12 Signs Your Adoption May Fail.
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- čas přidán 16. 03. 2020
- What if the Birth Family changes their mind? It happened. The heartbreak was deep. The depression was long lasting. Hear our own adoption loss story and my 12 signs your adoption MAY fail. I hope these 12 signs help you in your adoption journey.
Hi! I'm Tami....mom to three incredible kids who each have their own beautiful adoption story. It's because of them that I am an Adoption Advocate - educating families, wiping tears (& crying with you), cheering you on, & walking with you through your own journey & beyond. The good, the bad, the beautiful, the ugly. We'll talk about it all.
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We are looking at using Lifetime Adoptions. We are also Dave Ramsey listeners. I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you!
Hi Carolyn! Lifetime was so fantastic for us - I hope they are for you as well if you go with them. Please tell them I say Hi! :) You won't miss out on the child God has planned for you - He'll direct you to the right agency. And Hooray for being Dave Ramsey listeners! Thank you for being here and watching - please let me know if you have any questions! xoxo, T
This is so helpful in our adoption preparations!
I’m so glad! It takes a tribe! Thank you for being here! xoxo, T
Why are some families so successful with adoption and others cannot find a match?
In my experience and opinion, usually couples aren't successfully matched with a birth family because the adoptive families preferences are too narrow. The more open couples are (for example open vs closed adoption, visits vs no visits, etc.) the more easily they will be matched.
@@TamiMajtan How can families open up their preferences? Especially, if they are faced with state adoption regulations that prevent approval from special needs if their county does not have a hospital or the demographics of the county does not match the racial profile of a transracial family? And it also assumed that rural families live too remotely for visits of any kind.
@@exploitthechildless1510 Private Adoptions in the US won't typically have these issues. Families are approved with a homestudy before they are even matched with a birth family. Adoptive families open up their preferences by letting their agency know, for example, they'd be open to visiting the birth family. Birth families choose an adoptive family according to their preferences for an adoptive family. When all preferences line up then the birth family can choose (or not) to be matched with that adoptive family. It's all up to the birth family.
@@TamiMajtan That is very disappointing. I don't see a way for us to be successful with domestic infant adoption. We are required to comply with state adoption regulations.
@@TamiMajtan We are approved, but only for healthy caucasian infant. The lack of a hospital in rural areas is well known. Also, rural areas are much less racially diverse than urban areas. The adoption agencies we have contacted state there are no healthy caucasian infants available.