Dealing With Narcissist (w/ special guest Tanesha Norman) EP. 13
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- čas přidán 20. 06. 2024
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Fun fact: everyone has narcissistic traits but not everyone is a narcissist. It’s a serious personality disorder like bpd (bounderline personality disorder) they can mimick each other but the difference is, narcissists lack empathy. If you’ve ever dated a true narcissist then it’s very confusing and soul crushing, usually takes the victims a while to recover, leaves serious damage behind. But the victims usually attract them because of some sense of self issues as well.
Agreed!
Gaslighting, hovering aka stalking, lack of empathy or false empathy to obtain a goal with you, isolation from your support, they also have what’s coined as “flying monkeys” and those are people who validate their mishaps and support them relentlessly, love bombing by being super attentive then all of a sudden turn cold.. all narcissists are different and we all mean different things to each narcissist. You could be the light of their life and they never wanna let you go but still mistreat you or they’ll use you like a wash rag and dispose of you just as fast it all depends on what you mean to them.
Unfortunately I was the light of this man’s life after the love bombing phase he actually grew closer to me and confided in me about a lot and now I’m still tryna get him off my back and off the backs of people I’ve been friends with and he has stalked my family and it’s been over two years now…Needless to say a lot of people throw this word out but there are specific characteristics that define this disorder. Every liar and every cheater is not a narcissist but if you’ve seen any of those signs I just listed then run very far and very fast because it’s a personality disorder, they been in this emotional survival mode since young .. it’s no sense in trying to convince these people. If they are your family advise them to reflect on their decisions but never call them out so obviously as some of these people can be violent.
I dated a woman had no personality, so she took on mine. She displayed covert narcissist traits heavily. She was also a shapeshifter and energy vampire. It took me years to see what was happening. I felt I was in an illusion for years, but then I began to evolve. There were so many lessons until finally, I was guided out of that situation. There were some hard lessons for me and I wouldn’t wish that experience on anybody, but I am grateful for everything that died in me in order to birth who I am today. ✨💜💜💜✨
This topic is good. I enjoyed. As a mental health advocate for over 15 years, therapy is sometimes needed to detach.
Yes, I cannot Stand when people are trying to Manipulate you. Trying to make it Sound like they are not saying nothing to Offend you when they know Deep down inside they are. It just Burns me up
it's the "sorry you feel that way" for me. my ex did that to me.
I just finished your tubi movie 🎬 with Rhonda and the big Narcissistic energy 😆
I would love to have been a guest in this show for this episode! Man ! 😮
Yes reminds me of that old saying “You can’t pour old wine into new wine skins.” It will burst!
I love the friend chemistry. In the most non sexual way possible, Nelcia is so fucking cute. I love her energy. It’s giving Sam to Frodo. Ron to Harry.
Thank you ☺️
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And facts about as long as both parties are willing to grow and work on themselves and learn. We all are definitely a work in progress. But accountability is a must. 💯💚💕🦋
Love the conversation " I am a LaTrice too... sorry I understand nobody asked...😅😅😅
I really enjoyed this topic! I was very excited to see Nelcia really speak on how she felt about this topic, she had great energy this episode ❤
Thank you 🤍
We glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for chiming in!
I haven’t missed an episode since “a space for us” (day 1) keep up the progress, topics and energy are always on point! Touching on real life issues in our (LGBTQ) community! 😊
Pisces in a relationship with a Leo for 13 years had me thinking I “always put here down” and I intentionally approved or refrain from saying things. Separated now for a few months and realized I simply told the truth. Self awareness! Not saying she is a narcissist but she narcissist a lot. LOL
no she a narc run bruh 🏃🏽 im telling from experience until they mature stay far far away from dem Dey trouble. Ever got into a fight bcuz of her?
I’m not a Narc but use to didn’t see my wrong or how my nonchalantness came off… I’m a Leo ( No play in face)
All Leo’s are narcs 😂
I'm speak my mind rather a person like it or not, what's wrong with a lot of couples today rather they married or just in a relationship with someone because there is a lack of communication because people don't know how to tell each other how they feel, but they can tell a stranger everything.
Pisces gang!! We go deep!
Teach 🎉
Facts, you are not always Wrong in a Situation.
Right! The Apology they give is Fake. When a person Apologize, it should come from the Heart at all times. If they are not gonna Mean it, then don't even Bother to Apologize. A Narccissist is something else, and then the Crazy thing about it, a Narccissist will Sit up and call you a Narccissist either not even knowing that they are, or they know they are, and just don't give a Damn. It's all Messed up.
When you're a strong minded person, It's funny when narcs can't manipulate situations with you like everybody else in their life 😂
I Hate I missed this Episode yesterday. Yesterday was a long day for me. I gotta catch up with it, looking at it right now. I Love her Red Lippy 💄💋🥰❤️ I'm a Red Lippy Woman!
Here ‼️ 😂 EARLY 👏🏼🤝 Watched the countdown and ALL ‼️🤣 I love the purity, the transparency and the VIBE. Y’all are really good at making people feel welcomed in y’all space. This topic is extremely #IMPORTANT. 🌹 Currently watching live, drinking the wisdom you ALL have for us today. #HugeEverlastingSupporter 💪🤝 Well done ✅💯
We truly appreciate these words! Thank for chiming in!
Once , a narcissists always a narcissists , they can't change .
I can’t wait to watch this. Once again, that wine will have me waiting 2 minutes to answer any questions … that’s some strong shxt. 😂 I’ll be sipping the Guava flavor while I watch tho because NPD is a whole level of stressful I hope no one ever has to deal with…
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When Nelcia said “Believe in me!” The problem is most of the time those people don’t believe in themselves and they definitely won’t believe in us. 💯💕💚🦋
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Thanks for turning in!
@@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcastmy pleasure 🥰
GREAT TOPIC BUT its the intermission music for me😂😂yall are tooo funny to me
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I feel like we all have and have displayed narcissist “traits” at one time or another I try not to be quick to throw that term around because it’s so loosely used these days. To call a person a narc is a different from having narcissistic traits. We all need to do assessments of ourselves have honest conversations with ourselves and deal with our triggers and trauma, so we can begin to heal.
The one where someone does something bad to you and when you address them about it they make it seem like you the one who did it to them. Definitely have family members like this.
I was raised by a narcissist, my mom 🥹out of all her kids I feel like she did me the worst emotionally, but I just don’t know how to NOT defend myself and the ppl I love, mother or not I’m just naturally extremely protective and loyal
But how long can you keep it up for when the person/ppl keep repeating their bad behaviors with no remorse 👀
@@NattyByNature- I’m not sure what you’re asking exactly but I want to be a little more clear, I was defending my siblings and dad from her ways, not her, I’m just happy I’m grown and don’t live with her anymore lol love her from afar.
@@Ada_B_ thanks for clarifying. I’m happy you’re doing better
If someone doesn't believe what I'm saying . Even though all evidence points to I'm telling the truth. I'm not going to get upset , I'm not going to cry, I will simply say. Ok you can believe what you would like to believe. Because I have nothing to prove to anyone. And my character speaks through the way I carry myself ,treat people, and live my life. Some people will believe what they want regardless of the facts. So no point in me getting worked up with them. #Pisces
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Some ppl need the in between, my old therapist told me a overthinker needs and over detailer.
How many traits to diagnose a narcissist? A qualified therapist is needed for that.
Nelcia’s energy is completely different in this video compared to the last two with the other stud, but good episode.
Yes!! It's nice to see her back to her.
Definitely a different energy but I was very tired the last two episodes. Thanks for watching! 🤍
Nelcia was tired from a late night with Aina before shooting those two episodes 🤣
I dated someone who wanted to turn me into their exes .. 🤷🏽♀️ I'm not them!!