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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  Před 14 dny

    👉 Dating Cards: www.hardlyinitiated.com/products/dating-deck

  • @bekirungu
    @bekirungu Před 7 měsíci +64

    "I knew to find a partner I had to partner with God because he knew where I would he in 5 years, 10 years, he knows my future" that was deep and profound

  • @TheClements
    @TheClements Před 7 měsíci +390

    Thank you so much for the invitation!!! We love you guys and we hope your amazing community will find some value from our story 🤍

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 Před 7 měsíci +13

      This is such a loving example of NOT going according to "societies superficial ideas"!!

    • @coutureleotards
      @coutureleotards Před 7 měsíci +11

      You guys are Dope!! Thanks for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us ❤❤

    • @bremarie3442
      @bremarie3442 Před 7 měsíci +11

      Great interview. I love what you said about having the vision first before the relationship happened. Something they said resonated with the last episode. The idea of trying to break the relationship upfront. I did this with my husband when we courted. Asked all the tough questions I could think of up front. We weren't committed so if there were red flags I wasn't loosing on any investment on my part. I still remember that feeling of amazement as we got through those tough conversations.

    • @stacks3459
      @stacks3459 Před 7 měsíci +8

      I've followed you guys for years! You guys gave me hope for interabled relationship filled with love.

    • @e.edwigep9352
      @e.edwigep9352 Před 7 měsíci +6

      We love your story ❤.

  • @Caribbeanmystic
    @Caribbeanmystic Před 7 měsíci +205

    So many of us, women AND men should consider quality over aesthetics. I love this couple

    • @RoblEsquire
      @RoblEsquire Před 7 měsíci +2

      Lol

    • @SLGreen979
      @SLGreen979 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Not going to happen because the majority of women would say they’re “settling”.

    • @Caribbeanmystic
      @Caribbeanmystic Před 7 měsíci +8

      @@SLGreen979 I believe many of us have “settled” already as you have put it. And we realise that maybe we should look for more of what is needed - say intellectually or otherwise - because we were not equally yoked. I have seen it many times. You are not wrong but the key part of what has been expressed is the quality that she prioritised was quite specific. So with that as the foundation there is hope. I also believe that culturally maybe American women may be (operative word is MAYBE) more materialistic than other cultures. Speaking for myself I deal with intellect, someone who has the capacity for solid introspection. Men also can be shallow…Blessings to you and yours.

    • @SLGreen979
      @SLGreen979 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@Caribbeanmystic good point 👍🏾

    • @Shanakkk
      @Shanakkk Před 6 měsíci +2

      That's where we go wrong

  • @ProfessOz
    @ProfessOz Před 7 měsíci +103

    This is actually one of the best episodes I've seen. Men or "Husbands" who come on the show and sell courses, cards or workshops about relationships typically beat up on men and lie to women in order to grow their business. This is a great example of marriage and love. Best wishes on their marriage journey.

  • @Farmacy75234
    @Farmacy75234 Před 7 měsíci +74

    This couple is more peaceful that any regular couple I know. Tha maturity is amazing

  • @adriannorwood8237
    @adriannorwood8237 Před 7 měsíci +30

    This isn’t the average guy.. he has a Ted talks, he was working in tech, he is independent, I’m sure he has a level of maturity that most guys don’t…

  • @Focused7X
    @Focused7X Před 7 měsíci +43

    My takeaways are; love is awaiting us but step outside the box, premarital sex only clouds judgment, alignment with your purpose is key first, and friendship/communication is foundational to a successful union! @TheClements your transparency is valued & may God continue to bless you & all who encounter you🙏🏾

  • @olio8226
    @olio8226 Před 7 měsíci +55

    Hardly Initiated is on a whole other level of production. Wow! May this channel prosper!!

  • @cheryldian
    @cheryldian Před 7 měsíci +39

    I almost didn’t listen to this podcast. I apologize for my bias. I was so wrong. This man can teach couples how to prepare. I’m impressed.

    • @Expensive-op6pn
      @Expensive-op6pn Před 2 měsíci +2

      He had to make up for or rather ‘over prepare’ due to his disability to make him stand out too. He’s phenomenal I’d say.

  • @charlib8650
    @charlib8650 Před 7 měsíci +20

    They are such an inspiration to not only inter-disabled couples, but non- disabled couples as well. They are such a thoughtful and intelligent couple. ❤️

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 Před 7 měsíci +64

    This is definitely the epitome of what not caring what society says and just going with your own sincere and authentic feelings of what God truly wants for you. So inspirational. God bless you both. Amen!

    • @lucyhunt1618
      @lucyhunt1618 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Awesome couple, God bless you as you continue to inspire others that love is what you make it, so be happy. 🙏

    • @clarkkent2005
      @clarkkent2005 Před 6 měsíci

      What do you mean by "not caring what society says"?

  • @talayamichael8881
    @talayamichael8881 Před 7 měsíci +13

    I love how they look at each other when the other is speaking

  • @bevt9982
    @bevt9982 Před 7 měsíci +10

    We can ask them a million questions but what touched my heart is see a person the way that God see them. God is their protector and I hope my Kingdom Spouse see God’s light in me. ❤

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 7 měsíci +11

    The person that I pick is going to affect the next generations. This is bigger than me. Is this someone I can build with? Is this someone I can break generational curses with. Is this someone that will help me become the best version of myself ❤

  • @taliaowens5356
    @taliaowens5356 Před 7 měsíci +40

    I appreciate the transparency and the vulnerability this couple is displaying with us.

  • @tameramagee4000
    @tameramagee4000 Před 7 měsíci +11

    They are a perfect example of the importance of communication in the development of and maintaining a healthy relationship.

  • @ShaunettaMarie
    @ShaunettaMarie Před 7 měsíci +38

    ✨️When God gives you the vision you have to run with it and be okay with people catching up later.. powerful word..
    #Wisdom
    Inspiring on so many levels✨️

  • @lorettaelliott4481
    @lorettaelliott4481 Před 7 měsíci +17

    My daughter has 1 leg I sent her this so she can see it's possible. She has only dated a female seriously and I Know it's because of insecurities. I Love your Podcast! Really hope she can see Value I received from All of you.
    I wish the 50 50 guy and this couple could have an episode on your show omg he would learn everything doesn't fit in that neat box! lol

    • @iyanayona5348
      @iyanayona5348 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Oh Ma'am, this touched me. May God touch her heart! Heal her and may she expand her pool to men from everywhere in this world. Godly and good ones.

  • @janelleshanakay
    @janelleshanakay Před 7 měsíci +58

    Both questions and answers were phenomenal in this episode!

  • @j.o.y_aliba
    @j.o.y_aliba Před 7 měsíci +11

    Idk if I am more proud of the guys for having them or them for staying true to each other!! This episode was pure bliss!!🙌

  • @joywilliams2061
    @joywilliams2061 Před 7 měsíci +10

    When you're challenged with bodily issues,,, it forces you to excell to the next logical level... and especially when you've discovered your purpose and keep Christ 1st, you automatically advance to your next level in a way to where people cant begin to fathom. Once you've done the personal work (within); you view most things thru a much different lense than others. This is such a dynamic couple,,, I totally get them and can completely understand their Godly union!

  • @sonjadf47
    @sonjadf47 Před 7 měsíci +9

    When a man moves with spiritual intentions, that’s when your wife will appear. But until then, you will get who you are and that’s why most marriages fail. There MUST be d a spiritual connection.

  • @mjohnson8206
    @mjohnson8206 Před 7 měsíci +11

    If God ain’t part of our foundation in relationships it ain’t gonna work

  • @cynthiahoyi3925
    @cynthiahoyi3925 Před 6 měsíci +6

    This was so beautiful to watch. I was actually talking to a girlfriend of mine and were talking about disappointments in business, friendship etc, and we forget that God had already gone before us and knows exactly what/who we need. I always pray exactly what Mayfair said, “God you know exactly who I will need in 5 years time, in 10, 15, 20…” that’s who/what I want! I’m so happy for this couple❤️❤️

  • @Rosegold.energy
    @Rosegold.energy Před 7 měsíci +11

    These are two very articulate people and shared very valuable ideas. This was so much better than I was expecting. Thank you

  • @gladyswambui1327
    @gladyswambui1327 Před 7 měsíci +7

    This is a God fearing couple, i honestly love them

  • @lorettaelliott4481
    @lorettaelliott4481 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Such a mature couple I Love their honest approach to everything

  • @NoduM2
    @NoduM2 Před 5 měsíci +2

    When they talk about relationship goals. This couple is it! Not the superficial relationships that we normally see which are not purpose based but are based on a esthetics and material.

  • @JJohns1980
    @JJohns1980 Před 7 měsíci +26

    I love that you guys did this interview. This is a couple I watch and their relationship inspires me because it’s proof that love and relationship is available to all as long as you are wanting it.

  • @Ifeoma999
    @Ifeoma999 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I love The Clements Family, I've been following them since they started on CZcams. ❤ I'm excited to see them on HI!!!!🙂🎉

  • @sandrawillis-curry6701
    @sandrawillis-curry6701 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I am amazed at the growth and spiritual alignment of this podcast and the young men leading it.WOW.
    I have gone from detesting you to ADMIRING YOUR EFFORTS AND TRANSFORMATION!

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Wow! This was so deep! I pray that God will send me a man that will align with my purpose! You definitely have to hear from God about your spouse! This was a testament to that for sure! This episode taught me that you truly have to know the soul of a person! He is kind and supportive?

  • @favouredone5558
    @favouredone5558 Před 7 měsíci +3

    The guests were excellent with the responses, but we must admit the questioning was the compass to this project.

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Před 7 měsíci +19

    I’m so proud of you both Tysean and Ryan! The growth is remarkable.

  • @cheyluv6256
    @cheyluv6256 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Love does not have barriers only if you make them… God bless this beautiful couple 🙏🏽💕

  • @tarnett331
    @tarnett331 Před 7 měsíci +10

    My take away was at 48:40-when you’re in a crisis find the possibility-find a community for support and doing the inter work for yourself-this could be therapy or finding that one thing that finds you joy-thanks for the words!

  • @simonerenee9919
    @simonerenee9919 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Such a beautiful interview...
    Really sweet, warm and you feel the love and respect radiating from this couple..
    Very encouraging also.
    And I have to say you guys are great interviewers, you guys listened and asked the right questions and really gave the interviewees space to just tell their stories..
    Beautiful...

  • @antoniajuddine203
    @antoniajuddine203 Před 7 měsíci +10

    I love this couple I have learned a lot from them. They are very blessed and a prime example of how a husband and wife should be with one another.

  • @cetraingram4378
    @cetraingram4378 Před 7 měsíci +9

    This not a love story it's a fact how Beautiful love is especially when it's sent from God the Clemens are the sweetest marriage couple I've ever seen

  • @itzmee_kisha4600
    @itzmee_kisha4600 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hey guys! The Clements sent me here. Although I have only been subscriber to the channel a short term . I’m so captivated by their love. The love Mayfair & Winston have for each other makes me further believe there is an actual thing as true love . They are so inspiring. This was a great episode it left no questions unanswered.

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 Před 7 měsíci +5

    This is a powerful conversation, some of us can really got to understand the Clements....thank you so much

  • @Sunshine-ye4xz
    @Sunshine-ye4xz Před 7 měsíci +8

    This has been one of the best episodes!!! Very healthy and inspiring!!! This is what is needed in order to make a change in this world!!!

  • @kenjones8139
    @kenjones8139 Před 6 měsíci +4

    A beautiful couple and a beautiful story and journey. God bless The Clements!

  • @ogbonnachioma1052
    @ogbonnachioma1052 Před 7 měsíci +5

    The clements are the best couple. Realistic but superb. Your teachings are so motivating nd a lesson to other couples❤🎉

  • @MsKibibeBailey
    @MsKibibeBailey Před 7 měsíci +3

    “We’re on the same team even in the trenches” love them. Beautiful couple, real powerful couple.

  • @Hiiyena
    @Hiiyena Před 6 měsíci +2

    Mayfair is a goddess and I’m so glad she met Winston - they give me hope. They remind me that there are still good people who love god, they’re not all nutty maga evangelical types out there. Can’t imagine them without each other and I appreciate all they do from the goodness of their hearts

  • @karonshelton3652
    @karonshelton3652 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I like how your questions and comments were respectful. What an amazing couple! Blessings to all.

  • @einnodandme
    @einnodandme Před 6 měsíci +2

    WOW! What an amazing couple. I so appreciate their faith in God and how they lean on and trust Him as their source and guidance in their marriage. Sharing their lives opens the door for others to see they too can have a fulfilling life when they approach relationships and marriage God’s way and not society’s way (the world’s way).

  • @aveese33
    @aveese33 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I enjoyed this interview C fam! ❤ so glad you two got the opportunity to express your love and wisdom on a different platform!

  • @rebeccabanda909
    @rebeccabanda909 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is really exceptional. God is good. God help me to listen to your voice in all I do. Help me never to be in conflict with your will for my life. God's plans are always beautiful in our lives no matter what!❤

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown Před 7 měsíci +4

    Commitment and intimacy are such a beautiful thing.

  • @eulaleecallun9750
    @eulaleecallun9750 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Love this couple n looove this conversation n the questions that were asked. Really wanted to understand without judgement. This has helped me so much. Thanks🙏🏽to the the Clements. Thank you too.

  • @jackiepeter4512
    @jackiepeter4512 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Fantastic! Awesome couple, real, honest and unapologetic. Love them so much 🎉

  • @carlottawilliams7267
    @carlottawilliams7267 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I really admire The Clements it's the kind of love I pray for everyday may God continue to bless them in there marriage.

  • @zinanguru1817
    @zinanguru1817 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Such an authentic and wholesome conversation

  • @godivabaker6622
    @godivabaker6622 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Such a beautiful couple and story! Y’all the G.O.A.T.s of Podcasting, because you all bring quality content and your guests offer practical solutions. Keep up the good work guys. 👍🏾

  • @latoyabasden4725
    @latoyabasden4725 Před 7 měsíci +1

    If love was a person. The level of EQ displayed here is both phenomenal and admirable.

  • @monicaarang7688
    @monicaarang7688 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This was a powerful interview. As someone who's entering marriage, I’ve learned so much from this conversation ❤❤❤

  • @lorinakers7934
    @lorinakers7934 Před 7 měsíci

    Powerful message. Love is...
    Importance of the daily support!

  • @sanyukyeyune6191
    @sanyukyeyune6191 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Very inspirational! Mrs. Clement you are indeed God sent. God made your paths cross for a good reason and i believe that all shall be well with you as you continue to put God first in this relationship.

  • @melomelody7349
    @melomelody7349 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This was so beautiful and encouraging . ❤ thank you so much

  • @mariefpaul1875
    @mariefpaul1875 Před 7 měsíci

    Am heading to work and yes I will be listening to you guys while taking care of the babies.
    Thank you so much for sharing your story.❤❤❤❤

  • @BrittnePtheBestGirl
    @BrittnePtheBestGirl Před 6 měsíci +1

    I absolutely love how they look at each other!!!? It's beautiful 😍

  • @shaffronbyyourstruly7512
    @shaffronbyyourstruly7512 Před 7 měsíci +7

    This was so good and a much needed conversation!! ❤What is truly important when you finally find love and what is not!

  • @melissasmakeup8202
    @melissasmakeup8202 Před 7 měsíci

    These are EXCELLENT for those getting back in shape...but his eyes and smile...ohhhh my goodness.. beautiful..kinda hypnotizing...yay

  • @amandariley6946
    @amandariley6946 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Love the Clements! Ya’ll got a new subscriber here. Keep on doing the good work, our community needs this🙌🏽

  • @patriciapadgett3715
    @patriciapadgett3715 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Wow! What Ana amazing interview. Powerful couple. Thank you guys for having them on your show.
    God Bless you the more…

  • @user-yn2bx4tl6x
    @user-yn2bx4tl6x Před 7 měsíci +1

    Such an awesome conversation it’s very inspiring thanks again HI

  • @MsEbony-pl7bi
    @MsEbony-pl7bi Před 6 měsíci +2

    I watch them they are wonderful! Blessings guys ❤

  • @schandrikawilliams2792
    @schandrikawilliams2792 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Two of my favorite people ❤. I can listen to their story again and again 💜❤️♥️🙏🙏🙏Huge Fan 😊

  • @royalndebele-1
    @royalndebele-1 Před měsícem

    Heavy on emotional protection…100 per cent correct. Intelligent couple right there .

  • @juliaboyle1200
    @juliaboyle1200 Před 7 měsíci +1

    That was phenomenal and very humbling. It was eye opening and gives a different perspective to what society perceives as normal.

  • @2020daniella
    @2020daniella Před 7 měsíci

    What beautiful people with beautiful souls. Great love story!! May God continue to lead you and bless you. May you both continue to listen to God.

  • @bigelowkaryn
    @bigelowkaryn Před 6 měsíci +1

    Loved this interview. They have a beautiful love and friendship, and I love hearing their story as people of faith. I’m going to follow their channel

  • @W.I.F.E
    @W.I.F.E Před 7 měsíci

    So much wisdom!! I love it!! Another great episode!!!!

  • @apoetsdaughter
    @apoetsdaughter Před 7 měsíci +1

    I LOVE THIS PODCAST AND SPACE!!! ANOINTED 🙌🏼

  • @aishagreen5638
    @aishagreen5638 Před 6 měsíci

    Great couple. Enjoyed the questions that were asked and their responses! Praying that God will continue to bless their marriage

  • @charlenejones7874
    @charlenejones7874 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I have admired listening to this beautiful couple. God is amazing that they see each other as individuals.. Love the story. I will be following them for sure. Happy Holidays Holidays

  • @faith2faithconnections448
    @faith2faithconnections448 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Love that term destiny helpers! Congratulations to you both ❤

  • @melanatedandlovingit1305
    @melanatedandlovingit1305 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love these two ppl right here....Well done Winston and Mayfair ❤

  • @julietliving1016
    @julietliving1016 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Followed from the early quieter days😊So glad to see you both growing together in your unified truth and making sure the Creator is foremost in everything. Good lessons!There is so much we can achieve...

  • @chiquataelder
    @chiquataelder Před 7 měsíci +3

    Although, I love and find some much value in the content and people who have been on your platform, this has to be one of the best episodes ever. So much rich information that can help everyone move forward in allowing God to send you your purpose partner.

  • @patricialee7919
    @patricialee7919 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I love the Clements Im subscribed & a person Patreon member ..Interesting that I've learnt so much more about them today than before .Thanks for being so open & honest .I already know you love & adore each other and you have a fantastic relationship ❤️ Great interview guys Xxx

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements Před 7 měsíci +1

      So much love Patricia, thanks for your immense support 🤍

  • @shirleydavis5060
    @shirleydavis5060 Před 7 měsíci

    I truly believe the two of them going into life coaching helped their personal development & has helped with marriage now. This is FANTASTIC!!!!❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington3288 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I think we have forgotten God instituted marriage with that being said God doesn’t see or think like humans. Marriage is a spiritual task. The looks and money doesn’t matter to God… the marriage has to give God The Glory. God looks at heart of a man and woman 👏🙂

  • @AuntieCheri
    @AuntieCheri Před 7 měsíci +1

    Their vibe is AMAZING!

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 Před 7 měsíci

    I follow them❤
    Good to see them come through for this interview🎉😊

  • @RassyV
    @RassyV Před 7 měsíci +2

    This is beautiful to watch,i follow their Channel..Lovely couple ❤️

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy Před 6 měsíci +1

    “I had to partner with God, clear out the nose, and listen in my heart, because he knows where I’m going to be in 5 years, in 20 .. and who is right for the journey.”

  • @keelhe893
    @keelhe893 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I am glad to have heard this interview. I never heard of this family prior to this interview’s announcement. I love how Mayfair is very gentle and feminine. Many black women are assumed to lack submission and gentleness but Mayfair shows that this is not true

    • @coloursof-autumn8650
      @coloursof-autumn8650 Před 6 měsíci

      Such a weird thing for say. She’s Zimbabwean which is a very deeply patriarchal and conservative society. They literally teach young girls do submit to men even to their own detriment.

  • @wandamoore9582
    @wandamoore9582 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This was an excellent episode! Everyone on the podcast represented themselves very well! Great questions gentlemen! I look forward to each podcast! Keep up the excellent work!🎊🎊

  • @ammcgowan
    @ammcgowan Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you. This was EXCELLENT!!!

  • @Lifeisagift7
    @Lifeisagift7 Před 6 měsíci

    Love the Clements. Real Heaven Sent True love. ❤🙏

  • @VershyTheQueen
    @VershyTheQueen Před 6 měsíci +1

    This truly is a beautiful interview especially because I am truly following Christ.
    It goes to show that there are so many levels of faith and trust in the Lord.
    For me personally I wouldn’t have ever though my future husband could be in a wheel chair personally.
    I have always stated that I have no problem being with someone blind, deaf, hearing impaired, walked with a limp, or even had like 1 arm or 1 leg things like that.
    But to her extent no. And it truly does make you wonder if you are shallow.
    I really appreciate this video and I hope more people appreciate it as well

  • @Barnyard-sunlight
    @Barnyard-sunlight Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm too excited to watch this one!!!

  • @5rgyyuyrgg
    @5rgyyuyrgg Před 2 měsíci

    I believe,
    That in a certain way everyone has some form of disability because no one on this earth is perfect!

  • @Honeyluvssteph
    @Honeyluvssteph Před 7 měsíci

    Whew the nuggets!!! COMMUNICATION IS KEY!

  • @zenobiathedream3103
    @zenobiathedream3103 Před 7 měsíci +3

    This was outstanding❤

  • @tecon2
    @tecon2 Před měsícem

    First time here and I really enjoyed the conversation. Very great coples .