Are Foreign Brides Slaves Or Queens?

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  • čas přidán 9. 04. 2023
  • Are foreign brides slaves or queens? Having married a queen I feel strongly on this topic of "slaves or queens" and wanted to share my opinion on it.
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  • @vincentmimay4174
    @vincentmimay4174 Před rokem +135

    Honestly, base on some statistics I read. Filipino's has more bachelors degree holder specifically Filipina's compared to US women. No hate. Its just that its too insulting for foreign women to call our Filipina's uneducated or worst to call them slaves. Its good thing that Corey speaks about this topic. Thanks Corey for standing up and defending our Filipina misconceptions about them. 🙂

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +12

      Anytime my friend!

    • @tarzanztoonz
      @tarzanztoonz Před rokem +7

      thanks for the like sir!

    • @unearthedstoriesonline
      @unearthedstoriesonline Před rokem +4

      Calling Filipinas uneducated is a broad topic. Yes, the majority of young Filipinas who marry old foreign ex-pats are uneducated (unfortunately), but in general, most Filipinas who are educated and are working class don't date old ex-pats. This is a very delicate topic and should not be generalized. There are 3 general categories of Filipinas and those who marry old foreign expats belong to one of these 3 categories. And when I say "old ex-pat", Cory doesn't qualify in this group yet (retired seniors).

    • @Fuk_Zat_Tek
      @Fuk_Zat_Tek Před rokem

      Common problem with US people : They always think they are at the peak of everything ...Then ...they discover they're not.

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 Před rokem +3

      @@ItsMe_Philippines Filipinas uneducated is not very smart . if you ask a reg girl in the Philippine's if she want to college within a sec , she say yes. due to money is only reason stopping them are they would be way more in the Philippines then the usa with degree's . my fiancée has a master degree in law working on being a lawyer . take 6 years be one in the Philippines.

  • @stefanexplores
    @stefanexplores Před rokem +118

    My girlfriend is from the Philippines. We met when she came to my country in Europe to get a Master's degree. I'm blown away by how well she treats me. So naturally I'm almost competing with her in terms of who can treat the other better. She lifts me up and I do the same for her. You two seem to have a fantastic relationship as well. We can laugh at the haters together. We know the reality. All the best to the both of you!

    • @ShinLeeChan
      @ShinLeeChan Před rokem +1

      Are swedish girls so bad for relationship? 'cause are one of the best looking in europe, but what about their characters?
      I mean, it just happened to meet your filipina girlfriend or you had already in mind someone from asian country in first place?

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 Před rokem +2

      I'm part Swedish...I guess some Swedes roamed over the mountains to Norway say my dna test, haha.
      You should have babies. Its a good mix.

    • @migueruta
      @migueruta Před rokem +1

      You're Sweedish? You lucky one! 💯✌😘
      My social take about Sweeden is that it's a cesspool of modern f3m!n!sm. I guess your joyfull comment says it all.

    • @bryandosevlogs
      @bryandosevlogs Před rokem +1

      I am a filipina and loved reading your comment “I can relate with how you almost compete to give love” 😅 my Boyfriend is American and he treats me like no other Man has treated me ever before! That makes me love him more very single day! Take care ❤

  • @AlitSelaba
    @AlitSelaba Před rokem +71

    I am Filipina and I have 6 siblings and we're all college graduates. My dad didn't even finished high school and my mom is a traditional housewife. Yet they managed to give us good education and a better life. He worked abroad for more than 20 years (coming home every 2 years for a 1 month vacation). My mom is the cohesive glue that held our big family together. She taught us family and moral values through actions. A 5 foot woman who never yelled, never whipped her children and ruled her home with gentleness and love. And yet, we were always afraid to disappoint her. I hope every man would be so lucky to find a woman like my mom. Just flexing my Filipina mom!😆😁

  • @ChristopherKnN
    @ChristopherKnN Před rokem +125

    Don't worry Corey and Raquel, the trolls are just jealous. Anyone with eyes can see that she is the Queen.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +16

      Exactly! And thank you

    • @ShinLeeChan
      @ShinLeeChan Před rokem

      Yeah, it's just jealousy and envy.
      Expecially american women who are recently starting a war against passport bros and filipinas. They are so pathetic!

    • @suzanne-cq8pn
      @suzanne-cq8pn Před rokem +6

      this guy has it MADE. she is super gorgeous, sexy and actually loves him it looks like. He won the lottery. I admit that and I am a western female haha

    • @WriteLight3
      @WriteLight3 Před 5 měsíci

      It seems like trolling helps boost interaction, which boosts the channel, making their put downs ironic. So yeah, to both you and your wife, I wouldn't worry too much. You have an inspiring story. 🙂 Please keep sharing.

  • @tomgentry6409
    @tomgentry6409 Před rokem +67

    It was a learning experience for me and a process of helping my Filipino wife know that we are equal in our relationship my wife has a bachelor degree and has a high paying job, some people thought she married me and agreed to come to America for my money but nothing could be farther from the truth and we’re very happy , thanks for the video

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +5

      Thank you for the positive comment

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 Před rokem +4

      Same here. Just a great match and we live the Americana family life, with Filipino twist.

    • @talaxee1
      @talaxee1 Před rokem +2

      Your title has an easy and simple answer which is, "a true partner....a Queen".

  • @mikemasters4382
    @mikemasters4382 Před rokem +41

    Your wife is a real gem. And she has the cutest damn laugh, I could listen to that laugh all day everyday and never get tired of it. You can see her intelligence and I'm not talking about "book" knowledge, but understanding how to live life, have a very good relationship and know how to interact with another, very impressive for such a young age. I've been traveling to the Philippines for 40 years and I can tell you how many people in the US are so misinformed about the Philippines and Filipina's and they don't care to listen or learn, in their minds they just believe they are correct. Alot of people never been there or they have only been to Angeles City and been with bar girls so that is their reference point. My Filipina would take my work boots off everyday and then give me a foot massage and a back massage everyday.

    • @bryandosevlogs
      @bryandosevlogs Před rokem +1

      I do the same for my boyfriend we are both in love so much. 😊

  • @ianharman9499
    @ianharman9499 Před rokem +18

    I have been married to a Filipino for 10 years and we have achieved so much. I have the house of my dreams by the beach, another family, other asserts and a retirement to look forward to in the sun.

  • @gary4451
    @gary4451 Před rokem +14

    My mom would wave goodbye to my dad every morning as he left for work. She would greet him at the front door with a smile and a kiss on the cheek each evening when he returned from work. He adored her and he did everything that he could for her. The simple logic of treating someone with kindness and respect and receiving the same in return has escaped modern women. It is easier for them to lash out against or try to belittle men and women who have learned how to love each other unselfishly. Unfortunately many of them will never learn.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +5

      Greta story and my mother did the same! Values our mothers had are priceless

  • @50whatnomadtravelnursemtb5

    My wife is my total queen and couldn't be happier! (Filipina wife). I chose Filipina because of other family members and friends who had great experiences and I was never happy dating an American woman, and I know Many friends who will say the same.

  • @uncleJan1
    @uncleJan1 Před rokem +12

    Enjoy your happiness, oh wait you're already doing that 😂
    I married my Philippine wife in 2019 and we have been in a relationship since December 2007, the first 4 years it was a ldr. Since Oktober 2011 we have been living together and I can honestly say that meeting her was the best thing in my life and we just finished the build of our dream house in the province!

  • @kevg69
    @kevg69 Před rokem +22

    The topics you cover and the life you’re living is bound to attract the haters. I find the life you have got yourself and the amazing woman you have married a huge inspiration. Your channel along with a couple of others is making me look in to moving to the Philippines. What man wouldn’t want this life? This much happiness? The west is useless for most men, the East is where it’s at!

  • @vernondavis561
    @vernondavis561 Před 11 měsíci +6

    My Filipina and I have been happily married for over 32 years. We have 2 adult children that are successful and well adjusted. She is my queen and she has always treated me like a king…no regrets.

  • @nildep
    @nildep Před rokem +11

    I agree with all you both say. My wife is Filipina, we've been married 6 years and it is still a breath of fresh air. I awake at 2:45am 5 days a week and so does my wife to prepare my lunch and see me off to work before she goes to work at 6am. I think it would be interesting to see the husband talking to another foreigner on this topic, it's all very real. There's so much more you can add to this conversation but kudos to you both, filipinos laugh a lot and it's contagious, you two DO NOT need to justify your relationship, the love is evident.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      Great to hear my friend and we are lucky men

    • @nildep
      @nildep Před rokem +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines I want to add something so apologies for taking up your time. Not only does my wife care for me, it's her entire family. I have not yet personally met her family in the Philippines, but every year the entire family has a birthday party for me and they sing happy birthday to me on social media. The kids get a cake shaped like a lechon with my name on it. I'll leave it at that, we are very happy for you both. We also have a plan to go to Cagayan De Oro within a couple of years

  • @babyko1964
    @babyko1964 Před rokem +21

    The real uneducated people are those who try to bring down others rather than lifting each other. Your wife and his family backgrounds are very well-mannered. We may not know so much to each other but they are known in our municipality as kind people. You guys are awesome, perfect for each other, just don't mind those negative people they are unhappy of their lives hahaha

    • @Rachel00813
      @Rachel00813 Před rokem

      Hi dai!!! Thank you for wonderful and positive comment🥰 as always ❤️
      God Bless🙏

  • @N2dweb99
    @N2dweb99 Před rokem +8

    My wife is a Filipina and we have been married for almost 4 years. We met here in America and I had just lost a six figure salary, driving Uber. So she did Not marry me for money. She agreed to marry me because she heard me talking sweetly to my daughter. Also, I was willing to teach her how to drive and being a friend treating her with respect, not treating her a sex object.
    We both could not be happier.
    I hope you both stay blessed. 🙏

  • @vinces.3860
    @vinces.3860 Před rokem +12

    And this is exactly why I don't have a youtube channel with my Province girl. People judging and assuming the wrong thing, why we are married. The best line in this video is when your wife said, "people have their opinion, and I respect that", then you said, "I don't respect their opinion". And I totally agree with you, I don't respect their opinion either, because they are IGNORANT!

  • @Baryohanon473
    @Baryohanon473 Před rokem +13

    As a Filipina i do that to my filipino husband too, when he gets home i ask him how is he doing,if he wants some coffee or something to eat?i wipe his back if his sweating, give him massage before sleeping that's how i show my love for him😍even life for us is hard I'd still want to show my love for him and respect him because that's the culture i grew up with to treat my husband like a King.

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 Před rokem +2

      Bravo! It should be more of a competition on how good each other can care of the other rather that 50/50 relationships in the US. I always tell me sister when she complains that its not quite 50/50. I say it should be 100/100. I'm happy to have a Filipina wife that share's my perspective. She's a complete winner.

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Před rokem +1

      Do you have a sister?

    • @Baryohanon473
      @Baryohanon473 Před rokem +1

      @@squidusn71 lol unfortunately they're all married as well😂

  • @benjiiswaycool
    @benjiiswaycool Před rokem +7

    Keep pumping the videos out guys these are epic. I can't wait to see you crack 100k subs with this kind of content you will smash it soon.

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower Před rokem +23

    It's unfortunate when people generalize but I'm happy to see relationships like yours that are authentic and happy. God bless you both 💜💜💜

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      Same here and thank you

    • @drkid4l220
      @drkid4l220 Před 11 měsíci

      well not be an ass, but reality is that the world works on generalization. If we did everything base on individual views the world would become a mess, just how it is becoming now.

  • @TheLastPirate1973
    @TheLastPirate1973 Před rokem +44

    I understand why expats and current residents here in the US(like me) are seriously considering moving to Ph. The West has gotten crazy expensive and socially/morally bankrupt. I look forward to my visit this summer and considering moving there and starting a business. Great for you both. You seem very happy. Most American couples should be so lucky.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +4

      Thank you and smart plan

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 Před rokem +2

      Do your homework. I do think that most decent men can find good women there. Its too hard doing it online. Some luck out and I've heard good and bad about doing it online..too many scammers and its not the regular girls that you want.

    • @wtf6694
      @wtf6694 Před rokem +2

      PH is also very expensive to live - unless deep province & Filipino standards

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 Před rokem +1

      @@wtf6694 I haven't been there for many years. At the time, hotels were just as expensive as the US, in the cities. Food=1/10, Clothes = 1/4, most other things seemed the same. I don't know about housing. This was in 2002. How about now. Can anyone compare on a line item or benchmark basis?

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +3

      @@MG77740 I've only heard good things about online dating when you go to a good, reputable website. To many guys go to bad websites because there cheap and you get what you pay for.

  • @HaydnRees
    @HaydnRees Před 10 měsíci +4

    How eye-wateringly wholesome.
    The small gestures - the casualt displayys of affction, the adoring glances. It warms my otherwise cold dead Europen heart.
    Bless you both.

  • @lowes891646
    @lowes891646 Před rokem +8

    A closed mind will never open and an open mind will never close... If all y'all have is 3% of ignorant haters, consider yourselves blessed. I've been a subscriber for awhile, so I can defiantly say, you're a great guy married to one of the most beautiful women in the world, both inside and out. God bless you both! Love your content, keep it coming!

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      Thank you and we will! Videos are made for the 97/98% of positive people and that’s all I’m worried about

  • @brettgooselaw8389
    @brettgooselaw8389 Před rokem +5

    Your wife said it perfectly. “Don’t generalize.” You’re obviously a good guy and know how to treat a woman. Those critics are probably losers that would be bad in any relationship. I’ve been happily married to my beautiful Filipina wife for 12 year and have no regrets. Keep living the dream. I love your channel.

  • @boydnuttall9031
    @boydnuttall9031 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Racquel said, " Everyone deserves to be happy..." She is so correct and making a transition to the Philippines and a similar life-style as yours seems intimidating but you make it seem so worth it. Maybe someday for someone like myself. Thanks for your consistent informative videos.

  • @mathewchalifour1992
    @mathewchalifour1992 Před rokem +11

    Thank you for going through. I was married for 13 years to a woman that wanted nothing to do with "wife" things. I am currently in the process of my K1 to get my Filipina here in the states. All she wants to do is support me and make my life easier, she has no issue with my current situation of me having my daughter wed-sun. She is so respectful of my daughter and wants nothing more than to be her friend. She literally works and sends all her money to her family and lives very poor so that her family can survive in the province. the morals and selflessness of the culture there in the Philippines is fantastic. I am not rich nor can I take care of her family and she accepts me and my life, she just wants to make my day better. All the people who don't understand the culture in the Philippines have no room to talk. I can't wait to retire there one day and enjoy the simple life of the Philippines. Love the content you two are great for each other thank you for addressing this. Enjoy your day salamat.

  • @dennisjones5662
    @dennisjones5662 Před rokem +11

    I've been happily married for over 40 years. It's fun to see a young couple in love and doing well. Treating each other with kindness and grace is, in my book, pretty cool. My advice (and I think I actually have some qualifications in this): Follow the Lord and do whatever it takes within that framework to keep your relationship strong. For those who would put you down, I feel sorry for them and would encourage them to look to you as an example, not a target.

  • @lonhofman7919
    @lonhofman7919 Před rokem +9

    Hey guys. I happened upon your channel this week, and I am very impressed. You both bring a real life perspective to the FILAM experience. My fiance is a filipina, and ive been to Manila 4 times and have been welcomed by the Filipino people. I am working to find a way to move there and raise my family there. We have 3 beautiful filipinas. Keep on bringing great content

  • @cloudstrife9324
    @cloudstrife9324 Před rokem +24

    I didn't even make it halfway through the video and I could see the love that you both share for each other. It's a beautiful and refreshing sight to see compared to what relationships are like here in the States. The moment that you went into detail about how you treated each other like a King & Queen I felt my soul light up. Your beautiful wife taking your shoes off after noticing the level of stress and hard work that you put into making a way for your family was touching. Most women here in the States wouldn't do that, let alone at the very least have a cooked meal ready for her man. I can only speak for myself, but I'm making changes in life that will prepare me to visit the Philippines in search of a Beautiful Filipina Wife so that we can bless each other's lives. I'm sold!!!

  • @paulbandstra2838
    @paulbandstra2838 Před rokem +11

    There is a subset of the population that just can't stand when someone else is happy. Their defense mechanism is to pull out tired and inaccurate tropes in the hope that it will make them feel better about their sad lives. Pay no attention to them, you're on more than the right path. Enjoy what you two have created!

  • @415ejf
    @415ejf Před rokem +6

    Cory and Raquel, love the video. My loving girlfriend of almost 5 years is Filipina. She is a queen as well, and I am so thankful for her. Never worry about those that “know not what they speak of”. I’m grateful to know the truth about our queens. I never got that from any western lady. I’ll be joining all other happy expats when I retire there in the future and with my beautiful Filipina queen. Keep up the great work, thank you 😊

  • @jarrellbabb1344
    @jarrellbabb1344 Před rokem +4

    I was told by so call friends that my marriage to my Filipina wife wouldn't last year. Iast June we had our 52 nd anniversary. She is my best friend.

  • @donshirkey7491
    @donshirkey7491 Před rokem +6

    Ya nailed it! Couple thoughts... Interdependence is what makes a marriage have longevity and understanding what action makes your spouse know they are loved and making that action a priority in your life. An interesting statistic would be Filipina divorce rate to western men compared to the national rate. 10 years with my amazing wife and we are still on our honeymoon.

  • @josephdracula7487
    @josephdracula7487 Před rokem +5

    👍😎🇵🇭 Wow! You are so correct about the Filipinos as my wife and I are so close and happy together! It’s amazing the small gestures my wife will also do for me! I am having a hard time to say everything that makes my Filipino wife stand above western women! As much as I am ready to move to our home in the Philippines fed up with the western culture and politics she calmly tells me in her warm voice we are almost there I am with you! Then I realize she keeps me on track so do you think a western girl would do that! Enjoy the day with your wife! Mine is great anytime I am with her!😊🇵🇭

  • @markeuringer8106
    @markeuringer8106 Před rokem +5

    I have been married for 20 years to a Filipina who came with family about 22 years ago.
    I have been with her and family to the Philippines 5x since then and we are now in Cebu for a few days and then back to Manila…. She is most assuredly a queen in our household
    Thanks
    Mark

  • @Michael-mp1rq
    @Michael-mp1rq Před 3 měsíci +1

    Also listening to Rachel talk about her father & you was a very heartfelt moment. You both continue to make a difference in my life & I appreciate your transparency.

  • @cjaymiller2279
    @cjaymiller2279 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I live in America right, the dating market really sucks. I’m a old fashion guy and religious but these high body counts are getting out of hand. Full support here Corey I’m so happy for you both.

  • @CoachDarren
    @CoachDarren Před rokem +3

    Cory you was about to get beat down about that cooking breakfast.....lol... You both are awesome keep it going!

  • @Michael-mp1rq
    @Michael-mp1rq Před 3 měsíci +1

    Nothing better than Corey dropping facts & truth bombs!
    Nothing can trump that. Spectacular video from a King & Queen!

  • @drewnc6196
    @drewnc6196 Před rokem +8

    The western countries are collapsing right before our eyes. Be happy you escaped and found an amazing wife and an amazing life. Also thank you for sharing all of that as it gives us all hope there is something better out there.

  • @jonathansalgado9265
    @jonathansalgado9265 Před rokem +7

    Some people still won’t get it. My wife exactly that one day. She took off my shoes, brought me a beer and she silenced the kids. That brought a peace that allowed me to just relax. Just like that the work stress was gone. A small gesture really can define the difference between someone that loves you and someone that only wants to be spoiled.

  • @lodomirr
    @lodomirr Před rokem +54

    You know what's funny? Not more then few years ago, when someone was doing something for someone else in relationship, it was bc ...(drumroll)... love. Now it's slavery and that honestly makes me laugh. When i watch your vids i see normal, healthy, happy couple and some ppl just can't stand it i guess.
    And also, when you were telling story how she walked over and gets down on her knees i rised my brows for a sec there 🤪 I'm just perv like that and i'm not sorry about that 😂
    Have fun reading negative comments guys 🍻

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +10

      Exactly and thank you 😊
      (I hesitated making a dirty joke afterwards lol)

    • @lickalotlickalot2210
      @lickalotlickalot2210 Před rokem

      And you know who are the ones who would call a woman who treats a man good, a slave? American women!

    • @xavierkoolat6926
      @xavierkoolat6926 Před rokem +3

      @@ItsMe_Philippines Cory, you summed it all up at the end of this video at about 21:40 when you said those "haters" are just jealous.
      When I was in about the 4th grade, my dad noticed I was very quiet at dinner. He started asking me questions about why I was so quiet. Eventually, I told him that some boy at school made some hurtful comments to me. I don't remember what they were, but I was upset.
      My dad explained that the boy was jealous of what I had. He explained that when some people want what others have but will never be able to get it, they say mean and hurtful comments to make themselves feel better.
      Ever since then, I feel sorry for people who criticize me.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      @@xavierkoolat6926 Thank you, great comment

    • @williegilligan2661
      @williegilligan2661 Před rokem +1

      So many American Women have the attitude that just circles the drain now, its sucks..

  • @1775SemperFi
    @1775SemperFi Před rokem +3

    Hey brother, I learned something from one of my GySgt's when I was in. He said to me, if you don't have haters, you are not doing things properly. You both are definitely doing it right. I wish I could have a relationship with someone I can interact like my best friend and that loves and cares for me. You are a King and you treat her like a Queen as she is, and this is the right way to do things! I am honestly proud of both of you for your relationship. Your home looks really nice btw. I hope you both had a blessed Resurrection Day.

  • @alveradavis9537
    @alveradavis9537 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You cover these negative comments very eloquently ! They really don’t deserve to be commented on, but good job ! You are a beautiful couple and every thing you post is enjoyable…… “keep doing what you’re doing….. I’m sure the majority of us who have subscribed are here because you’re awesome !”

  • @rishy_shir6299
    @rishy_shir6299 Před rokem +8

    Hi Cory and wifey😊
    This is one of the interesting contents you have had.I am a 36 y.o Filipina from Davao.I am currently living here in Michigan,for almost 4 years now.
    I’ve been hearing a lot of discrimination lately online about Foreigners marrying/married to Filipinas which is unfair for us but all I can say is that we Filipinas are mostly good catch for you guys👏😁
    Living here I have been seeing and knowing a lot of American girls already.Yes they can be sweet and expressive but they can be very entitled at the same time.
    Filipinas just know how to be patient most of the time and would prefer to be calm until we are provoked or annoyed by our men😂🤣
    Then we we would like to be heard out😊
    I am proud of our culture and I am blessed beyond measure to have such wonderful parents who raised,taught me and instilled in me the good values and most especially in the Spiritual aspect🙏
    When it comes to speaking English language,thank God,I am proud to say that I can communicate well with my husband,our families and all the people here that I have met.But of course,every day is a learning process for me still,no matter how old we get we still are going to learn in all aspect right?
    I was teaching English online to Japanese students for 3 years and it did really help me to gain confidence in speaking and interacting with foreigners😊
    I wouldn’t be where I am at today,receiving compliments from American people here of what a breath of fresh air I am.I do know how to stand my grounds and won’t let anyone discriminate me and the country where I came from.Proud Filipina here!My husband is indeed a lucky guy to have me and of course I am blessed to have him❤
    Keep it going you guys👏

  • @tchamp72
    @tchamp72 Před rokem +5

    Hey Corey. Just don't feed the trolls. There will always be trolls, and you should just not pay attention to them, and just listen to the 90 plus percent who like your content!

  • @violasbakedandcookeddeligh1596
    @violasbakedandcookeddeligh1596 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Great what Raquel said at the end. Be open and realize not everyone fits in a one for all. Don’t judge everyone.
    Not everyone has the same experience.

  • @richrich8590
    @richrich8590 Před rokem +3

    Great episode..!
    Watched 2 of them, and y'all exhibit the reason i married my Lady, and moved from the USA here in the Philippines. My wife came over to the USA for 10 years, worked with me, everything. Shoveled dirt, set up my work laptop for each task, everything. Her love has been the stabilizer, her rock steady unchanging heart has been amazing.
    She is the greatest blessing on this planet in my life.. and more than a queen... she is my best friend-
    Watching your vid's reminded me, she is always a kid at heart, and that is something that i will always appreciate!!
    Best wishes to you both..

  • @craiggilleland
    @craiggilleland Před rokem +4

    I think your comments are spot on. I lived in the Philippines for a few years and my biggest beef was with the infrastructure. Nothing works in the PH but if you can get away from that and become independent you will be happy. Most Filipinos are happy regardless of how much they have.

  • @bdmenne
    @bdmenne Před rokem +5

    Real talk. Well said/delivered

  • @edwardmr5852
    @edwardmr5852 Před rokem +1

    I was in the hospital 2 days ago, had a Filipina nurse taking care of me calling me sir every 2mn, removed my socks and and put new ones on. My heart melted. Can't wait to be there in the pH

  • @flyboyz2305
    @flyboyz2305 Před rokem +4

    Well said again. We don't get Filipina wife's because we want a slave. We chose them because they are the true sense of queens. They treat us right so it makes us try harder to be a good man to them. Can't wait for my trip to Bohol in June. Love the videos you two. Stay blessed 🤘

  • @smiller3565
    @smiller3565 Před rokem +7

    I wouldn’t even give the “haters” the satisfaction of a rebuttal…leave them in their own misery. Myself and my Filipina wife plan on retiring south of you guys as soon as we can sell our place in Alaska….Keep doing what you’re doing!

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem

      Alaska is beautiful but to cold for me. Appreciate the positive comment

    • @MrWackydoodles
      @MrWackydoodles Před rokem +3

      In the Philippines, Alaska is a can of Milk

    • @Rachel00813
      @Rachel00813 Před rokem +1

      @@MrWackydoodles hahaha true!😆

  • @chrislong1190
    @chrislong1190 Před rokem +5

    Wow ❤ this episode. That is true Filipinas are queens. They are wonderful, caring family oriented people. I am married to a Filipina. That is a very, very wonderful woman. We’ve been married eight months. She is still there. I am in Canada working on paperwork for her to come to live with me and then eventually move back to the Philippines. I love it there. It is a very nice place.

    • @alexbakker8785
      @alexbakker8785 Před rokem

      I'm an optimistisch person. Hopefully i see you guys as happy as you are today. Gl.

  • @glstka5710
    @glstka5710 Před rokem +1

    16:02 Another outburst of joyous laughter. One thing I've noticed in your videos and many of the other videos with Filipinas, happiness, laughter, fun, joy.

  • @7411159
    @7411159 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Correy, Racquel’s not a Queen, she’s a Goddess. Her personality and her attitude make her such a beautiful person. You struck gold mate…

  • @mariewilliams6628
    @mariewilliams6628 Před rokem +5

    Nice to see happy couple enjoying life as it is. Cory, you don't have to justify or explain things to haters. Just be happy and have a good day.😊

  • @daleshawnstraub2899
    @daleshawnstraub2899 Před rokem +4

    you guys are a good couple I am dating a filipina now I love it the most peaceful relationship I ever had God bless you both 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

  • @floridaman6138
    @floridaman6138 Před rokem +2

    Fell asleep last night trying to catch up on videos on this channel. Just found you. This is a GREAT channel. I lived in Arlington Heights once upon a time, just too young then to remember much. Man, you have me looking at an area I hadn't heard of or considered. More and more, I'm thinking we're going to set ourselves up in the Philippines (married to a Filipina who came here in 2016, got 2 kids). Think we'd all be happier that way.

  • @ronzander7648
    @ronzander7648 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Rachel has great grammar, an accent does not dictate poor speech. You're on YT, just going to be a certain percentage of trolls, don't pay attention to them. Much love to you two, you're solid.

  • @billable1861
    @billable1861 Před rokem +6

    Here’s the other thing these people are overlooking that is huge: You don’t displace yourself and walk away from everything you know and established for a slave. You don’t go out of your way and build a home around someone you look down on.

  • @jeromebauer3057
    @jeromebauer3057 Před rokem +8

    You two are such a cute couple, you are both very fortunate to have each other. Not everyone can be as lucky as you two. If I wasn’t a happily married man in the USA, I would definitely consider a Filipina woman.

  • @carlbutts6937
    @carlbutts6937 Před rokem +1

    Hello Cory and Rachel this is Carl happy Subsciber and longtime viewer.
    I never miss your videos as you’ve mastered the effort to inform, educate, advise and entertain your viewers and subscribers.
    I sincerely enjoyed your latest vlog “Are Foreign Brides Slaves or Queens?
    Man you speak the truth, the whole truth and nothing
    but the truth in your responses.
    I’ve known your background from watching many of your previous vlogs.
    But I didn’t know the wealth of education and hint of net worth of your beautiful wife Rachel.
    Now I know that her father was a man of serious means and took care of his wife and family very well.
    Wow nothing but respect from me directly to you. I have been entertained by other vloggers in the Philippines but it does appear that you have invested serious time and thought into whom you have chosen to marry and partner your lifestyle with in the Philippines.
    I’m much older than you and what you have discovered and mastered over the past few years is different but just as valuable as what I’ve learned which initiated in 1987 but didn’t blossom into my true understanding until 1990 when I made my first trip to the Philippines 🇵🇭 with my significant other.
    She was also a very beautiful and well educated Filipina at a University in Manila from the hard work and efforts of her father and family.
    She to had wealth but was Americanized and a citizen whom I met in California.
    Man what an education I received from the moment I stepped off the plane at the Manila Airport until I got in my first “Jeepny” with the temperature around me of (90*) and no Airconditioning.
    Yes and I knew just enough “Tagalog” to confuse others and make myself look stupid.
    And the million dollar question was why was this beautiful Filipina interested in me?
    And there is an answer to that question that will even make you Cory want a San Miguel not a Red Horse.

  • @Danny-wd3tq
    @Danny-wd3tq Před rokem +1

    You are hulking up!💪keep up the hard work.

  • @OneMoreVacation
    @OneMoreVacation Před rokem +4

    Hi Corey...Love your videos..
    As for my experience with the Filipinos, they are so uncomplicated and always so relaxed and they DO LOVE this way of thinking and living...Any kind of stress or tention or intense talks are not what they prefer...They do not hassle too much to give an impression like they are some kind of Professor or so and do not care about trying to give the impression that they know everything better. And I guess reason for that is that they just keep their energy for relaxing and enjoying life and having fun. And they feel themselves more comfortable around people think and act like that and taking the life as easy as possible. I have a feeling that it is hard for a Filipino to just relax and be themselves with a westerner guy if the guy is not that relaxed and being himself ad a westerner from another culture...Like even when the westerner talks too perfect English, the time with them becomes quickly kinda challenge and they again can not get into that relaxed mood and they feel stressed. As a westerner guy, I do try to keep everything as simple as possible and they feel themselves much relaxed around me. But then I am not the one being himself, right? I am trying to find a balance there and struggling a bit. Well, a relation between two persons from two different worlds is indeed a challenge and needs a bit of adapting. Anyone can give me any advise about that?

  • @E-stylz-1967
    @E-stylz-1967 Před rokem +4

    Bro don't worry about people that don't have a passport and never been out of the country.👍🏾

  • @celyl
    @celyl Před rokem +2

    You are right , mutual respect goes along way. You both become a team in life. Anticipating each others needs and wants.

  • @FilCanGil
    @FilCanGil Před rokem +1

    Rachel is absolutely correct. You should always be open minded!!!
    To me the difference between a smart and an intelligent person is, a smart person is well versed in facts whereas an intelligent person is not only well versed with knowledge but is open minded enough to look at both sides of an issue and then come to perspicacious conclusion. Especially when it comes to topics such as religion, politics and economics.

  • @tarzanztoonz
    @tarzanztoonz Před rokem +3

    YOU BOTH ALWAYS make me feel so happy that you two are so loving and great for each other!

  • @anthonynales4910
    @anthonynales4910 Před rokem +3

    We know you are a loving couple with an awesome relationship. Don’t give the haters the time of day, they don’t deserve it.

  • @MaryAnnLyons-lu7lv
    @MaryAnnLyons-lu7lv Před 2 měsíci +1

    thank you guys for this video. Im a filipina married to american guy who treated me like a Queen don,t want me to work here in US, but because im a teacher and a nurse two bachelors degree, i love to work. Filipinos are hard working and if they work ,they work with passion. My husband and I was very happy with each other. We meet in a dating site but i already working for 5 years in hk that time,i went to canada and work there for two years while dating my husband now.I have money in my bank account and we never talk about money. Its just sad that theres a lot of jelousy on earth,Just be happy guys to the happines of others.Spread Love not Hate!!!

  • @allenfogleson
    @allenfogleson Před rokem +2

    This is all so spot on. My girlfriend is still there in the Phillipines while I am here in the USA. Recently on my birthday she woke up at midnight in the Phillipines special to call me and wish me happy birthday. That was so special so like you say she treats me like a king and she gets treated like the queen she is.

  • @sairamsald.3971
    @sairamsald.3971 Před rokem +3

    Sir, as Filipino, if you ever have friends that are planning in going here for a Filipina, please warn them, not every pinay is a good woman, in some cases they are only after your money, that end up foreigners here being stranded and homeless. Just saying from experience. and its reality. but im a happy for you sir Godbless!

  • @Ks-yq4xt
    @Ks-yq4xt Před rokem +4

    You guys look like king and queen. So happy for you two.

  • @bobrolls3800
    @bobrolls3800 Před rokem +1

    Cory I just want to say that I am impressed with how nice you are. You are kind to the egg heads who send in dumb comments instead of giving a reply which they deserve. I appreciate it. You ae giving a good exam,ple. Thanks.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem

      I feel bad for them and hope they find what I did.... an amazing life!

  • @awilliams310
    @awilliams310 Před rokem +2

    Honestly this channel is becoming my favourite. Booking to come over early next year for a month or so. Very excited to slow it all down and enjoy life. I'm from Canada and the rat race has become too much. NM the lack of good, kind and loving women. Bless you both.

  • @darrenthomson6315
    @darrenthomson6315 Před rokem +1

    Awesome video guys and great topic.. you have hit the nail on the head with your responses to peoples negative comments 👍🏻 keep up the fantastic content and you have a follower for life here 👏🙂

  • @liquidlightsurfer
    @liquidlightsurfer Před rokem +12

    Wow! When you repeated what she said to answer why she was removing your shoes for you, I literally burst into tears.
    I’ve never been treated with reverence and respect like that.
    Recognized and seen and shown appreciation in such a sweet way.
    I used to work 100-150 hours a week so my wife could stay home and home school our children, and she wouldn’t even make food for me.
    I was literally only sleeping 4-5 times per week, and I had to make my own food.
    I was so badly mistreated and taken advantage of that the contrast of your experience made me burst into sobbing tears.
    I’m coming.
    In about a year I will have everything sorted out so I can do a two year trial visit.
    Maybe we can meet when I travel through your area.

    • @AlitSelaba
      @AlitSelaba Před rokem +4

      Those things we learn from our mother. Not by words but by actions. We're used to seeing our mom treating our dad like a king. She even puts toothpaste on my dad's toothbrush! But in return, my dad treats my mom like a queen. He worked hard to put their 7 children through college (by working abroad) and he deserve the respect, care and love that we all give him. My mom had passed away and my dad is 85 now and we take care of him. No retirement home! I hope you find your happiness here in the Phils. It's never too late to have a fresh start. Good luck to you sir.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +4

      Reach out when it gets closer my friend and thank you for the comment

    • @NosiBalasi00
      @NosiBalasi00 Před rokem +2

      @liquidlightsurfer I hope you find a woman that’s willing to give you children you can homeschool and take care of your children and treat you like a king with lots of respect and service. How dare she, your current wife, ignores you and not respect you. I hope you really find that someone willing to change her name, move in with you, and bear the pain of child bearing and rearing and getting big and fatty just so she can treat you like a king and give you all the respect you deserve! How dare she is…. your current wife. So anyway. You gotta leave her now. Find a better one.

    • @YanCalen
      @YanCalen Před rokem +3

      😢 Come to Philippines

    • @liquidlightsurfer
      @liquidlightsurfer Před rokem +2

      @@NosiBalasi00 divorced 15 years ago and still looking for a good woman.
      They are so difficult to find here in Canada.

  • @Jrmyf77
    @Jrmyf77 Před rokem +3

    You two are absolutely correct! I’m married to a Filipina also and I’ve had a similar experience.

    • @moshpunk1
      @moshpunk1 Před rokem

      Can't wait to get myself a Queen Slave!

  • @BeerBreath702
    @BeerBreath702 Před rokem +2

    “You are not a queen because you woke up and said you are”. You just summed up the states perfectly. It’s embarrassing.
    Also is that a resinous floor? Looks amazing!!!!!

  • @dags2832
    @dags2832 Před rokem +1

    Just started watching maybe 5 videos so far and I love both of you. All the best.

  • @FanboysTriviaOfficial
    @FanboysTriviaOfficial Před rokem +3

    LOVE this video. Filipina's are freaking AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, SMART, FEMININE women who appreciate their men and want to take care of them, their homes and families. That is AMAZING! I've met more than a few American men with Filipina wives and they all have heard the same things that you are talking about in your video. None of them were looking for slaves in any way. It's so funny that American women think that men are taking advantage of Filipina's because they aren't intelligent enough to know better - when every one that I know is highly educated and can speak multiple languages! Again Filipina's are AMAZING! You certainly seem to have got an amazing one sir! So happy for you both!

  • @gaetanlattaro671
    @gaetanlattaro671 Před rokem +4

    Great job. I love you guys. I’m Waiting for my Philippine wife to join me in Quebec. I fell in love with her when I learned that she went to work in Hong Kong so her mother would get a comfortable life.

  • @SuccessiveApproximations-Intl
    @SuccessiveApproximations-Intl Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great video, I'm a new fan and subscriber, thanks for the fantastic content!! I've watched a few of you videos, and see that you've fixed the sound that was so bad on this one. Keep up the great work!!

  • @thnaykhwam6554
    @thnaykhwam6554 Před rokem

    Glad to hear that, Cory. Wish both of u, family more blessings and good health. That's d beauty of Eastern culture. Cheers

  • @feesperanzabeltran2470
    @feesperanzabeltran2470 Před rokem +3

    Thank you Corey for defending us Filipinas that we are not slaves. Most of the time, those people had bad experiences. And as you said it's just ignorance sorry to say that too. And most of the time they just envious, seeing you guys are happy, understanding and appreciate each other. Keep the fire burning guys 🙏❤️❤️❤️!

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      Thank you!

    • @JamesT65
      @JamesT65 Před 10 měsíci

      100% it jealousy that filipinas are more feminine than they can muster. Ignorance is a massive part of it.

  • @dannyarnold4201
    @dannyarnold4201 Před rokem +5

    *_Cory, you Colonizer, You!_*
    *_You Conquistador, You!_*
    *_You SLAVER, You!_*
    😅
    *_I so look forward to you guys’ videos when you put out a new one! You and Raquel are living the ideal life that I dreamt of!_*
    *_~I Love you guys!!_*
    🇺🇸♥️☺️🇵🇭

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      Thank you! Always appreciate positive comments

    • @dannyarnold4201
      @dannyarnold4201 Před rokem +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines:
      *_My pleasure, Brother! You are living the Dream as far as I’m concerned! Honor and Respect to you and your Beautiful wife, Raquel!_*
      *_I learned something just now. I learned if I notice any grammatical, or spelling or punctuation errors in my comments from now on, just leave them as is. Otherwise, you wipe out the “♥️” the Video Content Creator left on your comment!_*
      *_Lolz!_*
      *_Just curious, are you two on Instagram or anything? If so, could I get your Insta’s?_*

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem +1

      @@dannyarnold4201 Mine is in every video description

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 Před rokem +1

      I call my wife a Filipina Viking. She invade my lands. Paddled ashore and raided my village. Oh, the humanity. Now, I'm a happy slave.

  • @topscris
    @topscris Před rokem +1

    It was really fascinating how your channel's content has been evolving. I started watching your channel when the content was the house building way back I don't know when. I knew that wouldn't last and I didn't know what's going to come next. But now I'm not surprised that I'm watching content about relationships because I've started watching other channels at the same with yours, and others long before you.
    I'm a local, and over the past years I've observed more and more interests, and questions coming from foreigners about many things in your lifestyles as expats living in Philippines. So I see how much these kinds of content are much relevant and needed by the channel's subscribers more than other contents in youtube that were purposely done to get more viewership or views.
    Anyway, for me, I just know I will enjoy watching any content that sparks my interest, and it's made by a vlogger who really enjoys doing and making that kind of content the most.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před rokem

      Thank you! Appreciate the positive thoughts and comment. Didn’t want to stick with just house building as it would limit the channel growth. Frankly, it would not be very fun on my end either.
      Want to inspire people to live there dream and show them what this country has to offer.

  • @thesurvivor8482
    @thesurvivor8482 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You guys are amazing!!!! I’ve watched a few of your videos, super cool, and yes, you look very relaxed and happy!!!

  • @LIGHTNING351
    @LIGHTNING351 Před rokem +7

    Hello from South Florida Corey, and Raquel. Glad to see you guys are doing good.. I get the same thing here when people see how attentive my Filipina girlfriend is with me. Their mentality is that is why he is with her to have a slave at home. Nothing could be further from the truth. It is just in her culture. The great way she treats me makes me appreciate her all the even more. Honestly I think it is just jealousy. Thanks for the video.

  • @scottalanclymer
    @scottalanclymer Před 5 měsíci +1

    That was one of the most elegant, surgical, total, and complete smackdown, disassembly, and disembowelment of stupid commenters I've yet to see on the world wide net. Well said. The Philippines greatest natural resource is their women. And must be the men too cause those dads are raising their kids RIGHT. Love you guys. Thanks for the video. (Got my Pilipina btw. We're 16.5 years now, and more in love everyday. Dynamics are pretty much what you just described.) You two rock.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you for writing that! Positive comments are what helps the channel to grow. Happy to hear you found what I did and hope more men out there do what we did.

  • @jackj.4304
    @jackj.4304 Před rokem +1

    Semper Fidelis! Another great video, Bro. Best from Texas.

  • @pintados3041
    @pintados3041 Před rokem +3

    Yes, we are Queens. 👑🌹 Eventhough our husband is not as resourceful as I am who earns more than he earns. I opted him to stop Travel works. Nevertheless, I do my duty out of love and compassion. I always see it as my marriage vow. And I easily feel conscientious when I neglected his needs sometimes because I am busy. But what I love about my husband even I am still at work, he cooks and prepares our food. He can even do the laundry by hand and take care of our children. Then during weekends, that's the time that I can fully impart my Wifey skills and go out for family bondings without spending too much. 💝🎉

  • @Jordy120
    @Jordy120 Před rokem +4

    Nice way to address the negatives guys. Personally I believe they should be ignored but what you've said certainly gives perspectives they hadn't thought about. Cheers!

  • @yallah1214
    @yallah1214 Před rokem +2

    You living a dream life Corey👍. Negative people made to be ignored so don’t even bother. You are a young smart man who retire in young age and living the best life style. Keep the positive and a lot of us here will start to think seriously about retiring early and live overseas with affordable happy live instead of locked down by the system and all debt in the USA. Thanks again

  • @cainog8350
    @cainog8350 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing, for bien inspirational, I am from Argentina, and I have plan to go to Asia to look for my queen. Women here are slowly following the the example of American women, and right now I am taking care of my almost 92 year old grandma every day, while I work as a freelance digital artis from home, and I work as hard as possible to be finantially free and once my grandma passes away go to find queen in Asia, once again thank you for your videos, keep it up, and for being an inspiration, my best wishes for you both from Argentina!

  • @noemischmidt1152
    @noemischmidt1152 Před rokem +3

    Thanks for this lovely video. Love your content, this is an interesting topic to talk about and people will always have different opinions. You guys look very happy and seem to be enjoying life in the Philippines. I'm a filipina married to an American for 17 years now and currently living here in the US. We are both very happy and like you and Racquel, we treated each other like a king and a queen. Just ignore the negative comments don't let it affect you, they don't know what they're saying. More power to you both.

  • @emanuelusa63
    @emanuelusa63 Před rokem +3

    Yep I agree 100% I've been married to a Filipina for 15 years, and she is definitely the Queen in our household, slave no way, and people that believe that (probably mostly ferminazis) are completely ignorant of the truth

  • @taylorx2
    @taylorx2 Před rokem +2

    Your pool looks amazing, very nicely done! watched the first few mins.. I don't need to watch anymore.. it's apparent you two love each other from the videos you have made in the past and these people are just jealous. You look happy and healthy as does she. Forget the haters and rock on. I am coming to the Philippines later this year and can only hope to be so lucky.

  • @wtf6694
    @wtf6694 Před rokem +3

    In PH humble, modest, submissive
    In the West - queens, independent, picky

    • @semi5alpha
      @semi5alpha Před rokem

      Pricky like cactus thorns bro..

  • @AngelIsland88
    @AngelIsland88 Před rokem +5

    Hey Corey, I’ve been trying a lot of Filipino dating apps but feel they are scams, so this coming January I’m going to the Philippines to find someone special, is there anywhere in the Philippines that you feel I can find someone like rockell?

    • @lanieaguisanda6221
      @lanieaguisanda6221 Před rokem

      Visit pilipino cupid dating, ,oh her sisters are still singles

    • @AngelIsland88
      @AngelIsland88 Před rokem +2

      @@lanieaguisanda6221 I’ve tried that app and a few others but I think it would be better if I just went to the Philippines and approach girls there.

    • @mybitmix
      @mybitmix Před rokem

      It's difficult to approach random girls here. Filipino men are your competition. You will most likely get approached by ladies of the night or lady boys of the night.

    • @Cons2911
      @Cons2911 Před rokem

      It’s good that you see them as scams, there would be good ones out there but there are bad ones as well. Take your time, visit if you can, stay for a bit