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I strongly disagree with the sentiment that narcissists are not bad people. They absolutely are and they do awful things to others. I say this as the child of narcissists who became one but fortunately broke through it and saw the pain I’d caused others. I was a bad person and I did bad things. As adults, there are no excuses. It is our duty to become aware of how we impact the people around us and fix things if that impact is destructive.

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Perfect example of a democrat.👌🏽

My neighbour told someone , that me i am not married may be he is impotent and transgender , i told him in return, why doesn't he send his daughter to my room and check 😂😂😂😂, that's how u handle Gaslight, u don't just keep quiet otherwise they will do it again.

What if their reality is fucked??

For me its pure panic then the reaction that comes with it.

Jackie’s Sober Date of 08/18 is my birthday! I have also recently been diagnosed with Bipolar and came here to get more information.

I got into the proper liquid ketamine 2 decades ago, raving. I can imagine that under measured doses and not all the time, it is gonna help. However it's easy to do it too much or all the time if you have an addictive personality. It is a lovely feeling though😊❤❤

Dark empaths are people who do understand emotions, but use those to play on other people for their own manipulative and abusive agendas. Because they know how to work people, they can get what they want more easily with little to no effort. All they have to do is start playing with your heart strings and you're singing the tune they want you to

Here's a difficult question, one I don't know the answer to because it carries so many heavy implications. Should we make brain scans mandatory for positions of authority?

I have bpd and married to narcissist

"Its your fault I'm hurting you"

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I am sorry, people in the professional do not know the difference, only the good ones. People who claimed to be psychologist make youtube videos where they relate drama queens (basically narcissistic) with borderline. Only good ones know the difference.

"time to get out" if only it were that easy when it comes to narcissistic parents 😥 can't count how many times I was told "that never happened", "I never said that" "you need psychiatric help" just for bringing up something that literally just happened 🤦🏼‍♀️

Exactly ❤

I live in a small SE Texas town and want to talk about cliquey, 🎉 that doesn't even start to cover it. It was my government employer's idea but it has 😢 taught me many things about myself. So, I only have ten months to go and not only do I 🎉 retire but i am not only "getting the hell outta Dodge" but also going back to upstate New York and never leaving again. This assignment taught me that I am a true dyed in the wool introvert and I am very happy about finally finding out who I am.

I someone mildly on the introspective introvert spectrum I loved the lockdowns. I wanted them to never end.

OMG!! I have been looking all over for some information. My friend is, I believe going through perimenopause, she’s displaying psychosis with schizophrenia - I have no idea how to get her help! She takes Xanax and had to take phenobarbital and helped but she’s not taking to help with psychosis but because the doctor won’t prescribe Xanax. If there’s any help or resources please let me know

I'm sure

If one of us is crazy, I would never assume it was me. They would have to go. 😅

Yes pretending to care then throw it in your face during a fight .hmmm .

My husband

He says he sees it in animals... "The animals get worried because they don't know how they're going to act "...whatever.. that's a dumbass comment animals are going to react to people to give them negative energy at all people with BPD don't have negative energy unless they're pissed off and in that case the animals go hide anyways... I don't know I just think that was a stupid ass comment.

as someone who's been betrayed traumatically and has also betrayed someone traumatically, they're both two different feelings of he same situation, like a coin with two sides. both times, i wanted both the person who betrayed me and the person i betrayed back in my life, and i'm working and waiting for the day time fixes everything. I had it in my heart to forgive the person who betrayed me, but that was after 7 months and a big heartbreak and we're fixing things nowadays. i can only hope im shown the same outcome for both of them, which is the ability to love each other with no negativity, only forgiveness and acceptance.

I feel like this will increase with the ageing population

Thank you so much for this. Anger is a masked fear. It can tell us so much if we can separate the emotional impact, we can recognize the fear. When I know which fear I’m working with, I become useful and effective.

I’m an Anxious introvert with inattentive adhd, its very frustrating having crippling fear in social situations.I’m 42.

So, im a narcissist, i self isolate. I still have to work and fill the emotional needs of my immediate family. I find dissociating seems like the only way to control my behavior. I guess im just trying to find a way to stay sane and healthy while atill not being me.

I was raised by a narcissist and a borderline personality. My step dad was a narcissist and made my life hell while my mom was emotionally and mentally unstable. It was hell and I’m just realizing I might have borderline personality disorder.I struggle every day with my emotions,the loneliness and abandonment feeling I feel everyday.

Thank you doc, it's not fair to describe Something that does Not exist. Reminds me of a hobo-car-seller.

😲 I did this a couple of years ago and it made a large difference. I have only had one "occurrence" with the person, since. (Thank you, Lord!) It used to be a traumatic situation, almost, daily. If only I had thought of it sooner. My health would be better, but I am grateful for the idea and courage to do it. (I prayed for an answer to make it stop.)

Yes💫💫💫Dr Raminis book is the Rand Mc Nelly through the topic of narc abuse Thank you for spreading your wisdom. The good will conquer the dark

Yep...Trump.

This must be so hard to live with…

She talk better than any 3 year old i know

25:40 My brother fits this to a T. Since he was 3, he was violent (beat a kid up in daycare), got kicked out of multiple schools, tried to blow up the neighbor's car, and SA'd me from the time he was 9 until he was 18. His therapist years later apparently told him the reason for his issues is because he was a girl, so now he's transitioned into a woman. Make this make sense.

I literally cant do this I’m too emotional and sensitive for this lol my face says it all

I have adhd very patient wife my son has it but daughters don’t. I’ve never taken anything for it and never will. I do okay make decent money I have a hard time understanding tasks at first but the thing is once I fully understand something and know how to do something I feel like I’m one of the best at it.

I'm from India and "they" regarded me as a person who is not worthy at all....

OMG, those are my mom‘s favorite words. “I never did that.” “I never said that.” I just laugh at her when she does it now.

Your description of your father sounds very, very much like my father.

My father was a malignant narcissist. Extreme narcissistic rage, explosive rage, and bottomless, shameless, infantile narcissism.

How do you stop it or make sure it doesn't grow. Also how do u switch at will?

My last relationship, I’d record our conversations. Because I tried to break up with him. But every time I’d *try* to break up with him. He’d FOUCE himself into a seizure, to stay with me. I thankfully got out, but it took for him to have a psychological breakdown (in the hospital and actually attacking male nurses & security. He’s only 130lbs). Also just because someone is physically small in body size, doesn’t mean that on a breaking point where you try to leave but they go crazy. Inner strength comes out. So please be careful when trying to leave someone who is a narcissistic, whether they have a violent background or not.

Ooorrrr, you ALWAYS take a note pad into ANY conversation with your horrible emotionally abusive boss. Look for the next baby, there ain't no changing evil! Find yourself a place where they are awesome and pay you for your awesome!

Never thought of myself as a person with ocpd, but I meet all 8 criteria and there’s enough cash in my bank account to buy a house. Life has been hard for me tbh. I’m in my forties now and not sure what to do with it

I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but haven’t yet felt the need to take any more since then.