LIVE FROM BERMUDA: PART ONE - THE COUPLES PANEL. Marriage Looks Different For Different Couples.

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  • It's always an honor to be invited to cities, states, and even countries to produce the Dear Future Wifey Podcast in front of a LIVE audience. (Hope they're live, because if they weren't that would be a different issue. Lol.) We traveled to the beautiful island of Bermuda by invitation of Charmaine Tucker, founder of Women of Living Water. Today's guests: Dr. Wayne and Francezia Swan and Antonia and Lloyd Holder.
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Komentáře • 71

  • @gckreplayzjr.1871
    @gckreplayzjr.1871 Před 5 měsíci +17

    One thing I LOVE about Laterras is that he KNOWS the Word of God! ❣❣❣

  • @Aoneify
    @Aoneify Před 5 měsíci +4

    Had a feeling they were Adventist! Shout out.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +30

    I enjoyed the transparency of the couples. Some of my biggest take aways as I reflect on the entire message is summed up as you stated Laterras: couples need to give each other grace to grow. It’s important to be self aware. Be willing to be accountable to one another and the process. Be willing to do the work to continue to grow together. Somethings will not be uncovered to be fixed until couples come together. Iron sharpens iron. Always understand that love is a choice and Christ loves us when we are good and bad. ❤

  • @t.p.anderson1833
    @t.p.anderson1833 Před 5 měsíci +5

    That grip was "don't go!"

  • @Happey67
    @Happey67 Před 5 měsíci +9

    Mr. Lateress, so happy you are moving around different black cultures, there are so many. People want to pool us together and want us to act the same, do the same thing, think the same but no, it cannot be. It is so beautiful, the variations, the culture, music, dialects, and language. Maybe you want to venture out the the Pacific Ocean and one day.(Fiji, Solomon Islands, Australia etc).

  • @ines-simpson
    @ines-simpson Před 5 měsíci +6

    Latteras is such a comedian 😂 i love it. Glory to God, sending love and blessings from New Zealand🕊

  • @TheShervonne
    @TheShervonne Před 5 měsíci +5

    It was indeed a privilege to be part of the team and the event planner for this awesome event. And to work with such great Bermudian panelists. I applaud Charmaine Tucker and her vision to bring such a provocative podcast to Bermuda.

  • @chinakaadeniyi7421
    @chinakaadeniyi7421 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Laterras... 😂 "he just gave you a ring and told you to put it on"?... I'm done. I love your sense of humor and timing... I'm coming along on your journey... Because it's MINE to... Feel myself growing with every episode... Loving this

  • @Happey67
    @Happey67 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Lateress, you have me in stiches tonight. DWL! LOL! Belly laughing!

  • @FlyIslandGuy
    @FlyIslandGuy Před 5 měsíci +6

    Pleasantly surprised to see some fellow Bermudians on DFW...love it!

  • @tonyadykes1971
    @tonyadykes1971 Před 5 měsíci +2

    The fact that she wed without a custimary proposal or traditional wedding is breathtaking and a true testament of her love for her husband and their marriage. So many people get caught up on the anesthetics of showing off and spending a lot of money, that the vows get lost in reality.
    Latterrus you have the best humor and it helps everyone be settled and more willing to be transparent.
    I received so many confirmations concerning dispelling upbringing has nothing to do with the handling of future relationships. It has everything to do with how or if we resolve the tough topics or have true staying power.
    While healing from past traumas and entering a marriage with the willingness to be receptive of learning and acceptance of our partner differences, the true test of healing will be determined once the two mesh. Beautiful episode.

  • @charlesd479
    @charlesd479 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Love does not have a reason is true. Love is a decision to love someone no matter what. When you really love someone you just do it. Read my words carefully love is not just a feeling....thats where most folks fall short......their feeling change and then it over.

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele Před 5 měsíci +4

    🤣Say it for the ones in the back. You are a whole therapist and you had 2 failed marriages. I am laid out. The therapist had a good come back🤣I was a slow learning. You have to have fun with it.

  • @TheShervonne
    @TheShervonne Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love the vision board aspect, will try this in my marriage.

  • @TysonDavis3
    @TysonDavis3 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Preach Doc!...OMG, I had to update my comment and just give a huge kudos to both of these couples. They are well-spoken, articulate, and beautiful couples who provided great insight into their relationships and were candid and on-point. Thank you! Great interview and great participants as always.

  • @AnalystAyi
    @AnalystAyi Před 5 měsíci +4

    This was amazing! I resonate with the Runner 🏃‍♀️! That is me and I thank God for my fiance stopping me and working on my fear of conflict ❤❤❤

  • @Tanisha255
    @Tanisha255 Před 5 měsíci +5

    This is the first time I’ve ever heard of a marriage vision board and I really love this idea!!! Great episode ❤

  • @melissaglasper1772
    @melissaglasper1772 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Such a great conversation! I absolutely can relate to the Runner. Running stopped being a sport I was good at when it became a lifestyle. I stopped running, now I just walk fast. 😂
    I am looking forward to Part 2. 💜

  • @lavandaammurphy7586
    @lavandaammurphy7586 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow! Latteras! You were in my country! I love it! My permanent residency is CT. Felt so good to know you brought your passion to my island . Apologies for the rain😊❤❤

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I enjoyed the topic of conversation. Marriage is a beautiful thing with lots of ups and downs. As long as you choose each other every single day, it is so worth it.

  • @DianeJefferson-bf8uv
    @DianeJefferson-bf8uv Před 4 měsíci

    Really great conversation! I love Bermuda. The best thing about it is my Bermudian husband😉

  • @paulamartin9507
    @paulamartin9507 Před 5 měsíci +2

    One thing I loved about this episode is when the couples talked about their upbringing… even as a 53 year old woman, this causes me to think back and reflect on my own conflict resolution styles etc… once again, Laterras you hit the ball out the park with the nuggets in this episode. ❤️

  • @andreawinzer7892
    @andreawinzer7892 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Don't think we missed that, Laterras. "I'm learning to compromise with whoever I'm in love with." Mmm hmm I see u lol
    Great episode.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Před 5 měsíci +1

      That's my heart posture for whoever God brings into my life.

  • @Realness4sho
    @Realness4sho Před 5 měsíci +1

    Beautiful truth.🔥

  • @ladiesofiron
    @ladiesofiron Před 5 měsíci +1

    Right on time! “To thy own self be true” Getting to know yourself BEFORE making a commitment into another relationship. I spoke about this on my live last night, while on a date with myself.❤
    I like the phrase “Having an intense fellowship”😂

  • @danagrappie4942
    @danagrappie4942 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was so beautiful, I love the transparency and openness❤ Bermudan is such a gorgeous country with people just as beautiful! ❤❤❤

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown Před 5 měsíci +4

    The church has to come out of the cultural idolatry. Marriage is not our fantasy. It's God's poetry that He has used to illustrate His love for us.

  • @Btj87
    @Btj87 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Enjoyed this. Couples need to give one another the space needed to grow. We need to give each other grace.
    I'm a fixer also but I'm also a runner. If you are not listening or taking my advice, I'm running.... For the life of me, I don't know why people keep doing the same thing but expecting different results🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @puseletsosekhoto6989
    @puseletsosekhoto6989 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Im loving this series/episode it teaches me a lot about marriage and relationships,,I thank you Laterras all the way from South Africa ❤🎉🥂

  • @sharony.harleyministriesre4079
    @sharony.harleyministriesre4079 Před 5 měsíci +1

    that's good what she said, that he was built for her

  • @nikkit_connectingthedots
    @nikkit_connectingthedots Před 5 měsíci

    I can’t believe you were in my home country and I didn’t realize in time to get to go!! So grateful for you and sharing your message with our community 🇧🇲♥️✨

  • @nombulelohlathi287
    @nombulelohlathi287 Před 5 měsíci +1

    These couples are so wholesome I wish you had them a little bit longer

  • @TheBurningBusch
    @TheBurningBusch Před 5 měsíci +2

    I enjoyed this podcast!! Amazing couples!!

  • @lorettacox7990
    @lorettacox7990 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Absolutely Awesome 👏🏾

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele Před 5 měsíci +1

    Another one of my favorites 👏🏾

  • @annemwago3554
    @annemwago3554 Před 5 měsíci

    I have enjoyed the input of the panelists. So much wisdom, so much authentic. The couples are so real, and transparent. I have drawn so much wisdom and I got to relisten again and take some notes. God bless the couples.
    LT, you bless me. I am watching from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @suzettecounsels
    @suzettecounsels Před 5 měsíci

    This was really great to watch. Lovely couples with great nuggets!❤

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 Před 5 měsíci

    Great episode❤❤ with great people who are open minded

  • @ninawaryaro9415
    @ninawaryaro9415 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow!Learnt alot❤Awesome

  • @estherphiri764
    @estherphiri764 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Growing up being raised by single Mum and seeing abuse in marriages with my own eyes made me fear marriage 110%,learnt whose me and whose iam, it's a struggle at times triggers ,Romans 8v28, Awesome episode as always thanks 💚 Zambia 🇿🇲.

  • @wpooh6181
    @wpooh6181 Před 5 měsíci

    I loved this episode so so very much!!!!! Yes Bernuda! Show up! Love, Wisdom, Laughter, and Things that Makes you Go Hmm! Loved it all!!!

  • @Two19A_M_
    @Two19A_M_ Před 5 měsíci +1

    Awesome!! My second home!!! #Bermuda 🇧🇲 ❤

  • @lisabowman877
    @lisabowman877 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Full House!!! ❤

  • @yolandaduncan7463
    @yolandaduncan7463 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for the amazing ministry you and your team are doing to promote healthy relationships through tranceparency. If I may, I just miss one aspect that you always used to do with your guest when you 1st started. You used to always end with prayer. When 2 or more are gathered in his name there he will be also. With all of us touching and agreeing around the world..... God is able!!!! May the Lord continue to bless your ministry.

  • @sheirelle10
    @sheirelle10 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Heyyy HOME BDA‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @beautyinyouministry2030
    @beautyinyouministry2030 Před 5 měsíci

    “Love doesn’t have a reason”

  • @lorettacox7990
    @lorettacox7990 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Absolutely Hilarious 👏🏾

  • @peachdelight25
    @peachdelight25 Před 2 měsíci

    What happened to part 2 of this episode? I loved the panel

  • @pamelabrown2028
    @pamelabrown2028 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Fab ❤

  • @tanyapeters5062
    @tanyapeters5062 Před 3 měsíci

    Titus 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to LOVE their HUSBANDS, to love their children,
    we are to also love our husbands

  • @tanyapeters5062
    @tanyapeters5062 Před 3 měsíci

    Are they inside of a Kingdom Hall ?

  • @mikag1137
    @mikag1137 Před 5 měsíci +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @queenjazmyne
    @queenjazmyne Před 5 měsíci

    Laterras , when are you coming Trinidad? 👀 Great video as always 😊

  • @delilah9464
    @delilah9464 Před 5 měsíci

    When are you coming to Chicago??????

  • @bolaemmanuel4141
    @bolaemmanuel4141 Před 5 měsíci +6

    When are you coming to Nigeria?

  • @Chinamay812
    @Chinamay812 Před 4 měsíci

    What happened to PART 2?

  • @harrietbuluku3908
    @harrietbuluku3908 Před 5 měsíci +1

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Před 5 měsíci

    Yup

  • @gckreplayzjr.1871
    @gckreplayzjr.1871 Před 5 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @harrietbuluku3908
    @harrietbuluku3908 Před 5 měsíci +2

    #Notjustlivebutthrive

  • @lawill3559
    @lawill3559 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Present

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před 5 měsíci

    1 Corinthians 13
    Love is what will keep a marriage together
    What most call love is simply a feeling
    Feelings change
    Love is not love Which alters when it alteration finds, Or bends with the remover to remove. O no, it is an ever-fixed mark That looks on tempests and is never shaken; It is the star to every wand'ring bark, Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken..

  • @pcbrunson3302
    @pcbrunson3302 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I wish we would look more to the Bible for God’s laws when choosing a mate. Unfortunately, we have strayed so far away, that we are making up things as we go. The Bible is still right.😢

  • @joesuff17
    @joesuff17 Před 5 měsíci

    Myles Munroe said it first and it still holds true today. Love is a choice and we have to choose it even when they stop doing things we like.