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0:00-0:44 Intro
0:45-7:25 I dressed up for a date and my friend didn't like it / first_time_i_dressed_u...
7:26-17:29 I sang a song at my friend's wedding / sang_a_song_about_gay_sex
17:30-28:02 I deleted my friend's 100-hour game save / aita_for_deleting_my_r...
28:03-36:31 I told my wife to stop crying at Home Depot / stop_crying_at_home_depot
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37:43-54:31 Did my daughter catch my husband cheating? / concerned_my_daughter_...
54:32-1:02:04 I kept "weight loss" prize money / give_it_back_you_weirdo
1:02:05-1:11:35 My guy friend doesn't understand women's safety / do_guys_really_just_no...
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Being embarrassed by your wife’s crying because she’s remembering her dead father is crazy to me.
That guy being married is crazy to me.
If my partner made me feel insecure about my grieving process for a parent… bruh. I wouldn’t trust them after that. It is going to take him A LOT of time to repair that, assuming that he actually tries.
I had a boyfriend in college who broke up with me 2 months after my dad died from a 2yr battle with cancer (I was 19.) His reasons were that id "changed" and I was "still really sad all the time" despite it being "a while since he died" and the death was "expected." People like that absolutely exist, and I can confidently say they lack basic human empathy
@@daniellethompson3725while I know humanity is complex, I think trying to push aside grief, especially someone else’s grief, is very inconsiderate no matter when the death was.
I have a friend who’s mother unexpectedly passed away and unfortunately had to go back to college not long after the funeral. Though he was only gone for a few weeks before he would return, his uncle took it upon himself to go through some of her personal items, taking some and getting rid of others. He didn’t ask my friend or anyone else for permission and claimed it was to help “speed up” the grieving process.
My grandfather passed away about 8 years ago and though I have moved on from the stages of grief, I still think about him very often. It doesn’t happen often enough but there have been times where I’ve seen some stranger in public or a tv/movie character who reminds me much of my grandfather. Sometimes these encounters bring me joy and comfort and other times they bring me grief and sadness. I’ve cried a couple times because of it. I think it’s a completely normal reaction to have when you meet someone/see something that largely reminds you of passed love ones.
if you see a woman talking about being in dangerous situations and your first response to that is that they are insulting you, you're part of the problem.
This
say it louder baby!!!!!
If I were that guy, even if I somehow had the weird idea that a woman would be exaggerating I would still AT THE VERY LEAST consider how she feels, that she's scared, and that it takes such little effort to walk her to her car
Now
It would be insane for me to believe she's exaggerating considering how many woman get called in the street, and harassed,
And yes I can agree that no
Not all guys want to demonstrate such behavior but I would never use a situation like that as an example, like I said
She's scared and she has every right to be,
Justify yourself as a man elsewhere
She's scared and has every right TO BE!!
It's also not even a woman thing if one of the boys said "I might get jumped" and you don't back your boy up ur the asshole
Exactly. We of course know not every man is trying to jump a girl in a parking garage. Based on those guys statements it seems more likely the thing is there have been enough men who have so of course ppl will be cautious. There are only 2 ways to interpret "I bet she's not as stuck up as the girls at the bar" it either means she will get jumped. Or it means at the very least they will try to hit on her. You never know how ppl react to rejection bc maybe they would become violent and dangerous especially without any witnesses. It's way better to be on the safe side than to possible risk a very dangerous situation.
There is an update on the double date story: OP spoke to Joel and said how he didn’t like how he was used in that sense. Joel actually wounded up apologizing and was like “I really don’t know what I’m doing wrong when I’m going on these dates” to which OP said that he needs to start getting a little more invested, to which Joel agreed on and said he’ll start trying his best. Meanwhile, Sam and OP’s second date went REALLY well. They went on a few more and now they’re official!
It really felt like the friend was insecure and taking it out on the OP for that one. I get the feeling and the tendency to project but good on him for seeing it.
Thank you for the update 😊
@@ArchibaldClumpy Based on Joel's description, he sounds like the " I'm good looking therefore that's enough to want to date me" type
You’re the best
@@JakeyJones1000th like 😄
As a gay man after listening to that song if it was played at my wedding I wouldn’t have even told her I was terminating the friendship I’d delete and block her number then try to avoid her for the rest of the night & she’d never speak to me in person ever again.
How did that song even cross her mind. I have questions but I don't think I want it answered lol.
i rewatch these a lot and i forgot this episode had that one. horrific vile nasty.
i’d get my brother to see her out. he’s tall and scary (he’s actually really sweet and gentle, but strangers don’t need to know that)
edit: i showed my friend the song and asked what she would think of someone singing it at her wedding and she said she would think it’s hilarious. i guess that song could be great for weddings, with the right crowd, but even then you better get explicit permission to do so before hand.
That song is NOT for a formal event omfg that song is some funny shit for the car or something oh my god
@@thatguyzorv6650 exactly, like I heard the song the other day I don’t remember how it came up I think on CZcams shorts or something and when I heard it, I immediately started laughing because it is a funny song & kinda catchy, but I will just never understand what could possess somebody to sing that at anything serious/formal…
As a straight woman who is married, if a "friend" came to sing at my wedding at my request and they sang Pony, i would have yanked them out the venue and never spoke to them again. Wtf
As a female, a single flower on a first date is very impressionable. It’s more than a sweet gesture, he made her feel special. You don’t know how many times she has received flowers at all, could have been the first time any guy brought her flowers. It’s not like he brought her a bouquet. Women carry purses and stuff, a single rose won’t kill us lol. 😂
a single rose is so sweet! also bc OP mentioned her friend saying it was her "intro" to the dating world, i feel like OP was just setting a good precedent for her! just cheesy enough to be silly instead of overly romantic lol
oh man, I must be the only one who finds this embarrassing? I love to receive flowers at home from someone I care about, but a single rose on a first date? I mean, I don't even know the guy, definitely don't feel romantic about him yet, so it feels kind of cheesy and puts too much pressure for romance. What if we don't hit it off and then I have this awkward souvenir? I'd feel self-conscious carrying it around all night like I'd be on display as being on a first date, which would make me feel more self-conscious than just being on a first date normally would. Because obviously it's a first date. If you're out with someone you've been seeing for a long time, they would just bring you flowers at home when they visit. I've only had a guy bring a single flower to a first date once, but while I appreciated that he was trying to be thoughtful and impress me or something, I just didn't actually like it. But maybe that's just a test of whether people are a good match or not. The fact that this girl seemed to love it means that romantic flower-bringing guys should maybe just go for it and see?
@@brittaanson3197 That's a you problem imo
@@brittaanson3197I feel like most people don't agree to a date if they don't at least see the potential for romance
I do think it is very sweet, and I'm sure most women love it. I think just got too much tism for it, every time I've ever got flowers I can't think of anything else but "Oh, a bunch of severed plant genitals, thank you?" Like please bring me a live plant, not just it's severed genitals, lol.
The thing about guys like Mark is, they will ridicule a woman for being "too careful" around men... until a woman is assaulted, and then they'll go on about how it's all her fault for "not being careful enough" around men.
Exactly
It would have been so easy to walk her to her car, barely an inconvenience
Yo this is a good point! You can’t take that risk. Stay safe everybody
Those types only ever think about how a woman is inconveniencing them. Not accepting his advances? Asking for comfort or protection or understanding? Having expectations and boundaries? She crazy! She paranoid! She's insecure! How dare this woman not immediately see I'm only of the good guys! But when she gets assaulted it becomes "How dare this woman put herself in that situation and make all men look bad!"
They think doing the bare minimum of not beating and r-ping women should be enough to earn them everything they want.
OMG yes! If you told Mark a woman you know got r@ped in a parking garage he would blame her for being alone in a parking garage at 11pm
As someone still grieving the loss of my sister I've cried randomly over her favorite flavor of Gatorade. Grief is unpredictable and can be overwhelming at random times.
I do that with things that remind me of my grandpa (he was the closest I had to a dad growing up).
Sending you both love and light
Why do we sound so similar? On May 3rd 2023, I lost my sister as well. Her favorite flower was a rose.
I completely know what you feel man. I sometimes get sad when I remember certain photos of her or memories. I’m sorry for you loss and I know what it’s like.
I totally understand. I’m the same with my dad and FIL - who died 3 weeks apart - 18months ago.
@@shinrodanreviews4322wow man sorry for your loss that is still very recent!😢 Best wishes to you
Shayne saying he's not a couples therapist while sitting there with our reconciled dads is.. Ironic
AND iconic.
This comment age wonderfully
I absolutely REFUSE to believe the wedding singer story is real. It was 100% set up in a way that people would ask what the song was, and the punchline was the song. That's why they didn't include it, and all of their answers were intentionally vague. NO ONE is that oblivious.
Yeah like obviously the number one question to “I made my GAY friends upset by singing at their wedding” would be “what did you sing”
Penn and Teller got hundreds of people to sign a petition that would abolish Hydrogen Dioxide once. Never doubt the human capacity to miss the point.
It seemed like a well written joke. It started with the setup that it was a gay wedding and then the punchline was the song. Seems too good to be true.
Think about how stupid the average person is, and then realize that half of them are even stupider than that. It's entirely possible that OP is the "half of them are even stupider than that" category.
It's absolutely fake. Sounds like a scene from a 2000s comedy with Vince Vaughn or Ben stiller
That first story needed a female audience, bc there was nothing wrong with bringing a single rose! It's cute and sweet, and he sounds like he's a great first date.
Not at all, that was very sweet and I would love to be given on a rose on a first date.
to mke it better, apparently op and sam are dating now so it was clearly a great choice
Yeah agreed. I think the guys were trying to be considerate
Rose is definitely a sweet gesture, and the right amount of effort for a first date in my opinion
If it had been a bouquet it would have been too much, but just the one rose was a sweet gesture and showed he actually cared
The dude telling his wife to stop crying because of her dad is not just an asshole, but absolutely doesn't deserve to be married to her. It has been almost four years since my uncle's passing and I still cry in random ass places over something as small as seeing shirts that look like something he would wear. Grief isn't something to get angry at someone about
i think he was annoyed that he really wanted to watch football and she convinced to have a fun time at Home Depot and instead of it being fun, she had a breakdown. I see his point in his feelings. He just should've kept it to himself.
I agree he does not deserve her my dad passed when I was 16 and a Sophomore in high school and it might have been a month or two after he passed and my mom went to Wal*mart and she just randomly saw a guy there who looked exactly like my dad and she was okay at first but the second time she saw him she lost it emotionally and she left the store cause she couldn't handle seeing what she thought was a GHOST
I still feel a pang of grief every time I post something on Facebook because my auntie Donna always liked my posts. Every single one. Now she never will again. It’s been like 5 years… she was my loudest supporter. I miss her still so much. :( love you Auntie!
My dad and mom passed 4 years ago and little things still get me, watching a certain movie, thinking about something they said, I recently had a dream with my dad in it and I realized it was a dream and begged for him to come back.
I love that Ian tried to teach an old man that being polite can be dangerous. I was working at a hotel close to christmas and an old man with a santa hat walked by, smiled at me and told me he liked my festive makeup, and I told him I liked his hat since it was festive too and I wanted to be polite and kind and put on a good face for the hotel. He took that as a "greenlight" (as he tells me later, that in his days giving a compliment back in return was the "greenlight") that I would be receptive to flirtation. He also tried to bribe me into letting him into one of the rooms because he's never been inside one before (it's a semi famous hotel). I told him no and closed the door, locked it, and told the security. They escorted him out of the hotel because he didn't have a room and was just wandering the halls. So creepy that all started with a side compliment on his hat 🙃 politeness is not a "greenlight" to get to know someone or put them in uncomfortable situations. Like,,, we're rude if we don't respond to politeness but we're asking for intimacy if we respond in kind???
THIS! It’s so hard to know if replying to a stranger could turn into a bad situation. So often if you respond, it’s taken to mean they can continue the interaction when really you were just being polite. And if you ignore them, you also risk a bad situation because you’re “stuck up” etc. it’s a lose-lose situation and there’s no good way WE can control it, it relies on our support systems and the other person knowing when to back off
OP of the first story made an updated post two weeks ago that he spoke to his friend, who apologized for his actions and seems to have learned/changed from the experience, and OP has gone on more dates with Sam, really hit it off, and they're now officially dating.
Yay happy ending!
Nice 👍
Noice
So proud of OP, I’m happy he got a happy ending after not being treated right by his friend
Best update EVER 🎉
As a woman, I wouldn't be mad or weirded out if a man gave me a rose on a first date. :) it's a sweet gesture. I wouldn't expect one, either though!
Same
I would…
a whole ass bouquet would be a lot, but a single rose is cute
@taryltaryl yes and also if you're tired carrying it you can place behind the ear or braid into hair. Cute and simple
My friend had this happen to her and she was very surprised how much it meant to her.
The relationship didnt last but it was a clean and drama free break up. But to hear her talk about how she clung to that rose on that date is cute and funny.
The talk about the burden of a rose got me thinking about this.
A bad ally segment would be GOLD and sooo cathartic. You have to invite Jackie back for that one though! Lol
AND MacDoesIt XD
The male friend in the second-to-last story absolutely seems like the kind of guy who’d reply to a woman experiencing period cramp pains as “it’s not a big deal, you’re being dramatic”
Yet when they have a small cold they are bed bound and can't even heat up a can of soup
@@Kitkatliss06 right
She'd get murdered and He'd say "how was I supposed to know??"
Ian and Anthony singing „…on my bussy“ completely in synch killed me lol
The three of them need to do a cover of that song now. I'm sorry, I don't make the rules.
True friendship
Nah they sang “awn my busseyy”
@@18Hongoit’s what must be done. It’s the way, the truth, and the light
New ringtone.
With the "do men not get it story" the fact she had to add an edit to say she's not saying there are no good men really proves her point.
yup. that means enough men must’ve read the post, entirely missed the point, and instead decided she was insulting an entire gender and felt the need to comment about it, for her to warrant an edit. the lack of empathy is insane. it’s not ALL men, but it’s ENOUGH men to have to be wary
That added line “I know there are good people out there” is my BIGGEST pet peeve. That’s a given, of course we know that. It just gives off “women and their tiny little women brains are so dumb. They don’t know there are good men out there” vibes which is just patronising
@caitlindunbar6697 "no, they just haven't met the right one yet. Once they do, their whole perspective will change"
@@izzayy_I always say, the fact that it’s ANY men that those those things at all is too much. Just because someone is talking about a man doesn’t mean every man is being scrutinized. But boy does it say a lot about the men who get offended. It would be better to say nothing at all than to say “well I’m a nice guy” 🙃 sometimes it just feels like the internet is a breeding ground for incels.
Right their ego gets so bruised they miss the entire point and have no empathy.
The reveal of the song for the wedding one absolutely makes everything add up lmao
My friends and I always kinda have a "walk with me to my car and I'll drive you to yours" unspoken agreement.
That's awesome! Definitely going to start using this too😊 Thank you!
A rose on a first date is SO CUTE! Always think, "Would a lesbian do that?" If the answer is yes, you're in.
That is SO TRUE 😂
This comment needs like 10x more likes
😭😭seriously, a girl I was good friends with (and definitely had a crush on even though neither of us were totally sure about our orientations back then lol) gave me a rose in highschool, and it’s literally still in a vase on my desk. we never even actually went on a date, but the gesture itself was incredibly meaningful, and her going out of her way to do that for me really made me feel valued in a way I hadn’t before that.
@@Eve.with.a.YAww that’s really sweet.
exactly my thinking
THE SECOND I HEARD DICKSON DALLAS I SCREAMED. He makes some bangers but at a gay wedding? That definitely pushed it too far, I'm wheezing.
I've been crying my eyes out laughing since hearing the song. I don't like country but Dixon Dallas is my new favorite artist
That one has to be bait because I’m pretty sure the song is satire 😭
@nayderdabigfatgator1842 Right... and people NEVER miss the meaning of a song, do they? Especially not someone like the OP, who, by the sound of it, is the most oblivious person on God's green earth...
Unless they specifically asked to hear it lmao. But yeah, op was in the wrong for that one 😅😂
legittt
Grief man, it hits like that. I was so embarrassed a couple weeks ago. I'd just gotten my hair cut, a different style than usual. Leaving the shop, I caught a sort of sideways glimpse of my own reflection in a shop window, and mind glitched, thought my own reflection was my brother who died a couple years back. It kind of broke me for a couple days.
:’( oh man, that’s tough. really beautiful as well, but I can’t imagine your pain. I’m sorry for your loss.
I have had the same situation but thinking it was my mum. Decided to dye my hair back to ginger and try to keep my natural colour but my mum dyed her hair to hide the greys. As i was walking home i saw my reflection in the shop window and broke down at home. Change back to pink a few months later when i was able to afford it again and only wore it up whilst it was ginger. Grief genuinely strikes in the most unexpected moments over unexpected things, totally comes in waves. So sorry to hear about your loss, i hope you are healing from it and are managing. Its a hard thing to deal with and live through ❤
Whoa! My dad had been gone for 2 years, when I was out for a coffee date with a friend. I totally teared up when I saw a man that sort of looked like my dear old pops, but mostly he just seemed to have mannerisms and walked just like my dad. The instant anguish and overwhelming sense of loss that that hit me so hard was insane. Tearing up was such a minimal reaction compared to how I was actually feeling inside and was practically heroic on my part. And my friend…she was amazing, sensitive, affirming and supportive.
I did the same. 2 years after my dad passed away, my (now stepdad) was having a hard time walking when we were at the mall, I broke down crying at the sight of him because Dad did that too sometimes, especially the year he died.
Hey, I’m so sorry for your losses. I’m sending all my love. ❤️❤️❤️
When I’m dealing with the loss of a loved one, the song Sweet Valentine by Alec Hutson always makes me feel better. I don’t know why, but, it helps. I hope it helps you too. ❤️
I'm white and all my grandparents were white, but Ray Charles has always reminded me of my grandpa. There's just something similar about the two of them. I'm sure if I mentioned it to someone else, they'd think I was crazy.
Was your friend the only one helping you through your grieving for a year?
For the first story: there's an update that OP and Sam started to officially date after a fourth date (with the second date mentioned going very well), meanwhile Joel was left in the dirt.
Good. Pricks should be left in the dirt.
😭 THAT IS SO WHOLESOME
yeah nice guys finish FIRST, they just have to actually be nice guys.
@@m0derately.g0threal nice guys not “nice guys”
@@superphantom100Definitely. I use Kind Guy instead of Nice Guy. Niceness is like a custom service smile and voice. It's a painted on mask that is intended to allow one person to do or say stuff to get something out of the other. It's someone thinking mostly or exclusively of themselves and treating everything like a transaction.
Kindness is sincere and genuine, it means to think of what the other person wants and needs from them and their interactions. Kindness is seeing a person, seeing them as a whole individual not simply a means to satisfy an end goal, and doing things or pursing them because you want to make them happy, enjoy their company, and wish to see them succeed. I use Wade from Elements as an outstanding example of this. Recognizing someone's fire, passion, seeing its beauty, and doing whatever you can to help without the expectation of anything in return. It doesn't mean to be a push over, Wade definitely didn't simply let her walk on him 24/7, because ultimately Kindness listens and then tells people what the need to here even if they might not understand or like it starting off. Niceness is all talk, to say what one believes a person wants to hear to achieve a means to an end.
Be a kind guy, not a nice one. ❤
@@superphantom100 That is what they said. XD
But yeah, it's super sweet that they connected and began dating. He showed her she was special and set the bar high for future first dates (assuming they don't just stay together, of course).
Can we just appreciate the unsung hero of the first date story?
Jean is such a girl's girl. This is the positive female friendship I love. She's so supportive towards her friend and seems to take good care of Sam who was new to the dating scene. Love it!
Even better? An update on the post said that OP and Sam are dating now!! We Stan that kind of romantic start!!
@@BlackRosesBloom-Emily_Rosehell yeah!
@@BlackRosesBloom-Emily_Rose that’s super cute! Any update on OP’s crappy roommate though?
@@trashotaku I read another comment that said he actually admitted he was wrong and apologized to the friend!
@@allisoncastle was not expecting that but cool
With the Home Depot story, even if the man didn't physically look like her father something else could have reminded her of him. The type of clothing the guy was wearing, certain phrases, the way he walks, the facial hair, his voice, there's so many things that could have reminded her of her father. His main focus should've been helping his wife feel better, not worrying about what random people at Home Depot think who probably weren't even paying attention cause they were looking for ladders and light bulbs.
i think he was annoyed that he really wanted to watch football and she convinced to have a fun time at Home Depot and instead of it being fun, she had a breakdown. I see his point in his feelings. He just should've kept it to himself.
@@hollystiener16I agree with you, I can imagine a lot of people have been annoyed at me breaking down and dragging down the mood. But none of them ever let me notice anything energy but compassion. The way he reacted was as if she was intentionally ruining the mood, which is slightly terrifying. He didn’t really seem aware that she had not control over when grief hits you, or didn’t care.
1:06:32 as a black person, I get when women discuss situations like this because the experience is similar but different as a person of color. There’s just unwritten rules of behavior to deter or discourage a bad interaction (ie not putting my hands in my pockets at a convenience store, or being super cautious and respectful around/toward police). Lots of friends of mine say i’m crazy for operating cautiously or feeling uncomfortable in certain situations
My dad has a karate classmate who's a preteen black boy who immigrated here (Canada) from the US, and one time they heard sirens in the distance and he freaked out. Now, our police aren't perfect, but black people don't tend to be disproportionate targets here (it's more Native people who are targeted - being a Native person in Canada is kinda like being black in the US) but of course he wasn't going to take a bunch of white people's word for that. What got him to calm down was my dad promising that if the police came there, he would vouch for that kid.
You're not crazy you're smart. I'm not a POC, just experienced some real POS out there. Stay safe! ❤️
@@ettinakitten5047*stares in Black Canadian* Having lived in both the US and Canada, I’m gonna have to disagree that we’re less targeted.
I'd LOVE to see a bad ally episode full of stories from people who think they are ending all discrimination but actually aren't lol
YES!!! I would absolutely LOVE that!!!
I second this. Some people focus way too hard on “being an ally” and end up acting discriminatory or prejudice. I see it a lot with people talking down to minorities and such about their “situation.”
Let’s just treat people like people y’all, it ain’t that hard 😊
Get Tommy in that episode lol
Where the guests can vote on whether each poster is an ally or not
Average tik tok users
Parents - GET A LOCK ON YOUR DOOR. Stop traumatizing your poor children
Right?! My own opinion on this is that in the grand scheme of things (at least for now) it doesn't matter who the child saw. She shouldn't have seen it
Sometimes locks are expensive
I feel like this is probably edging into child neglect for how much she talking about it? I feel like this is disgusting how people are seemingly okay with their children seeing that stuff
'traumatizing' lmao get a grip
Yes yes yes so true. Get a lock or (AND) teach your children about knocking and privacy and respecting peoples’ space/time. Like are they not knocking before entering their kids’ rooms??
Also if dad thought their daughter saw something, why didn’t he at least tell his wife after???
Why do people not get that children absorb and remember so much, my goodness.
The first story reminded me of my son's father. On our first date, we met up at a restaurant and he pulled a rose out of his jacket. I started swooning over it and he said "yeah yeah but keep it down, I picked it from that house across the street" 😂😂 I think it's fine to bring a single flower on a first date. It shows he put in a little thought and effort. We had a wonderful, short time together. We quickly became inseparable. My mom is legally blind and baked a cake for Christmas that year. She used a clothes pin to keep her bag of sugar closed and it disappeared. My son's father was the lucky one to find it baked into his piece of cake! 😂 Such wonderful memories. He unfortunately passed away in a car accident when I was around 20 weeks pregnant. His name was Jay. I named our son Jayson. It's a play on words: Jay's son ❤
That’s really sweet. I’m sorry he couldn’t be around longer
That guy in the first story made first dates look easy. He came into it thinking he was out of his league and ROCKED it
On the first one, some men get angry when other men treat women well. And Shayne is probably right about him using his friend to make him look good. 1st guy needs better friends
There is an update to that story: OP took Sam out again, and it went very well. He spoke to his friend, who was salty, but is treating him with a bit more respect now. The friend and Jean didn't go out again as far as OP knows.
So, generally speaking, not a bad end to the story.
I would ask why men would get angry about that but ya know, m e n
@@KingOfGaymesyeah like wtf is that about. "How dare you respect women, grrrr!"
And these men are usually the ones crying that women don't go for the nice guys
@@KingOfGaymes okay the comment was good, but the name and pfp are fucking BASED. i'm a yugiboomer myself, and pretty much every yugioh protagonist except little yugi himself is on the lgbtq+ spectrum (atem's very gay tho).
It's honestly refreshing hearing three grown men speaking about how weight doesn't define your health or how most men are clueless about the daily life of women or the microaggression of telling someone to not bring their food to work. They're def not bad allies.
I feel so seen listening to this channel discuss women, the men are superb allies
I 100% get it, I totally think that dude in that story was a dingleberry and the very least he could have done was agreed without arguing even if he thought it was a bit much. It can be dangerous out there, and I definitely feel for women who feel unsafe out there.
However, I have a question. How can people argue simultaneously that women need protection, it's men's duty to protect women and be allies, etc, but also that women are all independent and don't need no man and can do anything a man can do? I wouldn't want to go out of my way to protect, aka put MY life at risk, for someone who doesn't respect me and my life in the first place. Why can't we just all agree that men and women are different, have different strengths and weaknesses, but are still equal?
Most men are not clueless about the daily life of women lol. That is an assumption of a woman that assumes to much about the men in the world
@@frankcaggiano8282as far as I’m aware, nobody’s claiming it’s “men’s job” to protect women - just that men need to realize how dangerous men are to women, and that, as somebody’s friend, you need to be willing to help them feel safe. Besides, independent people don’t 100% exist. Everybody needs help in one way or another, and if they’re not getting it, they’re probably struggling with something. You can be an independent person and need help from others to be safe, they are not mutually exclusive.
Please correct me if I’m wrong, though. This is just my 2 cents.
@@frankcaggiano8282 needing protection and needing independence are two entirely different situations that too many people cant seem to understand are separate from each other.
no one is saying that men and women dont have differences in strengths and weaknesses and no one (other than those who believe in stereotypical gendered roles) is saying that it is a man's duty to protect women. What they are saying is that men need to realize that the world isnt a safe black and white place and that just because most men can walk somewhere alone without the fear of getting ambushed, that same reality doesnt apply for any woman.
No one is asking you to put your life on the line. They are asking that if you hear someone talking about an experience that was/is bad for them, dont just dismiss it as them being over reactive or overly sensitive. As they said in the video, most people dont put themselves in the place of their friends/family/loved ones because they themselves have never been in that situation, have never felt the fear of thinking you may be assaulted or killed. Besides, most of the time you wouldnt be risking your life anyways, assaulters target lone people for a reason, 2 or more people increase the odds for their plot to go wrong with either one of them running off, attacking back, calling the cops, or drawing attention of more people.
Are you saying that if someone in your life, no matter what gender just someone you have a close connection with like family or friend, ever asked you to help them feel safe in what they feel is a bad situation you would tell them "I dont think you respect me and my life enough so im not going to help you, sorry". If anything that says a lot more about your character than it does about how anyone else perceives the worth of your life.
bringing flowers on a first date is an amazing way to make a very memorable impression. if any boys are reading this; take advice from the first story’s OP. hes doing every single thing above and beyond perfectly. be like OPs friend and you wont go on many second dates in your life.
The first story was so wholesome he sounds like such a sweetheart and a fun guy
I feel so bad for the Smoffice. You know Ian is going to be singing this song for ages
Smoshussy energy
its a banger i would too
Dude😂😂😂😂 definitely not a song to sing for the couples first dance. And the chick should've cleared the choice with the grooms even if it wasn't. But it's a hilarious song nonetheless
@@slayerkifonna6831 What are you talking about? It's a very loving song. I sang it at my grandmother's funeral
@@stevenfriedman2902😂😂😂 I bet she appreciated it!
The reveal of what song this lady sang at her friend's wedding was the least prepared I've been for anything in a long time. Holy shit
It was pretty wild. Also, hearing Shayne read out the chorus was an emotionally jarring experience.
And she sang that in front of maybe parents and grandparents and children??
Yeah that had me hoping this was a fake story because holy crap
@@EPICpersonifiedI honestly don’t think it’s fake just because her dodgy replies would be something someone who did that shi and are embarrassed about it after would say.
I had to look it up and I was in tears. Which hurt because I just had surgery lol.
As someone who lost a father, ANYTHING can be a reminder. Just hearing certain songs can get me teary eyed.
Ian saying that wife in the fourth story wasn't crying loudly or anything reminded me of a story my friend told me when we were in hs. She was about seven, throwing a huge tantrum, and her dad in response threw himself to the ground and threw an even bigger tantrum. He's like the calmest man on earth so she was just standing there like 😮😮😮
Still makes me laugh remembering 😂😂😂
EDIT; they were at a supermarket with this happened, which makes it so much funnier
My mom did this with my brother 😂
He was so confused. Then thought it was hilarious.
This was before his tantrums became silent ones. He'd start to cry then throw himaelf to the ground then just lay there silently 😂
I'm a guy, so let me try to put women's experiences in a way at least gamer guys will understand: If opening a treasure chest in a game causes an explosion a single time, you're checking every future chest for traps and treating them like threats, and it doesn't matter if most of them aren't trapped.
Actually a pretty good analogy honestly
This is a good analogy except most gamers I know would just risk the explosion because they can respawn. So I'd add something like, if you explode and die you can never respawn and play the game again, or you lose all of your gear, ect.
@@kitkaty3it’s an analogy, it doesn’t need to be too specific or dive into semantics. But thank you for trying to help!
@@BoltyLive It doesn't *need* to be, but without it it isn't accurately explaining the harsh reality of women's experiences, which is kind of the point of the analogy ?
@@kitkaty3 No need to be THAT specific.
EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING!! ITS DAD’S TIME TO READ US OUR STORIES!!
I SWEAR I ONLY LIVE FOR THIS 🫣🫣🫣
Yay
Lol, i'm sorry but i'm usually down for this specific comment trend but it's just weird to call Shayne "Dad" in the presence of the literal Smosh's Daddies
@@ariqsyafwan4987Shayne is the stepdad who came in when Anthony left, and now Anthony is back but Shayne is still our dad
@Furrpineforest Eh, I think he's more like a cool uncle
So many of my guy friends have never really got the underlying fear that women have all the time. Honestly that scene in the recent barbie movie has made a lot of my pals recognise it in a way I have never been able to. The fact that there is an underlying vibe of violence to so many ‘compliments’ thrown at women and how men even with them are only feeling admired is so much what women face every day.
So nice to see Shane and the guys actually talking about women’s issues without belittling or even doing the “we understand what you are going through” stuff!
The Barbie movie hit me hard for this reason. That constant underlying fear is something so many do not understand for some damn reason. I'm glad the Barbie movie captivated that feeling
With grief, you don't get to choose what makes you cry it just hits really hard without warning sometimes
You should read nosleep stories for Halloween without telling the guests that's what they are.
yesss
Or halloween er/ police confessions
Sorry but you gotta tell the guests, I would feel violated if someone did that to me, scary stories can really seriously effect people
@@whatcanidooo maybe get geusts they know for sure would be fine with it, like ian
YES
Story time with shayne is the highlight of my week
WORD
Agreed
Same 😄😄
Ditto
Same here hun
Gotta say to the parking garage/idiot friend story, if he was really that concerned about the elevator, why not just ask her to drop him at his car? He was so inconsiderate. But it was so nice to hear everyone discussing how all of us deserve to feel safe, and actually listening to women will teach you about their struggles. Amazing, thank you.
Ian saying “that shits Spooky” is literally a representation of me anytime I’m walking a lot from a building to my car. Especially at night 😅
Can we please get spooky Reddit stories for Halloween
OMG YES
YESSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this would be fun !!
Yes please!!!
YEAH! And with the lights off so it's more spooky :))
just three dads reading their 7.91 million children bedtime stories
The fullest house
If only every subscriber watched these videos
100%
I got jumped by two guys walking home from work once. I got away before anything could happen, but I called my bf at the time and asked him to come over to comfort me. When I told him what happened he literally said "I didn't think that stuff actually happened" 🙃
Ex for a reason.
👁️👄👁️ hwat... Well. Good he's ex.
I hope he was implying "I'll be darned it does happen in real life", rather than "that didn't happen to you". 🤦🏾♀️
“There are people here who don’t like ethnics” makes me laugh every time
That first guy did her so many favors. He set that bar so high at 19 for her to be treated that way and respectful and all that jazz with nothing in return. No expectations of you know the Thing that is beautiful for her. Her friend was so happy for her because that doesn't happen. Wonderful, beautiful story. I love that. His friend is a Dick.
Yeah, the guy was even like "hey, if this doesn't work out at least I got a new friend!"
That’s why his friend went off on him: he raised the bar on dating, and his friend is mad because now *he* has to live up to those expectations in order to stay with his date.
He has an update posted to this. They basically go out on a second date to the arcade and connect on mutual interests, talk for hours and spoiler alert they actually start officially dating. So happy ending either way.
@@TheInTopicthey need to come back to that!!!
@surashreeroychowdhury8728 thats so sweet. A great ending to the story so thank you for sharing 😊
I would like to see a bad ally episode. One thing that I have learned about calling yourself an “ally” is that you should not do so. It’s kinda like calling yourself a “good guy”; actions speak louder than words. The community in those marginalized or discriminated groups will tell you if you’re an ally. Allyship isn’t something to brag about, it’s something you have to put work that doesn’t need any recognition.
Exactly this. If you need to say you're something, you're just not.
Only brittany browski can call herself an ally
Yeah, it's one of those things where it's a much better descriptor if someone else calls you it. Or saying you hope to be an ally.
Ooh this is a good idea
only with context is it okay. like "are you gay btw?" "no, but im an ally :)" ill accept that. cause its better for me to know if theyd support me or not. buuuut yes that could also backfire bc ppl just loove to say "im a nice guy" and arent lol
A single rose is a fun gesture on a first date. A bouquet is more of a romantic gesture
the guy trying to “protect the poc from micro aggressions” while doing a micro aggression is insane
“She’s one sentence away from describing their genitalia” …5 sentences later “I asked him why he had strong opinions on my pubic hair”
😂😂😂
I came here looking for this comment.
Like how did the pubic hair come into play?
@@marcusfazeif he was with another woman (which I personally don’t think he was, maybe?) his preferences could totally change
I was searching for any comments talking about that particular story. I personally thought something was still weird about it. Like maybe she does have trust issues, but the thing with his phone seems super super shady to me combine with everything else. Especially because he just laughed everything off.
Boys are so weird. If a first date brought me a rose or flower of any sort you better believe I'm hyping this man up to all my friends and planning our wedding.
You might be a rare flower yourself. Many girls don't plan that ahead nor like that gesture much.....
L i t t e r a l l y
agreed ! i would be thinking about it for months all happy nd chiz
@@ShinryuZensensays a man while all the women are agreeing
@@alienoutcast7374 The ellipses are causing me physical pain on that one lol
The one where she sang Dixon Dallas, I almost spit out my tea 😂 what in the world makes you think all her family and friends wanted to hear that!?? Omg the obliviousness is insannneee 🤦🏻♀️💀
29:41 ‘stop crying, you’re ruining the vibe of home depot’
Honestly can we just get a bunch of wedding themed stories, they're always wild and insane.
I feel like they did have a wedding episode a while back but Im not 100p
@@Subsistence69I remember that one, it was Kimmy and Jackie
I have been wanting a wedding video for foreverrrrr
I desperately need that
@@Subsistence69 probably one of their twitch episodes.
13:40 I was so confused why OP was dodging the song questions at first, why they specified GAY wedding and why their friend got upset. When I tell you MY JAW DROPPED.
Honestly same, I even listened to the song right after hearing the chorus and lost it. Like why would she choose that?
Literally the equivalent of singing Pony at a wedding. Wtf is wrong with this person
Just the moment of mental dissonance when all the blocks slot into place
The "straight ally" need to make a novelty out of anything related the the LGBTQA community is truly mind blowing. Like for them it's this cool club and inside joke that they get to be a part of. They truly don't understand that gay people don't live out parodies and caricatures of their own lives.
I would literally melt and have the biggest butterflies if a man brought me a rose or any flowers to a date! I’ve ALWAYS wanted to receive flowers on a date, and no man has ever done that. It’s such a simple thing that would be amazing. I would gladly carry that rose around with me, and it wouldn’t be a burden at all. Specific flowers even have meanings, and I have always thought communicating through this “language” would be the most romantic thing a man could do. So essentially: YES. Bring a flower to a date. If not the first date, then definitely the 2nd.
Dang, as someone who lost their mom almost a year ago, the amount of random things that will just snap you into a memory with the person is insane. I was eating mini tacos the other day and I was remember a trip we had taken 10 years ago and no longer wanted to eat them because it just made me sad missing her. This one is weird lol, but as a kid whenever my mom would take a sip of pop she would subconsciously make a dramatic “ahhh” afterwards. Then I would do it in union with her right afterwards. Again, I did it the other day while at a friend’s house, and suddenly those emotions came up as the fun memory flooded my brain. That husband absolutely has no authority to tell her that something should cause her to feel emotional thinking about her father. How disrespectful can he be? You don’t have to empathize with what she is feeling, but at least understand that she’s going to be dealing with that for years. My friend from the story lost her mom when she was 9 and she said that there are still things that will cause her to get emotional from time to time. That’s just going to happen for as long as you remember them, so basically your whole life.
I hope Smosh know that the lyric video for the Dixon Dallas bussy song is full of people going ‘omg I can’t believe she sang this at a wedding’
PFFT
LMAAAAAAAO THAT HAS ME FLOORED
The first OP was probably a very likeable personality and the rose was definitely the perfect cheesy gesture to break up the awkwardness of being pulled along on a double date with a friend who's using you. Jean was excited to see how much personality the OP had and how much fun Sam was having with OP. It also sounds like the "friend" of OP was a wet blanket if Jean was more invested in Sam and OP than the "friend". Not OP's fault. Sounds like "friend" is a bit of a dud for multiple reasons.
Yeah OP seems to be a really nice guy
OP is the only genuine nice guy on reddit lol
there was an update to it (I read it on Reddit a few days ago) where he and Sam went out on a few more dates and are now going steady
@@oddgreyhound aww yay!
12:53
IT'S NO WONDER THEN
On the parking garage story, those girls need better guy friends for real. In my last year of college my dorm building was fifteen minutes across campus and crossing a public street OUT of campus. So I had mentioned a few times at the dining hall with my friends that I didnt like walking alone at night to my dorm after dinner. A guy friend OFFERED to walk with me while we were having a fun conversation already. He found a way to make it less kvvious he wanted to help me and instead was just enjoying talking. I appreciated it so much.
I’m 100% sure that the men at the gay wedding weren’t mad at being “ outshined” but because she was literally singing about gay sex and it probably came off as a huge mockery. Who in there right mind would graphically sing about gay sex. I feel like nobody does that bull crap at heterosexual weddings, why treat homosexual weddings differently. I’m wondering if they felt she was making fun of them or focusing on there homosexuality instead of there love. As a lesbian I’d be pissed if someone sung something like that at my wedding
I will say though it’s probably a troll post, although there are people out there who’d do something stupid like that at a gay wedding.
Right? Like, why can't you sing "At Last" by Etta James or something?
honestly it would be like singing "i touch myself" at a straight wedding
It’s definitely fake
YES absolutely this! In any other wedding context singing something so sexually explicit would be a non-starter, yet she felt very comfortable sexualizing her friends in front of their friends and FAMILY?? Nah, there’s some clear over-sexualization here just because they’re gay
I know a heterosexual couple that had the wedding DJ make a sex joke about them (her name in the song and references to "being inside" her all night). They were pissed.
It'd be worse to have a supposed friend do it though, they really ought to know better. At least the people I know could demand a refund then never have to deal with that DJ again.
The woman in the parking garage story was so real. The number of times I have been told by guys I meet on dating apps that I have "trust issues" because i won't let them pick me up at my house in their car for a FIRST DATE, is absurd.
Yikes, well, at least it's easier to weed them out when they tell on themselves.
Oh yeah, fuck no. I had one date where I literally watched my rear view mirror to make sure he didn't follow me home. That may be "trust issues," but it's also just smart.
As a non-woman I can be a bit oblivious to these things and I was really wondering how I would have acted there. Certainly not like that guy. Online dating is a whole different beast though. I wouldn't trust someone who is oblivious to the inherent risks in setting up a date that way. I live in transit heaven though so the risk usually starts with adresses rather than cars. Personal data is powerful when everywhere is accessible.
I know that bad people target girls, they are smaller and easier to rob and shit. But in my experience men have it worse, had girl friends that have been robed multiple times and obviously isnt nice at all but you only lose some money and your phone or w/E... in the other hand i have male friends that has been robed, punched, kicked or stabbed without provocation, sometimes for nothing.
I know crazy people exist and Girls get targeted more, but i think men get the worse of it.
And yes, walking alone at night its f*ing sacry for men too i dont know why people think it isnt and if you punch a guy with a knife you are already dead.
I've been robbed 3 times in my life 2 at gun point and one with a knife. (after that i bought a car and only leave my house on my car).
as a guy, I think its an issue of socialisation. its basic empathy to go "Im comfortable, or atleast not worried in this situation, but x is" it would be one thing to want to know why, but its another thing to dismiss it entierly and it speaks to a lack of empathy.
It was only about a week after my mom passed, and my dad took me to get a new computer. And I started getting emotional in the middle of Walmart because my pincode was my mom's birthday. Nobody cared. The cashier actually understood because he had lost his mom too. Nobody was embarrassed. Grief can just randomly hit you due the most random shit. Hell, I bought some bras a couple of months after her passing, and then I got sad because I couldn't show my mom the cute bras I picked out like I used to when she was alive. Random day to day stuff brings up memories that I sometimes force myself to push away because I don't want to get emotional right then. Thankfully nobody around me has ever been like OP, and nobody has ever made me feel bad for feeling my own grief. It's been two years, and I still randomly get emotional about the most simple things that other people just wouldn't get. Facing the world without that loved one by your side is one of the toughest things to deal with. Having random things happen that you think to yourself, "oh, I can't wait to show this to ---oh wait..." It's heartbreaking. It's literally like having your heart ripped out of your chest over and over again at random times. No amount of time gets rid of it. It just gets easier to deal with. You become sort of numb to it. It just becomes another thing to deal with in your day to day life. It doesn't go away, though. Ever. OP should be ashamed of himself. Who cares if the guy didn't look like her father, she thought he had some semblance and that's all that matters. And instead of comforting her and being a good husband, he shits on her and makes her feel like shit for having a normal human moment. Fuck that.
I love how you guys jokingly connect elements from previous stories into the next story to thicken the plottwist
We need a subreddit called r/amitheally where straight people go to see if they were being the ally in a situation or not
Oh God... The stories I have about the "allies" in my life. That would be so infuriating and hilarious.
YES
I bet that’s gonna be hilarious an awful at the same time 😂😂😂
As someone who works as a lifeguard, I’m absolutely disgusted with how some men treat women. The fact that we have to leave our facilities in groups and that it’s a safety procedure is crazy, when we are simply doing our job. I’ve had coworkers being harassed and followed home from the job. It’s honestly just really sad.
i’m working at a haunted house and the amount of boys (yes sadly some are children) and men talk to/treat the female scare actors is disgusting. just last night a guy tried to grab an actress’s breast. i usually just get weird comments luckily.
jobs literally make walking in groups a safety procedure BECAUSE women get attacked so often. theyre in place for a reason, not womens "paranoia"
Sometimes I’m just disgusted with (cis str8) men in general, I don’t get how so many of them can be so awful.. Makes it hard to trust them..
Are you my coworker👀
@@macytyler4277 idk depends on if you know a Sophia Bavaro at your work or not
14:53 the song is actually so cute other than the chorus💀💀💀
The Home Depot one gets me so hard. When my husband and I lived with my MIL my mom passed away. My mom was my best friend. We talked at least once a day and usually more often then that. After only a month my MIL had the nerve to tell me I needed to get back to normal and stop crying. My husband stood up for me. 5 months later she passed away. I have to say I was not sad or grieving when she passed. Woman was an absolute nightmare to be around and she was very abusive to my husband growing up.
My jaw DROPPED when Shane read the song lyrics. Holy shit
worst part is it's made by a straight guy. as a pan person it rly pisses me off when these "gay edits" or gay songs written by straight ppl get so big.
@@asparagusnoodle songs don't have sexuality, labeling them as such is projective
@@afreakinrpggamerI think the problem is that it's a straight guy intentionally making fun of gay people
@@HumbleDial it's an undefined person making a silly song
@@asparagusnoodlethe point of the song is making fun of country music, not gay people
The weird conversation about how strange it was to bring a rose on a first date...guys...bring the rose. It shows you were thinking about her and put in a little effort. It's a thoughtful gesture. Just do it.
Agree, its not that deep. Its just a nice lil gesture
I was looking for this comment. What a weird thing to over-analyze. I buy flowers for myself & others just because they're colorful.
If it fails cringe... but if it succeeds then thats based
And if you're worried about it being too romantic just bring a different pretty flower and not a rose
Nah, on a first date? Bit much. It’s nice, sure, but it’s a first date. I think it’s way better if you do it on the second date.
I love these episodes, sometimes I'll wait a few weeks and then just take a day off and binge-watch them and all the ridiculousness people bring to the table. It's so therapeutic to escape for the day in tears of laughter and jaw drops
There was an update for the first story. OP and Sam's second date went really well and it turned out they had more in common then they first thought. They are officially dating now. I can't remember if OP is still friends with Joel though. I hope not. He doesn't seem like the best person to be around.
People need to quit with the "It's just a game" thing to justify destroying something. It's someones hobby or way of relaxing and it's something that has had time invested in it.
If I walked around scrunching up peoples artwork going "its just a picture, draw another one" I'd be starting a fight.
Totally agree. It may be a game but the experiences, time, effort, brain power, and skill required is absolutely real. Especially in online games because the things you go through and experiences had with the other player and connections made are absolutely real.
I do think part of the reason he ended up saying that was he was feeling cornered by the comments. I know if I already feel guilty and then people pile on I have a tendency to stupidly defend myself yes he went to Reddit to ask which was dumb but I get that feeling.
On the most basic level saying “it’s just a ___” about anything, especially when destroying something is disrespectful of that person’s time, energy, enjoyment, and effort that they ALREADY put into that thing and they literally can’t get that back. You get nothing from it except for some weird cheap superiority.
YES! Hard agree. Plus, it may not be everyone's intention when saying this, but it also just feels kinda condescending ya know what I mean? Like "OH ITS JUST A GAME WHY ARE U SO MAD???" It's still something someone put a massive amount of time, energy, and effort into
People LOVE to clown on Ninja's freakout about this subject, but he's generally right. The whole "It's just a game" is just a way to dismiss other people's emotional investment in the things they enjoy which is fucking garbage.
you guys have no idea how much this series sustains me, feeds my crops, clears my skin. also shayne's lil mustache lmao
T H I S
Realest thing ive read today
He shaved it bc it was uncomfy 🥲
The little stache 😅
bro i came back to this video and saw this comment and thought 'damn whoever wrote that is so real'... then i realized it was myself
Brendon Urie's new band; Crying! at Home Depot
In regards to the wife who cried in Home Depot, it's not about the exact appearance of a deceased parent or loved one.
I lived next door to a man who bore a striking resemblance to my dad, not in looks but in other ways. They both grew up in the same parts of the city, shared the same pop culture references of their youth, enjoyed the same music and clothing styles, and even had similar mannerisms and speech patterns, and the exact same accent. It felt surreal, and I would often cry after seeing/speaking to my neighbor following my dad's death.
as a woman, it breaks my heart to hear about the woman in the story who seemingly has no men in her life that are able to show her empathy. they have no clue what it’s like to speed walk to their car while looking over their shoulder. what it’s like to be hyper aware of a man’s proximity to you while in an elevator. what it’s like to walk down a hallway and feel like you’re being followed. to be leered at while trying to walk somewhere. just because you haven’t experienced something doesn’t mean it’s not true. my only wish for op is for her to find new friends who can empathize with her and do the very bare minimum of walking her to her car if she feels unsafe. it’s what any decent person should do.
I'm a chubby man and I get scared of random people in the dark or enclosed spaces myself. It's absolutely wild that there are people out there without the mental capability to empathize with people who have fears
@@kriegvenator4799 exactly.
I had a date with a guy who got me a bouquet and it was unironically the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for me.
well was it a first date? (cute tho!)
I had the same thing done for me on a first date - a full bouquet of red roses. I had never met the guy before, since we met on a dating app, and I had to carry the bouquet for the entire date. Apart from that, it felt awkward when I had to tell him that I felt no chemistry. The bouquet almost felt like a burden of expectations put on me.
@@Zircaa The very first date. A bouquet of roses, then we got sushi and drove around the city visiting different places.
I love watching their faces during the stories. Please have Anthony on here add much add he's willing. Ooh, Anthony and Angela would be a fun duo
I like the rose with the first story and him dressing nice was a wonderful idea because it’s supposed to be the 19 year old girls introduction to the dating scene and he was showing her how she should expect to be treated, which is how everyone should be treated on a date. Not all Joels are created equal, my husband is a Joel and he is absolutely amazing and has been for 12 years of marriage. ❤
There is now an update for the first post! OP is now dating Sam. Joel apologized and has seemed to be making changes, but him and Jean ended up not working out.
Gee I wonder why
Thank you! That makes me happy. The friend clearly was used to banking on looks instead of effort, and he was furious OP highlighted his lack of effort.
Shayne saying “my wife” in a *certain* tone is just so great
It's Borat lol
@@edie3900 do you know who the try guys are as well?
When Ian and Anthony picked up on it, and giggled. 😂
@@HayleySmithPhotography totally! but it's a borat impression aha. If he hadn't added an accent I would have agreed with you.
MY JAW DROPPED WHEN HE SAID “GOOD LOOKIN” BC I KNOW THAT SONG OMG
As a cis woman, a single flower on a blind date would be a sweet surprise that I would love. On a personal note I have a rose tattoo and also dry and save flowers from significant moments so the first guy would have killed it with me too.
Shayne, Ian & Anthony give dad's laughing in the garage during family events energy.
Best explanation
Hey, I'm one of those. 😅
@dragonrider9051 my husband is too! Smosh kids turning into smosh adults😂
The "my guy friend doesn't understand women's safety" one really hits home for me. I'm a woman and I know quite a few other women who have delt with bad situations regarding men, and one of my close friends got SA by her dad when she was younger. I don't have any personal experiences of my own, but I know its definitely NOT A GOOD THING.
Also, I believe that the number aren't accurately recorded. Shayne's friend 9 out of 10 women, I believe that that is more accurate. So, much is never reported. I have survived three instances, and I never reported because I felt at fault every time. They need to be teaching boys about this when they are young, especially teaching them to stand up to other men when they are doing something wrong.
I was walking to my car after a work shift and a guy walked towards me, exposed himself then followed me to my car. He hid around a corner when I got to my car. That was scary enough and nothing actually physically happened to me
I swear every woman or AFAB person has had at least one awful experience with a man (usually straight and cis men specifically)
It's tough to break through for some guys unless you really put it in their face. It finally clicked for me when I was driving through my neighborhood after college. I saw a high school friend going for a walk and I whipped around the corner and hopped out of my car to wave hello and catch up.
What I was unaware of was the person a few months back who hopped out of his car and started pleasuring himself in front of her. I had no idea that anyone would do that and I was putting my friend in a situation where she had to be prepared for ANYONE to pop out of the car. Learning that helped me understand that every day, any situation can change in an instant you have to be prepared for it. I thought it is crazy to have to go through life like that, but thats how it is!
Myself and another friend have this little thing going where we ask our guy friends to hold our drinks. They always tend to say something akin to, “yeah, right, sure,” or, “I’ll try.” And then we lay it out for them that no, you are going to hold it and not let it out of sight because someone could spike it. The way their face drops and they cover the drink properly is so satisfying. It’s that moment when they get it.
Ian’s reaction!! 😂😂😂 13:00
We absolutely need a bad ally episode
As a woman, I’d say when a date brings a single rose to any date but especially the first one - it’s a really sweet gesture. It doesn’t necessarily need to be romantic gesture but shows that the other person was thinking about me and maybe wanted to make me smile, break the ice and maybe give us something to talk about straight out the gate.
I agree with everyone except.. how is a red rose not romantic? Sorry but a red rose symbolizes romantic love. You can't just automatically change the meaning of flowers lol. The meanings do change over time but you can't just say what you want something to mean, and then tbe meaning automatically changes. That's not how language works
@@leafyveins4985 i think its just that not everyon knows what the color of rose means. I dont know much about them either. All i know is the black rose meaning death or something like that. But thats just what my mom has told me so it could be wrong
Also different roses signify different meanings, so I second this.
I mean bringing a rose is just a good sign showing that hey the person is putting some effort and good first impressions.
Most people dont bring anything on first date.
exactly
Nah, flowers on a first date are cute as all get out, as long as the recipient isn't allergic to flowers/pollen.
On my first date with my now husband he brought a bouquet of dandelions because he "thought it was funny". I instantly fell for him because it was, in fact, funny af.
I also ended up breaking my ankle on that date, but that's unrelated (and still pretty funny imo).
I love Shayne's laugh and love when you hear the off camera crew laughing in the background.
With the first story it sounded like Joel intentionally asked OP because he knew that OP was less desirable. Based on that interaction alone, I'd be skeptical about being friends with Joel. He's a complete tool that keeps less desirable friends around to help his dating scene, so there's no way to know how bad his true colors get in the end.