How to move on from someone you love
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- They promised to be there through thick and thin but now they're gone. Left you high and dry. How do you move on without them?
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00:00 - Intro
02:42 - Option 1
03:51 - Option 2
05:26 - Option 3
07:33 - Option 4
07:59 - Option 5
09:39 - Option 6
11:25 - Option 7
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When I was broken hearted someone told me.
Quote: If you can love the wrong person this much, imagine how much you can love the right one ❤️
I hope this helps 😊
Thanks
Thanks
Thank u❤️
It's help a lot thank you
wow.....that is beautiful
Don’t be where you are tolerated, be where you’re celebrated 🔥
This point REALLY HIT... I wanted to even type this reply..
God bless u for being positive all the time
So what if you’re the one causing the trouble.. you should be tolerated too?
@@dredalisixtus9538 😆😆😆😆
@@dredalisixtus9538 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Do not go where you are tolerated, go where you are celebrated."
I love this lines 👍👍👍
Pay attention to what we call love these days:
Sometimes people don't really love you, they just love how you love them and use that to make you feel loved. They enjoy your presence and feel comfortable around you, but there will come a time when they will get bored of you and you will realise that it wasn't love but they were in it with you for fun, and you NEED to do the hard part of Moving on.....
This is it
Very very true
🙌🙌
I wonder if this is how he l felt. It hurts so much
True ✌️
Until you meet someone who matches your energy a lot of people will make you feel you ask for too much....
This hurts so bad. I really love him so much and I hate the idea of him being with another woman. It makes my stomach ache. This hurts so bad. I know I’ll make it to the other side of this pain 😣🙏🏾
How are things? You spoke my exact thoughts :(
kita..
So sorry 👏
@@jennykerekes5105 girl I’m still wrapped up in to be honest! But his narcissism is making it easier to walk away! I know I deserve better 🙏🏾 now I’m starting to feel bad for the next woman if he doesn’t heal first.
Don't worry baby gal
The only way to move on is to get time and travel I promise you that u will come back home when you are healed and forgot everything
Sometimes on your journey of travelling u may get a chance of finding a new love I mean someone who can understand u and your value
She said she need a break about a month ago now she came back looking for validation. I'm long gone
Distract yourself. Don't remain in your quiet space. Find new hobbies, make new friends.
Move on even if it hurts to your core - don’t let anyone get to your self-love and step over your dignity.
im going through a heartbreak at the moment. its been almost 2 months now, sometimes i forget about her but as soon as i see any of her close friends calling my phone, i begin to go into that state of trauma. i can feel my heart beats faster and faster. i hate to listen to love songs now. i cant normally go outside from my house cos we stay in the same area. sometimes i need someone to talk to but it seems no one really understands what im going through. i just watch motivational videos on tiktok to calm my nerves done and keep me going.
its not easy for me. i pray time comes quick to heal me completely. im a music producer and sometimes i cant even work. a lady whom i cared and loved for all these years could betrayed me these way..wow..i never saw this coming. thanks Jessica. i think God knows best.
Working on ourselves and doing things that we love doing - having a life outside of the past relationship - will help us to move on from the wrong person. And maintaining those actions whether in a relationship or not, is always great for oneself and will attract the right partner for the long term - when we also have a life and interested outside our our relationship - single or not. Whoever is watching this, I pray you have a prosperous and fulfilling life overall! 😘❤️
Hloo Lazo grt comment! Kip it up
@@juniortheruralfarmerjunior6962 Thank you! Hope you’re doing well! :)
Thanks - Nathalie! I appreciate it.
Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth!
So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness.
But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
time heals all
Hey Nathalie, thanks for reminding me this.
It's been 2 weeks since we broke up. As much as she's made it clear that she wants to move on from me, there's always been a part of me that thinks that we'll try and find a way to get back together. But I realized that it's taking a toll on me mentally because she was all that I was thinking about and I still felt strongly about her, that I forget that I had a life of my own. 😂 Some nights I cried myself to sleep and waking up sad, wondering what I would've done differently.. I was literally a mess!
But after watching this video yesterday, I did exactly what Jessica had said (completely cutting her off) and focusing on myself more, I seem to enjoy being in my own space. 🙂💌 I learned that self love is more important than giving out love. Yes, I know that it's just been 2 weeks and I haven't completely gotten her out of my system, but forsee myself living life a lot better with peace of mind.
Thank you Jessica 🙏
I really wish i can move on as well
How’s it going now man?
It's ok to cry.. don't stay there to long. Move on go on your life.if she can leave easy like that means she's not the one in the first place. We give to much for the person we love and forget to love ourselves. This is what I have learned. Learned to love yourself before you can love somebody. God remove that person out of your life. Because he has a plan for you. Me as well needs to move on. I need to stop and breathe.
@@GG-cl9ww sighs..
How you doing now?? 😊
Got heartbroken some hours ago.
This video came in when I needed it the most..
These are hard truths. Heartbreak creates a void in your life and the universe hates a void. Make sure you feel the emptiness with positive affirmation. Much love to all who go through heartbreak.
Get up from the table when love is more longer being served.
Never offer your friendship as a consolation prize
I can't thank you enough for sharing these tips. They are so helpful. Surely, there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man. No one deserves a one-sided relationship.
No one at all
You've just talked about me here, point by point you outlined exactly what I have been through.The biggest lesson I learned is; Time heals everything. With time, we get over people and situations. My mantra is: No matter how painful it is, it too shall pass.
It's absolutely true. Peace be with you!
Great video 📸
Ur right
Jessica, I'm telling you this with heavy eyes, you've given me hope today and for that I'm thankful.
God bless you.
Jessica I so love your channel. You have really helped my life. You're a blessing to our generation.
Thank you Jessica! This was the message that I needed to hear. You are appreciated more than you probably know.
You're so reassuring, and comforting!
Your words are balsam in our hearts!
God bless you!
Thank you Jessica! Very helpful!
May I add that you’re probably the best relationship counsellor I found online…….very succinct and always on point! …….and no faffing about on videos, very highly professional!
I absolutely agree! Never settle! Thank you Jessica 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I really love the way you talk
It just makes me listen all through the videos without skipping
The accent, the voice tone just everything is superb
You just made my day, especially when I was down. Thanks for spreading positivity
Your guidance has changed my life. I'm becoming the best version of myself. I value myself now.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
This is good insight !!
JESSICA, You've got wisdom in your words....Keep up the Job you are doing!
Jessica you are gradually becoming my mentor, please keep it up.
You are so easy to listen to. Soothing voice and very articulate in your expressions. This was pleasantly educational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
Welldone Jess. I’ve been there before but I cut all means of communications with her and it worked like magic. I’m a happy man now ... many thanks for sharing xxx
hi Jesse, i’m so glad you posted this video today, it was just on the right time….thanks so much, i think i’m being relieved 😊❤️😊
Marry someone who loves you, not the one you love may God give me the desire of my heart 😢💔🙏
Sorry can I know you more than this
Thanks again Jessica...your always on point and your such an inspiration and motivator...this is really useful and something to consider...and also on my part where the kids are Involved ....will take much from this
Thank you for the kind words and the advice Jessica. Your videos are really helping a lot of people around the world than you can imagine, I'm truly glad that I've run into this particular video. I hope you continue sharing such videos which really help us heal emotionally and mentally. I wish you success and more love❤️
Thank you Jes
Yes I deserve better! To anyone reading this trust me you are worth more then you know. Someone will treat you as such. Don’t give up!
Omg! after God the creator we have Jessica. Thanks God for this beautiful soul called Jessica, Jessica is a physical and a mental healer. The concepts why we're living today or the purpose of us being alive is defined by Jessica every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade and I hope and believe she will live to see a century. God's love on Jessica os, God bless you.
Very true all you said in this video Jessica, happy to be a follower of your videos. Thanks for the video 🙏
This is so so touching and powerful. Just what i needed.
Until u value yourself and love yourself first, broken heart will hit u hard. Hi Jess and keep soaring. ❤️❤️❤️
This video is one of the best I have watched. Wow Jessica you’re indeed special 👊
Thank you very much for the advice given. I must say you are very good at this and you are right on target. Keep up the good work. 😊
You are really a blessing to my life ma. Your lectures have aided me a lot more to know myself worth.
You said some real real things you were right on point!!!💯
Wow Jessica, u r such a breeze wow. I've been listening to u all year n still get those Ahaa moments, thank u soooo much for not holding back because shuuùuu u really r showing us(me personally) blind spots from a female's perspective. May God increase yo well of knowledge n wisdom, big love to thee Jess.💚💚💚...Oh Yeah!!!
You are loved.
Thank you so much for this.
Your Advice goes a long way.
Sometimes there are no physical abuse or any of the abuses you mentioned. Sometimes it's just the person you love so much place their family members above you in that situation you have to let them go, because love is not enough, complete loyalty is everything.
You must have a PHD in Interpersonal Relationship Counseling.This was powerful reinforcement to finally let the remnants of my prev relationship go.Been 7 yrs,and I have been still calling her every 4- 6 mo's. You really brought enlightenment in clarifying the next thing i need to do to let my Ex go once and for all.Thank you,this was so what I needed to hear.❤️🙏
Wish you well on your journey. Take care
God bless you Jessica you are there to save many souls
Crying over the hurt me and move on is what I do...
Thanks Jessica,this is great
Very true "go away with your friendship if you can't love me" 🙏🙏🙏
I totally agree with all you say Jess.
I have been watching your videos and i must say you really wonderful.
NEEDED this!!!! Thank you! Blessings to you and yours!!!
Thank You Jessica. I needed that. Looking back with clarity. I lost very little.
Awwww 😢 😢 😢 😢 awwwww Jessy God bless u 😢. This just popped up at the right time. Oh may God bless u. I am currently in a severe pain beyond what I can explain
Thank you! I needed this right now. I'm really going through a bad situation right now. I have a story to tell. It's too long and I'm heartbroken. I promise in a few days to make the post. I have to get my head together. I've given this woman everything. And she is exactly the reason I don't like forming attachments.
I like every little word or advice she always shares,she thought and shaped me so much untill i subscribed to her channel now I'm better knowing a differences between love and nonsensical e.t.c
i didn't know I'm this clever i did almost everything she said when i was broken hearted, and trust me i moved on so quick.
Thank you so much for making this video and sharing this information. This really opened my eyes and your words are helping me through this tough time.
I loved this video and needed to hear this! I’m in the process of moving on from someone I considered the love of my life. I had to let go for myself because I didn’t feel valued, so I chose myself.
You got this!
@@JessicaOS hey Jéssica i would like to ask you something, i was talking to a girl then from one day to another she said she thought she was ready for a relationship and then she's not
Youre simply the best jessica,keep it up
I love this woman 🔥🔥🔥.
Such powerful wisdom
This is what was needed for me!!! These feelings I have are making me crazy. I just want to move on without thinking about this person who I allowed in my life and destroy it. I feel like relationships aren't for me anymore and I feel like I caused all of this although I didn't!!! I hate this awful feeling
What I like about this it has not helped only about the relationship staffs, it helps also about life in general
I was so nervous, mute, depressed, weak, but today I suddenly watch your Vedio and it really make me happy 😊 I loved someone for 5 years but that' person leave me witbout any reason.. I was shattered completely 😪 💔 but then I saw 👀 your Vedio helpd me a lot to think makes my ❤️ heart little normal thanks 😊 love from India 🇮🇳
First off you’re absolutely beautiful and I love your accent! Everything you said was very spot on, wishing everyone happiness and strength this year❤️
La Bella you are beautiful 😍
Jessica you are the Best...Always gives the Best Advice. Thank You
Whenever Jessica brings up a subject she's always nailed it right in. I have yet to read a comment where someone said Jessica is wrong. Seriously I have yet to see that. Everything the girl said is something most of the time a woman did or do to a man. The man always give himself away to a woman whom he loves so much and what the woman did; ruin that freedom.
This piece is absolutely awasome. Thanks
Totally agree I must say it's easier said than done little by little
This is so helpful. Just ended my relationship of six years. It was a roller coaster relationship.
This a masterpiece I had to pen down every statement. God bless you really
Keep up the amazing work Jessica 🙏 Emad from Norway
This is so true Jess I really appreciate the information...
You are huge, much love for you 🖤 I really appreciate all your efforts.
Thanks so much Jessica...Feeling better already listening to you...I will move on.
What I was waiting 4...
Thanks Jessica
Bless up!!!
Thank you Jessica...I so needed this
I'm watching this video over and over again in oder to master using your phrases in my daily conversation as well 🙏 I'm ivorian struggling to get a good speaking level in English 🙏 Thank you teacher Jessica. We all have our purpose by learning alongside you 🙌🏻
Jessi you the best 😭😭tears of joy wow that's brilliant that's awesome 💕💕with you life's good 👌
Best words of wisdom. We really appreciate alot ur awesome words of wisdom. Ahmed Qatar.
Thank you for lifting me again about this...thank you...!!!
Very beautiful and inspiring message... Thanks
Thanks so much. I've really learnt a lot since I came across your channel
Thank you so much Jessica. This is powerful stuff right here!🔥🙏🏾
Repurpose and rebuild your life is what I love a lot kudos to you 💞🙌💪✌️💯
You can love someone and care about them but always love yourself no matter what even if they walk away.
Thank you Jessica. This is a Gem.👍❤
I'm in so much pain. we grew together, from being the worst version of ourselves to being awesome humans. I worked so hard to make sure she becomes every mans dream only for her to leave me now 😭.... I've seen so many breakups but never knew it hurts this much. I cry so much even as a man. I cry at work, home and even in church.
I want the pain to go away, I can't handle it. I am at the verge of depression 😢. I just want to stop feeling this way😢😢..
Thank you for this timely piece !
Wow, I feel this...
Thank you Jessica.
thanks Jessica am really going through everything you have said here its been so hard to get over her I still think of her and it's hurts so bad when I think about her but I need to follow every single step you have stated as a way out
Hi Jessica your clips are so helpful. Thank you for your advice.
Thank you so much for the heads up.
U are really helping us
This has really and truly help you have no idea thank thank thank.... more of these videos please 🙏
Thank you madam I really needed 😢 now I will focus on my military life and save my country and train more in judo ..... Thank you once again 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 thank you for wishing us we'll.... Hopefully everyone gets better... I'm trying my best to get better 😊
This advice was so great I really take note of it keep it up.
Thank U so much Jessica 🥺😭💔your videos have been nothing but really helpful to me in this healing process that I'm currently going through now. I broke up with my boyfriend last week on the 3rd of February, whom I've been dating with for the past 2 years, after I found out he's been cheating on me and the poor treatment he's been giving me. it's not easy even now, however with u on my side it's been really helpful. I videos are appreciated ❤️
3 years and I know I'll heal gradually, I can't completely put an end to our communication because of our son but it's well.