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The Wild Edges of Being Human w/ Allison Crow
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How is your relationship with yourSELF?
These videos will help you develop a deeper sense of self-awareness, self-trust, & inner grounded confidence in life, work, & relationships. So much of life only teaches us the constraints we can fit in a nice, tidy storage box. As you know, the reality of life is the nuances & complexities extend way beyond. I'm here for the no B.S. truth -all the way to the edges.
Self-compassion & your relationship with all parts of you are the most powerful resources you can have. I teach & speak on these things in the context of life and work.
I am a SELF-Relationship, life & business coach, author, writer, and artist. I have a 20+ year history of coaching clients in life and business.
đ Visit: Website: allisoncrow.com/
đ Get your copy of UNARMORED: Finding Home in the Wild Edge of Being Human: allisoncrow.com/unarmoredthebook/
These videos will help you develop a deeper sense of self-awareness, self-trust, & inner grounded confidence in life, work, & relationships. So much of life only teaches us the constraints we can fit in a nice, tidy storage box. As you know, the reality of life is the nuances & complexities extend way beyond. I'm here for the no B.S. truth -all the way to the edges.
Self-compassion & your relationship with all parts of you are the most powerful resources you can have. I teach & speak on these things in the context of life and work.
I am a SELF-Relationship, life & business coach, author, writer, and artist. I have a 20+ year history of coaching clients in life and business.
đ Visit: Website: allisoncrow.com/
đ Get your copy of UNARMORED: Finding Home in the Wild Edge of Being Human: allisoncrow.com/unarmoredthebook/
Late Diagnosed ADHD - Medicated or Educated?
Are you a late-diagnosed woman with ADHD? Did your Doc educate you or just medicate you. The importance of Self-Education in ADHD
I explore Sari Saldin's book 'Women with Attention Deficit Disorder' and share my personal journey with ADHD. A colleague's question about my diagnosis led me to realize I was given medicine without education. While medication reduced my mental load, I found that slowly educating myself about ADHD in women has been profoundly self-compassionate, helping me relieve old burdens and thought patterns. I encourage everyone to take their education into their own hands.
00:00 Introduction to the Book and Personal Experience
00:28 The Impact of Medication on ADD
00:54 The Importance of Education and Self-Compassion
01:26 Final Thoughts on Self-Education
Some of the books that have helped me (amazon affiliate links):
Women with Attention Deficit Disorder: Embrace Your Differences and Transform Your Life by Sari Solden Navigating Life with Late Autism and ADHD Diagnosis: amzn.to/3WkTS99
ADHD: Figuring it Out Steby By Step an A-Z by Leanne Maskell amzn.to/4eWNcoP
đ Visit: Website: allisoncrow.com/
đ Find out more about 1:1 coaching with Allison allisoncrow.com/coachingwallison/
đ Internal Family Systems Coaching and a brief IFS Model Overview allisoncrow.com/ifs/
đ§ Podcast: allisoncrow.com/better/
đ Get your copy of UNARMORED: Finding Home in the Wild Edge of Being Human allisoncrow.com/unarmoredthebook/
â° www.tiktok.com/@allison_crow
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I explore Sari Saldin's book 'Women with Attention Deficit Disorder' and share my personal journey with ADHD. A colleague's question about my diagnosis led me to realize I was given medicine without education. While medication reduced my mental load, I found that slowly educating myself about ADHD in women has been profoundly self-compassionate, helping me relieve old burdens and thought patterns. I encourage everyone to take their education into their own hands.
00:00 Introduction to the Book and Personal Experience
00:28 The Impact of Medication on ADD
00:54 The Importance of Education and Self-Compassion
01:26 Final Thoughts on Self-Education
Some of the books that have helped me (amazon affiliate links):
Women with Attention Deficit Disorder: Embrace Your Differences and Transform Your Life by Sari Solden Navigating Life with Late Autism and ADHD Diagnosis: amzn.to/3WkTS99
ADHD: Figuring it Out Steby By Step an A-Z by Leanne Maskell amzn.to/4eWNcoP
đ Visit: Website: allisoncrow.com/
đ Find out more about 1:1 coaching with Allison allisoncrow.com/coachingwallison/
đ Internal Family Systems Coaching and a brief IFS Model Overview allisoncrow.com/ifs/
đ§ Podcast: allisoncrow.com/better/
đ Get your copy of UNARMORED: Finding Home in the Wild Edge of Being Human allisoncrow.com/unarmoredthebook/
â° www.tiktok.com/@allison_crow
đȘ allison_crow
đ” wildesgesofbeinghuman
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Being Hard on Myself & Diving Boards: Notes to My Community.
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Video reading of emails I send to my email community. Sign up at allisoncrow.com Hello, Fellow Humans! Sharing a moment of groundedness and introspection. After overcoming significant health challenges and personal life events, I've embarked on a journey of self-discovery and unmasking. Facing the uncertainty of blending personal and professional identities, I'm here with a fresh perspective on...
Deconstructing Shame In Feeling Disappointment
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 15PĆed dnem
I just made a huge connection about my childhood. I wasn't allowed to experience disappointment as a kid, and recently, I've felt good, but today, small irritations made me feel shame. I realized I was holding myself to an impossible standard of constant joy and questioning why shame was present. Instead of hating myself for feeling shame, I got curious, and it reminded me that as a child, it w...
Does Complaining Really Mean You Have a Victim Mindset? NO!
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 7PĆed dnem
I can't stand that lazy frame from the personal development world of "Complaining is a Victim Mindset." - If you meet complaints with curiosity, you can experience the power of Conscious Complaining This quickie video explores the benefits of conscious complaining and how forced positivity can be harmful. I share personal experiences and techniques for processing difficult emotions through inte...
Lessons Learned from Gabor Maté and Compassionate Inquiry
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Lessons I've Learned from Gabor Maté and Compassionate Inquiry In today's episode (which is also available as an audio podcast), I delve into lessons learned from one of my favorite teachers and approaches: Gabor Maté and Compassionate Inquiry. I explore his method as a facilitator, the importance of gaining consent, his views on addiction as attempts to solve suffering, and authenticity versus...
Life Notes - You are Doing It Wrong
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 21PĆed 21 dnem
Life Notes is a series where I read you from my writing bu Author Allison Crow. Philosophical Reflections on Life, Death, and Belonging Sharing a personal reflection on the complexities of life, love, and death. Exploring the pressures of societal expectations, the struggle to be 'enough', and the ultimate importance of belonging and self-acceptance. An introspective journey on finding one's ce...
Welcome to The Wild Edges of Being Human
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 80PĆed 21 dnem
How is your relationship with your SELF? These videos will help you develop a deeper sense of self-awareness, self-trust, and inner grounded confidence in life, work, and relationships. So much of life only teaches us the constraints we can fit in a nice, tidy storage box, and as you know, the reality of life is that the nuances and complexities extend way beyond. I'm here for the no B.S. truth...
Rebuilding Trust after a Beat Down
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 28PĆed mÄsĂcem
Rebuilding Trust After a Beatdown: You are not alone. I'm sharing a bit of my personal journey of overcoming a two and a half year beatdown filled with grief, family and business challenges, health issues, and deep self-doubt. Discover how I rebuilt trust in myself, embraced all parts of my being, and found hope. Join me in learning the power of compassion, connection, and resilience. Together,...
Beware! When Heart-Centered Biz Owners Sat "It's Not About The Money."
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 65PĆed mÄsĂcem
Aligning Business Goals with Personal Fulfillment It IS about the money if it is a business... hear me out. Drawing from my extensive experience coaching business owners, I emphasize the importance of balancing heart-centered goals with economic objectives. I stress the necessity of defining precise business goals to avoid burnout and ensure financial stability. Using my own coaching business a...
Unveiling the Invisible Outside and Inside: Understanding Systems and Coping Mechanisms
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 11PĆed 2 mÄsĂci
Unveiling the Invisible Outside and Inside: Understanding Systems and Coping Mechanisms
Navigation the Reinvention Phase of Your Business
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 5PĆed 4 mÄsĂci
Navigation the Reinvention Phase of Your Business
Whose Sh&T is It A Quickie On Projection
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 31PĆed 5 mÄsĂci
Whose Sh&T is It A Quickie On Projection
Hello Heart and Soul a Reading From my Book: Unarmored
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 4PĆed 5 mÄsĂci
Hello Heart and Soul a Reading From my Book: Unarmored
Untangling Business from Unhealed Wounds.
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 18PĆed 6 mÄsĂci
Untangling Business from Unhealed Wounds.
Real time IFS Partswork Practice Example during a Struggle
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 12PĆed 7 mÄsĂci
Real time IFS Partswork Practice Example during a Struggle
You Have the Right To Feel All Your Feelings.
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 34PĆed 11 mÄsĂci
You Have the Right To Feel All Your Feelings.
Stop Doing this with your Inner Critic
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 3PĆed 11 mÄsĂci
Stop Doing this with your Inner Critic
Allison Crow Podcast Guest Intro Video
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 26PĆed rokem
Allison Crow Podcast Guest Intro Video
What people are saying about Unarmored the Book
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 18PĆed rokem
What people are saying about Unarmored the Book
Attachement vs Authenticity & Need for Connection
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 33PĆed 2 lety
Attachement vs Authenticity & Need for Connection
Overcoming productivity/accountability trauma and why I'm embracing tracking habits.
zhlĂ©dnutĂ 14PĆed 3 lety
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The Edgiest Thing I've Done for Long Term Success in my Heart and Life
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How to Move Forward In Life or Biz when Things are Wonky - Know Your Three
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Why: How I became to be a LIFE Coach and the reasons WHY it matters
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Why: How I became to be a LIFE Coach and the reasons WHY it matters
"Concept of people who over-function and people who under-function. I learned that my over-functioning is one of the ways that I cope with being disconnected. Because it makes me feel busy, it makes me feel productive, like I'm doing something. It's a way we're trying to regulate ourselves. But we're oversourcing by over-functioning. Coping mechanisms are not inherently bad, it's just are they useful at the time, healthy? To stay protected" Love this. I see it in toxic coaches - they give advice for socially anxious to be busy. Yet - people who struggle with anxiety issues - do over-think. They are already too busy. So this "advice" to be busy and find something to work on obsessively confirms their intrusive worry and inner critic to stay stuck in hypervigilance mode. "Disconnection from yourself is the ultimate trauma. Authenticity versus attachment. Authenticity gets sacrificed when attachment is threatened. âI won't be loved so I'll suppress my true selfâ." Thank you for this. This reminded me what I have forgotten when I started to learn about Complex Trauma. One commentator on my social anxiety reddit forum told me that she does not understand how to be truly self, authentic, what does that mean. And this is common question to anyone struggling with social anxiety - due to ACE and AcoA - where we were exposed to operant conditioning of punishments and criticism 24/7 and fault finding and catastrophizing daily errors and events. This is deep - being authentic and trusting our Self - means that we do not listen to CBT which explains social anxiety as being over sensitive and as our imagination. Trusting and validating our Self - means trusting our anxiety. It is there for a reason. When we struggle with anxiety - it means that there are toxic people out there. And trusting our feelings - means that we do not suppress them as CBT explains to socially anxious. And this is where it gets deep. When we validate our emotions and feelings - for the socially anxious it means that we need to investigate where we live and what toxic ambient it around us. Chances are we are in dysfunctional households and shame based culture country - where people are intrusive and shaming. And this means that - trusting our feelings and emotions of anxiety means tectonic changes ahead - cutting toxic people and relocating from the toxicity. Because everyone knows that we cannot control other people and we cannot talk or communicate with toxic people because they are stubborn and ill. And this is now problem if we are unable to move away - due to finances or contract or red tape. And that means - that the only way out is to become "crazy". IF we no longer suppress our anger and feelings of terror as reaction to abnormal and aggressive and intrusive and sick people - we will become crazy ourselves. Borderline. I believe trauma occurs when we try to block our natural reactions to abnormal people - and we end up being stuck in fears and panic and anxieties due to our attempt to regulate our ambient and to fix people around us who are the cause of panic and fears. We twist ourselves into pretzel - and that is the trauma. The solution is - to move away from toxic people whenever possible - and if we are not able to do that - we need to allow ourselves to get angry at people who are terrorizing us through micro-aggressions and childish behavior which we learned in ACE childhood to internalize and personalize as our fault and duty and obligation to fix. I see self-awareness about what is happening - that it is not our fault and that we do not need to twist ourselves to please others as healing from trauma - and then slowly moving away from toxic people - instead of trying to please them and fawn to them. That would be true self and being authentic.
Yes! Beautiful and deep comment. An internal family systems or partswork lens has been so helpful in me seeing my anxiety, anger, dissociation parts--- all of those parts chronicle shamed, having benevolent intent - "Hello Anxiety, I see you. I am here for you. I will not leave you. What do you need me to know and sense? What are your fears and concerns?" and then ACTUALLY LISTEN to the wisdom of the anxiety instead of shame and stuff it. I'm here for the NO more suppressing! IFS and Compassionate Inquiry are two lenses/practices that help me and my clients befriend these parts instead of suppressing them! Thanks again for sharing your wisdom.
At 14 my first goal I ever set was to have 3 meaningful conversations a week. I knew if I could accomplish this goal it would be a great week. Now I just talk or not with myself. Happy to subscribe. Hungry for real talk.
@@vanofpearls7528 thatâs a lovely goal that will support being âconnectedâ and more!
Gaborâs words and work have helped me to initiate the discovery road to healing. Thank you for the great question on how the disconnect presents itself now, wanna use it in my daily life.
me too! It's a nice, gentle question that reinitiates that attuned self-presence.
Yes, yes, yes! I †you and how you inspire me to be brave. I'm entering my "unraveling era" (nod to Taylor Swift). I'm looking forward to stillness, slow progress, and re-remembering who I am. đ
The Unraveling is certainly at the wild edges! Brave one, I have no doubt you will uncover such beautiful truths of YOU! Be compassionate with yourself on the journey!
You shut the information away. It can come back in deep Meditation. I'm speaking from experience.
True beauty is internal and radiates outward. You are radiating! Good talk!
Thank you! đ
Have started experiencing this pain as well. And the change happened rather rapidly. Guess we have to try a little harder, and if we don't care we simply won't hold the info. Oh well.
I have systems set up to help me remember the things that are important! If not, oh well! :)
Thank you for this. I have discovered you recently and find you very likeable and different from other "motivational coaches": I am looking forward to seeing what you may post in future. Much love to you and have a great day. <3
Thank you for that encouragement!
You are wonderful. Thank you for your wisdom and insight. Also, you have a very pleasant voice! Have a great weekend. <3
Thank you so much!
Hi
Short & sweet! Thanks for sharing IFS with the world! đ„ł
My pleasure!
That's beautiful, thank you
Glad you like it!
34 minutes. Omg
Too-much woman.
Super love it when you fractal infinity connect.
hahah, the fractals to infinity! Thanks Bec.
I love it when you come in with "it's gonna be really good."
Love this!!! :) Thanks for doing what you do.
This is really inspirational Allison....I've been considering IFS training and this now feels even more clear as an ambitionđ Thank you.
The IFS training and having an IFS-trained practitioner for my therapist and coach have really helped me deepen my skills. Thanks for the kind words.
I totally relate regarding looking at coaching differently now that I am trained in IFS. Love the insight about relationships being what itâs about - inner relationships
It fills the gaps that "mindset" or "changing your thinking" could never solve!
Than You very much for this
thank you for watching and commenting.
âOur parts are frozen in timeâ. đź
Yes! They need our trust over time and to be gently updated to our current state and age and capabilities.
Iâm always in awe of the dynamics and synergy of Groups.
Right? They replicate humanity! With both the challenges and the beauty.
0:23 chat-elegant-girls.online
Thank you.
I remember those fairies :)
loved this.....fellow coach who needs to daily give myself permission to be more myself. Love it.
I have a great resistance against the cookie-cutter models for business. I like your approach a lot better.
Wow, sacred contracts, I just learned that from you. Thank you, love your posts
Wowzers! Just listened to your scope on the way to work. Such great information and insights. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, skills, and world with us!
This is my favorite of all of your videos ever. Just saying.
Christina Berkley Thank you darling!
How could there be NO comments here!? LOVE LOVE you, sista!!!!! YOU are amazing.
Whitney Freya thank you. This video was origionally posted by my friend and it had 1200 views and tons of comments! Slower over here on my page. Thanks for the comment and LOVE Whitney! xoxox
Really inspiring video. I'd love to do the same.
Great message to hear for the day. I promise not to be a secret.
Robert Schantz Go Robert! The world needs YOU, your Message, your Gifts and your personality!
thank you Allison. You are so important to me and thank you for that message. xoxoxo
You may have no make on, but you sure have a gorgeous smile! Thank you for this... I needed to hear it
Gayle Nobel Thanks for the compliment Gayle! I am a cute little thing aren't I! I appreciate you! Shine your heart out..share your goodness!
Love the Friday FB Face!
Thanks for sharing Morgana.... It was actually a metaphor I first learned from a writing teacher about writing and then I realized it worked for money too! Funny how there really are no new thoughts. I'm thankful to be introduced to your work. Thanks for the comment.
Hi Allison. I think you got the idea from me. I started teaching this idea over a decade ago. (Here's my PBS interview from 2006) I'm glad it's working for you! Warm regards, Morgana Rae morganarae.com
I'm releasing something big, as soon as I can get those words across my lips
I'm not a fan of the cookie-cutter model either :)
What if money were your lover?