Signs of Interest & Non-Interest While Dating (w/special guest Tanesha Norman) Ep. 14

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  • čas přidán 27. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 66

  • @jonairoberson0104
    @jonairoberson0104 Před 5 dny +3

    Nah when y’all said “no more Nicki“ and nookie said “BARDI gang!” 😂😂 I screamed

  • @Fortheloveofglen
    @Fortheloveofglen Před 6 dny +5

    31 years old came out at 13 it’s so refreshing to have queer content that’s understands me!!!🎉🎉

  • @tonilatrice1599
    @tonilatrice1599 Před 8 dny +8

    The fact that I was watching Dark Matter and was like hold up one second, is that Marquita?!?!?! 🤣❤️ Not me becoming a fan girl lol

  • @sophienalubega2856
    @sophienalubega2856 Před 9 dny +13

    Pay attention to energy flow. You feel it but ignore the signs

  • @tayloryvonne7117
    @tayloryvonne7117 Před 5 dny +3

    Interesting take.
    I’d like to hear you speak on introspective healing, chakra alignment, and having emotional intelligence, or the lack there of. I do think it’s important to leave the ego at the door and figure out how you can help yourself first, then help others. I’ll speak on it if you’d have me.
    Judgement free of course.
    I believe internal healing is important so that we can better avoid situations mentioned. 🤓

  • @HERSTORY_888
    @HERSTORY_888 Před 9 dny +10

    When people constantly talk about themselves it's a big turn off for me 😑 When I notice we don't vibe, I disappear and never talk to that person again 😂😂😂

  • @Keianasvibe
    @Keianasvibe Před 9 dny +7

    That comment about masculine women in professional spaces is so true. I always have to water down my dominance a bit for the boys. 😂

  • @lashan3103
    @lashan3103 Před 8 dny +6

    Communication in any relationship is important. However, in intimate relationships we seem to have higher expectations but a lower patience, than we have for our friends. So, I say, ask yourself would you be friend with this person, if you were not dating- my answer is my answer ….my two cents

  • @wanchawancha5323
    @wanchawancha5323 Před 3 dny +2

    When people start talking about themselves I listen. That’s when they start telling on themselves and I collect information 😏

  • @faithmusser5219
    @faithmusser5219 Před 8 dny +5

    I have a fatal faul. Because I'm honest I believe that someone is telling me the truth until I know they aren't. Instead of being cautious.

  • @ricoswave9310
    @ricoswave9310 Před 8 dny +6

    This was good, I like the guest commentary, the topic, and looks Nelsia give Marquita when she calling cap cause she know her lol

  • @Fortheloveofglen
    @Fortheloveofglen Před 6 dny +2

    The episodes are long and ya just be jumping right in mature content at its finest ❤

  • @YosoyElJefe__
    @YosoyElJefe__ Před 7 dny +3

    Absolutely loved this episode. I could relate on so many levels, please keep dropping content. Love yall 🙏🏽

  • @hollelegend1740
    @hollelegend1740 Před 9 dny +6

    Loved this conversation!!! I wanted to make all of y’all spit that gum out tho 😂🤣😂 smacking in my ear lol

  • @saylesspraymore3210
    @saylesspraymore3210 Před 6 dny +2

    I have to say this topic hit me hard. I’m kind of feeling what Marquita(hopefully I spelled that right) said, where I’m so aware of things that some people overlook or don’t see, so I always end up being looked at as I’m “tripping”. I feel energies on such a higher level, or I can see through things etc like I’m overly aware 🤷🏽‍♀️ but yes this was a deep topic overall tho. Nelcia, I love how you are still learning “self” cause we are never too old, to deep dive into self, and giving yourself grace. Trust, I’m learning that too at 40years of age, 2023-2024 has been about learning what I can and cannot tolerate, capacity etc.

  • @allahshas4498
    @allahshas4498 Před 6 dny +2

    mental attraction is a turn on for me.

  • @indiasurgeon1487
    @indiasurgeon1487 Před 9 dny +6

    This is why I stopped dating ladies on a serious level. Too much guessing and mixed signals being sent my way 😮‍💨.. Can’t wait to hear yaws side.

  • @infinitekharisma
    @infinitekharisma Před 8 dny +2

    Great conversation. Once again I enjoyed listening in and hearing the different perspectives and experiences. Love it. Keep Glowing and growing! ✨💜💜💜✨

  • @allahshas4498
    @allahshas4498 Před 6 dny +1

    if the conversation feels like it's scripted i lose interest quick. just let flow and the curiosity come naturally 😌

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo Před 9 dny +4

    She couldn’t take rejection 😂 at all!!! It’s ok sweetheart you still fine 😅

  • @alienmoonmom1361
    @alienmoonmom1361 Před 8 dny +2

    I’m coming over with my chips and a Pepsi and join y’all. This is a good regular kitchen table talk.

  • @ayepee9775
    @ayepee9775 Před 8 dny +3

    Tbh i agree with temper on the friend zone thing ,

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo Před 9 dny +2

    She can’t handle it 😂❤ I appreciate yall!!!

  • @ehiobanor
    @ehiobanor Před 6 dny +1

    i think that masculine women need to do a lot of soul searching in order to define what they want their partnerships to look like. i think it is important to mention that a lot of masculine women pursue women who are sexually but not romantically attracted to them (straight, bi-curious, etc. ) which is why they find themselves in relationships with feminine women that expect them to fall into heteronormative and traditional male roles. speaking personally, i do not know many feminine women, myself included, who are (genuinely) lesbians that are looking to treat masculine women as a man, or expect them to be a provider, etc. all the femmes i know want to provide and protect just as much as the next masc/stud.

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan2893 Před 9 dny +4

    I Can't stand when a person wants to be the Center of Attention.

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan2893 Před 9 dny +4

    Tanesha Norman looks like Faith Evans, and she is Beautiful!❤❤

    • @heartdna
      @heartdna Před 9 dny +2

      Yes and with a mix of Neicy Nash! But she is without need for comparison beautiful and seemingly good hearted 😍😍

    • @latashajordan2893
      @latashajordan2893 Před 8 dny +1

      @@heartdna ❤️🥰

    • @latashajordan2893
      @latashajordan2893 Před 8 dny +1

      @@heartdna I can see the Neicy Nash too🥰

  • @nanettemacon7640
    @nanettemacon7640 Před 9 dny +3

    Great show, great guest🌹❤️

  • @donnamoye3309
    @donnamoye3309 Před 9 dny +23

    When y'all speak can you please let the other person finish there conversation before you say anything let them explain what they feel .

    • @TheShellaSpherePodcast
      @TheShellaSpherePodcast  Před 8 dny +6

      We’ll actively work on being mindful that it’s a podcast. We carry on as friends unintentionally at times.

    • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
      @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast Před 8 dny +9

      If I’m being honest, the speaking over was all me… I was intoxicated and excited!!! However, none of the other episodes consist of us talking over one another. Note taken though!! 💪🏾 thanks for watching

    • @heartdna
      @heartdna Před 7 dny +2

      ​@@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcastshella sauced and shella passionate 😂 love the honesty Shellcia 😂🧡

    • @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
      @NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast Před 7 dny +2

      @@heartdna 😩😩😩😂😂😂 Not Shellcia 😩😩😂😂 that’s a good one

    • @jonairoberson0104
      @jonairoberson0104 Před 5 dny +1

      !!!!

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan2893 Před 9 dny +2

    Once you Lose Consistency, and Communication with me, there is no Coming back. I will not Continue to talk to someone that is not even putting in the Effort to do their part.

  • @NoSauceBoss-sm6zx
    @NoSauceBoss-sm6zx Před 9 dny +2

    Cant wait, i think this episode gonna be a really good one.

  • @Hirokis_Horror_Nexus
    @Hirokis_Horror_Nexus Před 9 dny +2

    We in here!!! Best Podcast alive!! 💯

  • @raneeshapruitt7068
    @raneeshapruitt7068 Před 8 dny +2

    Great topic and views, I love the energy flowing between you 3! I have a couple ending questions or possible episode topics. What's y'all's definitions of and differences between boundaries and blockages in life and relationships? My second question would be more personal. What in your life made you mature the most?

  • @lovelife2186
    @lovelife2186 Před 9 dny +5

    I don’t know if y’all did this topic before but I would love to hear y’all talk about is it OK being a homosexual and still love God

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan2893 Před 9 dny +3

    Some people will want you to Hear everything they say, but don't Care what all you have to say. They just Completely Tune you out, Shaking my Head🤦‍♀️

  • @itsmylaneful
    @itsmylaneful Před 9 dny +1

    Ready 💯 - waiting for 6:00pm 🔥

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo Před 9 dny +1

    I can relate to that AWARENESS

  • @phenomenal5537
    @phenomenal5537 Před 9 dny +1

    I concur with Tanesha and submit my vote for "Decadence" ... I also concur with Tanesha on the libido 👋 .. My 3 non-negotiables are good sex, honesty, and loyalty. There is a safety, a maturity, and a freedom that comes with women of ambition who's soul are in alignment - there are some things that must be mutually respected and honored. All cards, face up - ONLY. I'm the 3rd Pisces on the couch - I love it. Words, Waters, Wealth of Wisdom and ambition💃🏽

  • @cosmiccreations9424
    @cosmiccreations9424 Před 9 dny +4

    Can y’all touch on the topic of How do you break up with someone without feeling guilty especially if it’s nothing they really did , you just don’t want it anymore lol all the while kinda knowing why lol if that makes sense. I guess it falls under healthy breakups

    • @TheShellaSpherePodcast
      @TheShellaSpherePodcast  Před 8 dny +2

      Adding it to one of ending questions for a future episode. Thanks for tuning in!

  • @TheMagnificentArtist
    @TheMagnificentArtist Před 8 dny +1

    Make a part 2!

  • @faithmusser5219
    @faithmusser5219 Před 8 dny +1

    Ladies if I'm hearing you right there's the difference between cheap and frugal 😊

  • @latashajordan2893
    @latashajordan2893 Před 9 dny +1

    Yeah, if the Vibe is off, I can't Deal🤦‍♀️

  • @RainJElise
    @RainJElise Před 9 dny +1

    Check in with me too!! I feel the same way!

  • @zenmusa222
    @zenmusa222 Před 8 dny +1

    bruh, a word that starts with d that means v@#$%...delicious .... best guest so far 🏆💐

  • @breonnaclark-russell7425

    Aina, I want to get to know you. How can I go about doing that?

  • @SplashTalk
    @SplashTalk Před 8 dny +1

    I can read all y’all so well. Lol stud on the left give me Leo vibes a tad bit self centered but not too bad you can tell she definitely works on herself and has been told about herself a couple times lol I feel like she cap tho about not getting friendzoned or rejected because of her other stories at the end like about the girl with the bike. How did that end. I’m sure she done got broken up with before. It’s ok to admit it lol everyone has been rejected before. And if she dead ass haven’t then that mean she only go for people she know she has a chance with. and the other one on the right seem like she got a more chill humble vibe . I could be wrong. I fucks with y’all tho. Y’all definitely some mature good and kind spirited ppl. We all would definitely be good friends if we was all to link. Definitely in tune with universe.

    • @TheShellaSpherePodcast
      @TheShellaSpherePodcast  Před 8 dny +3

      Maybe how we define it is different because Aina never denies being rejected in actual romantic spaces. We appreciate you watching!

    • @SplashTalk
      @SplashTalk Před 7 dny

      @@TheShellaSpherePodcast yeah maybe I heard it wrong my b. Lol I was over here like nahhh ain’t no way. My fault y’all. Lol delete my comment

  • @ice8876
    @ice8876 Před 7 dny +1

    Orange couch podcast 😂😂😂😂😂