr_williams_tripsz send to me in UK?

    • @TomasChacon-oz8di
      @TomasChacon-oz8di Před 3 měsíci

      @@jonessunday8510is he on insta?

  • @alysonwilliams4052
    @alysonwilliams4052 Před 6 lety +221

    I have tried counseling, rehab, and many other options. I was addicted for 11 years. Watching this video helped me so much. Never have I heard someone explain it so well. Now sober and happy✌

    • @truthopinion5991
      @truthopinion5991 Před 6 lety +3

      So your saying in your counselling, rehab etc they've never actually told you to solve your problems! Id think that would be the first thing id tell any addict!

    • @alysonwilliams4052
      @alysonwilliams4052 Před 6 lety +10

      Not every person can heal from addiction the same way.

    • @azzdineboudour4027
      @azzdineboudour4027 Před 6 lety +2

      Alyson Williams with drug you been using sorry for this question I'm addict so maybe you give some experience

    • @alysonwilliams4052
      @alysonwilliams4052 Před 6 lety +2

      Azzdine Boudour Opiates mainly. Xanax was probably my worst issue actually.

    • @alysonwilliams4052
      @alysonwilliams4052 Před 6 lety +15

      Azzdine Boudour Something that really helped me was remembering how it felt when I was young before I started drugs. I remembered how happy I was, the feeling of anything being possible, and so on. So having that want helped me get back to that version of me.

  • @chatamula823
    @chatamula823 Před 4 lety +13

    Im 28 i been homeless with no help my beautiful girl let me back in nd my kids life i just wanted to tell all u god is good i been a week sober i dont crave it just dream it it crazy bit i no i can do it i love my gir nd kids nd for thos who left me to rot the doors there for u guys if ur going thru this just have faith they will b cold nights hot days lonley hungery dayz im here if u need food or someone to just relate we need to hrlp each other out this dark hole we fallen into

  • @GodblessAmerica617
    @GodblessAmerica617 Před 4 lety +25

    Ive been a cocaine addict for 14 yrs...im tired of feeling like this. The pain ive caused my family. The great jobs ive lost, the fineass women who loved me lost...The money ive wasted!!! Fk i couldve owned a brand new ferrari a house.... man i want out!!! Im sick and tired of feeling this way !!!! Ive hit rock bottom...i want out !!!

    • @dadsandsons
      @dadsandsons Před 4 lety +1

      Mate get yourself to Narcotics Anonymous

    • @dadsandsons
      @dadsandsons Před 4 lety +1

      oscar B Narcotics Anonymous!

    • @cinchan3475
      @cinchan3475 Před 4 lety +3

      oscar B you got this. You said you’ve hit rock bottom. Now is time for you to step it up and do everything you can to beat this addiction.

    • @GodblessAmerica617
      @GodblessAmerica617 Před 4 lety +9

      @@cinchan3475 thankyou hun for your words. Would like to let you know ive now been clean for 10 days. Im trying my hardest to stay away from this crap. I wont let this beat me. Its had me since 2004' ...no mas!!!! I literally had a 400 dollar a week habit. Sometimes more! Jesus please continue to guide me!!!!

    • @GodblessAmerica617
      @GodblessAmerica617 Před 4 lety +2

      @@dadsandsons thankyou bro, for your words. Ive been clean for 10 days now!!!!

  • @emmajane9403
    @emmajane9403 Před 3 lety +28

    I didn't want to admit it but I'm actually a drug addict. The pain I'm putting my family through is horrendous because they are always worried about me. You are so right you have to fix what your trying to cover up and what is making you hurt to make you keep wanting to do this stupid, dangerous stuff. I can go days without it if I'm not in an area where I don't know drug dealers 😭 I think I'm so hurt inside that I just wanna feel different but it's not fair on everyone else. Thanks for this video I'm going for help first thing monday 🙏

    • @george.awashington4408
      @george.awashington4408 Před 3 lety

      @ hello Lovely... I'm not trying to make unnecessary comments here. Dr David is the best among all. He can help you to stop smoking and drinking.I advice u text him on WhatsApp.
      He can put a smile on your face😐

    • @george.awashington4408
      @george.awashington4408 Před 3 lety

      +1 914 228 2041

    • @62calum
      @62calum Před 3 lety

      did you get any help?

    • @vodamanaman
      @vodamanaman Před rokem

      Hope your free already Emma

    • @MOMiAWESOME
      @MOMiAWESOME Před 7 měsíci

      I feel lonely and missing my wife and daughter but i am destroying my life and mentally unstable i love my family and my community and they have been very supportive i just want to be a good member of society i already had an overdose one on alcoholism the first time i dranked then i quit and i don't drink anymore then 10 years later i had another overdose this time pills and thanks to my community police officer who saved my life am thankful every day every single day and someone decided to put me against that person and claimed false information of discrimination and now he is terribly mad at me.

  • @jiveAt5
    @jiveAt5 Před 5 lety +63

    I think big issue is people you hang out with , I don't have trouble avoiding coke but my so called friends try to keep me involved, soon I'll cut all ties even doe we know each others for 20+ years, I've noticed people addicted to coke are the most untrustworthy around, it brings the worse out of people.

    • @hcraig12
      @hcraig12 Před 4 lety +1

      Are you an addict?

    • @micheleruddle-evans6507
      @micheleruddle-evans6507 Před 3 lety +3

      Good for you!! All drugs & Alcohol keep people untrustworthy!! Theres good people out there that are fun w/o any of that crap! Keep up the good work

    • @bgsk1622
      @bgsk1622 Před 3 lety +2

      I feel the same in my case.
      And it's a fact. did you notice, how they are friendly and nice when ur high together, and at the end of these sessions they could kill you without a sense of remourse?
      think about it.....

    • @williamrothschildakatheman8980
      @williamrothschildakatheman8980 Před 2 lety +1

      I did coke for 15 years. Just quit recently. It never compromise my integrity

  • @coremeister9844
    @coremeister9844 Před 5 lety +40

    “Let’s take you back to when you were born” Damnnnn we going in the deep end 😂😂😂

  • @A7medZ
    @A7medZ Před 3 lety +33

    I have history of meth abuse behind me which I successfully, without aid from the outside, put an end to. How? Simple
    If u are truly willing to quit, then you have to completely cut yourself out from the drug scene. That means, dont visit places that remind you of it, dont meet with people who remind u of it, and of course, stay away from things that remind you of it. You have to risk every comfort in order to stop. Move out of your current city if what I mentioned above didn't work. That's what I did

    • @tillu2809
      @tillu2809 Před 3 lety +1

      I went to my hometown leaving my job due to disturbed life and health but it didn't worked out..I again came back for job after two months and started doing drugs

    • @chathuragawith9201
      @chathuragawith9201 Před rokem

      How do you overcome the mind struggle that keep telling you to take drugs. How you overcome the mind tricks. Please help me with this.

    • @darylsmoov7169
      @darylsmoov7169 Před rokem +1

      @@chathuragawith9201Brodie
      You need to put in your mind you were not born wit the drugs in u
      You lived your whole life without taking them before you started, so it’s not part of u put that in your head
      Secondly drugs ain’t a priority not that as well u don’t need
      Priority is to safe cash now
      Drugs help you take full control of your human body once you over come them
      Normal people without addiction or never been addicted control about 70% of thier mind
      You gon be stronger

  • @1981zamora
    @1981zamora Před 4 lety +5

    The problem begins within ourselves and a lot of times we blame the world. I always missed that.

  • @brittanyl.4158
    @brittanyl.4158 Před 3 lety +2

    I can't thank you enough for giving your time to help people like me find the light in liberation. The way you put the whole concept across, hit me in a special way. Thank you

  • @anthonycortesvega4118
    @anthonycortesvega4118 Před 5 lety +8

    This is a great reflection on how the way self esteem correlates with addiction.

  • @twiznizzlenore7822
    @twiznizzlenore7822 Před 3 lety +6

    Just got out of detox I’m on day 15 been out for a few days I’m still sweating not feeling great but I am feeling better and better every day , thanks for the video thanks for letting me share much much love & Respect :)

  • @larickywalker7568
    @larickywalker7568 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm tired of addiction

  • @binnumyadam2966
    @binnumyadam2966 Před 3 lety +5

    I am a 14 year old kid and I am happy that I have never touched any drug , and I feel that no one in this world appreciate drug addicts and if you have a friend who appreciate you to take drugs then he is not your true friend he just want to waste your life like he did with his life. But now I feel proud of you because you atleast tried to watch this video and make a step. Just think if you're parents were drug addicts and did not care you how bad you feel, if you continue tobe a drug addicts then your children are going to look at you in the same way. Hope today, this moment become a new sunrise☀️ in your life.🙏 You won with billions of sperm's which means you are so Lucky to have this life and try to live happily in life. Instead of just feeling bad by thinking in a negative way. Remember you should be happy to have this life and do not stay depressed because you don't have something in life , every moment is important.❤️ I am With you. If you think I helped you just let me know in the comments so that others can take inspiration from you. And I am thinking of starting a youtube channel to inspire people in life, If you think I can do it then pls subscribe to my channel ❤️

    • @carllee5824
      @carllee5824 Před 3 lety

      Keep up the good work kid.you really did help me Alot, more the. I can find the words to say. I will subscribe and I think you should start that CZcams channel. Your a powerful individual god bless

    • @princessgreen726
      @princessgreen726 Před 3 lety

      Well done young man, thanks for your desire to help people in distress.

  • @builder481
    @builder481 Před 3 lety +5

    I was addicted to Pregabaline , Rivotril, Heroin , Today is my celebration of 1 year of soberty i have started all of thos drugs cause i was running from my fears and my problems you are so right and i'm sober now cause of my familly and people like you
    your video made my day i feel like there are still people out there who are helping others

  • @periodpooh9816
    @periodpooh9816 Před 3 lety +10

    This video has changed my fuggin life!!! 🥺 I may be a little late but I just started my journey of sobriety from drugs and social media and this video was right on time for me. Thank you sooooo much. Watching this everyday until I’m fully recovered 🥺❤️🙏🏽

    • @noone-zg2fo
      @noone-zg2fo Před 2 lety +1

      How are you doing? I hope tolu going strong and staying clean

    • @periodpooh9816
      @periodpooh9816 Před 2 lety +5

      @@noone-zg2fo hello. Thank you so much for your reply.... I’m still going strong with the social media part... but as far as the drugs, things were going great for about a month and a half... I started going through drastic life changes, felt stressed and I did relapse 😫 It has been really hard for me! & I completely forgot about this video, so when I seen your reply, I watched it again and it was the motivation and reminder that I needed to re-commit! So again, thank you so much. And I wish you success on every journey that you embark on. If you’re in recovery like me or not, just want you to know that you are loved, appreciated, capable, powerful and necessary. And I hope that you’re living a good life that you love. ❤️

    • @stevegray1100
      @stevegray1100 Před rokem +3

      @@periodpooh9816 I've had a hard time staying clean as well. I relapsed after 10 years. Pray for me to please and I'll pray for you. Thank you for sharing this and being transparent with this.

    • @periodpooh9816
      @periodpooh9816 Před rokem +1

      @@stevegray1100 you got this! ❤️ recovery isn’t linear and it isn’t always easy. Sometimes we’ll relapse and that’s ok! We just have to remember why we started this journey when it gets tough. I’m praying and rooting for you! God is rooting for you! You are capable of healing and fully recovering . Keep going & Stay strong! And if you can’t be strong, be still and remember 😍🙏🏽

  • @adventureman_09
    @adventureman_09 Před 5 lety +7

    This is an interesting psychological break down I have definitely learned and realized a powerful lesson, although I wish you explained more on how to free yourself of the unsolved pain and how to act in free will and channel inner joy, I am already very conscious so I know the answer but I would have appreciated more insight on that process and I think most normal people will not be able to help themselves after watching this video without more direction on such. I will search the blog to see if I can find another video where this is better explained. Good job none the less thank you for your submission

  • @TThatsWhatSheSaid1
    @TThatsWhatSheSaid1 Před 4 lety +1

    Man this was such a great video. The insight and thought you put behind this just changed my whole perspective.
    Thank you.

  • @yelu6
    @yelu6 Před 6 lety +40

    This is pure gold, thank you so much. I’m understanding this so well.

  • @thecollectorsite6392
    @thecollectorsite6392 Před rokem +2

    Please pray for me I'm trying to get rid of addiction 🙏🥺

    • @laurinenstokes7986
      @laurinenstokes7986 Před rokem

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      @laurinenstokes7986 Před rokem

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    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 7 měsíci

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  • @ViDoL.
    @ViDoL. Před 3 lety

    I had a major OD last night and I been watching all kids of these videos today ... This guy has some words of wisdom

    • @millstreetteut7835
      @millstreetteut7835 Před 3 lety

      I can recommend Gabor Mate , not why the addiction but why the pain

  • @146-
    @146- Před 2 lety +1

    This is the best video I've watched on CZcams on how to control and rid yourself of hard drug's!! Thanks greatly explained.👍

  • @farshid8829
    @farshid8829 Před 5 lety +26

    I have been struggling with addiction for over four years. I have studied and researched a lot about the issue, what you are saying is pretty simple and I think most people already know that! The real difficulty is how to do it! cuz I consciously make the decision to face the fears and the root but unconsciously still I'm escaping! and everyday I use drugs and feel so miserable and guilty about doing it but I can't force myself to stop and just listen to my anxiety and fear to find out how to solve it! I wish you could give a practical solution without all of that process of email confirmation!

    • @tillu2809
      @tillu2809 Před 3 lety

      You said true..cravings are unable to stop

    • @El-sr1id
      @El-sr1id Před 3 lety +6

      Basically just use your mind. Use your logic and reasoning. Ask yourself , is this what I really want? I'd this the life I choose for myself. Using the past as an example. What happens last time this choice was made? Is this the result I want? Also , it's like a muscle. The more you use it , the stronger it gets.

    • @intuitivetasha113
      @intuitivetasha113 Před 2 lety

      @@El-sr1id that doesn’t work either ....

    • @noone-zg2fo
      @noone-zg2fo Před 2 lety +1

      @@intuitivetasha113 then you have no willpower. Sobriety is very different for everyone but the one common strength that all the long term recovery people have is willpower, you have to have that if you expect to actually getting and staying sober.

    • @arijitpanja2723
      @arijitpanja2723 Před 2 lety +5

      Willpower isn’t enough. With willpower I could only stop, get through my withdrawals and then when the physical cravings go the mental cravings kick in. It’s not a self dependent process. I kept aside my ego and started building a support system of people who went through my situation. There’s no magic pill or one unified solution. Like each human is unique, each and every addict is unique. Even when everything seems right I recall my bad days in addiction to prevent me from doing activities that might bring me down again. ✌🏻Good luck to all

  • @jamesmichael4698
    @jamesmichael4698 Před 6 lety +6

    Subscribed. Never seen it put like that before. Please keep the videos coming. Thanks bro.

  • @stashyoung
    @stashyoung Před 4 lety +3

    You explained it really well. I''ve went from drugs to relationship then quit using because i found a substitute for the pain. After couple months the butterflies are gone and i started using again. This has to stop, i went through 3 girlfriends like that.

  • @smilessantana2049
    @smilessantana2049 Před 5 lety +6

    Oh are you ever right! I was fired this week for using as work. Won't be seeing all the people I love anymore. So... Thank you for the boost. just here tryna be good.

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 5 lety

      Hi Krisha, you are welcome. Once you solve the actual root cause of the urge to escape into an distracting addiction, you don't have to 'try' anymore, you just won't feel the need to escape anymore. Check out my 4 free videos that build upon this video at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!

  • @fitjeremy4393
    @fitjeremy4393 Před 5 lety +4

    Great video not sure if you forgot to say this but I wanted to add in the comment anxiety is a huge thing that we deal with in the world and it is essentially fear anxiety can be that signal telling you something is wrong so instead of taking the anxiety away when the anxiety comes look at it as your go-to place to remove that cancer

  • @brianjan61
    @brianjan61 Před 4 lety +4

    Thanks for showing how to deal with addiction. But how to really stop? Replacing those thoughts of fears, hurt, loneliness. This has help me to identified the problem. Help tired of this controlling abuse.

  • @persisstuebner7004
    @persisstuebner7004 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you. This messsage is SOOOO true. I'm 3 mo sober and I'm at this point of dropping my mask, I'm tired... this messae gives me a starting point to dig into my "root." thank you so much!

  • @isiahmarr6269
    @isiahmarr6269 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much... you explained this in a way that I haven't experienced before. I needed this more than you would know. Thank you!

  • @alextv6742
    @alextv6742 Před 5 lety +4

    I really appreciate this video it's breaks down some genius knowledge 🙏

  • @shiva3549
    @shiva3549 Před 5 lety +13

    For real thanks chief. This helped me hop off Xans after a year after my dad died

    • @JazzoFett
      @JazzoFett Před 5 lety

      I hope you're doing well!

    • @duramaxdad
      @duramaxdad Před 5 lety +1

      My dad died too and I gave myself and excuse to up my dose of opiates from the dr. Guess what? I’m still on them and it’s been 10 years. Just last year was the 1st time I considered quitting. Working on cessation of my dose at 10% reduction per week or slower if need be. These vids help me to understand myself and the process that got me here

    • @filiplaskovski9993
      @filiplaskovski9993 Před 4 lety +1

      Duramax Dad how u going man opiates are tuff one of the worst
      I’ve ever been hooked on

  • @FoidGames
    @FoidGames Před 5 lety +21

    anyone else w/ding watching this?

  • @jordantony1796
    @jordantony1796 Před 4 lety +6

    Lost my friends cars gf family so many good jobs almost homeless never easy been tryin to quit for 8 years.

    • @jordantony1796
      @jordantony1796 Před 4 lety

      Waterlec thanks for help

    • @nomoretalk2967
      @nomoretalk2967 Před 4 lety +1

      @Waterlec sry you don't know what you are talking about - it is not a question of willingness; any addict at some point crave for quitting - if it was a question of wanting or not quitting, then a lot of people would be healed but it is not like you think, it is not a hollywood film where an addict has just to want to quit - purt efforts & then quit just like that - unrealistic

    • @victortoll9392
      @victortoll9392 Před 3 lety

      I have lost plenty of good jobs cause of my addiction

  • @JaydenLyleHylton
    @JaydenLyleHylton Před 5 lety +4

    Amazing video dude absolutely loved it. Noticed that every time I'd slip up on one of my achievements or goals i'd get frustrated. However, I don't think i've spent enough time to ask why I have those goals set in the first place.

    • @princessgreen726
      @princessgreen726 Před 3 lety

      Don't give up! You set goals you achieve some you fail some, keep trying until you can fail no more!!!!! Try

  • @jonhowkins6185
    @jonhowkins6185 Před 6 lety +4

    So grateful I listened to this, thank you.

  • @jacksonobrien9635
    @jacksonobrien9635 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for helping me understand the cycle. I need help finding out the pain that I’ve been masking.

  • @GG-yn6jw
    @GG-yn6jw Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much,,, this is so powerful!! I just subscribed to your Chanel, even the drawing made it really click! It helps me understand addiction, for someone I care about!

  • @pgh412east
    @pgh412east Před 4 lety +6

    Nows the perfect time to quit. There's a drought here in Pittsburgh.

  • @1978Traveller
    @1978Traveller Před 6 lety +11

    He explained quite well how I feel and why I take drugs. Fleeing the emotional aspects of my life is one thing and he's right.
    Yet the physical pain of stopping drugs is equally scary to me. I need help!

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 6 lety

      Hi Fiona, I suggest you to follow the 4 free theoretical insight videos at: www.alive-academy.com

    • @moneymacc335
      @moneymacc335 Před 2 lety

      Me as well! I'm scared. Did u get any help?

  • @Shann300
    @Shann300 Před 11 dny

    I’ve been struggling with opiate and benzo’s for 25 years. I get so sick of this crazy cycle. I pray for all of us that we find sobriety real soon. The cravings are so intense and overwhelming.
    I spend my money, the drug wears off and then I wish I could kick my ass, I get so depressed cuz then I’m broke and my drugs have worn off and I’m right back where I started , over and over and over, Damn it wears me out.
    Please help us God 🙏🕊😊

  • @stonerchallenge8608
    @stonerchallenge8608 Před 5 lety +2

    Wow 😮 it was very hard to understand what you meant but I finally got it, you are wise, your voice is soothing and your demonstration too

  • @JB-cl8fu
    @JB-cl8fu Před 4 lety +9

    Ive been an addicted since i was 16 i started on narcotics at a yound age because of an accident. When i moved to a new state at the same age, i got in to harder things. Which thankfully i got off of the harder things. Im with my fiance who has been there for me every day for the past year. My mother died 3 months ago and im getting to do the pain pills more and more. I know were not gonna work out if i keep on and i love this girl and my children more than anything. How do i wake up without wanting one or just cant go through the day without wanting go spend the money that we work hard for. I want to stop for me and for them. I feel like i can do. I just wake up and think well i need something to get through the day. I dont want that anymore.

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 4 lety +2

      We all are addicted to something or someone externally first, before we realise it doesn't liberate and serves us. Now that you are willing to make a U-turn, there is a way to flush out the root cause of the distracting addiction together with its symptoms once and for all. There is a way to flush out the hardwired conditioned connection in the brain, that makes us crave for the next distraction. I suggest you to watch the 4 free videos that will give you clarity and direction at: www.alive-academy.com and reclaim your natural liberated life you are actually born for.

    • @ollvi
      @ollvi Před 4 lety +7

      quit that shit and take responsibility, you weak fuck! I mean you have children and you whine like a bitch. Do you know how i quit drugs? I stopped feeling sorry for myself and i completely isolated myself from other people except from family and trained hard and now i'm in good shape and clean while all my friends are either dead or still using and living in shit. Quitting drugs is the hardest thing i've experienced, but that's what gives you a character. I am not saying this to sound mean, but really i'm trying to help by telling that you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and take responsibility of your family

    • @JOHN-ht6zc
      @JOHN-ht6zc Před 3 lety

      Wow me to and im 47 now lost EVERYTHING...i want sobriety so bad

  • @csallthatremains
    @csallthatremains Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you, this video helped me reset my mindset to Annihilate Addiction.

  • @breunique1468
    @breunique1468 Před 3 lety +2

    We do drugs to feel happy but all we doing is making our depression worse without the drugs my body feel like hell i take drugs to feel normal now smh addiction sucks

    • @george.awashington4408
      @george.awashington4408 Před 3 lety

      @ hello Lovely... I'm not trying to make unnecessary comments here. Dr David is the best among all. He can help you to stop smoking and drinking.I advice u text him on WhatsApp.
      He can put a smile on your face😐

    • @george.awashington4408
      @george.awashington4408 Před 3 lety

      +1 914 228 2041

  • @YogiNoGi
    @YogiNoGi Před 4 lety +1

    Wow this is an amazing model. Such profound way of explaining this makes us feel empowered to control our entire life

  • @xandermacfarlane374
    @xandermacfarlane374 Před 6 lety +9

    This is truly amazing - so well explained, hopefully being mindful of this will help me get through the day

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 6 lety

      Thanks Xander! I'm glad it gives you clarity!

  • @johnnecroslave2637
    @johnnecroslave2637 Před 6 lety +11

    101% accurate and well explained

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 6 lety

      Thanks John! I'm glad you find this helpful!

    • @leenobody3249
      @leenobody3249 Před 4 lety +1

      I disagree ,it was at least 103 % accurate

  • @MadKen1027
    @MadKen1027 Před 4 lety +1

    At 6:11, I had to pause and start thinking. What a basic illustration and well explained. Sometimes we complicate things, when the answers is right in front of our face... We just have to think back, and rebuild a healthier way! Thanks bro! I come back in a bit and watch the rest...😉

  • @skytrailwarrior8326
    @skytrailwarrior8326 Před 9 měsíci

    Spot on. Behind every addiction is some traumatic event(s) that formed our character and never got dealt with. Pinpoint it, the rest will fall in place

  • @Ronnymikkonen2686
    @Ronnymikkonen2686 Před 3 lety +3

    It's clear, you really grasp the concept of how the mind work. We are so unwilling to reflect inwards. In that cycle of rejecting feelings we become specialist in betraying our selves.

  • @Carolinaking22
    @Carolinaking22 Před 4 lety +4

    This guy just opened my eyes in the best way. Gave me an aaaahaaaa moment or epiphany. Thank you and I'm so grateful

  • @Nithion
    @Nithion Před 2 lety +1

    I’m a “functional” addict for 10 years who can hold jobs and live a secret second life. I’ve overdosed a few times leading to the ER and luckily lived. My dad OD’d and died when I was 11 and my mom shot up coke while I was in the womb. I cut street drugs and just abuse my narcotics and alcohol. I’m trying so hard to stop completely. I turn 30 soon and I’m trying so hard to be clean by then. Can’t afford to miss work for treatment. I want to be free

  • @oyvind-8557
    @oyvind-8557 Před rokem +2

    I take drugs to be ok with my life. I do not have a huge problem yet but its getting there. Im planning on telling my parents and i think this is the furthest i’ve come in a while

    • @laurinenstokes7986
      @laurinenstokes7986 Před rokem

      *I’ll refer you to this mate online i bought some grams of N-N DMT LSD Shrooms 🍄mushrooms Aderral 💊chocolate bar 🍫and other psychedelic stuffs and he also ship discreetly to any location****

    • @laurinenstokes7986
      @laurinenstokes7986 Před rokem

      *Triple_tripstore*

  • @benjoseph2100
    @benjoseph2100 Před 3 lety +6

    I’m at a point where I am afraid of being alone and I get bored at home if I’m not doing any thing. I’ve wanted to be sober for awhile but I then find that I am unable to meet people and talk which I need. How do I find a way to meet people and be social which I’m not without cocaine and alcohol to feel fulfilled. I get sober for 3 weeks then think I can just have “one drink” which works for a little bit until it becomes something I can’t control again and then I’m out here spending $200 per night easy.

    • @brendareed5050
      @brendareed5050 Před 3 lety +1

      Spark Joseph try getting a dog and taking it for walks. People will want to pet the dog and strike up a conversation with you about the dog. Eventually you will be comfortable talking to new people and make friends. You could also start exercising outdoors and maybe run with your new dog.

    • @princessgreen726
      @princessgreen726 Před 3 lety

      Move away from where you live to another city or State, there you can start afresh new life!.

  • @catherinemartinez7834
    @catherinemartinez7834 Před rokem +3

    I finally pray to the Lord even though I was praying to the Lord when I was on crack I kept praying to the Lord and praying and praying and praying and praying and praying and pray while I was on crack and I'll keep praying and praying I kept told the Lord that I was tired I didn't want to do this life no more and so he took it from me 🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🚭

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 7 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing 🙏 If this video resonated with you, feel free to watch more here : alive-academy.com 🍀💎🙏

  • @Imperfectly_Perfect76
    @Imperfectly_Perfect76 Před měsícem +1

    I’ve spent years trying so hard to quit smoking and cannibas. And the more I try the more I live in more fear and mental pain. I have no support, I’ve tried everything and nothings working. All I’m doing is sinking deeper and deeper into darkness and pain everyday . I don’t know what’s wrong with me. And to get help of any kind you need money

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před měsícem +1

      I understand. There is nothing wrong with you. It's only logical you are looking for distraction from feelings you do not want to feel. To help give you clarity in liberating yourself rom the inside out towards becoming independently liberated and fulfilled, I have created 4 videos for you via www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your complete liberation process 💎🍀🙏❤️

    • @Imperfectly_Perfect76
      @Imperfectly_Perfect76 Před měsícem

      @@alive-academy thank you so very much. I truly appreciate this. I’ve spent the last two years doing a lot of healing , from childhood up till now and it’s been very painful, I’ve had no support, no friends and my family left me instead of standing by and helping me. I feel so lost and helpless. And unless you have thousands of dollars no one’s willing to help me. Thank you so very much ❤️🌹💕🙏☀️

  • @OfficialDavina
    @OfficialDavina Před rokem

    I’m so happy to have found this video. I’ve been struggling with sobriety in familiar places. Thank you so much, best explanation EVER💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @teamjesus2470
    @teamjesus2470 Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you😓💖

  • @lou4781
    @lou4781 Před 6 lety +10

    I've looked at so many videos and websites. Its always the stress that does me in. I just don't have the coping skills. Worst of all, I find myself actually seeking out arguments with my spouse because deep down I know I'll get stressed and BOOM, back to my drug of choice. I'm about to lose my family and everything I hold dear to me. I'm like a chicken with its head cut off. My wife and I fight, make up, I make promises, and the cycle repeats. Worst fight tonight. She almost left me. She won't take much more. I'm so ashamed

    • @greatlandranchrescue5363
      @greatlandranchrescue5363 Před 6 lety +3

      This is what I did I was broken, sad, abused, traumatized etc n society did nothing but use me for a paycheck! Go to your closet, get down on your knees, and pray to your creator father, ask Jesus to come into your heart, take away your fears, and anger, etc and set you free! U will b free for once in your life and find true happiness. Please try this you r a create being, trust in a higher power that loves you unconditionally!

    • @Bigbeautifulsmile85
      @Bigbeautifulsmile85 Před 6 lety

      I hope that things get better for you!

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 Před 6 lety +1

      Find a 10min guided meditation for stress or self love on youtube and do that everyday..... eventually your brain will stop looking for stress/fights. Stress is an addiction if you experience it for long enough your brain gets addicted to the chemicals it releases; and your brain will make you act out in a way to give yourself more stress to release more of those chemicals. I hope you are doing better.

    • @Three_Sevens
      @Three_Sevens Před 6 lety +1

      Bro i went through the SAME EXACT thing... my wife and 4 kids left. GONE...you don't wanna feel that feeling..you have to really really think of what life would be like without her...and choose her over drugs.. get help.. and turning to the Lord Jesus helped me greatly

    • @BeauJames59
      @BeauJames59 Před 6 lety +1

      You know what the problem is. Exercise and get tools for the stress.....and DON'T become another person duped by religion.

  • @philmess7502
    @philmess7502 Před 3 lety

    Thank you! I definitely needed to see this!

  • @stranger1715
    @stranger1715 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow...really opened up my eyes...my addiction is actually someone...this video really helped in showing me the reasons to break free of such an addiction🙏

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 4 lety

      You are welcome! Thanks for sharing your appreciation! I'm glad it is serving you this way!

  • @chitwnhood
    @chitwnhood Před 6 lety +10

    wow soooo simple... I guess I've never entertained those thoughts for the 30 yrs I did dope. huh, all I needed was this video to stop, who'd of thought.

    • @juliedefee567
      @juliedefee567 Před 5 lety +1

      Why the sarcasm? This person is attempting to be part of the solution. I am also an addict who has struggled to maintain sobriety for more than a brief period time. I hope I never dismiss any information related to long-term recovery as being useless and without significance. That is because I understand that different people respond to different things. I wish you happiness in the future. As I wish the same for myself.

  • @antonioanderson3939
    @antonioanderson3939 Před 5 lety +3

    I got my feelings hurt tried coke. Its been all bad since then

  • @trinitygreene6796
    @trinitygreene6796 Před rokem +1

    I realized my addiction was to cope and it was filling a void. I now want to fill that void with healthy things and have a completely healthy life, feeling good and stuff . When I’m truly at peace with myself and love myself I will never touch a bad drug again. Weed is good tho it’s not addictive for me it’s more of a wind down at the end of a long day or talk about deep shit with your partner or friend while high😌

  • @Ama-zing333
    @Ama-zing333 Před 4 lety

    Absolutely a refreshing and truthful root cause which ...NEVER IS REALLY DISCUSSED !!! Thank you !!! Thank you!!! Thank you !!! Xxxx

  • @danielsmith8071
    @danielsmith8071 Před 6 lety +36

    Everytime I watch this it makes me stop smoking

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 6 lety +2

      Thanks Daniel! Very nice to hear that!

    • @MissMurder5555
      @MissMurder5555 Před 6 lety +13

      lol@ everytime. Thats stopping temporarily.

    • @tcr333
      @tcr333 Před 6 lety

      i was just smoking a cigarette while watching this but i had an urge to put it out as soon as i saw the picture being drawn

    • @BeauJames59
      @BeauJames59 Před 6 lety

      I want to have your babies.......and I can't even HAVE babies....

    • @targetmalley
      @targetmalley Před 6 lety

      Every time? So you are prone to relapse?

  • @ryanjones4868
    @ryanjones4868 Před 5 lety +18

    I need help I'm dying

    • @jasonkuy7100
      @jasonkuy7100 Před 5 lety +8

      You're not dying you're getting better

    • @jameseverett9037
      @jameseverett9037 Před 4 lety +1

      Have you tried tapering off gradually, instead of cold turkey?

    • @ginger1531
      @ginger1531 Před 3 lety +1

      Same I can't live this way anymore. No more easy way out.

    • @hectornava9882
      @hectornava9882 Před 3 lety +2

      Ginger 15 mane I feel you .. I need help

  • @thejordanchronicles6715

    Great video and you have a comforting persona- thanks for this 💚x

  • @the3dotsguy...610
    @the3dotsguy...610 Před 4 lety +2

    This makes so much sense.

  • @mce3210
    @mce3210 Před 4 lety +3

    My pain comes from an EXTREMELY deep inner pain of feeling distant from g-d the yearning is extremely intense and it’s very hard to constantly block out the disconnect..... if I felt one with g-d I wouldn’t have ANY pain. :)

    • @El-sr1id
      @El-sr1id Před 3 lety

      So, why don't you feel one with God? Do you let others define and shape what God is for you? I notice you wrote g-d , I take it you have been impressed with the Jewish interpretation of God. What is it that keep you from connecting with God? Is this disconnect caused by the contemporary view of God in the Torah and Talmud?

    • @mce3210
      @mce3210 Před 3 lety

      @@El-sr1id on the contrary,my dream and will is to keep the torah and all its laws properly and happily, and and I am keeping it (on my level properly) but in this world of extreme lies and sickness the “other side”... believe it or not even this CZcams clip lol is all “lies” distractions from the TRUTH.....it’s all around.... and those of us who seek the truth and WANT so badly to connect to god,US people the “other side” prays on MUCH more then the rest of the world,99.99999 % of the world wouldn’t be able to stand for 5 seconds in the test a Jew that wants hashem so badly has,they would collapse on the spot! Literally,and I know while you are reading this the thoughts you may or anyone else may be having...... but I promise if you stop, put down you’re phone,and close you’re eyes and look at the world with truth.... look at the lies and all the things blocking our connections with god....and realize “why” this is happening,understand why is there so many “coverings” who is this for,why was the world this vast world FULL of wonders every moment wonders upon wonders......... day and night... night and day....
      Who was this all made for the earth the oceans the rivers the sea,the sun moon and stars... and above and above and the depths of the the depths.......all these people angles and seraphim and on and on..... all the animals trees,vast creation creatures of all kinds....
      Anyone with half a brain will yearn with a full heart to be connected to the ONE who created that..........and especially a Jew who the world runs according to his actions,wether people like us or not....... it’s not our fault that god created a “system” there are worlds upon worlds created in order for this world to be able to “handle” and even talk about god,he’s beyond our comprehension,the ONLY way we have anyway of “understanding” god (a Jew) is through the torah and mitzvos,and a non Jew through the seven laws of noach,and from learning from the Jews,and especially the holy Jews,how they act and talk and live...... that’s it.... in VERY SHORT..... :)

    • @El-sr1id
      @El-sr1id Před 3 lety

      @@mce3210 The very short part is debatable. Has it ever occured to you that mayhaps Judaism is one such path to a connection with the "creators of the world's" that it is just as true and just as valid as Buddhism to a Buddhist or Accepting Jesus into your heart for Christians. Even Islam is valid for a true believer with righteous intent. Despite the controversy that surrounds it. Religion should be looked at more like a spiritual tool, rather than a contract one was conscripted to sans consent on the day they were born. With that said....
      Would the machinations of an automated world be able to even comprehend thier creator ? Maybe like ants trying to comprehend a 747 takeoff in the distance. Nice to meet you. My name is Eldin. How do you do?

    • @El-sr1id
      @El-sr1id Před 3 lety

      Also , I am somewhat learned in Judaism, Talmud, and Torah. I'm sure no where near as much as you. So bear with me if I come across as ignorant or assumptive. The realm of the spiritual is where I reside. It is the world that makes sense to me..I was always sort of drawn to anything esoteric or "of the heavens and hells" . I have studied a vast array of religions, spiritualities, and just about any and every stretch of the imagination one can imagine.

    • @mce3210
      @mce3210 Před 3 lety

      @@El-sr1id there can’t be 2 truths or 3 truths or 4 truths.....there CAN only be one truth,because something is true to YOU,doesn’t make it THE truth. Because you believe there are many gods..... doesn’t make it the truth, yes there are many worlds,but that’s only because the ONE god who really “created” the number one,so we really have no grasp on what it even means,and if you studied enough with all due respect you’d understand what I’m saying...... there’s literally never ending amounts in Judaism to be studied....... hard to explain on a CZcams chat........... but In very short yes the reason why you “see” the world the way you do and think there are many gods and all that is because at least as of now because you didn’t accept the torah at sinai and you’re (angel) in heaven at the time god gave the torah,didn’t accept it as did all the other angles (who god appointed over each other “religion” to “govern” it and gave them a certain rule of how they should govern..... but the Jewish nation.... and these are secrets that if you don’t learn about it, A LOT and be truthful with yourself with tremendous power, you WILL take insult to what I’m saying even though,what I’m saying if you understood and did that and looked in to it with TRUTH,you would only see love,the Jewish nation was CHOSEN by god to give us the torah and we were chosen by god from when he chose in HIS WISDOM through the TORAH,to create the world that WE know of and see we were created first, and through US Jews and OUR keeping of the TORAH and connection to OUR father,everything else was created after and was then broken one after the other down to this world and the reason why it seems to you as “many” is because you are far from the ONE truth.......... all this is being said in LITERALLY a never ending sea of knowledge so I kind of feel foolish even writing this in such short wording....... but again.....if you study and truly want the truth,you will find......trust me NOTHING in the universe and I mean NOTHING will EVER take a torah learning jew away from our one true god and Torah......it’s IMPOSSIBLE. Understand that......it simply isn’t created in the nature that god created his world.................

  • @WorldWalker23
    @WorldWalker23 Před 6 lety +4

    Hi Tom. After 25 years of drug use I am now able to move away from this issue. I started my journey from addiction by being the real me. I was scared for a long time to come out as Transgender (over 35 years). I recognise that I have been scared. I was in a recovery meeting last week coincidentally mentioned that I was scared. Your video has rung a lot of bells and has affirmed what I have known for a while. I thought in the last year that I have been living without shame. I now realise that it is not the lack of shame but a lack of fear. Thank you for being you xx

  • @VennyIsTurbo
    @VennyIsTurbo Před 4 lety +1

    This gentleman basically described my life .

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 4 lety

      You are not alone, we all are addicted to someone or something first. Let it be a door opening towards the creation of the liberated authentic life you are actually born for. When you want more clarity, make sure to check the 4 free videos @ www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process and the creation of the life you are actually born for!

  • @delaney5721
    @delaney5721 Před rokem +2

    I’ve been addicted for many years not only to hard substances narcotics prescription meds amphetamines but to two of my ex narcissistic partners one was also a sociopath I suffer from an anxiety disorder that is genetic I may be autistic we don’t know yet I also have major depressive disorder. My dad sides of the family has prominent addiction and my moms side of the family has prominent mental illness. I’ve been on a narcotic for 9 months now and I decided to quit last night I threw the bottle away and called the pharmacy. I’m currently in withdrawal I’m also addicted to Kratom and have been taking it everyday for 5 years. I’m on lexapro which I need and will probably be for life I have severe OCD. Eventually I want to stop taking Kratom as well but the first step was to make my mind up that I wasn’t going to take narcotics anymore. It was not an over night decision I had been thinking about quitting for months and finally did yesterday. It’s been hard to focus and I’ve had auditory hallucinations brain zaps drug cravings ringing in my ears etc etc but I know it’s the right decision and I showed I was serious because I cancelled the prescription and when I set my mind to something I do it. I told my family about it and they are helping me.
    Despite all the addictions I’ve been through none of them were as hard as quitting my ex narcissistic relationship I was in for many years. I didn’t think it was possible for something like that to be more severe than a substance (not comparing traumas just speaking from personal experience) but it was. The past relationship left me unmotivated which is why I got on narcotics to begin with to try and be more productive and feel better. I feel like addiction is tied to many things I don’t fully understand it but I’m trying to. I hope that I continue to stay away from it. I don’t plan on going back.

    • @laurinenstokes7986
      @laurinenstokes7986 Před rokem

      *I’ll refer you to this mate online i bought some grams of N-N DMT LSD Shrooms 🍄mushrooms Aderral 💊chocolate bar 🍫and other psychedelic stuffs and he also ship discreetly to any location****

    • @laurinenstokes7986
      @laurinenstokes7986 Před rokem

      *He’s on telegram*

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 7 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing 🙏 If this video resonated with you, feel free to watch more here : alive-academy.com 🍀💎🙏

  • @cenkmetinhan2803
    @cenkmetinhan2803 Před 5 lety +3

    Haven’t been taking ecstasy for a year now. Yesterday smoked a really potent weed which was a scary experience started craving for mdma again. Got prescribed some medicine and tring to control the urge. It is pretty much messed up.

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 5 lety +1

      Hi Cenk, I understand it 'seems' to be messed up, but once you solve the actual root cause of the cravings, you won't need to run away, suppress or live with the symptoms anymore either. To get more insight in the root cause and to set your mind free from the root cause already, I suggest you to watch my 4 videos at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!

    • @farisarif9275
      @farisarif9275 Před 3 lety

      i stop smokin weed already cause i dont like it. but mdma always got me. guide me how to stop 🥺🥺🥺

    • @princessgreen726
      @princessgreen726 Před 3 lety +2

      Weed is as bad as Cocaine...messes up the brain!

  • @662dodz
    @662dodz Před 6 lety +6

    The root cause is my ex girlfriend not letting me see my child maybe if i could eliminate her all would be great thanks for the advice pal

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 5 lety

      You are welcome.

    • @stacyw40
      @stacyw40 Před 5 lety +4

      662dodz if you are on drugs your child does not need you. If you aren't on drugs or a danger to your child I feel for you especially since your kid is growing daily.

    • @xXXxNagisAxXXx
      @xXXxNagisAxXXx Před 5 lety +1

      Im here as my boyfriend is in the same situation as you and I’m looking for help. I don’t know what to do anymore, how to help him. I can not control him, I’m afraid every time I’m leaving him alone he’s gonna go high. I wish I could sort his life out but I can’t, his ex also doesn’t let him see his kid, he’s devastated, especially now after Christmas. Things just getting worse and worse, I don’t want to leave him to destroy himself but also I don’t want him to drag me down to the bottom with him. Even worse he’s spending a lot of £ when he’s on drugs..

    • @Dida16
      @Dida16 Před 4 lety

      @@LoneWolf-qk7gc obviously she is not on the same page. Great news for her of course. Stacey, I am sure u meant good but if common sense could help, no one would need help. Besides idiots...

    • @YogiNoGi
      @YogiNoGi Před 4 lety

      You should definitely eliminate her :)

  • @blackperson4433
    @blackperson4433 Před 3 dny

    This was absolutely perfect. Wow.. thank you.

  • @nattyhead1816
    @nattyhead1816 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you for doing it unconditionally

  • @walkaminutewithme4787
    @walkaminutewithme4787 Před 6 lety +6

    I have lost myself.

    • @thpadilla
      @thpadilla Před 5 lety

      WalkaMinutewithme how do you think it got to this point?

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 5 lety +3

      No worries, we all loose ourselves first, before we can actually found ourselves. And we all get addicted to one distraction or another first, before we can heal ourselves from the very inside out. I advice you to check my 4 free videos at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process and to be you again!

    • @walkaminutewithme4787
      @walkaminutewithme4787 Před 5 lety

      Thank you

    • @enelkingman1214
      @enelkingman1214 Před 5 lety +1

      I was there too. One-day I just stopped cold turkey , joined a MMA gym I got into boxing and jiu-jitsu little by little everything got better. At first is very hard but don't give up.

    • @saydeecat4990
      @saydeecat4990 Před 5 lety +1

      Me too..... Addiction is a vicious cycle..... "just stop" they say.... yeah if only it was that easy...

  • @phillipwhitfield2963
    @phillipwhitfield2963 Před 5 lety +3

    I need help so bad.. i lost my son in drive by and my best friend gives me coke i been hooked for 6 yrs. I gotta stop someone please help me

    • @thesocks6653
      @thesocks6653 Před 5 lety

      your “best friend” wouldn’t be feeding you drugs yo help you cope. a real friend would help you understand your feelings and solve problems instead of burying them. separate yourself from toxic people and surround yourself with an environment that is positive for your mind space and wellbeing

    • @selinakhan2150
      @selinakhan2150 Před 5 lety +1

      He isn’t a best friend.

    • @dianewinkel5772
      @dianewinkel5772 Před 3 lety

      I’m so sorry to read this . How are you doing now if I may ask a how old are you?

    • @dianewinkel5772
      @dianewinkel5772 Před 3 lety

      Many times in life you experience the truth of the friendship you think you have until you experience that they are just damaging you and this are hard lessons in life from we must learn.. real friends are very rare and unique but possible max on 1 hand counted or the half .. all the other ‘friends come and go and Is part of your life process and you are in control to choose who you want to be with ..: I’m 38 years and I just find out it’s hard but it’s possible .. I have been using cocaïne for 25 years I love it soo much and I still do but just recently maybe because the corona lockdown I’m just with myself and get confronted with my self and I don’t enjoy using just alone but I continued end it have affected me in a way that I will go to a rehab to become clean and work my body and get ready for summer because I know I will not stop forever as I always have fun and this is the point of using drug .. only use if you feel good because it’s only strength the feeling of your mood...!if you don’t feel good stop 🛑 using because you will feel worse and it can get you loose all you have and others.. cocaine is has a strong power and if your cannot handle to stay happy when you are using cocaïne as it should be for pleasure only the. The Devil takes over you and takes you down to very deep scary places and it’s hard to get out of there .. I have see. It soo many times and now after 25 years I finally experience my down site and I lost joy and fun and my alarm 🚨 goes because i have great life but if I continue now I will loose it all because I use now without pleasure and fun it becomes addiction and I feel guilt and I’m afraid now and I must stop right now before it takes me all the way..: so for everyone who read this just enjoy drugs as long if you feel good and happy and have fun at all time .. and if you loose this good feeling and don’t have more fun or pleasure .. then stop using drugs because it will take you down to guilt paranoid and I don’t even mention twhere it can take you ..: I have been in the battle to be stronger than cocaine for 25 years and with success and have helped many people but now it hit me and in 2 weeks I. Go to a rehab to get my mind back and become clean. I never thought this would ever happen to me .. and I wish I could help other people to as I know the point and alarm 🚨 when you must stop before is to late .. maybe I should make my own channel before I go to rehab and the experience and after... ok thank you for reading my whole story to be continued 😌

  • @fetoti
    @fetoti Před 5 lety +1

    Loved this video. Thanks a lot

  • @JazzoFett
    @JazzoFett Před 5 lety +1

    Replaced identify of ourselves... Spot on

  • @jadrankakosor4981
    @jadrankakosor4981 Před 6 lety +3

    Good said but how do you explain a junkie how not to do the same thing again tomorow? After a good night sleep people like this forget about all this and i know this becouse i am like that and i watched this video mor times but only when im on drugs and sick of the feeling of being like that and doing htis to my brain my body my family ect. But as soon as im sober i forget what it does to me and to people who care about me and as soon as I see a line somewhere or any drug, expeciali when im with friends i cant help it even if I knoe that ill fuck up everything and cross my word i stil do it and then i fuck my whole day up plus i dont eat when im on drugs and the next day i feel like shit....and I would still do it again tomorrow if I had a chanse or if i had some drugs left from yesterday...if you have an advice or if youve been in this sotuation...any good helpul advice will mean a lot to me...i knoe that i dont have to go to a drug addiction center becose i know i can do this alone i just need an advice if its possible becouse I know what vill happen if this continues and i dont want that to happen....im not on heroin but im adicted to everything else speed exstasy acid shrooms cocaine...ps if someone has a stupid reply to this jus showe it up your ass becouse i wont even reed them

    • @Adamas7
      @Adamas7 Před 6 lety +1

      Jadranka Kosor I feel your pain. Just stay strong and try to remember the reasons you need to stop. And also try to remember how much better your life will be without it. I know it's difficult. I was dealing with the same issues.

    • @myles208
      @myles208 Před 6 lety +1

      Jadranka Kosor *if someone has a stupid reply* okay here’s an honest one. You’re gonna spend the rest of your life a pathetic junkie living on the streets unless u kick the drugs.

    • @jadrankakosor4981
      @jadrankakosor4981 Před 6 lety +2

      that is not a stupid reply but it's easyer said than done , like i dont know that

    • @jadrankakosor4981
      @jadrankakosor4981 Před 6 lety +1

      im trying it's getting a little better but I want to quit forever...thanks for the support

    • @evamarie2616
      @evamarie2616 Před 5 lety +2

      The firzt thing you need to do is stop putting yourself down! It onky keeps u in the same place. The guilt , shame, pain , etc get rid of them. Only use them when you u feel like using. Remimd urself of those feelings and that they are caused by substances.
      Learn to love yourself exactly as you are . U can do th at by meditation and visualization. Science shows tgat when u visualize. Your physical body reacts as if u r really doing it . Tbis means we can change our own dopemine serotonin and endorphins etc. On our own. I get months or years of clean time but then always seem to relapse and go on another lengthy run.......
      I a, nkw starting to use neuroscience, meditation amd visualization, and reiki to pull myself from this relapse. Also meed to surrond myself with positive people read and listen to alot of positive videos and music and MAKE CONNECTIONS, Connection to others and love is crucial. Newer studies show oxytocin is released in ur brain when u connect with others.just as it is released in a mother and her newborn.and it is the missing link in helping to combat addiction.
      U r not alone. U are have amazing potential inside of u waiting to show. U just need to find what healthy thing can stimulate it and bring it forth.
      Desire change a d BELIEVE u caan do it! Take schedualed times throughout the day when ur sober to remind urself y u hate using and the negative feelings jt brings. Condition ur brain to hate them!
      And check out Joe dispenza..... amazing videos on how to condition ur brain and the power of belief with thd science to back it up.
      Much love, peace and light
      Eva

  • @abdulkarim2265
    @abdulkarim2265 Před 3 lety +5

    My name is azaan yohann karim I'm a herion addict I wanna stop HELP ME 🙏😭😭

  • @rsthungti148
    @rsthungti148 Před 2 lety +1

    Ian starting the aliveness challenge tomorrow.. keep me in your prayers. Thank u Aliveness.

  • @shaunamcvay4944
    @shaunamcvay4944 Před 5 lety

    I hope guys realize, we all have fear and some fear of just life itself every day, this is normal and for ones who don't do anything to cope with it realize that we can and will have another day but also that we can do something else like find a hobby or watch something positive to make us feel better. I have been dealing with an addict, and know that if someone is dealing with you it's not because they have to, we can always choose to walk away, if they are there it's because they care even when they don't realize they make it worse by their reactions to you by getting angry or crying etc.

  • @GeeZee23
    @GeeZee23 Před 3 lety +4

    I’m so bored. drugs bring me way more problems then happiness but the happiness while on the drugs feels better then never ever having that happiness. Idk if that makes since.

  • @brandonmays5482
    @brandonmays5482 Před 5 lety +6

    I'm in a place to stop by choice but I can't stop and the problem is that I do drugs that's what brings all my pain and is also the bandaid and distraction my greatest fear is quitting everything. There I shined the light that's as far as I get. How do I quit for EVER. I say we must change everything I always slip up with the people I got hi with now I'm at this miserable point again and I know there's more needed and it works a little different than he says. When you slam all your drugs it takes changing everything and staying that way and it can be done

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 5 lety

      Hi Brandon, I advice you to solve the root of the problem for once and for all, so you won't be needing any distraction anymore to look for relieve. Watch my 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com. Enjoy your liberation process from the very inside out!

    • @brandonmays5482
      @brandonmays5482 Před 5 lety

      Alive Academy isint the root of my problem that I slam drugs? I had a good childhood never been traumatized just had no guidance growing up. The first time I did meth my reason was I wanted to try something new, nothing wrong with wanting to try something new when your 15. Now it haunts me I've recently fell off but I always get back up. I don't gave any problems with life except I'm compelled to do drugs

  • @hishamnasser5768
    @hishamnasser5768 Před 4 lety

    Tom thanx alot for ur kindness best way to make addicts understand .

  • @bigdesignspop
    @bigdesignspop Před 4 lety

    I love his voice and smooth mature delivery