The Truth About Being A Girl
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- "People always say that the girls of this generation are so vain..."
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I woke up in 2:40 a.m and saw my boyfriend watch this and I hugged him...
Yes.
just saying
Cuteeeeeeee
Ship it
And like
Tysm nice human’s bf
marry him
Girlll you just foung your soulmate 😏
“Don’t call her hot, call her beautiful. She’s a girl, not a cup of tea.” - Tom Holland
*Yana L* I love that.
Yes please more quotes like this
nothing wrong with calling someone hot..
Yes, thank you for this beautiful quote
Yes, thank you for that quote.
“A real girl isn’t perfect, and a perfect girl isn’t real.”- Harry Styles
I would say all girls are real...who are we to judge who is real and who is fake
@@bini6935 It’s saying that perfect isn’t real, so a “perfect” girl isn’t real, and a real girl is isn’t perfect, saying that they have flaws, bc eveyone has flaws. It’s not saying people are real and fake, it’s saying perfect isn’t real, it’s fake.
Oh okay ...I just misunderstood. Thanks for explaining
@@bini6935 no your fine! I understand how you can get that mixed up lol
True
I was raised by my parents in a way that they got the message across:
Look, you are a person that can think on their own. You don’t need a man or another woman to decide that for you. You will learn to be strong and independent. People who hurt and use you aren’t worth it. Yes a man is build to have stronger muscles, but with training you can be just as strong or even stronger as a man that doesn’t train! You can be whoever you want to be. People who just want your body? Block them out of your life. If someone tries to touch you, you say no but they still won’t stop? Someone hurts or threatens you? Kick their a$$! Get away from them. They are not allowed to do that.
Dress like you want to, not how someone else or society wants you too! Be who you want to be, not how others or how society want you too!
If someone discriminates against someone, stand up to them
beautiful
I wish I had a parent like that
So true. And there are things that women are better at but men can also practice them and become just as good. We shouldn't devide but help each other learn and not tear down the other gender for their differences
" Just because she is not perfect doesn't mean that she is not beautiful"
- Zayn Malik
It's not just one's superficial appearance that defies beauty but what makes your character and soul. If you lack the last two ones, the only thing left is maybe your physical attractiveness, but does that alone make you beautiful? I think not. And I guess we can all agree on that. That being said, leaves this statement as nothing more than a narcissistic DEMAND for something that has nothing to do with actual merit and therefore is just a naive but for this generation typical expression of egocentrism.
And to quote an important personality in this regard:
“Since narcissists deep down feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world’s fault.” - M. Scott Peck
This whole video is just a bunch of one-sided BS, portraying issues as exclusive to girls when it should be very obvious to everyone with empathy, that this is not the case and not how the real world works. Keep on talking about "f*ck boys" when women today are the most promiscuous the world has seen since the 70's and don't tell me this behavior doesn't hurt anyone (including men). Tinder makes it possible. You are all whiny hypocrites with very very serious narcissistic disorders!
@@Project_2501 even if women are promiscuous it doesn't give the excuse that they should be blamed for being sexualized in our society just because of their self confidence that shouldn't be mistaken for narcissism women are subjected to verbal abuse if they flaunt their body out of confidence or have sexual relationships with multiple men a girl's mental health and comfort is more important than her innocence or her appearance also Tell me why idiots fail biology by believing that female breasts are sexual organs when they are only used for feeding babies nothing is sexual about it women have to choose between having their baby scream in public from hunger to the point where he/she dies from malnutrition or being labelled as sluts just for breastfeeding
@@fatimahanwaar306 So, then please tell my why we are labeling men as "f%ckboys" when they want to be promiscuous and being open about their intentions? Do you see your double standard?
Being promiscuous is not being self confident, it's the exact opposite! It's insecurity and a need for constant confirmation no matter if you are a woman or a man. If you can't see that, I pity you deeply.
And to quote you: "even if women are promiscuous it doesn't give the excuse that they should be blamed for being sexualized" - so please tell me how do you not sexualize yourself if sex is your main intention? How do you not degrade yourself by living that way and how could you possibly believe that living a life of patching your emotional chaos caused by negative experience is some what not pathetic but actually empowering or empowered? It is pathetic and shows what a broken and irresponsible person you are - nothing else.
Yesss! ❤❤❤❤
Girl yes
*Don't call her hot. Call her beautiful. She is not a cup of tea* - Tom Holland ❤
Fact
Very true
It's not just one's superficial appearance that defies beauty but what makes your character and soul. If you lack the last two ones, the only thing left is maybe your physical attractiveness, but does that alone make you beautiful? I think not. And I guess we can all agree on that. That being said, leaves this statement as nothing more than a narcissistic DEMAND for something that has nothing to do with actual merit and therefore is just a naive but for this generation so typical expression of egocentrism.
And to quote an important personality and not some irrelevant millennial actor who will be forgotten in 2 two years (I find this one very fitting to this comment and also to the whole narrative of the video):
“Since narcissists deep down feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world’s fault.” - M. Scott Peck
🤩🤩🤩
F.O.S
"There is no gender, only monke."
-Master Oogway
YES.
"There is no monke, only Kanye"
- Kanye North
😂
Reject humanity, Return to Monke.
@@humanbeing1754 username does not check out
This comment a friend gave me broke my heart: “your technically half boy, look at how you act”
Edit: I’m a guy
That's not a friend a friend will love and support you no matter how you act how you look yeet that so called friend i will fight her if you want let's jumps her
it is what it is 😃👍
Er
It is what it is 😃👍
@@shock_dbl842 itiswhatitis
Tom Hiddleston “maybe I’m old fashioned but to respect the woman you love should be a priority”
I feel like it applies both ways. Just respect people, until they make something that makes you lose this respect.
@@victoiremvl no one said that women shouldn't respect men?
@@heee302 Obviously
@@victoiremvl what
Not only the women you love each and every women in this world
To anyone saying that men have it hard too, yes. That's true. Everyone has their struggles. Even if the struggle is equal, do not speak over those who are trying to be heard. This is not a place to speak about the difficulties men face. Make your own video to talk about that if you want. The point is that it is wrong to use your own struggles to cover up or invalidate the struggles of another person.
This so much! If their issues were so important they actually would be making videos to talk about them and actually do educate some of those very much real issues. Instead they use these issues as a device to take the conversation away from the women's issues being discussed in order to take attention away from the women's discussion and place it on their own. They also use it to play the victim though they like to use that same accusation against women bringing up their grievances. Men have never been oppressed by women but by other men yet, they blame their issues on women and on so-called feminists. Men have been the dominant gender throughout all of human history and have wielded enough power and privilege, they made sure that women weren't given a chance to make their mark in this world.
They are not interested in actually fighting for men's rights or even in spreading awareness of the issues surrounding men, they just want to silence women.
Every wave of feminism, every new level of women gaining rights men have always been disdainful, angry, hateful, dismissive, etc in reaction to it because with that, their dominance and privilege is getting chipped away.
The amount of hate on videos that try to talk about male issues tho 😅
Men have it worse
@@Bobatch some men. Some men have it worse than some woman. Some woman have it worse than some man. Depends on the person. Because it’s not a clear cut issue of one being worse than the other, it’s impossible to gauge who would in fact have it “worse”. And by saying that one does, it can potentially invalidate the other’s feelings and experiences. We just want everyone to feel heard, so that we can then work on changing the world.
Men and women do this and then get actively shut down by feminist lol. Men's rights activism is literally called sexism and misogyny by modern society. If you went hint at mens issues or hint that women aren't all god's gift to the earth the feminist mob will strike you down with the vengeance of a god but go off.
Thank you, that was wonderful.
I've been thinking a lot about the question "what is a woman" which is often thrown by provocateurs as some kind of trump card to trans-woman because of the complicated interplay between physiology and the mind- makes it damn hard to get consistent answers across a population.
This poem speaks to a more central question I've been asking people -"what does it mean to be treated as a woman"...which nearly everyone I speak to can answer. The response I get are so saddening- it is so often told through the lens of trauma and history. To be a woman seems to be, to take on the burden of the history of classical womenkind and its current day manifestation- to be treated terribly most of the time.
“Don’t blame me but when I thought about boys I thought about dinner dates and soulmates not fu** boys that look at you like shark bait”
Damn that hit hard
Yeah
It's just good guys aren't into her
yeah, that hit really hard....
She is saying for every guy. She hasn’t even met .001% of guys, so how does she know this?
@@benciliberto8706 I like how you're a male haha
Who else is secretly wondering if any guys clicked on this
Just look at the dislikes. U'll know.
Sasmit Datta omg true
Sasmit Datta Why do you think That The dislikes are from boys...... What is wrong with people?
I did and i also hanged myself
@@sasmitdatta7139 🖕nothing more just🖕
Thank you for understanding and spreading this
“Being a woman is living in fear that your basic healthcare will disappear”
Here we are.
@KFC Man a 10 year old would’ve been forced to carry a pregnancy to term had her family not had the resources to cross state lines. So. If that’s not basic healthcare idk what is.
@KFC Man geographical location should not determine access to comprehensive care. That’s a slippery slope.
@KFC Man for now. For now, that specific 10 year old did. But what about the family the can’t drive to another state? And what happens when Indiana does further restrict abortion? Are we really going to let reproductive healthcare become a coastal privilege?
And woman think of men as financially object that's facts
@@morro2227 not all
*Don't call her hot. Call her beautiful. She isn't a cup of tea*
~Tom Holland~
A volcano rather? Jk.
Don't call her hot. Call her Pavone Design: the man who invented the design
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ LOVE IT
Don't call he hot. Call her beautiful. She's a girl,not a cup of tea.
Don't call her hot. Call her John Keefer Mahony VC, a Canadian recipient of the Victoria Cross, the highest and most prestigious award for gallantry in the face of the enemy that can be awarded to British and Commonwealth forces.
" why are there so many quotes in the comments?"
-me
XD
That's what I was thinking!!
Nobody has original thoughts
Quing Ching Hua Rong Underrated comment
I know lol
1:18 daymmmm she started rapping😂😂
Yeah, that's what i thought too. Why does she talking in a quick rhythm and hand moves, almost like she's rapping? I mean, very motivating, wise and confident video for woman but like, wtf is up with the speed? Lol. Your comment should have more likes
"donot assume I belong to your room . I belong to a conference room"
I’m sorry but that line made me cringe so hard
You belong in a conference room and you also belong on streets doing construction work which is physically exhausting.
"I don't want my children to be judged by their skin colour,but by the content of their character"
-Martin Luther King Jr
Edit:geez ik this isn't about race my comment was about not wanting to be judged my loons but by your personality
Skylar Spider Gacha Martin Luther Ling Jr was sexist and didn’t let women advance in his movement (sry to burst ur bubble)😁
@@jamie5661 what about Rosa Parks HUH
Skylar Spider Gacha this isn’t about race lmao
emma 。 we know but it relates to this if you change it up a bit
B F you ruined it
*I think most people judge each other becuase they're afraid to be judged first*
shasha luvs cake so true
shasha luvs cake I know and it sucks
I have trust issues
Facts
...its so true it hurts.
DANG !!! THAT WAS WELL SAID !
men or women, we all have our hardships. some more than others. thats why feminism exists (true feminism). we will fight for whats right, for equality. not as a gender but as humans.
What equality are you talking about
@@suntzu5449 the same equality which brainless fools like you arent gonna understand
@@suntzu5449 that men and women in the end are equal as a natural person in front of the law and equally human. and we can appreciate both the male and female perspective, that would be equality
Being called beautiful makes me feel way better then being called hot
Preach! Gorgeous, Honey, Intelligent, Kind, Valuable, Appreciated, all descriptive words better than 'Hot' or even 'Cute'. Tell me I'm smart, it would get people much farther.
Don't pressurize us to call you in some way. Men are already suffering from society's expectation and now we should also learn what should we call you? No i will not.
@Dark Glow men are suffering tho.
@@mezrcy LMAO
@@crazybanana292 yes your ingnorance is funny
“No” does not mean “convince me”
-me 2019
It’s Okay that’s actually a great quote lol
👏👏👏👏
i might steal that at some point in time. i don’t know your name so if i do i will just put “unknown, 2019” hope that’s ok
2020*
Will definitely be using this in the coming future
“I’ll have two number nines, a number nine large, one with cheese, extra dip and a large diet soda”
-Big Smoke
Btw thank you for likes.
I actually kinda agree with this.
made me cry
fax
Make that a diet soda
@@dhclassicwasstolen I got you
I judged this because this is a BuzzFeed channel but I agree with this women.
You agree with a crazy, illogical and salty feminist? Lol
@@humanbeing1754 Yes
@@humanbeing1754pov a woman speaks:
If you can't respect, don't even open your mouth.
- RM (Kim Namjoon, the leader of BTS)
😭💜
True
Yes sir !!
No sir
Yesss💜😢
I’ve started to hate being a woman and I don’t know how to stop it. I hate this sexual dimorphism that causes me to be physically weaker than most men no matter how much I try. I want to be strong so bad. I hate how that is the reason the patriarchy started in the first place. I hate how women’s achievements were belittled and overlooked, and the credit even taken by men. I hate how women are considered a liability in first responder fields and the military because EVERYTHING was built and made considering men. I hate how female athletes are sexualized by spectators and the media, and are not respected because they are not as strong as the male athletes even though they are just as skilled and hard working. I hate how life is so cruel that it makes men stronger than us so we can’t fight back in an endangering situation. I hate how men are considered the “default human” for things like vehicles and medicines so that the airbags are dangerous for women and the medicine doesn’t usually work as well. I hate how men are paid more and respected more in the workforce and can dedicate themselves to it completely while women are considered a liability because of pregnancy. Our own anatomy that we can’t control is considered a burden even though we are handling it well enough. I hate how a woman has to be extraordinary to be respected while a man doesn’t have to do much. I hate how we’re considered less smart even though women have been inventing and discovering and composing since the beginning of time yet it’s considered a male thing. I hate how the inherently male things like brute force, unhealthy handling of emotions and anger are accepted and even encouraged while things like crying and feeling pain are considered weak. I hate how most respected careers are male dominated. I hate how we are thought of as a sex ruled by emotion and are apparently incapable of thinking logically. I hate how the capabilities of male bodies are researched extensively while female bodies are just “weak”. I hate how the minute women are welcomed in a field, everybody is against it. I hate how hard we had to fight for our rights and we’re still fighting for it, but people consider it unnecessary. I hate how men think that we have to be protected all the time in this day and age when we’re just as capable. I hate how all the sports were by men and made for men, and there isn’t enough research on female body capabilities to create for women to excel in. I hate it all so much. I don’t want to be a man, but god I wish I had the physical advantages of one. I’m so sick and tired of us being pushed down because of our bodies.
So according to that comment, it's like you realize you are sitting in the inferior mech, while men have a mech that is more suited to gain power and then can dictate the rules of mech society. So I would put it...
And then understandably there is this moment of being devastated and giving up.
To some degree, I feel like there is just no solution to this, maybe also because it is _just real_ and it's just what it is?
On the other hand.... maybe very, very slowly, things can change a (very) little bit at least....
For instance at the university of Greifswald (Germany) there is currently a small workshop about sex and gender and their impact on medical treatment. It's initiated by two men... (I know, why do we have men here again... or maybe for the moment it is also useful)
Also this field of study has recently been depicted in some public broadcast documentaries.
Also I think there are many men that value the legacy of women (they just need to hear about them). E.g. about Sappho, Agustina de Aragón, Clara Schumann, Bertha Benz, Hedy Lamarr, Lise Meitner or Pema Chödrön.
(At least to me it is important to find both men and women I can look up to.)
It's true men deal with emotions differently... but also continuously will do so, since in mating women also find whiny men less attractive... and it's okay they feel that way, they are also looking for a strong partner. Men cannot always go the same paths as women and vice versa (here caused by sexual selection).
-It's true, (as a man) I think that women fight for women rights is unnecessary. But with that comment, maybe it does slightly change me... if it is the truth in its own, standing for itself, then I as well should be able to come to that conclusion, because it is the truth-
The fight for women rights in western countries can sometimes be on a very privileged level, while in other countries there is a serious, life-threatening level of inferior women rights
(Afghanistan, Iran, Yemen, Somalia, Saudi Arabia, Nigeria, South Sudan, Syria .....)
Also, again Germany, but our first article of the law says: "The human dignity is inviolable. To esteem and protect it is quest of all authority."
Actually, just when researching for this comment I found Clara Schumann. Nobody told me about her music...
Anyway, that comment resonated more with me than the video above. I wish you all the best.
Become a stud in stop crying
Your bodies also hurt you once a month, having birth changes you mentally and makes you a different person, it's also extremely painful. If society fell apart, women would be at the bottom of everything all over again. There is no winning when you are cursed
Most women are incapable of thinking logically
Yes our rights will be taken away if we don’t keep fighting for them.
Im sick of people telling me are you on you period your really moody or having to hide yourself from creepy people 😡
you definately are in your period and ure hysterical aura is very agressive , work on that, its not femenine
@@stationaryEarthrealmdefine feminity
@@xrortamiXD The day a woman feels attracted to you and starts developing feelings towards you ,she will start to segregate pheromones due to the masculinity you irradiate with you essence.
But because you are unexperienced with sexual relationships you wont understand, see this is somethi g you learn during you teenage years 😅
@@stationaryEarthrealm and what about the women who are homosexual
@@xrortamiXD Happens the same, Notice how lesbian relationship mimic the primordial masculine and femenine roles. Thats why you see ALWAYS a masculine lesbian beeing the alpha and then the other lesbian who plays the femenine roll which gives her the right to nag and play victim with emotional arguements.
That is because there are only 2 chromosomes and there is no much place for different role interpretations, oterwise lesbians and gays wouldnt argue in the same way we Heteronormals do .
This information is given by the language of nature and biology though. THe day you experience this you will start to understand how this genesis works. Its universal and applies to both genders
*Just imagine having this much confidence...*
Potato Fren yeah....
Potato Fren wish I had that
You spelled ignorance wrong
*Just imagine being this embarrassing...* There, corrected it for you. Go ahead, immensely hate me all you want. I don't care anymore.
I’m not saying I support her. I’m just saying she’s very confident lol.
Me: *reads the title*
*thinks about period*
Nightcore scientist lol
Lmao relatable af
literally same
ikr omg lmfaoooooooooooo haahaa
Same
Reading comments down here make me so emotional 😭🥺
To the girl reading this, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ✨
YOU MATTER ✨
YOU ARE WORTHY ✨
YOU ARE BRILLIANT ✨
YOU ARE AMAZING ✨
AND YOU DESERVE TO FEEL LOVE ✨
Sending all my love to you, but please love yourself enough so you won’t « beg » for any love from others ❤️
i'm a dude. simmer down.
@@Hyperlink1337💀💀💀
@@Hyperlink1337agreed
0:57 when you ask Emily for a pen
💀
😂😂😂
Wow very funny 😐
stoppppp😭
the words every girl wants to say, this is amazing
Not me
I don't wanna say all what she said to be honest
and make those hoes disappear
Mini Eren that is probably because you have never experienced any of the things this girl is talking about
False, I don't.
"Try living in a woman's world" - Little Mix, Woman's world
We don't, but try to live in a man's world
Your guys poor behavior sparks ours, and vice versa, so think on that
P.S we can measure
@@jeffmcnamee3217 I know men also have their own difficulties, and I totally understand. All genders should be treated equally. It's just that this video reminds me of that song and that lyric.
As a female, I think it’s , in many ways, better than a males.
@@randomcat7246 duh.. 🐱
Blair Waldorf yeah. At least I don’t have a biased court system against me and a legally required signup for draft that I gotta do. All because I’m not male..
Thank you! We are not objects and everyone needs to know this!
Everyone is a physical object with rest mass greater than zero, that's a scientific fact.
“I will stand on the side as you shine..”
- Mirabel madrigal
Is it me or there's a part that sound like a rap song?
Don’t insult rap like that
@@straightmelon8792 I don't even insult it😔 Im sorry if you hurt by my thoughts 😔
Ima Ridzuan no it’s trash
This performance rhymes and she's talking fast.
You clearly have never listened to Rap in your life that was a skit not music
Being a Girl doesn't mean we want to look *sexy*. Or you run after boys.
GIRLS we have the power.
We have a strong voice.
Not to hate but I don't think any sensible guy worth his time wants to be chased by women. Just wouldn't make any sense.
Yeah right, if you dress up in mini skirt, bare midriff, belly button piercing, stockings and a face like from the makeup shotgun, you clearly don't WANT to look sexy, it just happened totally by accident and you don't do that to get attention by men. Yes, that makes totally sense!
This generation is so lost...
@pepper _ because guys never get unwanted looks from females, yeah that's 100% true
Project 2501 um no. This coming from a girl in T-shirts’ and baggy jeans, those girls wear that for THEMSELVES. Get off your high horse, not everything we do and wear is about you, Mkay
@@nicoleavalon936 Project whatever has a point though some wear those things for themselves or for their confidence but some people just want attention
0:57 when you ask a girl for a pencil
"Ma'am this is a McDonalds drive thru"
😭😭😭
This made laugh harder than my dad's belt.
@@mdsarfarazali5207 PFFFT 😂
LMAO
yooo 🤣🤣🤣
Does this remind anyone else of prince ea
Twenty-one flight attendants she coppied prince ea style
It’s slam poetry
Twenty-one flight attendants yes omg
Yes omg!
First thing I thought
“Beauty is not how we look, it is how we act.” -Khloe Kardashian
even though I am against the Kardashian/Jenner sisters for their unhealthy beauty standards and toxic femininity this is a great quote
@@fatimahanwaar306 took the words right out of my mouth
@yikes! that also makes sense
yikes! it’s just a quote, not meant to be taken so literally
well thats hironic
Respect is something that should be earned, not given right away. If you don’t want to be treated like that prove yourself otherwise.
Is it been al ready 5 years 😱😱😱😱😱😱, i still love it !!!!!!💕❤️
2024 here I am
As a female I can say that this is exactly what goes through my head everyday. But I’ve learned that everybody is different in their own way and is beautiful no matter what❤️
Yeah this is tru
ooh mrs potato head told me is it true tha- k sry but ur username
@@virtualdick4541 did you think of Melanie Martinez if you didn't omg I'm embrassing
Same
“Mr.”Potato Head. Sure you’re a female
"If someone whistles at you don't look back, you are not a dog." ~ Jeon Jungkook BTS
Wait hold up jungkook said this
When
U h m n u k e w h i s t l e s
when did he say this🤔
When did he said that-
not trying to start anything between the bands, but niall
horan said that x
"treat women like human beings, not like something to bring you joy just by using it!"
- Callmehshy
Words cannot describe how empowering this is.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
But what if the people in the back don't want or need to hear it🤔
No
Woman have the same rights as men though lmao
Naw we good at the back
Rigby no we don’t.
You're not a real *man* , because a real *man* would never hurt a *woman* .
~Min Yoongi (of BTS💜)
Hey even if the woman is crazy or defending themselves you hurt never hurt anybody unless it is self defense for you or someone you love.
My dad was a real man 💖
💜😭💜
on what video did he say that?
Grandpa yoongerz has wise words
-potato
0:57 when you ask olivia for a pen
The racetrack line I gotta use🤣
@the grxy sky dxmxns not a stranger 😂my gf
“You are born to be real, not to be perfect” -Min Yoongi💜
Armyyyy!!
Miona Činč A.R.M.Y
Arrrrrmy 💜💜💜💜
Army spotted
ARMY
"i am not an object. i have a voice and something to say"
i felt that. the camera crew felt that. buzz feed felt that. your mom felt that. all the girls felt that.
Nah, what I heard was: "When a guy wants to get laid he's a f*ckboy" but when a girl does the same and somebody else points that out, it's "sl*tshaming" all of a sudden. This video is full of double standards like this!
Also you might want to look at the wage gap. Women are payed less than men, but women also work less than men, are more likely to take more vacations,are less likely to ask for promotions,etc
@@lordfm2189 The wage gap was very conclusively disproven and there is many videos on YT that show that very logically in detail. It applies for basically the whole western world - all on the base of the law. E.G. in the US it's the American Anti-Discrimination Law which was established already in the 80's and basically grants everybody the same payment for the same kind of job, in the same company, no matter your age, sex, health condition or color. Read it up - it's a google search away. Also it is often dependent on how you negotiate your salary. If you sell yourself under value because you are too scared to demand enough and therefore get a contract with less money than your male counterpart, it is not really to blame on men, but onto you own insecurity and lack of knowledge.
Based on these laws, women in the whole western world could sue their employers if they'd get payed less and guess what - they would win. The fact that we don't hear from a massive wave of this kind of law suit, backed by feminist organizations which would grant the appropriate media presence of such a law suit wave is proof enough that there are actually no cases that would even qualify for a trial - meaning the wage gap does in fact NOT exist. And it's not an argument to say that the patriarchy would hinder that to go out to the press, because feminism and "wokeness" is average media topic no1 atm.
Also very good evidence that there is no such thing as a "patriarchy" - Why would men who want to systematically oppress women even bother thinking about implementing such a law in the first place or get media to push this narrative so much. Don't you think they would have "shut the gates" for feminism already if they were so powerful and full of hate? It is just utter radical feminist nonsense that has nothing to do with reality or feminism itself. Modern feminists are a disgrace to the original cause, because they spread these blatant lies and hate everywhere they can. They are indeed the actual sexists who strafe for power, not equality, because in the western world - that goal has already been reached decades ago. If you are too blind and uneducated to see that and such a victim sheep that you need these radical insane people to feel included in life, then you deserve deep pity.
Why didnt I feel that?
@@lordfm2189 what EVERYONE gets a vacation if they ask or when it's there time to that makes no since
POV: You asked a pencil from that one girl in class 👁👄👁
lol
💀💀💀
This just touches my heart I love this because it really is true and it sucks because there are certain clothes I’m not aloud to where or don’t feel comfortable in because of our society in this day and age!
"A real girl isn't perfect and a perfect girl isn't real"
-Harry styles
Love him so much! 💚
@@grac3_k4y yasssssssss
@Fried Vegetables whos they
@Fried Vegetables im sorry you're ignorant. :( i like this quote though.
@TED THE ALPHA MALE HAWKINS why??
PREACH "I AM NOT AN OBJECT"
Yeah, but can pornstars say the same? With their own agreement, they are treated as objects, so don't blame me that i think women are mere objects if they're whores.
No one is saying you are
Madafaka you know men do porn to that means there not less a object then women
Isabella040618 yeah because women are something to catcall in some peoples which is wrong without women humanity wouldn't exist
Madafaka
They are not objects either. They are women that need jobs so they go to the film industry
I wish I was like this girl, so much confidence and isn’t afraid 😫😫
Only on the internet
BRO I JUST LOOKED AT YOU
LMAO😂🤣🤣
I’ve watched this video at least 15 times and I hope that every girl and boy sees this
daisy linder yeah it is bad.
Yeah and to hear some of the things she say is wrong towards men aswell but just saying
Hello Okay
Get a life
Beatz and Boba I don’t have a life because I disagree with most of the points in the video? Okay
@@urfavjunebug not everyone has to agree on what she gotta say , and hello okay has a life
Here's CZcams's recommendations again..
But this time I'm glad
So am i
I am too😁
Same
Sameee
So am I ❤
I needed this
With all due respect to the message of this video, I have to ask two questions. 1. This whole video gives the impression that this has only been happening for the last few decades. The reality, however, is the opposite objectification of women has never been so publicly condemned as in the 21st century. 2. The exact same thing happens in men when the opposite sex is expected to be muscular and tall. And this isn't just about humans, this is what every single mammal on this planet does. This is a simple natural selection in which an individual with strong genetics multiplies as much as possible and the one with weak genetics (it doesn't have to be just the physical one, it can even be a position in society) multiplies as little as possible. And before anyone gets angry, I'd like to remind you that "Life isn't fair" and I'm not particularly happy about that either.
@Gabrielle Boucher What ? First of all, dear lady, I have never said in my life that this video is sexist or untrue. The same thing happens to men, but that was not the main idea. On the one hand, you complain about sexism, but on the other hand, when a man says that the same thing happens to men, he is suddenly bad? By the way, would you also write to a woman that she should not use comments to share her opinion 🤣? Shall I continue ? I literally wrote one sentence in which I mentioned that it happens to men as well, which was important to mention in the context of other sentences, and you start writing about how it is bad from me to say this and so on ... Like come on we are all human
so a meme can go viral but this can't? okay..
@@virtualdick4541 I don't get it
And I oop-
IKR LIKE SERIOUSLY
Yes because memes are useful this is not
Fr I don't get it
when she went “ 👆🤟👍🤜👌🤙🤞 “ i felt that 😔
Same same
Is that sign language? I’m sorry if it’s not I just don’t understand
@@alma_najem It was just a joke because the lady moves her hands alot while talking.
Crawlic 0w0 lol
Lml
Literally i claps after she finished. ❤
0:57 Bro i just asked for a pencil
I got a very "prince EA" vibe but this is amazing
LunarTheGamer
Same here! I think it was inspired by him
He is the best orator ever heard by ne he is such a gentlemen.... I love him😚😚☺🙂☺☺🙂🙂🤗😇🤗🤗
Fairy pink so do I 😄
LunarTheGamer omg same lol
Same
I'm from India, here sexism is real and still exists. So for those of you saying it isn't a problem anymore, please step out of the bubble you've put yourself in and realize there is more to the world than you and your experiences.
Where
Well, I live in Sweden and sexism exist here as well. But last year I went to Pakistan and after being there for a month I realised that I am lucky living in Sweden because it was so much worse there. After my trip I've started talking about the sexism in India, pakistan and the other countries around there at school. I've spread a lot of awareness and I've been thinking about how I can help both my dad's family in Pakistan and all the other people who live there. I'm praying for all the girls in those countries❤️
Liam8159 it still is in america
Selena Lewis it is, im in england men are still payed more, im 11 witnessed sexual assault, im constantly harrased my older men on the street saying smile more etc.
I am from India as well, I wholeheartedly agree
I got a mini seizure from that flashy lights in the beginning
I know what its like...
its like a human, as men and women are equal.
This video is so true
When I was little I thought I was beautiful until kids at school started pointing out all my flaws
My nose,lips and ass
I started spending hours staring in the mirror trying to figure out what they were talking about
Because........I didnt see it
So my confidence and self esteem went down.
Until I met this guy who told me that it doesn't matter wjat you look like as long as you got a good heart.
And you know what I did
*I married that man* 👌🤗😂
Listen up you good for nothing low life pig aww that’s so beautiful!! ♥️❤️♥️
Aww
My hearrrrttt
Listen up you good for nothing low life pig good for you , did you have fun trying to look better even tho you didn’t need to ?
You found a good one. don't let him get away, there are few good people left now.
For those of you who missed the point. She wants equal rights for BOTH males and females.
What equal rights is she trying to imply? Please enlighten me my dear... All I can hear her say was men are this and that, they always try to sexualise and objectify us... Like come one this era of discrimination is long gone...if you're tying to make yourself better just don't give a f**k to what others say, if they're doing something illegal REPORT!!!just please don't victimise yourself to make you feel better by contempting men
HitJin Ent why do you have to belittle her be calling her dear? That’s demeaning toward women. Would you call a man dear?
FLYING SPAGHETTI MONSTER MONSTER not for everything
FLYING SPAGHETTI MONSTER MONSTER yeah right
HitJin Ent we are not allowed to speak out when men are objectifying us? “boy paleezzeee”
I hate being a girl, my single one wish is to be a boy, but I can't. No one will ever accept me. My friends don't accept me nor anyone else, everyone always says"you can't have that it's not a girl item" even my parents I hate it. I hate skirts and my parents say "wear more skirts you're a girl not a boy. As I said I wish I were a boy, but not transgender. I wanted to be born a boy. If I am trans then I would loose all my friends family etc... :(
I want the same but the opposite I wish to be a girl, I'm sick of being made fun of because I'm girly, maybe in the next life we can get what we want 😔✋
If you are a woman with a nice body and face, you have nothing to worry about, you will find a rich guy from a rich family and never have to experience rejection or pain or worry.
It's that simple. Wish I was a beautiful girl instead of a guy hahahaha
Wrong.
Quite the opposite actually. Those "rich" Guys would just try to use her beauty and body for a quick good fu*k and then abandon her
And not everyone beautiful won't enjoy being bought some people have self-respect
Nice body and face higher chance of getting sexually assaulted yipee 🙄
Too be honest she could be a good rapper and thank you. We need more people like u
Ikr
No
She probably could.
No one needs more feminists in the world, thanks
Bruh no
I am a boy, not a girl, but from this video, I am reminded to be proud to be the same species as people like her.
She doesn’t acknowledge the many issues men face. Today men are now becoming lesser people because of our “sexist” ideas on social construct. Also I’m happy to be the same species as Trump.
Otto Van Bismarck This video isn’t for men. That last sentence explains you though.
Otto Van Bismarck psshhhhhhh no ones forcing the worst “sexist onto you” but I get why your called it if you vote for someone like trump. It’s not cause your a male, so don’t act discriminated against, it’s because you used your privilege to bring people down in society. You shouldn’t only be called sexist if you voted for trump, it makes you racist, homophobic, transphobic, because guess what? Your supporting someone who is those things, because your that too.
#67 coolray that's the sweetest comment I've ever read ❤
Ava Untiedt 🖐🖐🖐🖐😍😍😍😍
1:17 that’s was fire
Me as a boy I wish the world was diffrent and normal because women have gave birth to us and there are so many men using a woman/young girl to use for an object I hope in the future women get the right to speak out more to get fairness an not just to be used as a object
Thank you so much
As PEWDEPIE said
"Respect Whamen"
Womens* -.-
@@lov33letters do u not watch pewdiepie you uncultured swine!
@@lov33letters 1. It's a meme
2. women* and not WOMENS
Kristiana Donut women*
@@lov33letters women*** and r/woooosh
can we make her the new president?
Surayudh Yim of course!!
Surayudh Yim - Dude’s not wrong, tho.
Brynner superpower? So you are telling me that men are the superpower of the world? Wow. And plus WHO SAID ALL MEN WERE LIKE THAT?!? I bet if she was president she wouldn’t even kill ONE man. So stop overreacting.
Aneesa Kamara - He was obviously referring to the U.S. as the ‘superpower’.
I mean tbh anyone can be president these days, she'd be a heck of a lot better than Trump
"Men aren't wallets"
-my dad
No one cares make a own video.
@@i574k-yk7ht No, also a man wants to be seen more than being a wallet. many men share that experience. we should care. man and woman should both care about the other's opinion, don't you think?
@@eigentlichtoll02ich kann nicht meinen vorherigen Kommentar lesen lmao... worum geht's
@@i574k-yk7ht huch, stimmt. der wurde gelöscht :o
du hattest geschrieben "No one cares make a own video." Ich denke, Ich verstehe teilweise, wie du das gemeint hast, aber wollte nur sagen, dass Männer umgekehrt auch Enttäuschungen mit Frauen erleben.
@@eigentlichtoll02 ja sowas hab ich ja nicht verleugnet.. wie gesagt hier geht es um Frauen explizit und nicht Männer.
"Ma'am I'm just here to change your car parts"
Do you really think you're being funny?
Lmaooo good one brother
@@pebblesong5079 yes he is being sarcastically funny
@@PranavTheGreat1 This is not the right video to write sarcastic comments about. Go do it elsewhere
@@pebblesong5079 Ok boomer
its sad that teens and girls that are even younger already know this and deal with this
Exactly, like why can't guys just accept the fact that they have it easy. Just enjoy the pain free you have!!
@@josephphotiboi4681 Yes!
Joseph Photiboi Simp
Christian Trent Bro you need a Bible cause you’re preaching facts rn
@@linkfromzelda1002 sImP
“You were born to be real, not perfect”
~Min Yoongi(BTS member)
Army xd
♥️
Yahhhhhhhhhh ARMYYYY!!! 💜💜
Yooongi is life. I swear he is a genius. Army
Bts can understand us. I hope that every boy have behavior like them
Me: oh you dropped your wallet.
Her:
xd
yooooo
**boss music starts**
Would you shut up please. Your not funny 😘
Do all of the girls a favor and shut up😩😩
0:58 when you ask the feminist in your class for a pencil
People say “ protect your daughters “ I think they should educate their sons I swear I hate this life I’m girl and Arab which makes it so hard and when I complain they say your a girl shut up and go clean
exactly it's really disgusting that girls are treated like pets in Arab countries while boys are more valued people are brushing this off as a sign of "love and respect" to force girls to wear Hijab after Puberty and hide their sexuality while boys are never taught to keep it in their pants
من وين حضرتك؟ انا من مصر و أتفق اوي
Hi, welcome to JinHub. انا من فلسطين
im sorry u gotta go threw that
Wow that sounds really annoying ☹️
I'm a guy and my heart just breaks to think that selfish, closed-minded individuals seem to believe women have nothing more to offer than just staying in the kitchen and having children. Before you give me some ignorant reply, let me just remind you that women are humans too💔
Abdulrahman Ahmed yeahhhh but women are just oooofff kinda crazy and hey I'm a woman I know
Abdulrahman Ahmed Respect to you my friend
Chubchilla Finally someone said it
Abdulrahman Ahmed watch the red pil
Your opinion will change believe me
@@boboloon i hate you
1:20 comparing to the standards of the average girl for a man even if men actually had all those standards they still be a very small list
Wow motivating here in 2022
I really really really really reaaaalllyyy want to show this to a classroom full of the boys at my school.
Bet you're gonna be hated by every dude in that school, and the girls will start gossiping about you real fast. Don't do it, for your own good
Adventure Music I would never do this, I just want to. I’m basically invisible so it doesn’t really matter ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. But thank you for your concern :)
for sure
If it's full of 12 yo nonces then sure
Otherwise no
bangtan Well at least if you do, you will no longer be invisible. Nope. You’d be hated by the school, called lesbian, be the joke of the school, and just all around hated. Trust me I went to an all boys school and a male feminist showed this to a class and he was miserable the rest of the year.
i was sexually assulted a few times by 2 of the same guys and this video speaks for me and for many girls out there. i am definetly sharing this.
edit- it has only been 5 days since i wrote this comment and it has 300 likes already. I just wanted to thank you guys for understanding what i have been through. It makes me happy to see that it is not just a few people i know that support me but many people on the internet too. Thank you xx
edit 2- only 2 weeks and already 1k likes, i didnt want likes i just wanted to open peoples eyes that everyone has a story, but for all the people that took the time to read and like means the world to me as it shows people care and understamds what does happen around the world, thank you xoxo
Another edit: Only 1 month since I posted this and I spoke up about both guys, I feel alot better that it is off of my chest and that I have people that support me through this. If anyone reading this has been through a bad experience and its one that is normally reported, speak up about it. Dont be scared when you are ready and start speaking its gets better. Although the pain and what happen cant change you can help it. There is always someone there that is willing to help or at least listen to you, sometimes its someone you didnt think would help. Thank you to everyone who is doing their best to stay strong and to the people helping others stay strong xx
Take it to the police
hun i am so sorry you had to go through that ❤ i wish i could send you more than a virtual hug ❤ you are strong hun, prove the world wrong
@@julianegrete7274 today i was brave enough and told the only teacher i like in my school and so i need to be taken out of some classes tomorrow about it
@@toallthebreadsivelostbefor2734 thank you so much, and i am trying to be as strong as i can and i liked your hug ❤😂👍
Stay strong! Xx
pov : you open a door for a girl in 2021
a girl can also open a door for guys and any other people as well, or so I think...
Pov your a women who does onlyfans
@@Rip_Bobby no not me
@@Rip_Bobby you missed the joke idiot
😂 ikr like bruh
You’re
@@blacktea2817 exactly 😂
"To me, power is making things happen without asking for permission." - Beyoncé
Edit: OH MY GOD I CAME BACK 6 MONTHS LATER AND I READ MY COMMENT I AM SUCH AN IDIOT I AM SO SORRY
Wut? Explain. That sounds misleading.
p p how?
Imagine a guy using this advice on a girl he wants to have sex with
No it’s not- consent is very important
@@fluidsings7870 I'm very aware of consent being important, but this advice can be misleading and harmful.
Obviously who ever disliked this video was holding their device upside down
Were broken Aliens Agreed!! And, however, I think that those were the kinds of man, that thinks that we are an object..
Or had a rational mind and saw that the entire video is composed of feeling s with very little statistics.
Bryant Nelson Yup, this can be true too
This is my favorite comment
LOL It's not like men go to war and get killed while these ungrateful pricks is making the video