Addressing your assumptions about us | Ep. 17
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- čas přidán 16. 07. 2024
- Today we address your assumptions about us... Thank you to everyone who submitted assumptions on Instagram :)
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Chapters (Assumptions):
00:00 - Assumptions about us
02:01 - Matt is bisexual bc he likes dancing
05:30 - I assume Matt laughs when someone cries or when something is really serious
08:59 - That your mom and Matt's relationship low key stresses you out
13:41 - baby #3??
14:24 - Matt doesn't wash the backs of his knees
16:15 - Abby wishes she became a teacher
19:11 - Abby always wins the arguments
21:31 - Abby you seriously have a such a beautiful body! Matt drools all day I bet!
24:16 - You've done "it" in a public space (car/parking lot, etc)
25:41 - You came close to having sex before marriage
30:21 - I assume that you always have a clean house
31:20 - Matt is really interested in kissing other women
34:35 - Abby is the voice of reason while Matt is more on the adventurous side
35:56 - Abby wears the pants in the relationship
40:12 - You were very popular in high school!
42:22 - That u regret not dating other people before meeting each other
44:28 - Abby has a better morning attitude than Matt
45:49 - Abby's had a boob job
48:18 - You both would love to get back into theater one day
50:11 - You are outgoing and make friends everywhere you go
52:06 - Matt wears makeup
52:58 - Abby wants a dog but Matt doesn't
53:44 - Abby gets annoyed by Matt when he tries to be funny
54:41 - You still sleep in separate beds
55:16 - That Matt hates Abby's family or at least some of them
56:01 - You can't keep your hands off each other and you'll eventually have 10 kids
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I totally see where Abby is coming from saying she’s not attracted to other men. There’s a difference between thinking someone is attractive and being attracted TO them. I can notice someone is physically attractive but I’m genuinely not attracted TO anyone aside from my husband.
Agree! That also comes with a maturity most people don’t have.
I can tell someone is attractive or beautiful and even think "that person looks great" but I don't feel attraction towards anyone but my partner. Then again, I always kind of found it difficult to find someone sexually attractive without an emotional connection.
I totally agree Joyce!
I get what she means. My partner Joe and I have been together for 8years and I think he’s the most attractive man in the world. I find other people beautiful or handsome but I don’t find them more than that. Kind of like art you see it and think “cool looks beautiful” then you move on.
Yes, I so agree! I'm never truly attracted to a guy unless I get to know him and we have an emotion connection first. My really strong connection with my bf is solely based on emotional connection and he's the most attractive person in the world to me because we're connected emotionally.
The loofah conversation had me 😂😂.
Side note, I think Abby would be a phenomenal teacher. I can picture it.
Abby needs her own loofah pronto
I would buy loofah merch so fast 😂
Brittany Howard. Abby is a teacher. 4 years of college
Abby needs to use wash cloths for every shower 💀
You both r sooo cute.......stay happy forever
Matt and Abby are like the two sides of my brain going back and forth 😂😂
This comment is hilarious bc it is so true 😂😂😂
I 1000% agr33🤣🤣
Hilarious😂
Love the fact how Matt ALWAYS gives Abby compliments. It’s so sweet seeing how much he loves his wife and making that known 24/7 ❤
Always on the verge of an argument during these podcasts 😂 That's a part of marriage, especially when you're talking about past and current events, feelings, desires, and actions. I'm glad you two are so open.
I LOVE these guys! Matt is so sweet randomly saying he likes Abby's eyes, he's so smitten! And then when she says she wants to do morning hugs and he's just like "you want one right now?" and they just do it right there. PRECIOUS!
Also, what Abby's saying about not being attracted to someone unless you have the emotion connection is SO TRUE for me! I have never related to them so much before. Literally my favorite influencers EVER.
Literally same. If someone asks me if I find another person attractive, I would yes I can acknowledge if a man is handsome, but there is literally no attraction (in that if I could I wouldn’t want to be physical with them at all. For me “attractive” as in wanting to be with someone physically, I have to have emotionally connection with first
I can relate to Matt when he says that he can’t help laughing when someone cries or someone is serious, like I literally can’t help it, it just comes out😂
Saaame I just get nervous and I start laughing it’s so bad
Me too..I can't be serious when I'm suppose to be serious..HAHA
same here! for me it’s not necessarily funny but i laugh cuz it lighten up my mood to wear i’m not thinking of all the negative stuff
I completely understand when Abby says Matt can't talk about her hormones. It is dismissive of the very real emotions she is feeling. Just because hormones are playing a role in the reaction, doesn't mean emotions aren't real. ❤
Can literally watch these hour long pod cast and it only feels like 5 minutes!!! Y’all are SO fun to watch!
Also from experience, not having the baggage from past relationships is nice. I envy how open and honest y’all can be about things. It’s not always that easy when both of you have ‘baggage/past’ stuff.
LOVE Y’ALL!!!
I love just how affirming Matt is. It’s encouraging to see people put effort and love into their marriage to encourage their spouse
Abby’s respect for teachers is so awesome! The way you understand/articulate Matt’s emotions is beautiful. Keep keepin on, I’m so glad you’ve found each other in this life
I for real strive to be like Abby. She’s always looks out together, has cute clothes on, her hair and makeup done. I need to try harder at getting ready for the day! You’re a Queen, Abby!!
Abby I 100% support your idea on homeschooling your children. I've been homeschooled my whole life, and it was the best thing my mother has ever done for me.
That’s incredible!
I have been homeschooled since the pandemic and it has been the best thing for me and my family!
Same here!
This!! I have been homeschooling my children since 2015. Best choice I ever made!!
But how do you know when you never went to school? In Germany we are not allowed to do that.
you guys are always able to pull me back to where my mind and heart should be at even with this crazy world. I appreciate your family and how wholesome you are while being in the public eye, it gives me some hope for the future.
Matt is always so humble. He puts in so much effort
I really enjoy watching your episodes and listening to how your relationship is now versus before. It helps me with my own marriage. For example, the reminder to cuddle more even if you are tired at the end of the day because your husband isn't just the other parent or helpmate for around the house or provider, he's your lover! I love that!
Abby’s bump is seriously the cutest! 🥰
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@@AprilFaith3 be nice! Its very cute!
I wanna know where those pants are from
@@katilynn365 im pretty sure i have the same ones, mine were from maurices but im not sure if they are the same, they do look pretty similar though!
@@AprilFaith3you could not just keep scrolling? You absolutely HAD to comment a stupid emoji? Like get out of here with ur negative self -.- fuck I hate CZcams comments
Matt - it's ABSOLUTELY your adhd. Try brown noise or 8D music with headphones and Abby watch him when he tries - my husband says he can see my brain shut up when I listen to these 😂 something about the frequencies are life changing for my brain! (Disclaimer - doesn't work for every adhd brain, def worth a shot!) ❤
Laughing when we shouldn't- impulse control. 😁
Struggling with emotions - naming, recognizing, working with them is also an ADHD/nuerodiverse thing. I really feel like digging into how adhd effects you personally could be fun for you Matt!
Hyperfixaction - activate!!! 🙃
Why do I low key feel like they get into the biggest fights after these podcasts are over because of everything each other said 😂
Aww Abby made my day talking about teaching. I am a teacher. Though it has its challenges, it has many rewards! ♥️ I definitely could see you being a teacher.
My favorite thing every week! This podcast gets me so excited about Wednesdays. You guys are seriously the best I feel like I’m right there with you in the room. Both of you are so genuine. I love how real both of you are. ❤
I’m going through such a hard time right now, and seeing your content pop up brought a smile to my face :) Thank you for the wholesome content. I am grateful you lit up my night 🙏🏽🤍
Hey, you good?
This makes us so happy! Hope we can continue to make you smile
Fabiola Marie Aquino. Blessings to you today
You guys are so authentic and cute. Never let the other get away, stay loving each other like you do today. I am 71 and my hubs & i have the same sort of love, never take it for granted.
I absolutely love this podcast! i’ve always had a hard time just sitting down listening to a podcast but i’m more than excited to watch these! I’d love to hear you guys talk more about your connection to christianity in a future episode!
Matt " I wish...." Abby " I think it's a crime " 😂😂
Love how genuine you guys are, can’t wait for the next ep!
Yay another podcast ❤ Abby you would make an amazing teacher your energy is so warm & fun! These questions were very invasive, but you both handled them with ease.
matt is so sweet and genuine and you can tell he tries to do good things but gets so much shade for all the stuff he messes up/does wrong. 😭😂
frrrrrr
You guys and how real you are is so refreshing ❤ Thanks for making me smile so much!
Loved this guys! I love how vulnerable yet funny you both are. Much love from Australia!! 💛♥️🦘
I started listening to your podcast during postpartum once my husband went back to work. You guys make me feel a little less alone. Thank you guys for bringing humor and such sweetness into my home 🩷
You should take the Apology language test! It’s a life saver. Everyone accepts apologies differently and it’s helped so so much!
I haven't even heard about that one, thanks ☺
I’ve always been told and from my experience of three pregnancies hormones don’t usually create unnecessary emotions, or really create the emotions at all. They just heighten them. So I’ve never allow myself or anyone else to make me feel bad for my hormone. Emotions are neither negative nor positive. They more like signs of what’s going on inside and hormones just make it harder to hide it all. Give lots of grace and room for emotions in times of high hormones. And when it all comes back down make sure to make good choices. Love and understanding is super needed during pregnancy and postpartum!
Matt and Abby seriously never fail to make my day! You guys are like therapy to meee!
Abby you would be an amazing homeschool teacher!! I wanted to go into elementary teaching but due to life circumstances I didn't finish my degree. I did however have some amazing babies and now I homeschool them and it has been the most fulfilling, fun, creative outlet, and a huge bonding experience with my children! I am so thankful for the opportunity to be home with them and get to be their Mama AND their teacher! I am living two of my dreams!!
You'd make a brilliant teacher, Abby ❤ and I feel you regarding the maternity leave problem. This makes me so incredibly gracious to get a full year of paid parental leave here in Germany. No mom should have to leave their infant 6 weeks postpartum. I wish everyone will get that opportunity one day
That is amazing! I agree completely! I wish all new mothers got the same treatment! So very different here in the US!😢
I really appreciate you guys acknowledging the parents that really want to homeschool but do not have the flexibility in their finances or careers to do so.
I love you guy. Keep being awesome
I listen to every episode because y’all make me laugh and are so relatable! Thanks for being so open and raw.
Abby when you told Matt youve been using his loofa i just about spit my water out in laughter. Man i loved this episode haha thanks for posting this guys
The conversation of arguments had me laughing! My husband and I are the same way! I’m always saying “don’t say you’re sorry, that doesn’t do anything”, women want you to acknowledge what you’re saying sorry for and how you’ll do it differently next time 😂…so relatable!!
Love you Matt andAbby! Never lose your love, joy, and innocence. Your podcasts are a breath of fresh air!❤
The moment when Matt and Abby hugged is soo cute and precious❤️ Love you guys!!
I love this podcast so much, haven’t missed a single one. I just love you both so much. You are so real and raw. So relatable!!! Also, I love that you are constantly complimenting each other. Something my husband and I always try to do is keep our relationship fresh even after 19 years and 3 kids. So I love supporting couples that have those same goals in mind.
I have the same exact experience as Matt. My entire life I’ve been put in the box because of doing my hair, caring about what I wear, wanting to be clean, wearing flip flops and such. It used to hurt me so much but now it’s just funny. Everyone wants to have an opinion or put you in a box! I’m just me and you’re you!
Love seeing other young parents being open about being young still and wanting to have fun and party while still loving their little ones and doesn’t take away from that love for their babies either! We have a 7 month old and we love to get out and spend some time like normal 24 & 25 year olds ! 🤎
After all these years together they still compliment each other and remind one another how awesome and special one another is. Like Matt stated. So wholesome. They’re so open and upfront. Matt is the biggest hype to Abby. As it should be. You two are awesome parents too!
Abby I love you! Your face when you say, 'You don't hide it at all!' So alive with it! You are such an incredible, inspiring, strong woman!
Abby is glowing extra in this episode! Love y’all ❤
She really is!
I love you guys. The love you both have for each other. ❤ Matt is so funny cracking me up. You guys are the best!
Idk why but this was one of the best episodes...ya'll just warm my heart
I love that you’re so secure in your body Abby! I’m so insecure about honestly everything on my body but I would love to be confident like you
Thank GOD! I’ve been waiting all week. What feels like two.
Laughing in serious situations is actually another form of adhd and it’s really just because the brain isn’t capable of triggering the correct response right away and also if its an awkward situation it’s just a way of coping and trying to not feel awkward or bad. I know it seems like he’s not being considerate of feelings or emotions but it’s just another way the brain handles sticky situations. My nephew does it when he’s getting yelled at our doing something bad and gets in trouble so it’s just trying to make the situation a little better.
This.
I had no idea! Thanks for sharing
Wow I swear I think my 5 year old has adhd after reading stuff and seeing this is him especially.
Any tips on how to like help one with it especially young kid?
@@larac.8797 Just being as understanding and patient as possible really helps especially with kids and adults who don’t even realize they’re doing it. Kinda just explain to people around you that their not trying to be mean or inconsiderate, they just have trouble responding to bad situations in the way people usually do. And it helps to identify it early so you can work on it with them, but there’s no specific therapy for it yet so it really just depends on the situation.
@@UnplannedPodcast Of course!! Thank you for responding, you guys are my favorite youtube couple it means the world to me to be able to give insight and help out where i can. It’s still a pretty new thing so there’s not a lot of research or anything for it yet but i’ve been able to make connections with people that say they have Adhd and that laugh in uncomfortable situations, that it’s just another part of it. Love you guys and glad i could help!!!!❤️❤️❤️
I love that you wanna homeschool! I was homeschooled my whole life and Initially I wanted to put my kids in school but seeing how the public school system is becoming I do not want the wrong people teaching my kids.
“And we just found out how to prevent it so” Matt’s dad jokes are A+ 😂
I love you guys your my fav youtubers ever. I love you so so much 💓. Best of luck with Griffen and Your new bub!!
The hug mid podcast ❤ you two are the cutest!
Loved this! Very entertaining! Thanks for keeping it real as always.
Abby is just glowing. She carries pregnancy very well. My children loved having our dogs grow up with them. Unfortunately we lost our bishon a year ago after 16 years and we just lost our pit/ lab on the 22nd after 12 years. However as my children r getting older they have definitely told us they loved having the dogs to grow up with.
Y’all are the best and I can’t wait for you to have more kids, meaning there will be more truly loved kids in the world!❤
I married my first boyfriend, and even though I definitely don't regret NOT having emotional baggage, I do have those "what ifs" moments, bc I think it's just human nature to wonder what it would've been like if you made different decisions... especially when you marry so young!
Same .Also married very young 17 to my first and will always have' what ifs.
Didn't get the chance to
Feel the world around me
I had no time to choose
What I chose to do
You two are the cutest! I love your love and respect for each other and gracious, how sweet when Matt just randomly compliments Abby. Love these two!
People's obsession with pregnant women is seriously the weirdest and oddest thing ever. I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant and I hate going out in public because of it.
I think its the pregancy glow
11:27 when Matt said sorry 😊 you guys warm my heart. My relationship is as wacky as can get and it’s a freaking struggle to make this work. More times then not I wonder if I even want to keep pushing through the rough because I can’t tell if I’m just so infatuated that I just can’t tell if it’s abusive but there’s so many signs and we’ll life is freakin rough
You guys are the cutest!! I wasn't planning to watch the whole thing but you're so sweet and honest :) and you kind of remind me of the Holderness family for some reason, probably cos you both have some public performance background and are super cute and funny and not afraid to be real ☺ Bless you both ❤
"I exclusively use your loofah" 😂
Matt is like my husband. He's always the only person that laughs at a funeral around the casket but not because he's being disrespectful he just randomly will remember a very funny memory he had with the person or somthing they did that was funny. He just has good memories with the person.
Same with my man. Always laughing at the most serious scenarios😂
Love your podcast 🥰❤️ making our day better as always :)
I love this so much!!!! Thank you for all the things you do, I love yall and you always make me smile!! Its also my birthday.
You two are so real and raw. Love it
y’all are so funny and relatable and i love it’s
I love you guys! Every time I watch your videos I wish they were longer because I love watching you guys!
Hahahahahaha!!! The “I’ve been using your loofah” whisper y’all are cracking me up!!
I really can’t wait to see your homeschooling journey if it ends up working out that way! I’m newly married and would love to homeschool my kids like I was but maybe in a more involved and fun way :)
I think that is the only podcast I have seen without millions of ads and the only podcast I would be fine with watching ads in order to get their content .
This podcast makes me smile so much!!! Love you two much!!!
As a dad of 4, I have always told young couples to enjoy their time together before they have kids. Because their life will change. Not for the bad, but it will be different! Enjoy changes in your lives. There is always something to enjoy.
i couldn't even come up with 1 assumption for you guys. you are both just so sweet and down to earth i've loved listening to your podcasts and feel like i gotten to know you more as individuals as well as a couple.. keep up the good work guys ❤❤ excited for future episodes
You dudes are so hilarious! Love your podcast .
Suuuuuch an honest convo! I’m really glad I watched this.
I'm with Matt on the mood changes, my husband and I both found it hilarious when I was pregnant and my mood would change like a flip of a switch 😅
loving the content lately ❤
I always get so excited for this podcast! ❤
I love this podcast!!! I love yall!!! I so wanna start a podcast with my son! We have a vlog channel but this hits different!! Thank you for always being real and epic!
I love two so much! your so genuine and open with each other :) such a inspiring couple
I enjoy your podcast and the way you both interact ❤
I love yalls podcasts & u both & all of yalls videos on utube cause that's the only way I can see yall!☺️☺️
!IT WAS RELEASED 1 MIN AGO AND I LIKED IT STRAIGHT AWAY. This is my first time watching a video so quickly!
I love that they touched on possibly homeschooling their kids. I as well as my brothers were homeschooled and I feel like I was so blessed that my parents could do that for us.
I was a young parent at 21. That person I was and who I am now at 35 are ENTIRELY two different people. As I don’t regret my son of course, he is the best and keeps me grounded…I have a ton of missing out on my 20’s stuff I am working through now. Both positive and negatives to everything. ❤
Married at 16/17 parent at 19
Didn't get the chance to
Feel the world around me
I had no time to choose
What I chose to do
Will Always have 'what ifs'
I like love you guys!❤️ Abby you always look beautiful but you were glowing in this pod❤️❤️
Nah Abby wears the pants. I love how Matt spills the beans 🫘 😅😂😂😂😂
Pets are so amazing for kids too like growing up together and showing them responsibility at young age u can't compare to a best friend dog and baby bond
Abby you are poppin’! I love it! You are so beautiful!!
Please do more of these, it was so interesting 😅
Matt your laughs is a defense mechanism 😅😅 i do the same thing! I got in trouble in class one time and i smiled … got called out lol but it’s just a defense mechanism lol
You are both beautiful genuine people with great families. Gives me hope for future generations. I hope you both continue to grow together 💖🙏
Matt talking about trying to emphasize his joke in a text because he didn’t understand sarcasm is freaking hilarious lol
I laugh when I'm uncomfortable, when I'm scared, or when I hurt myself. Not on purpose but it's just my immediate response. One time in the middle of the night I walked home alone and was grabbed from behind and I literally burst into laughter before I screamed.
100% agree with the proper apology. I saw a video once from a man who states a proper apology is not just saying it. It is acknowledging what you did wrong, how the other must feel in the situation and what they will/won't do next time!