How women get attracted to men? - Sadia Khan

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  • čas přidán 19. 11. 2023
  • How women get attracted to men?
    Sadia is a relationship coach who has dedicated her social presence to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of modern relationships. Her passion for helping people build fulfilling and lasting connections has guided her on this meaningful journey.
    Sadia holds a BSc in Psychology, Master's in Education and Developmental psychology, Qualified Teachers Status, Diplomas in Psychotherapy, Advanced CBT, Psychoanalysis, and Inner Child Healing.
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Komentáře • 474

  • @sadiakhanclips5
    @sadiakhanclips5  Před 20 dny +1

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  • @bobbysilver272
    @bobbysilver272 Před 6 měsíci +495

    NEVER assume a woman is the source of your own happiness.
    After 31 years the woman I thought was my life partner has quit on me.
    I have been in love with my own creation of who I thought my wife was, not who she really is.
    Only you can make you happy.

    • @TheRealJonster
      @TheRealJonster Před 6 měsíci +52

      "I have been in love with my own creation of who I thought my wife was, not who she really is"... This hit me like a freight train, exactly how I felt about my ex after I've had years to process the break up

    • @ImaginaryShadows1
      @ImaginaryShadows1 Před 6 měsíci +17

      Women is part of your happiness. Not your whole world.

    • @troyehnisz9907
      @troyehnisz9907 Před 6 měsíci

      Men don’t care what a woman has financially

    • @ephilippos
      @ephilippos Před 6 měsíci +24

      The sad truth is thatcwe are born alone & we die alone..get used to it

    • @77magicbus
      @77magicbus Před 6 měsíci +2

      sad but true

  • @josedess8823
    @josedess8823 Před 7 měsíci +166

    I have been married for nearly 40 years and true love for me is self discipline caring and respectful behaviour towards each other especially when one of the partners is seriously sick. Thanks.

    • @gamingozone6721
      @gamingozone6721 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Nice mindset...I wish you both a very happy married life ahead! That 'when the partner is really sick' really hit me...

    • @baldeagle4710
      @baldeagle4710 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Being married is taking an L

  • @davidesh975
    @davidesh975 Před 6 měsíci +94

    Never put the keys to your happiness in someone else's pocket. there are good women out there but they are few and far between but don't give up.

  • @bttawfiq
    @bttawfiq Před 6 měsíci +70

    Both should give their 100%,
    that statement is so true and should be the basis of a successful relationship.
    Keep in mind the man's 100% is different from the woman's 100%, each has specific roles to contribute with.

    • @reubenmorris487
      @reubenmorris487 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Never heard that before...even from my own parents while growing up.

  • @zzychannel6534
    @zzychannel6534 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Hit the nail on the spot. This is exactly what’s happening to my relationship. I now understand it is the childhood trauma f’d it up. Walking away, it’s hard but I hope it’s for the best. I can’t tolerate it😊

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Před 6 měsíci +93

    Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy.

  • @amandaforrester7636
    @amandaforrester7636 Před 7 měsíci +64

    I've never cheated. But all these videos basically say, if you're abandoned by your parents, you're screwed. If you had a bad childhood, no one should pick you. Doesn't matter I made good choices. Doesn't matter I did better than them in every possible way, work in a hospital and do charity so I can give back to the community, am gentle and caring and able to hold space for those going through insane things (ER Is a quick education, if my childhood wasn't), cook and clean and all that. Fuck I'm more loyal than most people I know.
    Nope, bad parents = unlovable. Smart men don't choose women from bad homes. I couldn't help who my parents were, and I'll be cleaning up their messes for the rest of my life.

    • @duskydamsel672
      @duskydamsel672 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Darling it's bcos u be decided to work ontouraelf and I guess you are very smart

    • @amandaforrester7636
      @amandaforrester7636 Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@duskydamsel672 try getting past a first date with someone from a good home, though. I can't come out and say "my father was a pedophile and everyone but my brother choose him." All I can say is "I don't speak with my parents because they aren't good people, but I'm very close with my brother and his wife." The only people who give me grace for that come from similar homes like mine, and not all of them have worked on themselves like I have. Do you see the problem now? In practice, the small talk part of getting to know people is SO HARD.

    • @kevinwasilewski598
      @kevinwasilewski598 Před 6 měsíci +3

      You were doing so well, speaking in a dignified manner, until you unnecessarily dropped the F bomb where it didn’t add to your point, in effect adding to Sadia’s point

    • @amandaforrester7636
      @amandaforrester7636 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@kevinwasilewski598 actually, I have been trying to stop cussing. It goes in fits and starts. That's something I have been working on cleaning up out of my language, for a while now.

    • @angelsface200
      @angelsface200 Před 6 měsíci +8

      I definitely get where you're coming from, but I think that the videos have a point too. I think it all depends on three things - 1, that you're still not holding anger from your childhood; 2, that you're not repeating patterns that were shown to you during childhood; and 3, the qualities someone is looking for in a person, which most of the time are out of our control.
      1 and 2 can be worked out in therapy. For example, I came from a somewhat broken home. I swore for years that I was fine, but constantly kept dating emotionally unavailable men and didn't know why. I've been in therapy for over 1 1/2 years, and that's when I found out that not only am I dating men that resembled my father, but I myself was repeating the behaviors that my parents were unintentionally.
      Number 3 like I said is out of our control. There are people who wants partners that have healthy relationships with their parents for various reasons.

  • @frederickvee3496
    @frederickvee3496 Před 6 měsíci +26

    I was with my late wife/partner for 31 years. She cooked and gave me s#x until the very end. She worked for the first 10 years at the beginning of our relationship until she got hurt. I was more than ok to help her out, pay bills that she couldn’t. I miss her so much. 😢

    • @user-pi3jw2sb5v
      @user-pi3jw2sb5v Před 6 měsíci +4

      Sorry

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci +4

      You must thank her for being blessed with a wonderful women for 31 years. May God give you more😊

    • @pattyry
      @pattyry Před 3 měsíci +1

      She was very lucky to have you. 🙏

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw Před 3 měsíci +18

    A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him , I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated , I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw Před 3 měsíci

      Interesting , how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how can i get in touch with her?

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @AnthonySforza
    @AnthonySforza Před 6 měsíci +74

    Fun fact, I have dated "Successful" women and they are just as bad as the other ones. Just as entitled, just as demanding. However, they tend to have a massive chip on their shoulder that they have "earned" the right to be those things, while trying to compete with you, instead of seeing you as a partner. Or... OR, I can date a barista or waitress who may have the first set of qualities, but not the second.

    • @youngatnaruto
      @youngatnaruto Před 6 měsíci +7

      Those women are in there masculine frame

    • @nammi895
      @nammi895 Před 4 měsíci

      Exactly

    • @MySimDied
      @MySimDied Před 3 měsíci

      I am successful, not masculine (just a few back to back promotions very quickly) and I don't feel it really changes much about what you want in a relationship. If anything it lifts the standards. I wanted a guy to earn a bit more than me, and I still do. So I'd say we're worse to be honest. But guys are the same. The more you value yourself the more you will want from a partner. This is human nature, not restricted to women. Think of it as if you're marketing something. You can sell your item for $1 or for $10. Firstly if you can sell at $10 why would you settle for $1? That's stupid. And secondly If you did price it at $1 the person who buys it is going to have far more competition to purchase it. Guys seem to struggle with this concept. Even if successsful women didn't want high value men, that doesn't mean they'd end up with the less desirable ones. It would become a lottery ticket.

    • @youngatnaruto
      @youngatnaruto Před 2 měsíci

      @@MySimDied hypergamy is natural in women but as women earn more they fail to realize making over 100k a year less than 30 percent of the population makes that which does not taken into account women , gay men , men who prefer a bachelor life style which further lowers her dating prospect. Just as one can have standards so low you can have standards so high it becomes statically not in your favor you will find a person who will check certain boxes. Women say Men have low standards because they brought into the hype that because we are exactly the same and think alike that what I am attracted to in a man they must be looking for that as well. Imagine a man describing the traits he wants and he says he wants some one taller than me, some one who can protect , provide financial security and makes more money than him , is he describing traits a man is likely to have or a woman. Attraction is not asymmetrical and it does not mean men are insecure , It simply means men do not want to date men that are born in a woman's body.

    • @MySimDied
      @MySimDied Před 2 měsíci

      @@youngatnaruto Back to my original point though, if my standards are too high they will have to fall. But it doesn't mean that they will hit the floor. If i can't find a guy earning 100k, I'm going to look at 90k, not a jobless guy living in his mothers basement. Believe it or not, there are men earning 30k that are happily married. There are also plenty of 5'6 guys that are happily married.
      I think you guys put way too much emphasis on what rich beautiful onlyfans and instagram girls say. Of course they're not going to be interested in some guy who watches anime and hasn't left home yet, of course. Those girls for the main can meet their expectations of a man. The rest of us have to settle slightly. But still, I have my own house, car, decent job and I'm reasonably attractive. What can ugly anime boy in his mom's basement possibly offer me?

  • @ddnick
    @ddnick Před 6 měsíci +28

    Oh , " independent woman are awesome and housewives are lazy " no wonder why she isn't married

    • @biljanabojovic4485
      @biljanabojovic4485 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yes, I didn't like that.

    • @ddnick
      @ddnick Před 5 měsíci

      @@biljanabojovic4485 Women are women's biggest enemy ! My sister is a housewife... One day she's upset because of her friends " This is slavery" remark 🤔 I was flabbergasted the way she explained me whole thing n how much it affects her mentally. Her husband is kind , loving hardworking well settled man. On the other hand her friends husband was lame guy who do the 50-50 bs. Smoking addict n coward af... I don't understand why women don't understand the real intention of this type of jealous, hurt themselves mentally by listening to lame shit... I literally explained the whole situation to my sister n thankfully she understood.
      Don't take relationship advice from single woman or women who are with toxic mfs. This type of women will project their own truama n biases 😑n can possibly ruin your good relationship with your husband or bf

    • @riyajacob2909
      @riyajacob2909 Před 4 měsíci

      That was really bad.

    • @ddnick
      @ddnick Před 4 měsíci

      @@riyajacob2909 ??

    • @kfie3731
      @kfie3731 Před 3 měsíci +2

      hey listen to the full video. she didnt mean that all housewives are lazy, she meant specifically the lazy ones who don't care about their house/responsibilities .

  • @user-uz8jc5ng2b
    @user-uz8jc5ng2b Před 7 měsíci +34

    What men give has to be reinvented. The he-man is changing, because she no longer needs protecting, and she no longer need just money. She is starting to need a man who can balance her emotional storms. So "that" man has to be in touch with the field of emotion, not only his own, yet hers enough to go into that rabbit hole, and dig her out. He has to grow these new muscles, by learning to act more from his heart. Which is going to be quite the stretch for most men.

    • @WolfManThoughts
      @WolfManThoughts Před 6 měsíci +6

      spot on. You can never predict what is going on in the women's mind from the emotional level. That is why the saying says Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. And Men dont like Drama in their lives. Men like peace of mind.

    • @user-uz8jc5ng2b
      @user-uz8jc5ng2b Před 6 měsíci

      Men and women are VERY opposite: Women are here to experience beauty, and express emotion.
      Men are here to experience accomplishments, and to express logic.
      All this is polar opposites of each other, yet to have balance in our lives we need each other. He needs her touch to remember to let go of his emotions, and she needs him to be patient while logically making her world work. And through love we have the ability to heal each other by doing or saying what needs to be heard, and NOT what wants to be said. Go in peace.@@WolfManThoughts

    • @Hunnidproof888
      @Hunnidproof888 Před 6 měsíci +9

      Yeah dawg…that sounds like a problem women should resolve themselves lmao
      It’s no longer about what women want, it’s about what we as men want too.

    • @user-uz8jc5ng2b
      @user-uz8jc5ng2b Před 6 měsíci

      A relationship is about 2 people moving in the "Same Direction". When we start talking about who wants what, and who's getting it better, then it's about competition. At that point the line has been crossed: competition in a relationship IS divorce, remember that.@@Hunnidproof888

    • @missybelmont9830
      @missybelmont9830 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@WolfManThoughts healthy minded women want peace of mind too..

  • @decarlocalloway01
    @decarlocalloway01 Před 5 měsíci +12

    “Look after” means give them everything they want without working for it.

    • @MySimDied
      @MySimDied Před 3 měsíci +1

      No it really doesn't. This is likely why you're single. It means being taken care of and feeling stable.

    • @WillStephensArt
      @WillStephensArt Před měsícem

      @@MySimDiedbro learned is from his ex like I did

  • @jeremyvanbriesies1940
    @jeremyvanbriesies1940 Před 6 měsíci +30

    This woman is one of the most beautiful women i have seen in a long time ...
    She is much more than just a pretty face ...She has wisdom and appears to have a tender heart ...
    I have listened to many of her podcasts ...very insightful ...
    The person/ s who invested in her did a very good job...

    • @renaissanceman5847
      @renaissanceman5847 Před 6 měsíci

      If she wasnt pretty... she would not be as successful

    • @kulluminati777
      @kulluminati777 Před 6 měsíci +8

      calm down bro she is wearing makeup. She kicks OK game but its borrowed. Check out corey wayne for the SOURCE of what she is saying

    • @alexkupfer9171
      @alexkupfer9171 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Don't simp!

  • @ayyyejesterdazed
    @ayyyejesterdazed Před 6 měsíci +10

    I can’t stand “the wall” narrative running rampant for unwed/childless women over 30. It’s apparently a crime in society to choose to grow and mature alone. I don’t want to be a baby mama or divorced single parent. I understand the biological age aspect of “the wall”. but as someone who was raised by a single parent, with a very involved grandfather, I would rather die childless than be a struggling single parent. I would never want my children to ever feel like a burden the same way I did. No disrespect to baby mamas or divorced people lol.

    • @tarkgundogdu8940
      @tarkgundogdu8940 Před 6 měsíci +6

      The wall is very real though. I, myself, as a man was looking to women my age or maybe 1-2 year older while I was in my 20s. But nearing my 30s, I began looking to younger women as I see clearly that most women my age do not age well (there are exceptions of course).

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 Před 4 měsíci

      It is such a pity a beautiful woman did not have a husband. But she has several lovers ! 🥰

  • @cutiepie6143
    @cutiepie6143 Před 6 měsíci +3

    The end of this was powerful! People should really listen up.

  • @sten9life979
    @sten9life979 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is a good video. She provides a different perspective.

  • @dr.Curiouss
    @dr.Curiouss Před 6 měsíci +8

    The problem is there are good & right people for us out there but we will never meet them. Many people will end up with wrong people.

  • @wattshumphrey8422
    @wattshumphrey8422 Před 5 měsíci +2

    thanks for your perspectives - they ring true

  • @barryirvingj1813
    @barryirvingj1813 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is facts and you spoke the truth.💯

  • @Stardust_0211
    @Stardust_0211 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Love her confidence❤❤❤

  • @peteg860
    @peteg860 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Sadia Khan says she is the result of Beauty and Wealth 🤦‍♂️, i say prove it by taking off your pound of Makeup 💄 so we can see what your face really looks like 💁🏻‍♂️

  • @barryirvingj1813
    @barryirvingj1813 Před 6 měsíci +9

    I'm willing to be by a woman side and support her, protect and provide even if she's financially independent.

  • @johnnylego807
    @johnnylego807 Před měsícem

    Excellent video!❤

  • @gwynnielsen5081
    @gwynnielsen5081 Před 4 měsíci

    I just discovered this woman who speaks common sense. Thank you, Sadia Khan, for your truth. What pretty women with means have over those who don't is an easy out clause. But she is right. A man who knows you are wealthier than he is but who still "invests" in you is a keeper. I crave a collaborator in the form of a boyfriend. After forty years of searching, I still haven't found the right guy. Ugh.

  • @Finn-un5fv
    @Finn-un5fv Před 6 měsíci +3

    She has such a cute giggly goofy personality such amazing traits traits

  • @Solistastyle
    @Solistastyle Před 6 měsíci +12

    This woman does not represent womanhood. She's speaking for a dark sad confused corner of women.
    Not all of us want to enter into a transaction of looks in exchange for money.
    Some of us believe in integrity, and authentic connection.

    • @Kyle-fp5lm
      @Kyle-fp5lm Před 6 měsíci +2

      Really now? Is that before or after women had their fun? Because nowadays they seem to say that only after they have nothing left.

  • @dr.maazasif5424
    @dr.maazasif5424 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wowww... Speechless.

  • @thetruther954
    @thetruther954 Před 6 měsíci +20

    My wife is that lazy bum housewife. I’m not sure about the entitled part. But I get a great deal of satisfaction knowing I am making a difference to at least one person on this earth who I can honestly say I am good for. I am a good thing in her life and to me,that means everything. One person who can vouch for me at the pearly gates and say “yes, let him in”. And, if I could just show her how to keep her mouth shut, the same way Mom said about me, and not go around spilling the beans to potential con artists and fortune tellers, she would be perfect. Who wants a beautiful, rich woman with the wherewithal to destroy you if she so chooses? Not me, thank you.

    • @iamkAIden
      @iamkAIden Před 6 měsíci +4

      Sounds like a one sided relationship but if you are happy 🤷‍♂️

    • @thetruther954
      @thetruther954 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@iamkAIden yes, one sided definitely better than a beautiful and rich partner destroying you. Which, thankfully, has never happened. Do you have a successful marriage? You could call Jim Lucca if there's a doubt. He's the one who knows.

    • @flaviog.7192
      @flaviog.7192 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@thetruther954You're so miserable it can be seen from space.

  • @delconteeallmyharmon5526
    @delconteeallmyharmon5526 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Sometimes the wrong men think you're attracted to them it's a harsh reality for them when you reject them in person have a sweet day.

    • @henrycooper4213
      @henrycooper4213 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Men whom are not 8/10 and above in attractiveness you mean. Even when you are a 5.

    • @humbertovargas1211
      @humbertovargas1211 Před 6 měsíci

      exaxtly in men im like a solid 8 , tbh , and this women are willing to try to shame me , one day was a fatt girl that couldn even breath . i just say to her THANK GOD I DONT LOOK GOOD TO YOU IMAGINE YOUR DEPRESSION KNOWING YOU COULD NEVER EVEN TALK TO ME . she left crying to the bathroom. HAHAHAHAHAHA@@henrycooper4213

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 Před 6 měsíci

      Rejection is a harsh reality within itself period 😅

  • @baddi25
    @baddi25 Před 6 měsíci +8

    What is more romantic then calling a relationship investment? 😬🤮 everything wrong with this narcissistic generation. I'm out.

  • @user-lj2uu1ps2c
    @user-lj2uu1ps2c Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey man fresh mindness and real love is forever love.🎉

  • @waynegood9233
    @waynegood9233 Před 7 měsíci +5

    How about a woman who said she would pay me back when I paid 100 percent on 3 projects for her house (50 percent due ) ???

  • @forrestslade77
    @forrestslade77 Před 4 měsíci

    Love you coach ❤ Thank again

  • @jamesrussell1979
    @jamesrussell1979 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Very interesting and very informative 👍 👌 👏

  • @fazlinhoosain3116
    @fazlinhoosain3116 Před 6 měsíci +4

    She's so funny, great sense of humour hahaha 😂😂

  • @leselhbr8853
    @leselhbr8853 Před 6 měsíci +431

    Happy life with no wife and no kids ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Sabadiver
      @Sabadiver Před 6 měsíci +29

      Exactly 💯 freedom

    • @niteshraj2771
      @niteshraj2771 Před 6 měsíci

      Sad reality is you use porn instead.

    • @missybelmont9830
      @missybelmont9830 Před 6 měsíci +51

      You must be young. Good, be young and free. It isn't sustainable forever though.❤

    • @GQ-ch8xy
      @GQ-ch8xy Před 6 měsíci +54

      Get a mediocre looking girl who is willing to work and help you out through good or bad. Being single and alone sucks when you get old. I work around older people who have nobody to visit or care for them. A good amount of them never had kids. It's actually pretty sad. Women want someone who makes more than them. Find your equal

    • @niteshraj2771
      @niteshraj2771 Před 6 měsíci

      The truth is you don't have what it takes to attract women. Deep down you know it but pretending as if you don't want them in the first place.

  • @hidetoedwarduno7681
    @hidetoedwarduno7681 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I'm so glad I never cared about finding a 'life partner', theres so many reasons to not do it, especially for a man. 'Modern women' & their mentality now makes it SOOO much easier to make that decision. I am very happy with my independence & following my mission, which also ironically makes me more attractive to women.

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci

      What is a about modern women that does not attract you?

    • @hidetoedwarduno7681
      @hidetoedwarduno7681 Před 6 měsíci

      @@makhdoommohammad8923This of course is a generalization & my opinion, I also say this because of what I see going on with relationships in general. First, they’re masculine. I think I’d be more open to find a woman in a more rural area of another country….2nd, modern women obviously have been raised to see things from a materialistic & self-absorbed perspective which includes princess upbringing (I do get the evolutionary side but it’s been hijacked by institutions n corporations to make us better consumers too). It’s hard for me to treat a woman like a princess when she’s masculine and expects it. Again, it’s just not worth it to me when I am very happy alone & it’s women that ‘need’ relationships more than men, yet you must cater to their ‘vision’ of what they want, it’s a fantasy you have to uphold & then they may change their mind about everything & may choose to leave u anyway (women respect people that don’t cater to them so it’s like a SETUP here)…3rd, modern women are relatively very fickle/selfish (coupled with hypergamy & the emotional nature of women, makes them relatively undependable in this way). Another big one with modern women is the influence of 3rd wave feminism, which ironically has made men (that listen) more unattractive to these women & could be a big part of the other reasons I gave above. Excuse me if this was too long ha, but trying to explain it all.

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@hidetoedwarduno7681 Many Thanks for your reply. Modern women can be self absorbed and expected princess like treatment, they can be very masculine in nature (wanting to lead and expect you to follow them), they can also be a burden financially with their life style expectations....I am so content at 39 with single life and I don't think I can tolerate a women like you've described. Maybe a village women will have a different orientation, she is raised to serve her husband and take care of his home 🏡
      And actually some one who's not a burden on paycheck. I want some one like. Otherwise I am happy with single life. God help us.

    • @hidetoedwarduno7681
      @hidetoedwarduno7681 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@makhdoommohammad8923
      ​​⁠well thanks for having a calm conversation with me (agree or not) n not trying to see where I am wrong lol, lot of that on the internet by guys that probably don’t get women haha. Yes, the funny thing is when u focus on u & ur life & being happy, women are more likely to be attracted & want to prove themselves to u, while trying to make them happy too much makes them unhappy & they leave u lol. Thanks for the blessing, we’re good, men r naturally independent & we r so much more attractive to women when we don’t want them lol, it’s a weird game but it’s not womens fault, it’s evolution. Blessings to u & ur family & May u find everything u want in life.

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@hidetoedwarduno7681 I wish you well and I completely agree with you. I hope and pray we don't become misogynist and end up finding good women for ourselves while maintaning economic and spiritual progress. 🙏

  • @paryanindoeur
    @paryanindoeur Před 6 měsíci +2

    _"a beautiful, wholesome, successful woman"_ Oh, is that all I need to find! Let me just pop around the store to pick one up!

  • @NietzscheDevot
    @NietzscheDevot Před 6 měsíci +3

    At this point in life I genuinely don't care about women & who they are attracted to. I love my nice little cosy life a bit too much to adjust

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I think you do which is why you came here to listen to Sadia

    • @NietzscheDevot
      @NietzscheDevot Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@makhdoommohammad8923 nope it's just the CZcams algorithm

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@NietzscheDevot I actually agree with you. Modern women are problematic. I think women in our older generations were much better

  • @mrbrandoncole1
    @mrbrandoncole1 Před 6 měsíci +11

    You're a Sadia Khan if ur both pretty and rich.... I couldn't agree more! I've got such a massive crush on this woman as she is seemingly perfect in every way a LADY can be. And I'd be happy to give a laundry list of how and why Sadia is practically a perfect LADY.

  • @gergohegyesi2266
    @gergohegyesi2266 Před 4 měsíci

    I love her sense of humor though! So lovely😅😅❤❤

  • @josegarza7719
    @josegarza7719 Před 6 měsíci +28

    Men, NEVER TAKE DATING ADVICE FROM A WOMAN. They’ll never understand what it’s like from our POV and vice versa.

    • @negochristian1
      @negochristian1 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Never take dating women advice from a woman* 😮

    • @missybelmont9830
      @missybelmont9830 Před 6 měsíci +5

      How else are you gonna know what women want!?

    • @josegarza7719
      @josegarza7719 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@missybelmont9830 ask other men 😂 I go by the saying “even women don’t know what they want.”
      I’ve met women who say they aren’t looking for relationships. Then in the same month they get in a relationship with someone other than you.
      I’m not into hookups to you and then they hook up with chad a few days later.

    • @thebasement7330
      @thebasement7330 Před 6 měsíci

      they want MONEY !! @@missybelmont9830

    • @rishabrege3479
      @rishabrege3479 Před měsícem

      @@josegarza7719Women are emotional. They don't operate on logic or the meaning of words but how they feel in the moment. They operate on intuition and maternal instinct. When the right buttons click, they spring into action. Evolution made them for mating. That's all they are

  • @MySimDied
    @MySimDied Před 3 měsíci

    For the long term I agree that being "looked after" or better put having stability is the most important. And most women lie when they say otherwise If I ask a guy what he does, and he's a manager it is definitely more attractive than if he's the assistant. Bu it's not all about money, it's kinda like the manager position is more powerful. It's just more impressive. And that's important too, finding a guy that you're proud of.

  • @drivethruabortion280
    @drivethruabortion280 Před 6 měsíci +9

    I was approached by an unattractive but kind woman the other day who wanted to know me. I was polite, but the feeling wasn't mutual. And I'm lonely.
    But, I choose loneliness over someone that doesn't interest me. Even a mean, but attractive woman would have a shot, though I would expect and even allow her exit from my life.
    Just the way it is folks.

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 Před 6 měsíci

      Yea you have to sleep with them and be able to be aroused easily. If not it's impossible for her to be your lover and vice versa 😅

    • @makhdoommohammad8923
      @makhdoommohammad8923 Před 6 měsíci +1

      You did a great thing for yourself. I have done the same recently. An unattractive fat girl wanted to get to know me and my goals and my priorities in life, I refused to tell and pave the way for any unrealistic expectation and feelings of love (one sided). After a few discourses I told her to buzz off. I'm 39 and single.

    • @whocarescrapsa
      @whocarescrapsa Před 6 měsíci

      After being messed around by a few beautiful looking women - I thought I must try something different. I gave the unattractive girl a chance thinking that she would jump at the opportunity and treat me very well. I can report back - it is a lot more pleasant being screamed and shouted at by an attractive women. They are all the same. You did the right thing.

  • @dstorm7752
    @dstorm7752 Před 4 měsíci +2

    No matter how handsome, fit, and educated a man is, women will not be interested if he is broke and a soldier deployed. Then later, if that same guy is an affluent professional, women will be eager to date him.

  • @guessdxb
    @guessdxb Před 5 měsíci

    I'm home alone for 2 weeks now .. its so beautiful to be living by myself .. soon mom and kids are returning from travel and then my free time is over

  • @kasimafghan7919
    @kasimafghan7919 Před 6 měsíci

    Superb superb discovery

  • @gunzchattergoon2000
    @gunzchattergoon2000 Před 5 měsíci

    Sadia is like a teacher in school

  • @feliciaakabe9364
    @feliciaakabe9364 Před 6 měsíci

    Story of my life

  • @sthesibisi3902
    @sthesibisi3902 Před 2 měsíci

    Mmmh 👏🏾💪🏾 wakhuluma Nkosazana ngiyakuzwa mina 🫡

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Just do things for each other it should be natural and effortless in the sense that you both want to help each other

    • @biljanabojovic4485
      @biljanabojovic4485 Před 5 měsíci +2

      That's love. If you just want to be happy and not to make your partner happy it's not love.

  • @jozsiolah1435
    @jozsiolah1435 Před 6 měsíci

    Rich people hate, if strangers go in their home, to fix things or to help at household. It’s better if the husband or a family member does everything, instead of a stranger. Rich people also choose one person to do everything at home, instead of multiple workers. The reason is usually the stealing at wealthy houses, if an item disappears, rich people can easily find it out if one worker does everything. The love story part is very interesting, even a magician queen can fall in love with a person, and there is no explanation.

  • @aelfredrex8354
    @aelfredrex8354 Před 6 měsíci +2

    If the logical progression is Lust, Like, Love, then initial attraction is about the sex. Like and Love come later.

  • @Winecheezer
    @Winecheezer Před 4 měsíci +1

    Relationships and having a family nowadays is almost impossible for both men & woman

  • @randomthought6681
    @randomthought6681 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Not trained to think women cheat. Yes this is facts. But more important is the father. Any father out there raising a son needs to teach their son this fact, it’s been around for centuries I bet. If she doesn’t have a good father/daughter relationship she’s likely to cheat much more than with a stable home

  • @manuelkiddrichwoode6523
    @manuelkiddrichwoode6523 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You can't do ANYTHING for a Woman! She'll wake up one morning and forget every damn thing you ever did!

  • @williamtaylor5193
    @williamtaylor5193 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This is precisely why I'm unattractive to women---I'm not interested in looking after them.

  • @Buckshot99
    @Buckshot99 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I want kids, but don’t want a woman.

  • @johndoe-px4dm
    @johndoe-px4dm Před měsícem

    she so smart and funny 😍

  • @gavster023
    @gavster023 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Seems like if your saying beauty is a womens biggest asset and wealth is the mans biggest asset and when thete all in investing in each other that means the women doing everythng in bedroom and the mans paying for evrything and thats what each sex values individualy

  • @moltenink9137
    @moltenink9137 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Save your money kings, real queens dont need your money just your support

  • @allencampbell1058
    @allencampbell1058 Před 6 měsíci +1

    If women are attracted to men that can take care of them, why is it that they always seek and go for the guy that don't want them and just use them....

  • @ricardofragoso6648
    @ricardofragoso6648 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Women whants to smile!! When a man is sad, women dont like that type of guy! Make she smile, and she will be yours for your life!!

  • @videochannel5183
    @videochannel5183 Před 5 měsíci

    Sadia and Kevin Samuels would have been a dope conversation

  • @enigmathegrayman2953
    @enigmathegrayman2953 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I ain’t got no money, I ain’t got no woman

  • @inverseiq5934
    @inverseiq5934 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Another example of never ask a woman about what women want. Listen to Stoic and get manly.

  • @Andy-uw9cg
    @Andy-uw9cg Před 6 měsíci +2

    It shouldn't be based on looks , but as a tall strong handsome man even when I had no money ) I always had plenty of female admirers .. I pity the guys holding on to a woman because they have money 💰 it's very sad.. i wouldn't give them time of day

  • @user-sj9ty5eg4d
    @user-sj9ty5eg4d Před 6 měsíci +3

    I personally have to disagree with its your upbringing thing. I and my siblings grew up in a dysfunctional home(dad bailed and phyco stepdad). None of us have did any of the things this woman has said. In fact both my parents came from “traditional family units” and that didn’t prevent anything so I disagree. Also, people with “daddy issues” are just likely to have the same relationship preferences as anyone else.

  • @danigreatprogresslana570
    @danigreatprogresslana570 Před 6 měsíci

    She looks attractive

  • @sentientslug3259
    @sentientslug3259 Před 4 měsíci

    This is the most beautiful woman on the planet, hands down.

  • @comelitekang8873
    @comelitekang8873 Před 6 měsíci

    I couldn’t agree more, you both have to give 100% of finances, efforts, upholding the house etc. that’s how it works in my household. We are giving 100% and it works. It’s peaceful, we both know what are goals and purpose are, where we stand and it’s beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @ryuxfx52
    @ryuxfx52 Před 4 měsíci

    Can someone please explain. In bother Video she said that you can’t buy attraction. But here she is saying how she is attracted to men who do things for women.

  • @Richest_Person_in_the_World
    @Richest_Person_in_the_World Před 6 měsíci +1

    "Give free money to me, and not to entitled women."

  • @cinemation2
    @cinemation2 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Sadia, I never saw any useless and entitled woman. Taking care of babies and cooking are important chores. I am impressed with your observations and intellect, though.

  • @oooodaxteroooo
    @oooodaxteroooo Před 5 měsíci

    hes surpessing his microtells big time haha

  • @arkosnatoneogy2366
    @arkosnatoneogy2366 Před 22 dny

    Sadia is an exceptionally intellient lady and a gifted analyst of relationships with deep insights. However, I would like to call out that her characterization of housewives being "entitled and lazy" was wrong and not up to her standards. I hope she sees and rectifies her stance on this.

  • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
    @marlonmoncrieffe0728 Před 6 měsíci +1

    "Do you think she'd look at you if you were poor?"
    "Do you think I'd look at her if she were ugly? Fair's fair, exchange rates and so forth."
    -from 'Lady Windermere's Fan' by Oscar Wilde

  • @lennyy1211
    @lennyy1211 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This woman has a dark sense of humor 😂

  • @dealswithnormiesallday
    @dealswithnormiesallday Před 6 měsíci +1

    The perfect guide for MGTOW.

  • @denzelheden4256
    @denzelheden4256 Před 7 měsíci

    1:24 case can be made to put cash to Work.... 50.26SDC

  • @amarshrivastava2753
    @amarshrivastava2753 Před 3 měsíci

    💯

  • @MOCHI-ek6rc
    @MOCHI-ek6rc Před 4 měsíci +1

    She is right. The fear of abandonment.

  • @Reddo2407
    @Reddo2407 Před 6 měsíci

    What is sadia khan academic background

  • @quxantipe
    @quxantipe Před 6 měsíci +4

    LOL @ her saying, that women are attracted to men that are able to look after them. Obvioulsy, it helps and matters.
    But women aren't blind, and feel attracted to a man she finds attractive looking firstly. Hence women select for looks aspects they find attractive, like a man his height, face, body shape, etc...
    I rarely see good looking man being single, but I do see being single plenty men that are good providers that have average or below average looks.

  • @sudiptadas6243
    @sudiptadas6243 Před 6 měsíci

    Very good 😂😂

  • @ziwardarabi1007
    @ziwardarabi1007 Před 6 měsíci +1

    It’s true women need more love I’m women I’m not need anything from my Partner I do everything for my se😢but only I need love from him I only wish he love me same

  • @scraigrogers
    @scraigrogers Před 6 měsíci +2

    This guy is bringing this convo down. He's lost. Listen bruh while she speaks....

  • @muneebconstance2223
    @muneebconstance2223 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Not all housewives are lazy bums...

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Yeah, it was disgraceful. A good housewife is much better than a career woman like Sadia.

    • @Chad_Max
      @Chad_Max Před 6 měsíci +2

      Yeah but the problem is there’s no negative repercussions for being a lazy housewife. If a wife cheats on her husband, gets impregnated by another man, or just decides to do nothing all day everyday then she’ll still be able to divorce and get half the husbands wealth and assets. That’s how messed up marriage is today for the high income earner. It’s all liabilities and no real benefit…

    • @whocarescrapsa
      @whocarescrapsa Před 6 měsíci

      @@Chad_Max I can't understand how women brag about being strong and independent. Oh, you mean as an adult - you can afford to feed yourself - just like women have been doing for the last 100 years. My 86 year old mother thinks these women are weak. She tells me stories of what her and her friends did in their day. Before photocopiers were invented, companies had typing departments - rooms filled with women. They had their own apartment, car and paid for their own holidays. At some point they all chose to get married and start families. Independence was the default factory setting. Dependent and married was the goal. Today we brag about being independent...its like bragging that we are human. I don't get it.

  • @nope9858
    @nope9858 Před 6 měsíci +1

    No spouse, happy house!

  • @damienbarton3910
    @damienbarton3910 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Women suffer from group think and fomo,
    9/10 look at the mother or the friends and you’ll see the truth.

  • @spinningaround
    @spinningaround Před 4 měsíci

    A man is not born rich. His appearance also elevates him!

  • @azharmahomed786
    @azharmahomed786 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Sadia khan.... you're too cute 😂

  • @shouperman1
    @shouperman1 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I dont think men dont want successful woman.....but successful woman are more choosy (as they should be), so they are not attracted to most men they meet.
    It is not men are not attracted to successful women, but successful women are not attracted to average men.

  • @LRS11B
    @LRS11B Před 5 měsíci

    You forgot one thing:
    Women like men who don't fully like them back

  • @comelitekang8873
    @comelitekang8873 Před 6 měsíci

    I love it❤❤❤😂😂😂”what are you if you’re wealthy and pretty?” You’re a Sadia Khan👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰love her

  • @gfxmaniac
    @gfxmaniac Před 6 měsíci

    I'd never put a bet that woman can make happy.

  • @billybanter9573
    @billybanter9573 Před 6 měsíci

    wow

  • @ndubstar
    @ndubstar Před 6 měsíci

    First thing she said. Truth. His reply false. He said money. Money is an object but a lazy doof can have money. She just goes along with the money idea he put forward. Homeless bums have hot chicks by the way.