The #1 Mistake You’re Making When Asking Your Avoidant Partner to Open Up! 👇🏻
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- čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
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In this live video, I share the #1 mistake you're making when asking your avoidant partner to open up. Is this surprising to you?
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I'm avoidant. She calls me a robot
She is avoidant ,I call her a robot
@@cespedes1975 I can see you
Good lord, are we dealing with an adult or an autistic child!?!
It's not anxious, it's being an adult and not having arrested development. Avoidant should be relabeled as disassociative autism. I spent 3 years being unbelievably patient and accepting, it doesn't get better unless they are in active therapy. If you want an adult relationship, it will not be found with an avoidant. You will always be first on the chopping block compared to their pet, friends, family, job, home, and independence.
Agreed, I think the patience is only warranted if the avoidant individual is already aware of their needs and has done sufficient work and can let their partner know how to support. Otherwise i would argue that an avoidant expecting their partner to tolerate long bouts of silence without accountability or acknowledgement of impact on partner can be very damaging
I only learnt yesterday tht I’m an anxious avoidant and I’m dating a dismissive avoidant. The journey hasn’t been easy bt bcoz I love him I’ve always had to be submissive and break the silence when needed, yet I ddnt know it would push them further away (that I only learnt yesterday through your videos..lol)
My question is should I let them know that I know who they are (DA) and I totally understand and would like to help/be with them through their journey to/in healing? Or me addressing this issue in this way will just upset them and close off completely?