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You never accept yourself just once in this life
You'll find yourself changing and growing constantly when it comes to life. It never stops, and accepting new and old versions of yourself never stops. Learning to love every aspect of yourself is the beauty of life. It is a good sign because it means you are alive and growing. Finding yourself in every new era is beautiful, even if it's for you to do. Never stop growing, and always aim for the stars. There are so many with your dream, but you are the one dreaming the hardest.
you always have a friend in me,
Victoria Ryder
Instagram: victoriafuckingryder
My art: www.violentlypeaceful.com/
Contact me: violentlypeace@gmail.com
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If you just went through a breakup or miss someone you can't have it's okay I made you a song
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Going through breakups is complex and can feel very isolating. Sometimes, it can even be years after the breakup, and you still hold on to that love you once shared. I find that, at least for myself, honoring those feelings through art and music helps me process that energy. My point here is to make you smile and show you how to use art to process deep emotions. you always have a friend in me, ...
Life is hard so I wrote you a song so you can feel better today
zhlédnutí 3,5KPřed dnem
Life is full of challenging moments that can feel lonely or frustrating. When I start to feel like life is more challenging than usual, I always have a friend in music. I hope I can be there for you through my art and music. Everyone deserves comfort, primarily through rough days, so this is my way of saying thank you for trying your best today. you always have a friend in me, Victoria Ryder In...
It's okay if you feel heartbroken or lonely today because I made you a song so you can feel better
zhlédnutí 2,7KPřed 14 dny
When you are experiencing heartbreak and/or loneliness, you go through many layers of feelings. The way I love to explore those feelings is through art. I may not be the most musically gifted person, but it's always been a tool for tough times. I hope that my vulnerability helps you explore new healthy ways to process and honor your feelings. If nobody has told you today, I am proud of you. you...
You don't need to be perfect in order to want or be in love
zhlédnutí 2,7KPřed 14 dny
There's always been an open conversation around when is it the right time to find love. There are many opinions, but personally, I believe it's up to each individual. Only you know yourself best and what you feel is best for your life. I do believe that there is no such thing as perfection and that we are all here to learn and grow. This challenges those quotes or statements about having to be ...
If you feel lonely or sad today it's okay I wrote you a song to make you feel better
zhlédnutí 7KPřed 21 dnem
Feeling lonely or sad is very normal and not talked about enough. When I feel this way, I always turn to art, even if I am not great at it. Processing your feelings is important especially if it can be done in a healthy way. I hope my little song made you laugh or just made you feel less alone. My hope with this is to show my vulnerability and the fact that you don't have to be good at art in o...
what to do when you want a relationship but can't find one
zhlédnutí 4,5KPřed 21 dnem
Finding a meaningful relationship can be challenging, and you might be left feeling lonely when you know what you want or need but can't seem to find it. It can feel hopeless at times, but there are some ways I have been able to keep my emotions afloat and maybe you can too. you always have a friend in me, Victoria Ryder Instagram: victoriafuckingryder My art website: www.violent...
how to find your purpose during phases of depression or hopelessness
zhlédnutí 1,6KPřed 21 dnem
It's a part of the human condition to feel depression or hopelessness. During these difficult times, it can be hard to wake up and want to keep going. A huge part of life is purpose and finding that so it can become the life raft that saves you from any emotional storms you may face. It can also be hard to want to find or keep your purpose in life when you feel this way but truly digging for th...
Its okay to stop caring what people think or say about you
zhlédnutí 1,7KPřed měsícem
It's easy to become overwhelmed by other people's thoughts and opinions, especially when they are about us. Living with the constant worry of how others perceive you is an emotional dead end. Finding my voice and sticking by my truth has been the best thing I've done with my life thus far and I want to share this feeling with you. Not caring about others' opinions is easier than one might think...
failure is how you win
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Many people don't like to fail for various reasons, but I am here to say that failing can help you succeed in many ways that winning can't. Failing is seen as negative, but it can be more delightful than you might think. Bottom line: In order to win, you must lose to even understand the feeling of success overall. you always have a friend in me, Victoria Ryder Instagram: victoriaf...
Loss can also be lesson
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We will all eventually experience some sort of loss at some point in life. Sometimes, viewing a loss as just a loss can feel like a dead end emotionally. If this is the case, try to view loss as a lesson learned, and here's how. Loss is allowed to feel like loss, but search if there's a lesson in there as well. you always have a friend in me, Victoria Instagram: victoriafuckingryd...
being single doesn't mean your missing out
zhlédnutí 2,8KPřed měsícem
Despite what society has taught us, it's actually perfectly fine to be single and enjoy it. Sometimes, there is fear surrounding this topic, but truly, there is nothing wrong with it, and you aren't missing out. Whatever path you are on, know that it has been custom-made for you, and if you want to enjoy and be still with any part, then just know you are free to do so. you always have a friend ...
your emotions are valid and their judgement is not
zhlédnutí 2,2KPřed měsícem
When it comes to feeling emotions, it has become socially acceptable to sit with something like happiness, not sadness. In doing this, we are ranking our own human emotions and not creating a safe space to truly heal and understand what it is we are feeling. All feelings you have are worth sitting with and working through in a loving way. you always have a friend in me, Victoria Instagram: inst...
how to grieve and honor old love
zhlédnutí 2,2KPřed měsícem
Its difficult to feel longing or missing someone you once loved so deeply. However, it is valid to feel this, and there are many healthy ways to channel that energy. Love is beautiful and worth honoring, even if it's from the past. If it matters to you, then it matters. you always have a friend in me, Victoria Instagram: victoriafuckingryder Blog: www.violentlypeaceful.com/ Commu...
communication saves time and resentment
zhlédnutí 943Před měsícem
In life, sometimes we find that we need to communicate something, but we are then faced with the fear of doing that. Sometimes, we can only think of the worst that could happen but not the facts that it could save us time and possibly resent that relationship. If you have expectations without communication, then expect disappointment. Save yourself some time and see how you can dig deeper in yo...
disconnection is connection
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disconnection is connection
become a master of detachment
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become a master of detachment
you don't need permission to be yourself
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I found your full potential
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I found your full potential
You are what you watch
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You are what you watch
Suffering is our greatest teacher
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Suffering is our greatest teacher
two quotes that question life
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You can’t find happiness in the place you lost it
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Komentáře

  • @stevenacosta1134
    @stevenacosta1134 Před dnem

    Can we just date already?! 😂

  • @rosewright6198
    @rosewright6198 Před 2 dny

    Came in here with 222 comments.❤

  • @Andrewlvl11
    @Andrewlvl11 Před 2 dny

    I love you I'm going through the same thing

  • @njoYYY
    @njoYYY Před 2 dny

    Damn I felt 20 again, hanging around with people just jamming and singing to known songs

    • @njoYYY
      @njoYYY Před 2 dny

      The wonderwall days as I call them

  • @aracoixo3288
    @aracoixo3288 Před 3 dny

    🏴‍☠️

  • @insondable6564
    @insondable6564 Před 3 dny

    Beatiful and total thanks! <3

  • @uncleandyguitarherbst1157

    Cool emotional song! Thanks for sharing it. 🙂❤👍✌☮🎶🎶🎶 Beautiful sentimental advice at the end. More kindness is needed.

  • @samjohnson5219
    @samjohnson5219 Před 3 dny

    Namaste

  • @samjohnson5219
    @samjohnson5219 Před 3 dny

    She's my teacher now

  • @samjohnson5219
    @samjohnson5219 Před 3 dny

    Alright dandelion hands calm down

  • @samjohnson5219
    @samjohnson5219 Před 3 dny

    I dont think its self acceptance thats the issue for most people (maybe it is what do I know). But more often than not the most common problem i see people with is their fundamental fear of permanence. The idea of being anything eternally is really scary. That fear gets in the way though because you must learn how to limit yourself in order to manifest into anything. Life is a lot more comfortable when you source your identity from your ability to limit yourself rather than from the particularities of what your being (i.e., "i am something that can limit itself (which by the way is just another way of saying i am something that doesn't need to be everything)" vs. "I am a girl that likes wearing black clothes (another way of saying your root essence is physical - which is like opposite everything a woman believes about herself, so naturally you're going to feel some subconscious contradiction whenever you do that). Content is killer please keep it up.

  • @michaelaspiazu
    @michaelaspiazu Před 4 dny

    you make me so happy on lonely nights and are a true friend to me love you for that family love when you hold my hand as confort that makes me happy as well smelling familys scent also conforts me too

  • @actionaccount8307
    @actionaccount8307 Před 4 dny

    roses are red violets are blue i like tarot but even more i like you

  • @gentlemanx7987
    @gentlemanx7987 Před 4 dny

    Amazing energy. Thank you for showing up. Thank you for being. I send love.

  • @gentlemanx7987
    @gentlemanx7987 Před 4 dny

    What to do when you want a relationship but can't find one. Step one, romance yourself and fall in love with yourself. (Before you ask, no, "romance yourself" does not refer to your hands :D). Step two: Make room for your "soul in another body" aka soulmate. In your heart but also in your life. Is there room in your house for 1 more? Is it clean? Are you? Is there a place for them to put their shoes and toothbrush? Prepare, so that fate knows you mean it. Step 3: Just chill and wait and be happy and in love with life and with yourself while you do so. I send love :D

  • @myth6737
    @myth6737 Před 4 dny

    OMG ur so pretty from the inside and the outside what u do is so cool

  • @eL_Misseno
    @eL_Misseno Před 4 dny

    Oh, nice. Thanks.

    • @eL_Misseno
      @eL_Misseno Před 4 dny

      Oh... I really want to be erased.... Beautiful, Victoria. Tks for sharing.

  • @vincentlee5627
    @vincentlee5627 Před 5 dny

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @toxicexecute
    @toxicexecute Před 5 dny

    sounds amazing

  • @NOTYOURRACE
    @NOTYOURRACE Před 5 dny

    Are you single dough 🖤🕸️

  • @Moshm4n
    @Moshm4n Před 5 dny

    One tip I'll give for someone with varied taste in music: my answer to "What kind of music do you listen to?" is "Do you want a synopsis of what I've been listening to over the past 3 months? Or I can just show you my music streaming library, because it's a little of everything." You can explain how a particular genre or style appeals to you-what about a song captures your interest. I've listened to the most emo'ey stuff in the world, all the way to country bumpkin things just because it SLAPS. (:

  • @wallflower3723
    @wallflower3723 Před 6 dny

    perfect on a friday night

  • @pjsecondaccount
    @pjsecondaccount Před 6 dny

    Sometimes i feel people who talk on self acceptance and other similar topics always reinforce the idea that YOU must accept YOU. Ur so right when u say that when others accept you it helps you accept you. Needs to be said more

  • @mariosr.2524
    @mariosr.2524 Před 6 dny

    If you like Rammstein try listening to some older industrial bands like Skinny Puppy. Genuinely insane and at times confusing music with dark lyrics about political corruption and enviromental issues but also filled with great empathy towards tortured people and animals.

  • @InTense864
    @InTense864 Před 6 dny

    Glad to hear from you again 🙌 ❣️

  • @ianbloczynski95
    @ianbloczynski95 Před 6 dny

    I'd be interested in your thoughts on Johnny Cash.

  • @stevenacosta1134
    @stevenacosta1134 Před 6 dny

    Namaste. You are wise beyond your years. You helped me get through 1 to 3am lol.:)))

  • @Populous1
    @Populous1 Před 6 dny

    Keep being goofy.

  • @michaelaspiazu
    @michaelaspiazu Před 6 dny

    you are amazing just to way you are and would never judge you also love you for you as one of my family

  • @karazakiakuno4645
    @karazakiakuno4645 Před 6 dny

    Impressed, a lil.

  • @5sishere461
    @5sishere461 Před 6 dny

    czcams.com/play/PLJmFreC_qQM4_EWeixSeNoHpVcDcvvoHp.html&si=7aC3CC42FBkuXAGt Just good music for good vibes.

  • @bwah9481
    @bwah9481 Před 6 dny

    :(

  • @Einheitsbewusstsein

    You are a spiritual joker with a golden heart💛🍀😘 The devil fears nothing more than your kind of energy/presence ;-) You have united the apparent opposites of light and shadow in yourself with harmony and peace.. I think you are a highly conscious genius that makes the dark site mad haha like an double agent wich they can´t fight or really expose to their sinister agenda😌

  • @pancakerepairman
    @pancakerepairman Před 7 dny

    you take me back to the early days of youtube. when vlogging was a thing. before the platform because dominated by more professionally edited content. my music taste is similarly varied. most people who listen to extreme metal seem to listen to it exclusively but it's like 50% of what i listen to with a lot of the other 50% being k-pop and female singer-songwriters. if you think slayer and rammstein are intense i'd love to hear your opinion on the new Wormed album Omegon.

  • @_.Garv1.9.9.6._
    @_.Garv1.9.9.6._ Před 7 dny

    Very inspiring words i feel touched because i go trough depression and anxiety but im dealing with it by going on WalkorRun or Go outside or Gym i Really dont care what people say i Stand for the People who suffer the most in side we will succeed everyday dont feel no way where their’s a will there’s a way 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @sapphiremoon5450
    @sapphiremoon5450 Před 7 dny

    Your content is so heartwarming and this video illustrates why I have a parasocial relationship with you. You’re beautiful both inside and out and inspire my femininity!

  • @matta7647
    @matta7647 Před 7 dny

    Your light and kindness inspires me. Thank you!

  • @frankoflight1128
    @frankoflight1128 Před 7 dny

    I would love to hang out with you but I'm from Italy so I imagine that would be difficult

  • @hugograyx
    @hugograyx Před 7 dny

    she just blocked me. 2 years. she’s still in love with me and im in love with her but she’s moving for college and she can’t do long distance. i fucking hate it. she doesn’t ever wanna talk again so she can move on because talking to me hurts to much. this was perfect timing. however, this is beautiful!

  • @hauminthang9222
    @hauminthang9222 Před 7 dny

    Aye, there's a lot of platforms where you can learn chords, and power chords and stuff

  • @DopamineSchizo
    @DopamineSchizo Před 7 dny

    you have a good heart

    • @Populous1
      @Populous1 Před 6 dny

      Stay the way you are. You deserve nothing.

  • @robertflynn4215
    @robertflynn4215 Před 7 dny

    Make me think of chris cornell song arms around your love.

  • @robertflynn4215
    @robertflynn4215 Před 7 dny

    I'm gemini and my element is air. So I understand how it like to be everywhere mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Like never give in to being something you are not, you know who you are at the end of the day. Never give up and never give in on yourself. I'm mostly into classical rocknroll and heavy metal. Industrial and gothic band like nine inch nails, ministry, type o negative, motorhead, siouxsie and the banshees, paradise lost, marilyn manson, HIM, tool, a perfect circle, the misfits, danzig, rob zombie, disturbed, korn, black sabbath, ozzy osbourne, electric wizard, queens of the stone age and killing joke. I'm old school at heart✌️🤟🤘✊️❤️‍🔥🌈🤍🖤🎃.

  • @zaczach6213
    @zaczach6213 Před 7 dny

    I think self acceptance is good but clarity of purpose is the key to relationships. We change a lot as humans your not always going to like yourself especially if what your doing conflicts with you clarity of purpose. Everyone on earth has done something hypocritical or "fake" but if your able to say this is the thing I want to be then anything you do that works towards that is positive. Finding someone who wants the world to be the same as you and expresses that is necessary but all the other stuff is just stuff. I am sorry you've dated people who think you have to be clearly defined because you won't ever be. Your you and that should be appreciated. Yesterday I went from "Crocodile Rock" by Elton John to "Becoming" Volbeat. I don't care how anyone feels about that. Take it easy and thanks from a Georgia boy to a Georgia girl it's hard to be different in the south more than it is in other places around the world. Maybe we will run into each other one day. You deserve a fist bump or a hug whatever you accept. :)

  • @Ram-oc9fh
    @Ram-oc9fh Před 7 dny

    living so that u accept me ❤

  • @wakkohetfield24
    @wakkohetfield24 Před 7 dny

    WOW !!!! 🌏jerks !!!!! nicely (un)expected !! 💜🤘 Namaste ! Ps; 3:03 every time more common that kind of profile that used 2 B TOTALY VIRTUALY impossible ♥ I Love Pantera, Megadeth GNR ANd I also Love Aurora Enya or Trio Mandili from Georgia and resonate with expanding concience studies and practices. Glad ur feeling better Now !! Be Well ! 🤘

  • @Jermaston
    @Jermaston Před 7 dny

    Love your talking videos, you always cover such interesting and relatable topics! Also, I don't mind the "word vomiting", it just shows that you are a genuine person talking about something that matters to you :) When it comes to this type of subject, I personally kinda struggle with defining myself as a person and what I like etc even tho I'm almost 22. I'll have to find the answer somehow, hopefully soon - Anyways, sending lots of good vibes your way!

  • @TrevorSnaith-xl8fz
    @TrevorSnaith-xl8fz Před 7 dny

    I like many types of music too.

  • @timinri
    @timinri Před 7 dny

    "Live Fast Die Young" = every one of my relationships

  • @louiesafi3116
    @louiesafi3116 Před 7 dny

    Hallelu Yah Yeshua..! 🎉