6 PSYCHOLOGICAL SIGNS SHE'S NOT SERIOUS ABOUT YOU

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Před 21 dnem +1

    For a private consultation with me, sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

  • @jamtime69
    @jamtime69 Před měsícem +47

    They're only about money and whatever they can get from you! They'll tell you anything you want to hear, but their actions never lines up with what they say! Venemous lies!

  • @georgekhaoletsa2004
    @georgekhaoletsa2004 Před měsícem +98

    Took me two years but finally walked away and healing and being goal oriented

  • @emeliaannan8057
    @emeliaannan8057 Před měsícem +70

    Lets protect this sister❤

  • @folarinadeniyi
    @folarinadeniyi Před měsícem +32

    Lack of curiosity is the ultimate test of interest. No curiosity, no more discussion.

  • @maxwelldennis5661
    @maxwelldennis5661 Před 18 dny +8

    1. Lack of Dopamine Bust
    2. Ambivalence
    3. Commitment Phobia
    4. Surface Level Conversations
    5. No Intro to Friends and Family
    6. Lack of Curiosity about You

  • @joey11_
    @joey11_ Před měsícem +43

    I will never trust a woman again no matter what she said , no matter how innocent or good she is , anytime she could leave , and I'll be prepared....I lost women I thought would never leave me...promises which seems sooo deep yet breaks in seconds...I lose my hope in dating now, I'll never ever gona trust that a girl will marry me...ever again...its just my turn

    • @idenjames7717
      @idenjames7717 Před měsícem +9

      Exactly! I wish I could start a channel and teach men that love is not real. The romantic love you saw in movies growing up, is fantasy. You have the right mindset! You got it bro hit that gym and just have fun with these women until it’s not fun anymore!😅

    • @flameelorm
      @flameelorm Před měsícem +4

      Love for a man is hard

    • @MELANINO.T
      @MELANINO.T Před měsícem

      ​@@idenjames7717 for real?

    • @masharion
      @masharion Před 27 dny +3

      Yea realized they all lie and all have multiple dudes and I’m only 18 knowin dis and feelin dis way

  • @truthandrighteousness
    @truthandrighteousness Před 27 dny +12

    It really hurts especially when you crazily love her!!

  • @hsamzsd
    @hsamzsd Před měsícem +15

    "constant business" is the biggest red flag when it comes to lack of interest/attraction. If you ask her out twice and shes busy and she doesn't try to reschedule, just move on bro. You don't even have to say anything, just leave her in the dust.

  • @YalaMan01
    @YalaMan01 Před měsícem +25

    You dressed like a church sister today ❤️😂 Thank you so much, OS!

    • @gregoden8306
      @gregoden8306 Před měsícem

      @@YalaMan01 I no understand OS😂

  • @Akinyomip
    @Akinyomip Před měsícem +30

    Just broke up with someone that display all of these on the list.
    Broke up with her yesterday

    • @joelobuobiasare8334
      @joelobuobiasare8334 Před měsícem +2

      that's bold man 💯🫱🏻‍🫲🏾

    • @djolexmusicc
      @djolexmusicc Před měsícem +6

      congrats man!! she was using you! that evil mantises know exactly what they're doing!

  • @thabzizi
    @thabzizi Před měsícem +11

    Thank you Jess. These days the games are very crazy😢. It's hard to tell if she's flowing with you or not

    • @yousifteedonmoye619
      @yousifteedonmoye619 Před měsícem +2

      No matter the game bro, based on what Jessica OS said. Here if she doesn't show effort. She's not the one fam.

    • @thabzizi
      @thabzizi Před měsícem

      @@yousifteedonmoye619 thanks g🔥🔥

    • @KD-lj2pj
      @KD-lj2pj Před 20 dny

      ​@@yousifteedonmoye619 Well aka Satan can slso throw women your way...😂😂...
      I'm the type of Man that really doesn't counterracts that much...with women I keep it short sweet and snap as far as a conversation never been talkative 😂

  • @cathebertosikei5619
    @cathebertosikei5619 Před měsícem +10

    It's cool how you blend psychological principles to explain this topic, kudos

  • @mr_smart.24
    @mr_smart.24 Před měsícem +9

    Watching from Cameroon 🇨🇲 🎉❤

  • @Meslane.
    @Meslane. Před měsícem +7

    I've been through this, and I'm still caught in that rabbit hole. Your insights have truly opened my eyes, and now I know what steps I need to take. Thank you.

  • @garfieldlewis1808
    @garfieldlewis1808 Před měsícem +13

    Watching from Jamaica🇯🇲🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @roundball6592
      @roundball6592 Před měsícem

      Big up yuh self!!! 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @chuk4292
    @chuk4292 Před měsícem +11

    how i wish i saw this video in march, now i have made the biggest blunder a man can do; spending money to assist a woman who does not even consider you at all and always has excuses about going out with you and finally she said bye bye because i confronted her about her non challant attitude. i feel very empty now

    • @TheophilusDally
      @TheophilusDally Před měsícem +2

      i can relate .... its not easy

    • @ubakpan1843
      @ubakpan1843 Před měsícem +2

      Haha bro you needed to go through that before you'll value this video. Am glad I just watched and am on a journey... Am blessed

    • @chuk4292
      @chuk4292 Před měsícem

      @@ubakpan1843 she turns hot today and next week cold. i could not even say which direction we were headed after 3 months. until i had enough.

    • @innocentmmeto
      @innocentmmeto Před 21 dnem

      @@chuk4292 gym, simplify life, live life, we live we learn, the next one will be better 😎

    • @noahbeck900
      @noahbeck900 Před 6 dny

      another lesson along the way, stay to the light brother ❤

  • @rayke8899
    @rayke8899 Před měsícem +7

    Thank you ,this video made me realising alot of things about my relationship.

  • @alabaaigbonoga9441
    @alabaaigbonoga9441 Před 28 dny +4

    Her exact words :It's rare for me to like a person not to talk of loving that person.
    If I ever say that i love a person, i am learning to love that person.
    It's interesting.
    Jess, can you believe years of being with someone, and they say that in a conversation, it leaves you guessing why they are inconsistent

  • @akinolamatthew6679
    @akinolamatthew6679 Před měsícem +6

    I like your head tie @sister Jessica of God😆, it really fits you and thank you ALWAYS for being concerned about us and our affairs especially on relationship.
    You're the best, much❤💞💓💕 from me to you and God will continue to bless you ma'am 🙏.

  • @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419
    @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 Před měsícem +6

    I am learning from Jack- my Jess ~you bringing balance to these women dramas and how to outsmart them for sure ❤🎉

  • @jettahickens7924
    @jettahickens7924 Před 22 dny +1

    Thanks Jess I appreciate those great tips. I've had too slowly let go and rebuild myself back to where I first started

  • @007-bourne
    @007-bourne Před měsícem +4

    Time well invested in this video. Thank you Jess.

  • @Gagas_Ent
    @Gagas_Ent Před měsícem +11

    Took me four years but eventually had to take a walk.

  • @pratik6342
    @pratik6342 Před 13 dny

    You really provide authentic and accurate information. To the point always.

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 Před měsícem +3

    God Bless You Jess!!!
    I already predicted the last point before even watching and voila! it was among
    I kept waiting to see IF you would mention it, glad you did
    This particular topic just blessed my heart & spoke to me
    Thank you!

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Před měsícem +3

    Hi Jessie, sorry for delay I went out for the day on Saturday but yes this is so 💯relevant to some ladies in my life, the 'busy' one is a firm favourite yet when I back off and don't contact them,all of a sudden they're interested🤔 it's as though they 'get off' on blokes pursuing them and seek validation or something to reassure themselves they are still fanciable and attractive but sadly it takes a long while for me to realise I'm pissing in the wind, (sorry to use uncouth language) but it's apt,thanks for this and reminding us guys of stuff,btw you look marvellous in the headband/scarf in your hair x

  • @Herv66
    @Herv66 Před měsícem +3

    Thanks for your great information! It's very much appreciated! 🤩👍💯

  • @mikesenesie8430
    @mikesenesie8430 Před měsícem +2

    I'm always eager to watch her videos.. very educative and i also get to learn new word, like today: ambivalence..

  • @DaSageBlaze
    @DaSageBlaze Před měsícem +5

    Pure facts 💯

  • @KDrip7812
    @KDrip7812 Před měsícem +6

    Yeah, my wife is doing this type of maneuvering. Just, can't get her to move towards divorce but gets highly upset on talking divorce...but she does absolutely nothing here @home...and I mean nothing from cleaning to cooking. Comes & goes as she please...I think she has a mental health issue...?? She won't leave...I run a business here...she wants to be married with no involvement.?? I have given up on literally trying to understand or figure her out...I just have to big of an investment here to break camp.

    • @samperkins9885
      @samperkins9885 Před 14 dny

      I hear you man. Too much of an investment here to break camp, love the analogy. This my partner of 6-7 years. Gave up tryna figure it out. I did move into my own place and ring her twice a week now. She answers we talk for a while but she never includes me and now it's vice versa

  • @rkiz
    @rkiz Před měsícem +2

    you're always on point like a decimal 🔗♥️

  • @lungeloskhumbuzo3468
    @lungeloskhumbuzo3468 Před měsícem +1

    Sounds like the girl I just left I feel so free guys it's crazy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thanks so much Jessica

  • @creatives_y_kthefilmmaker5425
    @creatives_y_kthefilmmaker5425 Před měsícem +3

    In my former relationship l was experiencing that and l left because l felt under valued

  • @femipopoola8955
    @femipopoola8955 Před 25 dny

    Jessy, you speak so well & this makes you expressly & effortlessly pass your message.
    #Don'tChase

  • @apehekiemieze4141
    @apehekiemieze4141 Před měsícem +2

    Jess ,my personal opinion is that these signs are applicable to both males and females...

  • @neilrhyanllumpera8712

    1. Lack of Dopamine Bust
    - Means motivatees to seek out the person that they're attracted to.
    - Make effort to find you
    2. Ambivelence
    - consestent cancle plans
    3. Commitment Phobia

  • @ronnietil7086
    @ronnietil7086 Před 4 dny

    She is awesome..

  • @TheAyanrinde
    @TheAyanrinde Před měsícem +1

    I have being experiencing all this Six signs lately..which wasn't there before.and as for me.i told myself it's done and am out.

  • @oluwatuyikayode1986
    @oluwatuyikayode1986 Před měsícem +1

    same thing am having with this lady have been with for the past few months, no sign of interest and when i bring up the topic she will say am insecure, i just deleted her number today before listening to your podcast, and i was laughing all thru listening to it because this are all the sign that is exhibited in the relationship. thanks once again jess i just doge a bullet 😇🥰😛😂😂

  • @afolabiakamoh2152
    @afolabiakamoh2152 Před měsícem +1

    EXCELLENT PRESENTATION AND FACTLY

  • @josephdordzi7247
    @josephdordzi7247 Před měsícem +5

    Great content Jessie. I love this ❤

  • @xxxyyy-iy4hf
    @xxxyyy-iy4hf Před měsícem +1

    Thanks Auntie Jess, Blessings.

  • @Sauski_sasa
    @Sauski_sasa Před měsícem +1

    Thanks Jessica

  • @Under510
    @Under510 Před 20 dny

    This is spot on! Thanks for sharing💯

  • @creatives_y_kthefilmmaker5425
    @creatives_y_kthefilmmaker5425 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you so much for your content

  • @stochasticxalid9853
    @stochasticxalid9853 Před 29 dny

    Thank you Jessica Os. From your favorite color to...

  • @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419
    @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 Před měsícem +6

    No kid pool anymore

  • @martinyeboah5526
    @martinyeboah5526 Před měsícem

    Points 5 and 6 are very relatable, Jessica

  • @CliffordSamuelsJr
    @CliffordSamuelsJr Před 16 dny

    Thanks!

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Před měsícem +1

    Great content 👌

  • @thinkforward8752
    @thinkforward8752 Před 20 dny

    This is why it's a good idea to *date more than one person* at a time. Three is a good number for me. At least one of the three is bound to be more present. Three keeps the dating program moving efficiently👍 Additionally, and more importantly...
    It's also a super solid idea to have some things going for yourself, as well as to maintain a fit, well-kept appearance. This will help to boost your self-image. The very idea that you should have to chase someone should be completely beneath you‼️💯

  • @markoseigyimah1532
    @markoseigyimah1532 Před měsícem +1

    You're the best Jessie 🌹💖

  • @Eblade19990
    @Eblade19990 Před měsícem

    Facts. Thanks for this video and reminder.

  • @davesskillet9235
    @davesskillet9235 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks for sharing 💯

  • @twaambochuuya6010
    @twaambochuuya6010 Před měsícem +2

    Wow 👌 I hear you

  • @collinsnoel6153
    @collinsnoel6153 Před měsícem

    Following From Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @merrickcampbell4303

    Iam fallen for this toomuch times women wants my things but not me so they use whatever means to get it

  • @GoldfarmUg
    @GoldfarmUg Před měsícem +1

    Perfect 👌. Cheers

  • @Kid_blax
    @Kid_blax Před měsícem

    Very helping Jesse

  • @ClemDozzy212
    @ClemDozzy212 Před měsícem

    Love from Naija 🇳🇬

  • @chikezieuzor9624
    @chikezieuzor9624 Před měsícem

    Wonderful content. What would you say about someone who feels irritated whenever you ask her about how her day went or who's oftentimes using monosyllabic answers when chatting with you.

  • @dilpenny
    @dilpenny Před měsícem

    Awesome.. very and factually true

  • @nixonmacelus4448
    @nixonmacelus4448 Před měsícem

    Good tip
    I am going to try it

  • @NtezaJohnPaul
    @NtezaJohnPaul Před měsícem

    Thanks coach nice advice

  • @pandalife1313
    @pandalife1313 Před měsícem +4

    I personal;ly experienced Sign number 1 and 2 with a girl I was dating some 4 months ago, after having dated her for 2 years.
    Eventually I had to cut the ties/conversation and any relatioonship with her. Because she didnt tell me that her love for me had vanished, but action do speak alot . Because at the end of the day she just stayed only because of my frequent gifts and some money that I gave her once in a while.
    But right now all my concentration is in just building my online business and my health. And if love crosses my way, then maybe I will go in that direction if it's going to be a 2 way traffic.
    Anyway Great Video Jessica

  • @RodneyDailey-df7sj
    @RodneyDailey-df7sj Před měsícem

    Thank you 😊

  • @kusimoomotayo7217
    @kusimoomotayo7217 Před měsícem +2

    How do I handle this situation, constantly being ignored, especially on socials and even when she's active she still ignores

    • @yousifteedonmoye619
      @yousifteedonmoye619 Před měsícem +10

      Ignore her back.
      There are many fishes in the ocean so why stick to one.

    • @derwoodhamburger
      @derwoodhamburger Před měsícem

      @@kusimoomotayo7217 unfollow her bro

    • @ifeanyinwosu26
      @ifeanyinwosu26 Před měsícem

      She not interested bro, just move on to someone who is interested.

  • @ziggyartworks
    @ziggyartworks Před měsícem +2

    If is not Jessica am not listening to anybody else 😂

  • @Shado965
    @Shado965 Před měsícem

    Also love is like a drug. If you take it too much you will get used to it

  • @pd4119
    @pd4119 Před 15 dny +1

    Very good stuff.. but honestly "sitting with a woman and telling her how important emotional connection is to you" is hogwash

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Před 25 dny

    Sister Jessica😂
    Happy Sunday

  • @byarugababruno3750
    @byarugababruno3750 Před měsícem +1

    Jessica please can We av xpliment together?!!!?all flights tickets possible

  • @akpokpoodibabari9141
    @akpokpoodibabari9141 Před měsícem +1

    Nice

  • @rickmarule
    @rickmarule Před měsícem

    Xcellent Somtin💯

  • @gracia130
    @gracia130 Před 23 dny

    These signs are likewise to men

  • @Greywolf-Fx
    @Greywolf-Fx Před měsícem

    Exactly what am getting from her 😮😮

  • @siamahkasujja1791
    @siamahkasujja1791 Před 25 dny

    Been missing you.

  • @AdelinoBarbosa-wd7qm
    @AdelinoBarbosa-wd7qm Před měsícem

    Had such experience with a gal,but I overcame these probes due to some tips from books I've read.

  • @user-te1gh5xo7x
    @user-te1gh5xo7x Před měsícem +1

    We really need more people like you in this world😌❤️‍🩹

  • @Dennismusiclover
    @Dennismusiclover Před 16 dny

    The woman dated for almost 2 years fits all 6 signs! How could I be so blind!

  • @HRL.
    @HRL. Před měsícem

    Quick question, please.
    Would you recommend or suggest a long-distance relationship to anyone?
    I asked this on the back of what my cousin got going on.
    From observation, he is the one doing most of the reach out and communicating.
    If he doesn't, nothing comes from her end until he does, and then the excuses flows.

  • @ayo.tunjii283
    @ayo.tunjii283 Před měsícem

    Professor Jessy 🫡

  • @samsonmuhali8423
    @samsonmuhali8423 Před měsícem

    So what if a lady talks to you over how certain real women should behave whilst you don’t date,meaning you still friends what’s the signal she’s sending

  • @maameamapoku2265
    @maameamapoku2265 Před měsícem

    How about the man who's displaying these signs

  • @tonykent8005
    @tonykent8005 Před měsícem

    Oh God!

  • @abdulshakurnuhu
    @abdulshakurnuhu Před 19 dny

    Hello Jessica, really love your videos, you’re so inspiring and and fun to listen to.

  • @Khalifet
    @Khalifet Před měsícem

    What does it mean for your girlfriend not accepting gift from you

  • @djolexmusicc
    @djolexmusicc Před měsícem +1

    if you settle less anything than her bare minimum ,does that mean that you are giving advice to stay forever alone? Because ,99.99% percent of females will not be in any way curios about you, walk past by you like cemetery and so on. She is literally giving everything to not find out she likes you. What exactly specie are they?

  • @MphoLeeuw-vi8ph
    @MphoLeeuw-vi8ph Před měsícem

    None of the girls I date never wanna know anything about me though😟

  • @troygardner8870
    @troygardner8870 Před měsícem

    Cant tell you the amount of girls parents ive met that ended up ghosting me lol

  • @samperkins9885
    @samperkins9885 Před 14 dny

    This is my girlfriend of 6 years to a T...

  • @doveythegold
    @doveythegold Před měsícem

    Am learning something great here but i got one question for you,
    are you psychic?

  • @KaBoNegro-dy6te
    @KaBoNegro-dy6te Před měsícem

  • @Solarsky09
    @Solarsky09 Před měsícem

    👍

  • @abubakarrtholley7063
    @abubakarrtholley7063 Před měsícem

    💕💕

  • @iamdeathiamentropyiamdarks3517

    This is all nice and all but how do I get this extremely hot religious girl who is in a relationship to love me😂😂.
    She's smart, educated, modest, tall and soft spoken. It was difficult but i managed to get her number and we became a bit close and then i told her my feelings which she told me she's in a relationship.

  • @peoplesambassadordm8279
    @peoplesambassadordm8279 Před měsícem

    Jessica thanks for the advice... but u a bit late with that.... so send me a few good options since one take plenty i have ...lol.. a like biker chics doctor chics lawyer chics beauty chics athletic chics vanilla icecream chics... lol lol ... everybody want my options so i gotta not have just one.... and they gotta express interest cuz to be honest only one girl seems to be poritively interested.... from what it looks like....but compounded and double compounded confirmation is alwats good... life without signs...who wants that these days?

  • @RamoneJ.Campbell
    @RamoneJ.Campbell Před měsícem

    Are you a psychologist? ❤

  • @lorderectus1849
    @lorderectus1849 Před 16 dny

    Don’t waste your time on any female!!