Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas
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- čas přidán 7. 01. 2023
- Why I went looking for a wife overseas is a question I got asked often in the states. It's not always opening talked about amongst friends, family or coworkers. Looking for a wife abroad seems to still be a very miss understood topic.
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I'm a western woman and I can say that I can fully understand why you married her! :-) The reasons you bring forth are very understandable and not too shallow. I feel that dating in western cultures has become so grotesque with traditional values and real love, kindness and genuine interest in the other person have become rare!
Sad but true. I like opening her car door and paying for meals. Those things shouldn’t be taken offensively.
American Women are Psychologically programmed to be Anti-Family and not reproduce.
As a result, many American women are not acceptable to traditional family oriented men.
I met my wife in Canada 9 years ago and I feel like I won the lottery. When I started looking for a relationship at that time I guesstimated I would have to go on 100 first dates to find the right one. I got “lucky” although I feel like it was destiny.
Great Comment.
Wow... You are in the VAST Minority of NA White Women today. Carry the message to your gender. They are lost and Losing Everything globally. Women are WONDERFUL... When they are REAL WOMEN. Not what they think they have evolved into today due to Media and Propaganda.
I'm with you brother, I was married to two USA women. I moved to Mexico and married a Latina with traditional values and never been happier.
I believe that!
I was married once and she divorced me after 24 years supposedly for being too strict with our son. So far he’s turning out to be a wonderful young man with great values. Didn’t realize at the moment the favor she was doing me but after a few months of being away from her toxic behavior It finally dawned on me. Never been happier and wish I could thank her but don’t want to be near negative and toxic individuals so I’ll never thank her I guess.
Hopefully my next companion can appreciate the simple things in life, like companionship, good conversation, experiencing new foods, watching Netflix, sleeping in at times, reading a book on a beach,and traveling together. I’m going to enjoy life while still young and not worry about working. I’m 47 years young, plus young at heart, full of energy and most importantly much much wiser.
Let's just call it what it is. You married a Mexican. I, as a Mexican man, get offended, as do the majority of Mexicans, when ppl refer to us as latinos. We are Mexican.
@@ibiscar06 Lo siento, when I first met my beautiful Mexican she referred to herself as an emotional Latina, so that's what I went with. Mexican people are the best, however some Mexican men mistreat their wives and girlfriends allowing us gringos to come in and treat them right.
@@pacopeso8474 😄😄 no hard feelings taken though. And it happens with any man from anywhere, to be honest. I did live it with my step-dad, he was Mexican too though lol. But yes I get you. My wife is from San Luis, and love that she still has alot of "old school" values. While still being "modern" as a 38 year old.
Kevin Samuels; "men want a woman that is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative", pretty much sums it up.
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What's wrong with this? - czcams.com/video/vD261yN02qo/video.html
@Sinon Gild and so will you and I one day. On a long enough time line everyones survival rate it zero. So why poke fun at the fate that you will one day face yourself.
@Sinon Gild Yeah, because crazy bitches drive them to an early grave.
Men don want woke & non-loyal & non-faithful & women that have the atty of women don’t need a man & especially women who think it’s the man’s sole job to take care of said wife & really they don’t want American women who have been groomed get what ya can from him leave him get half start over with richer better looking younger or man with exciting title & do it all again when I the woman get tired of said man cause I get bored with men & in time they stop spoiling me like they did in beginning & I have a vag & I can flaunt it get what I want. Men tired of all that
This man is speaking 100% facts. It might offend some women but he is correct
time to give her the thing she was born for, a child
It's going to offend a LOT of women in the US 😂
They are going to call him names, and so on..
The truth is offensive to American women.
if they were offended they are those negative things
Well, maybe for US. In Europe there are great girls, so I do not think this is western culture problem in general.
It's beautiful how respectfully they speak to each other.
Thank you
Feminine, fit, friendly and traditional always wins.
You won't find that in the West. Good luck simps.
@@monk4ever you find it where you find it,
Even though all women are the same, partnership can be beneficial if the laws on your state allows it.
@Scandinaven lol bros cut because he's stuck with the obese untraditional high standard unloyal beasts in west. While my guy did the smart thing move to Philippines for a simple life and a loving partner
This is literally all any man can want in a woman.
Trophy wives then...okay...what does Traditional even mean apart from being a man's chef, maid and nanny for the children whilst married??? Jesus...
You're living a dream, my friend! Truly happy for and slightly envious of you haha! The way she looks at you, the way she's constantly touching you, massaging you, laughing at your jokes, kind, humble, appreciative - this is the type of woman every man dreams of! All the best to you both!
I live a life I don’t need to vacation from
I married a Filipina girl after knowing her for only 2 weeks. We will shortly be celebrating our 38th anniversary. At the time of our marriage, my wife looked very similar to your wife but after 38 years she is not quite as fit as your spouse. And the same goes for me also. However I do not regret for a minute my hasty decision to marry her because she is everything that any reasonable man would want in a life partner. Thanks for your story.
Wow, that’s a great comment. Thank you for taking the time to leave it. Happy you found that right person like I did!
"Feminine, fit, friendly, and traditional." Amen to that.
Indeed! Shout out to Kevin Samuels
A new form of slavery comin' right up!
@hej hopp gg I most certainly am. I am a fit, athletic, traditional man. I provide for, lead, and protect my family.
But doesnt work?
@randall-flaggthat's exactly what I want, it is Shame that sex robot are not as good yet
Just seeing her looks and the way she treats you is enough to understand why someone would go oversees for love.
Great comment 👍🏻
you mean that look in her eyes where she realizes her new man doesn't really have any money? 🤣
love?? hahah wake up. its all about money
They try to keep as many male as they can overseas women are faithful to God 😂
@ItsMe_Philippines now i want a filipina girl, the way she's looking at you tell us everything, SHE IS THE ONE
I am in tears. Tears of joy and hope, to be clear. You both are such great people and I am so happy for you! The way you treat each other is... it just blows my mind. I don't think I have ever commented on a CZcams video before but I really feel the need to. I found your channel this morning and have just spent probably 3 hours watching your videos. I was smiling for most of all of them. And this one I finally broke when you told the birthday food story.
I have had a few serious and a few short-term relationships in the U.S. and none of them were genuinely satisfying. None. I was with a Turkish girl for 6 years, mostly long-distance except when I was living short term in Istanbul or she flew to Chicago (she got a job at Emirates Airline to be able to come see me more). I loved her so much but things didn't work out and I ended what was the best relationship I ever had.
I have been all over the world, and all over the U.S. and find that you are spot on with your assessment. Having been generally stuck in the U.S. since 2019 when my relationship ended, I have become so lonely - for many reasons. I have begun to think about how and when I am going to move to Portugal, or Bali, or the Philippines. All great places, but the weight of your honesty just pushed me much further toward the Philipines because I am at a point where love like this is a priority for me.
Anyway... I didn't mean for this comment to be about me, I meant for it to be about how much hope you brought me. The love you have for each other is very inspiring and I thank you so much for sharing your stories and experiences.
Great comment, and thank you for tsking the time to write it. As far as what country to look in, I would look at them based on religion if that's important to you.
@JesseExplores YES my friend! You need my boss in your life. JESUS IS MY BOSS.
Ask JESUS to come into your life, accept him as your personal savior. Amen.
You will be ready to follow JESUS with your new family. 🙏🙏🕗🕗
Materialistic is really what western what i hate about western ladies.
I love the cats patrolling
and taking turn keeping the house safe.
They like to eat the lizards lol
Been married to a Filipina 25 years, brought her to the US. Now we're planning to retire to the PH. The very reasons you spoke of are so true. The main reason I chose the Philippines was faithfulness of your partner. My first wife wasn't, I have never felt more love then from my PH wife and never worried about such things from her. Thanks for letting the world know why are wife's are from there.
Great comment
Amen brother clearly is important to them not quite sure if I can retire their but it is trending that way just gotta find the football channel but hey you don’t need a loan for carton of eggs so it’s got potential
Just the way she looks at him when he’s talking about people arguing with him about not choosing someone local, her hand on his shoulder almost sharing his pain. That’s real empathy for your partner. Beautiful couple. Real Love.
Thank you!
Great job, guys! Spot on, America has changed a lot in the past few decades. Love the videos, keep them coming, please. You got your perfect 10! Job well done, Sir!
Thank you!
You are living the dream, Sir! Good for you.
Yes I am and thank you!
Been married to a Filipina for 27 years and loved every minute of it.. She enjoys our marriage just as much as I do.
I believe that
My 18 year marriage I can't say the same. Congrats on your Happiness.
Just curious about one thing: are you guys going 50/50 on finances or are you the sole provider for the family?
@ninuska2010 I hear crickets so you know what's up!😂
@@nihongochopsocky808 See, this is the thing that man are missing (THE MAIN THING) - as long as a woman is provided for, meaning, she doesn't work outside of the home (if she doesn't want to or have to) she will have TIME AND ENERGY to pour into her family, and she will make pampering her husband, house and her children her PRIORITY because that's the only job she has lol (which is very different from women who also have to work to help their husband pay the bills, put them through school, pay off certain debts, help finance the children and household etc). It's easy to be a good, 'submissive', traditional woman who's completely devoted to family when your husband retires you from work - and I say that as an import bride, because I am one of those women, so I know what I'm talking about lol (I moved from Eastern Europe to live as a housewife in Germany)
Don't ever apologise mate, telling the truth always offend the weak minded and those that are sensitive. I agree with you 1000% I am a western man (Australian) and I had my share of partners over the years (white women) and I got sick and tired of being treated poorly, cheated on, dis-respected and so on. I found out that many Asian women possess traditional values, were respectful and caring and looked after their men as long as you took care of them also. I ended up marrying one 23 years ago and we are still together with two grown daughters. I met my wife here in Australia back in 1999 and I had never been to the Filipines until 2018, a full 19 years after we first met. We are like any other couple, we disagree on things, sometimes argue when we see things differently and we also love each other regardless of those differences. One thing I learned very early on was to respect her culture, food choices and their love of gathering with their friends etc. I never stopped her from being who she is and she did the same for me. Perfect match. I will tell you that some of the white women I used to be in relationships with I still know today, friends on FB etc but none of them seem very happy to this day. They seem to treat men like crap, and wonder why they are still single all these years. They explain that all men are bad but cannot see they are the cause of their own loneliness. I actually feel bad for them but it makes me glad that I made the decision to marry an Asian woman. I am very happy and content now.
Good it worked out for you, but American/western men don’t all have to look overseas. There are many many Asian women in their own countries who moved and already have citizenship, and still have traditional family values. 11 years ago I married a Chinese woman from Luoyang, who already was an Am. citizen for 7 yrs. Happy and no probs. 🐉🐲🐉👍🏻
I believe many American women have become their own worst enemy, b/c of their attitudes of entitlement & to demanding of their men even when just dating. Or at least that what I gather from All the videos on you tube, & Instagram that I've watched.
Shane Derives no
Only simps apologize. I'm happy the USA is filled with passport bros. Bunch of overweight, entitled, loud-mouth vvomen in the USA. Gross. Just gross.
Yep. Hook up culture is shocking in Australia and everyone disposes of each other at the drop of a hat
great to see everyone in the comments section so understanding and supportive
you guys make a lovely couple
99.9% of the people, yes. Quite a few western women have less nasty comments and I politely explain to them why good men leave the country.
Love the content, love your relationship, could you share a place I should visit. Finding this special person is important to me. Thanks
Great job tip toeing around not trying to hurt American women's feelings, that is very admirable of you. Now, let me go book a flight to Manilla right now!
I have to be cautious, or I will be removed from CZcams. But I would highly recommend a flight!
This really makes me sad to realize how much our society in the US is falling apart and it keeps getting worse every day. Great video.
Thank you and I wish my topics were not real
The US started to fall apart once they allowed feminazis to take the vote without the draft. Since then it's only gone downhill. The final nail in the coffin was affirmative action for women in the workforce. Female hypergamy=never settling when you make more than men for less work.
Make no mistake, unless females recognize their role in the destruction of society and try to reverse the downfall and take accountability for their bullshit, the West is fucked.
Hopefully, it will be an eye-opener for many western women over here. They have to stop thinking they are the center of attention when it comes to relationships. I got married 12 years ago to a Filipina woman and am a very fulfilled and happy man.
@@kingmate1 It won't' be an eye opener for them, they will never take accountability
Applied for my passport … can’t wait to visit the Philippines
This is why I married an African women who was born and raised in West Africa. We meet when she was here in the states on a student visa. Now at 14 years of marriage and still an amazing marriage. All the same things you listed go for a lot of African women as well.
Nice!
Well NOT all of them.. if they are here early in life long enough they become americanized and TOXIC just like women born here...
I just married a woman from Ghana 3 weeks ago. Her nephew works at General Motors with me and 2 years ago I asked him if he had a cousin or something that was single and childless. After 2 years of communication we tied the knot.
@@raygreen7628 Congrats!
Good for you happiness is a must
She is a perfect wife ! Pretty, petite, funny and so friendly.. and she has cats... 😀Congratulations ! Must be hard to find one like this...
Agreed
Very cool video. I, fortunately, found in the states what you found there. I had pretty much the same list I wanted in a wife. 35 years and four grown children later we are very happy and have grown tremendously. Thank you for the video.
Good stuff
When you said that your wife would rather buy toys for other people on Christmas rather than receive a gift, that made her even more attractive. You are blessed for finding someone with a heart like that. I think I will be looking afar for a wife. Thanks!
If I only had the money & resources to travel.! I'm missing out on So much. Especially a great gf!
Too much empathy is not always good
@@MrBUGS713 True. Look at the simps.
The algorithm is actively trying to convince me to divorce my American wife. I’ve no idea why these videos keep popping up in my recommended.
@@ghost_machine_0111 😂😂
This has to be one of the best videos I have come across. Everything you have said is absolutely true. Traditional values is had to find in the western world these days. You hit it right on the nail.
From a friendly New Zealander
Thank you, my friend and you live in a beautiful country!
I'm comparing the Philippines and New Zealand actually... I know NZ is relatively westernized and shares many of the same problems in dating as the US but I do also love the culture and people, there's good jobs there in my field of VFX and was thinking maybe since there's a large Asian and Maori population that maybe just focusing more on women from those cultures would be enough to find some of the qualities I'm looking for. Plus I'm American so hopefully that would help me stand out. Is this a pipe dream you think or naw? I just worry that the Philippines would be such a massive culture shock and that I'd have a harder time finding a school to put the kids, I'm concerned about the fact that I couldn't own property whereas NZ there's strong property rights, and also NZ seems safer and there's no language barrier at all... Thoughts?
@@hipreference Trout fishing 🎣 about the only thing that appeals to me regarding new Zealand...
That and cheap lamb 🐑🥩
*Crap Game*
@@hipreferenceRegarding your concerns, I'd say New Zealand is your best bet. This coming from someone who was born and raised in the PH now living in California for over a decade. For me one of the biggest letdown in the PH as a foreigner is not being able to own a property. Culture wise New Zealand seems like halfway in between the US and the PH so should be a better choice for you.
@@ninja.saywhat Thanks for your insight. Seems like at the very least, even though it is a bit more modern and Westernized than a lot of Southeast Asia, the people are still super chill and laid back which I like. Plus how do you not fall in love the Māori culture? It’s also very safe and peaceful. If I want to give my kids the best opportunities and a safe environment it seems like a good middle ground. I’m even happy to leave the do open to them immigrating to the US but America just has so many problems right now, namely with the culture wars and this admin dragging us into a proxy war with Russia that it seems to be an empire on the decline. I don’t want my family in the line of fire, I just gotta go. Seems like New Zealand 🇳🇿 could be one of the last bastions of civilization, safe and protected away from any major conflicts or world affairs, seemingly neutral like Switzerland.
This is how we make America Great! I am happy for the both of you.
lol true
Great video!
First time watching your channel. I have liked and subscribed and look forward to seeing all of you videos.
Thank you!
Values, values, values! You stated them well, and no one can dispute you!
I wish you guys well!
Thank you!
And then the offspring is spoiled by western poison as well.. We NEED to FIX the WEST!
My sister-in-law is a Filipina. My brother (after two unhappy marriages with modern American women) is now living a totally blissful and happy life.
I just came across your channel. You are very correct on your reasoning on the traditional values. I'm coming in 3 days from central Illinois. Will definitely catch up on your channel during the flight. Congratulations to both of you
Thank you and we moved here from just outside of Chicago. What island are you heading to?
@@ItsMe_Philippines flying to Manila. Will be there a couple days. Then to Batangas and Naga. I'm in Champaign Illinois now
This is the first time I am watching your channel. The two of you react so beautifully together. The way you treat each other is fantastic. You are very lucky to have her. On the other hand, she is very lucky to have you. You are a pleasure to watch. Thank you for your video.
Thank you!
My fiance is in Cebu going to school. I asked her what she wanted for Christmas. She proceeded to tell me that whatever amount I was going to spend on her is the amount she would spend on the street children...because they have very little. So I sent her the funds and she in turn purchased food for a dozen or more children and people on the street and with help of a few friends they made up sacks of food and handed them out. That touched my heart like never before. She has a heart of gold and always thinking of others before herself. I am a very lucky man to have found a woman like her.
Yes, you are my friend, so hold onto her
Wow
After many years of trying to fix a broken marriage in the USA, I divorced and retired to Mexico. Where I found a completely different view of relationships. I had never opened my eyes to the difference of Women in the USA and foreign Women.
I am happier for the many reasons you speak of here.
Thank you and appreciate the positive comment
I stumbled upon this video by chance, I am also someone who is dating a person from south america and I am from Europe, I love languages and learning languages and meet her on a language exchange app, I was not actively searching a foreigner, but I have to admit that from my dating experience previously and now it is true about more traditional values etc... Its been the best experience so far.
I also want to say that you strike me as a very honest and nice person with very good values and your wife is gorgeous, I wish you two all the best.
Great to hear you found something similar to what I have and thank you for the compliment.
I just watched your video for the first time, and let me tell you, you two are absolutely amazing! You're dynamic and beauty are truely awe-inspiring, both inside and out. As someone who prides themselves on being a critical analyst, I can honestly say that I have nothing but appreciation for what you both bring to the table. It's clear to see the admiration in the girl's eyes as she looks at the guy, and the way they touch each other and express their emotions is just beautiful. I would love to hear more from the girl and hear her perspective because she clearly has a clever imagination and her expressions are so captivating. The accents only add to the exotic appeal of it all, especially when it comes to second language applications. You're a very lucky man, and I genuinely believe that the girl has the potential to become one of the best people in the world. Thank you for sharing this incredible moment, I must admit I'm getting a bit emotional. Oh, and I forgot to mention that I actually lived in the Philippines and had a girlfriend there, so everything you said about it resonates with me deeply. I'm currently in Thailand, but after watching your video, I'm compelled to go back to the Philippines. Lastly, do you have any plan to enhance the universe with some children? The new world will need grown children who are taught about what you both speak and also about the changing dynamic and the need to educate about finances/stocks/gold/crypto...again thank you.
Great comment, thank you. You should really visit soon my friend.
she is so adorable. he tries to be serious while she laughs and has fun the entire time. the kidding back and forth was the most instructive part of the video
We have a blast together lol
@@ItsMe_Philippines hahaha. It really looks like it. You try to convey the info while she watches butterfly's and pesters you
They laugh at small things. I was at my wife's brother's Christmas party, they were having fun just playing board games and singing karaoke. A better way to put it, is they are as simple to content as a small child when they play outside.
@@kingmate1 God that last sentence is both true and deeply creepy.
@@kingmate1 hi! I agree. He actually comments more or less 3 comments. And it’s sound so negative. He can not actually understand “Happiness “. It looks like his not happy in his life right now. That’s why he commented like that. Most people.. in my experience and observations, if they are genuinely happy inside- they always express happiness- with there words. Or there opinions.It’s really sad.. but hoping someone will touch his heart and soul so he knows how to acknowledge happiness to other people..
I married my wife 19 years ago. She's Vietnamese. I guess I was a passport bro before it had a name. I too am from Illinois, Rockford. I relate completely to your story. I thought things were tough dating wise 19 years ago, I can only imagine how hard it is now. We're considering retiring in Vietnam. Good luck you two. Continue to be inspirational to those who are tired
Things are so bad now that there is a huge movement of men going over seas for love and family. The sad part is the western women are only doubling down on feminism and all the things that repulse men causing even more to leave for over seas.
I love it since it means the men are learning “you can keep a family but you must go overseas where traditional women still thrive.
Many good women for marriage in Viet Nam. Sai Gon, section 4, 2000.
The Environment here in the West. Makes it very difficult for any Women to love a man in the west. Although I do understand there are many variables to this problem. The best alternative I am seeing though is leaving. Western Women are addicts to social media. Case Closed.
Anything is better than Illinois & California I’ll take the remote island over that
I live in Vietnam now. I don't think I would retire here...at least not if the country is continuing down this path. But maybe in 30 years when I retire, Things may be better
Hi Cory and Rachel. I accidentally happened upon your video and felt compelled to thank you both for it, send you good wishes and encouragement. Cory, I totally get and understand what you are saying. This is definitiely a sensitive and controversial topic in North America. The way in which you were so careful, polite and diplomatic in expressing your thoughts made me think that you were actually a Canadian (no offense intended against Americans). To have a wife like Rachel would make me the luckiest and most appreciative man in the world.
I have now "liked" and "subscribed" to your YT, Insta and TikTok channels because you appear to be a delightful couple, and I look forward to watching more of your videos.
I am also considering sharing your video with another filipina vlogger I am acquainted with. Wishing you both much happiness. Cheers.
Brian, thank you for that positive comment and happy to hear you agree with me. Sad, but things are not going great in the dating market back in the west. Thins have changed over the years.
You two seem very happy together! And your cats are patrolling in the background! Good for you two!!!
lol
Man you made your choices and you explained them well without being rude or vulgar. If some people take offense with your presentation and make inappropriate comments as a result then they simply reinforce your decisions as being correct for you (and many other western men BTW).
Thank you very much. We actually recorded it three times and explained facts and statistics.... knew it was to much for some people and redid it.
@@ItsMe_Philippines Heck the last thing you will ever have to worry about is what some people stateside think of you. Just inhale and look around you.
@@zorbakaput8537 Think I’ll make a CZcams short soon responding to the negative people. I’ll be in my hammock over my pool. While my wife serves me pineapples in a bikini. I’m sure you will see how stressed I am on my face. 😊
@@ItsMe_Philippines doooo ittttt hahaha I love it bro give the haters something to hate 😂😂😂
I made the same decision 30 years ago for the same reasons. Still happily married.
I agree with you 100%. I was married to an American girl for 5yrs, what a nightmare that was. She was such a spoiled brat, expected to be treated like a princess. Now I'm engaged to a cute, petite Filipina. Sweetest person I've ever met in my life! Can't wait to marry her!!!!
Congrats my friend!
Oh I'm so sure that she clips your toenails and scrubs your feet every freaking mate too and does everything you ask her to do you know just like your mommy used to
congrats!
Good for you, my man!!! I can totally understand why! You are doing the right thing regardless of the controversy. She is gorgeous bro.
Thank you very much and I can tell you that I am 100% happy and so is she. At the end of the day, that’s all that matters!
@ItsMe_Philippines Absolutely, my friend. I don't fault you one bit. I have friends who are married to girls from the Philippines. They are super happy. I thought about it in the past till I met my American wife. Life is way too short to not take the chance to find happiness..
I will say that I just found your page and I will say that you do your videos very professionally and I appreciate that. So many videos on CZcams from the Philippines or Thailand has some stupid beginning music or graphics that are dumb, unrelated to the video, or completely unneeded. Or the worst thing is people who ask in the 1st 0 seconds of a video to like and subscribe. It like the waiters or waitresses who run to your table 10 seconds after you got your food and say how's the meal. I was a police officer so I am very blunt, I always answer with a smile and say "I'll let you know after I take a bite. It's like how about i watch the video and if it's good I'll like and maybe subscribe. Great video.
Thank you, appreciate the positive comment.
1000% agree with you on everything...especially the traditional values. Women from the states seem to think everything is just a game.
Married in Malaysia and couldn't be happier with my beautiful, sweet, traditional wife. (Who also agrees with her opinions as well 😉)
Perfect! Good for you! We want to visit Malaysia this year.
@@user-nq5hn2gx1v I had plenty of options of people willing to settle down with me, but none of them could meet my standards. Again, you should make assumptions.
@@user-nq5hn2gx1v you’re way off base and I’m not sure where your negativity is coming from. I settle down with my wife when I was 34 and we’ve been together since. But the fact is your completely inaccurate when most women in my age bracket or the age bracket of 34 have not settle down and majority are single.
But all in all your a dodging, and avoiding my question. I couldn’t find what I was looking for in my country and that’s why I wouldn’t stay with anyone. I looked at broad and found what I was looking for. Reason for your negativity on me being happy?
I’m sorry but even in the Philippines traditional values are rare. Among the poor it’s very much a tribal survival mindset.
My wife is very religious. That’s where her traditional values come from. Her cousins and other family are not and you see a very different picture
Agree with everything you two shared. Married my Filipina wife 17 years ago and moved her to the US. We're working on our own 5 year plan to retire in Cebu.
Congrats my friend! Cebu is a great location
I like how you’re trying to not offend people lol. Thanks for being honest. Great stuff
Thank you and they got offended anyways lol
I am writing from Western Europe and completely understand your perspectives and values. It's inspiring to see your success.
Thank you!
The reaction I get from women here is mostly “why not find a woman here, you obviously are not desperate” and I just say because I found a woman that has the values I look for in a relationship and appreciates my values as a good man. Being in my late 20s women here mostly just want a guy who will go rave, party and be toxic (or else you are boring). Oh and to be “woke” to try changing people’s life and ways of thinking.
I had the same question asked to me. And I always just told him the truth and they just didn’t like it.
@@ItsMe_Philippines I would love to come to the Phillipines one day to find love is there any good advice you can tell me?
@@Will.Flavell Buy your ticket now and plan a trip. Don't talk about bettering your life, take actions!
@@ItsMe_Philippines that’s great advice just go with the flow.
Those whamin here call you "desperate" to shame you because they KNOW they're rotten, selfish, cruel and materialistic and that fact that you are looking elsewhere REMINDS them of that fact, and they hate you for it.
Never apologize for what you want. If others don’t understand or agree with your needs, then that’s their issue, not yours. So glad you both are happy and in love! Best wishes to you both. Thanks for sharing your views and thoughts.
I appreciate that
I'm happy for both of you, pal! What a lovely woman, honestly. Here in the UK, immigration policies are getting tougher, but I do everything to be somewhat less tied geographically to my business so I can move around for romance. The government will not hold me back. Thanks for the inspiration and I'm sending my best wishes!
Thank you!
What I especially like about this is the honesty. We should be able to talk about these reasons.
Agreed
Congratulations, she is lovely! Marrying my Vietnamese wife is the best thing I ever did. Considering the awful cultural shift going on in America today its even harder to find a great lady.
Thank you!
I would say the rise of narcissism in the US is a contributing factor on why it's so tough to find a caring mate. Marriage should be based on selflessness, not selfishness.
Great comment
Dude the obese women with kids who think a dude like me is somehow beneath them is like wtf, how.
I have to agree with either male, female etc. I feel like I'm living in twilight zone. Everyone is out for themselves and it's always about me, me, me. And in the States they judge your character, self worth by the car you drive, your house money etc pretty disgusting.
@@sarakelleher3590 are you sure that's not just what you're attracted to in men? Good men are pretty common in america. Theres so many studies showing this it's hard to take you seriously. Theres a reason the men are the ones looking outside the us and not the women. Every case I've seen the woman was just insane preferences gets hurt by a meme guy over and over then cant find someone to settle for when shes aging. Cuz now the guys are figuring out what a rotten deal it is to settle for another guys leftover who wont treat him half as good.
Happy for you man. I would've loved if you also dived into the challenges of looking for a wife overseas and marrying someone with a different background and culture
That’s actually a great comment and idea for a future video. Thank you, I’ll put that together
This woman is a gem. I love that she thinks about other people so much - also philipina women are so humble and sweet, I live in romania currently because I came to live here with my Romanian fiancee who I have been in a relationship for 4 years. Here ițve been to university and had the fortune of meetin philipino women - they are literally the most easygoing and sweet people. I think its also because they live near the equator (same as colombia) haha, i think the tropical just brings out the best out of people. Its just a breath of fresh air. Life is beautiful. Best wishes to you both.
Thank you for that comment and happy you found someone as well
I was married once and she divorced me after 24 years supposedly for being too strict with our son. So far he’s turning out to be a wonderful young man with great values. Didn’t realize at the moment the favor she was doing me but after a few months of being away from her toxic behavior It finally dawned on me. Never been happier and wish I could thank her but don’t want to be near negative and toxic individuals so I’ll never thank her I guess.
Hopefully my next companion can appreciate the simple things in life, like companionship, good conversation, experiencing new foods, watching Netflix, sleeping in at times, reading a book on a beach,and traveling together. I’m going to enjoy life while still young and not worry about working. I’m 47 years young, plus young at heart, full of energy and most importantly much much wiser.
The excuse for divorcing you will never be based on reality, but rather based on the figment of her imagination. Sounds like she did you a favor. Like you, I think I would have sacrificed my own happiness, for the sake of having my two sons grow under a traditional marriage. However, when our spouses filed for divorce, we had no choice. The decision was unilaterally made. Now, we can rejoice in having taken the high ground, we're free of the toxic relationship. Our son(s) adore us, and we've moved on to better relationship prospects. Not that I'm in a new relationship, but I'm excited about what the future might bring given all I have to offer. Stay strong, my brother.
@@SergioPerez-qf1mb
Wow! Thank you for your kind words. So true my son and daughter have stated how much they miss “our family” and we’ve bonded even more. Quite the opposite of what the ex-wife wanted. She even tried to turn them against me. Not only that but falsely alleged I hit her and called the cops. Fortunately, it was all on video and when the officer began to ask me if I ever feared for my life or felt in danger I took the high road and didn’t pursue charges against her. After all, the outcome via courts was awesome no child support nor spousal maintenance, I keep my retirement 100% and only had to pay her $5,299.50 after her and her attorney were trying to extort me for $185K. So here I am enjoying myself, retirement in the not so distant future and completely 100% debt free and I mean COMPLETELY debt free!!! Life is beautiful. Thank you once again.
Strict is word that’s vast in meaning I’m like you strict was good for me & many my generation much thankful to my parents so I’m with you cause todays kid is lacking that obviously just sad parents today don’t know how to do strict without abuse no control in their discipline but hey you are away from toxic good move👍
What. She got a divorce because You being a father to your son?. Man. This is a new one for me. May Jesus bless you and your families, take care.
@@SergioPerez-qf1mb wow exactly what happened to me.
My Filipina wife and I have recently celebrated our 30th anniversary and I know exactly what you mean when describing the difference between women in North America and in the Philippines (yes, my ex-wife was white). It certainly looks like your marriage to lovely Raquel is as solid as mine has been and you both will be happy together for a long time to come.
Congrats
Most guys can't handle the stigma and extra effort it takes to become a passport bro, all of you married pal's girls will make them avoid you. Your family will avoid you, because you escaped, they didn't. It's like going out to dinner and everyone else is drinking, you won't be invited back, ask around. Is it worth it? It was for me!
The separation between men and women in the United States has become institutionalized, with divorce courts taking everything the man has, and most things that he will have. American women opt out of their marriage because they get a big cash prize if they do.
its pretty much like they say western women is a gold digger and wont date a mcdonald worker .. but same could be said for women from third world country marrying women overseas .. third world country women life is hard and when you come with money from developed country defintatly they will be attracted to you .. but if you didint had anything and were in third world country they wouldnt even look your way .. and plus asian women is smart there is a video where a asain women and latin women where saying white mens are easy to manupilate ..
U got a rare one congratulations..most is horrible
Congrats to you both! I wish you all the best.😎
Perfect match. Their energy just works. there is peace and they can almost finish each others sentences.
Thank you, great comment
One thing you did not touch on that is important is you took your time, got to know her, brought her to your home country and vetted her properly. The face-to-face time is really important if you want to select correctly. You have done that at home and the Philippines so you knew exactly what her faults were, her strengths and what roles each will have for the relationship to succeed. For a man who is looking for a wife, the Philippines is a really good option if he does not want to learn a different language.
You have very good points stated above. Theo horror stories I’ve heard areo from people that did not take their time.
As a western man I am committed to never co-habitating, marrying or having a long term relationship with another western woman. They are a liability and not worth it now that I have a 3 year old daughter and am 42. This video is really motivating me to follow in your footsteps. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you and I’m happy to help others out. We need to go where we are treated best!
@@ItsMe_Philippines And the Australian State is not where your treated best.
To me it seems like every people has some degree of hate for the opposite sex of their own race.
I'm from Korea and Korean men and women now have extreme hate for each other. Everytime they say highly of other races for dating but curse their own.
I believe this is nothing but greener grass on the other side.
I married a western woman and am very happy. Your chances, however, may be better elsewhere.
Will you be going to Africa or India ? 😅
Very interesting, Solid Video and Couple. I can relate to the dynamic. She seems like all the things listed in the video. As she gets older I’m sure her self assuredness will solidify. I was the same way in my early 20s. I married an older man of a different culture. It really expedited my emotional maturity progression and increased confidence in who I was as a person overall. Lots of respect and regard for your spouse. He’s a relatively traditional man with high ethics, standards and a history of success and winning in life with a positive outlook. He’s not perfect but he’s close.I will forever be indebted to him for helping me become a stronger person. Marriage is not always rainbows and sunshine. If marriage was illegal where we are, I still would have married him. As was stated in the video life partnership and marriage is an extremely serious life commitment. It’s refreshing to see couples like this. Much success and happiness to both of them!
Great comment, thank you!
Cory, I just subscribed, I've been a freeloader of your content for a few days now, but when you two talk about your wife's birthday present of food to those in need, I like and subscribed. I'm also married to a filipina from a province outside CDO and was looking for someone like her for the exact reasons you mentioned, I can relate personally.!! Have been enjoying your content.
Thank you very much, love reading positive comments!
Cory and Raquel, I want to thank you both for the time you’ve taken to make your videos.
I was teary eyed at times, laughing at others. You two are such an amazing couple and you both are a true testament to the value of a Filipino marriage.
I am filled with hope after being divorced for over ten years now, I’ve raised my family and I am now retired on a good pension.
I will start my journey along your footsteps. Thank you for this very informative blog.
Bob, thank you very much for taking the time to write this positive comment. It’s comments like this and inspire me to continue making videos. Feel free to always shoot me an email in the future if you’d like to discuss anything one on one.
Lovely couple ❤
I'm 52 white man, married Indonesian 8 years ago, I couldn't be more happy. All you said is correct. The loyalty, the appreciation of everything. And our wives are top hot machines, that is a fact. What more can we ask for?
Exactly! Us men are actually simple to please and only require the basics.
Did you convert to Islam or did you convert her to your religion?
@@bunnystrasse I believe God created the Universe but I'm not interested in any religion. In Indonesia it's tolerated to have couples with different beliefs
Poor woman
prolly happier then ur non existent one XD@@breakeven8524
I don’t think you’re being negative about the comparisons at all mate, same here in Australia as it is in the US. The differences to women in south east Asia are very real. Good for you I say!! 👍💪
100% agree my friend!
I'm a guy from the UK and completely understand - the things you mentioned are kinda the same here. The whole relationship thing is such a drag that I haven't even bothered for years. Love Xx
Sad that we are all this this situation but at least we have alternatives!
In the most respectful way I can say this, her smile, personality, sense of humor, and attraction to you place her in the “diamond” category. She will no doubt bring out the best in you and for that you can be grateful. Your gratitude can easily be expressed by giving her the best life possible…and you seem to be doing a great job at that. On being “equally yoked”…
Wow, thank you and 100% agree
I love the chemistry between you two, it sounds like a win win relationship, love is like a treasure hunt, we all keep looking until we find it no matter where we need to go, congrats guys.
Thanks brother appreciate the comment
But I am the atm machine. Im not really into that right now. My fillipina works and wants to. And saves a lot..
good for you bro! i was married to a western Canadian woman, now i have my new Zambian woman and im LOVING it !
That's awesome!
thanks for this,, great video and I am right there and agree.. Can't wait to get over there and meet you both, just may be a while yet.
Come on over!
@@ItsMe_Philippines I take care of my 85 yr old mother,, so I have to be here for her,, Janice was denied her first Visa application. I am making plans to come over in March,, Semper Fi,,
Just look at the way that she looks at you. That's EXACTLY why she is the perfect woman. Congrats!
Thank you!
Your relationship is super inspiring ❤️
Thank you
I'm an overweight Mexican American who met his wife at work back in 2012. She's a petite white woman, she's extremely fit (abs with strong muscle tone at about 110lbs at 5ft 4in), she couldn't care any less about brands or anything luxury for that matter, and she is gorgeous. We get stares when we go out because we just don't seem like we'd be together. I don't come from money (we met working at a grocery store) so she's definitely not with me for that. I've been working towards getting into better shape now that we have a daughter together and also because I want her to have some eye candy too. But my point is that it's easy to judge guys who look for overseas wives but your argument is 100% valid. If I wasn't already the luckiest man alive and I was still looking for a partner I think I really would have gone your route because it's what I look for in a woman as well. I appreciate you making this video because this definitely changed my mind on the process and it was fun learning about it!
Great comment and happy to see you found the right one.
Great Job Man!! Oh i Hear You!! Thinking the Very Same thing!!!
Thank you!
I'm from the Netherlands but it's the same here and I completely agree with all your points. I lost faith in finding a good relationship or long lasting marriage in the West so I basically moved to South East Asia because of this, along with some other reasons of course. Plus, western family court leaves most men devastated. Women in SEA are clearly different. Strong family values, friendlier, feminine, sexy, supportive, sweet, not arrogant, not narcistic and more appreciative. There're always exceptions of course. But it's sad that many men need to go look overseas to find a good wife. Wish you and your wife much luck.
Thank you my friend and I’m glad to see so many people understanding. But I’ve seen you live in a beautiful country! My cousin just spent eight years there.
What is so wrong with Dutch women???
@@rino7789 feminism, thats whats wrong.
Ja friend je ziet het 100% correct. Veel succes.
@@rino7789 dutch wonen are pretty awesome. Thee can be dominant or subservient. I cant speak for others but for myself i care about great weather and all-round freedom, thats something you learn while in the country. Enjoy live and make the best of it :)
As a man from a third world country, I'm starting to appreciate the women around me because I'm looking to get married and the values he's listing are taken for granted here and is a basic character trait you'll see in any woman. But to understand that western men have to travel to other countries to find such women saddens me but also makes me a bit anxious as its competition.. :D
Sad but true!
its pretty much like they say western women is a gold digger and wont date a mcdonald worker .. but same could be said for women from third world country marrying women overseas .. third world country women life is hard and when you come with money from developed country defintatly they will be attracted to you .. but if you didint had anything and were in third world country they wouldnt even look your way .. and plus asian women is smart there is a video where a asain women and latin women where saying white mens are easy to manupilate ..
Living in a small country, where the population is similar or smaller than the population of biggest cities in the world, practically I have to compete for the job with highly skilled professionals from the entire world. Luckily, the competitive pressure is significantly less with regard to finding the partner. In marriage not the accumulated wealth or revenue promise is the goal, therefore everybody can be good match to someone. But for revenue source (jobs), certainly the number of competitive revenue sources are much-much less than the number of couples in the world.
only unnatractive western men are the one who travel.
It’s a very, very tiny fraction of the population every year. The stats that I found is this: Approximately 0.028% of the female population in the Philippines marry foreign men annually, based on the data from 2020. 3 in 10,000. Many of these women are older and have a child out of wedlock, so they are not on the regular dating market for most Filipino guys. These are second chance marriages. Also, 1 in 5 marriages, the Filipino guy is married to the Foreign woman. A lot of these Filipinos are already in our country are medical professionals, teachers and IT professionals. They left your dating market and are in our market. I met my wife in the US and the same is true for our son.
The financial impact on families in the Philippines is big also. We’ve financed sibling education, built homes, paid medical bills and help parents come to the US. So, I do think this is a good thing for both countries. Happiness is multiplied, where there would otherwise be a gap.
Dude! She is stunning. Wish you both the best.
Thank you!
This is Angel from Chicago. I want to say thank you to you and your wife for sharing your life story and your experience in everything is going and how it was living in Chicago, or in the states. How everything is going so well and blessed being out there. Very happy to hear that you’re doing a lot better you and your wife or that say you’re better half and very doing joy you sharing your experience. It helps me and it’s an eye-opener in my life. I’ve had nothing but downfalls out here in Chicago and bad luck with women specially, being stressed out like you say all they see is Muriel, some of them. Really do enjoy watching your videos and your experience out there keep on sharing them not only that it shows a culture from other living from other countries.
I enjoyed that only your videos I see others, but yours is more professional and you the way you speak in the way you share the way it is out there. Thank you so much. Want to say merry Christmas to you and your wife and God bless both of youse.
Thank you verry much, great comment.
My wife is Filipina and I have been watching your videos for a while. I usually would never leave a comment but this time I have to. We sent money for one sack rice and vegetables for my wife's family and her mother was so happy. She was dancing and laughing and crying all at the same time. She was just so grateful for the blessing. I agree with every point you made. I know I made the right decision to marry a Filipina for all the same reasons!
Yes & good point & example that attitude by her is so enjoyable for the guy when you see that you want to do it again & even more that’s what gratefulness does now American woman how often would you get that reaction instead it’s is that all or can you also do this & that, or well I really wanted this🙄
15:31 and all through this video, look at her laugh and smile. So sweet. That's one of the reasons I'm glad I found my wife here, life is just so happy when the wife is so cheerful.
So true and happy to hear you found what I did.
About to ditch my girl and buy a ticket to the islands
The better word instead of cheerful cause he’ll us guys aren’t always cheerful so don’t expect if you can’t give but teammate is the better word I use that is the Philippina
I was angry and defensive but the more I watched the more I loved this for both of you. Happily married for 14 years, got lucky, but I support this 110%.
Thank you and appreciate your honesty
Great video.Hope you both are well.Enjoy your great life together.
Thank you!
Thank you for giving well thought out answers and articulating them. I married a Filipina from Baguio area and could never really explain the whole encompassing relationship we have from both sides. I’m thinking we need to make a 5 year plan to move over also. Thank you again guys.
I did a five year plan and struck by it and got great results.
I’m a good deal older than you, friend, and I’m married to my Filipina wife for 5 years now. What I like the most is how she’s constantly telling me how handsome and “guapo” I am. And she sings love songs to me almost every day 😊
We are both lucky men!
You were married before right?
If you are Christian did you marry now a Christian.
What did you have in common with her?
This is what I say. Old white men basically take advantage of poor Asian women. Why - because nobody teaches the women their own value.
Hello Richard. If you don’t mind me asking, what is the age difference between you and your wife?
Because of the good money from white man
@@ItsMe_Philippines what names instagram
your channel came up on my feed. never saw you before. just subscribed while watching. great content
Thank you
Congrats to you both for finding eachother! Love knows no boundaries!
Thank you
Us American men know what you are saying . My Filipina wife is everything and more that I searched for in a partner . I have no use for American women ! The love and kindness my wife shows me is nothing I have ever had from a American woman . Looking in the Philippines for a wife was best decision I have made .
I believe that
I take no offense. I often get confused people talking to me because I am more a “traditional wife”. 😂😂😂
Truth has been spoken brother. Awesome video. You're so right. I appreciate the humility and how organic everything came across. It also shows how open you are with one another. Awesome!
Thank you! Tried to keep it respectful
I definitely understand all these points. Some I'm flexible on, like a woman's size and degree of old-fashioned-ness, but I understand the preference. But the last few personality trait reasons - generosity, modesty, committing, gratefulness, etc are what REALLY hit home with me. I'm 39 and have been single/dating for the past decade and it is...rough. And difficult to find those traits in American/ized women. Like you stressed, it's not ALL western women who are ungrateful or lack modesty, etc, but it is not easy to find them.
I started international online dating in 2020 and have flown to Honduras to meet a woman, which ended up not working out, and may be flying to Colombia in a few months to meet another. I'd really like to talk to more women from Asia, but I limit myself due to budgeting as flights to Asia cost 3-4x more than flights to Central/South America. Anyway, glad you found yours. The funny thing is, a lot of my married or recently divorced guy friends/family say they'd do the exact same thing if they were single and looking. It's just like a known thing that 70-80% of American men have it so bad in the dating scene in the states.
Dating in the west is a wrist to reward ratio and the reward is not worth the risk. I hope you find what you’re looking for my friend!
This video is deep, like the approach and agree with your points.
I believe every man in the west does. I wish everyone luck.
Yes, I married a Brazilian, and they abide by the same values. We've been married for over 40 years and raised 4 kids who speak English and are computer-literate, and now I am doing the same with my grandkids. I believe we need to invest in our legacy and provide them what the States offer, but avoid materialism. My Brazilian wife even became an English too.
Congrats! My friend married a girl from there and they are happily married for 15 years now.
I’m in Brazil now visiting. Been with my wife for 10 years.
Philippines better than Brazilian though. More tradicional. Been in br many times
I'm Brazilian and I can tell you that Brazilian women may be traditional but they cheat a lot and are not very trustworthy women.
Filipina woman in this sense is much better
brazilian nowadays are not much different than western women though
Coming over to the Philippines again in April 23, to get married to my filipino after five years of courting. You sum up everything that is good about filipino women and I would encourage westerners to escape the west and appreciate a good women.
👍👍👍
Thank you for using a positive comment. What island are you heading to?
@@ItsMe_Philippines marry in Samar, holiday in Bohol
Congrats, I’m sure you will be happy!
Thank you, Cory, and congratulations John. My Filipina wife and I have been married for 18 years and still going strong. Still U.S. based but visit the family in the Philippines several times per year, and always over the Christmas / New Year holiday. It is such a joy to watch Cory and his wife build the home, be grateful, and for Cory to broadcast to the world that Filipinas are wonderful (because they are!). Best Wishes to All of You !
I see you posted this video a year ago...
I really enjoyed it, but I really really really really really wish you posted it FIFTY YEARS AGO! HaHaHa
Beautiful, happy couple. Congratulations! ❤
lol I would have been -8
I'd have been 14!!!
Filipina women are generally loyal, beautiful, kind women. Wise choice.
Exactly and thank you
Traditional family values, not materialistic, conservative attire, willing to work with you to set goals and the to achieve your combined goals.
You are correct. Those are the most important values to have in a partner
True and thank you
Not materialistic?? Seriously?? Have you seen what this guy has given her?? Why didn't she marry a boy from her village??
Because she wanted the life only a white westerner could give her!!
I've been married to a Filipina for 17 years, and they are even more competitively materialistic than western women!!
It doesn't mean they don't love us, but they also love what we can do for them!!
@@mikthe2004 Keep your negativity to yourself
@@mikthe2004 oh.. hi.. now..that’s is why.. it’s you experience not ours… it so funny that how you think.. To think it’s your wife that is like that then you assumed that I’m like that too? It so sad. I am sorry you married a wrong Filipina… Ans I understand your frustration. .
I hope one day she will learn to know what really is important… that she will grow…
Thank you for watching… I will respect your comments because it’s all about your life. Not mine.
Thank you.
@@Rachel00813 No, you misunderstand me. When I met my wife I had left my government job, and I didn't get another job - bus driving - until she actually came to Australia on the marriage visa. I had met her in person in the Philippines 6 months earlier.
So, my wife certainly didn't marry me for my money!! I didn't have any!! I actually had to borrow money from my parents to fund my trip there, and to pay for her to come to Australia.
But I think it's incorrect to say that Filipinas aren't interested in money, and are happy with a simple life??
Maybe if they have no choice - yeah - but everybody aspires to a better life don't they??
It's fairly obvious when you see a 20 year old Filipina with an 80yr old fat ugly westerner, that they are in it for the money?
I think we can both agree on that? But Corey is young and handsome enough (great bod - obviously trains in the gym) to have a genuine romance with you. Even so, I'd guess he's in his early 40's and you're in your early 20's?
That's kind of like my wife and me. I was 44 and she was 27. Like Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.,
I wish you and Corey the best. Here's my wife and I at our Philippines wedding (we had one in Australia first)
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So inspirational!! Thank you, Corey and Raquel. Keep doing what you're doing. Blessings 🙏🏾
Thank you!
American guy here living in the US and beginning travel shortly to see where my wife and I want to settle overseas. This video was executed flawlessly. Don't be afraid to offend, you were more than honest and open. This is the best videos I've seen on the topic. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you
Two thumbs up... know exactly where you're coming from & what you mean. All the best to you both.
Thank you!