Early Autism Signs in a 1 year old (with video footage)
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- čas přidán 8. 03. 2022
- ** Re-uploaded from my Instagram account from January 2022. Chandler just turned 2 years old and we are currently doing early intervention services. A lot of friends suggested to upload my video to share onto CZcams as well to help others in a similar situation to us. Both my husband and I watched so many CZcams videos that other families have shared and it honestly helped us so much in terms of identifying some signs early on. I hope this is helpful and will try to update you as we continue to learn on this journey with Chandler. **
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Hi everyone! Sorry the volume of my voice-overs are so low for this video... I was too lazy to actually record with my mic so volume up if you want to hear what I'm saying!
It's been a really busy start to the new year for us since we finally started therapy services for Chandler through CA's Early Start program. We've also gotten an official autism diagnosis now as well for insurance purposes which is a whole other topic of discussion. Anyways, a lot of people have asked me how we even picked up on any signs at such a young age and it was primarily because of what we saw other families share online as well. So like I said in the past, I'm going to share our journey with Chandler with all of you in hopes are spreading more awareness on autism.
These are just some of the early signs we noticed but again it's a spectrum so every one is different. Chan chan is still so young so all of his therapy services are play-based right now but we're hoping to see some progress within the next 6 months! Also, if Chandler totally ignores you the next time you see him in person, now you'll know it's really not you, it's him (but sometimes it can actually be you if you're too much into his personal space 😆)
#autism #autismawareness #asd #chandlerspectrum #autismmom #autismacceptance #autismparents #earlysignsofautism
Reminds me of my son when he was little. He's 43 now. Wasn't diagnosed on the spectrum. He was in the Army for 6 years went to Iraq twice, graduated college. After all of that, a friend thought he might be Autisic. He had the VA test him and sure enough. Spent years trying to help. Can't even begin to tell you all the things. He always wanted to go in the Army so off he went. It really paid it's toll on him the good thing is it helped him grow up. He's a wonderful man and I'm so proud of him. He never gives up trying to accomplish the things he set out to do. He's a deep sea diver, rock climber among other things. He's a joy!
Glory to God and Bless You Both on your continued journey ❤
Oh gosh, same here with my son. I despair when I think back at the difficult times of school etc. Better late than never but I still am upset about it now. Hope all is well with you and your son though.
Thank you for giving us hope!
Ur child is way. It’s intelligent than others . Don’t let society define what he is
It’s in the vaccines an it’s by design ,wake up sheep an moms who should have intuition,,it’s in their tissues ,heavy metals ,mitochondria disfunction in the gut ,,detox that baby an stop injecting him an read the Bible ,,it’s a spiritual war to take out man ,who’s made in the image of god 🙏
May God protect this child all his life. He’s really cute and such a happy little guy.
This describes my niece - she was put in intensive therapy at 18 months. New York State has amazing services for special needs kids. She is 17 now and top 10 in her school. She is fine - still flaps.her hands when she is stressed but that’s ok. It’s not the end of the world but get early intervention and don’t take no for an answer. Mothers know best
Sad when parents miss signs for years. Early recognition is key.❤
so flapping will not go away with age? i do find it adorable tho
@@moiramaine8986 it’s infrequent and not as vigorous as when she was younger
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
What does early intervention do? How does it help? I am asking genuinely ❤
Wow this brought back so many memories of my daughter who’s autistic. She’s 10 now and doing great. Is in advanced math and has friends. But I remember how heart breaking something as simple as not responding to her name was for me…
That means it's not a major problem?
Thank you for this comment
God I'm crying right now because my son is going through this and it hurts so bad
My daughter has autism, she is 10 but does not have any friends and struggles to have a normal daily life 💔 God bless you and your daughter 🙏🏼
She has her struggles…. But her achievements in life have never been taken for granted. I’m very proud of her, she is the light of my life.
It stood out how encouraging and patient you were when he was throwing a tantrum over stacking the books. He's a lucky little boy to have you as his mom. Just wanted to say that!
Here here !! ❤
Indeed. I’m sure you have your moments, but I hope you know as a fellow Asian mom of an autistic baby boy. You are not alone.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
He is soo similar to my grandson. Very similar in many things. My grandson is almost 3. He starts to tock. We teking him to speak terapy last 5 months. He is improving . He pronounced many words. but still keine leizy to tock. He still don't have official diagnoses, but we suspect for before he is 2. We threi to 2 pediatrician . But everibory refuses, like he is too small. So we take things in our hands and threi some things.I find that show Ms.Reichel, help a lot. Sorry for my English. But I hope our love and patience will help him to grow to be good to take care of himself after we are all not here anymore.Just to mention my grandson eat and slip very well.And start to showing mach more affection to people and other kids. I hope I will find more videos about your little boy. I wish you success and happiness for you and your butifoul boy.
This describes my son perfectly. He's 2 and still can't say a single word. I have ASD myself and so does his mother. Life just happens. So this is all expected. I really don't think of it as a bad thing to be honest. I have lived a good life, and I'll make sure he has a good start. Life is hard for everyone, it's just different between us. You're a great parent and you do your best. That's all he needs. He has so much potential in life, he's going to shock you when he gets older. If he's like I was, he's going to love to take things apart.
Have you done any interventions and can you share with us what you did? Also how do you feel as an adult with Asd? Do you feel different?
@@ElwynnForest We aren't doing anything about him at the moment, he could just be a slow learner it's just too soon to tell. As an adult, you just have to figure out what you're good at, your strengths, and focus on that. Not your weakness that hold you back like most do. You also must keep a positive mindset, that you're unique and that's a good thing. ADHD is a common thing with ASD, I recently started medication and it's changed my life so much. There's always options out there.
My 2 yr also didn’t talk until few months after. Don’t be too alarm. Now my son (3 yr old) talks like a bird. He can write alphabet, sing, draw & do sign language as well. There are lot of factors that play a role in speech delay. His pediatrician also concerned when my son didn’t talk at 2, but I wasn’t too worry. Many bilingual toddlers experience speech delay.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
I actually love how he is lining up the toys ❤
One of the cutest kids I’ve ever seen. What a special guy!
so true !
Damn bro you got the whole squad laughing.
What a beautiful video you have made to share with all who comes across it. The tremendous amount of love you clearly have for your son, Chan-Chan, shows throughout this video and the interactions you included. I especially enjoyed your encouragement and interaction with him towards the end where he was stacking some type of square objects and getting a little frustrated. It seemed to me that your encouragement of him really helped to calm him and to obtain his goal, of stacking his objects without falling before he was finished. There is no greater love in this world than that of a mother for her child ❤️
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
Wow. My daughter hasn’t been diagnosed yet, but I finally SEE her behavior clearly. I knew she was so much different than my son, but I couldn’t admit to myself what I knew it was. At the end of the day, different isn’t bad, but Im glad to finally see something familiar! I kept thinking I was crazy
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
My ASD son to a T. He's 25 now and amazing!
You're doing everything right, mom! Keep on keeping on!
Can you share with us any interventions you did? At what age did you do the intervention? Was it successful?
Looks like happy busy little guy to me. He has lots of toys to keep him satisfied and Mom is very tuned in. I've never met a kid that age that doesn't have a melt down sometimes. Thank you for sharing.
True , some of his behavior are normal, maybe the head gestures and spinning are
@rosea1021 I didn't say "normal". I said happy and busy and that other kids also have meltdowns. I don't think you're disagreement works here. I didn't say normal.
I meant your*
There is no need to grammar police me too.
@@cidb5365 I understood your original comment and I put a thumb up
@@cidb5365buy you are wrong about the normal part tho, autism level 1 basically is Iphone and what you call "normal" would be android both of them are good and, just different it's like calling a different culture of your own not normal just because you don't understand it, it is this idea or normal and not normal what tortures parents when their children get diagnosed.
I remember my son who was diagnosed with Asperger’s rocked as a baby and as an older child Ed was obsessed with weather. Our school did a great job by allowing him to be their “meteorologist”. Every morning he got to give a weather report in the announcements.
Excuse me but i need to know the rocking stops with the time?
@@slavakaripova2172 It did stop.
Wow, weather reports!! That is awesome. :)
Hi. Where do you go to check if your child has Asperger’s? My son who is 15 displayed so many of these symptoms since he was 1 years old. I had him evaluated at the age of 3 1/2 and they said he has Sensory Processing Disorder. ❤
I rock when anxious or upset, flap when excited, and my special interest is weather lol!
I've got 2 on the spectrum (likely, younger hasn't been diagnosed yet but it's pretty obvious).
He's adorable. My daughter loves displaying toys or lining up instead of playing too, especially When she's alone. but she also plays with them. Our pediatritian immediatly asked if the displaying prevented her from actually playing when She gave her blocks around 18months and She lined them up by color instead of stacking. She then realized She was expected to stack and did that. To this day She struggles with a super Simple game of stacking cups, as She can't figure out wich one is the biggest. She gets distracted by the fact they are different colors. She's 4and fully functional. We're all different.
All the best to your beautiful family.
What a sweet, well-loved child. I’m so glad you have the knowledge to recognize the signs of ASD in the early stages when remedial care is most helpful.
He is so sweet. x3 My oldest son has Aspergers and he had some of the the same stuff as well, if in smaller degree. He has gotten support since he was 8, and he is turning 13 this year. He is such a lovely boy, having a bit social issues and sometimes he has hard time following situations, but he is very loving and smart on other things. There is bumps on the road, don't afraid looking for support and it is amazing that Chandler had had support since he was so small, that is so important! x3 He is so precious, good luck, enjoy the good days and have strength for the bad ones, no parent can do more than their best and he will grow up just fine! x3
Brings back memories of my oldest son, Seth. He wasn’t officially diagnosed until he was 6 with Asperger, back when they called it that. A very long road we have and still travel. Seth will be 31 next month. He did learn all of the things you struggle with. Toilet training, shoe tying, bike riding and car driving. Seth graduated from High School and college with a BA in Political Science and is currently getting his certification as a Paralegal. He continues to amaze me.
Dr Oyalo herbs is really helpful, and have helped my son improve with his speech and social skill complete. My son now responds to name, his aggressive behavior has stoped completely and he now sings and says what he want.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
Thank you so much for sharing! He is such a cute kid and you are very kind to let us get a glimpse of his beautiful play.
Your son is adorable and reminds me of my 26 month old grandson who's been in early intervention services since late March. Thank you for posting this insightful video.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
How wonderful that you are sharing your experience and knowledge of the behaviors to watch for. Hope this helps the frustration that parents cannot understand.
My son is in the spectrum. He used to love to line up his blocks, rolls of toilet paper, cars, Lego's, books. He didn't talk until he was about 2 1/2. He would say a word, then the next day, the word was gone- he wouldn't say it again. Thank God for the military health system and EDIS (Educational Developmental Intervention Services) They never diagnosed him, but they took my concerns seriously and at 22 months he was involved in therapy to stop him from hitting other kids. I had homework to do to help him. He had an IEP and a developmental preschool he attended. When he was 4 he had completed all of his IEP goals and he was no longer eligible for services. He went on through school in the Gifted and Talented Program and had several friends who were also in the spectrum. He'll be 22 in July and graduating from college with a Bachelor's in Accounting. He's been accepted into his Master's program. He has a girlfriend who is also in the spectrum
This sounds exactly like my son. We’ve suspected for a while that it was a possibility, but I would never have guessed that so many of his behaviors were indicators! Thank you so much for sharing this video! 💜
Stop trying to program your autistic child to be "your" autistic child.
This provides me with so much hope for my daughter’s future. Thank you, deeply, for sharing.
hi, I’m also in the military has a military spouse, I think you mean the US military right? Do you know where I can go to get more help? My son is 22 months and just got diagnosed. I am terrified and so scared. I don’t know where to go and what to do. Thank you.
Je ne comprends pas. Tous les enfants alignent des jouets......
This is so informative!!!! Thank you for raising the awareness to help others. Bless you!!!
As an person on the autistic spectrum and involved with the autistic community, many within it find the posting of videos of children displaying there traits and meltdowns as both offensive and an invasion of a child's right to privacy. If you would like to know more about what autism is and how you can help those who are autistic, please, venture out and meet with people on the spectrum. You may feel this is informing and raising awareness but I am now raising awareness for you but from an autistic person's perspectives. To get more perspective, hire an autistic person, meet with them. Go to the places where we meet. Take the views, opinions and experiences of autism that come from autistic people with consideration.
My one year old son does a few of these same things. How cool it is the way her baby organizes his toys. I think that also means he's really smart
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
Thank you so much for this. My granddaughter is showing signs, many of them almost or exact to your beautiful boy. I am by no means diagnosing her, but this was highly informative and took a weight off that I didn't realize was there. Again, thank you❤
My son wouldn’t respond to his name either. He was always watching tv and eventually I noticed that he would flap his hands when his favorite show came up or when I gave him sth of his choice to eat. He also started moving from one place to another and repeated it for several time. Started to holding things. First thing I did was turn off the tv and there was zero screen time in our house. Within one or two days he started to respond to his name, within 4 weeks he stopped flapping his hands. He didn’t like to go out a lot, but now he does. Stopped going from one part of the house to the other. But I see a lot of improvements in him. A few days we bought a new tv and we thought of letting him watch his cartoons for some time. I actually allowed him to watch every day and what I noticed that flapping came back and moving around also started. This tv thing for our babies is just so dangerous. Keep your babies away from these things and let them interact with real world. Thank you
His first appointment is coming in May and he will be two years old on 20th of May. Let’s see what dr tells us about his behavior.
Thank you for sharing that! Chandler loves screen time as well but we have limited it a lot. We now let him play with a tablet so he can interact somehow and not just be a zombie while watching shows. He is so smart at getting through games and loves letters/number games. We have him spend time outdoors everyday as well and he loves chalk and is very artistic for his age! It's amazing how wide of a spectrum this is and how all these little ones are so different. Good luck at your appointment in May. It's definitely an interesting yet stressful process as well but there's so many resources online now and that's why I wanted to share our journey in hopes that it will bring some more awareness to ASD.
Is your son verbal? My niece is almost two years old and her parents allow her to watch too much tv (they even have an iPad for her). She has a very similar behavior pattern to tv stimulation. She flaps her hands, doesn't respond to her name, doesn't point, and outside of baby gibberish, she doesn't talk. She doesn't even say small words. I'm concerned that she may end up being non-verbal and co-dependent into adulthood. She went to an audiologist and her hearing is ok. I want her to get into therapy asap, but she's not my kid and her parents don't seem to be as alarmed. But back to my main question, does your son talk? If so, about how old was he when he started?
@@bxrokk my son is almost 26 months now and he's still not talking but has made a lot of progress since starting therapy services. He does sign language but he's also starting to repeat after us more and more now but it's still not true words although we know what he means since he says the same sounds for particular things. For example he'll only say the first or last part of words. His way of saying "please" is "se" and his "purple" is "puh", "bubbles" is "buh-buh" etc. His receptive communication (him being able to understand what we tell him to do and not to do) is definitely getting so much better but he still needs a lot of work on his expressive (which is pretty much him telling us what he wants).
I have friends who are in a similar situation with you and they have told me that it doesn't feel like it's their place to tell someone else's kid that they are concerned but it doesn't hurt to just raise your concerns to your niece's family to show them that you just care for her. Autism should also be screened at your niece's 2 year appointment with her pediatrician. It might just be a speech delay but there's just a lot of factors that come into play. At the end of the day, if you're worried just trust your instincts!
A well-known pediatric psychologist in my country once said that zero screen time should be allowed until the age of six, and then screen time should be limited to 15-20 mins a day, together with the parent.
Pls keep us updated we r in a same boat with you
Chandler is adorable❣️ Thank you for sharing your beautiful baby with us. I didn’t know much about ASD and the different signs in very small children. Your calm voice and knowledge helps me understand much better. Thanks!
Subscribed. ❤️
Your son is very smart and aware. He’s going to accomplish great things in life 😊
I have two sons , with Asperger and they are sooo diffrent ❤ your work is so important ❤🍀❤ my boys are 17 and 20 now and living a completly " normal" life now, although the doctors told me , they never would ❤ Keep an eye on his IQ Level , my sons have both a very high IQ , above 135 , could both read and write by the age of 4. Not always but often these kids are gifted with special talents.
I wish you lots of love and luck 🍀
Hi , when did start responding his name please ?
Very interesting Juliane. I have two boys one who was rocking, spinning, jumping and hand flaps all stopped suddenly around age 6- perfectly normal life after that now hes 32 and his baby is rocking at 8 months. My other son gifted IQ 150 walked at 8 months, fully talking in conversation at 12 months reading Tolkien age 6 did very well in school, can play any instrument good actor but struggles with every day life even now.
@@awaitthegroom that is interesting
Same with my grandson. I noticed it and his parents were in denial. “Asperger was bad word” I intervened as much as law and parents allowed. He lived with me 12-20. When they have no diagnosis they feel odd, like there is something wrong. I got him in a private high school. He still struggled but made it. Kept hearing he’s a great student with a big heart. He has a decent job and a girlfriend now. Lives on his own. He still has so much more potential.
@@awaitthegroom could you share with us any intervention strategies you use or anything special that help them?
What a beautiful child. He's so lucky to be in your loving hands.
Thank you for taking the time!
Thank you for sharing! Keep up the awesome work and love momma! Best wishes to you and your lil one.
Awww, he's adorable!
I can tell that you guys are amazing parents to him! He's gonna thrive with the love and encouragement he recieves from his mama :) and papa of course.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
Good job mama! My son is 4 now, and he behaved just like yours when he was a baby. We thought it was a baby thing since most of times he is a happy child, but finally get him evaluated when he was 3.5. We have ABA, and meanwhile we are seeing a functional medicine doctor, we have changed his diet to dairy free gluten free, slowly a lot of the behaviors improved, especially the repetitive part. Diet is not a cause for ASD, but often kids on the spectrum have certain gens that makes them difficult to digest certain food or process certain nutrients if that makes sense to you. My son was a picky eater, back then he loves pastas, it was difficult to transition him to gluten free food, but when we finally did, he started to eat more fresh vegetables and fruits. He is still not a great eater till today, but I’m thankful that he is taking a great variety.
Sama like me , i have twins sons like him ,
Could you share with us how you were able to change his eating habits? I have the same problem.
My son reacted to anything with artificial ingredients. He does not have ASD but teachers thought he had ADD. Later he was diagnosed with celiac and is gluten free now.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
He is such a cutie, and you are obviously doing a great job - he has seriously awesome toys and things to keep him entertained! 👏🏻
He is so precious. Thank you for sharing this information to help others.
So well done! Thanks and all the best for you, Chandler and your family!!
I wish so much that I would have recorded my son from the beginning. He is 14 years old and was barely diagnosed a few months ago. It was a struggle as many teachers and doctors were leaning towards ADHD. I knew it was Autism. Extensive testing and evaluation with some of the most amazing doctors finally confirmed. Very much all the same things...several more....and now as a teenager, he has adjusted to masking some stims and has created new ones. It's very true about playing with toys. We knew he never played with toys, it was more like rearranging and then monitoring them so no one destroys the setup he created for them. Everything is pretty technical for him and his voice, as well as verbal interaction, is very robotic. Life with a child with autism is a very interesting and busy one. I wouldn't trade it for anything. 💗
Omg i would love to connect. My son is 12 and I have been fighting for YEARS to have someone confirm autism but they always rule him
Out… I would love advice on how you advocated bc I know that’s my situation.
Why say you wouldn’t trade it for anything? Why not just say that you love your son. Surely you would trade his situation for him if you could. But you love him because he’s your son.
@@reflectionsinthebible3579 My life, my words. If that's how I feel who the hell are you to tell me I should refer to it differently or say it in a way that appeases you. Look into why that triggers you cause that's definitely a thing.
@@xochilr.buchholz I was told over and over and over....just keep advocating for your child and that's exactly what I did. Sometimes even I just gave in and accepted he would not get any help or understanding for his situation and I wouldn't have a name for all the quirky challenging things he does. It's not that no one believed or thought he had autism, it's more complicated than that...and too long a story for here. I researched the best Child Psychologist/Psychiatrist...and went above and beyond to do extensive testing on him. To this day I get compliments from specialists that we picked the best doctor to have him tested because of how thorough they were. I think that's the key.... find the best Child Psychologist/Psychiatrist office in your area and advocate from there.
I've suspected autism with my son since he was 2 or 3. He is 9 now and all I've heard is ADHD as well yet none of the meds help him. I'm so frustrated. I don't know anymore because I recently befriended a couple who has a 19 year old autistic son who is verbal and was playing with my 9 year old and I did see their son at 19 was more "child-like" if you will, than my son so...maybe I am wrong? I know it's a spectrum disorder though 🤔
chandler is an angel. thank you for sharing. bless your family!!!!
Excellent information. Wishing you the best.
You are a wonderful mother. 💓 I’m sure he will do fine in life having your love to support him. Many blessings to you both.❤
I've just cried the whole way throughout this as we are going through this right now with our 15mth grandson. It's hard to remember there are others going through the same when you feel like you're failing . Thank your for sharing
I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about.
He is so precious and adorable! God bless you all in your journey!
Thank you for this and I love your approach with him!❤
Reminds me so much of my son who is now six. My son was diagnosed about a year ago. His speech is getting much better with the help of a pathologist but he's still speaking at the level we would have expected at the age of three. Wouldn't change him for anything though ❤
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
He is so precious. Thank you for sharing.
Chan Chan is SO SMART and has great focus and determination! Using the other books to keep his new stack from falling over, how high and complex his block build was, being able to place the sticks in the slots without distraction ( my son would’ve chewed on the sticks or thrown them to listen to the sound of them hitting the floor ) he’s such a little blessing! I can tell he’ll be high functioning. My 4 year old son has ASD and he isn’t receiving therapy ( definitely not for lack of trying on my part ) I’m doing my own form of school and therapy until I can get him into an aba or at least some form of therapy ( speech, occupational etc ) I hope my baby will improve, not that I’m intentionally comparing my son to other children but seeing Chan Chan’s beautiful display of intelligence and problem solving gave me a little more hope that things could improve for my Tyler ❤
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
You have done a great job and l actually learn a lot about this condition.Thank you very much👍
Darling little boy , God bless him 😃
Bless your heart and Chandler as well.
One thing I did with my son (who was one of triplets) was to squat down on his level and express our feelings exaggeratedly. Ex. one time he rode his tricycle wheel over my foot. It didn’t hurt but I said OW! I got down on his level and made him make eye contact with me and I’d say, “You hurt mommy. Ouchie! And I would fake crying so he could learn to associate his actions with emotional consequences.
Once, while at preschool he saw a tiny toddler fall off of a swing. He laughed heartily. He got in trouble for laughing at the little one. I tried to explain that he has his wires crossed a bit and sometimes has inappropriate reactions to actions.
He has told me (he’s 18) that my getting on his level, making eye contact and exaggerating the emotions appropriate to the situation at the time was the best thing that helped him socially as a person.
He still has a hard time interacting even with his triplet wombmates, but he’s getting better everyday.
@@NaomisFoundation That’s wonderful.
What is Dr oyalo herb?
Thank you for sharing this, it was very informational
Thank you for the video!! Its helping many parents..to let out there emotions and to energize with positive goals with their kids.
You have a beautiful son. May God bless your family.
Great work Mummy - I love the way you interact with Chandler. 💕 He is absolutely precious. I’m a late diagnosed autistic adult and when I was growing up in the 70’s and 80’s there was very little awareness of autism. Your channel provides balanced, helpful and positive content. Well done 👏✌️😘
But you seem high functioning.
@@reflectionsinthebible3579 I have no support needs in some areas and medium-high support needs in others. For example, I have a tertiary education, and had a career in the public service until I burnt out at 47 and was finally diagnosed with autism. I now need quite a bit of support to cope with day to day life and am no longer able to work or function as well as I used to. Because I learnt to mask from a young age but still had real problems socially, I also ended up with CPTSD. ✌️
My gbaby is a twin he just hums. We’re waiting on official diagnosis. He is non verbal he is 2 does not speak just hums. He has separation anxiety really bad. When my daughter leaves out of his sight. His twin brother is ok. He also loves stacking and building a whole lot😢
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy
I used to worry if my Son possibly has ASD or atleast something similar, but then I realized, regardless if he does in fact have ASD or whatever, It doesn't really matter, I wouldn't love him any less.. its more like I need to know if he's getting all the things he need in order to grow and be strong and independent someday. Im a single mom and I worry a lot. What if something happens to me or whatever, I want him to just be okay and happy always. Gosh. Im teary eyed just typing this. My son is the greatest gift ever.
And frankly whatever disorder or illness a child would have, they all deserve to be loved and cared for equally. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing the video.
Thank you for sharing this video. And Chandler is sooo cute 🥰
Awww 🥰I just want to give him a hug 🥰he’s precious
You're such a good mom
My son had speech therapy at 2. He is now 7 and still has it. He is doing great in second grade now. Please listen to you first as a mama. Speak greatness over chandler. I see it. Keep working with him and not give up.
Beautifully explained 👍
God bless ❤️
Love n kudos
Thank you for sharing….thank you for your courage to share…
thank you for sharing this excellent video, it is very helpful to others :) love to you and your family
Beautiful boy. He will do amazing things someday.
Thank you so much for sharing. It was very informative 👍
I just came across your video and my son is doing exactly same thing and he was diagnosed with autism he loves lining up his toys . He will start with his services next week
Thanks very informative. Happy life little man ❤
He will be fine. He very observant and smart.
Really good video
Chandelier is adorable and you're doing a great job with him
My son had red flag now my son is perfectly normal only missing thing is eye contact but with "some" strangers . I changed him with all my efforts i worried alot i cried alot but onething I did is I never showed him anything I do play play play play play i kept the phone outside of him tv off all the time . We found that when he was 1.4yrs old now he is 3 and completely normal he speak ,he do all his things ,he responds to his name ,he'll come and ask what he wants . He does all what 3 yr old toddler does. Only onething what i suggest is don't waste a min talk with him all the time I know that's very difficult but we can do it . So pls never ever waste your time on being recording him . Ask anyone of your family to help you . Because I know that is going to be tough and make your kid to explore things outside the house . Take him out show him ever single thing you see explain him if he doesn't see your face you go down to his height sit opp to him and talk
Beautiful momma you are doing great! My son has adhd, dyslexia and now OCD. He is the sweetest and has a superior IQ. While adhd is different, there are lots of similarities and i remember all the testing like it was yesterday. He will have challenges AND exceptional traits.
ADHD people are usually high IQ and he’ll do just fine. I was told my oldest daughter was ADD (I had no idea what that was 40 years ago) and she was definitely dyslexic. For me and my daughter it was in the form of staying focused and organized. I created a system of folders to keep her work organized and hired a tutor to help her with homework. I also worked with her, EX I would say run up to my bedroom and bring the book that’s in the top drawer by my bed. She would return crying and without the item. So I would have her look straight at me in a calm manner and go through the steps one by one - where are you going - answer, upstairs, and where exactly - to your bedroom, etc,etc she would return smiling with the item, praises. We did this on a regular basis. She was always put at the back of the class throughout school. Went to University, was on the deans list for 3 years running and today is a life coach. I always said that she could do anything she put her mind to. You may be able to catch one of her few videos on YT under coachsarahkay. I think your son with some help will be just fine.
Very kind of you to share..
Gorgeous child and amazing parents. Well done 👏
Chan2 looks a smart boy to me! Hope you all are doing well. Thanks for the video
Hope you were able to get intervention early. It’s really important. Best wishes.
So cute. God bless your beautiful baby.
Thank you so much for sharing. He is such a cutie.
Great information. Thank you. He is so cute!
This is a very good example. The symptoms are strongly expressed and there are plenty of them. The baby boy ist very cute anyways, and the parents very caring. Wish them well.
You are an incredible mom.🫶🏻🙏🏻🤍
He's such a sweet little boy.❤🇨🇦
Thank you for sharing this.❤
I work with kiddos on the spectrum (and their families) and mama-- YOU ARE DOING GREAT! 💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏
All the messages am reading memtion was diagnosed, has managed to make it etc etc. But nothing mentions about the management and how it was managed. Us in Africa we don't have the best management nor facilities to help. We just manage with the info given on Google. Please share some management ideas. Thanks.
@irenekassami2711 Pressure when they're upset (wrapping them in a hug or pressing on their shoulders, squeezing their torso--in a very safe, gentle but firm way of course!), headphones or ear phones to cancel a lot of sounds, chewy's (something to chew on), priming them for everything (make sure they know what's coming up in the day and have warnings for what is going to happen, you can do this verbally, use a timer or pictures), they generally love dependable routines, if you can find their language find it--writing, reading, pictures, sign language, that'll help... It's hard for some to get words out of their mouth. I had one boy who liked to talk by replaying bits of script on a movie/show or CZcams video. Know that they're smart, they're in there, they care for you, even if they show it differently. Get them exercise! That's important it helps a lot of them regulate all the things they are thinking / feeling and helps them focus. Water play even if it's a trickle is fun and calms many too. Those are some things that help a lot of the students I work with but know that all of them don't work for everyone and I'm still learning--I don't know everything and I can be wrong! Is that what you were looking for? I hope these things help.
@@irenekassami2711 weighted blankets, vests, backpacks, tight wraps, if you/they don't want to do body pressure/hugs. Some of them hate hugs physical touch, some of them love it. Management-- know that depending on the type of kid you have and their needs it will be easier for some to manage and harder for some.
@@irenekassami2711 When I started reading books written by autistic people I learned WAY more about their needs than I ever did in school. Here are some books that I read:
Ido in Autismland, by Ido Kedar
The Reason I Jump, by Noaki Higashida
Anatomy of Autism, by Diego Pena
The Mind Tree, by Tito Rajarshi Mukhopadhyay
I Am in Here, by Elizabeth M. Bonker and Virginia G. Breen
The Autistic Mind Finally Speaks: Letterboard Thoughts, by Gregory C. Tino
Carly's Voice: Breaking Through Autism, by Carly and Arthur Fleischmann
I think it's impressive that he can stack things up that way period or the way he lined up the letters most babies can't do that.
❤ to your family.
I learned a lot from this thoughtful video. Thank you.
Ms. M. Moore
Thank you for sharing. Very informative.
Hi! Just had baby #5 and he is so different than my other kids. Bear does EVERYTHING that your little Chandler does. Except the lining up of the toys....he is only 18 months old.....he doesn't speak any words. Not even momma...the spinning!!!!!!! He will spin anything for an hour....he loves it. I never stop the stimming, idk if it's something that's OK. I hear conflicting info...some days I'm like, "yes, bear is on the spectrum, somewhere and that's ok" other days, I'm "no, no, no....he is just developing slower, his own way. He is fine" 😢 thank you for sharing ❤❤❤
My son also has ASD he is a literal champ when it comes to video games. He NEVER “played” with toys. He always just arranged them. He’s eleven now and is one of the top gamers in the U.S.
I always felt that children who are categorize as autistic, are just their own. They want everyone to be alike and these little guys aren't conforming and just being them. Their brain rejecting the programming, let him be him... He's brilliant 💜🕊️💜
IGNORING A PROBLEM IS NOT GOING TO HELP FIX IT, AND THESE BEAUTIFUL SOULS DON'T NEED "FIXING"; HOWEVER, THEY DO NEED INTERVENTION AND UNDERSTANDING.
@@loveppl6999the point is that the children are not a problem. There is nothing wrong with them
@@cheylashunk7148 Have you got a child with autism? Their life is a struggle and have a terrible time with sensory issues and need help to learn how to cope so they feel calmer/ Its not about fitting into society
it’s extremely valuable to put a name to symptoms and not pretend they’re a special process. comparatively, it would be like someone saying toddlers growing spurts, growing pains, or tooth aches are all behaviors that are “just their own”, “aren’t conforming”, or “rejecting programming”. when truthfully they’re part of a biological process that must be observed to assess your child’s health and comfort. there’s nothing romantic about it. idealizing autistics childrens behavior as some form of uniqueness is counter productive to offering them necessary tools. the same tools that extend autistic ppls livelihood by decreasing stress. autistic individuals that go their whole lives or most of their lives without validation or recognition for their behavior will ultimately suffer from emotional and physical neglect. it’s important to respect people’s decisions to understand themselves and their children. naming these behaviors gives these children an opportunity to grow through and alongside them. find community, and self awareness along the way so they don’t self harm or become invisible to the rest of society. autistic children are not special for their genetics. they should not be praised for their unique individuality. being that ALL humans have these characteristics of individualism, it doesn’t need to be the focal point of the value they provide by simply existing. stimming is as normal as pooping and peeing. it is not nonconformist behavior. :( stop spreading misinformation & accept the word “autism” or “neurodivergence” in to your vocabulary.
@@cheylashunk7148 IT'S A PATHETIC SHAME THAT YOU ARE IN DENIAL AND MISSING THE MAIN POINT, WHICH IS NO HUMAN BEING IS BORN PERFECT, AND WE ALL NEED HELP IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER IN OREDER TO FLOURISH INTO THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELVES. HOWEVER, WHEN PPL ARE RAISED BY COWARDS LIKE YOURSELF WHO ARE TOO WEAK TO REALIZE THAT THEIR CHILD NEEDS EXTRA HELP TO FLOURISH INTO THE BEST VERSION OF THEMSELVES, THEN AT THAT POINT, THE CHILD IS NOT THE PROBLEM; THE PROBLEM IS THE IN-DENIAL COWARDLY PARENT.
Awe, he is so adorable 🥰
Excellent video !!!
He is such a beautiful little boy.
Wow this brought back memories of my grandson, he did all of this. By the time he was 3 he was not doing most things. He is now in grade 3 and is doing GREAT. Imagine that
can you share with us any intervention strategies that your grandson did and at what age? Also did they change the way they fed him , like more nutritional food?
So jealous of all his toys ❤ he’s beautiful
Precious baby….will be praying for Chan Chan❤
MashaAllah he is a good, clever and well organized boy
Do you have doctor's confirmation on autism? Some of the symptoms could just show a smart and different personality growin which still is the case. But did they confirm autism?
We have an official diagnosis of ASD with comorbidities of OCD and ADHD. He's still so young so of course there will be developmental changes along the way. We're doing 6 month follow-ups and re-evals. He's been in early intervention with ABA, OT and ST since January and we've already seen improvements in areas but he's still delayed in many other areas for his age (he's almost 26 months old now). He's still not talking but he's using some sign language with us now and starting to babble/imitate more as well which is all improvement! Early intervention is very important that's why I wanted to share our journey with everyone since I learned so much from other families that shared their stories with us too.
@@herroareena4107 ,ooh lord my baby does the head shaking thing,I'm worried and scared alot,its been alot,God bless u
@@herroareena4107 my baby 22 months old ....also get irritated when she starts a task(arranging books in box ) but can not complete that task...then she start throwing all books in anger ....
At this age she only speak few word like
Maamma
Day ( for daddy )
Iiya
Baau
Mmmm
Uff
Iice
Mamma aao
Bua
I am very much worried
But she responds to her name
And she has eyecontact tooo
Can we identify autism in a 4 month old baby
@@Sn-gy7wf I'm not sure since I don't specialize in ASD but I'm sure there are studies that show some signs can be identified early on. Most kids don't get officially diagnosed until they are 3 years old although some can be diagnosed as young as 12 months old.
Chan Chan seem like a very smart little boy. Our son just turned one last month and saw this video. Thank you for making this. Only sign I see from our son is he sometimes looks at his hand when just sitting or laying down. I hope Chan Chan is doing better now. Please give us an update. Thanks! 🙏🏼
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
he is so precious!!
He's a cutie pie! So interesting to learn what you now know are signs of ASD.