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Nelica u wasnt active cuz u be having me laughing

Yeah, Dabrat Carried a Baby for her Wife Judy. If it wasn't for her to be Married to Judy, she would of never had a Baby. She said one time before she ended up with Judy that she did not want no kids, she only would be a Auntie, and a God Mother, but now look at what God 🙏 Blessed her with. Sometimes God send people I'm your life that will give you those Blessings. Dabrat First told Judy to Carry the Baby, and Judy told her that she Should Carry the Baby so that she can Experience to know what it Feels like to Carry the Baby, Which made Sense. Judy already has 2 kids of her Own from a Previous Relationship. I Love them both❤❤❤❤

When the “Gram” start controlling people, y’all best to be well (if not highly) educated on the infrastructure of technology. I don’t mean get educated, y’all better be already in the know. The Gram is absolutely controlled by people(the User), it is a tool used to influence_there’s no output without (some level of) input.

🤢🤮 Ive high key never hated an episode until this one

I would be interested in a podcast about Toxically masculine women. As a lesbian in my 50's , I realize I have had an aversion to even having studs as friends because the ones I have known behave as bad as men, and I am not talking about infidelity, To me a "toxically" masculine woman is more awful than a man.

Great convo thanks everyone

Nobody would need to be coddled or their emotions catered to if everyone would respect that everyone is different. Also this concept of 'normal' is relative to the communities and tribes you align with. It's deceptive. Racism associated with white fragility (whether covert or overt) is 'normal' but that doesn't mean that should be the standard. We have to stop accepting the societal norms as the standards in which things should exist. We have to be more independent in our thoughts. Additionally, we can't let personal insecurities and fear due to ignorance be the beacon in which we govern ourselves in this world.

Patriarchy then done a number on the male population they really think their superior to the woman, but their not! Actually it seems their thee most unbalanced. They really gotta learn to operate out of both energies and that’s what scares them about the dominant females and the feminine females that won’t “ submit”. Great show yall ❤

To say men own masculinity is wild lol they definitely don’t it’s harnessed by both sexes.

Great convo

As a older lesbian I have encountered it all. Having worked in a male industry. I educated them in certain things. Specifically how to respect me in how I present myself. I gave them opportunity to respectfully ask me questions. Point being. I'm me. If you're my friend I will protect you male or female. Plus they constantly ask me advice about women. Some problems in society today is that men are not allowed to experience their emotional soft side. In reality all people have the male and female in their spirit. Speak to the individual. If you follow me.

This! Men ego is so fragile and I for one am tired of tip toeing around them. So threatened over what? If a man is so secure why would they care if we want to ‘be men’ or ‘we pretending to be men’

This is a conversation that needs to continue on this podcast in series of itself. Black culture has an ingrained homophobia that even a genuine nice person can come off sounding like a bigot. In regards to the music biz, I think most artist should just go independent and then you won’t have to deal with culture vultures molding you.

As a hyper femme looking woman, raised in rigid gender roles, I both witnessed & was Pavlov-ed to coddle men as a survival mechanism when needed. In some cases I used to call coddling “stroking their ego.” Used on authority figures, the person dictating payroll, & finessing my way out of being assaulted because my voice doesn’t get taken seriously when all they see is the illusion of “the Monroe effect.” In pursuit of having conscious control over how I would like to respond rather than react, I’ve noticed I’ve had to be more creative in curving unwanted scenarios without feeling repulsed after. I think everyone’s proximity to the patriarchy is dependent on how the majority of the public perceives you- which is really just playing chess with illusions, insecurities, projections, & ignorance. Dancing with someone else’s ego is a sport I wish all that are meek masters at some point.

Some of the best rappers are looked over for being masculine presenting and I hate that. It’s crazy to me that Siya isn’t bigger.

All men see. Is that she sleeps with men' but a women who didn't sleep with men.. was not successful ( queen Latifah dated men as well) back then .. In her case men always thought she was a lesbian

But da brat was definitely dating men.. so men ' accepted '

I need more about this 😊thank y'all for yo time ❤

No disrespect but he has way more feminine energy from this video than masculine. So do men claim feminine when they seem that way. Y’all women would make me feel more safe than him if I was in that room. Once again no disrespect

patiently waiting for them to educate this person whew masculinity is not about gender 💀

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Honestly men like that, that have those opinions r not men they the real studs not to be disrespectful towards your guess more like a general statement but yeah much love can’t wait for the pod shellas

Im late to this post, but I am so glad I found it-This conversation was so needed, especially in today's times🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 Ya'll all are so Grown minded and I adore it👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️

When people start talking about themselves I listen. That’s when they start telling on themselves and I collect information 😏

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Interesting take. I’d like to hear you speak on introspective healing, chakra alignment, and having emotional intelligence, or the lack there of. I do think it’s important to leave the ego at the door and figure out how you can help yourself first, then help others. I’ll speak on it if you’d have me. Judgement free of course. I believe internal healing is important so that we can better avoid situations mentioned. 🤓

I dated someone who wanted to turn me into their exes .. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm not them!!

I just finished your tubi movie 🎬 with Rhonda and the big Narcissistic energy 😆

Nah when y’all said “no more Nicki“ and nookie said “BARDI gang!” 😂😂 I screamed

mental attraction is a turn on for me.

if the conversation feels like it's scripted i lose interest quick. just let flow and the curiosity come naturally 😌

i think that masculine women need to do a lot of soul searching in order to define what they want their partnerships to look like. i think it is important to mention that a lot of masculine women pursue women who are sexually but not romantically attracted to them (straight, bi-curious, etc. ) which is why they find themselves in relationships with feminine women that expect them to fall into heteronormative and traditional male roles. speaking personally, i do not know many feminine women, myself included, who are (genuinely) lesbians that are looking to treat masculine women as a man, or expect them to be a provider, etc. all the femmes i know want to provide and protect just as much as the next masc/stud.

The episodes are long and ya just be jumping right in mature content at its finest ❤

31 years old came out at 13 it’s so refreshing to have queer content that’s understands me!!!🎉🎉

Enjoy the break! Can’t wait to hear more from Jaz

I would love to have been a guest in this show for this episode! Man ! 😮

I have to say this topic hit me hard. I’m kind of feeling what Marquita(hopefully I spelled that right) said, where I’m so aware of things that some people overlook or don’t see, so I always end up being looked at as I’m “tripping”. I feel energies on such a higher level, or I can see through things etc like I’m overly aware 🤷🏽‍♀️ but yes this was a deep topic overall tho. Nelcia, I love how you are still learning “self” cause we are never too old, to deep dive into self, and giving yourself grace. Trust, I’m learning that too at 40years of age, 2023-2024 has been about learning what I can and cannot tolerate, capacity etc.

Orange couch podcast 😂😂😂😂😂

My grandma use to call us carpet munchers omg hilarious 😂 I haven’t heard that on 20 years granny’s be so embarrassing bruh

Absolutely loved this episode. I could relate on so many levels, please keep dropping content. Love yall 🙏🏽

Yes reminds me of that old saying “You can’t pour old wine into new wine skins.” It will burst!

I dated a woman had no personality, so she took on mine. She displayed covert narcissist traits heavily. She was also a shapeshifter and energy vampire. It took me years to see what was happening. I felt I was in an illusion for years, but then I began to evolve. There were so many lessons until finally, I was guided out of that situation. There were some hard lessons for me and I wouldn’t wish that experience on anybody, but I am grateful for everything that died in me in order to birth who I am today. ✨💜💜💜✨

I feel like we all have and have displayed narcissist “traits” at one time or another I try not to be quick to throw that term around because it’s so loosely used these days. To call a person a narc is a different from having narcissistic traits. We all need to do assessments of ourselves have honest conversations with ourselves and deal with our triggers and trauma, so we can begin to heal.

Great conversation. Once again I enjoyed listening in and hearing the different perspectives and experiences. Love it. Keep Glowing and growing! ✨💜💜💜✨

Communication in any relationship is important. However, in intimate relationships we seem to have higher expectations but a lower patience, than we have for our friends. So, I say, ask yourself would you be friend with this person, if you were not dating- my answer is my answer ….my two cents

Make a part 2!

The fact that I was watching Dark Matter and was like hold up one second, is that Marquita?!?!?! 🤣❤️ Not me becoming a fan girl lol

Aina, I want to get to know you. How can I go about doing that?

As a masculine presenting female who is a single mother, this episode definitely hit close to home for me. I had my son on my own at 35. I feel like my situation is so very similar to Jazz’s. I actually got out of a relationship with a woman with a child and felt like I would not date any more women with children but I knew I wanted a family. I felt like my time was running out so I decided to have a child on my own, regardless of how it would affect my future relationships. I feel like my wife is out there and what is meant for me will find me. Bottom line though, you definitely have to approach me differently if you want to date me because I am a mother.