How To Tell Your Kids They Are Adopted.

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  • čas přidán 26. 05. 2021
  • How in the world do we tell our kid(s) they have an adoption story? The fear. The nerves. Will they hate me? I've been in your shoes and I survived. I'll talk you through it all!
    Hi! I'm Tami....mom to three incredible kids who each have their own beautiful adoption story. It's because of them that I am an Adoption Advocate - educating families, wiping tears (& crying with you), cheering you on, & walking with you through your own journey & beyond. The good, the bad, the beautiful, the ugly. We'll talk about it all.
    Come have coffee with me & let's chat about all the things - adoption, race, black hair care, family - all in a real life environment of imperfect filming & unedited kid comments. 😜🙌 NEW VIDEOS WEEKLY (ish...Life is busy, y'all!). Click that 🔔 to get Notified when a new video is uploaded. 🙌
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    xoxo, T
    #adoptionstory #howto #adopted

Komentáře • 16

  • @aliciasmith1627
    @aliciasmith1627 Před měsícem +2

    I’m adopted, and I do love how you’ve been open with them. However, therapy should be a requirement as well. Adoptees grow up. They realize they were relinquished. Birthdays are hard, family tree assignments are hard, and no matter how much you love them, they will grieve. When old enough, the book the Primal Wound is an excellent resource ❤️

  • @michellescott3078
    @michellescott3078 Před rokem +2

    We raised our daughter knowing her adoption story. Adding things as she gets older and begins. I told it to her from birth just like any other bedtime story.

  • @jenniferdriggers8067
    @jenniferdriggers8067 Před 2 lety +5

    We just told our 6 year old. She was birthed by my sister but became my daughter. She was fine, the adults in our lives is another story 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @TamiMajtan
      @TamiMajtan  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for your comment Jennifer! I'm so happy to hear about your convo with your daughter! Beautiful! Sorry about the adults. :( xoxo, T

  • @dayseej.c9191
    @dayseej.c9191 Před 2 lety +1

    My son and I were left at his age of 6months.. at 9months my best friend at the time stepped in.. we were together for 5 years and he is “dad.” BUT my son doesn’t know he’s not his bio dad and is now 7. We recently broke up just to top it off.. I’m so scared to tell him 💔

  • @victorvillacis6764
    @victorvillacis6764 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you this made me more comfortable

  • @haleyhunter5401
    @haleyhunter5401 Před 2 lety

    So helpful thank you 💜

  • @nymathman8212
    @nymathman8212 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for sharing. thank you thank you

  • @mistyblackfoot3848
    @mistyblackfoot3848 Před 7 měsíci

    I’m terrified. The honest truth. I’m scared.

  • @saint.hudson13
    @saint.hudson13 Před 2 lety +1

    🚨Have you heard about the #CoscoGirl? It’s adopted family like them giving loving parents like you a bad name! This girl is being abused and needs the public’s help!

  • @johnnysanders5947
    @johnnysanders5947 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much

  • @linesofinspirations
    @linesofinspirations Před 11 měsíci

    ❤thank you

  • @Imanilol-qq8oz
    @Imanilol-qq8oz Před rokem

    I cry if my kid did not no they were adopted😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭

  • @megangrace4285
    @megangrace4285 Před rokem

    Were hoping to start our adoption journey soon too I'm already a mother of 4 with one boy and three girls so were hoping to adopt a newborn boy and my husband wants to adopt because he wants to carry on his name since he's the last of his family and I want to adopt because since I was adopted myself and have gave up a baby for adoption I want to do for a baby what my parents did for me

  • @grannychild
    @grannychild Před 9 měsíci

    my friends are adopted

  • @anthonyandprecious8759

    Hey what your oldest kids age