Blue Therapy AFTERMATH Reaction...Chioma Left PAUL...BUT DID SHE?

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  • čas přidán 3. 06. 2021
  • In todays episode we discuss the final episode of blue therapy and also the AFTERMATH.
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Komentáře • 245

  • @sovereign361
    @sovereign361 Před 3 lety +40

    Never stay in a relationship where you are not allowed to be yourself

  • @bellznjollz80
    @bellznjollz80 Před 3 lety +110

    100% happy that she left the demon, she left the provider that was providing her with stress

  • @tariolusola4029
    @tariolusola4029 Před 3 lety +102

    Chioma’s knockout line to the sister was ‘where’s your man’ 🤜🏾

  • @Dailycatholicprayers
    @Dailycatholicprayers Před 3 lety +88

    Paul sister is either divorced or in an unhappy marriage

  • @Regina777.
    @Regina777. Před 3 lety +164

    I shoulda known Paul was broke when he would not stfu about his “high net worth clients”🤣🤣

    • @akwasiasaawa2199
      @akwasiasaawa2199 Před 3 lety +3

      I saw that shuoma didn't reveal the truth then . Am afraid

    • @abeebadeyemo6310
      @abeebadeyemo6310 Před 3 lety +4

      Exactly man😂😂. I shoulda calculated that too😂😂

    • @islandboyvonni
      @islandboyvonni Před 3 lety

      Fact that y’all sit and believe anything she don’t know if the man is in debt or not she’s just stating false claims cause he ain’t there to defend himself.

    • @amavitelimited9268
      @amavitelimited9268 Před 3 lety +1

      With all the 'I am a provider' 🤣🤣🤣 awon bother oni jibiti ole 😂

    • @princesseleasha2941
      @princesseleasha2941 Před 3 lety

      @@amavitelimited9268 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @okiemuteenakpodia
    @okiemuteenakpodia Před 3 lety +56

    I was shocked when I heard provider was not providing 🤣🤣

  • @MaryMoe
    @MaryMoe Před 3 lety +27

    Chioma leaving Paul just made my day

  • @tijhan
    @tijhan Před 3 lety +22

    From the time Paul lost weight and come out of depression he thinks he is better than Chioma and she is not good enough him. He encouraged her to have a termination because he has no intention of spending the rest of his life with her. He wants her around now because she is helping him to get where he wants to go

  • @benryl
    @benryl Před 3 lety +13

    I remember chioma saying he was a good provider we should stop lying to make men look 👀 good.

  • @kofoadeola1960
    @kofoadeola1960 Před 3 lety +51

    I thought he wanted her to be a house wife, how are they going to pay the bills. Yeye partner 😀😀

  • @Lavishlywendy
    @Lavishlywendy Před 3 lety +120

    The Only connection between Chioma and Paul is "Babe".

  • @Dailycatholicprayers
    @Dailycatholicprayers Před 3 lety +62

    Women are very hopeful, they keep hoping for the best. That’s why a woman sees a man who has nothing and keeps hoping, sees a man who’s a mess and hopes he’ll change

    • @JeniJustJeni
      @JeniJustJeni Před 3 lety +3

      This same hope kept me in an abusive relationships for several years.

    • @Dailycatholicprayers
      @Dailycatholicprayers Před 3 lety +3

      @@JeniJustJeni Thank God you came out strong

    • @aminamaradesa9778
      @aminamaradesa9778 Před 3 lety +3

      Dating /getting into a relationship or marriage on potential is dangerous

  • @odunayoadelekan8657
    @odunayoadelekan8657 Před 3 lety +16

    I feel like this third party thing is dicey. It really depends on how much power you give that third party. Paul’s sister is a third party and it caused them issues. Deborah’s friend is a third party and she kinda helps Deborah see things better. It’s important that your third party has sense and isn’t one to overstep boundaries

  • @georgianaphilip6824
    @georgianaphilip6824 Před 3 lety +17

    I said it. That he will lose her and it has come to pass.she is too classy for Paul.

  • @cultureafrica3011
    @cultureafrica3011 Před 3 lety +27

    My ex husband was a ‘Paul’ notice I said EX husband. The abortion scenario was was the same. When I left him he wanted very little to do with our daughters. He supported them but little else. She has made the right decision, don’t go back. I watched how he was happy to air her business, he didn’t want to protect her, only himself.

    • @yemiojo9463
      @yemiojo9463 Před 3 lety

      Zero tolerance to stay in an abusive relationship

  • @queencoolgamer7670
    @queencoolgamer7670 Před 3 lety +15

    Your hair Adaze... Pls wear braids or hair like this. Natural hair makes you look younger and makes u look like a queen

  • @ChristianaAdekoya
    @ChristianaAdekoya Před 3 lety +39

    Nelo this wig!!!!! It looks so fricking gorge!! Our billionaire CEO!!!!!!

  • @alheri_ebenezer
    @alheri_ebenezer Před 3 lety +30

    Chioma is a Spec, any man will kill to have her
    She truly need to move on, that relationship is so toxic

    • @zachianggandu774
      @zachianggandu774 Před 3 lety +1

      Chioma de find fine boy; she never chichomthing!! Na Mumu woman, keep your self for your future husband u say no!! Who go carry the waste product of women wey done commot belle tire!! I no pity her ooo!

    • @anthonyebubeh259
      @anthonyebubeh259 Před 3 lety

      If Chioma were not disrespectful towards Paul's sister she would be perfect. That's my issue with her

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli Před 3 lety +20

    I'm so happy Chioma left Paul

  • @MetrogypsieS
    @MetrogypsieS Před 3 lety +19

    Thanks for this guys. So glad Chioma is out if that. It was so obvious Paul is a wannabe who hadn’t found himself. A lot of his arguments were so off point.
    You ladies both looked so good

  • @makeupqueenroo
    @makeupqueenroo Před 3 lety +32

    What if Paul’s “sister” is actually his wife and those kids are his and that’s why she feels so entitled and is all up in their business and leaving his kids with her 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @dashaojukwu7598
    @dashaojukwu7598 Před 3 lety +62

    I was totally disappointed at the end of everything Paul is a scam at the end of the day, he pissed everyone off frm beginning till the end.

    • @dearme6204
      @dearme6204 Před 3 lety +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheShalomRussel
      @TheShalomRussel Před 3 lety +1

      I don’t think you know how apt and funny this is 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

    • @leinelyn3684
      @leinelyn3684 Před 3 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Chynma
    @Chynma Před 3 lety +22

    Paul want to leave Western life but He still have the mentality of some African men, always saying am the man, you should do what I say.

  • @shortnsexy1974
    @shortnsexy1974 Před 3 lety +24

    If you couldn’t tell Paul was embellishing the facts I don’t know what to tell you. I’m not surprised but was disgusted that his sister Audacity came on to trash Chioma. Girl was a clown.

  • @funtookelola6798
    @funtookelola6798 Před 3 lety +33

    This wig and make up on Nelo makes her look like Beyonce 😍😍🥰

  • @Chynma
    @Chynma Před 3 lety +10

    That Paul is so annoying, thanks Ada and Nelo, you ladies are glowing

  • @Bezvlel
    @Bezvlel Před 3 lety +13

    The lighting in this video is so on point 🤩

  • @bafemiplus1999
    @bafemiplus1999 Před 3 lety +24

    It's really ironic and convenient that Nelo is calling Paul Bridges a Yoruba demon!!. This is a guy that is doing everything possible to dissociate himself from Nigerian culture including replacing his Nigerian surname with anglicised one.

  • @bluebird4815
    @bluebird4815 Před 3 lety +26

    Listen, blue therapy triggered me. I wanted to fight Paul with my tiny hands 😂😂😂😂😂. I felt like kidnapping Chioma and hiding her until she gets back her senses.

  • @niabari
    @niabari Před 3 lety +3

    I’ve enjoyed you guys reacting to blue therapy! I’m sad it’s over

  • @oluchiokpara1424
    @oluchiokpara1424 Před 3 lety +28

    Paul was annoying from the beginning to the end,so consistent!

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli Před 3 lety +8

    Both of u are seriously glowing

  • @FranEJ
    @FranEJ Před 3 lety +3

    a friend of mine's mother was always busy either going to church or cooking food for sale. She was hardly ever home. I saw the toll on my friend as she was the eldest and had to take up mothering like duties for her siblings. Sometimes people hide behind all this 'work' which initially starts with good intentions and end up missing out on the more important aspects of life and relationships.

  • @MaryMoe
    @MaryMoe Před 3 lety +10

    Paul is just an extension of his family

  • @mabelntefre4321
    @mabelntefre4321 Před 3 lety +6

    Me that pop champagne when I watched the aftermath and heard chioma said it's over between her and her babe

  • @TheAmazonDeb
    @TheAmazonDeb Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the summary of the aftermath... I came for that part...

  • @sandranwani6695
    @sandranwani6695 Před 3 lety +1

    Okay. I have basically completed watching blue therapy through you two.

  • @Themamabear1
    @Themamabear1 Před 3 lety

    Just found this. Love it!!! Love this channel

  • @michelleani_
    @michelleani_ Před 3 lety +1

    You guys analysed this well👏👏

  • @nataliekangwa7221
    @nataliekangwa7221 Před 3 lety +3

    You girls are glowing ❤

  • @insidelifewithcathy5513
    @insidelifewithcathy5513 Před 3 lety +3

    You guys are looking good o
    The glow up no be here o🤩♥️

  • @maamearabaaggrey-fynn4778
    @maamearabaaggrey-fynn4778 Před 3 lety +22

    You guys are glowing 😍 😍

  • @techwithbube
    @techwithbube Před 3 lety +3

    Adaeze is really matured. The way she thinks is 💯.

  • @dsans6289
    @dsans6289 Před 3 lety +7

    You can tell Chioma really really suffered during that relationship. His family are delusional that he is a useless somebody in life. Chioma you escaped that destiny destroying, soul sucking, forever blaming the woman, but they would ask you for money while slagging you off in your face type family! Go and find your happiness.

  • @adannaihekwoaba4701
    @adannaihekwoaba4701 Před 3 lety

    You ladies look amazing!!!!!!! Beautiful! Chai! When u guys said that men that allow women to take care of majority of the finances says a lot about them.....💯 facts!

  • @lunno8421
    @lunno8421 Před 3 lety

    Love the look guys... Keep it up. More success

  • @Sumayyahsikiru
    @Sumayyahsikiru Před 3 lety +2

    Aunty Nelo and Aunty Ada thank you. One huge thing I learnt from both of you today is the third party thing. I never saw it this way. That's true. Sometimes we just need a different perspective.

  • @ladyjacy4933
    @ladyjacy4933 Před 3 lety

    I enjoyed watching, nice analysis

  • @okeoghenedesigns
    @okeoghenedesigns Před 3 lety +2

    Looking at Nelo "The billionaire" is like I am looking at NJ with a makeup😁😁

  • @MichelleO099
    @MichelleO099 Před 3 lety

    Is like Aunty Nelo had small diva fan there. The way the hair is blowing in the wind like Beyoncé lol 😂

  • @FranEJ
    @FranEJ Před 3 lety

    Nelo, that wig looks so good!

  • @michaelwalter5401
    @michaelwalter5401 Před 3 lety

    Just learnt something from u guys, abut 3rd party in a relationship I never believed on 3rd party but wit ur explanation u just clear sumtin up thx, I av been in a relationship for 12yrs and I never believe in 3rd party but now I do..

  • @mariamfofana3616
    @mariamfofana3616 Před 3 lety +1

    This is so off topic but Neil’s wig my dayssssss 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @SelfcarewithAtem
    @SelfcarewithAtem Před 3 lety +2

    Looking good ladies

  • @meritvictorytv2661
    @meritvictorytv2661 Před 3 lety +1

    Relationships can be tough atimes. I agree with you guys on having a sensible third party.

  • @info-ma-tics
    @info-ma-tics Před 3 lety +4

    Faked or not chioma and Paul story are typical Naija or Nigerian Story

  • @MaryMoe
    @MaryMoe Před 3 lety +1

    Lols, know when to draw the curtain

  • @Keesha
    @Keesha Před 3 lety +4

    My thing is Paul’s sister has kids, so I’m assuming she’s married or has a partner. So who is with her man when she’s busy interfering and in Chioma and Paul’s relationship. Pus in some tribes (I ain’t saying no names) brother and sister be doing stuff that husband and wife do … who the cap fits.

  • @ItsToyoo
    @ItsToyoo Před 3 lety +1

    I'm not surprised Provider was being provided for 😅

  • @kaybyonye
    @kaybyonye Před 3 lety +2

    Watched this video twice n counting. A lot to reflect on.

  • @tafuwa1
    @tafuwa1 Před 3 lety +4

    No tribe here. People will be people regardless of tribe.

  • @sakinaisasani7352
    @sakinaisasani7352 Před 2 lety +1

    But I think that’s what amplified the issue with Jamel and Debora (third party issue). I feel like both parties should know where to draw the line even with third parties

  • @karenefereyan6781
    @karenefereyan6781 Před 3 lety +1

    I love the glow

  • @Chrissy_-ig6fx
    @Chrissy_-ig6fx Před 3 lety +1

    I'm Ugandan and i really love Nigerians

  • @oluchiokpara1424
    @oluchiokpara1424 Před 3 lety

    You both look so pretty😍

  • @pattyuba4805
    @pattyuba4805 Před 3 lety

    I just love you two partners in crime. Keep entertaining us.

  • @SaraPuyol
    @SaraPuyol Před 3 lety

    Love both of you girls

  • @nenni561
    @nenni561 Před 3 lety +2

    Beautiful Ladies

  • @NanyasCorner
    @NanyasCorner Před 3 lety

    I was so happy for Chioma. Ah!

  • @nenyespecial3440
    @nenyespecial3440 Před 3 lety

    So i can't be the first to click on this video, anyway i was watching lizzy birthday on Adaeze's space channel when i got the notification of this video.

  • @cicimalik
    @cicimalik Před 3 lety +1

    I'm so happy she finally left him....💃

  • @__emsu
    @__emsu Před 3 lety +1

    I still have not started this blue therapy,but the hype makes me want to watch

    • @bluebird4815
      @bluebird4815 Před 3 lety

      You will want to beat up Paul. Trust me. He is a loser and Chioma is blind as a church mouse.

    • @ebrubaanita
      @ebrubaanita Před 3 lety

      Please do. You’d learn from it.

    • @RealJohnO
      @RealJohnO Před 3 lety

      It was all fake acting.

  • @fyfisalty1877
    @fyfisalty1877 Před 3 lety +6

    If youve watched the aftermath interview, you will know its not fake...the couples were dating prior to filming! Although, the therapist is an actress...both Paul & Chioma were in a relationship before she broke up with him. At the end of the day....Its a learning curve for any1 with a narcissistic partner!...As for Paul...you will meet up with his Waterloo someday!!

  • @adaolisamba323
    @adaolisamba323 Před 3 lety +2

    Omo this blue therapy tho... I learnt a lot of lessons

    • @annas4nas
      @annas4nas Před 3 lety

      Like calling your partner “Babe” hits🤣😂

  • @bimbolaolumoba8846
    @bimbolaolumoba8846 Před 3 lety +1

    But some girl in Solomon buchi's post said she saw them in a club in west London and she still wears an engagement ring ..

    • @priscillaoche5175
      @priscillaoche5175 Před 3 lety

      Chioma clarified in her twitter handle that the ring wasn't given to her by Paul. She got it to remind her of some decisions she has made for herself.

  • @ebilicioustv2644
    @ebilicioustv2644 Před 3 lety +3

    Hummm I agree that a third party is important but some third parties are toxic. They might be the very one to dig a rift btwn the couples with dysfunctional advice.

  • @kikionyesoh
    @kikionyesoh Před 3 lety +1

    Pretty ladies 🤩

  • @SkyePlayz9
    @SkyePlayz9 Před 3 lety +1

    Well done Chioma for leaving Paul. I wanted to grab him and though in the bin for you. Your a lovely soul and should know it.

  • @graciousepelle1463
    @graciousepelle1463 Před 3 lety +10

    Paul and his high net worth clients cannot even pay the bills

  • @ayesha7719
    @ayesha7719 Před 3 lety

    💯 on that third party issue.

  • @socialmentortv5738
    @socialmentortv5738 Před 3 lety

    Who is chiomA?

  • @johnvic4060
    @johnvic4060 Před 3 lety

    Nelo you are looking 🔥

  • @tango103
    @tango103 Před 3 lety +1

    Broke Provider is the definition of a Paradox

  • @darlyneze1154
    @darlyneze1154 Před 3 lety

    I feel you guys should have reacted to the actual video...it was more of a blind reaction

  • @MaryMoe
    @MaryMoe Před 3 lety +8

    Did anyone do to Paul's sister what she did to Chioma in her relationship?

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG Před 3 lety +5

      She embarazzed herself tbh begging production to call her during the show only for her to come on and show her self UP cussing Chioma for no reason then had the AUDACITY to be mad when she called her a bad mother she's always INVOLVED it's weird.

    • @eventplanner461
      @eventplanner461 Před 3 lety +1

      @@handleisGG Prolly cuz lord knows the father is not taking care of those kids.

  • @aphroditejohnson1761
    @aphroditejohnson1761 Před 3 lety +1

    So happy that Chioma left Paul!!
    Paul was verbally breaking her. Paul was all about himself. There was no compromise or consideration of his partner. I saw myself in her. And I’m glad she realized that she didn’t have to take that.

  • @kindyysvlog97
    @kindyysvlog97 Před 3 lety +5

    I disagree with you both on the third party thingy.. if my husband pissed me off I talk it out with him.. I won't want him discussing our issues with his own "third party".
    That you people talk to each other about your marriage issues doesn't make it right.
    Third parties are NOT OKAY.. it's not a lie..

  • @divergentorientationbychri1858

    Now lets be straight and fair. You can't speak against something and then affirm it when it comes to Chioma. Third party is also what Paul's sister was doing, "FIGHTING FOR HIM". you see? If there should be a third party at all, they should not even take sides in the first place and should be someone neutral, like a therapist or counselor with experience. NOT friends or family, because of sentiments and emotions. Stories, 90% of the time, will look one-sided with friends and families...
    And I like your reactions by the way.

    • @TheShalomRussel
      @TheShalomRussel Před 3 lety +1

      That’s exactly what they’re saying... so you’re kinda agreeing and arguing at the same time lol.
      They’re like, it’s okay to have 3rd parties but there should be no interference. Basically someone you can talk to, regardless of your relationship with the 3rd party, there should be no interference whatsoever.

    • @divergentorientationbychri1858
      @divergentorientationbychri1858 Před 3 lety

      @@TheShalomRussel In a way though. Although they kind of are sympathetic unconsciously if you listened from 10:14 (With Paul in mind) and later 16:11 (with Chioma in mind). AND I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. We don't like Paul😂

  • @ajinjie8944
    @ajinjie8944 Před 3 lety

    Nelo this your hair make sense. Can we have more infor about it. With Paul he is a fool. I feel sorry for him, Chioma you dodge the bullets from his family and from him.

  • @MIXooNooMATCH
    @MIXooNooMATCH Před 3 lety

    Y'all summarized ALL my anger surrounding Chioma and Paul lol also the pretending to have a call when the bill comes thing... not only is it insulting to her intelligence, it's also HIGHLY ironic that his excuse for not being able to pay is that he has to WORK, a job that clearly isn't bringing in enough money for him to cover his own bill! Not to mention, Paul clearly feels entitled to the respect and admiration that being labeled a "provider" easily lends men, but doesn't actually do ANYTHING that would actually make him a provider. He is so used to faking the funk that he'd even pull a stunt like taking a fake call to cover his ass! All so he can continue pretending to be something he is no so he can demand respect from other people for it! I don't know how Chioma lasted a day with his ass, let alone 3 years.

  • @nenyespecial3440
    @nenyespecial3440 Před 3 lety +2

    Please Ada and Nelo please where can i watch this blue therapy biko?

    • @BudgetingStudent
      @BudgetingStudent Před 3 lety +1

      just type Blue Therapy on CZcams

    • @MaryClaret
      @MaryClaret Před 3 lety

      Search it on CZcams. Blue therapy on trend central channel

  • @NazorEzeh
    @NazorEzeh Před 3 lety

    I watched the Aftermath this morning and I intentionally stayed away from this video till I watched it. I was so happy to hear Chioma say she had left Paul. He was very bad for her. He turned a confident woman into a timid one and that was so sad to see. I'm elated to see that she's found herself again.
    As for that altercation with Paul's sister on the phone, it riled me up badly. If I were Chioma, there's NO WAY I would go back into that session after that phone call, and you best believe that it wouldn't have ended like that.....I would have made sure to have the last word. I would have called her back and if she didn't pick up, I would have sent her a text. Anyway, I'm sure that Tola (Paul's sister) did not entirely get that satisfaction she wanted because Chioma made her know that Paul was still begging her😝.
    Very dysfunctional family!! Tufiakwa!
    Yes, a third party is necessary in every relationship, and that person must be a truthful person who never gets biased or takes sides.
    As for Deb and Jamal, I wish you both had also discussed them instead of dismissing them off as time wasters🤣🤣. They need to be discussed as well. I wanted to hear your views about them.

  • @shia8377
    @shia8377 Před 2 lety

    Love the accent

  • @vikkietoria8178
    @vikkietoria8178 Před 3 lety

    Broke Provider Got me

  • @emmamrh1956
    @emmamrh1956 Před 3 lety

    lmaooo you girls are cracking me up! Honestly may God protect us from men like Paul abeg

  • @queencoolgamer7670
    @queencoolgamer7670 Před 3 lety

    Did u say Yoruba Demon Nelo?

  • @ogeirenediary6693
    @ogeirenediary6693 Před 3 lety

    Please where can we watch the aftermath?

  • @ifyscorner
    @ifyscorner Před 3 lety

    Am happy oh!

  • @melu.8637
    @melu.8637 Před 3 lety +3

    He is very controlling honestly...cos chioma gives him the hand....thankfully Chioma left the provider Oshii..😆

  • @ashamohammed2950
    @ashamohammed2950 Před 3 lety

    What happened to the 2k suit talk… Paul