New Leash for 7-Year-Old Autistic Boy Brings Freedom?

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
  • Ezra has Autism, and he's trying out his new toddler leash.
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Komentáře • 226

  • @tamaraanderson7260
    @tamaraanderson7260 Před rokem +21

    I think the leash is great, especially for Ezra. He needs that protection. He sure loves being outside and on a walk!

  • @jerryberry8967
    @jerryberry8967 Před rokem +30

    I honestly believe there’s a stigma around children and harnesses/leashes because it mirrors how dogs are walked. The bottom line is it promotes safety for children which people tend to forget, so I’m all for it

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you! Agreed!

    • @Goldenbudgetsavings2
      @Goldenbudgetsavings2 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ⁠@@7Aheadfamily is Simon and underwear now how about Ezra?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 11 měsíci

      Yes they are. Getting closer to being potty trained. 😊

    • @Goldenbudgetsavings2
      @Goldenbudgetsavings2 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@7AheadfamilyThat is great how are they doing how is Simon, liking his new bed?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 11 měsíci

      They are loving them, thankfully. 😊

  • @KimberlysWorld24
    @KimberlysWorld24 Před rokem +5

    I tend not to use a leash on my son I usually have him in a wagon though! He hates the leashes since he was like 1 years old. But I find it absolutely okay for parents to use them as long as the kid is okay with it and Ezra seems perfectly fine. ❤😊

  • @davinacaine3615
    @davinacaine3615 Před rokem +7

    Big thumbs up for “reins” from me here in the UK. I worked in childcare for 26 year and use the all the time with the children I looked after as well as my own. In fact I remember my mum using them on me

  • @queenthelma3710
    @queenthelma3710 Před rokem +6

    You can see Ezra feels more secure.
    He's like yay !!! Time to explore .
    That's awesome 🎉 Mom and Dad . Happy for the family !!!!! ❤
    I got one for my boy. He is a lot like Ezra. My boy will soon be 3 .I definitely can't let him out the stroller without a leash, because he doesn't speak... As any child, he is curious and drawn to anything.. he slowly starts to drift away from me 💔
    The leash is a must !!!!!!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you! Sounds like we have a lot in common then. :)

  • @Dee-Hendricks
    @Dee-Hendricks Před rokem +6

    I took my kiddo(nonverbalAsd) out to chic fil a yesterday. It was just him and I. He got up an ran. That hadn’t happened before - it totally took me off guard! He did it twice and then I was like, yep time to go. Lol ….So a million times yes to the kiddo leash. People can look and judge all they want. Walk a mile in our shoes!!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      So True!!! Thanks for sharing!!!
      ❤️
      ❤️

  • @emilygenerallee9071
    @emilygenerallee9071 Před rokem +6

    Leashes for youngsters plus with intellectual challenges can keep a child safe from any danger. 🙌🏻

  • @jackjones1915
    @jackjones1915 Před rokem +3

    Nice job with the kids guys. I like this calm aproach. I do this also. We just have to be calm, and firm. Love them more than anything, and give them all the help we can.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Well said! thanks for watching and commenting ❤️

  • @kalegolas
    @kalegolas Před rokem +4

    Ezra seems to be a very strong (and creative) boy who brakes both those and safteybeds. Hope this new works well and that he can use this talents to other things :)

  • @angr3819
    @angr3819 Před rokem +2

    I am an elderly lady in England. We didn't have leashes when I was young, but reins were standard for toddlers when out. I used to swing on mine until my mother told me I was getting too heavy to do that, and to walk. Hahaha.
    There was hardly any traffic then, either.
    I had my eldest in the mid 70's. He definitely needed reins up until he was almost 4 years old. On the border between over and hyperactive. He lacked a sense of danger. He used to swing on his, too. Roads were far more busy by then.
    My next two didn't need them at all. They would both hold my hand and if I needed to tele out my purse, I could say to hold on to the pushchair or my skirt and they would. I still had reins out away though, just in case either of them went through a phase of being overly lively when out, but they never did - except in parks and places where they were allowed to run about freely (most days even when cold, unless it was raining).
    Of course it isn't treating them like a dog. I don't know why some silly people think that. It's more worrying when I see small children running far ahead or a long way behind their mothers, who are often too busy chatting to each other to even notice.
    We do what we need to do so they will be safe, regardless of whether or not they have autism or are hyper, and anyone who doesn't is plain irresponsible, tbh.
    Children and young people need an outlet for their energy or they go a bit bananas, but anywhere not totally safe then reins if necessary.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Agreed! Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️.

  • @amandakamar252
    @amandakamar252 Před rokem +3

    I love the video of Ezra when you guys were on vacation and he threw his shoe over of the edge of the river. Hilarious!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Right. ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks❤️❤️❤️

    • @amandakamar252
      @amandakamar252 Před 19 dny +1

      The harness is for his safety. Autistic kids have been found drowned because they are attracted to water I'm not but I am higher functioning ignore what people say to you about leashes.

  • @MichaelOliver-ry7fj
    @MichaelOliver-ry7fj Před rokem +3

    WOW! Ezra looks so good! healthy, happy, his new highly fashionable haircut by Mom (?) . Both he and Simon a true joy eh?!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Thank you, yes, true joy. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sarahbarton4100
    @sarahbarton4100 Před rokem +4

    Absolutely YES! Remember wearing them myself and feeling safe, as my parent couldn't get away from me. 😂😂😂

  • @linneafristoe3277
    @linneafristoe3277 Před rokem +2

    An absolute yes! I struggle with a chronic illness and pain. I used it with my two girls and my 3 grandsons. With the first, Mama was upset until she saw it in action. She was sold on it!

  • @missnazstylee
    @missnazstylee Před rokem +3

    Thanks so much for this video ! The child’s safety and peace of mind for the parents is soooo worth it ! I should get one for my son also He has sooo many similarities to Ezra …it’s so nice to watch your videos and relate to you Thanks for being so open and honest and sharing your life with all of us ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉I appreciate you more than you can ever know 🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much! ❤️ so glad you found our channel! And thank you for sharing!

    • @missnazstylee
      @missnazstylee Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamilysure ! 😊 I’m so glad I found your channel too ❤😊🎉

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nattyznook
    @nattyznook Před rokem +6

    Stigmas are dumb. I’ve never heard anyone putting their kid on a leash to just put their kid on a leash. It is always for safety if someone has a problem with another trying to keep their kid safe they’re the problem not the parent that has their child on a leash.

  • @TentoesMe
    @TentoesMe Před rokem +2

    I agree with Simon! I hate getting sprinkled, sprayed, splashed... OK if the water is down there and I will get it on me.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yes, Ezra has a hard time with any water on him. That is why we lost him for a bit at his Autism Preschool reunion, I think someone sprayed him, he got upset and he ran away from us.

  • @jessicabundangkat3152
    @jessicabundangkat3152 Před rokem +2

    I think it’s fine I can see Ezra knows that he has a hard time staying close so he knows the leash will give him freedom to be outside. He seems to feel safer with it and happy when you put it on

  • @Healthy-sy3ty
    @Healthy-sy3ty Před rokem +2

    Erzas safety is important so pro leach for him. I actually bought a leach for my son but didn’t use it because we practiced a lot and now he holds our hands. My inlaws watch him every week but are scared to go to the playground. Because they can’t run. I believe if you stay close to my son(who is a lot like Simon) you can learn them to don’t run into the street and hold your hands. Ezra is going to learn this too but he needs more time and that’s ok too. ❤❤❤

  • @user-eg8ht4im6x
    @user-eg8ht4im6x Před rokem +3

    Thank you for a lovely video, what amazing scenery where you where walking! The use of a leash or reins as we call them in the uk is essential for a toddler or older child who needs them. I think you are very wise to use them for Ezra, he clearly feels safe and connected to you, without having to have his hand held. It’s a fantastic way to give him the freedom to walk independent yet keep him safe from harm. He clearly enjoys the out door! Simon is coming on so much with his speech.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you, yes, we are very excited about Simmons’s progress. 😊

  • @darkchipz3016
    @darkchipz3016 Před rokem +2

    The leash is great, especially for kids, it seems like Ezra loves the leash!

  • @emptynester7985
    @emptynester7985 Před rokem +2

    My family used harness/leashes for four generations.

  • @cherylmillard2067
    @cherylmillard2067 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Have you thought about modifying a dog harness for the use here, they are built for dogs who pull hard, etc, many have padding, neoprene, etc., a shoe repair person could help you make needed refinements. Also, they have an ex-large Flexi retractable lead available now that has a tape instead of a thin rope making it more visible. As you can tell I work and train dogs, as in both our cases it's all about their safety.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 11 měsíci

      That’s awesome! Yeah, we will have to look into that. This leash works really well, but the retractable lead thing sounds awesome. Thank you for sharing!

  • @TentoesMe
    @TentoesMe Před rokem +5

    I think the worst thing about the leash is the people who would complain, "Why do you have that child on a leash?"

    • @Kenziescreativecorner9
      @Kenziescreativecorner9 Před rokem +3

      @TentoesMe Yes so true people will say that but the leash is so cute tho. And It helps Autistic kids a lot with the leash

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      ❤️❤️❤️ Yeah, you just have to have thick skin. :)

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +2

      I would reply "Because he bites strangers!" 😁

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      🤣 love that. 😊

  • @IzzyS94
    @IzzyS94 Před rokem +4

    I agree that the leash does give Ezra freedom. The leashes keeps the children safe. I am glad the leash keeps Ezra and Simon safe. ❤

  • @kerriecarr6819
    @kerriecarr6819 Před rokem +1

    The leash is a life saver. My grandson hasn’t been diagnosed yet.My grandson runs his legs can’t move fast enough. He would run right out onto the road. He doesn’t stop for anything you can call him and he doesn’t stop. I bought him the kind that’s like a bracelet he won’t wear it.Hopefully I will fined something that will work.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Sounds like we have a lot in common. ❤️❤️❤️ Yeah, finding a good leash has been a challenge, but this one does work better than anything we have ever had... MyBiggerHarness.Etsy.com and then we like this to get some extra length... amzn.to/3svUVGL

  • @Ww-nh9pl
    @Ww-nh9pl Před 4 měsíci

    Love your videos! Years ago while on a cruise there was a mother there who had her toddler on a toddler leash, she entered the elevator and my brother-in-law was so offended by the toddler leash that he refused to even ride the same elevator as this woman and her child. It was beyond embarrassing, my heart broke for that woman, I still think of her today. He waited for the next one all because of this leash. Ironically he’d go on to have a child on the spectrum who also sprints away anywhere and everywhere they go. I haven’t brought it up to him but always wonder if he regrets the choice of judging and embarrassing that woman on the cruise years ago.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you for sharing and watching❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před 5 měsíci

    It’s good that Simon knows to put his arms up when he wants to be picked up. If he were level two (like I was growing up) then this development might have occurred later (e.g. after his fourth birthday (like it did with me and with some other kids I have seen who are level two)).

  • @monpayscanada
    @monpayscanada Před 11 měsíci +1

    I used leashes for my non autistic kids, in parades, crowded fairs, even busy department stores. Until they learned to stay close in crowds, it was the leash. It was fine.

  • @littlejonathorn6860
    @littlejonathorn6860 Před rokem +2

    Love Ezra’s new leash setup

  • @bunglejoy3645
    @bunglejoy3645 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I think for ezra a harn3ss is so important becausecif he got split up from you he couldnt say who he was where he lived and its a sad world were in theres always dodgey people about who would harm kids same eith simon❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 11 měsíci

      Yeah. I agree. Thank you for sharing! ❤️❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před 5 měsíci

    Simon’s toddler leash could be useful for him if you go to a crowded city like Boston, Massachusetts or New York City (or probably any crowded city with a lot of traffic).
    If you go with him to any city you will probably want to pack it in your luggage just in case.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 5 měsíci +1

      That is some helpful information! Thank you!❤️❤️❤️

  • @lilmissdeee4427
    @lilmissdeee4427 Před rokem +1

    Ezra is so much like my son who has non verbal autism . I have the reins back pack just now but definitely need an upgrade xx

  • @galileasalamanca3129
    @galileasalamanca3129 Před rokem +2

    Awww Ezra tiene mucha energía, Simon si se canso un poco más , hace mucho calor , Holli una pregunta donde compras los tenis de Ezra me gustaría unos para mi niño, gracias ❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      You Bet! Thanks for watching. Yeah, I just got these online. We like the ones with higher tops for Ezra as he doesn't try to take them off as much... amzn.to/3qVEuDj

    • @galileasalamanca3129
      @galileasalamanca3129 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily Thanks

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @jaidengames26
    @jaidengames26 Před rokem +2

    I only worry that Ezra could get tangled up in the leash or that the adjusting buckles could hurt.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yeah, we are really careful. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Taurus1016
    @Taurus1016 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yes to Leash for kids

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před 5 měsíci

    Seeing Simon on the swing reminds me that when I was around Simon’s current age my parents showed me how to use my legs so I could swing without having to be pushed.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you for commenting!💜💜💜 Do you like to swing?

    • @thomasschoeck9080
      @thomasschoeck9080 Před 5 měsíci

      @@7Aheadfamily I did when I was younger but at my age I can’t really see myself doing this in public. Even being level one currently it’s still too embarrassing.
      On a related note one common myth about autism is that people on the spectrum don’t get embarrassed.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 5 měsíci +1

      That is very interesting, thank you for sharing!🩵🩵🩵

  • @nathanfortier7478
    @nathanfortier7478 Před rokem +2

    I think the leash is great for any child with a disability that affects their ability walk with their family safely. Different disabilities mean different struggles but, if that leash is need to ensure a child's safety, then that leash is just as important as the air we breath in for that child. I'd much rather see a child with a leash then see a child getting lost/kidnapped because they eloped or getting run over by a car because they don't have a good danger awareness feeling (don't know how to say since I also don't have it so, I'm trying to describe something that neurotypicals are supposed to feel whilst being autistic and not feeling it myself)

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Agreed, thanks Nathan!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shyannekintano9576
    @shyannekintano9576 Před rokem +1

    Wow! I need this for my 4 year old boy. Currently we limit going out but thankfully we have a big yard area we made outside to go outside everyday. Anyway when we do go on outings we use a stroller that he is obviously too big for and I recently experienced rude stairs and comments from a couple of kids .. age’s probably around 6,8,& 10. “ look at the kid , he’s a baby! He’s to big!” Etc…. I didn’t see a grown up around, I just walked away but it was hard for me to experience. My son needs to be in a stroller when we’re out, but now I will try a leash , he wears weighted vest , and leash will allow him to walk more 😊

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing. It hurts when people don’t understand and comment. That has happened to us. We get some stares when we use this leash. But oh well. People just don’t understand the situation.

    • @shyannekintano9576
      @shyannekintano9576 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily i really appreciate your posts and sharing your beautiful family on CZcams. I can relate to a lot of your videos. *big hugs to you* keep up the good job Super Mom!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @selcen2237
    @selcen2237 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I am an occupational therapist in Turkey. I see toddler leash on social media and families use it. It is a safe method, especially for children who have difficulty holding hands. unfortunately it is not used in my country. It is likened to a dog collar. What are the reactions from outside to you? Is it widely used?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 10 měsíci

      Great question. Toddler leashes are not usually used, but when someone uses them, it is not usually looked down on. Most of the time people understand that the child has a special need and the parent just wants to help them be safe. We have received more compliments than negative reactions form people, as we used it in the US.

  • @lexi_2021
    @lexi_2021 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Leash on a child seems a bit binding but then it's for his own safety.

  • @freedomfighter2668
    @freedomfighter2668 Před rokem +3

    absolutely pro child leash, there was a 9 year old that fell to her death hiking in our state park had she been on a leash its possible she still be alive. in the end how is a child harness any different then a life jacket, a life jacket is essentially a harness. society should normalize child harnesses in the same way.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for that insight. I love that thought process. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +1

      I have never known a child older than maybe coming up to age 4 west a harness or leash. I don't know if they even make them th a size. If they do, I very much doubt a 9 year old would wear one. They would keep removing it and acting up.
      Sad about the little girl who fell to her death. A leash or harness might have torn with her weight though, even if they were made large enough.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Yeah, this guy will custom make a lease at any size. You’re right it depends on the kid if they will want to wear it. Ezra loves to wear his though. 😊

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      MyBiggerHarness.Etsy.com

    • @freedomfighter2668
      @freedomfighter2668 Před rokem +1

      @@angr3819 I have used harnesses with 9-year-olds with no problem, at times the child might be upset about being on a harness or a wrist strap, but explaining the reason why and allowing their participation to up to them helps a lot.

  • @carlachenault2853
    @carlachenault2853 Před rokem +1

    We just got a paw patrol backpack with a leash for safety. My son is level 1 autism, but seems to be struggling with the concept of not running off and we have had a couple of scary moments with him and cars. I'm just struggling to actually use it if we go to a store, cause we're in Alabama and most people disapprove.
    Thankfully he rode just fine in the buggy today, but most of the time he wants me to carry him or walk.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yeah, our hope is that with videos like this maybe people will be more understanding. ❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing.

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před měsícem

    It looks like Simon might be just starting to learn the meaning of words like “yours” and “mine” here.
    I think I started learning about that at age five-and-a-half in preschool. Given that I was level two back then and Simon is level one that’s probably just about par for the course but I have yet to see any specific figures on this.
    By the way, on the subject of working on coordination and patience you might try taking Simon to a miniature golf course in your area at some point if your area has any. If his coordination is like mine he won’t become a professional golfer but he might enjoy it anyway (at least in the next couple of years) as long as things don’t get too competitive.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před měsícem +1

      Simon might enjoy golfing, thanks for sharing!💜💜

    • @thomasschoeck9080
      @thomasschoeck9080 Před měsícem

      @@7Aheadfamily By grade school he might also enjoy tennis. Some of the only things that I was usually fairly good at in gym class were bowling, golf, and tennis.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před měsícem +1

      Thanks for sharing! He might!💚💜

  • @CB-hz7gl
    @CB-hz7gl Před rokem +1

    Here in Germany we can not buy a leash in a store. I found no leash in Internet. My question is: Where do you buy a leash for Ezra?
    I Germany I never see a toddler or Kid with a leash. There are stroller for toddler.
    The german word for leash is Leine. (Translation for leash in german)
    The leash gives Ezra freedom and give you safety as parents. The leash is good for toddler and kids with disabilities but not for healthy toddler and kids. This is my opinion.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Thank you for sharing ❤️. Here is where you can get the lease that we have…Our new custom leash - MyBiggerHarness.Etsy.com
      Retractable end - amzn.to/3svUVGL

  • @ghostbusters_winz9948
    @ghostbusters_winz9948 Před 3 měsíci

    I have this harness and i love it it is for my Safety i have Autism and ADHD

  • @bunglejoy3645
    @bunglejoy3645 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Maybe ezrie could break up cardboard for recycling with your help if he likes breaking things just a thought

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 11 měsíci

      That’s a good idea. We’ll have to try it sometime.

  • @Tor_nado_89
    @Tor_nado_89 Před rokem +2

    I understand having the leash for the walk. But how come you don't take it off when you get to the park? Is it not fenced in?

  • @nathanjw940
    @nathanjw940 Před rokem +1

    I still struggle with spacing it's affected my parking if it's even slightly tight I will pass it up. I think that's why many autistic kids that can be an issue is they don't realize that they have gone from the sidewalk into the street which seems further away.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Very True!❤️❤️❤️

    • @nathanjw940
      @nathanjw940 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily it's the reason I got a handicap parking pass. I need the extra space so if I park too close to the line I won't affect others and because I have had issues finding my car in a large parking lot so I would park in the very back which doesn't seem right because I have a disability it's literally a joke that everything is around the corner when I park because finding my car is more important than being close until now

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      That is awesome! Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @angr3819
    @angr3819 Před rokem

    Q "Why have you put your poor child on a lead like a dog?!".
    A "Because he bites strangers if they get too near. He learned it from watching me", with a wicked grin 😁.

  • @ghostbusters_winz9948
    @ghostbusters_winz9948 Před 2 měsíci +1

    How do you adjust this harness correctly?

  • @ericlee6495
    @ericlee6495 Před rokem +1

    Hey 👋 7 ahead family your kids are so cute 🥰 😊❤

  • @LifeWithShawn2024
    @LifeWithShawn2024 Před rokem +1

    7 Ahead - What was your high school experience like was there any severe mental health struggles if so please give me honest advice when dealing with toxic friends & social environments ?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yeah, people can be so mean in high school, sorry you have been struggling with that. I would reach out to a teacher or councilor who you feel can help. It is important to build a team of people that can support and help you through the struggles. Try and be the one to help others as well and that always helps. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @LifeWithShawn2024
      @LifeWithShawn2024 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily yeah , glad it’s my junior year but being zoned for a high school in Memphis Tennessee sucks to the extreme

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před 5 měsíci

    I think Simon was afraid of falling when he was on his father’s shoulders.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Agreed.💜💜 I think he wanted to stay on the ground instead❤️❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před 5 měsíci

    If Simon continues to say his “rs” like this he might need to eventually work on it with his speech therapist. You might want to ask his speech therapist about this.
    I never worked on this with a speech therapist when I was growing up and I still say my “rs” wrong in my late 40s. Because of this some people (even some of my doctors) think that my IQ is around 70 or 80 instead of the actual number that is more like 120 or even 125.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thank you for sharing and commenting💕💕

  • @robertpotenchin6628
    @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem

    Ti se rupe sufletul de privirea lui

  • @ligespiegel4966
    @ligespiegel4966 Před 5 měsíci

    Yes for Eza because he has a disability but other then health/medical conditions I don't think one should be used all the time yet occasionally on a child under 7 I can agree on. I'm by no means a parent but just stating my opinion on the topic.

  • @nathanjw940
    @nathanjw940 Před rokem +2

    Simon is talking a lot. As you see him growing it has to be encouraging that he may not need as much help later in life.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yes! We are super excited about his progress!!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @nathanjw940
      @nathanjw940 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily me too I hope when he's older that he sees some of my comments and he feels like he's got others he can ask questions and doesn't feel alone

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yes! That will be awesome ❤️

  • @catiehays3361
    @catiehays3361 Před rokem +1

    Isn't it 2 hot 4 pants & long sleeves on the kids??

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yes, we had that discussion, but cut it out of the video. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před měsícem +1

    Is Simon still interested in making movies?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před měsícem +1

      Yes he loves it!

    • @thomasschoeck9080
      @thomasschoeck9080 Před měsícem

      @@7Aheadfamily Conor also likes making movies. Do Conor and Simon also get along pretty well?
      I know Conor is a bit older than Alistair so it might go either way when it comes to how Conor and Simon interact.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před měsícem +1

      Connor and Simon get along pretty well together❤

  • @theupsidedowngame9194
    @theupsidedowngame9194 Před rokem +1

    🎉🎉

  • @Aileen53
    @Aileen53 Před rokem +2

    Where did u get his new leash from???

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Right here... MyBiggerHarness.Etsy.com And we use this as well... amzn.to/3svUVGL

    • @Aileen53
      @Aileen53 Před rokem +2

      @@7Aheadfamily thank u !
      I was thinking of saving up for my two brothers with autism!they run really fast!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      That would be a great gift then. 😊

    • @Aileen53
      @Aileen53 Před rokem +2

      @@7Aheadfamily ya he loves the other leash I bought him

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Awesome!

  • @etutonga4051
    @etutonga4051 Před rokem +1

    i live in ur neighborhood red carrr

  • @MzFamous.JamesEverage3465

    Good video

  • @AnnGoslinn
    @AnnGoslinn Před rokem +1

    How do you see the purpose of Ezra s life?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      Well, there are definitely a lot of challenges that come with autism, there are also a lot of blessings. Ezra is by far our happiest child, and isn’t that what everybody really wants? We talk about this a little at the near of this video…
      3 Sensory Autism Mistakes at Great Sand Dunes National Park
      czcams.com/video/mcokJ5fMotE/video.html
      We should do another video on your question though, thank you for the thought!

    • @AnnGoslinn
      @AnnGoslinn Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily Yes, please make a video about your perspective. So many families are struggling to see the purpose of everything they are dealing with.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      Will do, I put that on the list. ❤️

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +1

      To be happy, healthy and loved?
      In fact, I think that is a great goal. A happy, healthy and loved child with autism or other condition will have a better chance than a child without any such problem, but who isn't kept healthy, happy and loved.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      I love that! Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @tamersmusiclol
    @tamersmusiclol Před rokem +2

    nice vid

  • @robertpotenchin6628
    @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem +2

    Trebuie sa reuseasca ,amandoi

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      They will!

    • @robertpotenchin6628
      @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem +1

      Ai inteles?Imi ceri ceva imposibil,strainii infiltrati

    • @robertpotenchin6628
      @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem +1

      De parca nu as putea sa fiu cum nu sunt
      Simplu si la obiect,oboseala pana la colaps,niciodata nu o sa mai fiu la fel.
      Si daca paralizez?
      Nu suntem....nu existam...Serios?!
      Corul catre oamenii invizibili

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      I wouldn’t say it’s impossible.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      I’m not sure I understand. 🤔

  • @Häärijä
    @Häärijä Před rokem +1

    Does Ezra Still have cancer?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      no. He is ok now, thankfully

    • @Häärijä
      @Häärijä Před rokem +1

      ┈┈┈┈┈┈▕▔╲
      ┈┈┈┈┈┈┈▏▕
      ┈┈┈┈┈┈┈▏▕▂▂▂
      ▂▂▂▂▂▂╱┈▕▂▂▂▏
      ▉▉▉▉▉┈┈┈▕▂▂▂▏
      ▉▉▉▉▉┈┈┈▕▂▂▂▏
      ▔▔▔▔▔▔╲▂▕▂▂▂I

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      That’s awesome!

  • @catiehays3361
    @catiehays3361 Před rokem +1

    Oh my & Simon's haircut is just as bad. I'm sorry I'm big on lil boys having a decent haircut so they don't look scruffy. U shouldn't use siccors on there hair, use electric clippers & it will come out so much better..

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      Your hired to come and cut it. ❤️❤️

  • @robertpotenchin6628
    @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem

    Box sport

  • @robertpotenchin6628
    @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem

    Este copil,o sa o faca si intentionat,de gluma si pentru ca asa fac copiii

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      True. but by 7-years-old most children will stay on the sidewalk next to you and don't need a leash to keep them safe

  • @AnnGoslinn
    @AnnGoslinn Před rokem +1

    Did you blaim yourself in any way for Ezra s autism?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Thanks for Asking, we did do a video about that...

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Mother REACTS to "Autism is the Mother’s Fault" CZcams Commenter
      czcams.com/video/T1qHiv7R69U/video.html

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily I think it's very common for parents, especially mothers, to wonder if a difficulty is their fault. Even when it patently is not.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      So true! Also, you might like today’s video on the subject…

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Did Vaccines Cause Ezra and Simon's Autism? Uncovering the Truth
      czcams.com/video/PXVSckLhC4g/video.html

  • @wanya_telborn
    @wanya_telborn Před rokem

    I will always and forever laugh at kids on a leash sorry

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Yeah, if you haven’t been in their shoes, then it’s easy to not understand.

  • @robertpotenchin6628
    @robertpotenchin6628 Před rokem

    Nu vrea...sa fie liber acum

  • @wanya_telborn
    @wanya_telborn Před rokem

    Ok can the kids instead of walking all over everything pick that mess up off the floor
    Also the youngest boy need to learn to USE WORDS not that baby talk

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +2

      The youngest has Autism too and he has been in speech therapy for over a year now. He is doing very well. We are really excited about all he can say and will continue to help him learn and progress in his speech.

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +1

      Unfortunately, medical authorities in the UK stopped clipping the skin under the tongue if it was too long. Before they stopped, my eldest had the op after a long time of speech therapy which hadn't helped. Within a week of the op he was clearly saying words he would never have attempted before. He was aged, not autistic but was over/hyperactive and had difficulty concentrating. I believe due to difficulties and medical neglect during his birth, which led to him needing oxygen.
      I am not saying that the skin under the tongue being too long is a problem for Ezra and Simon. I wouldn't have a clue as I don't know them, but it will be a problem for a lot of children whether or not they have other difficulties. I don't know why the NHS in the UK stopped the op. Probably due to cost cutting.

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +1

      Do you do ever comment anything pleasant and not critical? Maybe it is in your nature to be negative.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for bringing this to our attention! We actually did look into that with Simon and Ezra . That unfortunately is not there issue. 😊

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      Right. 😊

  • @catiehays3361
    @catiehays3361 Před rokem +2

    Plz buzz your boys hair. Look at poor Ezras haircut, like really!!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem +1

      we plan on it. There is actually an event that is happening soon where professionals are going to cut their hair and we'll get video of it. I'm sure it will be a big improvement

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Před rokem +1

      @@7Aheadfamily If they can manage to stay still enough 😊
      Many kids that age and older simply cannot stop fidgeting. Lol.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Yeah it’s a challenge. 😊

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  Před rokem

      Autistic Haircuts | Severe and Mild Autism
      czcams.com/video/9vP8sJfs1lw/video.html
      7 Haircuts in an RV *Time lapse*
      czcams.com/video/6B0pBMqApio/video.html

    • @CrystalCat24
      @CrystalCat24 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Lol I thought the same thing but didn't want to say anything 😅