BLK GIRL LUXURY MOTHER SPEAKS OUT AFTER FALSE INFORMATION WAS SPREAD BEHIND HER DAUGHTER'S PASSING
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What about all those rumors about her being an escort and sugar baby
I couldn’t deny or confirm if her profile was active, but she was married so again that’s a rumor. The profile was created in 2019.
@@SaintDior1 she’s married to a well off man so we don’t know how she was getting those things. This could’ve been something that she was doing prior to marrying him. We don’t know which is why I did not include the information in this video.
She was an escort
@@Prettygirlvita how do you know?
@@RealTalkWithYanie ok. I wouldn't include it either. It just rumors. I do think it's suicide though
I’m starting to see this social media trend as an obsession. I like real people with real problems and real solutions. I have moved away from fake luxury and soft life peddlers, relationship gurus, and men/women polarization through radical topics. Enough is enough. In this season, we must be practical, self conscious and self focused, and supportive of positive endeavors(BW)-if we want a better life. This world is crazy.
I agree! Life isn’t always luxurious or soft! They hide behind an elusion.
I agree 100% I have blocked so many pages and scroll right past. I can’t keep consuming all the nonsense. It’s not healthy
Oh yeah. I pop up on social media once in a blue moon to post cute piks & be nosy. Ppl have asked me why i disspaear for months at a time. And all i say is my life exists in the real world. 😊
My friend and I spoke about this last weekend. We have both had enough of social media debates. In real life everyday people are married, have average looks and jobs, getting married and just living life.
Feel so many social media pages are grifters who are not even living the lifestyle they are promoting.
Thiiis
I've never seen this young lady before but she's stylish and beautiful. I know this is an extremely painful time for her mother and family. Please be kind. My Condolences to her family.
Me too. I am just discovering her. It's so sad. People are hiding a lot of pain and agony behind smiles.
As someone who has the ideations yet on the “outside looking in” people THINK you “have it all” - I can only imagine what she was really going through. If I didn’t actually confide in my family about my ideations, I may not be here too. It’s really sad. The grass is not always greener.
I can be kind and voice my thoughts.
she showed people luxury goods and we can't even afford em. Sad she's gone but who knows what lives were changed after watching her content. ❤
People be faking, and torturing themselves. It’s okay to be regular and take the pressure off.
Absolutely
Mental illness is be present in “regular” people.
THIS 🎯
Content creating is like a 9 to 5 that never ends. Imagine that. Even your phone requires a shutdown to update and adequately manage it's processing system. Imagine having the type of job where you hardly ever turn off. Even your vacations, time to rest, become working hours. It's nasty work. Balance means everything to sustaining life. Become okay with turning off and shutting down regularly.
This 💯
But it’s a chosen lifestyle. Everyone looks down on 9-5s and calls people who work them broke or slaves or corny yet the real slaves to their job seems to be influencers 🤷🏾♀️ they stop posting for a couple days or weeks and it can ruin their income and popularity for months. That’s what happens when you are the product
@@rachelesmith3342 That's why I am glad I can live my luxury life offline without needing social media and that allows me to post to CZcams for fun. Social media is enjoyable when there is no constant pressure behind it.
Agreed
Mental health is SO important 💔
I really need people to go touch grass. Too many people are entirely too quick to run to social media when they need to run and pray. Rest in power to that beautiful young lady.
Amen. I use social as strictly entertainment
Run and pray ❤
Pray??? Can you name a proven time where prayer was helpful?
@@TheOriginalScorpioBelle Can you name a proven time when people running to the internet, talking on things they shouldn't, was helpful?
@@TheOriginalScorpioBelle It doesn't have to be prayer, although it makes me feel better. Find something that calms you and gives you hope, the internet is false hope, more problems than we know, especially for woman.
Interesting timing, I’d recommend reading “By the Time You See This” By former Miss USA Cheslie Kryst! She details her struggles with mental health, how one of her happiest days triggered her depression. She discusses how she used her accomplishments to distract her from wanting to unalive herself. So yes beautiful successful women do in fact take their lives! It’s not always foul play! RIP beautiful woman
It’s actually called “By the Time You Read This”
I’ll have to check out her book. Some people don’t understand that social media may not have been the root of the young woman’s depression. Depression and other mental health disorders are a life long challenge. Many people keep themselves distracted with school, accolades, social media etc to keep from their thoughts. All the while they are going to therapy, working out, eating healthy, going to church/ doing all the things that are suppose to help, but it doesn’t. I don’t think she was faking her life nor happiness, she just kept her struggles to herself.
@@babygurll7 innocent mistake! That you for clarifying! 🤍🤍🤍
@@smthngtosay no problem!! Thank you for the info! 🥰❤️
It’s a good book, I’m currently reading it..
I am throughly convinced that anyone flexing on social media is creating a made up reality. Anyone who is seeking validation from strangers in my opinion has bigger issues they need to deal with. Truly wealthy people or those who are actually living a luxurious or soft life are NOT on social media flexing, they are actually living their REAL lives.
BULLSHIT! I hate this narrative like a mf. Rich people flex the hardest!
We see the damn boats, club seats at events, Courtside, the vacations.
Mfs can be well off and still flex. Flexing isn't a poor man sport.
Just like the bullshit "quiet luxury" bs poor ppl made up.
I'm sick of it
This doesn’t have to be the case. I’d never do content creation, but plenty of people do because they enjoy it, make money, and there’s a market for it. Any form of luxury can be faked but if there’s a genuine interest and possible income, brand deals, collaborations for influencers, why not?
Exactly I'm perfectly fine with my sitting at home watching medical shows with my children and pets
@j.m.edwards1183 ....not true it's truly rich people that flaunt all the time on social media, example Floyd Mayweather....he rich for real but he does do too much flaunting...but I get what you're saying like cookie Johnson & micheal Jordan's wife and oprah and martha steward and aiyesa curry are rich and do NOT flaunting their wealth excessively
I'm sorry this is just not true.
I happen to live a soft life and cannot deny that I am blessed because that would mean I'm ungrateful.
I enjoy running my youtube channel and I enjoy building my community and interacting with them and posting small bits about my life because I don't need youtube to survive. I do it as a hobby and enjoy it because there is no pressure for me to make money from it. I can post and develop my skills without worry about needing youtube to eat. I would hate to do youtube if I was trying to make money off it. That would be so stressful and I would probably stop doing it. Its an enjoyable endeavour and I can go and come back to my channel as I wish anytime. You kind of just have to accept that not everyone who is online showcasing their lux lifestyle is miserable offline. That's not how it works.😂 Some people are just blessed🤷🏿♀️
I couldn't be an influencer because I'm way too open about my flaws and struggle. Having said that, this is a reminder to check in on your friends especially the happy, put together friend with a seemingly perfect life. No ones life is perfect.
I’m honestly not into the whole “soft life” “black girl luxury” because the message and movement is always tied to what a man can do for you. Aquire your OWN things ladies….stop waiting and searching for a man who can provide it. Men come and go…
I like the representation of bw like the images of it but that is it
Yea, you can have your own! But, there’s nothing wrong if you have a husband/man that can provide the finer things in life for you as well. Black women so conditioned into being independent and the “ I don’t need/want a man doing anything for me”. There’s nothing wrong with a man wanting to do for you, if he’s the right man
THISSSS
@@shamrockshow8490hear, hear🗣️
Amen!! You never have to feel like you owe anyone anything!
Jesus filled a hole that nothing or nobody could fill.
We could have it all, but it would be nothing if we don’t have Him.
Amen and Amen!!! ❤🙏
COME ON SOMEBODY🙌🏿🙌🏿
the nurse is absolutely correct about the happiness portrayed by ppl that may unalive themselves
Mica Miller was smiling when buying a gun to delete herself
I didn't follow this woman but as someone who struggles with mental health, its absolutely devastating. I've often thought if I could have a different life, look different, etc. that it would make me feel better but that's just not the way mental health works. My deepest condolences to the family and friends of this beautiful soul ❤
I believe no one going out of their way to prove their lifestyle or love is real... People need to stop being voyeurs and seeing what others put out as "goals."... Make your own goals, live your real life, and get your own luxury (within your budget)...Social media is exhausting
Black women are the only people that go out of their way to prove what you talking about
I deleted all mine all I have is CZcams now. Just been watching movies, watching CZcams, and living in the real world lately!
Y'all, even CZcams has become a disease to me 😅 All i get are videos of men and women hating each other forever and ever amen
I'm someone with severe mental health issues. You can, in fact, be very happy and want to harm yourself. I will probably have to have therapy things for the rest of my life. BPD is horrible. you'll be fine, but then you just get washed over, with what's the equivalent of finding out your children have been taken. It's exhausting bringing yourself back from that. You can logically know what's happening, but the feeling feels so real. It's a daily battle. You can be good for a long time, then not
... sometimes you can tell it's coming, sometimes not. Sharing it online makes people try to empathize or understand, but they can't. It's a trip to have everything you want and still go through this. that's the part that pushes people over the edge. Condolences to her family 😢
God is the answer
Jesus is always the answer
My mom unalived herself when I was a kid and since then that subject matter has been my life. All i know is that when a person has decided that this is their only option, there is absolutely NOTHING anyone else can do about it. Nothing.
All my mom had to do was simply stand up and she'd be able to breathe. Instead she just did what she did until her final breath.
😢
You never know what a person is going through offline. Just because she wealthy, doesn’t mean she was happy. Alot of people get on the internet deceive their audience or just hide the real truth. Not like its her audience business but just don’t believe everything you see
I deal with this, every day is a genuine effort. Sometimes it’s in spurts, others maybe once a year. You never know what someone is going through. Identifying my triggers, Serving others, volunteering, communicating my true feelings with those that truly care and are trustworthy and learning what that means for me, going to therapy, God and my faith, and completely removing negativity within my control from around me are ongoing systems I’ve put in place and why I can type this today.
My dad committed suicide, he was the happiest a few days before he did it. He got baptized a month before and was making peace with everyone. To me, it was planned.
I know it’s hard for people to believe that “happy” people would ever hurt themselves but It happens all the time. Miss USA 2019 Cheslie Kryst is another example of a person who struggled with high functioning depression. Her mom just released their book they wrote together,
called “By The Time You Read This”. I encourage anyone struggling with high functioning depression to read it, it’s a phenomenal book.
i have bpd and everyday is a struggle. one little thing can trigger you and send you into a crisis or downward spiral. it’s a very painful thing to live with. my prayers are with her, her family and everyone who suffers from mental health concerns.
It is important to take time for yourself and to take care of your mind and body. No matter how long it takes, I prefer a healthy and happy youtuber rather than an unhappy one who is two days away from suicide. It's scary and sad all my condolences to his family and it's close for the loss of those magnificent angel I pray that it doesn't happen to you. As long as you have to take a 5-year break, I'll be there waiting for the next videos. Take care of yourself 🔥🙏🏾🌹
This is so sad and I wish she could’ve gotten the help she needed prior.
There’s no man (black or white), item, luxury, travel, e-book, or lifestyle or insert whatever new trendy thing that can fix what you have going on within. Joining movements mindlessly without realizing that life is going to life for EVERYONE regardless of who you are. We are not invincible to life. This is why it’s important to take what bits of pieces of these social movements and apply it as needed but never become so entrapped in a lifestyle or beliefs from a movement that your life and mental sanity are at stake. We are becoming victims of our own success (or atleast what’s deemed as success in society)
Well said.
I love everything about this comment. Definitely a wake up call for me a little. Very much well said ma'am 👏🏽
Well articulated!!! You did your big one with this comment!
The devil comes to kill steal and destroy
I’m left handed.. I can easily still use my right hand too btw…
Peace to all who cared for and loved her. I hope she's found complete peace. 🕊🌷
I think putting her name in the title as opposed to black girl luxury mother is probably more respectful.
respectful, yes. but she wanted to do the one that would've gotten the most clicks. guess it's just business 🤷🏽♀️
@@drnstjhni would not have known the name of the girl. i think she didn’t put the name for a reason. now i know who she is
Honestly it made sense because I had no idea who she was. Not all of us stay on tiktok.😂
@@prettybrittany_ it wouldn’t have made a difference because when you click on the video then you’d know who she was.
I have BPD/ADHD and I'm in DBT therapy along with individual therapy and DBT is life saving.
What is DBT?
Dialectical behavioral therapy. It teaches you how to manage your emotions better and also to understand them.
@@ChiviA84can you share tips you learned?
I have BPD as well. The constant thought of wanting to unalive myself was hell but I’m in therapy and trying medication. One day at a time but we are resilient ❤
@@elenam3798 Yes I can. Where would you like me to send it? I actually have a channel that I'm trying to start up that will be dedicated to the mental health of black people.
She looks so much like Gabriel Union
So not excusing the post from Destiny’s alleged cousin, but a lot of people have a hard time processing death and will grasp at any other reason like foul play.
Rest in peace to the young woman. I hope she’s at peace now❤
I think it becomes even harder when that person is deemed very attractive or has money/ a certain lifestyle because for some reason people think those people can’t suffer from mental health issues. And since people live vicariously through these figures or insta highlights, they can’t fathom how someone could be unhappy given their seemingly favorable circumstances
Just goes to show that no external thing or lifestyle can ever replace or make up for what’s missing in the inside. We’re told that once we become attractive or lose weight or get money or live a certain life that we will magically be on cloud 9.
@@rachelesmith3342 That's why I keep telling women on my channel that being skinny or attractive does not guarantee true love or happiness. It's who you are inside and what you think of yourself, what you believe about yourself. Alas very very sadly they'll continue to find out the hard way.
We need a video longer than this sis! 😩❤️✨
This girl is beautiful, rest in peace ❤️
Yayyyyyy yanie posted!!🥳🥳🥳
I saw her selling ads, so I do now believe she done it to herself. Social media luxury has to be consumed carefully. So sad I hope she found peace. Regardless of her past I loved her style and elegance. So sad
This, I don’t understand why this was the content she led with knowing her past. She had 2 degrees why couldn’t she just work and shop in between with her new blessings. This type of content is not normal and I won’t fall victim to it. I could get Angelina Jolie or Rihanna with this type of lifestyle but why do everyday people need to live like this?? I mean her husband is sixty, that alone tells you how superficial she was
Selling ads?
@OpulentWife what was her past?
What do you mean selling ads?
Right, im wondering the same@@roselimonta
Wow I was not expecting to hear that!
It’s lunch time! Where’s our lunch live 😂
I hope her family finds justice for her, beautiful angel, this is just unfortunate.
Heartbreaking.
We have to remember to take care of ourselves first💪💯🙏🏾
This was so sad😢
I didnt know of her but I feel deeply saddened for her mother and husband regarding her loss. Based on the official reports from the Bahamian police, it said she died by suicide and it was self-inflicted (a laceration to her wrist). No further details were given other than she was found in the bathroom of the place she was staying. Her cousins are disputing that cause of death. This is heartbreaking.
It was one cousin that the real family doesn’t even follow but she follows them. She wanted attention. Destiny took videos down but she was always open about her mental health at one point.
Sending my condolences 💐 to you family! She was a beautiful girl!!
someone killed her i can’t believe y’all can’t see that. God get me out of here.
What a beautiful young woman. My prayers go out to her family and loved ones. I can only imagine how she felt in those final moments before she made her decision. May she rest in peace 💕🙏🏾
At this rate "unalive" is going to be a new word in the English dictionary because of YT weird censorship guidelines.
That’s is so true .
I hope she's happy now
It doesn't matter how successful you are
Doesn't matter how miserable you are
You know when you know
And nothing can stop it
Rest in paradise Sweet Angel
I understand
Mimi, i just found your comment randomly under this sad video. Happy you are still with us!
@tinalifestyle888 By mid June I hopefully won't be
I hope you're doing better than me💜
@@salutemimi81 💔
@@salutemimi81why do you say that?
@espon2112 Because it's true
No matter your situation
Sometimes the depression is gonna win
It's not because you didn't try
It's not because you didn't believe
It's not your fault
It just is
In my case it's been a long time coming
And that's just how it is
My condolences to her friends family and loved ones.
First time
Hearing about her. 😢What happened to her?
They said that she unalived herself due to mental complications.
You misspelled Behind* in the title
RIP to her. Truly sad.
This may be beside the point but I was misdiagnosed with borderline personality disorder but I really had bipolar disorder. It took getting to one of my lowest points to get the proper diagnosis. The disorders are not so black and white.
So sad!
Polished on the outside and suffering immensely on the inside
She's an angel
Am I getting old or just out of touch? I have no idea who these popular people CZcamsrs stay talking about are. But I think it’s a good thing. RIP to Destiny🤍
No you just have a life. I had NO idea who she was before this video either. It's not a bad thing
May she rest in peace. I'm praying for peace and strength for her loved ones and those who love her 🤍
She was gorgeous. RIP.
My deepest sympathies go to Destiny’s loved ones. 🤲🏽🖤
Psalm 91
Gorgeous gorgeous girl ❤️😔
She’s beautiful 😢❤
Rest in peace❤
Hey, girl the sound don't come on ur the beginning.
How can a fact be incorrect.
It’s always them luxury girls
She was beautiful!!! Maybe mommy’s in denial & can’t accept the Facts!!💯💯💯💙💙🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
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I am not familiar with her or her Chanel. But still my deepest sympathies to her family and friends
Awful to lose such a young, vibrant person
🙏🏾
In this life its ok to portray what you are experiencing and not go overboard. I only portray what my real life is like and leave it there. I just so happen to be living a blessed life with my husband to be.👩🏾❤️👨🏼 but I don't stress myself out doing it at all.
Whether she was or wasn't an escort doesn't matter, she clearly was going through more than anyone knew. R.I.P to her.
Life is too short to create unnecessarily stress for yourself and listen once you start developing mental health issues it will take everything you have to overcome them. Pls do not allow social media standards or pressure to drive you mad.
The mind is very delicate.
You may not survive the pressure.
Ah, so luxury doesn’t buy happiness…
Right?!! 👀
Also her husband called her friend Melanie before calling the police allegedly 👀
I think people look at mental illness like a gross disease you cannot get rid of or like it makes someone awful. Sorry to say but being mentally unstable is very normal, we ALL go through it or has had experience with it. What is awful is not enough understand it which is why people are so sensitive about the topic, when we need to stop tip toeing around it. It is being addressed more these days, but we have so much work to do. This beautiful woman may have felt like she got past her illness but from what I know about personality disorders (if this is even true) it takes a very long time to get stable, but it is possible. I also know that BPD is a throw around diagnosis. My condolences. may you be at peace sister no matter the circumstance. ❤
What happened to her ?!
This case is certainly a tragedy for all family and friends. It is possible she dealt with mental health issues, but what of the web pages proving she was involved in prostitution. 😢
Im going to hold my breath because they're not done investigating. I dont believe she was an escort, but i do believe she was hard up on losing her image and the life her husband afforded her. Mental illness can make things extreme or loss extreme.
10:34 this woman isn’t genuine.. that’s what my intuition is telling me
I feel bad for what happen but if anyone do it to they self it’s a lot of pressure to keep up a lifestyle and make it look perfect that’s why I would not want that lifestyle because it’s alot
Not the one girl saying I want to respect the families wishes for privacy while also breaking HIPAA laws. Did Destiny tell her followers that she had a mental health disorder diagnosis?
Omggg
Destiny step father peter just passed away yesterday
That definition of borderline personality disorder is incorrect. She spoke on something in the wrong context.
I feel bad for what happen but if anyone do it to they self it’s a lot of pressure to keep up a lifestyle and make it look perfect that’s why I would not want that lifestyle because it’s a lot to keep up with and people think they never have bad days and everything perfect and that’s not realistic
9.4k views but 955 likes
Yall are acting like mental health struggles have anything to do with looks. She offed herself. End of story. There's no conspiracy. Nothing to investigate and her sister talking about her being left handed means she couldn't slit her left hand is silly. I'm right handed and it wouldn't be hard at all to use my left hand and slit my wrist. How do you think ppl in the past slit both of their wrists? The family is in denial.
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I don't think she was an escort. And I do think she redrumed herself its always the people you least expect
She was an escorts
Her ads are online
She spoke about being a sex worker and doing some crazy things before her rebrand
So bc she was left handed means she couldn’t have done it to her left wrist? In these sensitive situations, it’s hard to accept the truth
The word on the street is that she was an sw and don’t wanna go bk after the divorce. Hence she did this to herself
What is SW??
She was married?
@@graciouslyloved10sex worker
Sex worker ??
@@graciouslyloved10sex worker
HMMM not buying it lol
Natalie was Swer. I have proof. She was working around the same time I was. She saw your video speaking down on swers and you probably made her feel worse about herself.
Stop projecting because I never spoke down on sex workers. You don’t feel confident in what you’re doing. NEXT
girl bye!!!!
@@prettybrittany_ Mind your business karen
We must remember just because someone appears happy, doesn’t mean they are… most depressed people wear a smile.. not saying she offed herself, but at the same time she could’ve.. hopefully they get to the bottom of this.. it’s so sad, such a young beautiful young lady..
Too sad. MH is very real. My 14 yr old put herself at a 9. Then seeing this and I’m in a state of emergency for her🫧💔💔💔💔
My mom unalived herself when I was a kid and since then that subject matter has been my life. All i know is that when a person has decided that this is their only option, there is absolutely NOTHING anyone else can do about it. Nothing.
All my mom had to do was simply stand up and she'd be able to breathe. Instead she just did what she did until her final breath.
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She was a beautiful young lady. RIP🙏🏽
My mom unalived herself when I was a kid and since then that subject matter has been my life. All i know is that when a person has decided that this is their only option, there is absolutely NOTHING anyone else can do about it. Nothing.
All my mom had to do was simply stand up and she'd be able to breathe. Instead she just did what she did until her final breath.
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Sorry for your loss. But to add I wouldn’t say there’s nothing you can do about it. I’ve been on the brink of suicide, but I did get help. I’m not saying it’ll be like that for everyone but it is possible that something can be done.
@@Las645 thank you for your reply. My grandma did try to get help. The hospital turned my mom away bc she didn't have insurance instead of doing a 5150. She unalived herself a couple hours after being discharged. I was only 5. I do believe in my soul that if I was older at the time I could have helped. But it's the way she did it. She did it in a way that all she had to do was stand up literally when she was in there. But she let herself just go as she couldn't breathe.