Tracking Patterns in Personality Type
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- 1. Typology is a tool, not an identity.
2. Tracking patterns is the only way to clearly see the functions at work.
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Yes, this is true. I've encountered some people who want or claim to be INTJs on Twitter and the conversations made me cringe. INTJs aren't intentionally trying to be "cold" or "rude". We actually wish we weren't misunderstood and didn't offend ppl. Unless these "intjs" are immature, it is very obvious who are trying hard to become a certain personality type. To each their own I guess.
True, it can hurt when one gets a surprise complaint about being so "distant and rude" from people one actually likes, but the people who think the offended party "are then not rational enough for me" usually have some other type of problem imo
i was just going to post almost exactly the same thing! i have no experience with posers, but the second part of your comment really is where i was going. i piss people off without even knowing it sometimes. sometimes i do though, like when talking about emotional subjects.
for example: my bff growing up has a sister (we dated for a while as teens) has a very problematic son. we were talking about him, and i'm just matter of factly telling her what i thought. she muttered "bastard" hung up on me, and we didn't talk for years.
i'm like "well you ASKED me what i thought!" i only offer an opinion when ASKED to. otherwise i assume women are just venting. which they do. i had previously given her good advice about dealing with her father that worked out really well. still does to this day.
Oh god that reminds me back to that girl I met who constantly said “I’m so cold, you know I can’t feel things”
Sounds like an INFJ in a Ni Ti loop. They are critical and manipulative.
Or INFJ claiming they can not be assholes because they are just so sweet, kind and selfless. That's just how the INFJ's are, they say but in reality they are huge cunts.
Yessss, with INTJs and INTPs especially. I have a friend whose ex used this as an excuse. “Well, I’m just an INTJ, so I can’t help hurting your feelings and being a jerk to you. And you’re too sensitive because your an INFP.”
It drove me crazy.
“Watch your thoughts for they become words. Watch your words for they become actions. Watch your actions for they become habits."
Whoah woah...that was some seriously profound shit, Richard. I’m being totally serious. I love that. I’m gonna steal it. I’m assuming you must have as well, but If that is original, holy crap. Either way, I could not agree more. -INFJ. I didn’t even think about it long enough to grasp the meaning, it just read so well...
"im quite lazy"
I just hate it when ppl fake being INTPs like that.
I’m lazy and I’m an INTJ lol
and i haaaaaaate when people think about intps like that. they're not lazy, they just don't realise that they're expected to do more in real life and are usually exhausted cz of their continous in depth thinking that comes out as ignoring you while talking or laziness, especially the less balanced ones.
ask an intp to help you with a problem and while you're out thinking they're ignoring you or didn't respond to you, they're honestly working on it in their heads and will come up with solutions whenever they find them. intps are keepers but tricky from my personal experience.
Identifying as a type that isn't your own is wrong because it causes misinformation and is detrimental to figuring out how to navigate your life. Which includes relationships and everything else
I'm a stable genius. I have a good brain. I'm INTJ
When you went black and white, I loled. It was like you were reading a reddit MBTI transcript.
😏😊
"I loled" why does that sound so weird when i read it out loud?
If somebody you are talking to works it into their conversation that they are an intellectual and very logical. Just slap em . Give them that back hand lol
Lmao 😂 😂😂 this deserves a sketch
I'm like a kite...I'm over everyone's head with only a thin string of sanity keeping me grounded...I know another kite when I see one...
Kites are good people
I really love this. Super fits my crazy mood today.
Thank you for your content!
I used to be very interested in MBTI initially, but then I stopped trying to get into it because of the community. Even some popular MBTI CZcamsrs are often too rigid about their affirmations, which leads to lots of confusion and biases. I used to dismiss being a certain type, because people would just yell that "an (insert type) would never (insert action)". I agree that some things might be unnatural for certain types to do, but saying that they're totally incapable of doing that is absurd. I still have no idea what type I am, but I don't care too much. I think it's better to learn something from all the types instead of strictly focusing on your own.
Thank you for bringing me back into MBTI. I'm glad to see people who try to bring understanding and avoid labeling.
Totally agree 👍👍patterns that lead to certain behaviour tell the whole story. That peacocking style is a total giveaway that someone is pretending to be a type they're not 🤔
I don't see how someone could be so bothered about what people think of them. MBTI really is just a tool to be used, best if one knows how to use it. I think the most important element in using it is to know Your type to understand yourself better, potentially improve and empower yourself by gaining an understanding about Your cognitive functions, their interplay and how to use your strengths and know your weaknesses.
When I found out my type I was very skeptical, thinking "this 2% thing is kind of cool, but what if I was just mistyped and my ego is in play here?" had to make sure. My primary thought was how can I use mbti to better myself?.... fast forward learning most of what was nescessary and what an impact it has had.
Yes, it's simply a monkey wrench in our toolbox of life. :)
Thank you! This is so true; I don't know many people who like mbti, but this goes for all areas of life, I think. I see this with people who say they are "empaths" online a lot; a lot of them, when the time comes to actually act like an empathic person, they kinda end up being pretty self righteous and judgemental instead. It's good to talk about oneself and what one does to kinda organize the idea for self-knowledge and understanding better, but it's best to base those ideas off actions and what has actually been done and how; that way it's easier to make life better and easier but for some, self-acceptance is the most important step to be able begin that journey
Yes ^ this Nina 💯
THIS 👏👏👏
black and white Lijo = 😂. Also, cool use of that effect.
Delynn 😂🙌🏻. I feel like you're someone I know in real life. I know that I don't actually know you. But I feel like I do. You know?
@@InternetLiJo this resonates 😎😊
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.
i say that ALL THE TIME.
SURE, anyone can SAY that theyre one thing/type or another but; in their day to day life, DO THEY ACT IN THAT MANNER WITH CONSISTENCY???????
THAT IS THE WAY TO REALLY TELL,
ABSOLUTELY.
FOR SURE.
...I Agree...👍
I don't take people's framing on -anything- they ever say about themselves, not because they're consciously deceptive, but because people are ridiculously ignorant and self-deceptive.
@@Gsscvgggfdertfffhhjiuytdsss do you see a /bold option when typing a message???
neither do i. sooo, CAPS IT IS, then. :o :o :o
Imagine having consistency in your day to day life.
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@@AlexBermann I think we'd be called consistently inconsistent, but don't tell us I said that.
This ESFP wants people to perceive me as a hybrid with INTJ added. I did succeed a bit, but your inputs are greatly appreciated.
Aw yes!
This is it, I won't lie here, I fancy about other types but I'll be realistic. We can all try to be another type by working on a specific function but we can never do it as naturally as the saviours. So don't fake it.
Toxic mistyped INTJs are the worst.
This was immensly helpful. I've been trying to figure out my own type for quite some time. Ever since I stumbled upon the "oh so famous" site; 16personalities. Its been hard trying to get rid of all the crap accumulated by that, personal biases created by memes and actually trying to learn about the functions. Still got way to go, but this has been helpful. Thank you.
Keep at it and let me know what you discover!
This is a good idea. Although, from what I've been noticing, this kind of thing doesn't seem to happen a lot with Ixxp types. I think one of the easiest ways to tell what type you are and aren't, is when you're a friend or you know someone of the type you suspect yourself to be. Let me tell you, I've had a lot of typings confirmed for me that I wasn't through this method. I thought I was an ESFP once, but once I found a friend who actually was an ESFP type, I was like.. "Nope, that's not me at all!" To this day, the most I'm confident on is being on the Ti-Fe axis.
Interesting stuff. I am an ENTJ and have never seen the effectiveness in trying to be something else when i should just develop my CoPilot and grow
Personally, I remember when I was mistyping between INTJ and INTP because they are both logical and have very similar interests and weaknesses. How I got this around is figuring out whether I have Ne or Ni. I always *prefer* to pick one idea that feels right and I don't feel creative, so Ni. Notice the key word I just said was *preferences*, which is what mbti is all about. Because they are preferences, no one is boxed in with that type, and that's where the shadow functions come to play.
Cool dawg in the background. At first i thought it's a duck.
Wait... so you're trying to tell me my duck is a dog.... HAH!
Excellent video! I fully agree with everything you're saying here and that we don't need to broadcast to the world exactly who we are in order to somehow 'prove' something about ourselves, especially within this community. Unfortunately there are so many people that seem to also be blinded by the stereotypical factors of each type, that we should be fitting into these boxes like some sort of checklist of what is expected - that should then be amplified in online conversations e.t.c. As an INTJ also with a penchant for self growth, (which led me to your channel) not too long ago I recently introduced myself to a specific MBTI community, wrote a little about myself and my type - to be told I must be an ENFP because I wrote at the end of it 'how I hoped the day was treating you all well', had a couple of different interests and worked in an artistic field instead of something deemed more appropriate to what an INTJ would do.
Don't feel like you need to conform or amplify this stereotypical view of your type guys, especially when trying to improve on areas of yourself that aren't deemed the norm for your type to do.
Like another comment mentioned, actions do speak louder than words! Let that speak for itself. Just do you
But why though? What benefit is there of pretending to be a different type than you are? I don't understand.
It's just like anything relating to identity - some people perceive other people as being a higher value for X reason, therefore they will act in accordance to increase what they deem to be their own value. ahhh subjectivity!
Great video! Also, I really liked your use of the black and white filter 🤣. Your peacocking examples made me laugh 😅. You’re a great teacher!
Thank you Sammy!! Helping people understand is the only reason I'm here.
Can you do a video sometime on exercise and health regimen for INTJs? As an INTJ woman that struggles with weight/nutrition a lot, but love the idea of being able to do things like Buti yoga, I'd be curious what healthy INTJs are attracted to for diet and exercise.
I could do that! It took me into my mid 20's to develop a system that works and to be honest sometimes it's still a struggle but I'm far better than I was.
Those that 'walk the walk' have no need or desire to prove themselves by 'talking the talk'.
Best not to be a barking duck....embrace your 'ducky-ness' instead. ha!
Hahah you gotta waddle the waddle!
One hyper obvious way to reveal your true self is under big stress. It is so funny to see how naturally your're closing the gap with the stereotypes of your MBTI.
Under pressure personnality types start to looks like memes ... Lol
I agree, the stress moments, and my past negatives experiences/issues, are the things which helped me the most to be sure of my type. And knowing the weaknesses of my family members help me the most to know their type. The stress/weakness are for me the best indicator to be sure.
I can’t stand people who try and fake a type. It’s so frustrating when you push loads of evidence to the contrary their way and they close their eyes and deny. One of my least favorite things about the community. I don’t think having a you do you approach is the best way to go about it, I think these people need to be called out. It’s damaging to the reputation of typology and it’s damaging to the reliability and makes it harder to see how accurate certain methods are.
Honestly i dont even understand why people would fake being a type
I struggle to follow your videos and have to watch them twice cause you're so damn pretty. On a serious note, I don't think most people are truly honest with themselves. Being honest with yourself really opens your eyes to the kind of person you are.
Holy shit, the second the video transitioned to B&W, Lindsey destroyed all of the fake INTJs like a fucking Terex Titan
Lol oops 😉🤷🏼♀️
My type is super clear and obvious to anyone GRLM.
🎶🌌💖Merry Christmas Mamma Lindsay💖🌌🎶
GRLM is the only real type. 💗
love the black and white monologues!
Eeeeeee! Cute pup video bomb! ❤️
He's such a QT!
Be what I say and say what I am...it is the most efficient way to be. Also tell the truth. You don't have to remember the lies...even more efficient.
If someone else does not agree with it...
Tough or can explain...
If the explanation is accepted, ok..if not it was wasted time. 😊
Yeah acting is hard. I understand why they get paid so much lol
@@InternetLiJo ....I can still say I am method actor and get cast....😊
You see Lindsey, I've taken the online test... 🦄
Hahahah 🖤🖤🖤 Dackson you couldn’t convince me that you are anything other than my own kind.
Clutter really is chaos in my life. I have to organize my clothes according to season. My jeans have to be together. My dress pants have to be together on a diferent shelf. I organize my makeup, dvds, and cds. I plan when I walk my dog. I go nuts when I go off schedule - except when it is time to have fun. I am future thinking all the time. I get very anxious about things sometimes. I am truly highly sensitive. I love kids. I love animals but barking and meowing gets under my skin when it goes on too long. I love hugs and helping those who truly need my help. I am always wanting justice. What personality type am I?
I’m so turned around and backwards! I’m confused and have become obsessed in trying to figure out my type. I truly believe that once we can see ourselves clearly we can work on ourselves in a deep and meaningful way. I’m at the point of thinking I fit nowhere, or that I’m so delusional that I’m looking right at it and can’t see it!
When I ask others, but I notice they give answers based on what they struggle with and see in me. They aren’t organized and think I am. They are super friendly and outgoing so see me as introverted.
When I look at myself I only see contradictions. I want a plan, but loosely, so I have a direction and a place to point. I don’t want to give up options. I like routines, but get bored fast when everyday is the same. I don’t care to be in charge (exhausting!), but I want to be in charge of me (and kinda those I love too). I hate society as a whole, love getting to know people deeply. I love people watching and being out in the world, but please don’t talk to me. I want to go, go, GO, but when sad/hurt/stressed (like a tragicly bad hair colour ) I cry for 2 days and can’t eat. I don’t want to be the center of attention, but I want to be admired for my physical attributes. I would definitely pick being pretty over smart, even though I admire smart more.
Please, do you have tips or examples of seeing our own self more clearly? Am I seeing what I’m proud of? Am I seeing what others wish they were more of? Am I seeing my demons and then thinking it’s one of my saviours?
1. Hands down, you're spot on! :)
2. Trigger warning for some I guess, here's my honest opinion:
If you want to "choose an identity", I recommend the enneagram. Type? Not so much. 😅
LMAO
Information you provide is good, but I can't hang with it too much when I have too great, a many burdens in life.
Information you provide in video's like these are highly relevant to thing's of my life though.
Never mind but your youtube avatar looks like a pop star haha
Lol how so?!
Imagine having the ability to turn off Ni, like wow just imagine that.
I think another good clue is... do they act like special unicorns and bring up the "rarity" of their chosen type, or do they acknowledge the flaws related to that type, attempt to balance their functions and don't make a big fuss out of it ? TBH, except on a few channels where it's relevant I don't bring up my type like some do in dating or social media profiles or usernames, it comes off as pushy and ungenuine sometimes ! I feel like someone trying to pass as an INTJ would be easily spotted, but us INFJs seem to have a great deal of special unicorns that spit out the same platitudes and rant about being misunderstood, and it's hard to know whether they're mistyped or just INFJs that are unbalanced/a pain in the ass LOL.
And also, we all identified with a type based on a test or study of the functions, it's all a choice we've made (unless someone else typed you) and it's rare you get to know someone better than themselves. A lot of people will chime in gently with "oh then you might be XXXX" when someone seems to be mistyped, I think it's beneficial : although the mistyping seems clear sometimes I believe it's important not to be rude about it, value every type with their qualities and flaws generally, so people can feel at ease changing their mind if they got the wrong type from 16p or their misundertanding !
Now I'm curious, I did several personality Tests in different moods and all of them showed that i'm an intj, (rarely entj). I also answerd honestly.
Although I really like the intj type, I feel like a rather chaotic person. For example I would do my Chores only if I really needed to. There is no 'planing' to set my living Space to a perfect condition.
Should I really trust the results of these Tests, and if no, how do I really find out which truly is my Type?
Thanks alot!
Aye - people view it more of a horoscope than cognitive functions. It's the core mental processes and not really the personality itself.
Thats awesome, now i know that doing my obsessive plans is normal.
INFP here with MO I'm not here to convince anybody of anything. I admire your use of typology for personal growth which means focusing on inferior functions, which is what we are not (mostly). On topic, we can work those functions without talking about them. As INFP I value authenticity and the inauthentic screams out at me. You must get that a lot because of your exposure. I don't travel in the mbti community at all and don't see it. To me it's not a thing. From what you have said you have recently come to typology (a few years), more credit to you for being able to cut to the chase and clarify topics that others just blather on. Thank you.
Thanks so much Bill. I’m honored you’ve chosen my channel for your typology insight.
Pretty logical things you just told me :p
Gosh darn it I gave away my position! 😉
@@InternetLiJo 🙃, cool that u make time to interact with your fans 🙏🏼
this is great. the skits sounded like peacocking :p objective personality’s videos are so good for smacking some sense into you regarding typing yourself, lol.
That’s why I love them lol
Ok... I think LiJo is officially my female alter ego...
It really grinds my gears when people try to talk up to me like this.. please dont try and impress me with the same stories you use over and over again and think I dont remember; give me a genuine moment.. an original thought or observation, a human truth.. only then will I decide to trust ur rationale/logic
People are the sum of what they do, not what they say.
Ni + Te = planning the future
Ni + Ti = predicting the future
(Just playing around with the interpretations here)
There are those who fall in love, marry and transform into a stereotype, and then I still second guess myself and test it from time to time...
I'm new here, and I'm still viewing older videos so I apologize if it was already discussed. There's a way to see this but with Ni? I'm guessing is harder to catch than Te, but my struggle always was to see which was the dominant, and I've watched that for some people N, especially Ni, seems a little sneaky 🤔
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Hello! I have a video specifically on Ni: czcams.com/video/W8_sU65PdKk/video.html
Interesting perspective
Lol I must look like I peacock a lot bc of this but is it the same if I speak of these things only when it relates to what’s asked. 🤷🏻♀️ I don’t just talk about it without its correlation to the topic. Aside from that-no mention. My results must show for themselves otherwise though because when I ask others for their opinions or views of my patterns and behaviors, they end up reiterating of me exactly what I already perceived of myself. Which I assume I’m only aware of to that level of reality bc of how much self reflection I do for improvement or being able to be functionally moving towards my goals. But that all said and clarified- so would that be the same?
Haha well when it relates to a question that's asked I would say that is very Te logical. I think there is a big difference in explaining something to someone so they understand (teaching) about yourself, vs a peacock state. A peacock state you are trying to gain status, teaching is promoting an understanding.
well, just like any claim, it needs to be backed by evidence.
What if I wanted to book time for an intj with you, just to see how two INTJs interact? Would this be unethical? I’m not entirely kidding. I would, of course, clear this, well in advance with the other Intj. But this is the strongest attribute in my opinion, of your kind, you guys do not have a fake bone in your body.
That's absolutely fine :)
Ah yes, the great dilemma of typing yourself and using it for an identity. I will admit, at first ( 3 or 4 years ago) when I started my MBTI journey, I fell into the trap of the stereotypes. While I was in fact typed correctly, I doubted my type because I didn't always fit into the stereotype of the "cold, logical, mastermind INTJ" and didn't always relate to other people claiming to be INTJs. Plus the internet is filled with truthful people right? It wasn't until I found OP that I really understood the world of typology. Show vs tell will expose the peacockers...
Yes!! Wait Christal did I know you were in the OP class? Lol why do I feel like I’m
Just now learning this?
@@InternetLiJo I was for a little while (about 3 months) until I became a broke college student... as of now I just follow their youtube videos and listen to your lovely insights :) my 512 type is MM Ni/Te BS/C(P)
I make it a point to *not make* idle promises, and to do what I said I was gonna do. But beware, people will try to take advantage of you if you are too reliable.
Oh for sure. If you do your job well you'll get stuck with everyone else's jobs as well lol
I have been told to make a list. Why I remember to look at it?
Yes.
I’m just trying to figure out why I test INTJ but feel like I’m missing key characteristics like organization (granted I have an outline of future plans, but it’s not detailed). I definitely an an IN, but not sure what the last two letters are. Unfortunately, I’m a Psych major so I know better than to trust my own mind.
Do you think most people are just too stupid? Then you're INT. Do you think nobody understands you, sad? You're INF. This is coming from INFJ btw
Whoever fake a type? Like mbti is niche to the general public and nobody goes around screaming their type??
I would think, that in order to fool another person...you first need to fool yourself.
If you don't believe it...why would anyone else.
But why would you want to fool yourself...knowingly! Nevermind all the times that you don't know that you fool yourself?!
I thought the reason to learn about mbti is to form a better understanding of oneself and others...
...I wasn't aware certain types win and others get to wash the dishes.
Would most people say they do their demon function well, but In reality they dont?
I would say most people subconsciously see the lack in their demon function and how that manifests in their attention to it is up to how objective they are.
what is your actual job / profession?
I have a director role at a health institute and am a CEO and co-founder of a startup software company. I’m currently transitioning to more full time role in the latter.
@@InternetLiJo dude, that's badass :0
@@InternetLiJo which college did you finish?
QuantumSludge went to PBAU on an academic scholarship, graduated with honors.
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But I swear I'm creative and love to break the rules, I swear..................
I thought you were gonna explain how to track patterns in personality types. I am a bit disappointed.
Honestly, if you like your type, you're probably not it 😅.
Hey Lindsay, will you be my friend?
I thought I was your friend Alex! So yes.
@@InternetLiJo Yes! Another INTJ for my collection 😎
Will you astral projection-flix n chill with my spirit 😘mamma Lindsay😘?
Hahahah
Yay! Does that mean I can be kept in a little jar? Away from the humans?
Just assume they are. They are talking about it, correct? Just for the hell of it? They need it too much. A CZcams channel about the subject is quite different, in my mind. You aren’t trying to seem genuine, you are.
Ego or emo, fake intjs are creepy
Omg the black and white examples are cringe af lol