Strategies To Quit Porn

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  • čas přidán 11. 06. 2024
  • When beginning your porn addiction recovery journey, it's essential to implement high-hope strategies!
    While porn can make you a low-hope person, shifting your thought process to involve positive thinking, strategies, and ideas can lead you down the path toward success.
    In this video, Dr. Trish Leigh will discuss:
    - The difference between low-hope and high-hope people
    - High-hope strategies that you can implement
    - Personal experiences with high-hope thinking
    - Ways to help you on your porn addiction recovery journey
    To get started on your journey:
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    or
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    ➡️Joing my Porn Addiction Recovery Program: drtrishleigh.com/get-started/
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    ➡️Enroll in Neurofeedback Coaching: drtrishleigh.com/neurofeedbac...
    🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹
    About this Porn Rewire Channel: Hi. I am Dr. Trish Leigh, a Cognitive Neuroscientist. I am on a mission to help people heal their brains from porn use. My videos are designed to help you learn that:
    🎯 Porn Damages Your Brain
    🎯 Porn Impairs Your Mental and Physical Health
    🎯 Porn Destroys Your Relationships
    Subscribe to this channel for brain tips to:
    🔹Quit Porn for Good
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    CHAPTERS
    00:48 What Low Hope People Do
    01:57 What Porn Does To Your Brain
    02:30 How To Be A High Hope Person
    02:43 High Hope Strategy #1 - Set A Clear And Specific Goal
    05:17 High Hope Strategy #2 - Agency Thinking
    06:20 What Is Agency Thinking? Knowing You Can Meet Your Goal
    07:05 High Hope Strategy #3 - Pathways Thinking
    07:31 What Does Pathways Thinking Mean? You're Committed To Your Goals And Any Pathways That Help You Get There
    09:27 Dr. Trish Leigh's Personal Experience With Pathways Thinking
    15:45 How Dr. Trish Leigh Can Help
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Komentáře • 127

  • @trillahypertrill
    @trillahypertrill Před měsícem +14

    been relapsing since . i feel wasted , drained, hopeless. tired of going back and forth with addictions

  • @rm-art1829
    @rm-art1829 Před měsícem +15

    You are so right when I quit porn just for one Month .I can hear Something My soul just like you said I feel like I can do anything oh I love the confident that i had now 😭❤️ I'm 28 years old now i was addicted to When I was Twelve I really wish I was known That all the problems that I had when I was young because of the porn ... I was really healthy.I wasn't smoke.My food is healthy. and yet.I was really depressed And tired all time 💔 I promise you I will share your videos and translate it to arabic And let all the medalist watch u God bless your sister❤️🇸🇦

  • @rez_j7716
    @rez_j7716 Před měsícem +10

    I'm 22 years old and I've been addicted to porn since I was 12. I've tried to quit millions of times, but I couldn't. I even went to a psychiatrist and took medication, but I was only able to stay clean for 46 days before relapsing .
    I've lost a lot of things because of this addiction, and now I'm losing my university too.

    • @sebastianrodriguez8692
      @sebastianrodriguez8692 Před měsícem

      Man, I am very sorry to hear what you are going through. Have you tried blocking software coupled with something can prevent yourself from deleting the blockers? Are you using Android or Windows?
      You cannot go on willpower alone.

    • @johnmilner7603
      @johnmilner7603 Před měsícem

      It’s normal to spank the monkey. Read up on it.

    • @danifilht
      @danifilht Před měsícem

      Get rid of your phone for a while

    • @rez_j7716
      @rez_j7716 Před měsícem

      @@sebastianrodriguez8692
      Is there a free program that I can install and prevent from being uninstalled? I live in a sanctioned country, so unfortunately, I can't use paid programs. But if you know of any program that I can install and then not be able to uninstall, with the password controlled by someone else, that would be great. I'm even willing to send the password to you so that I can never remove it from my phone and Windows again.

    • @rogerthompson4379
      @rogerthompson4379 Před měsícem

      I'm sorry to hear that keep fighting. The Holy Ghost is the way to overcome porn or any sin of that matter. Acts 2:38 Acts 1:8 KJV

  • @115abhinav
    @115abhinav Před měsícem +12

    I am embarking in a new journey today Dr Trish. Wish me luck.

    • @jugni0019
      @jugni0019 Před měsícem

      Muth met maro bhai.

    • @diamondkrauss6913
      @diamondkrauss6913 Před měsícem

      12 hours later my friend I'm taking a similar trek hope you have good outcomes

    • @qasimqazi3933
      @qasimqazi3933 Před měsícem

      Bro are u doing no tap?

  • @luizmeira67
    @luizmeira67 Před měsícem +1

    It's cool you talk slowly and we can hear all words that you sad perfectly

  • @acatisfinetoo3018
    @acatisfinetoo3018 Před měsícem

    Thanks for staying on this topic...This is so destructive and is ruining so many lives, young and old...been relapsing alot lately , but my goal is to be 100 percent free from this addiction!

  • @redtree732
    @redtree732 Před 2 dny

    Wow. This got deep really quick. Amazing!

  • @markwilliamson1091
    @markwilliamson1091 Před měsícem

    Keep up the great work and cause 😊.

  • @diamondkrauss6913
    @diamondkrauss6913 Před měsícem

    Your awesome i appreciate you taking the time to educate people seeking help have ran into too many brick walls seeking help from places that i should be able to get help from

  • @rockyyams
    @rockyyams Před měsícem +13

    Semen retention and staying away from porn is the way to go

    • @karimbenzema9-22
      @karimbenzema9-22 Před měsícem +2

      I kept semen and watched it, it takes the process backwards, don't watch it

    • @omarfaruk8164
      @omarfaruk8164 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@karimbenzema9-22I kept the semen inside me and watched porn but when some of the little semen came out little by little the semen were water liquid semen. Will it affect my brain?

  • @jcroxify
    @jcroxify Před 23 dny

    I want your new book Dr. Trish. Keep me posted on when it comes out.❤

  • @bryansmaximaful
    @bryansmaximaful Před měsícem

    This video is golden knowledge, I wish more people could see it

  • @user-yh7vr2kj6d
    @user-yh7vr2kj6d Před měsícem +3

    You are Amazing ❤

  • @davidstetson3805
    @davidstetson3805 Před 26 dny

    Thanks!

  • @rm-art1829
    @rm-art1829 Před měsícem +2

    I love u from Saudi arabia 🇸🇦 Thank you so much God bless you you change my life ❤️

  • @user-nx1tt4db7b
    @user-nx1tt4db7b Před měsícem

    Like that there is more dr Leigh

  • @aaronmedley4119
    @aaronmedley4119 Před měsícem +7

    Glory to God Thank you so much God bless you sister in Christ been addicted to corn for 30 yrs or better wanna see what God has ordained for me Sister keep fighting the good fight Many Many Blessings sister in Christ

    • @dashingrajput4494
      @dashingrajput4494 Před měsícem

      Oh my God😢, seriously?? What's your age now, your first exposure to corn in what age???

  • @jaypolarbear
    @jaypolarbear Před 17 dny

    God moved the heart of that book agent, Maybe he is also addicted and realized it

  • @emmanuelkabutey3826
    @emmanuelkabutey3826 Před měsícem +5

    Porn and masturbation has destroyed my life.my school life ,social life everything is ruin.I’m about to write midsemester exams in next few days .I do not know what I’m doing.lack of concentration,focus and no motivation to learnplease remember me in your prayers.my life is ruined💔

    • @dashingrajput4494
      @dashingrajput4494 Před měsícem

      May God Help you, from how many years you are addicted?

  • @vijendernegii
    @vijendernegii Před 27 dny

    thank you

  • @MultipleGrievance
    @MultipleGrievance Před měsícem +3

    Looking forward to the book....
    I've read; Your brain on Porn,
    Everymans battle, The White Book of SA, Out of the Shadows & Porn Nation.
    Right now I'm reading Dopamine Nation!
    I would recommend any of these books to Porn or Sex addicts. They've given me priceless info for me battles!

  • @scottlondon8382
    @scottlondon8382 Před měsícem +1

    Just in time 4th day in woke up with CRAZY urges

  • @sebastianrodriguez8692
    @sebastianrodriguez8692 Před měsícem +2

    My fellow man. You must find computer blockers that work effectively and couple it with ways to prevent you from deleting the apps/programs. That also includes finding ways to prevent yourself from going into the phone or PCs safe mode to delete them. I am happy to talk about this with yall and brainstorm ideas. For free I don't give a c**p about money, all I want is to help.

  • @shaymiehernandez9750
    @shaymiehernandez9750 Před měsícem

    Hey dr trish was wondering what your thoughts are on the easy peasy method, possible vid?

  • @ApextheEye-no4ul
    @ApextheEye-no4ul Před 29 dny

    I have trained my body, dieting, playing music for many years. I read, meditate and do breathwork. Have had my ideal physic for many years but have had a very hard time quiting porn. My longest streak of no porn was 116 days. But generally it hold for a few days or no day at all. The longest streak I have had this year is 44 days and now I am on day 3.
    I have tried to quit for many years and I'm 38 years old and good looking but have a really hard time getting a girl because emotional chaos that is under the surface. I do not have erectile disfunction though. But well I am in despair at times because lack of human connection on intimate level.

  • @xvr50dipj
    @xvr50dipj Před měsícem

    2:48
    So? Should I pick a random goal base on what?
    Cooking, running, reading?
    What I would cook?, What I would read? and why?

  • @therichbuddha3277
    @therichbuddha3277 Před měsícem

    Can we pre-order the book?

  • @user-yz8fy5fv2k
    @user-yz8fy5fv2k Před 14 dny

    Could my clear and specific goal be making the people in my life proud of who I become

  • @rationalist_123
    @rationalist_123 Před měsícem +2

    Hello Dr tresh ... I need ur help..I am from India ...I m struggling with this from 2-3 years ....I have no idea how could I cure my pied ....the place where I live no any psychiatrist Fully aware on this

    • @MultipleGrievance
      @MultipleGrievance Před měsícem

      In this case, the
      Internet is both your worst enemy and your best friend.
      All the answers that you seek Are already available online somewhere.
      The place to start I think is a book called "Your brain on Porn"
      If you're not much of a reader,
      Try the website "Fight the new drug"

  • @1AK2
    @1AK2 Před měsícem +15

    You are so beautiful Dr. Trish ❤

    • @harry-up1kb
      @harry-up1kb Před měsícem

      That’s a problem for me 🥶

    • @1AK2
      @1AK2 Před měsícem

      @@harry-up1kb same here 😅

    • @ahmed-iw3hx
      @ahmed-iw3hx Před měsícem

      cmon manee wrong time😭😭😭

    • @Mav44499
      @Mav44499 Před měsícem +2

      i just love her 🤓🍼💦👩🏼‍⚕️

  • @candycologne840
    @candycologne840 Před měsícem

    Just a suggestion, maybe you could still get your tittle in there if you make the “Explicit matter”, “Exxxplicit Matter”. 🤔

  • @whiteRaven9475
    @whiteRaven9475 Před měsícem

    About the purpose in your life. I 've herd this from Dr. Anna Lembke
    Stop looking for purpose in your life. Just stop, look around you and see what needs to be done.

  • @xvr50dipj
    @xvr50dipj Před měsícem

    0:47
    Is not about escape, is that don’t have nothing to do with staying on that side

  • @yusufyusuf-zv3tw
    @yusufyusuf-zv3tw Před měsícem

    Doctor, what if don't have a partner, is it healthy if dont have sex or we need sex for our health?

  • @admin15887
    @admin15887 Před měsícem +1

    Hello, doctor. I watch porn all the year round. I have erectile dysfunction now. It has been many years. I come from China, how can I get your help for treatment?

  • @xvr50dipj
    @xvr50dipj Před měsícem

    3:00
    If I have to be honest, for phrases like this, it is why porn tries to parody real life scenarios and make fun of it
    Cause is like I am trying to give superpower and exaggerate the value of rock just to learn programming for example
    I can learn programming by taking the right courses and taking the time to learn it, I can skip the part where I try to give superpowers to a rock and go directly to whatever I want to learn and the results will be the same

  • @omarfaruk8164
    @omarfaruk8164 Před měsícem +3

    Does excess masterbating for 3 years reduce sleep?

  • @joelight1524
    @joelight1524 Před měsícem

  • @mllermusic3979
    @mllermusic3979 Před měsícem

    @drtrishleigh please can you do a video on how to lower your sex drive

  • @KingTaylorScoot
    @KingTaylorScoot Před měsícem

    Sometimes I think how my life would be if I never discovered porn

  • @MuhammadImran-ok6zh
    @MuhammadImran-ok6zh Před měsícem

    Thank you very much.
    Last two months I have not watched porn, this is only due to your videos. I have two doubts please guide me.
    😮
    1 .Are sex stories also dangerous like porn.
    2. Is it ok to go to prostitute until I get my partner. Some time I feel it very difficult.

  • @matthewhawke8902
    @matthewhawke8902 Před měsícem +2

    I understand refraining from pornography, however in terms of the function of the genitals, isn't it a good idea to keep them working at least occasionally? Like any other set of muscles, if you don't use them eventually you lose them....unless there's other ways to "exercise" that area.

  • @realguy5O
    @realguy5O Před měsícem

    Fia the Deathbed Companion

  • @Ghostfacing.12
    @Ghostfacing.12 Před měsícem

    Am trying to quit porn it's not really easy

  • @adrianhaynes5506
    @adrianhaynes5506 Před měsícem

    I got into porn with the right frontal lobe meningeoma on my brain, I lost interest after it was removed.

  • @johnmilner7603
    @johnmilner7603 Před měsícem

    Playing with yourself is normal.

  • @josephjones4207
    @josephjones4207 Před měsícem

    Con artist

  • @vkt2805
    @vkt2805 Před měsícem +2

    There's no "strategy", only 1% really quits, and probably mostly by luck

    • @MultipleGrievance
      @MultipleGrievance Před měsícem

      What exactly does Quitting porn using luck look like??

    • @tmolyneux
      @tmolyneux Před měsícem +2

      I agree that very few ever quit, though I don't think it is by luck when they do.

    • @sebastianrodriguez8692
      @sebastianrodriguez8692 Před měsícem +4

      That is not true.

    • @vkt2805
      @vkt2805 Před měsícem

      ​@@MultipleGrievance it looks smth like me quitting nicotine 5 years ago, after gizzilions of attempts, when after 6 months of quitting I had to go to mountains because I had smoking craves, and after another 2 years I had another constant cravings for a cigarette, and then I thought to myself "If I'm gonna struggle like that craving for a smoke all my life - I might just get back to smoking and never try to quit again".
      "I'm gonna quit quitting the cigarettes"- was another thought that I had before my final Quit, because I was so tired of quitting and failing. So I say - Yes. I was Lucky: 15 years of smoking, around 5-7 years of consciess deliberate quitting attempts, and almost 5 years smoke-free, mostly by Luck, because I could have gone back to it at any point up to 2 years ago, and I could have gave up of quitting - at any point of all those ten years.
      I'm consciously trying to quit corn for about.. 12 years- and still no Luck :( This is too strong of a vice. Its basically our nature - to reproduce, and corn - is a substitute to that. Smoking nicotine is not in our nature, so I say - I had more Luck in that department than I'm having with quitting corn.
      And I'm alcohol free for about.. 7-8 years, but I couldn't say I was addicted to it.
      And I had abstained from coffeine couple of times for 6 months - but none of these(nicotine, coffee, or alcohol) - are as strong as corn addiction. Trust me. That's why there's a statistics that only 1% really quits corn. Chances are similar to winning a Jackpot in Las Vegas casinos.

    • @vkt2805
      @vkt2805 Před měsícem +1

      @@tmolyneux did you quit?

  • @yassirkhay
    @yassirkhay Před měsícem +1

    useless talk

  • @peterhannon9972
    @peterhannon9972 Před měsícem

    On our death bed we need Christ not our other self. If we don't trust the gospel we are lost. 1 cor 15 3_4 for delivered unto you first of all that which I also received how that christ died for our sins and that he was buried and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures.