Try Not To Cringe w/ Zach Kornfeld | Reading Reddit Stories
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Zach from @tryguys is here to TRY not to cringe from these Reddit stories.
0:00-1:37 Intro
1:38-10:57 My friend is a gold digger / aita_for_telling_my_fr...
10:58-19:43 I asked my gf to change body wash / aita_for_asking_my_gir...
19:44-27:33 My gf's 90s nostalgia is cringey / aita_for_telling_my_gi...
27:34-36:10 I live in a murder house / aita_for_buying_a_murd...
36:11-37:11 Sponsors!
37:12-45:06 My friends call me "Daddy" / aita_for_letting_my_fr...
45:07-52:56 My colleague called her daughter Luigi? / aita_for_telling_my_co...
52:57-1:00:52 I was stabbed and now I can't get divorced / i_34_f_was_stabbed_and...
1:00:53-1:08:02 My husband said "hold up, men are talking" / husband_said_hold_up_m...
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The idea of calling an asexual female friend daddy is hilarious. People who have a problem with that when they’re new to the group and only there because they’re a romantic partner have no right to judge or control that.
Yeah, especially when they make it clear it's a joke and not a kink at all. She's going through a jealous streak and refuses to back down from it because she is mad that she's not included in the joke.
I was dead, I couldn’t stop laughing 😂 I hope that boyfriend sees the light and takes out the trash.
Maybe the gf is the one with a daddy fetish and hated someone else use it with her man lol then I might understand but even so what they do in private she shouldn't but in, and it's not only her bf it's the whole group. I think she mostly felt.left out and uncomfortable. She should've communicated better.
Def an insecurity thing on the gf’s part. Sounds like she’s feeling weird about being out of the inside joke, because if she was there it probs would have been funny to her. So she’s trying to justify being uncomfy by projecting
period
Imagine calling someone a gold digger while depending on them for your dinner.
Go on your friendship-ending rant *after* they pay for your meal. If you’re going to be toxic, be smart about it
Try Guys?? No thanks, I’m a Christian 😇
@@Alexxxxxxxxxx3577LOL i almost thought you were being serious but then i remembered 😭😂
Also she said she signed a prenup.
@THEDubbleHelixx
well.... if you get invited by a friend to a dinner, and then can't be honest or else you risk said friend to get pissed an leave you to an enormous bill...
The dude with the stepdaughter clearly has a respectful and affectionate relationship with his gfs daughter. Hes respected the boundaries of their relationship and developed one where they are both comfortable. He even had a room set up for her at his house, like not a guest room, and actual room for her.
Step-parents dont have to have nor should they automatically assume entitlement to a parental relationship. Sometimes its best for them to have just a respectful, loving adult figure relationship.
As a step kid i freaking wish that sort if consideration had been made for me.
As a fellow step kid, same.
Yeah he sounds great, I didn’t love the rants about him
Zach is normally an upstanding guy. But that was out of line from him.
Zach during this whole section had me going "Dude you're a dick."
@@vincentjonesvri feel like he heard the line about "im more like a fun uncle" and got too into his head thinking the guy was one of those people that gets into a serious relationship with a single mom and doesnt expect to have any actual responsibility (like the 'i need breakfast and Hole' guy from a dif smosh reddit video), and didnt process the parts talking about how the mom and daughter were involved in deciding his behavior.
and although it is wrong in some cases, "you should be an actual parent to your stepchild" certainly isnt the worst hill to die on as far as bad takes we've seen the guests/cast in smosh reddit videos have relating to the reddit stories
I think the “daddy” story is a classic “girlfriend feels threatened by her boyfriend’s female friend” situation.
except it isnt lmao. she was right. asexuality does not give people a pass
@@wkxeov6128Nope. She wasn't right.
@@wkxeov6128 a "pass"???? a pass for what??? she didn't do anything wrong
The girlfriend may have experienced sa from someone that would use that word with her. 😔
@@robine9973 she would've approached it differently, stop trying to paint her in a better picture
One thing about the "gold digger" story that didn't come up: Jill apparently grew up poor and her family relied on food banks -- so OF COURSE she likes to take her friends out for nice meals now that she has disposable wealth! I cannot imagine how satisfying and comforting it must be for her to be able to do that for people she loves, and OP just threw it back in her face. I wouldn't buy her entrees anymore either!
This is so accurate.
It’s probably also why she chose to set the standard for herself to be with a man who would allow her to live comfortably and, hopefully imho, luxuriously. The generous, hot, flexible woman had standards and her “friend” is a hater…
As a person whose best guy friend growing up was super poor and his mom had a ton mental illness so she was always job hopping keeping them continuously poor, I often had him come over to my house for sleepovers and my parents would treat us to take out or wed go to the movies or go on vacations or whatever. My parents treated him like he was part of the family and had no issue paying for another kid when spending time with him made us both incredibly happy. He eventually went to college for basically free and got a great job at verizon and I'll never forget him buying me something for my birthday one year and it was a really nice egyptian scarab beetle wood carving with hieroglyphics carved on the bottom. When we were in high school and middle school he'd make me homemade gifts which were beautiful and I i remember one of our mutual friends letting slip he'd asked the art teacher for a bit of clay to make me a necklace or thread to make me a bracelet and the amount of though my friend put into things that meant so much more than had he bought me something at a store. Anyway, he was SO proud after all the years of being friends to take the bill from the table when we went out to lunch with a smirk and say "i got this". He then met a guy from a decently well off family while in college and he changed a lot personality wise after that so we drifted apart as friends (and his bf then husband didn't like how close we were) and they moved far away, but bottom line, you should be happy when your friends are happy and successful, not bitter and envious.
That's so real. Everyone I know who grew up poor like me constantly talked about wanting money to be able to take care of people they loved. When you know what it feels like to be hungry, you don't want that for other people. It's so genuinely soothing for the soul to be able to tell someone you've got them.
Agreed! Also, she said "financially stable" not "rich". Being financially stable means a person makes smart decisions with money & doesn't need to rely on social services like she grew up doing. Nothing wrong with that!
Bringing Zach in for an allergy story was such a great idea. Dude is allergic to everything.
like treadmills
And he'll make sure weveryone knows it. Seriously dude wears the victim card on his sleeve
@@zachh8179as he should? lol
@@zachh8179 LMFAO this take is so bizarre, grow up
@@zachh8179 bruh. He's being open about it because he's received gratefulness from others who can relate
all commentary aside, "is it wrong for him to call you sweetheart when you're so salty" is SUCH an innocent yet devastating comeback, i just know OP had that pre-heating in their brain for a while and decided to let it cook at the perfect time.
!!! I was shook!
The allergy one is so weird to me. My gf has a lavender allergy, and when I moved in, the first night I went to put on my sleep cream, only to realise it had lavender. Immediately washed my face and hands, and chucked out the cream immediately. Never even occurred to me to keep using it.
Ya, that was just weird! I couldn't imagine just telling my boyfriend to deal with an allergy that I could easily control
Right? Like I'm allergic to almonds and my husband loves almonds so he only eats almonds when he's not with me and brushes his teeth directly after, because it's not difficult to care about your partner 😂
No fr my ex was allergic to aloe and we were together for 3 years... I always made a point to never use aloe around him or have any in my shower in case he used it. Like bare-minimum
I cent believe you let you gf control you and change your lavender face wash, geez
Yeah but you're not a shitty partner that cares more about some product than their SO's health
Zach’s "evolution should’ve weeded me out" monologue and Spencer’s "why are you dating a little dude?" had me rolling 😂 Super compatible couch combination.
I’m 19 and my gf is 23 so I’m def taking the “why are you dating a little dude?” Clip and sending it to her
If you think that Is funny go to the last story of “office nightmares” it’s funny but also gross
I also loved their matching simp energy of "I'm just happy to be here" "I'm honored to be nominated"
the worst part is that the parents had a genuine reason to ask the daughter to move out but no one decided to dissect that?
so good
Zach’s rant about the allergies killed me. I got super sick from sharing a space with someone who kept using something I was allergic too. It’s not a joke.
Honestly same, I have a significant food intolerance and my ex, who lived with his parents, insisted on not making a fuss to his family and just eating the food anyway. I was also 19 to their 24 when we started dating and that absolutely can cause a power imbalance which I got vibes of from the story
@@xmidseptemberqueenxwtf, telling someone about the foods that makes you sick is not making a fuss, it's preventing discomfort and a possible emergency. So sorry that happened to you
Yeah it nearly killed me too I’m allergic to passion
@@heddasamgrebner1702 thanks, it's amazing what just not being as bad as previous abusers let's people get away with tbh. Which is why talking about stuff like this not being okay and disability rights and other social issues in general is so important
I constantly have to remind people I'm allergic to any flowery scent(also cologne whatever makes it smell the way it does), so no lotions or perfumes or anything of the sort can be used right next to me. The amount of times I've left a room or something so I don't have an allergic reaction because people always forget I'm around....
“I’m a wounded little baby bird f***ing protect me… oh my god go to hell!” 😂😂😂 Zach is my favorite
“Evolution should have weeded me out” 😂
I think pretty much every step-parent/step-child relationship should stay in "uncle" or "aunt" territory for as long both parties feel comfortable with before going into an actual direct parental relationship. Every story about a step-parent that tries to assert a full-on parental role is always a dumpster fire of a situation. Zach is 100% wrong here.
Yeah his reaction was strange to me, he must have an issue like this from his past haha. He gave her a special room and she cried, he's not like saying she's a random, he's trying to be respectful by not imposing but still showing he cares very much.
not only was he wrong, he straight up derailed the story and conversation with something that wasn't really even related.
Yeah Zach has zero idea what modern families are like. Considering a teenager that you’ve known for a couple years as a daughter is not expected and would honestly be weird if I’m being honest. And as the child she has agency with how she wants the relationship to move forward. Maybe she doesn’t want a father-daughter relationship. Zach thinks he’s super woke but he’s blind to the realities of life a lot of the time.
I honestly completely disagree here. Uncles and Aunts have 0 say on how a child should be raised and they don’t owe her as much. There isn’t a social pressure for an uncle to help a kid through college, or pick up the kid from school, or offer advice or love. When you add a mother to your family, you add her children, too. People mistake punishment and discipline for parenting much too often. Sometimes parenting is offering guidance or picking your step daughter up from a sleepover gone wrong.
@@coolbri2001some people would rather not rush a parental relationship just because they’re dating a parent because the dating relationship may not work out, and that makes the split more damaging for everyone. Now that child has lost another parent, even if that adult makes a point to stay in that child’s life after the break up.
I have 4 living father figures “in” my life, and that gave me a lot of issues that I had to work through.
The step dad is literally doing nothing wrong for not forcing a father relationship on someone who probably still remembers her bio dad
Yeah that was honestly an L take from Zach
@chumbc1374 yeah he sounded pretty entitled when he talked. His voice kinda annoyed me
Yeah absolutely. I love my stepdad, he’s family, but he is NOT my father. He wants to be a father figure and my mother has even insinuated that i should see him that way because it makes him sad that i dont. Now, my stepmom does feel like a motherly figure to me, and i dont know why it's different but it is. when she told me that, i wanted to run as i felt so uncomfortable. I was around the same age as the girl when i met both my stepdad and stepmom. My parents are ok, i just cant see him that way.
He should care about her like a stepfather would. Saying he is more like an uncle is like saying he wants to sleep with the mom but doesn’t care enough to put any effort into caring about her daughter. He should be asking another parent in his life for advice, not Reddit. He seems pretty immature. I agree with Zach
@@pasc8699 Well no, uncles still care about their niblings. Stepparents don’t need to be second moms and dads, they just need to be a trusted authority figure in the home bc at the end of the day they are the adults. If a parent/child-like relationship forms organically then great but it’s not necessary to be a good stepparent.
I also found it funny on the 'gold digger' story, the friends LITERALLY asked what she was doing for her birthday. It's not like she said it out of no where, they asked, she answered.
Seriously! Like I can understand her being upset (not an outburst) if the friend randomly started bragging about getting to go to Greece and how they are missing out. But she was just answering the question!
Honestly i don't get it why she upset. If my friend landed on rich guy and life comfortable I'll be happy for them. Especially when they also love to spoiled us their friends. I'm like "you go girl, get those coins, werk mama!"
@@rexglucksburgand while said rich friend is taking me out to lunch?? Like no, please tell me about all your upcoming trips while we order another round of apps and drinks, And please, please send me all the luxury vacay photos you want to, girl. The audacity to be upset at her "flaunting" while she's literally taking you out on her dime...
@@hansen-interpol-tips right. And i bet she's that type of friend who bring u stuff from holiday. Like tell me all your wonderful time in greece while I'm enjoying this expensive cheese you got from Greece
Yeah, she comes across as very jealous and the A-hole.
You know what? Respect to Spencer for stating his opinion in objective straightforward manner and saying it with his whole chest and sticking to it
Much as I dosagree with him, that entire conversation was a _gem._
Hes so real and so right
Hes not wrong though.
The look Zach and Shayne gave each other when Spencer said Goldeneye was awful really made me laugh
I change my body wash on a whim, I can’t imagine vehemently refusing to do so for someone else. That girl seems, ironically enough, super controlling. “I won’t make any accommodations for you” is an insane take
Fr, also I'm really happy that Spencer called out the ages. Not inherently bad, but a little funny and maybe didn't help the situation.
She clearly was checked out as shayne said. If you're falling out of interest with someone, you look for an out. Im guessing the bodywash was her "out", especially if she was talking to her friends about him.
@@demetriam2408for real. Also who is in their midtwenties dating 21 year old? Two completely different mindsets and literally brain chemistries.
@@demetriam2408 My favorite part is that it sounds like he had his life together more than she did since he had his own place and she still lived with her parents. Not that there's anything wrong with living with your parents in your 20's, I know it's rough out there, but it does make the age gap funnier to me.
Not just that, but anyone in a relationship who goes to their "yes man" friends to back them up when they have the slightest disagreement is someone you just shouldn't be in a relationship with, ESPECIALLY when they're clearly siding with their friend regardless of the situation like in this story. A relationship is between two people, not two people and one side's biased grand jury of toxic pals
“Evolution should’ve weeded me out”
I’m dying, Zach’s speech from 13:10 to 14:11 is ICONIC
Also as someone with chronic illness and really bad allergies, I relate to this on a spiritual level
This will live with me forever
Loved this speech I relate I too should have been weeded out long ago lololol
Im gonna listen to it a lot
me with hayfever 😭
"evolution should have weeded me out" as someone with too many illnesses to remember all at once, I FELT THAT
I'm glad I waited to find this rather than post it myself.
As someone who had a baby roughly a year ago, I think the woman who responded so strongly to hearing the Gigi wasn't a girl name in Italy probably had some whacky hormone stuff going on. Her baby was a newborn and the things that could set me off when my baby was a newborn was wild.
I’m going to miss Spencer. He was so funny. It so sad they had to forcibly remove him from the property.
What do you mean? He's leaving smosh?
@@Joy-uf9pgI think it’s a joke because of what he said about the N64
Gonna be miss. Was a good dude. I wish him the best 😢😂
@Joy-uf9pg Spencer had an opinion, a wrong one but an opinion after all.
Shame. Right shame... But he shouldn't have been wrong.
Dude if my girlfriend said my body wash was causing her to breakout in hives I would change it so fast. What a weird reaction to something that’s so easy to change. Even if you were checked out of the relationship… you’re still causing someone else to break out in hives
She probably wanted to break up and wasn’t able to rationalize it, so the body wash was the only option. That or she is a huge pushover and her friends were pushing her to break up with him.
@@ondrejbronec837from the post they mentioned, it's their friends that's pushing the girlfriend to not change it for the reason of "oh yeah he's controlling"
Like literally!! I would do this for a flatmate so fast no questions asked and his GIRLFRIEND can't do this for him?! 💀
Zach is so wrong for his step daughter take. No. She does not have to be his daughter, she isn't his daughter. It's up to them to determine the relationship, especially if she lost her bio dad she has happy memories she doesn't want to replace that.
Yeah, I agree with you and I think that if you think about the story itself it shows that he does care about her and wants to treat her well. He made a special room for her and he's trying to get feedback on what to do in this situation since he knows his partner is already overwhelmed.
I said this on a different comment, but I think Zach read the OP as the kind of person who marries into a family without taking seriously that if they're marrying someone with a kid then they're going to be responsible for the wellbeing of a kid as well as setting a good example for them. e.g. Someone who would be like, "Why are you expecting me to take care of her, or do the bare minimum to help with her, or stop undermining your authority, or reassess any of my attitudes or behaviors that aren't appropriate for a kid to be exposed to? I'm not her dad." I don't think that was the case in this situation and Zach definitely jumped to that conclusion prematurely here, but I think that is a valid concern in general, and it did sound like he pulled back a bit when Shayne pointed out that not stepping into a father role per se may be a conversation he and his partner have had.
I think his reaction was mainly from the "I'm more of a fun uncle" which IMO implies a lack of responsibility. I agree he's not her dad but he is her step-dad which is it's own thing, not uncle nor dad which can be a hard middle ground to find
Zach did said OP had to see him like his *step*-daughter, not daughter.
I also don't see how someone coming in to be your step-dad is a threat to your memories of your biological dad. No one wants to erase that
@@christopherscotts5797yeah surprised this comment and others like it have so many likes. There’s a massive difference between an Uncle and a Step-parent.
I dated someone with a severe allergy to mint. One of my favorite things. It was sucky to have to let go of something I liked but I also didn’t want him to die. So it was a no brainer. We found compromises- I could get mint ice cream on special occasions and stuff like that. That was enough. I have allergies myself and have to be careful. It’s about respect. You find a work around.
did he breath smell bad?? i cant imagine what kind of child toothpaste he had to use lmao
I'm also allergic to mint! Not severe, but I do get heaches, nausea, vomiting, etc. I'm also asthmatic so my husband, a weed smoker, ONLY smokes in the garage and changes his shirt immediately. He knows it's just to help me, and that's what a relationship is. Just as I changed my laundry detergent and whatnot for him. It's simple.
@@whereamihelpme Children's toothpaste might've been hard to work around, but there are definite options that are fairly odorless. Charcoal based and stuff like Paradontax, as long as your mouth is nice and healthy(which it should be as long as you're brushing and flossing.) I have found that nothing seems to wash out coffee smell in my experience.
I dont think Zach understood what the step father meant by "more like an uncle". He means he cares for her, and wants to be a trust worthy guardian. He doesn't want to replace the image of the step daughter's dad. Especially a teenager wouldn't want that to happen to them.
I was quite young when my mother started a long term relationship and even at 8 or so I was determined that this guy was NOT my dad and would never call him anything other than his first name.
To be fair, my situation is probably pretty different because my parents were divorced rather than widowed and my mom’s bf was a creep, but I think it’s common for kids to not want their parents new partners to try to parent them.
thank you man, I got really annoyed by his words about OP having to "step up" or something. This girl ist 16 and probably does NOT want a "new dad"
Beeing supportive and a friend with a little authority is the best he could have done, unless otherwise stated by her mother or herself!
As a child of divorce, I liked my stepdad, often more than my biological mom, but he was NOT my dad. But he was a great guy and was good to me. We liked the same stuff and had the same sense of humor.
@@JonnnytheDMhe made up a whole room for her. He definitely did step up. I didn’t like his take on that either.
Nothing could have prepared me for the "daddys being very mature, kitten"
It was almost as scary as modern video game graphics
LMFAOOOOO
Underrated comment 😭
Italian story it turns out the OP wasn't even an Italian and was lying. Reddit did a a dive into her account history and found her all account. She claimed to be German, Australian. Spanish, Egyptian and much more.
Which tracks as far as reddit is concerned. That said, she also isn't technically wrong in this case. Though I'm only speaking more from what I know of the close friend I have who is Italian and his family. Gigi is a nickname I have heard more often for "Gina" which is a girls name. So I thought it strange when OP mentioned it was a boys nickname. But, I also heard Gina is a modern take on Luigina. And that Gigi as a nickname can be unisex. Take what I have to say with a grain of salt though. xD
@@chickensandwich8808 everything you just said is wrong about the name Gigi.
Yeah, also we here in Italy have a couple of names that are unisex, like Andrea
Most people called like that are males, but still there are some females called Andrea
I don't remember what's the other name that's unisex lol
Also I've met many girls that go by Gigi, and it's not from Luigiana wtf is that name
Can we all just agree how amazing it is, especially in today's world of Andrew Tate wannabes, to see a group of young men being so understanding, open and just wholesome! I love how funny and yet so understanding Shayne is, this guy isn't even my type, and yet I find him so attractive because of his personality... just goes to show that women aren't impressed by this whole Alpha male bullshit and being kind and having a brain gets you places 😅
We need more attraction in this world to personalities rather than appearances. As a gay man, this comments resonates a lot. ❤
Tbf the only that actually watches those videos and takes them at face value is like actual children
Highly agree and I, being old enough to be these young men's mother, would love to know their parents because they must be really amazing people to have raised such fine people!
@@whereamihelpme that's unfortunate sorry to hear that hopefully if you take it to court you win
After seeing Zach here, it just makes me think of how the other Try Guys would react to some of these Reddit stories. Imagine how much shade would be thrown if Eugene and Damien were on an episode together.
WAIT that would be such a dope combo, I know Eugene's busy with his other projects but I want this so badly now 😭
Chanse would never forgive production for not pairing him with Eugene lol
OMG. OMG. I need this now.
What if all 3 were in an episode together?
Ok here me out, a combo that would throw all the shade, Damien, Chanse, Tommy, and Eugene? It would be epic
"don't move in with your partner when you're 21, you're too young" is such a refreshing statement compared to that time Rachel and Ify dragged that 23-year-old girl for still living with her family at 23 and then Rachel saying she didn't want to let other people define her timeline
I was soooooo annoyed during that episode when they said that. Even just remembering it rn pisses me off
Its ALWAYS ALWAYS the people who say life is your own journey that are the 1st to drag people when they dont meet the standard timeline that society dictates.
Which episode was that?
@@TheInTopicWorst Families episode
I'm almost 27 and still live with my parents. I have major physical health issues as well as depression and anxiety. I don't know that there will ever be a time I live alone, just with a partner or roommate because it wouldn't be safe for me. I'm gray-asexual so it's harder for me to be attracted to people and my health issues keep me from even leaving the bed somedays so that is part of why I'm still with my parents.
"Evolution should've weeded me out" that made me both sad and laugh hysterically
another aspect about the murder house story is that, kim's literal dad died when she was a kid. she already has a negative exposure to death as a toddler, which probs means she has a hard time dealing with or talking about death. like maybe I wouldn't have demanded him sell his house but because of what she's already been through, thats probably another added layer. we also dont know how her dad died so if he was murdered then you know thats definitelyyyy another reason
So, I was adopted at 15. When I was first taken in I REALLY didn't want the people who adopted me to immediately treat me like their daughter. It took time before I was willing to accept them as my parents and I'm really thankful they let me lead that instead of pushing that on me.
Also Spencer is correct about the N64
Exactly! The step dad just being a sort of uncle figure to me made sense and I never had an instance where I had to get used to having a new paternal figure. I can imagine that I wouldn’t want it in a way where immediately the person start acting like a parent. Parent-child type relationships is not something that just develops, it takes time, effort and love. So having a more causal relationship before that is so important. Hope everything is going well for u!
@@MaybeAnnatarEh, the N64 definitely aged a lot, but I’m not familiar enough with other consoles of the time to know if it’s a lot worse compared to the others. The controller is pretty weird, but it never stopped my friends and me. Some of my friends owned a ps2, ps3, xbox 360, yet my N64 remained popular. I can imagine PS1 is easier to get into now, as the controller hasn’t really changed over time. The best games on the N64 are still pretty great, albeit graphically old. The controller is holding the N64 back, especially because most original controllers have nearly useless joysticks now, but I recently got a Brawler64 controller and it’s a lot more intuitive. No more weird third leg to worry about.
I was thinking about that too! I have older half siblings and their dad passed when they were old enough to remember him as their father, so my dad was always an additional parent for them but not “dad.” They’ve always called him by his first name and even after our mom died, he’s still in their lives because of the additional parent thing. He’s still grandpa to their kids. I honestly think it’s super normal
If I ever have kids, they’ll absolutely be adopted, aiming between the ages of 5-16 (when chances of adoption absolutely plummet). I wouldn’t ever expect my potential kid(s)/adoptee(s) to view me as a parent, whether it’s 3 years down the line or 20 years down the line. Of course it would be great if I became a parental figure to them, but at the end of the day I would be just fine with being seen as a safe place to land when life gets tough - a resource for them to utilize if they need it.
Shayne every episode, “you read reddit?” Everyone else, “nope, I stay away”.
After seeing some especially wild Reddit comments and getting curious enough to look at the posters' profiles, I now understand why Reddit users have a bad reputation. Lots of very strong opinions on the opposite sex from people with a post history like "I'm 30 and I've never been in a relationship, how do I get a date."
yeah i read it on reddit
@@cowgbaYea, luckily I'm not on that side of reddit. I'm there for game subreddits, engineering , gay things, and vocab words 😋.
@@cowgbaYea, luckily I'm not on that side of reddit. I'm there for game subreddits, engineering , gay things, and vocab words 😋.
Zach was the best Smosh guest I've seen.
"Where can people find you?"
"Google."
Iconic.
The jokes about “translating” Italian were hilarious but also reminded me of when I was a teenager and there was a fire at my grandparents’ house while I was visiting. I called 911 and when the fire department showed up, I was trying to “translate” what the fireman was asking to my Italian grandmother. But I at the time I didn’t speak much Italian, so I just repeated everything the fireman was asking, in English but slightly slower. I still think about that and laugh 😂 To be fair, I was also kinda stressed out at the time given the active fire that was occurring and wasn’t thinking lol.
So for the first story, OP was upset that her friend was flaunting wealth but yet had no issue when she thought the friend was going to pay for her meal? And then got mad when that didn’t happen?
You’re mad at your friend for having money and call her a gold digger but have no issue reaping the benefits of it? Weird.
That’s true maybe she did previously flaunt her wealth but in that case don’t expect anything 😂
100% lol. For someone so hautily against the money flaunting, she seemed real ready to get a free ride out of it 🤔
you dont get it. It was never about envy or the having a lot of money. It was about her friend not being honest about her reason for the relationship, which is obvious. But go and ramble on.
@@ChrisisComics except the prenup.
@@ChrisisComicswhat do you mean? OP wrote that Jill said it's what attracted her to him at first but fell inlove in the process.
Which is how normal relationships works.
I think OP is spiteful and bitter that her beautiful friend waited and got what she wanted, which is a rich husband who obviously loves her.
16:25 the fact that she broke up with him 2 days after the fact makes me think she doesn't actually think it's controlling she just wanted an excuse to make it easier to break up with him.
yea it REEKS of just looking for a reason lmao, either that or she’s just a horribly insensitive person
It said that she lives with her parents, maybe she didn’t want to leave her parents house and couldn’t come up with a good enough excuse not to, so she instead made up some bs reason to break up with her bf instead. There also could be context like maybe he was pressuring her to move out and that might be where the controlling comment comes from. Just a speculation
Zach's allergy rant is everything us allergy sufferers have always wanted to say. Thank you Zach!
Shane handled this awkwardness really well 💀😂 the vibes were off, but he was a sweet little positivity star
OP in the first story is SO jealous and doesn’t want to be Jill’s friend, and tried to get their other friends to be on board with that too. OP sounds like she never matured past high school. It’s none of her biz about Jill’s marriage. Jill is an absolute legend for making OP pay for her own damn meal.
Right? I was gonna comment along the same lines. OP's description of Jill at the beginning shows her jealousy. It had no bearing on the story but OP had to make sure everyone knew "between the two" of them, Jill's the "pretty one with the big breasts". Which means OP views herself as not that. Now Jill has a husband with money too? Yeah, she's jealous.
right?? lol op needs to get new friends.
She’s jealous because her husband is not bringing her to greece 😂😂😂
Ikr that was so sad to hear Jill being treated that way after doing nothing but spoiling her friends. She wasn't flaunting anything, she simply got lucky financially and is sharing it with her loved ones. It's also so gross that OP was complaining about how hot Jill is in the beginning, it's so painfully obvious how envious she is of her.
We only got one side of the story though? The friend might have been absolutely insufferable...
Spencer calling Zach "kitten" gave me a Raven-style flashback to that time Kiana made a meme about Spencer's homoerotic tendencies on twitter
hell yeah
Same, even more when he called Shayne "Daddy" XD.
OMG YES
"cockenheimer" will never leave my mind
desperately waiting for him to be on you posted that
Zach liking it was so funny too
The story where the girlfriend refused to change the bodywash is ridicolous lol. I love the conversation they had after, it is so true, like whenever my partner and I go buy parfumes for example, we just don't choose the ones what the other doesn't like, and this is just a case of smelling like something, not having allergic reactions.
I think the dude with the murder house should get a priest or pastor to come over and bless the house or get a medium to come over and check it out or something like so. Just do something to put his step daughter’s mind at ease and make her feel like some spooky amityville shit isn’t about to happen
Did anyone else immediately think that Zach might be traumatized by Reddit and that’s why he stays away?😂
Oh 100%
Do you think it was jolly rancher or Colby? 😂
That was my first thought when he was asked about it
@@chilltheheckoutwithava1454probably the Ned stuff being leaked in their subreddit lol
*Shayne starts reading a story about someone who cheated on their spouse*
Zach: not again...
Zach doesn't understand that some kids don't want a replacement for their parent.
I was so annoyed at that. Having grown up without a father I have never looked for a father figure to replace him. The only thing I've ever cared for is that if the guy my mom is dating is gonna treat her well or not.
His take on this and his obsession with enforcing it was the only cringey thing I found in this video. Maybe I have some of my own issues I need to unpack because just watching him after that story just made me uncomfortable. LOL.
I reckon the background of each person would heavily influence how they read into that. Maybe Zach has a step parent he's close to, or who really stepped up for him? I definitely heavily objected to anyone trying to replace my dad after he developed dementia, but I know it can be a spectrum for others. For example, my parent calls his step-dad by his first name, but refers to him as "my parent" when talking about him otherwise.
@@Kasum_ish same here. made me feel super uncomfortable that i couldnt TELL him in that moment. but i think thats just the thing of his personal ignorance which helped me take a step back and ease a bit. still uncomfortable but i understand.
No but I think there is a difference in the way the step dad views the kid versus how the kid views them. I think the point he was making was just concerned that the step dad didn’t care about the kid enough. You can look at the kid like they’re your own without pushing to the kid to feel that way too. I don’t think he meant it in that sort of way.
I know Shane or anyone from Smosh will probably not see this but incase they do I feel like it would give them a smile.
I struggle with depression and blah blah blah and even at some of my lowest feeling times, I can turn on Shane reading the Reddit stories and him and his guests always make me laugh.
I adore these so much.
I sometimes don't even watch, input my headphones on and clean while listening.
It's honestly helped me so much.
Much love to Shane and Smosh
40:43 "gagging noises" like seriously b*tch is that necessary?? Omg 😂
As someone who lost their dad and who’s mom is currently engaged, as much as I love my moms fiancé, he understands that he is not my dad and our relationship is healthiest with that boundary. That being said, I don’t think it’s weird that the step dad isn’t necessarily a parental figure to kim, it may be a boundary that she has placed as well.
100%
Exactly what I was thinking
Yeah as a child of separated parents this is very real
Would you have been mad if your step dad bought a murder house for you to move into and he didn’t care enough to tell you about the history of it? I think the difference is the level of trust and respect you expect from a parental figure vs a distant relative
@@pasc8699 my god, it’s just a house. People die everywhere. I wouldn’t think twice about buying a house where someone died if it was cheaper in this economy. Besides, he said he was going to tell them later
I feel like they murder house neighbour is more of your “I was there man” character than the dumpster wizard
Shayne holding himself back from throwing hands over the N64 slander 😂😂😂
As someone who has accidentally run into a murder house (and other morbid death houses) just because they like taking long walks in their neighborhood, I can confirm that elderly neighbors are foaming at the mouth to gossip with anybody walking by these places.
As an adult I like getting these stories from them personally, but I would be furious if a stranger was out telling these gruesome stories about my house to my kids just for shock value.
So inappropriate that someone told a 16 year old gruesome details of that story, they honestly should not have spoken to the young girl in the first place
Yea... I kinda have to feel like they had to know they were gonna imbue some sort of paranoia onto her because she is so young
I’m real glad Spencer brought up the potential of preferred step-parent dynamics, cuz I can understand what Zach is saying, but I would honestly be livid if my dad died and some dude dating my mom was like “oh by the way I’m your future new dad”, like absofuckinglutely not lmao
Yeah I get where Zach was coming from but every step parent/child relationship is different and needs to be discussed between the family on what the boundaries are.
This is what a friend of mine had happen to him. His dad died and then a step dad came in and insisted he was the new dad. My friend is no contact with his family now.
Zach honestly irritated me on this topic. I have a stepmother. She isn't my mom. She is more like an aunt. I think I met her when I was like 14 or something. She likes me and my siblings, but we don't feel that way about her and if she pushed the issue, I'd get pissed. I'm an adult now and I still feel the same.
He also was convinced the body wash guy must've done *something* else to give reason to the gf calling him controlling. There's a chance he has some self-internalized bias against guys. Not sure. I'm saying this as a woman as well lol
@@gilly_axolotli took the bodywash thing as more "doing a 180 and suddenly calling it controlling is wild, there must be context leading to that shift that could be assholery from either side" rather than "he must have done something wrong to make her act that way"
14:28 as someone with eczema, who is allergic to literally perfumes and dyes preach Zach preach
13:55 Preach!
Edit. "Evolution should have weeded me out." Ahhhhh lolol
No but spencer is so right, like he’s 21, with his own place! and she’s 25 living with her parents and refusing to compromise on an allergy. There is some wild maturity differences on both sides the whole way around
i would have to know why she’s living with her parents bc everyone’s situation is different, but with the context of what she seems to be like as a person it doesn’t bode well lmao
I'm wondering if there was baggage on her end from perhaps a previous relationship she might've been projecting onto him.
The zero to sixty that Zach took from story 1 (“just work on yourself, it’ll be okay”) to story 2 (“I’m a broken baby bird, go to hell”) gave me emotional whiplash, and I’m here for it 😂.
As an Italian descendant living in Italy I laughed my ass off with the “NTA, just italian” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
31:35 This made me tear up. I was so happy to hear this as a girl whose stepfather treats her like a roommate.
45:51 I live in Italy and one of my friends has a girl named Bella, so when she entered into an Italian school, she’d introduce herself, “Sono Bella.” The classmates were a little confused because she kept introducing herself saying “I’m pretty”, them not understanding that it was her actual name. It was really cute.
...my niece is called Bella lmao I will tell this to her mom. Hope my sister won't react like in this AITA thread 😂
Also I saw a meme pic of a lady's LinkedIn that said "imagine her introducing herself in France..." her name? Gemma Pell. 😂😂😂😂😂😂🇫🇷
The response to the murder house where the guys are disgusted the guy has an uncle/niece relationship with his step daughter is peak "tell me you've never dated someone with teenaged or adult kids without actually saying it." She's 16. She doesn't need a new daddy, she needs a good relationship with her mom's partner. You don't force parenthood on someone that old.
Okay... THANK YOU.
I thought it was weird as well! Like... my stepfather was NOT my dad and he married my mother when I was 5. I knew my dad and had a great relationship with him at the time, didnt need another one.
Completely agree.
I got the sense that Shayne really disagreed but didn't want to call his guest out on the show. But maybe I was just imagining that cause I love Shayne and can't stand Zach lol
@@PhilVaiveagreed
@@PhilVaiveNo me too though! Because in a previous episode (Wholesome stories w/ Thomas Sanders), the OP in that story said he knew he wasn’t a father replacement for her and everyone agreed and praised him for it.
"I'm a wounded baby deer. Evolution should have weeded me out." Same, Zach, same.
On the girlfriend who was obsessed with the 90s, a lot of that story was alerting me to her potentially being autistic. I'm autistic myself and listening to the same song or watching the same handful of things on repeat because of being fixated. My heart breaks for her because I've been treated badly by partners or family for my fixations, mainly them being 'childish'. Why can women never have hobbies? Why can men never express their emotions in a healthy way? :(((
Also, as someone with skin sensitivities to certain synthetic fragrances (for example I break out in hives if I use scented laundry detergent) these things are not a joke 😭 and they are not fun at all! I've had to lay naked in the bathroom covered in calamine lotion from head to toe because one of my shirts got mixed in with my mom's laundry and got scented detergent in it and I was covered in hives that burned so bad that wearing clothes made me want to throw up. I can't believe she tried to say OP's allergy was being controlling.
OP: Jill is only with her husband for his money!
Also OP: I can't believe Jill is making me pay for my own bill, she has money!
but she literally did get with that guy for the money. Jill is a sex worker in denial. plain and simple.
and I have nothing against sex workers. I just dislike how gold diggers often look down on them as if they were any different.
The amount of stories that can be summed up by 'you just don't like your partner', (Almond loving GF and Retro hating BF) is honestly so funny and just straight up shocking at the same time... Like why are you even dating this person?
People are scared to be alone and jump from one partner to the next until they feel safe enough to stay. It's a really sad way to live.
I often think the number of people that are together just because, and don't actually care much at all for each other, is much bigger *than we expect.
Tbf I've been in relationships before where I really like them or even love them at first and then over time my little pet peeves about them start to grow and I can't be with them anymore. But its something you have to realise and be honest about
This is why us gays make so many jokes questioning if the straights are ok because all of the jokes about straight people are of them hating their partners and it's sad. But in all seriousness it's societal pressure, we've been taught from little on up that if you aren't in a relationship you're failing. Why haven't you found your prince yet? With that too we don't ever see anyone breaking up in fairytales and society still views it in a bad light for many people so you end up feeling trapped
I think it’s that they find someone attractive physically/surface level but expect them to change their interests and *cough* allergic tolerance to fit their idea of what they want in a relationship once they’re already dating. It’s not ‘I want to care about what they’re interested in from the beginning’, it’s ‘we’ll get along eventually because that’s how relationships work, even if it means they have to change who they are.’
… clearly it doesn’t work out that well to expect your partner to completely scrap their personality or safety for you lol
48:24 was actually some of the funniest shit I've ever heard in my life. I literally could not stop laughing because the immediate reaction was just too good.
21:36 OP described an autistic woman, like a lot of modern video game graphics can be overstimulating
Shayne saying he watched so much of the Beauty and the Beast VHS, and him ultimately reading lots of books as an adult is so endearing.
yeah i think its cute
I love him 🥹
The Daddy story made me think about how my nickname has always been "Mom". It started when I was younger in school, I was always known as "the mom friend" because I always had everything someone would need in my bag, and I was the one who gave good advice. We're in our mid twenties now, and my friends will call me when they're sad and my response is normally something like, "Come over, I'm making pesto tonight and we can watch movies". I always took care of those I cared about, and so people have always called me mom. And those who have called me Mom for the last decade now call my boyfriend of 5 years "Dad" not only because he's dating Mom, but also because he acts like their dad. He's the person they call to ask car questions to, he's the one they call when their sink is leaking, and he's the one they run they're boyfriends through to get "boyfriend material" approval from along with me. We have accepted our given roles as mom and dad.❤
this is so cute
Aww this is so sweet. My friends call me mom or mommy because I give motherly vibes, take care of them and help them. I find it more endearing than weird because of their reason for calling me that
I've often been referred to as "the mom friend" and a coworker sometimes calls me "mom" as a joke because I'm the manager and the one to put an end to jokes that are on track to get out of hand.
my friend calls me "mama" 😭 i think it has something to mainly do with us both being mexican, but i have been told by a lot of people i have "maternal energy".
STOP THAT IS SO ADORABLE
Im from Venezuela and i absolutely know what the (latinamerican moment) means. We had a famous ex-Miss Universe who died in an attempted car jacking cuz she refused to open the car door and give them the car so the robbers angrily shot through the window killing her and her Irish husband and barely missing their child in the back seat. People would often have 2 phones, one was ur real phone and the 2nd phone was a shittier phone you wouldnt miss if you got mugged but it also couldnt be a complete shit phone like a fliphone cuz then it would be an obvious "2nd phone" and grant you a stabbing. Its definitely a delicate balance lol
For the last story, it also depends on how he apologized. Like was it "I'm sorry what I said hurt your feelings". Because that implises that she's wrong for how she reacted. If he said "I'm sorry for what I said. I didnt mean to hurt your feelings." Which implies that he was in the wrong.
As a latin-american i can confirm getting hurt for not having anything to give the robbers is ABSOLUTELY a latin-american moment
I confirm the theory. Seems like colombia smells like Colombia IM SURE this story it’s about Coombia 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (im from Colombia by the way)
Honestly, this could soo happen in Costa Rica too hahah in fact something kinda similar happened to a close friend lol
Right?? Brazilian here and recently my coworker bought a "robber's phone" - as in a cellphone that he can give the robber in case he gets mugged - and we were talking about how it couldn't be just any cheap phone, otherwise he could be beaten up 😅
@@Isa-xe6vk hhahahaha it has to be in the sweet spot between cheap, but that they can at least sell for a couple of fixes XD
@@oscarard7482 exactly! Gotta respect the rustle lol
That first story pissed me off…calling your friend a gold digger and then getting mad that she didn't pay for your meal is WILD
Yeah, fun how his money is dirty and unseemly...but certainly good enough to get her some free food.
The Daddy story is hilarious. My daughter (17 F), has a nickname in her friend group which is Mega Daddy. She has had this nickname for the last few years. I think it's funny and not that serious. I don't understand why it's offensive.
Can we just appreciate Zach’s exquisite taste for owning Josie and the Pussycats?
I disagree with Zach’s take, mainly cause it seemed like he read a lot into the story that wasn’t apparent. Not every kid especially at 16 is willing to take their parent’s significant other as a parental figure and no indication in the story that she wanted that. That can change with time but I can 100% see a scenario of the OP not being in the wrong on the basis that he has more of an “uncle” role in her life. If anything it can be respectful of the child’s wishes if they have significant feelings about someone trying to adopt a similar role their deceased or divorced parent had.
Agree with you but also pointing out that OP met the daughter when she was 10. He's been in their lives for a while.
Ah shoot, thanks for pointing that out. I missed/forgot that detail! I still feel the same way more or less.
@@NJavier1416even still, most people don't want a replacement for their parent it 100% depends on the situation
I think a great reddit story theme would be finding posts from the other side of the story. like reading a 'i cheated on my gf aita' then afterwards reading a 'hi, im the gf, heres the real story'
Ooo I love those types of reddit encounters. Haha. A follow-up from the other perspective.
YES! Upvote this!
I think they've talked about doing this they just need stories
They should do an episode with just malicious compliance stories or just petty revenge stories and have Eugene Lee Yang as a guest ❤
31:46 zach is talking straight out of his little idealistic ass here. He has no idea how that teen feels about a man stepping in and acting as her father. for all we know, he is trying to make her comfortable by not stepping on her toes, maybe by her own request.
That girlfriend saying they shouldn't call that person daddy and controlling her bf is crazy. It's a friend group dynamic you can't come in and change it.
And that clapback was so perfect
just a heads up for zach about story 5, just because they agree in not having a father-daughter relationship doesnt make them assholes. maybe she doesnt want someone to replace her dad but having an uncle figure is enough for her, and him not pushing himself as a dad is great because they have boundaries and can still love eachother.
Agreed! Sometimes the child is young enough that they need a dad. Other times they're old enough
This. In my last relationship i had conversations with my ex about what kind of relationship she thought I should develop with the kids. They still had their dad's in their lives and I was never trying to replace them. Did I love them and see them as my son's? Yes, but never would I call them my son's to them or in front of them nor would I push any sort of paternal relationship because that's not my place in their life. I will say, I regret getting emotionally invested in their happiness and growth and their lives because even though I was ready to leave my abusive ex I was nowhere near ready to leave children I'd sort of emotionally adopted as my own and I still find myself praying for their health and safety and happiness often. I miss my sons, and I say this to point out, someone else's relationship with their step children is really nobody else's business to decide, outside of the obvious "dont traumatize or abuse them"
Yes! As someone who got a "stepfather" when I was like 14 I did not want another father figure after my dad passed so I call my step-dad by his first name and we are both comfortable with that
Yes i was thinking the same thing! The post even mentioned the biological father passing away so it wouldn't shock me if this is the preferred dynamic in the family. I had an absent father myself and when my mother got into a new relationship (i was ten) it took us almost 7 years to truly get along BECAUSE he was insistant initially to be a father to me wich i really did not want (there waa some other stuff but this was a BIG factor why it took so long). Some children just don't want a replacement and it seemed clear to me in the way he spoke about the daughter that he does care just doesn't view himself as her dad. Defo think Zach jumped the gun with that take 😅
seconded.
my parents divorced when I was 10, and my mom didn’t even start dating until I was already 16. I had absolutely no desire for another parental figure, and it was agreed that her new partner/common law would not be filling that role.
obviously it never prevented either of us from helping each other out, but it never bridged into “parenting”. completely reasonable for this situation to be similar.
As someone who has dated and experienced many forms of major narcissism, i do know people who have said they're allergic to things for control cause they would consume it when they had no other options, and i realized the red flag, so that could happen, but people who have had normal experiences wouldn't immediately think that especially if he is having a visible reaction, so she's probably a narcissist tbh. They also turn things around on you like that because they themselves would do it. Ugh
as someone who almost never buys the same body wash twice in a row, that allergy story shouldnt be an issue at all that girl is crazy
Story 1: She's sour because their positions kinda switched since highschool.
In highschool, OP had her fun, had BFs, slept around, and had regular money
In highschool, Goldie (OP's friend) had no boyfriend, no money, hence no fun
Now, OP still has her fun, still has BFs, no kids, and still has regular money
While now, Goldie has insane fun, a husband, 2 kids, and crazy money
I think it's the fact to have witnessed someone starting from so low (to the point to need free food), and ending up so far above her in every possible way that makes OP feel bitter
Wouldn't be surprised if OP was only friends with Jill because she thought Jill was "beneath her" or that she was better than Jill bc she went to college and Jill didn't and now OP is jealous that Jill is wealthier
also why is it okay for men to have a type that puts down other women but the women who say “Hey I would like someone who is financial stable” or “I would prefer someone who is in this position” we’re gold diggers? I mean, I get there is some out there that become financially abusive once they marry the individual who has the money but like, come on. financial stability, who doesn’t want it?
Riiight? Especially as women who'd like to start a family, you just know that you're going to be the primary caretaker in the house. Might as well make sure you find a man who can afford you staying home with the kids.
She's just completely jealous. The writer doesn't give a single example of the rich friend "flaunting her money." She treated her friends to dinner (sharing her money) and she talked about her birthday trip (sharing about her life). The writer also didn't say a single thing about the husband other than that he is rich, which means that is all that the WRITER pays attention to. As a couple they already had one thing in common (yoga) so there is no grounding in her claim that her friend is gold digging, she just happened to want someone with money, but she didn't even have a string of shitty rich partners just to use their money. The rich friend seems to have held out for an actual partner who is also rich. If anyone is the gold digger its the writer -- she doesn't like her friend at all, but is clearly hanging on for the benefits of having a rich friend!
@@BENI_MMNA I have certain interests and I love performing. If I got the opportunity to quit working full time and just perform while my partner is the breadwinner, sign me the hell up! 😂
For the Gigi/Luigi story, I’m Native American (Seneca specifically). Gigi in our language would be spelled Ji’ji’ (pronunciation is very close with a glottal stop between the syllables), which means evil spirits. So even on US soil the name can have a bad connotation. I also have a white great grandmother who goes by Gigi, we’ve told her the double meaning and she just laughed. There’s thousands of languages in the world and we give the words power. No point dwelling on connotations that have no bearing over your everyday life.
Anyways, love the show!! Keep it up!!
Sometimes words means different things in different languages. The french word for seal is pronounced "fuck". The fact that the word pronounced like that is a swear word in English doesn't mean that the French have to change their word for seal. It's one thing to tell your grandmother that her name has a different meaning, but another to tell a new mom that she sealed up by naming her daughter something
(edited to replace "dolphin" with "seal", cause it's been like 25 years since I learned that fact and mixed up my animals haha)
@@PhilVaivejust a correction, it's the French word for Seal, not dolphin
@@PhilVaiveFrench person here, I was confused for a moment because the french word for dolphin is pretty close to the english one (it's "dauphin")...
The word you were thinking of is another sea animal : "phoque", it translates to "seal".
The pronunciation is indeed close to the word "fuck" and many French people use that to make some puns, sometimes they end up on t-shirts 🦭
But I like the phrase "you dolphined up", it reminds me of the dolphin censor sound effect !
@@ApollineLepetit haha I learned that in elementary school so it's been a few years lol! Thanks for the re-education!
@@leighdrawson8562 thanks leigh! I had a feeling I should double check that lol
Bro in high school I changed my chapstick and my gum for a FRIEND who was allergic to my previous ones. For a significant other you should for sure change those kinds of things if they’re allergic!
I actually respect the hell outta Spencer for his takes on those older games. Too many people are afraid to admit that sometimes things in the past just don’t hold up nowadays, because people who do really love those games can get really aggressive when defending them. But he made his point in a really respectful way for the most part, I thought.
As someone from a big Italian family with the nickname Gigi I can confirm that little girl will be called luigi alot
See but you actually have an Italian family. The girl who called her husband "Italian" as if he was straight from Italy versus him being loosely connected by ancestry there, made an oopsy not googling her potential kid's name.
They should get her a lil green hat
Also, I'd say the nickname for Luigina would be Gigina or Gigia.
I knew a Luigina and everyone called her Gigia, but I think Gigina is more common.
I'm italian, I live in Italy, I confirm. But also, I don't get why the mum is so upset. In America it's a common girl name, she didn't named her daughter John...
@@bc9085 Più o meno è come se l'avesse chiamata Andrea, che da noi è un nome maschile, ma nel resto d'Europa è femminile
It's so funny to me that they keep calling the neighbor creepy when I 10000% imagined an old lady gossiping hard-core LOL
I did too LOL
I imagined the opening act of a horror / slasher movie immediately 😂 it’s spooky season.
Maybe more old lady gossips need to be called creepy so they think twice about their behavior.
@@NoiseDay yknow what, I don't disagree lol
i definitely picture an elderly person, just bored and looking for new info about the neighborhood, happening to also run her mouth without thinking much of it. god knows i have heard wild things from grannys lol love them tho
I love that Shayne is the host for this series. He adds that something to make it just perfect.
the N64 controller design is objectively ridiculous... AND I WILL DEFEND IT WITH MY LIFE 😤
What’s crazy about allergies is it can present itself as non life threatening for years when you come in contact with it and then one day you can go into anaphylactic shock when you come into contact with it. It’s too unpredictable to take unnecessary risks
Quincke's edema isn't a joke. You could die in 5 min if things go wrong.
Yep, that’s why I don’t play around with my partner’s tree nut allergy because that exact situation happened to his dad. My poor partner sniffs peanut butter jars because he misses it so much 😂 its so sad
This scares me slightly because I have an allergy to many trees, flowers, and grass. I can't exactly avoid it....
Ate tomatoes fine for years, just a small itch from the juice if I cut it up, then took ONE BITE from a BLT and my face went numb, just spread from lips to nose to throat, like a botched anesthesia job at the dentist.
Very true. About a year ago we learned that my brother was allergic to peanuts, yet he had been eating them his whole life. His favorite candy was Reeses. But when he started having minor health problems, and we figured out he was allergic, we stopped letting him eat peanut butter right away. The doctor said if he had continued to eat it, he probably would have had to have been hospitalized within the next couple months cuz his body wouldn't have been able to handle it. And since it's been so long since he last ate peanut butter, if he eats it now he may have a serious allergic reaction that could be life threatening, even tho he had gone 90% of his life eating it
Luigi Hadid was SUCH an excellent joke/observation. I cackled
This really is such an unexpected great trio. They have great synergy, can give good advice, and are funny together. It doesn't get much better than that...
Shayne talking about home habits can make or break a relationship reminded me of my mum telling me that my brother said he couldn’t date with someone as messy as me. I’m admittedly very cluttered, and understand that it can be hard to live with if you’re more organised. So as an older sister I’m happy to have provided this life experience for him
What gets me about that first story is that she mentions her friend grew up poor and that was looking for financial stability in a relationship, but then calls her a gold digger. Did it never occur to her that she didn't want any future children she had to go through what she went through growing up? Maybe she's not a gold digger but didn't want to continue dealing with financial hardship all her life? That's not a crazy thing to wish for.
i think gold digger is such a dumb insult too. like if someone wants to marry another person for their money, why do other people get so pressed? people get married for all sorts of reasons that aren’t just love.
@@kennedy.5152 I think it depends on the intention. Like, if someone is with another purely for their money, doesn't care about them at all, I can see the intention there. But if someone actually cares about someone, but also likes how they can provide for them, I don't feel like that's a gold digger.
Along with that there is also absolutely no reason to talk down to someone that wants to marry someone with a good income. I’m sorry Sharon, I want to live comfortably and not struggle to make ends meet. Great if you don’t care about finances, but never talk down to someone that wants the grander things in life, especially when they never had them prior
@@heyitsnicki644honestly, hearing OPs story about Jill ain’t right, Jill is totally in the right to want financial stability from her man - if she wants to be traditional/or whatever roles she wants to fill in the family she’s in. we should all strive to have financial stability before we have a kid. I know it’s not possible for everyone, but the fact is financial stability for yourself is a win - even if you don’t have kids or a partner.
As an Italian, I can confirm the Gigi/Luigi thing is true, and also that the law mentioned is true. Like we have a law that even prohibits us to use names from famous fictional characters, so you can't name your son Goku for example.
My name is also a weird one. It's Simone, which is a male (and common) name here in Italy but a female name in... almost every other country I think?
It’s like how in Russia Sasha is considered a men’s name but in most countries Sasha is considered a girls name
Here I thought Gigi was short for Gianna.
@@CassandraFaeSasha is a short for Alexander/ Alexandria/Alexandra so both genders can have it
only semi-related, i went to school with a québécois ftm trans guy (i went to school with him before he ever came out or started transitioning), and his birth-given name is Mattia ("MAH-tyah" or "MAH-tee-uh" w/ an american accent), which he told me way back when we had first met is the Boy spelling of that name (pretty sure the girl version is mattea, like mattea from jeopardy). so he literally just kept it because he was like "i mean like why would i change it!" and i love that for him
@@CassandraFae In Germany, Sascha would be considered as a boy's name, too.
Simone would be female, Gigi would be male, Andrea (which to my knowledge also is a male name in Italy) would be female. All of that of course is generally spoken.
The more I learn about Spencer the more I think he’s an unhinged and slightly crazy guy
40:00 she def calls her bf daddy and thinks its weird he calls a girl hes friends with daddy
Zach is being needlessly harsh on OP in the murder house story. He's acting like OP thinks of his future step-daughter as his neice when that is not what he said. OP said he does not have a parental relationship with her. In the 5 years he has known her(from 11-16) he has not been parenting her, but rather has been dating her mother. OP never said anything about how he views or thinks of her, simply that he FEELS like more of an uncle figure instead of a parental figure. OP hasn't been in a position to actually be a father to her yet, so he doesn't feel like one, but he is going to great lengths to make her feel loved and welcome in his home because he clearly loves her and wants to develop that parent-child relationship with her.
Yeah that was a weird moment, I honestly felt pretty uncomfortable with the intensity of that, combined with the fact that his take on step-parenting is really off. A step-parent should never assume a parental role without knowing for sure that it's what their stepchild wants.
I agree. If anything, I liked the OP for not being one of those step parents who imo creepily try to force the idea of them being a new parent onto a stepchild whom might not want that
Very well said, you put words to my thoughts exactly. I feel like there were a couple of times that Zach would make a snap judgment on a piece of a story, or have a slightly odd take, but that one genuinely a little off-putting.