What Type of Woman Do Men Want? | Sadia Khan

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  • čas přidán 6. 07. 2023
  • Unlock the secrets to understanding what type of woman men truly desire with the thought-provoking episode of the Kickoff Sessions podcast. Join host Sadia Khan and special guest Darren Lee as they dive deep into the controversial topic of men's preferences in relationships and dating. Prepare to challenge societal norms and gain valuable insights from this enlightening conversation.
    In this captivating episode, Sadia Khan skillfully navigates the complexities of human attraction, dissecting the various factors that influence men's desires. Darren Lee, a renowned relationship expert, shares his expertise and sheds light on the often misunderstood aspects of what men truly look for in a woman.
    From physical appearance to personality traits, this episode explores the multifaceted aspects of attraction and provides a fresh perspective on the ever-evolving dynamics of modern relationships. Sadia and Darren fearlessly tackle controversial ideas and challenge societal expectations, leaving no stone unturned in their quest to uncover the truth.
    Whether you're seeking to understand the intricacies of male desires, or you simply enjoy thought-provoking discussions on relationships and dating, this episode of the Kickoff Sessions podcast is a must

Komentáře • 1K

  • @shabazz360
    @shabazz360 Před 10 měsíci +1667

    I’m the man you described. Businesses trips a lot. We FaceTime every night at least an hour before bed. Sometime i fly her out to spend some time with me. It’s all about how you prioritize time with her. I’ve even made her apart of the businesses so now she understands the ends and outs of everything that’s going on.

    • @sunnyhanif7496
      @sunnyhanif7496 Před 10 měsíci +269

      You're still making time for her and investing in her whilst being away and it's beautiful. This is something many miss unfortunately. This shows if there's a will there's a way. Shows you can have both :)

    • @lindazitha554
      @lindazitha554 Před 10 měsíci +54

      ​@@sunnyhanif7496great man you are

    • @yellow_b
      @yellow_b Před 10 měsíci +30

      Great effort. Hope it is enough 😊

    • @aaronbrodsky5527
      @aaronbrodsky5527 Před 10 měsíci +32

      What he's doing is what I would call the norm. Most men want their partners to know what's going on with the business. I would suggest however not expecting too much from her because if you start expecting a business output based on this emotional position youve given her might be disappointed when she's not as interested in the business

    • @kickicker6058
      @kickicker6058 Před 10 měsíci +13

      You made her part of the business now? Good luck with that...

  • @Rose-cq8gg
    @Rose-cq8gg Před 9 měsíci +1027

    Yes, as a wife who loves her husband, i need my man to actually live life with me and our kids

    • @balleraap007
      @balleraap007 Před 9 měsíci +35

      So be broke

    • @deepcutzgaming6082
      @deepcutzgaming6082 Před 9 měsíci +16

      what if it means you and your kids don’t eat

    • @helgaioannidis9365
      @helgaioannidis9365 Před 9 měsíci +52

      Same. We both work reduced hours and share the tasks at home.
      We tried the classic sahm thing with him as the only income provider and we were both miserable. Since we've made things more equal, we're both so much happier, because the needs of both of us are easier to be met.
      Money can't buy me a hug after throwing up during pregnancy. Money can't buy walks with my husband. Money can't buy me the laughs I have with my husband at breakfast together.

    • @thepope9023
      @thepope9023 Před 8 měsíci +9

      Can't have your cake and eat it too. Can't have protection and providing from a man sitting at home all the time.

    • @treek10k
      @treek10k Před 8 měsíci +8

      Jesus Christ died for your sins on the cross. Repent and believe in him or you will be separated from God The Father for all eternity and face hell forever, for all eternity, never ending

  • @SuperCleopatrajones
    @SuperCleopatrajones Před 8 měsíci +199

    Yes! When hubby would come home feeling unappreciated, I told him, "Come home for love and appreciation, go to work for money!" 20+ years military life and I LOVE HIM BEING HOME NOW!

    • @indigorose1270
      @indigorose1270 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Army_wife7776
      @Army_wife7776 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes 🙌🏻 ❤❤❤❤

    • @juandoe195
      @juandoe195 Před 2 měsíci

      Yeah and u get that military check to from him lol and don't have to pay taxes on that house jaja

  • @anwarmamun2020
    @anwarmamun2020 Před 10 měsíci +267

    Need a balance, not too much attachment, not too much detachment! 😉

    • @Kimmieziven
      @Kimmieziven Před 9 měsíci +3

      Yes

    • @jerrodbates8480
      @jerrodbates8480 Před 8 měsíci +3

      As with all things

    • @artemisappollo1491
      @artemisappollo1491 Před 8 měsíci +3

      That's exactly how I feel 😊

    • @rosebud040686
      @rosebud040686 Před 7 měsíci +10

      I think what you might mean is you want someone to be attached but also not needy. Emotionally independent but committed to building a bond

    • @sam47511
      @sam47511 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Unicorns don’t exist 😂😂

  • @cottoncandyaddict
    @cottoncandyaddict Před 9 měsíci +304

    When my husband gets home from work it’s like a daily event because we all missed him so much, he doesn’t even have a chance to shut the door behind him because our kids start screaming for him to pick them up lol

  • @autumn_rose80
    @autumn_rose80 Před 9 měsíci +220

    Makes a lot of sense. As a woman I would prefer my male partner to be home and emotionally available. I love spending quality time together; it really makes me feel fulfilled and loved. ✨❤️

    • @Itsgold123
      @Itsgold123 Před 9 měsíci

      Yh in hunger?

    • @balleraap007
      @balleraap007 Před 9 měsíci +7

      So he’ll be Broke then you’ll leave

    • @mait18
      @mait18 Před 8 měsíci +14

      ​@@balleraap007not all women are like that. And he won't be broke entirely. We both are gonna work and earn, and do the needed household chores together. A balanced relationship is all I need. And even if goes broke at times, I'll be there to support him at that time and vice versa.

    • @lolalove7729
      @lolalove7729 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@balleraap007what does islam say about women?

    • @balleraap007
      @balleraap007 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@lolalove7729 to obey husband

  • @creativemuse33
    @creativemuse33 Před 10 měsíci +258

    We all desire to be seen & adored in love. If we all approach love as when we first met- prioritize each other’s needs and make them feel valued, we would have less trouble. Love takes attention and dedication, and a lot of communication.

    • @wmd.shadwick5158
      @wmd.shadwick5158 Před 9 měsíci +3

      I got it now. Thank you.

    • @rosk.wilburn5847
      @rosk.wilburn5847 Před 9 měsíci

      Dont listen to these wacko fake gurus😂😂😂😂

    • @rogerward3390
      @rogerward3390 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Adored???? Are u living in a fairytale 😅

    • @thepope9023
      @thepope9023 Před 8 měsíci

      No we don't. The self aware humane being understands that is narcissism masquerading as virtue.

    • @creativemuse33
      @creativemuse33 Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@rogerward3390
      I see in the dictionary adored means love and respect someone deeply, which resonates with me as that is the type of relationship I want to have.
      However, perhaps you prefer a different word for you in that sentence, for example “desired”, or “respected”- all really important needs. We may want different types of relationships but as a human we share usually pretty similar human needs.

  • @thenortheastindiangirl8524
    @thenortheastindiangirl8524 Před 9 měsíci +67

    So soooo trueeee...i never wanted a super busy successful man..i want to live the moment with my man.😊❤

  • @Earth-Angel-639
    @Earth-Angel-639 Před 9 měsíci +53

    That’s girl I want, who wants to be with me by my side. My love, my best friend my companion.

  • @bintheloop
    @bintheloop Před 7 měsíci +24

    This emotionally connected woman found out how difficult is was to be married to a busy emotionally detached man. Separated now 💔. Please send me prayers to get through this.

    • @donnatsoronis4985
      @donnatsoronis4985 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Praying ❤

    • @LILaw-db9yr
      @LILaw-db9yr Před 3 měsíci +1

      Praying for you and I hope you find d peace in this new chapter. To new opportunities and endeavors

  • @chijiokedaniel3859
    @chijiokedaniel3859 Před 9 měsíci +59

    this is the first calm female speaker I've heard, every other person is shouting..

  • @m.s9146
    @m.s9146 Před 7 měsíci +16

    A sensitive loving woman can also be a patient woman. If you are working together on your dreams and that requires absences or many hours of work, you can wait. It’s also how you were raised. My father had a very high position, it required travel out of state and country. My very sweet and gentle mother never complained. She certainly never cheated and was a stay at home wife and mother. Guess I learned from her.

  • @susanhenderson9739
    @susanhenderson9739 Před 8 měsíci +6

    So true.. You’re talking about me..The woman who is emotionally attached and will miss her man in a positive manner..

  • @victorolagunju
    @victorolagunju Před 9 měsíci +134

    Jesus emphasizes the importance of love and commitment in marital relationships. He teaches that husbands and wives should love and cherish one another, just as Christ loves the Church.

    • @awmpropertygroup3839
      @awmpropertygroup3839 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Amen. For those that are new to the God if the Bible. He talks about the heart in may versus. When we have unresolved wounds it makes it very difficult to love and be loved. God teaches us to still protect our hearts by discerning what is true vs what is not. You see people for the actions not just words. The Bible teaches so much about us. psychology gives us insight into the emotional and mental dynamic of our experience and provides us with tools to enact the Bible's instructions.

    • @dituri3127
      @dituri3127 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Erfan
      @Erfan Před 9 měsíci

      @@krenkatbamon5318 as the counter balance in the relationship. Brilliant concept, as otherwise people will stray or fall in temptation.

    • @rogerward3390
      @rogerward3390 Před 8 měsíci +3

      He also said no fornication..and no one here did that😂

  • @user-fi7rf8nk7z
    @user-fi7rf8nk7z Před 7 měsíci +5

    My wife was the second kind. I work for n the road 10 months a year. When I got home she was the center of my world. Everything revolved around her and she was the most important, loving person I knew. We doted on each other. I couldn’t keep my hands off her and she was the same to me. Anything she wanted I would give her. I love her and miss her terribly.

    • @BeardyAirways
      @BeardyAirways Před 6 měsíci +1

      Sounds like you cherished her a great deal. Yet something tells me that she is no longer with us and likely in the Almighty’s embrace - do I understand correctly?

  • @teresaw5220
    @teresaw5220 Před 9 měsíci +53

    What men want is a woman who is loving, loyal & to a certain point….independent.. that she will allow him to go wherever he needs to go w/o missing him too much. It’s called balance. I certainly don’t need him all the time but most of the time YES.

    • @lisamoyer4999
      @lisamoyer4999 Před 8 měsíci +6

      I agree, we are business owners so with that you don't havethe luxury of a regular 9-5 day. I am independent, I'm comfortable with my alone time when he has long weeks working late. Not all of us need to be constantly reassured. I think those feelings come being insecure, I am happy with who I am, so I don't base my worth on attention I'm getting or not getting, with that being said We do find time for each other, it just has to be planned.

    • @astrospirit
      @astrospirit Před 8 měsíci +6

      It’s not insecurity it’s different energies. Your ok with it because your air and earth dominant probably! Those are detached styles of love language but those who are water and fire are more passionate and they need more to fulfill them! That’s not insecure ! It’s so annoying hearing emotionally detached woman compare themselves to woman who are more passionate by calling them insecure. It’s rude

    • @BlackHeartsClub7
      @BlackHeartsClub7 Před 7 měsíci

      @@astrospiritwater and fire??? Wouldn’t that be toxic since the water gets rid of fire?

    • @noelleniedermeier2381
      @noelleniedermeier2381 Před 7 měsíci

      @@astrospirit just curious, what’s your opinion of a 45 yo female Aquarius/35 yo male Aries love match?

  • @sunnyhanif7496
    @sunnyhanif7496 Před 10 měsíci +22

    Anxious attachment is something that needs to be worked on. I would get too anxious 10years ago. But now I'm more secure. You can still find ways to connect from a distance. It builds momentum for when he does return home.

  • @bryanttrack
    @bryanttrack Před 4 měsíci +3

    She is spot on. My wife craves emotional connection and gets anxious when I am away from work for days or a week. The downside is finding the time to reconnect and this is a constant balancing act, sometimes it definitely causes strife, but I prefer her from the emotional detached type, especially at this stage of my life (39).

  • @stargirl3459
    @stargirl3459 Před 9 měsíci +5

    i don't know why people in the these comments are so resentful, I totally relate to all she is saying

  • @sherriflemming3218
    @sherriflemming3218 Před 10 měsíci +33

    💯. I think most women want committed partnerships.
    Being emotionally healthy is a good sign
    Both partners need to be this.
    Stability is healthy

  • @diananoonen2262
    @diananoonen2262 Před 10 měsíci +117

    A detached man does well with a detached women.
    Unfortunately opposites attract!

    • @shekar122
      @shekar122 Před 10 měsíci +19

      No it's the detached men does well with attached women

    • @bilalahmed815
      @bilalahmed815 Před 9 měsíci +4

      ​@@shekar122and vice versa

    • @Purpleiciousbabe
      @Purpleiciousbabe Před 9 měsíci

      Wow… your children 😮

    • @BlessedYakub
      @BlessedYakub Před 9 měsíci +3

      True and both look for temp attachment and 3nded up cheating and breaking up the family

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 Před 9 měsíci +15

      Oh they attract like a mf but opposites never last. The on the surface personality traits can vary but the core values have to match or its not gonna work. Like a homebody and a party animal. Fun at first. Not gonna work in the end.

  • @SA-px4vk
    @SA-px4vk Před 9 měsíci +18

    I personally know myself enough to know I couldn't be with a man who was married to his work.
    If he gives very little time to you - what's the point in being married? If he thinks finances are the only thing he needs to give, then you could just work for yourself as a single woman and not have the extra work and responsibility that comes with marriage.
    If he is not around to be with the kids, then what's the point in him being a father? Essentially he provided his sperm and then left all the work to you. You're the only real parent in the child's life.
    But marriage is about lifelong companionship. I always thinks it's a real compliment to you if your spouse wants to spend time with you. If they are "not fussed" - that's when your existence doesn't really matter and that marriage is just 2 robots playing husband and wife. There's no really no point to it because it's just empty and brings no benefit to either spouse or the children.
    Two spouses who do have to work through long distance but make time for one another to communicate regularly, plan date nights and face time one another to fulfill both themselves and eachothers emotional needs is respectable. Telling one another about eachothers day is important because he probably wants to know what she does while he is away and she probably wants to know what he is up to while he is away. They are putting their trust into one another so it's not something to be taken lightly.

    • @xochitlduran4650
      @xochitlduran4650 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Love your comment ❤❤❤.So true🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @seth8936
    @seth8936 Před 10 měsíci +107

    Emotionally detached or emotionally immature??
    Again, you can't have it all in life... Life is always a compromise..It will take two matured people to make it work..😕

    • @ahistoryofviolence4902
      @ahistoryofviolence4902 Před 10 měsíci +1

      You mean emotional immature is clingy/dependend?

    • @user-oy7dw9mq8x
      @user-oy7dw9mq8x Před 9 měsíci +5

      I agree. We are fully capable of adapting if we have someone that we know truly cares about us back

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah Před 9 měsíci

      Far and few in between!

    • @Xeik38
      @Xeik38 Před 9 měsíci +5

      I think it's who you're compatible with.

    • @rogerward3390
      @rogerward3390 Před 8 měsíci +1

      My parents, 54 years married saw eachother for maybe 2 hours a day, 5 hours on a Sunday, obviously had holidays and weekends away but 80% of the tome, 3 hours a day..max..
      Too busy running farm and business.
      Reared 3 kids, made lots of money and Mum misses him everyday.
      In other words, stop being clingy ladies

  • @Rabbithole11
    @Rabbithole11 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I’ve often said I’m too needy for a busy-busy man. I’d rather have his presence instead of his presents 😉😉

  • @ld921
    @ld921 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Hello 👋🏾 please don’t make generalizations, my man is rich and busy, I never feel
    Anxious with him, he massages me once or twice a day and we meet up
    Over the weekend, I’m simply self sufficient he’s busy and I wait till he’s not, meanwhile I work and I find stuff to do that interests me, I’m comfortable with him he makes me feel secure cuz I know he’s at work and not chasing other women, he’s a wonderful person and I don’t need lots of attention, as long as he tells me he loves me and we see each other few times a week when time permits I’m ok and I don’t need to cheat.

  • @kimkitty3914
    @kimkitty3914 Před 10 měsíci +573

    And that woman usually has a part time boyfriend

    • @2020Wanderlust
      @2020Wanderlust Před 10 měsíci +8

      Just wanted to point out how gorgeous you were , have a lovely weekend 😊

    • @kimkitty3914
      @kimkitty3914 Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@2020Wanderlust thank you 😊

    • @chucklombardo8167
      @chucklombardo8167 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@kimkitty3914i wud bang sadia

    • @2020Wanderlust
      @2020Wanderlust Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@kimkitty3914 lucky you ✨
      Well if you ever travel to the U.K. be sure to come and say hi 😊

    • @_VR_8
      @_VR_8 Před 10 měsíci +4

      🤢🤢🤢

  • @johnbeck2170
    @johnbeck2170 Před 9 měsíci +18

    I don’t get it: if a guy is super-successful, super-busy, and travels a lot-why not take your hot wife with you and live large?
    Go places, see things, party on the company’s dime, and make a fortune. You got it all.
    That’s what I’d do.

    • @karasmusic123
      @karasmusic123 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Because they likely have an avoidant attachment wound, and work achievement gives them the autonomy they enjoy. Too much closeness with their partner makes them uncomfortable.

  • @theklaus7436
    @theklaus7436 Před 10 měsíci +9

    I think she is an intelligent woman which happens to be a Beaty. I don’t understand why so many men are saying they wouldn’t want anything to do with her. I would love to spend some time with her. A beautiful intelligent woman- can it be better. ❤️🎸😊

  • @Mags2790
    @Mags2790 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I still get butterflies when I hear his truck in the drive way at 6 pm after 7 years ❤

  • @amandamorton-king2112
    @amandamorton-king2112 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Women need to relearn the importance of EXTENDED family and understand that one person (for example a husband) should never have to be ALL things - a lover, confidante, nurse, bestfriend, midwife, sparring partner etc etc. Its too heavy a burden for one person to carry which is why marriages now breakdown in a way they didn't 50 years ago when people understood the value of extended family.

  • @michellesheridan1028
    @michellesheridan1028 Před 8 měsíci +2

    She CAN if she is super busy too. I’m a natural loner and love alone time plus non stop working on goals.

  • @mosthighdaughter7169
    @mosthighdaughter7169 Před 9 měsíci +34

    This is exactly why the Bible says that a newly married man has to be relieved of his duties for an entire year so that he can meet his wife's needs. That is really enough time for them to plan how their schedules properly and it honestly teaches people that your marriage comes first before anything else really.
    I mean before jobs and all that a lot of people were farmers and honestly the family worked together to make sure they had enough food. These days family is "that extra thing" and work+everything else comes first.

    • @JENNerationX
      @JENNerationX Před 7 měsíci +2

      Of course! Employers are going to give an an entire year to every man - off to consummate every new marriage. It’s called getting fired.

    • @inna7803
      @inna7803 Před 5 měsíci

      Which verse plz?

  • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
    @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci +18

    Those over the road relationships aren't for me I need to see my man more than once every three months

  • @chubanyrepublic9701
    @chubanyrepublic9701 Před 8 měsíci +20

    Dear men, avoid emotionally detached women. they either want you for your status, procession or they have a partime partner. Same goes for the women. stay strong everyone👋

    • @user-hf8zv7qw4l
      @user-hf8zv7qw4l Před 7 měsíci

      If you love someone youre emotionally attached to him/her.

  • @Ceylon727
    @Ceylon727 Před 10 dny +1

    Balance ...is key

  • @evaslife-vlog454
    @evaslife-vlog454 Před 8 měsíci +13

    Women is an emotional being. To busy man put her in vulnerable spot to other men attention. Those busy man who want their wives to understands the dynamic of their work. Never mind she will understand but she will still crave emotional feeding. Let alone physical contacts. These are natural needs that a man has to provide. Plain and simple!

  • @tanyaaryai785
    @tanyaaryai785 Před 9 měsíci +4

    True. But at the same time a woman can also be crazy busy nowdays!!

  • @nadineibarra8279
    @nadineibarra8279 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My love language is physical touch. That doesn't work well with having someone gone all the time. Also, I have attachment issues. It's not a fear of someone cheating. I've always had a fear of death since I was a toddler. Seven years ago, when I lost my mom, I learned that I would rather have loved and lost someone than not experience love at all.
    Luckily, I've met someone who doesn't make me feel ashamed of my feelings and accepts me attachment issues and all.
    There's really no need to bash each other in the comments or make blanket statements, "All men" or "All women." I hope that you find true fulfillment whether that is with a partner that is near or far or by yourself. You deserve no less.

  • @dogloverboxer1426
    @dogloverboxer1426 Před měsícem +1

    Your absolutely right. 😊

  • @BeckyJB
    @BeckyJB Před 10 měsíci +42

    As a mom I find it hasn’t worked to be loyal and a homemaker because men have attention spans like a child who are in their thirties…. They leave with a thought of how clingy I am. It’s true ❤ but one day I’ll find myself a man who is happy to be around everyday and occasional trips here and there.

    • @justathinker8669
      @justathinker8669 Před 9 měsíci +3

      You are clingy and you are nit able to take any feedback. It's always the other persons fault.😂😂😂
      (Most working people need to focus on their work to get anything done so its hardly true that they have short attention spans.)

    • @Kelstar77
      @Kelstar77 Před 9 měsíci +8

      @@justathinker8669”clingy” are loyal AF, which is natural we are meant to be a clan as a family , it’s full time not a casual position, if she isn’t wanting your attention when away then who has it ? It will be eventually someone else 😂

    • @justathinker8669
      @justathinker8669 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@Kelstar77 you don't even know the difference between a clingy/needy person vs someone who is confident of the relationship 🤣

    • @Florabela69
      @Florabela69 Před 9 měsíci +7

      You will find one day what you need, until there develope your independence... and chose the right one! Sometimes people go in contrast relationships that are in the beginning very attractive but after time too much differences...

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah Před 9 měsíci +6

      And this is how stay at home wives/mothers step out of the relationship. It’s a lonely world.

  • @bluehenry3463
    @bluehenry3463 Před 10 měsíci +40

    Finally someone who knows what they’re talking about.

  • @AHbKA1
    @AHbKA1 Před 2 měsíci

    When my husband started his new job Track driver . Few months later I fell in to depression. It so true to what she is saying. I missed my husband so much .

  • @ellamae6360
    @ellamae6360 Před 9 měsíci +9

    That woman who accepts that his husband has duties that will take him away from her and ger family from time to time is called a mature woman. An insecure woman would always want the man on her side. There is a difference. Before you get married you both have to realise this. And vice versa.. an insecure man would always want his wife on his side all the time. Even when going shopping he will keep an eye on her that’s not healthy. That’s distrust . Trust is very important in a relationship.

    • @aleja544
      @aleja544 Před 7 měsíci

      My ex was like that. Omg even at the gym. Like I wanted to be on the treadmill and do my own thing and he wanted to do weights. He would literally watch me like a hawk and then he made a whole regime for me so I could work out with him. Like now I see that he was so insecure. Even told me I don’t call him enough when we texted and talked all day.
      Never again. On to a better love with trust.

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro Před 9 měsíci +6

    If a man really want and need a woman he will make time for her. Be a woman that man needs not a woman that need a man.

    • @YasminMahnaz
      @YasminMahnaz Před 8 měsíci

      Interesting.. what if your married and live together then what?

    • @zensvlognotapro
      @zensvlognotapro Před 8 měsíci

      If married each person must be committed to each other. Support, encourage, be a team work , give each others needs and wants.

  • @Quator27
    @Quator27 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Completamente de acuerdo. Necesita que su pareja le dedique el mayor tiempo posible y se sienta bien con ella.

  • @chantalborel
    @chantalborel Před 3 dny

    Absolutely very well said ❤

  • @agirloncrack4413
    @agirloncrack4413 Před 4 měsíci

    I study business for this exact reason , to occupy myself and be as important as possible for him, I have a huge anxiety when I’m not with my significant other and I always feel ashamed to bring it up with people

  • @gloriavis
    @gloriavis Před 9 měsíci +12

    This is true, I need my man home.

  • @thomasberry9021
    @thomasberry9021 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Entrepreneurships build family better than business trips. A woman with attachment issues at more bound to wander and stray from her husband, when an entrepreneurship she can work with her husband along with the children.

  • @1FaithHopeandLove
    @1FaithHopeandLove Před 9 měsíci +1

    "Bing, bing!"🎉
    Once again she'S spot on CORRECT.

  • @MaYa-jn2ui
    @MaYa-jn2ui Před 4 měsíci +1

    100% true.

  • @Simouno
    @Simouno Před 10 měsíci +25

    Men want to be with a woman that is worth ignoring all the temptations for

  • @TeriSpoken2u-tt6wc
    @TeriSpoken2u-tt6wc Před 9 měsíci +11

    That’s a materialistic woman objects, makes her happy and content, but not always Loyal, while a loving and caring woman needs nourishment and love that keeps her loyal, grounded and submissive.

  • @watuulopetermichael7668

    Appreciate you, mdm khan

  • @noahkaluba3830
    @noahkaluba3830 Před 9 měsíci +1

    well i'll go with an emotional one

  • @kaitemarie5404
    @kaitemarie5404 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I am fine to let him have unadulterated freedom. I won't be anxious or upset. Here's my deal: Don't make a fool of me. Don't treat me like furniture and as though ONLY you have emotional needs. And don't make me married SINGLE where I am alone in EVERY aspect even when you ARE around. A lot of men seem to be very ONE SIDED in a relationship and its "good" so long as HIS needs are being met. I see men complain all the time about having to CARE about their partner. They actually want her to just exist, almost delete him from the daily needs of life and handle them herself (kids included), and just serve him when he FEELS like it. Men go "Things are great. I'm fine. Maybe my family and children aren't, but I don't notice and they can take care of themselves." Men do not like taking care of themselves but want others to. They want attention and support in all areas but to be limited to tossing money and their bare-minimum at everything else. Women are adaptable, BUT, if you think women want to be like.... SINGLE-married....you have another thing coming. SO then men love those on-demand hoes: women, who come around for his pleasure on his terms that don't belong to him, who can give him all his attention and who he doesn't have to care about for the next year if he doesn't feel like it. Most men dont want relationships. They want an adoring servant that deletes their personal needs from the relationship entirely. This is the draw of whores, "girlfriends", friends with benefits, etc. Men are not loving creatures by nature and without God can't manage care towards anyone but themselves.

    • @zachariah380
      @zachariah380 Před 8 měsíci

      It honestly sounds like you've only interacted with immature men. I assure you, these characteristics do not describe good men. Either the men described are immature, or they're somehow jaded in the relationship dynamic they're being observed in.

    • @kaitemarie5404
      @kaitemarie5404 Před 8 měsíci

      Men are in denial about the level of their selfishness. It’s why God asks of them 2 things: leadership and love. It’s the hardest 2 things you can ask of a mortal man. Even the very 1st man would not lead, nor protect, nor showed love. He was thinking only of himself and how to save himself. Thus, as a form of restitution, men are now the leaders and called to serve and care for something besides their own personal gain and comfort. It is the toughest feat for men are so self-centered and obliged. Western culture and teachings ENCOURAGES them to be exactly that. So, it’s no small accomplishment to raise an actual man instead of a male being that just continuously gets older. 90% of women will meet an aged male and suffer thinking somehow he can be a husband, father, or even friend when he will never be. Men and male society have no community and do not require any former character or nobility of men. They louse as they will and the majority of them do.

  • @braniya99
    @braniya99 Před 10 měsíci +10

    she is 35 years old single childless women she has no idea what it takes to be family, when you have 3 kids, you are responsible for them and you will work day and night for providing them, and their mother if she is loyal and good woman she will support her husband instead of sayıng hey hon lets stay at home and chill cuddle together.

    • @YasminMahnaz
      @YasminMahnaz Před 8 měsíci +1

      True she don't have kids.. which is shocking because she not getting younger and is luck to have kids after 30 or 40s....

    • @lunafreya5887
      @lunafreya5887 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Childless or not she has a point. Many marriage breakdowns happen due to the man being away from the home too much. She’s not saying what’s right or wrong, she’s saying what will work and what won’t

    • @dorothykaffjamboe6808
      @dorothykaffjamboe6808 Před 5 měsíci

      @@lunafreya5887and whilst in that moment of distance most men cheat on their wives and get emotionally attached to that woman…exactly what am facing now.

  • @RichardPeterShon
    @RichardPeterShon Před 9 měsíci +1

    Everytime she speaks my heart literally melts

    • @Erfan
      @Erfan Před 9 měsíci

      she is typically what a muslim , desi woman is like. Its too bad white women have abandoned the church en masse, promote a provocative and promiscuous lifestyle, and in my generation, in addition to being disagreeable and arrogant, sleep around whenever possible, and have sold the future for steamy sex in pick-up trucks. True story from the other night, good looking girl (apparently from Alabama) was going hard in the main parking lot in the central complex… =\

  • @javiercajigas1847
    @javiercajigas1847 Před 8 měsíci

    Yes please I LIKED it and your work today

  • @kayz8628
    @kayz8628 Před 10 měsíci +27

    With these looks, u are always right!

    • @eckhardt76
      @eckhardt76 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Dude there's plenty of girls that look like her that are more in touch with reality.

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 Před 10 měsíci +1

      She is from Pakistan and her name is Sadia khan

    • @eckhardt76
      @eckhardt76 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@Journo5810 She might be from there but she’s been westernized.

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@eckhardt76 i agree

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@eckhardt76is not westernised. she has narrow view of relationships. relationship is not just all about emotional connections. sometime, if you fuck a anxious woman really good, all her anxiety will go away. also, too much security and stability is boring for a woman especially anxious woman. is not what she used to. you gotta make your woman 75% secure, 25% insecure.

  • @keithlott5146
    @keithlott5146 Před 10 měsíci +10

    So basically she told men "do not get married" why because there are two kinds of women, the emotionally arrached woman rjat will drive you crazy being so needy or the unemotional woman who simply dont care about your needs. Either way gellas you lose

    • @NarutoShino818
      @NarutoShino818 Před 8 měsíci

      Not married. Don’t be too rich if you want find a good woman. Is about being rich

    • @thepope9023
      @thepope9023 Před 8 měsíci

      Exactly.

    • @AutumnC22
      @AutumnC22 Před 7 měsíci

      You need to find someone with a secure attachment. But you also need to work on yourself so that you won't ruin it if you find it. You don't want someone with a strong avoidant or anxious attachment style.

    • @lunafreya5887
      @lunafreya5887 Před 6 měsíci

      So ask yourself what is it you want? Do you want her to care that you’re gone or not?

  • @ranazarwi8341
    @ranazarwi8341 Před 6 měsíci

    I’m both honestly. Sometimes emotionally detached and sometimes anxious

  • @november1966
    @november1966 Před 7 měsíci

    There is always a time for everything.

  • @Mil_Spec_Spartan_
    @Mil_Spec_Spartan_ Před 10 měsíci +25

    Well it's fine. I had my soulmate and she's gone now, so I don't want or need another one. A friend with benefits who's only there for my money is completely fine by me

    • @Winecheezer
      @Winecheezer Před 10 měsíci +1

      You sound like me 😊

    • @Mil_Spec_Spartan_
      @Mil_Spec_Spartan_ Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Winecheezer love is a losing game I guess.

    • @Winecheezer
      @Winecheezer Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Mil_Spec_Spartan_ correct! Everyone loses eventually ..

    • @danicaharley6273
      @danicaharley6273 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@Mil_Spec_Spartan_not with the right one

    • @Mil_Spec_Spartan_
      @Mil_Spec_Spartan_ Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@danicaharley6273 "the right one" is a bullshit myth.

  • @artmho1987
    @artmho1987 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Exactly right. This is why men and women generally speaking would greatly benefit from a nuclear family/traditional structure. Men need it and benefit from it, and so do women (with the exception of unusual outliers).

  • @timelessredlipstick
    @timelessredlipstick Před 2 měsíci

    I can agree to this because life is too short.

  • @feliciawalker9771
    @feliciawalker9771 Před 4 měsíci

    Love this! Thanks for saying this

  • @J.R.S.G.S
    @J.R.S.G.S Před 10 měsíci +79

    She needs..
    She needs.. She needs.... She needs. She needs.... Ok, we get it.

    • @shawnpark7620
      @shawnpark7620 Před 10 měsíci +10

      But they like the lifestyle that his work ethic provides...

    • @seth8936
      @seth8936 Před 10 měsíci +10

      You got to be a bum , to be satisfying all those needs...
      She will still end up leaving you if you are broke...😢😢

    • @manifest2203
      @manifest2203 Před 10 měsíci +27

      Lol you are surprised women have needs too. As if men are Evangelical Angels 🥴

    • @Winecheezer
      @Winecheezer Před 10 měsíci

      @@manifest2203😂😂😂

    • @danicaharley6273
      @danicaharley6273 Před 10 měsíci +17

      Well he takes and takes and takes from her

  • @akshairaghav9800
    @akshairaghav9800 Před 10 měsíci +4

    The modern times truly make me wish i was gay.

  • @Apfelkaninchen
    @Apfelkaninchen Před 3 měsíci

    As someone who grew up with parents who had a business and were Out of the country half of the week, I only agree 50%. I totally would understand if my husband needs to leave for work and I wohldn't blame him for it. I would be really happy when he is home but I understand when he has to go, too. There are many things to do at home to support the family and my own progression in life, so I get the time to do that when he isn't there. but the condition that needs to be met for that is that I have to know that he is loyal and gives me stability in an emotional way, gives 100 % like I do. As soon as I catch him cheating on me or lie to me or hve secrets that seem to be kind of suspicious, that lifestyle isn't possible anymore.

  • @anthonybishop2675
    @anthonybishop2675 Před měsícem

    Holy crap! After 5 of her talks Ive concluded that you would have to be perfect to please a "good woman".

  • @pauljames9596
    @pauljames9596 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I feel this depends on if one has past trauma they are not over with. People need privacy and space. Being couped up together all the time leads to resentment

  • @Bloquita5
    @Bloquita5 Před 10 měsíci +3

    How about both learn to manage money better as a household, live on less than you earn, get financial savy, save an emergency fund, then invest over a long time. Most people buy things they don’t need, with money they don’t have, to impress people they don’t even like. Love people, use things…because the opposite never works.

    • @aross6802
      @aross6802 Před 10 měsíci

      👏 Agreed
      The Wife is always the one who wants to spend money on unnecessary things 90% of the time.
      Then when the Husband /Boyfriend wants to buys something, Thats when they say "We don't need that, we need to save money/
      Its a waste of money 😂

  • @chinmoy2008
    @chinmoy2008 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Too much of everything is bad. Too much of emotions is bad. This is not a park we are living in. You can't give a plate of emotions instead paying the bills or bank loans.

  • @andrisakers4153
    @andrisakers4153 Před 2 měsíci

    when Freud writes - I wouldn‘t change, let everybody change it is about loyalty to the event

  • @stevensongrant7531
    @stevensongrant7531 Před měsícem

    This is so true you can have. It right

  • @lunafringe10
    @lunafringe10 Před 10 měsíci +5

    We want them obedient.

  • @craigmeyers9137
    @craigmeyers9137 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Look up Jane Wyatt for an example of what a woman should be. She sets the bar high for today's women. Even in her day, she was a prime example of a good woman.

    • @yonnaagape9484
      @yonnaagape9484 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thank you😎😎😇😍😍

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci +1

      The bar is so low on men women are dragging their weight an it's almost like they expect it......Bxtch I'm not your mom

  • @farheenfatima2264
    @farheenfatima2264 Před 6 měsíci

    Such a soothing talking style and great delivery of wisdom ❤

  • @GigiHabibi
    @GigiHabibi Před 8 měsíci

    Depends on the connection.

  • @chrismarklowitz1001
    @chrismarklowitz1001 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I think if a man is the best man for her it doesnt matter if hes gone whatever cause he proves hes the best to her in her view.

    • @askquestionsplz
      @askquestionsplz Před 10 měsíci +3

      Nah that's the reason my parents divorced. Having no help at home and a husband that's in the air flying 6 days a week

    • @chrismarklowitz1001
      @chrismarklowitz1001 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@askquestionsplz She wasnt picky enough. If she chose the best man she wouldnt care beacuse why would she if she cant get better.

    • @askquestionsplz
      @askquestionsplz Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@chrismarklowitz1001 it's not about better. It's about not coming together as a couple.

    • @naga9247
      @naga9247 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Magical thinking.

    • @amorepsyche808
      @amorepsyche808 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@chrismarklowitz1001omg I can’t believe there are people thinking like this🤦‍♀️ what do women need a man that is not home for?

  • @stirringthepot345
    @stirringthepot345 Před 10 měsíci +14

    Here is the problem with this lady. If you don't go on that business trip for a few months then you don't get the home you want. Then he can't be home to put the kids to bed because you won't have a bed in the home you want. She lives in a dream world. Sometimes you have to work long hours. Not all jobs are oh let's say 9-5 or I can just go home when ever.

    • @LedgerLiner
      @LedgerLiner Před 10 měsíci

      There's no problem with this lady boy she s straight up the most intelligent female out there.

    • @seth8936
      @seth8936 Před 10 měsíci

      She is certainly delusional.. Cinderella mind set all over again.....😢

    • @Angelwoman3
      @Angelwoman3 Před 10 měsíci +6

      She is talking about super loving and loyal women ( very feminine) she is not talking about the average one ☺️ the average one will just have a side bf

    • @TG-nh6ni
      @TG-nh6ni Před 10 měsíci +1

      Fr fr... even women work a lot now... to expect either partners to be around all the time is unrealistic and clingy 😬...u can be loyal and loving yet understanding and have independence...

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah Před 9 měsíci

      She’s not saying don’t go on the business trip for a month to look after you family. She’s saying for women to choose guys who aren’t this busy if they want real connection in a relationship bc a lot of women chase high earners and find out they can’t have him bc he’s so busy.
      Are you new Sadia’s content?

  • @anicialugo8997
    @anicialugo8997 Před 6 měsíci

    Absolutely TRUE!!!!!!!

  • @RoyMoss
    @RoyMoss Před 6 měsíci

    Your wisdom strikes me

  • @vxc907
    @vxc907 Před 10 měsíci +8

    She wants a lifestyle which cost money so the man has to go out and work. Women can't think.

    • @Marzellus1991
      @Marzellus1991 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cause they want their cake and eat it to. A good woman will understand that for a man to provide, it will come with some sacrifices for him to get his work/task done.

    • @idrisschoukrane8719
      @idrisschoukrane8719 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@Marzellus1991hhhhh look in reality
      Live are expansive and all money 95% controls by 1% so the only ways the have enough money in Dubai or a good city is hard hard to make 100k
      You should buy home and car .... those are not free
      Al economie systems are created to benefit to make more more money so if there is no way to man be healthy with artificial food and with unhealthy live work

    • @Angelwoman3
      @Angelwoman3 Před 10 měsíci +4

      She is only taking about super loving and loyal women ! She is not talking about the average 🤣 the average one wants her man to make money will enjoying her side bfs

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@Angelwoman3I just want my man home at the end of the night I work to ......he's on the railroad tho ..it's super hard for both of us that we broke it off and it was a beautiful connection

  • @sentinelOO7
    @sentinelOO7 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Want, want, needs, needs.
    Passport bro, passport.

    • @Angelwoman3
      @Angelwoman3 Před 10 měsíci

      Chao darling , never come back 🤣🤍

    • @aross6802
      @aross6802 Před 10 měsíci

      Free Agent Lifestyle for life

    • @aross6802
      @aross6802 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@Angelwoman3
      He'd be better off.
      These ppl nowadays are delusional, and have unrealistic standards.
      And a majority arent worth the Money Energy Attention Time

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@aross6802weird how men are always the ones wanting the relationship tho

  • @isabelmatos2796
    @isabelmatos2796 Před 9 měsíci

    You are so right. Thank you

  • @anicialugo8997
    @anicialugo8997 Před 6 měsíci

    You're wise!!!!!

  • @sebastiaanjohnson3358
    @sebastiaanjohnson3358 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Bruh she really thinks she knows how men work. Most men don’t care if a woman meets emotional needs, men don’t have emotional needs. It’s more about the companionship that the relationship brings.

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I find it that men are more clingy on me than the other way around....it's like geez let me get some rest I work to .....I'm celibate...I can't find any real men they act worse than women like weaklings

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Like u said tho an emotional man is not it.. really at all😶😒 I can't deal...bcz I'm very logical and tuff😂

  • @johnrushing5437
    @johnrushing5437 Před 10 měsíci +11

    I'm going to the Philippines to find a woman

  • @motivational_mouse
    @motivational_mouse Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you 💛

  • @florentinapantiloiu8395
    @florentinapantiloiu8395 Před 8 měsíci

    Amazing episode..i really like her content thank you for this fantastic knowledge ❤

  • @rays3868
    @rays3868 Před 10 měsíci +3

    She needs a therapist…

  • @joepesci8930
    @joepesci8930 Před 10 měsíci +4

    So she needs to be with a broke man then she'll complain about not having money

    • @ctmckin
      @ctmckin Před 10 měsíci +1

      You do know there are far more in-between incomes besides millionaire and broke, right?? Y’all are hilarious. Women can find a man who can pay the bills without him being a millionaire bc that’s the AVERAGE man

    • @joepesci8930
      @joepesci8930 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@ctmckin I've been both so what's your point women can pay their own bills if they want to make demands

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před 10 měsíci

      😂men can continue to use their hand then bcz even call girls demand the money 🤑💰😂😂😂

  • @kristengonzalez9890
    @kristengonzalez9890 Před 7 měsíci

    That’s why you gotta be both. Loving, but also willing to give your man space for work and such. It can be done. You can be both!

  • @shinichikudoz
    @shinichikudoz Před 10 měsíci +2

    Woman:oh this woman speak facts
    Man: what bs she talking about...she livin in dream land

  • @len1ams
    @len1ams Před 10 měsíci +4

    She is right on point

  • @LUrbo
    @LUrbo Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you for helping

  • @alodipadebnath2704
    @alodipadebnath2704 Před 7 měsíci

    yes I'm that women,its not like ik nit capable enough to do all the work,but I do miss him everytime,n he gives me that strength so I want him by my side everytime

  • @jeffspicolli593
    @jeffspicolli593 Před 10 měsíci +5

    This woman loves the sound of her own voice.