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Yeah I’m holding on to massive amounts of regret due to my freshman year of college

Accept what happen him the Past and just learn from your mistakes

Hey, well try me. I was once taken to my boss's office--with her and her chef colleague--for touching my coworkers too much ( *_casually,_* on arms or shoulders). I was always very outgoing and tactile at work. The chef told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment. That I shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school or tell my stories, because they may be inappropriate or upsetting (can't remember her exact words) to others. Now yeah, I pretty much didn't have a filter, but I don't think I said anything *_horrible._* I only meant to have fun with my crew. I really didn't get specific information from the chef about subjects and references. She likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits. And again, that I shouldn't touch anyone without consent. I own my mistakes at work, but I don't want anyone twisting it around into I'm making the chef the only bad guy. I didn't _mean_ any harm or discomfort. If I had known anyone would feel either, (though technically no one showed signs), I would _not_ have touched them. I am not a creep. But the chef made me feel like one. See, she shouldn’t have been so firm and in my face. A gentle, respectful talk for a couple minutes was all I needed. She shouldn’t have restricted me to handshakes only. Casual taps or pats or whatever are actually ok, as long as you don’t overdo them and it’s to friendly people who clearly enjoy you. I always thought it was perfectly innocent and natural, and I still do, in certain ways. Happens a lot at the bar parties I go to-total strangers. Besides, two middle-aged workers from the dining department have done it to me; I don’t condemn it. Also, the chef did not have to ask my boss if there was anything she wanted to add. How did she think that would make me feel? Not disrespected and like a criminal? HeII, my boss shouldn’t have been in the room at all; I deserved some dignity and comfort. I felt horrible. But of course, whenever I expressed this side on other videos, people would continue faulting me or saying the chef was right. To them, it was this side over the other. I felt like no one understood me or the gray areas I still think exist.

Perhaps, if you knew then what you know now you would have done it differently. You are a different person today. Forgive yourself, & move on. You are doing great and heading in the right direction!

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But they picked me because I think I want fight back.... Which is ridiculous it's a good way to get shot or recorded and put online and lose your job

Let go of yesterday.. because yesterday has already let go of you.

Don’t suffer the lamb. When you’re wrong you’re wrong (parallel street). Knowing a lesson but having a companion to share the lesson with is priceless. I’m a hopeless romantic 🤭

This is a informative video that reminds me that World Ego Awareness Day is coming up on May 11th this year 😊

Whole western society needs to learn this and accountability

Conclusions: 1. Ego is identinification of yourself through your minds. 2. To stop the mind to think a lot in past and future, focus on present. -see everything as they are and don’t judge -present creates past and future. -meditate and focus on rhythm of breathing, walk on stairs and focus in every steps, shower and feel the water and the warmth -you are in state of no mind now. 3. Creativity of artists and scientists came from the stillness mainly and lessly on thinking.

Too good!!👍🏻😉

Thank you!! This is such a helpful video, I appreciate you :)

Thank you so much. i learned so many things about myself and realized what prevents me from communicating with people.

thank you i really needed this

Content is worthy. Thank you for the video. 🙏💓 One request please: Please keep the volume low & of low tempo. I found the music distracting me from listening to your content being said in the video.

I really got help from this video.. Thanks brother

What should I do if I wish something didn’t happen or happened differently

Thank you for this video, great content man

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Someone help! I went to a gas station with my cousins and I stole a little pack of gum that has 4 pieces, it was 50 cents but i didn’t have enough. I am now really scared that my parents will find out and I am scared I will not go to heaven. I am feeling a lot of regret because I am looked at like “ the good child”. I am really upset now and can’t even eat. please help me

Imagine if I would have🫢🤥🤫I wouldn’t be here today 🙄🤠🤡

Women dont athourity to comment......zero logic

Even for just a 6 minute video, I was constantly getting realizations knocking the wind out of me

Yeah...what are you supposed to do when you constantly get negative feedback? Life isn't that simple. You can't just 'not' take things personally. All this advice just disappears when you're in a room with outher people and you just get ignored, despite trying to participate. When ppl you know are always calling others and hanging out, but they don't call you (you have to call them). When this keeps happening, what are you supposed to think? At some point, you have to figure out what is wrong with YOU. That makes you self-conscious, and the pattern just repeats. Some people win in this world and some don't. Some of us are ignored and left behind, and it isn't our fault. People are cruel. Absolutely cruel as hell. And it's those of us who want to change that who suffer the most.

Well there's an opposite of what you say. What if somebody ignores you and you think that they don't like you and they're not saying a word to you because they ignore you. They talk to everybody else at work but they don't talk to you. Looks like to me that they don't like you. Even if you start talking to them they say to you I'm not even talking to you so I don't know why you're talking to me. That sounds a little rude to me and I would say to myself gosh that person was really rude to me what's wrong with them what the hell did I do to them to deserve that kind of treatment. So do you think I want to talk to that person and engage with them after they said I'm not even talking to you so why would you talk to me. Like I said my other co-workers they don't even talk to me so I'm thinking they must not like me because if they did like me they would engage. They engage with everybody else but not with me. So it's either a problem with me and they don't like me or they are horrible horrible horrible people and they just don't like people which is not true because they obviously like the ones that they're talking to

But sometimes, if you don't take something personally, you're eventually going to take your lack of action personally for not standing up or getting offended at one time too many from these sneaky abusers

Leaving a past job and wishing I was still there. Not trusting my intuition at the time, that was telling me this wasn't the right thing to do.

Thank u very much for this

-About 50% was true for me , some people bully or insult others because they have self-conceited for important or silly thing it doesn't matter , some of them don't humble. - Loved the video keep goin man ❤️

I've been going through some MAJOR regret recently, which hit me all of a sudden on multiple fronts (including one huge lost, once in a lifetime, opportunity not long ago that would have brought me real happiness and fulfillment, but I completely didn't even think about it until just a few days ago and it's hit me like a ton of bricks, to the point of agonizing internal screaming in my head). And I was already having a lot of other regrets on top of several major things weighing on me all at once. I need help. I will try to take this advice.

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There’s a reason why you should NOT make assumptions: The victim of a crime or bullying is automatically assumed to have “done something to deserve it.” This is wrong 😑 because the victim NEVER has the chance to prove he/ she did NOT do anything to deserve it. So without proof witnesses ASSUME the victim did something to deserve it. So the next time someone makes an assumption, just ask them “Where’s your proof?”

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I imagine an ad saying: " Are you anxious? Stressed ans tressed about being stressed? " "Try not giving an f! It doesn't cost anything!"

This video is very important to me. Thank you so much. I'm adding it to one of my guides in life. Been single all my life (35 years old) and have been thinking I was ready for a relationship, but I think with my personal growth in the past 2 years I was just looking for a deeper sense of self. My way forward is not to look for love by specifically going after a mate, but to pour the love I already have over things I already love. I want a female to challenge me cognitively, not just support me and my endeavors. So far when I've gone after women, I find myself challenging them and they always run. I try to paint a picture that life with me isn't going to be easy, it isn't going to be great, but it is going to be real. Perhaps these women take it as I'm needy or they just want a fantasy. Either way I've learned to stop looking and start loving. Again thanks for this video.

Then tell this to every individual convicted by any court, any legal system, in every country on this planet. I don't care if it's USA, UK, North Korea, Poland, Hungary, Japan, South Korea. There is nothing bad nothing wrong with crime or someone being a criminal. Those are just labels, insults, that angry politicians + judges + lawyers make up. They have NOTHING to do with absolute physical consequences of actions and decisions. Nobody should take a "guilty" verdict in a court personally. It is already bad enough that that person suffers torture by imprisonment or torture/harm by being fined money.

This is so brilliant! Now to remember it!

Mindfulness

Am I selfish?

I agree with all that you said, especially when you're innocent.. But what if it's really YOUR own fault to begin with? You wouldn't want psychopath or narcassist to think: 'oh its not my fault its their voices' do you? Because its gonna be dangerous mindset

This was help!

Thank you so much for your wonderful work.. 👍

Amazing!

Thank you for making this video, I really appreciate it :)

what if it is straight up fact that i am a loser, that i just know this.

This was a list of 6 common sales tactics. It gave zero instructions on how to say no.

This person isn’t suffering with OCD but I liked the saying, “ It is fine” I appreciate that wonderful suggestion.

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