When/Why/How to Leave a Guy in Dating and Relationships

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  • čas přidán 9. 05. 2024
  • When/Why/How to Leave a Guy in Dating and Relationships #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdatingproblems #bbwdating

Komentáře • 35

  • @user-xv8uu9vm7v
    @user-xv8uu9vm7v Před 12 dny +68

    “If you’ve made a pros and cons list, that’s a con” 😅😂 so true.

  • @coilyqueen312
    @coilyqueen312 Před 12 dny +24

    My motto is quit early and quit often so I'm with you Anwar. I just did this after dating a guy for almost 3 months were he was very enthusiastic and consistent the first half and then very unreliable the second half. Two months after I blocked him he mailed me a letter and then last week (4 months after I blocked him) he left me a voicemail asking me to tell him why I don't want to see him anymore. He should have KTSE when he had my undivided attention. I don't exert energy telling grown men why I don't want to see them anymore, I can only be as serious and considerate as they've been.

  • @imaanhanif8863
    @imaanhanif8863 Před 12 dny +14

    If you're not engaged or married after two years? Two years down the drain.

  • @Yourchildisyourguide
    @Yourchildisyourguide Před 12 dny +25

    This is the only video so many of us needed collectively for real. This covers it. For realllll

  • @Immortal_Empress
    @Immortal_Empress Před 10 dny +4

    “if you’re a ride or die YOU’RE GONNA DIE!” 😂😂😂 I could never be a ride or die, I ask too many questions…where we riding to? And why I gotta die?! 😩

  • @CambieSweets
    @CambieSweets Před 12 dny +14

    Some guys do not react very differently and oddly, they can become violent and will cause you harm. Sadly, this is the reason why many women ghost men. They can respond violently.

    • @missx6230
      @missx6230 Před 11 dny

      That’s exactly what he meant when he said differently and oddly.

  • @nikkihamilton-moore2705
    @nikkihamilton-moore2705 Před 12 dny +14

    This is the BEST BOUNDARY advice/help/step by step knowledge I ever received!!!! Thank you

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 Před 12 dny +14

    I'm out! 🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @ka8155
    @ka8155 Před 12 dny +11

    This video right here is everything! I just started dating a guy that i realized im not attracted to. However, he treats me so well, and i was second-guessing myself if i should walk away. However, this video gave me the courage to WALK.

  • @hobag11
    @hobag11 Před 9 dny +3

    Thank. You!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 You listed all the things I felt in my last relationship and I felt them in the first few months but stayed for 2 years. NOT AGAIN GIRL! ❤❤❤❤

  • @Tam974eva
    @Tam974eva Před 10 dny +3

    It was tough but I had to let him go as soon as I started dating him. The red flag for me was silent treatment and not resolving conflict with communication as a grown adult is expected to. It was the making assumptions and allowing misunderstandings to pile up for me. These decisions are hard bc u recognize someone's trauma is preventing them from loving u fully, but that's never an excuse for poor behavior. Get help.

  • @jetradaniels9528
    @jetradaniels9528 Před 12 dny +9

    This is gold.

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun Před 12 dny +3

    I think this is your most helpful video yet! I was actually just wondering something along these lines and you popped up in my feed. I take it as a sign from God to stop caring.

  • @tanyasharadamba1264
    @tanyasharadamba1264 Před 12 dny +5

    You are amazing & love your shirt❤ bless you! Free Palestine 🍉

  • @diior444
    @diior444 Před 4 dny

    3 years, i’m 20, he’s 21. i kind of want engagement in the next year because this is a lot of my youth wasted if he doesn’t hurry up.

  • @thespot2035
    @thespot2035 Před 11 dny +2

    Him not asking you out after a WEEK is a red flag? WTF happened to let yourself get to know him first THEN decide on if you want to move into a relationship?😂

    • @J.Divine13
      @J.Divine13 Před 11 dny +7

      He meant not asking you out on a date. If a man is texting,
      chatting, and calling…but not asking you on a date…it’s a red flag.

  • @lauraluna6002
    @lauraluna6002 Před 12 dny +3

    I needed to hear this thank u🙏

  • @shz05
    @shz05 Před 11 dny +2

    Love the hoodie ❤

  • @lorrainecortes7296
    @lorrainecortes7296 Před 12 dny +1

    That is important information, thanks!

  • @melissabarrett3088
    @melissabarrett3088 Před 12 dny +1

    ❤❤

  • @adventuregirlinawonderworl3551

    I have done great quick to fire slow to hire

  • @BGZ2022
    @BGZ2022 Před 12 dny

    I’m gonna die for sure 😭😖💔

  • @DeematheFashionDesigner
    @DeematheFashionDesigner Před 10 dny +2

    FREE PALESTINE! Thank you! for the advice 💗🇵🇸

  • @IVvOOvVI
    @IVvOOvVI Před 11 dny

    What if he’s always five minutes late for a date?

    • @lcdesigns6145
      @lcdesigns6145 Před 11 dny +2

      OOH = out of here if being on time is important to you. You could suggest a time where you bake that 5 minutes in, but whew, sounds like work.😊