How to be confident - 3 IMMEDIATE TIPS to be more comfortable in your own skin

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Understanding the mental side:
0:11 1) Other people’s opinions matter…. ONLY when they are feedback
1:03 2) Self Awareness is king
2:09 3) Social Media is a façade
3 IMMEDIATE TIPS to be more comfortable in your own skin:
3:14 1) The steeple hand gesture
4:30 2) Holding hands behind back
5:08 3) Thumbs display
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We are going to bring up the mental aspect of confidence and 3 body language habits for you to exercise to be more confident.
Understanding the mental side:
1) Other people’s opinions matter…. ONLY when they are feedback
If you are being told why you should do this and that, why you can make something happen but the other thing is a no go, you should question the validity of the statement alongside the other person’s point of view.
Human beings are biased towards blaming unhappiness on what we don’t have rather than the inability to work with what we currently have, therefore, people are way more likely to lecture you on what they don’t have themselves, based on their own mistakes rather than based on possibilities and what is compatible for you personally.
How often do you come across feedback that is practical and valid enough to propel you towards being better? Rarely.
And when you’re fed with so many external opinions that do not reflect on who you are, your self-image suffers.
The next time you get someone telling you how to do things do, consider if that feedback is consistent with you achieving a better lifestyle that is consistent with your end goals.
2) Self Awareness is king
At first, as you’re trying to figure things out you may sink into a seemingly endless cycle of negativity, focusing on what you’re not good at and trying to make up for it on a personal level, but what if you didn’t have to?
One of the most objective ways to ever approach your life isn’t by who you wanna be, that image is a bit flawed by biases towards what you’d like to change or what you’ve been fed with, it’s by who you’ve always been, looking for the most consistent patterns and trying to build off of that.
Human beings change, but they do not transform, some things will always be there, this is why it makes it so difficult to figure out who you are and others since there’s always something you’d like to change or improve.
So that sure as hell makes it easier to figure what’s always been good for you and what not, are you a materialistic person? Or you more spiritual? Were you trying to make a shift in any area because of somebody else?
It is not so much about doing and not doing as much as it is about priorities, being aware of your identity allows you to figure your top 2 priorities of things you would like to do on a daily basis or accomplish that would propel you towards your goals.
3) Social media is a façade
While everybody’s enjoying their short-term lives and boasting travel photos and fancy restaurants, a sucker like you is watching this video wondering where am I going with this?
There is always a tradeoff, short-term discomfort for long-term accomplishment and really… Nobody’s posting on social media to discuss their lows in life.
This is where the bias kicks in again, the “what if” comes in, what if I were there, the answer would be chances are it will not completely satisfy you.
This is not to say do not aim for more, this is to say aim further while understanding the tradeoff, we all have to give up certain aspects of life to be who we really are, to pursue what we’re about and social media DOES NOT show this.
You don’t know people’s struggles to make it happen and people are likely to dismiss yours when you make it, life is fucking hard when you’re figuring things out and when you’re exposed to people being happy all the time in your newsfeed, their peak moments 24/7, it can become a ridiculous standard to live up to.
Do not dismiss the trade-off.
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I am so glad they made the hand gestures. I think my manager is learning this from me.

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🕒 TIMESTAMPS:
Understanding the mental side:
0:11 1) Other people’s opinions matter…. ONLY when they are feedback
1:03 2) Self Awareness is king
2:09 3) Social Media is a façade
3 IMMEDIATE TIPS to be more comfortable in your own skin:
3:14 1) The steeple hand gesture
4:30 2) Holding hands behind back
5:08 3) Thumbs display

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Just found this nice channel. The hand gesture tips were very interesting to learn.

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Thank you so much for the awesome channel. Made my life easier.

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Great video, thanks for sharing :)

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