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I’m so happy other people commented about Ziad-he was meeting with a teenager at almost 40… nope. Not looking for love. He was a creep too
I agree
THANK YOU for adding in the “just because you have BPD doesn’t mean you’re going to become a criminal or a killer.”❤Those of us with BPD already have such a bad rep just for having the illness.
I have BPD too and been through a lot of trauma. From my own experience, most people don't know what BPD is.
Agreed two of my ex partners had bpd…..one took ownership and the other didn’t but neither of them would become a serial killer….regardless of intrusive thoughts 😂 Hoping perception changes….look after yourself! 🧡
I was given a diagnosis of "inconcluesive" BPD it was during the pandemic and was basically told "you're still able to cope and you have said how you mask you're symptoms so... come back when you're in a crisis!"
You have really low standards: I think the looks on any mental illness by the general public is just horrific. And illnesses should not be defended.Bpd is hated bcoz it is not to be treated with meds, not enough profit on it, so it's demonized.
My boyfriend has BPD and he is honestly an amazing person and he would never ever hurt anyone.
Okay, I know murder isn't funny, but it's kind of hilarious that this girl wants to be 'the world's most prolific serial killer' and she does all of this intense research about famous serial killers and how they 'got away with it', yet she leaves the most obvious trail leading back to her ?? I can't get over the voicemail to her friend lmaooo "I'm going to go commit murder now, wish me luck! :)" like ?? Why would you incriminate yourself like that ?? Might as well have left a card with her contact details at every crime scene.
Noterity comes to mind 🤔🤔🤔
Right and she did them back to back. And used real photos on the dating app. Like this is a trend for likes on Instagram
She wasn't the sharpest tool in the box 😅
It is funny because for the most part she studied serial killers who were caught - did not get away with it.
Wow. I was diagnosed with bpd when I was 18 and now I'm 30 and no longer meet the criteria. I spent a lot of time in undergrad being outraged by the media representation of bpd and I still get so mad. You mentioned bpd and I immediately felt anxious but your message afterwards was so incredibly appreciated. Thank you, so much, for learning even the littlest bit about bpd and sharing it with your followers.
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. Thank you for opening up about your BPD and congratulations you no longer meet the criteria. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
This case is horrific, but it really speaks to the differences between the safety men feel about meeting up with random people online and the fear women live with to do the same. 😅 like men really aren't worried are they ??
I was just thinking exactly the same
Because it happens so once in a blue moon for men. Women worry about this type of violence (or at the very least rape) on a daily basis.
@@blondie9422 men worry about lonelness all the time and women dont, men have their issues too
@@sandralavegana9773Yeah course, we all have our different issues. I’m just saying that typically men don’t worry about women killing or raping them ever
@@blondie9422 this video proves that women are ok with victim blaming only if the victim is male
Im sorry but he was 38 just looking for love and he chose a 19 year old girl claiming to be a dominatrix to chat with??
Yaaa that’s what I was thinking… seems unlikely …
I think you’re taking away the wrong thing from this video
@@t4tvampireismsI think you’re excusing predatory behavior simply because he was killed
@@Nizhonibearcreeki agree no way he had pure intentions, it could be he was looking to hook up but still doesn't excuse it
I like Danielle but she's really insulting our intelligence here 😂
I'm a grown up man, probably not your target audience, never put on make up... yet I find your narration incredible, my best youtube find in a moment.
I don't know why she even put the make up ...
I am just listening like a podcast
I enjoy the narration more than the makeup as well. I listen to it while taking care of my 4 kids and our house.
@@kateri35 I've gotten used to it and don't really take any notice. I like how she narrates also. Another fav who does cults as well and historic murders which are both really interesting, is Sommer Sanchez.
@@Lenergyiskey358 thanks for the recommendation.
@@sarahrean7174 it's visually stimulating, and she likes it. if you don't like it, that's fine. you're not the target audience.
That nurse absolutely helped extend his life, at least long enough for his family to come and say their goodbyes. That’s probably the only good thing that’s come out of this.
How is that a man who wants to start a family and is looking for love, answers to a girl who is 20 years younger, loves BDSM, and wants to have some fun???
He clearly wanted something else
THANKYOU! like, not saying these guys deserved to die, but like they aint good people.
my thoughts exactly
Exactly
Wanting to shag a consenting adult isnt a crime tho.
Im for sure NOT blaming the men contacting her and definitely not blaming Zayed. The wording was unfortunate though. Saying that he „was not into hookups and he wanted to settle down” with a 19 year old girl called Dominacherry with a description of her profile about being a virgin into bdsm and inviting him to a remote cabin in the woods is just not it
Blame hook up culture. This is the most agreed upon meet up exchanges for both men and women these days. It just happens to be that one really bad apple decided to use that to her advantage to fuel her murder fantasies.
yeah, definitely not the best choice for a partner you want to settle down with
Yeah, it is strange how she described this guy. We don’t know his intentions for making a dating profile and talking to this horrid woman, specifically. So, to assume he did it to settle down and find love… that’s really unwarranted. it doesn’t add to the story. If anything it does the opposite. What if he was just looking for a hookup? Does that make m u r d e r ing him any less tragic?
However, a lot of true crime CZcamsrs do this. They speak of the victim like they knew them.
@@projectalyce Thats how they treat victims if they were really victims. They treat it this way because thats how they were treated in the case. Are u suggesting that there was a reason to murder him? People hook up everyday. Thats not anything devious. He didnt murder her, she murdered him. That makes him the victim. By default. You people are like vultures. U litterally hunt for a reason to hate someone from what it reads. " oh he could have done this, or that" even though his plan was just a casual hook up. Ur trying to uncover something like he couldnt possibly be innocent and entertaining the idea that she " had reason" to kill him or that no one should miss him if he did something. Just accept the fact that the man is dead, because she killed him. And the only thing he wanted was either A a casual hook up, or a possible partner. Either way the man is still a victim. Stop insinuating theres always a dirty crack somewhere.
I never suggested there was a reason. Where are you getting this from? Like what did I say in my comment that implied that there was a reason?
My comment is stating that there is no point in stressing why he made that account and started talking to this woman. It doesn’t matter if it was to find love or for a hookup. So, WHY ADD THAT? That adds nothing to the story. If anything, it does the opposite because what is this CZcamsr trying to say if she found out he was looking for hookup? Is he still a “true victim” at that point, as the police likes to separate victims, or is there now a reason that justifies, or at the very least explains his m u r d e r?
On top of that, she said it, herself that she couldn’t find any information about him. So, I highly doubt she found the reason why he made that account and why he started talking to this mentally deranged woman. So, again… I ask why add that?
There is no need. He is the victim. Period. No need to explain why he was talking to her.
@@anthonym840
If this girl were not such a complete idiot, there could’ve been so many more victims. Thankful for stupid people sometimes. She essentially screamed to the world her intentions.
"Emotional Disturbance" is used frequently in school/youth psychology when there are emotional disorders that can't be qualified with a more formal diagnosis, usually due to the age of the client. I have seen kids diagnosed with "Emotional Disturbance" for everything from severe depression to antisocial personality disorder. It covers a huge gamut.
Thank you. I’m a teacher and I see this term a lot on Sped/504 students paperwork as their diagnosis but it’s never really explained.
I really appreciate that you took the time to recognize that BPD has stigma and spoke against it. A lot of people blame cluster-B disorders for the reason that people are criminals when they’re not. I have bpd and I’m not a serial killer, it’s hard to live with yes, but I’m not dangerous to anyone.
I have people whom I love and support in my family who have to deal with serious mental health issues, from BPD to Schizophrenia. But they take care of themselves and have support from people who love them. So, I know we can't put everyone in the same box. But this young woman had serious issues and seemed to resist any form of help.. so sad and tragic
Same! I have it and lead a successful life, have a good career, long term friendships, close to my family, and are well regarded my others. Unfortunately, my struggles happen in romantic relationships with anxiety around abandonment. I haaaaate it here and just wish I didn’t have this stupid disorder. 😢
But, honestly, I’m just learning to accept it and to focus on loving myself and feeling secure (ironically, “the cure”). I
It’s not a stigma it’s medical data. Recognizing that fact isn’t stigmatizing, we can use it to figure out how to prevent it.
@@snicole042 Huh? Do you know what stigma means? Stigma is, “defining someone by their illness rather than who they are as an individual”. No one is disputing the symptoms that may come with BPD, and even then, they vary and present differently across many people. There is no “medical data” that people with BPD are killers or criminals. 😐
I don’t think the people who responded to her profile were looking for love. It was full on creepy.
I’m like 18 min in and I keep seeing comments like this and now I’m scared to continue watching 😬😬
Yes, hookup culture is indeed creepy
@ivanrenic4243 It isn't actually for someone experiencing loneliness. They do it to get a quick fix. By the time you're in college or even high school you see girls your age hoojing up with older guys and doing this way before you. Countless of girls are like that, matter of fact almost all of them are like that. But as time goes by they will call men who date girls 5 years their junior "creeps". Meanwhile, the likes of Madonna and the French first lady are never referred to as "creeps"
I disagree. Yes there are many creeps but are you seriously telling me every man just wants to treat women badly???
it’s kinda disgusting you guys are praising her. she didn’t kill him because he was 39 and looking for a relationship with her. she killed him just because she wanted to. are you guys serious
This ones honestly a tough one for me because a 39 year old man going after someone who is 18-19 is 100% predatory. I don't think she killed him to be some sort of vigilante though she definitely killed him because she has an insane obsession with death and murder. No one deserves to die in the way he did but I can honestly say I think they are both bad people
You types always find a way to "both sides are bad" things that involve female perpetrators of violence. "I'm not justifying it but blah blah blah" wouldn't cut it with flipped roles. It doesn't matter what you think of the victim, there's very rarely a reason to bring this up for any reason other than making it clear that men are always at least partly to blame for their own victimhood. Every time we see a story like this, even in stories that are almost entirely black and white, people like you always find something to be critical of.
That’s what I’m saying. They were both predators: he wanted a young woman to manipulate and she wanted to kill.
@@thomasnguyen7104 There is absolutely no comparison to a serial murderer and a guy looking for another adult to hookup with. You also can't possibly know what his motivations were
@@rylanyoung2018LMAO! It's very clear he wasn't looking for Love. The predator got preyed on.
18-19 is of legal consenting age. nothing predatory if they were both consenting adults. which they were. stop victim blaming
Zayed was not “ looking for love” when he agreed to meet a 19 year old girl “ for anything “ . He was being a predator.
He wasn't looking for love, but she was the predator posting online to lure in men to kill. He made a terrible choice and maybe wasn't a great guy, but he's still the victim.
@cassie1264 They were both predators, just different kinds. He didn't deserve to die, but let's not pretend he was a wholesome fellow.
@meowmachine9147 true. He was an adult looking for something from another adult. For those who say 19 is to young or a child, at 19 you can marry. You can join thr military. You can enter a legal contract some places. You can move out. If that age is still a child then none of thst other stuff should b3 allow3d at that age. You ma not agree he wanted fun with a 19 year old. But that doesnt make it wrong. It just means you dont like it
No normal 39 year old is looking for sex with a teenager. That’s just a fact.
@@nataliec5883 I didn't know you get to dictate what's considered normal. No normal person dictates whatever Everyone else can and cannot do , That is a fact
hey, im from germany
you are absolutely right daniel! germany is very strict when it comes to revealing information about criminals. this is not also to protect them but their families and especially their family of their victims
hallo, wie gehts. I think it’s understandable that you don’t want innocent family members and others to have trouble if too much info is shared. People target the wrong people sometimes just because they knew or are related to a bad person.
That’s a long reach, protecting the CRIMINAL protects the victim? No.
@@AKayfabeThat makes zero sense.
@@snicole042 Eh… depends on the case. Even in Germany, a lot of criminals’ names and pictures are released to the public. But the strict privacy laws allow police to get a tighter grip on cases that would otherwise turn into a media spectacle. And in that instance, yes, it does benefit the victims. If the media has no place to start digging for information, there’s less potential for victims and their families to be caught in the crossfire.
@@snicole042german here...not really..people(friends,family,neighbours) are protected from the press because their privacy is important.
I turn into the biggest baby, laying in bed, when I have any type of headache. Props for doing this with a smile and the personality that’s always there. You’re a tough cookie.
I'm sorry, but she told him "do you have a car because there are no buses in my town" and then he proceeded to pick her up FROM A BUS STOP?! You HAVE to be kidding me . . .
I am german and can confirm that "domina" is our word for dominatrix and you're definitely right in saying that she's calling herself a dominatrix and not a lady! she's just SO delulu 🙈
Delulu in a Subaru -CD
Yea lol I wondered if she was German as soon as the word domina was mentioned
Follow german here..delulu is my Favoriten word from now on😊
She looks like the actress from Tiere bis unterm Dach,
Yeah Delulu or dulally as my mom used to say are indeed funny/strange words
@@plantlovingrosedidn’t Danielle say at the beginning that she was born in Switzerland then moved to Germany ?
Danielle im a little confused how you came to the conclusion that Sayed wasnt just looking for a fling and wanted love...when he messaged an 18 year old self proclaimed dominatrix and said he was up for anything 🤔
Totally irrelevant to the story but anyway just caught my attention. Thanks for another great episode
She’s trying to be nice to the victim for not saying he’s a creepy guy. He’s obviously a creep. She definitely is wrong in saying he’s looking for love. He was there to use a younger girl and then he got used instead
Why is it creepy to be upfront that you're just looking for a hook up?
I'm gay so in this community its pretty normal for us lool
Exactly!!!! He’s a creep!!!! @terricox3559
@@dylankennedy6020It’s not normal for us heterosexuals, which is why we’re saying he’s a creep.
@@dylankennedy6020 it's that the girl is 18 and he wants to go do stuff to her in a car after knowing her 2 minutes. He's in his 30s. That's not just about casual sex
I'm sorry but I refuse to believe anyone who messages a girl with a profile like that isn't a creep. Not that there's anything wrong with liking bdsm, but come on now. Saying that in your profile is asking for hookups, and anyone who messages you after that isn't just "a normal guy looking for a serious relationship". Sarah was disturbing for sure, but I can't be too mad at her for trying to rid the world of gross pervs.
There is a LOT wrong with enjoying sexually assaulting people. Wtaf.
@@ems3991bdsm doesn’t mean sexually assaulting people. Bondage, devices, submission, masochism. Always always with consent, open communication, and safe words when practiced in a healthy way
Honestly, guys don't even read most profiles so I'm pretty sure he didn't or didn't notice too much.. Just her pics
same
People Need To Watch How They Talk On The Internet Because Karma Is Real. Your Dad Was Probably A Creep, Your Grandfather Too. Humble Yourself
as someone with a baby sister who has BPD, thank you for defending those who have it. BPD doesn't mean you are bad, evil, or can't be a happy and loving person. My sister has issues, sure, but so do most people. In some ways, I envy the abilities that BPD gave her because I am Autistic and her ability to read people is SUPER helpful for me a lot of the time lmao
Thank you for that again
this comment made me tear up. i have bpd and my older sister demonizes me for it all the time. your sister is lucky to have you.
As someone with bpd and an unsupportive family, your sister is very lucky to have you ❤
As a lifelong METALHEAD, I absolutely understand the scorn, ridicule, and judgmental attitude others direct at us! But she actually WANTED people to hate her!
She makes the rest of us metalheads look bad. She isn’t a real one
@@JocelynBondulousFor sure. Metalheads are the nicest people I know tbh🤣
@@JocelynBondulousAnd I’m also a metalhead lol!
I am a metalhead too
@@macymiller3417i'm also a metalhead and i agree with u lol 😂
Iam a correctional officer in Germany and the main goal for german prisons is rehabilitation. Making life in prison as close as possible to life in freedom without the actual freedom obviously. Means you can shop clothes, electric devices as dvd players, groceries and other legal things.
There’s no comparison to uk or american prions besides those „special“ rooms for really dangerous inmates I guess. I really enjoyed your video 🤍
Germany has a very civilised prison system - we could learn from it in the UK.
can I ask what kind of Ausbildung you did to become a correctional officer and would you recommend this kind of job?
In my country they are called "Rehabilitation centers" but they are not like this, we are trying to achieve that because most people in prison are young and committed minor crimes like theft.
Rehabilitation in American prison is nonexistent. I used to work for the DOJ as a case manager for rehabilitation of offenders getting out of prison. Over 70% would go back to jail because they had not learned trades or other life skills, no education, and no social skills. We tried to teach a life skills class but they get out with no where to go, halfway houses have limits on time you can stay, no help with food stamps or housing. Just a little help on the inside would have helped immeasurably on the outside.
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thank you for the bpd disclaimer. it’s hard hearing about our illness over and over being linked to such horrible things. you’re such a beautiful person with suck grace and kindness when you tell stories. this is why i’m here.
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
She’s so delusional with revealing every detail of her plan. I think she always wanted to get caught. And the way those men were messaging her was revolting too tbh
I really don’t get when i hear “They had posters of serial killers in their bedroom” what were the people they lived with thinking? The parents ? The friends?!
They probably just hoped it was an edgy phase also what CAN you say? People that worship serial killers aren't exactly stable, they were probably scared
@@jennysomething3666 get them help..
Her behavior as you describe it sounds a lot more like antisocial personality disorder. There’s a bias against diagnosing young women with it and psychologists default to BPD for that reason. This very well could be the case for Sara.
Very good point! Also, there’s a known gender bias is typically only diagnosing males with anti social personality disorder. I mean to say we can’t demonize any disorder for someone’s actions because misdiagnoses can happen (and there is also individual choice anyway).
@@annavictrixso true, it's very common for women to be misdiagnosed with BPD
She can also just have both, who knows?
And there's the fact that if she was still a teenager at the time you can't be diagnosed with that because basically all teenagers show signs of having it.
@@arianarachaelI suppose that's true. There can be a lot of overlap in signs and symptoms of personality disorders, so it's hard to say. I've had people in my life with BPD and their feelings towards you are incredibly intense. You're either their best friend or worst enemy, the love of their life or a complete monster. It sounds like Sarah may have had some of those tendencies. Anti-social personality disorder comes with a lack of empathy and conscience, which she definitely exhibited as well.
I don t thing she had a normal childhood, personality disorders are usually caused by childhood trauma
Can we talk about the hypocrisy of her wanting to be a serial killer, but eating a vegetarian diet???
Claiming to be a “Virgin” and a “Dominatrix” in the same sentence is the biggest oxymoron I’ve ever heard 😂 Then her leaving a voicemail for her friend describing EVERY move of her plan literally as she’s walking out the door to go do it is crazy! This one is definitely a few cans short of a 6 pack, for sure… 👀🧐😅💀
Not the brightest bulb lol i love when criminals are stupid
Sandwich short of a picnic….
Curiously enough not really. A great deal of dominatrix never actually have sex with clients so it would be one of the few full sex work positions you could do as a virgin.
Many Dominatrix won’t have actual sex with clients. It’s very common.
crazy as a hatter
Are we skirting past the fact that a 40 something yr old man thought he was going too find "love" with an 18 yr old girl? im not saying he should have been murdered but he wasn't really innocent. we all know what he wanted and it wasn't "love".
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I agree it's weird, but it's still legal, and we're engaging in victim blaming by looking at fault with the victim in any shape or form. Or does that rule only apply if the victim is a woman and the perpetrator a man?
Exactly, barely legal teen, virgin and a Dom?! The thing is so many things can go wrong in BDSM play and letting a young teen without experience could lead to serious injuries even accidental death. Some just want to experience a teen and are willing to go as low as the law allows and disregard the dangers of doing so.
@@MikeTXBCI find the current common use of the term victim blaming to be very dangerous... why can't we point out that certain behaviour can increase the chances of bad bad things happening without saying that's blaming the victim... even when the comment specifically states the victim didn't deserve what happened to them, a so Called "woke" person inevitably has to strongly virtue signal their utter inability to accept that it's totally possible to do dangerous things that, on reflection, are possibly a bad idea and
That Everyone everyone knows is common sense not to do, and make it about someone being offended/oppressed etc rather than it being possible that two things can actually be true at the same time. 😮
@@WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey I completely agree with you. I can understand why people are so against blaming victims (because that is a terrible thing to do) but at the same time acknowledging poor decisions and discussing how to avoid those decisions might stop someone else from experiencing the same thing. That isn't victim blaming. If anything, it's victim prevention.
Thank you telling Zieds story. I hadn't heard of him before, and I hope his family is doing the best they possible can while teying to cope with the loss of their son. I hope they feel a little bit more peace, and healing with everyday. RIP Zied
There is something really demented about Sarah, and its a bit crazy how young ahe is, and it makes me wonder what she had been exposed too.
To the young folks, if you read this - Life seems so intense at your age, (at least it was for me and most people can relate) Teenagers to young adults. Please have patience with yourselves, please ponder about the long term consequences of your decisions. Take your time in discovering yourself.
Please have patience with your journey. Give your young self all the play time, slef love, adventures, successes, and growth before you make such a devastating choice. ❤ i see so many young people taking lives and destroying their own and what is it all for?
If you are contemplating doing something wrong - get out for a walk, find a mentor, a hobby - like the gym, gardening, swimming in a river or the ocean, teaching yourselves to cook, build a home, sew, take pictures. There is so so much more pleasures in this world than a long lonely, dark road of nothing.
❤❤❤
Omg TY for adding that having Borlderline Personally Disorder doesn't mean you're going to be a criminal. It's an umbrella term for traits that can cause disturbances in mental thought processes. For ex. OCD, ADHD, Narcissism, Mood Disturbances ranging from Depression to Bipolar Disorder to Schizoaffective Disorder & then Schizophrenia. Borderline personality disorder is a way of saying that a patient displays traits of multiple disorders, not all the same. If I have Depression, ADHD, & OCD then I'm considered to have Boarderline Personality Disorder.
Nope, if you have things of all the disorders but not enough to be placed in one of these categories they will place you under a "nos" personality disorder
Yes, I’m sure all that man wanted was to find wholesome love. What a tragedy.
Regardless he was innocent and was just looking for a hookup with another adult like all the other thousands or tens of thousands do everyday. He was 39 and maybe or maybe not ready to settle down who really knows. Where does a person meet someone? A bar? Please don't say church unless you met and married someone from church. I've been to a dozen churches over the years and never met anyone I would marry! Which is really good because I've been married for 35 years. LOL
I cannot imagine being single today. Everything is so different from when I was young.
Exactly…. bullshit
@@Granny-2-Three he was a predator
@@murrenpower2513how so?
@@Granny-2-Three what kind of 39 year old would meet up with an 18 year old for sex? I understand being single and lonely but EIGHTEEN?! 😳 so disgusting
Okay he is a victim but let’s not pretend he’s a good guy looking for love, what 30 year old man trying to date a 19 year old is a GOOD guy, moral grey at best
But if the victim was a woman and a bad person, people would still scream and shout "victim blaming" if anyone tried to bring that up. Why are there different sets of rules for men and women?
@@MikeTXBCit would still be creepy and predatory the other way round, how does that relate to the comment at all?
Are you just trying to make yourself feel better about your own predatory behaviour? 🤔
@@fatamy8597 Yes, it would still be creepy and predatory, but I've noticed over and over that people victim blame when the victim is a guy, but go insane with rage if the same is done to a woman. I don't think anyone should be victim blamed, regardless of their sex.
@@nataliec5883 Nice. What sort of person insinuates someone else is a predator because they're standing up against victim blaming? You've been reported for harassment.
I'm sorry, but we all know what Ziad was thinking about when she drove down the creepy lane... and he says he wants a family but is meeting up with a woman half his age? Who's name is domanatrix and is asking for BDSM but also claiming to be a virgin? Uhhh, yeah we all know what Ziad was thinking of. NOT saying he deserved to die. But he was kinda a creep.
Glad she didn't kill anyone else. She definitely was going to kill more. And she'll be released at 31?! She's clearly a danger to the world...
And her friends should have reported this.
It’s embarrassing that she thinks she’s really doing something in those perp walk pictures… it’s cringe enough to idolize serial killers but girl. those pictures give me the ickkkk
Zyad is still a Creep - wanting a relationship with a 19yo at the age of 39 is disgusting.
Uhh yeah...what about 22 and 34? 29 and 41? When is your approval of an age gap. 70 and 82? 56 and 68?
Why? Once you’re 18 you’re a full grown adult. If you’re loyal and the love is genuine it’s all good.
A 39 year old can date a 19 year old if they want… Nothing weird about it. Maybe they genuinely clicked.
Why don’t you cast the same judgement on the 19 for wanting someone older?
So judgmental, dude…
Mind your own relationship.
19 is an adult.
@@pennyp7382barely, still a teenager too 🤷🏼♀️
We appreciate Daniell for steadily keeping us updated with all the true crime content. She's certainly the best at what she does.
She's my #2 my #1 is the queen of makeup and true crime Bailey Sarian
01:27 She aimed to be “the most prolific serial killer in history” yet was nabbed for her very first victim? Loser!
Well sometimes you just can’t feel bad about the “victims”…
I think that anyone answering her ad had an outstanding creep factor as well. That may have bearing on why, as a young girl, she was such a star in prison. I don't have much hope of her treatment in a mental health facility though.
It's interesting that Danielle was visibly grossed out when talking about that teacher contacting her but then this 40 y.o. man does this and suddenly he's an angel looking for love 😂
Majority of of time, we feel sorry for the victim. Well sometimes we don't.
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Speak for yourself!
exactly. 19 years is higher than the average predator's limit. 2 years earlier and shes a full blown minor.
literally LOL
Thank you SO much about what you said regarding BPD. As soon as I heard “borderline personality disorder” I rolled my eyes because I’m used to people saying things that stereotype us. I’m grateful that you acknowledged it. Thank you. Having the illness is hell in itself, but people’s view on it makes it so much harder.
Literally same.
statistically, people with BPD are more likely to be problematic in many ways. Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason.
@@candydandy2694 that doesn’t give you a free pass to put everybody into the same box and treat them like trash
@@candydandy2694 agree
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
Your voice is never annoying! Your voice is addicting to listen to. I Love your accent! You are also beautiful with or without makeup. I love how you explain these horrible cases! Thank you so much for your work for us is greatly appreciated. Sincerely, Stormy
He was 38, looking for love with a 19 year old. Yeah ok, not every victim is a good guy. Yikes
And he wasn't looking to settle down with a teenage girl named "Domina Cherry." He was looking for a hookup. Still didn't deserve what happened to him.
THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING
It's pretty gross and he was a creep but at least he wasn't after girls not legal age. Still didn't deserve to be murdered tho.
@@cassie1264 I wonder if she had a different name on Badoo... because he met her at Badoo. But also, his family could also just say that he wanted to settle down.. idk
That's what I was thinking, he clearly wasn't looking to settle down with a 19 yo named Domina Cherry. Like of course he didn't deserved to be murdered, but he wasn't a nice wholesome guy
It was refreshing for someone to cover a case that hasn't been covered over and over again! Thanks for your hard work! Hope your headache is better.
That being said, the authorities are going to release that psycho back out into the streets someday. If you're a German citizen, make sure you fight for your right to be protected from known violent sociopaths.
I’m only 8 minutes into this video and near tears. I am struggling with my BPD and work as a nurse in a psych hospital for S@X offenders. Many of these guys have BPD. That said, dealing with co workers that have such a negative attitude about this disorder. Thank you to everyone that posted they have BPD and are doing fine. I just need to remember I’m/ all of us people functioning in life who just has this disorder. Just wish the rest of society would understand BPD people can be productive people.
Maybe find easier jobs
I really, really appreciate what you said about those of us with BPD. I've been binging your videos all night and literally just subscribed before I got on this video and I'm so blown away. Not a lot of people give disclaimers like that and reiterate that not everyone with a particular disorder is a certain way or is going to do something so horrible as murder. You brought some positivity by showing us a courtesy that we aren't often given, not even in doctors offices. Thank you so much ❤
Danielle, it’s okay! we just appreciate you being here, although we also want you to take time for yourself to feel your best. thank you for the upload!
Honestly the respect you have for people with disabilities/mental health issues is incredible because people are so fast to judge and it’s not fair on people that are literally living with mental health issues every day ❤️
Exactly. Understanding some crimes means having to understand mental illness and psychological issues -- but it's important as well to make the distinction between the illness and the choices people make as well as not making any assumptions. Understanding how mental illness distorts people's perceptions of reality doesn't mean using a broad brush with regard to those of us who don't do the same things under the influence of our internal demons.
She’s on camera. Ofc she’s going to say anything to avoid getting cancelled. This is her source of income obviously. You think she’s doing it for free? 😂 she’s not messing up any of it.
@@misanthropexoxo9618 the fact is she isn’t just saying anything not to get cancelled , there a difference between saying now this doesn’t represent everyone with bpd and how Danielle explained it she didn’t need to go into any detail and in-fact she could have just said that then moved on , that would have still not gotten her cancelled 🙂
I mean she's a psycho, but what kind of creep wants a serious relationship with a 18 year old when you're 39?
It's so weird to hear someone defending a middle aged man wanting to meet up with a teenager..hello?
I’ve heard of this case before, but thank you so much, Danielle for going into more detail. I had no idea about the unisex prison and how she’s able to wear & buy her own clothes while also doing whatever. Sarah is a disgusting human. I’m glad Leon got away from her & her friend not getting charges for knowing about the crime! May Zayed R•I•P 🕊️ My deepest condolences to his family 💐
Also get well soon Danielle. 🫶🏻
Because they’re using the excuse of mental illness.
He shouldn't have been such a weirdo creepy asian looking for young european women should have settled down with fatima instead..
I KNOW first hand exactly what those creeps are like online to young white girls my gf had to lock her facebook down to private so she isn't constantly bombarded with DM's from creepy muslims.. 🔪
It’s actually far easier to get a lot of attention for bad & destructive behaviour…
Wonder what her childhood was like. If you neglect a child, they'll find a way to get your attention. If she was ignored at home until she caused trouble of some sort, it could've taught her this is the most effective way.
At the conclusion of every gripping story...I am always left just trying to fully understand something....
How in the world you perfectly finish your flawless makeup applications whilst in a full on story mode moving every part of your face! Mastery of more than one art form for certain! Kudos! 💪
Hey girl! “Short time lister, first time caller”….lol. So I’ve been literally around the clock listening to you just the last week. I’m obsessed and love the way you tell the stories for the victims and 100% appreciate all the hard work your do in the actual researching.
And u say to mentioned any cases… well I’d like to hear YOUR narrative of “VERA JO REIGLE”. It’s so tragic what this entire BIXLER fam did to her in the U.S. mostly bc of the moms directive. It’s been a heart breaking story I’ve been following and I bet you would delve into the true story. For the sake of her daughter and family, they deserve to know ppl genuinely care abt and KNOW she was an amazing person but also are aware of this horrible family as a Whole treated her awful :( 😢
Also in any of the cases that involve the murderer having a mental illness, those of us who suffer from serious ones like BPD, Bipolar, Skitzo Effective, Schizophrenia, etc, you make it a point to add that just because they had the illness doesnt mean its why they murdered. Some of the biggest hearted people I've met, mentally suffer terribly. Thank you, danielle!!
@@snicole042 no one denied that. What YOU'RE doing is making people fear those with mental illness. You really need to do some research. It has been proven that there are underlying reasons people who have mental illness commit murder. It's not due to the mental illness solely. The illness is almost always just an excuse they use. Never a reason. Most of us are not dangerous people. MYSELF included. But I'm not gonna go back and forth with you on it. You're instilling fear that doesn't need to be instilled.
hey danielle. i myself am diagnosed with bpd. you have no idea how much it means to hear you be so empathetic towards those of us living with (and trying to work through) bpd. thank you being being you ❤
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
As the great Bailey Sarian would say:
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He wasn't a good guy, the victim knew he was meeting a 19 year old, with one thing on his mind. Did he deserve to die? No. But he wasn't Mr innocent and certainly wasn't looking for a relationship.
Something many people don't realise when being confused by the "luxury" people have in prisons and similar facilities in some countries, is that the sentence is your lack of freedom, not having other human rights taken from you or even torture (like in some countries). You get to stay a person, you're not dehumanised. And you get a chance to learn to do better, learn new skills for later in life, even learn a new job. It's meant to rehabilitate people, not to just lock them away for however long. And obviously in a psychiatric facility you're pretty sure also forced to undergo treatment to hopefully find out what's going on and - again - rehabilitate you if possible. That's how the prison system should be everywhere, it's what has the best chances of actually keeping people from doing things again once they're out (if they do get out)
This. Most people who commit crimes are already having issues. Treating them cruel and like non people for years on end will make them less sympathetic.
@@mysurfing3550 yep. There's always expections of people who don't want to change, but the vast majority are willing to accept the help and try to learn to do better. And some just didn't get a chance to do better before, but rehabilitation in prison is what gives them this chance
Honestly giving sympathy to those men is such a sickening feeling. I’m not agreeing with what she did at all but they’re all sexual predators with a want for young girls. There’s less innocent people in the world to take as victims. These men weren’t it
Yeah her sympathetic attitude was weird. You can condemn Sarah for her actions and still admit that they were creeps. And when she talked about the “bias against men” after the police had arrested her. OBVIOUSLY they would assume Sarah was the victim because 99% of the time that’s the case! Why would the police automatically assume that a bloodied, incoherent woman with torn up clothes WASNT the victim??
I mean I'm not sad they died
@@waverlyearp34they didn’t
@@mosshead865 damn I thought zyad died
@@waverlyearp34He did die, that other commenter didn't know what they were talking about.
First: Why didn't I know you before? Girl! Your style of telling the story is amazing, I loved everything about this video and you are so beautiful so your makeup looks really great too, please keep it up.
Regarding the story: I don't think her childhood was normal. Perhaps she suffered from neglect and discrimination, so she wanted a lot of attention when she became a teenager. Genes may also be involved in the disorder.
You crushed it even though you felt sick! When murderers are young like this I'm always so shocked. You did an amazing job covering this!
We know how you feel😂😂 That teen was obsessed with evil. She acted on her fantasies just like most of the serial killers we know. I'm glad she's out of our society. My condolences go out to everyone affected by this case🙏❤️
A lot of my favorites upload on Sundays but you are my #1 Sunday uploader lol. Thank you for the extensive research you do to make these videos for us! I can't speak for everyone but I appreciate your hard work and admire you for being so protective over the victims and don't make excuses for the murderer in any way. Sarah needed a tremendous amount of help. She could have had very caring parents who tried but I don't think anything was going to change her. This is my first time hearing of this case and I'm shocked at how open and arrogant she was about everything.
Hearing ecstacy being referred to as a hard drug just shocked me
That girl is so cringe. Thinking she's the Nightstalker or smth
"Who the hell likes bullying?!"
Edgelords, Danielle. Teenage edgelords.
I have BPD and appreciate you clarifying it doesn't automatically make you like Sarah. I became aware of my impact on others when I was 18 and I sought out medication and therapy because the guilt and horror I felt at seeing so many people hurt because of me broke my heart, and it saved my life and ensured I don't burden or hurt others with my behaviours which I'm now fairly on top of. Sarah should have done this.
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
Imagine having a date set up with this girl and u see her on the news for this
I’m German and I’m also into true crime and how I understand the justice system a lil bit :)
her sentence is pretty much life. The process to get out of a psychiatric prison is a long one with lots of assessments and criterias you have to fit. It is also a long process in terms of getting back into society so the prisoners can get used to it slowly. The laws around that can be different form county to county (German justices is very complicated like that, each cooks their own soup).
There are of course cases where someone who isn’t fit to return into society is released and classified as fitted but I think that is shouldn’t but it does happen sometimes.
Also the reason she was allowed to wear her own cloths is most likely because she was in “Untersuchungshaft” which means Pretrial detention where people are imprisoned during their trial. When they are sentenced then they go to a normal prison and personal clothing and their rules depends on the prison. Most prisons your are allowed your own clothing, I’m guessing something psychology for the people to not completely lose their identity.
Hope that helps :)
Really enjoyed the video, thanks for making it 🐝
This is so twisted. Her victims never stood a chance.
9:27
‘Her favourites were “unimaginatively” Ted Bundy and Richard Ramirez’
I loved your delivery of this 😂
Seeing women gush about serial killers, particularly ones that horrifically brutalized women, disgusts me, but it also kind of irks me that it’s always those two jackasses in particular.
I mean fck, if you’re going to be a slimeball you could at least try to be an original slimeball 😂
They seem to forget among the many other sick things he did, Richard raped and killed a 9 year old girl. Raped a 6 year old girl. Like what the hell are these freaks even thinking??? Just because he’s kind of good looking you’re going to just overlook things like this??? It’s truly crazy.
@@alleycat616the fact that knowing who he is doesn’t automatically make him hideous to them is wild to me
@@YesIlikebananasSo I don't get it! There's so many tiktok videos about how he was framed. How we was so good looking. The first time I read about him, I was sick to my stomach! I don't understand how people can be that delusional.
Idk man...happy childhood and yet sudenly she becomes rude,into hurting herself and fantasizing about being a serial killer? Something doesn't add up here.
Not a big deal, but you calling out the stereotype on man and the fact that they never get the chance of being presumed innocent and are blamed, tried and executed before they have a chance to explain, earnd you my respect as a man and my subscription. Thank you!
thank you so much for talking about the stigma behind BPD and how having this disorder doesn't make us criminals. as someone with bpd, it is so painful to hear how many people think everyone with this disorder is going to turn out like this.
Same thing for psychopaths and sociopaths just having the condition doesn't mean you're evil
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
This girl was the most unsuccessful serial killer in history 😂
Thankfully!
Fr. I couldn't believe how bad her plan was. She must have been delusional to think she was going to get away with 250 murders!
I have a friend with BPD; she is the nicest person one could ever meet. Won't hurt even a fly. But can't control herself; she is in and out of psychiatric ward. And I knew 3 more young women with BPD - they were extreme narcissist, obssed so much about their looks, what they wear and only cared about themselves. I wish they had told before not waiting 2 - 3 months that they have BPD. I knew something was wrong. They said they were on medication for BPD but people could see not effective.
I absolutely hugely appreciate that you cover cases that are not as well known as others.
I was literally diagnosed with BPD recently (2 weeks ago) and I’ve had such a hard time wondering who to tell because of the stigma. I’m honestly such a pacifist, I’m against any type of violence, even yelling at people I feel is still a bit much. I’m a quiet bpd person I think? None of it is outside, it’s all inner turmoil. I did as a teen find myself a bit too into certain serial killers but it was never in a “I love them and want to be them” way, it was more of a “I’m fascinated by the psychology of WHY they do that” to the point it was all I thought about for a little while but I was in a really dark place back then. Now I still am fascinated with them psychologically but yknow, I have a life outside of the little true crime interest 😅
Dude they're diagnosing everyone with everything lol just roll with it ✌️
If you're female, there are quite a few traits similar between autism, BPD and ADHD.
I knew something was going on with me, but I had no idea what. I looked into it and saw so many traits identical to what I had with BPD. Nope, turns out I'm autistic.
I'm not saying that your identity is wrong, just that it's something to look in to! Because there is such a close link between these things, you may even have both or all three
And let me preface this by saying: search for symptoms with the note of female added. The medical field is completely biased towards men
@@dbarrett1539Yeep. There are overlaps between BPD and autism, and one time a new psychiatrist disagnosed me with autism after a 40 minute session. 😅 I was very confused given my long-term BPD diagnosis, and having gone through long-term therapy and understand why I do what I do. So, her diagnosis made me feel really annoyed and invalidated. I also have a close family member with autism, and looking at the difference in the “why” really sets us apart. My triggers/personality differences are about abandonment, trauma, and attachment, and aren’t due to differences in social cognition.
Same here, i apparently have BPD, Major depression, and anxiety. I'm an introvert and very shy in person and hate leaving my house. I've also been called an empath as i pick up on ppls emotions and kinda take them on if that makes any sense. Probably cuz i'm more of an observer. I also love animals and prefer them to ppl and can't eat meat or anything as i just love them too much lol. But i enjoy true crime, not admiring criminals but researching cases and killers. I would never just murder anyone.
@@xtina6569 It’s sooo funny that we’re all like, “I’d never kill someone”. Like it’s soooo ridiculous that the stigma is so bad that we even that to say that! 😅 Like, duh, we wouldn’t commit murder, just like most people wouldn’t!
Girl do not stress!!! This content takes a toll in so many ways and we want you to feel your best for each upload❤️❤️ if anyone’s getting mad at your upload schedule lmk and we’ll throw hands
Cannot even fathom why CZcams would have ANY kind of problem with your content!(?) You do a beautiful job of informing, politely, courteously and kindly. I feel like I'm sitting over a cup of tea and gabbing with my girlfriends, thank you!!!!
I just stumbled on your channel and I love it!! My newest true crime obsession! The way you do your makeup while telling the story is awesome, and ur makeup is incredible!
I think Bailey Sarian was the first woman to start doing their makeup while talking about true crime, if you like this type of content I’d recommend checking her out too. 😊
Thanks again for approaching us with BPD with compassion! ❤ I always cringe when I see movie/portrayals of us. These majority of us are nothing like this, have empathy, lead productive lives, care for others, and unfortunately struggle with overwhelming emotions. This disorder sucks!
The stigma hurts my heart so bad. It made me so happy to see her say those things about us ❤
@@little.heathen I know, right? I’m pretty high functioning, so it’s something I’m always afraid to disclose. It took me years to tell my closest friend! I don’t want them to think I’m how the movies portray BPD. It sucks.
@@wackybrattyxI feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
I feel the same way as I have BPD, I'm 54. I found out about my diagnosis in 2017 even though I was diagnosed with it in 2014, they forgot to tell me. When she first mentioned BPD I thought oh God here it goes because there is such a stigma that comes along with BPD but my heart melted when it was obvious she researched it and had empathy. I no longer suffer from the effects except I have a favorite person who happens to be my husband, a narcissist. I also suffer from extreme fear of abandonment. I can see how her bf breaking up with her triggered this whole thing. I am proud to say I am a multiple suicide survivor and I no longer obsess or think about suicide. I'm doing great. It's been 6 years since I've been in a mental health facility. I have therapy once a week too. It's an awful diagnosis but with the correct help you can overcome it. 😊
With Halloween coming up you should look into the Shauna Howe case, it’s a case that took place in my hometown that caused Halloween to be canceled and went cold for 13 years.
Honestly, I wouldn’t usually say this, but I don’t blame her. She was just cleaning up the trash
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6:58 Her change in behavior could’ve come from her BPD. BPD usually starts to show during teenage years/get more apparent with time. I’m glad you clarified that not all people with BPD are like this!
im not saying what she did is less wrong, but saying that some men were looking for a ”serious relationship” with an fucking 18 year old girl named domina cherry is a whole level of wishful thinking. coping, even. you were literally saying that it was really creepy that a teacher was seeking hookups with a teenager, how are other men any different? lol
EXACTLY
The difference is he was brown so he must've been an angel. Ignore the statistics on sexual predators all over Western Europe. He was a poor lost guy looking for love. With an 18 y.o. girl who's into bdsm.
This! It’s so weird of her, also the things she said when the cops asked about the abusive bf part. Ofc Sarah is a horrible person but what even is Danielle saying like?? I’m definitely never watching her again.
@@gaby60522 it's hard finding good channels of true crime, the vast majority just seem to not be able to handle these things in a serious tone, it's like they're either too insensitive and sensationalistic or they are full of weird personal assumptions
@@Anna-cx4tg you're reading too much into it with your racial biases. it's way more likely that she's excusing his behaviour because he was a victim, maybe to avoid claims like "how dare you say the man who was murdered was a creep?!". while simply stating the facts doesn't mean you're justifying murder, people on the internet lack basic comprehension skills. it's understandable but she really is being a hypocrite here, it'd be better if she just didn't say anything about his personal goals.
We are all here because we love true crime. But can we all agree that Danielle is THE best story teller?! Even if I know about a case, I have to listen to it on this channel. There's no one better. Also, I am so thankful that it was pointed out that just because you have a mental illness doesn't mean you are evil. That's such a stigma that so many of us live with, and I'm so thankful it's always pointed out that we aren't all bad. It just means a lot.
1000% she’s wicked
Yes definitely. She tells a lot of information that most other CZcamsrs don’t tell. I knew about this case but didn’t know the whole story until now thanks to her.
She’s not.
She's not what?
I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who thinks that Danielle's eyes are so pretty they are like a grayish blue they are so pretty
Don’t apologize about your voice sounding different because you’re sick. You’re such a hardworking person and I appreciate everything you do to bring us all these videos.
I’m so sorry about the death, but I dont believe for a single second that her victim wanted a serious relationship and love. He swiped right on her despite seeing her extreme profile and even agreed to meet up at night? Nah man 😂😅
20 years her senior, and sees a teenager saying she's a virginal dominatrix, and agrees to meet alone in a secluded cabin? Yeah, that doesn't make sense for 'finding a future wife', lmao! And people are so mad at this being pointed out, and it's like...no one says he should have died for being a horny perv, but being dead doesn't mean you weren't a horny, creepy perv in life!
OMG, I have a friend who works as a Dominatrix, I often thought about how Crazy it is that you going to a location and someone you Never met just communicated Once on the internet; to get Restrained and beat by someone, it's Consensual of course, but still scary!!!
Note: She talked me into being tied up by Her, it wasn't very tight, but I could barely move,it's unbelievable how clients do this without fear; and most are very rich, I was at Her Personal Dungeon/ Space and a Lamborghini park in front, I was like wow there's a Lamborghini park in front; She yelled back what color, and I was like what? Really !!
There's so much talk in the BDSM community about safety and vetting, but with today's hookup culture that doesn't seem to be happening enough. Going to a remote cabin in the woods for your first meeting is a HUGE red flag!
As a woman who myself has been acused of allegin a false rape I can attest that the anger afterwards is overwhelming. Kids and teenagers who are being abused or has experinced sexual trauma are very often not the most charming people you ever meet. They are being taught that the only thing in this world they have to give is sex and so many trauma cope with becoming a sexual figure way to young. Calling herself a sexworker as a teen is very much speaking down of herself and it just to me at least, looked like one desperate cry for help. Survivors of sexual abuse also often do everything in their power to push everyone around them far away from them because they have been taught that those whom you should feel safe around will hurt you. I am not excusing the horific murder she did and I am glad she was stopped and is now in prison. However I dont think you did her justice when descibing her teenage years. She didnt deserve to be bulllied because she was just such a horrible person. She deserved help, home investigation and a further looking into of what has happened to her since this is how she thinks she has to survive.
I believe you ❤
I am laughing so much. Sarah is an Amateur.