DON'T be too close to your Husband. It's a recipe for disaster.
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There is no single formula darlings. Whatever doesn't work for you may work for another couple. Thanks for the entertainment Adeaze and Nelo❤
I agree with you. It all depends from the two people what their chemistry is. If u aren't that close also it doesn't Mean you are not inlove. You still make it work. Believe.
God bless you 😂❤
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People are different. We have totally different jobs but I am clingy by nature and it’s not due to lack of trust or self worth or anything it’s just my nature. I found my person and we are so alike which I appreciate. We have fun even when we ain’t doing anything in particular. I don’t want separate lives and I am happy I found someone who sees life the way I do. All this to say do what works for you. I truly can’t imagine myself without my husband and we miss each other all the time despite the closeness. And yes, it’s been 10 years 😊.
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Clinginess is not healthy.
I love my hubby so much and we are so fond of each other and it works perfectly well for me. It has absolutely nothing to do with trust, we are based in Japan 🇯🇵 and the life here is so lonely, clinging unto ur family, is the best way thru it all. What works for you can’t work for others.
This is so so so important!!!! Looking at the life’s of the older women in my life one thing I have learnt is that attaching your joy and happiness to husband and children is a recipe for disaster.
Perfect video. Exactly how I like my marriage. I’m not the clingy type and don’t cling on to me too. I have my friends I roll with. See finish dey spoil things abeg. Respecting individual spaces is 100% lit👌🏽Weldone girls👏🏽
All I see is Adaeze’s natural beauty and I just got inspired by her hairstyle which will be my next hairstyle 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 Nelo’s makeup on the other hand was just calling my name. How can one be soooo good with makeup like this🤔 Abeg we need a makeup tutorial and products list.
I dont like the fact that you put Patricia Bright and her husband on your video yet theyre still together
My baby is my bestie and I intend to keep it that way. If we don’t eat together the food no go sweet, if we don’t watch a movie together I’ll sleep off after 5 minutes, I see nothing wrong in any of what you guys were talking about.
Ada and Nelo, What then do you do together as husband and wife if you don’t enjoy each others company?
Don’t mind them. Adaeze is just there agreeing with everything Nelo is saying like a follow-follow..smh! I pity singles who listen to this channel
@@GraciouslAs a single woman getting married soon I don't see anything wrong with their advice, I wouldn't want to be always being with my husband too I believe in us being apart sometimes.
Funny enough how the reverse is the case with us military wives. When your husband is on posting and you don't see him until after 3-6months or a year and he only gets Abt 2weeks pass to spend with his family and return, Omo, in that two weeks, the whole world can stop o, I want to spend 24/7 with him. We go to the bathroom together, literally do everything together... That space is mostly not even enough to catch up.
I totally agree with your views. I need the missing, like not being in each other’s space always. Some women needs to understand that their entire life doesn’t revolve around their husbands.
20 years in and I get you guys 100%. Our marriage is solid because we are two very separate entities that have common interests. We coexists perfectly because we don’t have to the need to leech on each other, there’s me time, his time and our time, we don have to be a couple all day. Abeggiii we are not a set of twin and we are not joined at the hips, I don’t want.
When it comes to this topic, there is no one size fit all. Some couple work together and they are fine with it. The Mighty McClure family are doing a good job of it. they are both youtubers including their kids, that is their main job. Not saying that they don't have clashes as a result of working together, but I think they are getting on well past it. So it just depends on the couple. And for not attaching yourself too much to your husband and having your own life, I agree with you ladies 101%
It’s dere opinion 😂❤ even rissa and quan and more CZcams and Facebook couple too 😂❤❤
For me, this is true base on my experience with my mum and dad. They did everything together ( i mean everything) and me and my siblings watched that growing up. When my Dad died, hmm! My mum's life has never been the same( she is literally dead for 9yrs now) . I sometimes cry watching my once bubbly jovial mum slip away like that. I have learnt alot from that. I have been married for the past 7yrs with two kids and i am very happy with him but i don't want to build my life around my husband like that. Watching from Ghana... I love your channel❤
It's your disclaimer at the end of every episode for me😊 . That is one unique thing about your show. Well done!
"If you come for me I come for you"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it!
You guys are so funny! Nice one!! I definitely think that people should do what works for them. Some couples genuinely love being together all the time. I personally don’t like being with my partner 24/7. I like having my own time to do my own things and hanging out with my twin sister.
Nelo that make up is giving ❤❤
Loving the consistency ladies, boredom no dey finish me!
I did work with my husband, i was a teacher o , he talked me into the family business, girl it was a disaster! One of the worst decision of my life
I love the energy you two are on. I love this video, so much truth in everything you said...
😂😂😂😂 I always enjoy watching the ending part of your videos. "Don't take our word for it"😂
I agree with you guys 1001%. Even in friendship, I don’t like being with you all the time.
I loveeeeee the bloopers 😂😂😂 pls do more
It funny how these 2 women just post other people's pictures who are married to make it seem like something is wrong. SMHHHHH
I can not function properly if l
am doing the same business with my husband or we are in the same office.
Honestly, l will not be productive. Again, some men are insecure.
Adaeze add that to your merch😂🤣“if you come for me, I’ll come for you!!!”
I absolutely love you guys and I am highly inspired by you both. I agree with couples having individual lives separate from the marriage.
Great convo. I agree with adaeze men being the provider makes things easier but it’s hard in the Western world.
Everything you both have said here, I totally agree. I learned this from my parents and trust me it's the best way to plan a family. Marriage is really just two "whole" people coming together to become one.
My favorite online auntiessss!!!!!
The two wise Ladies. Love you guys for always bringing it 💯💯💯
Individuality and personality. I think that’s sums your topic today. We have to look into the root of this ; how was one raised? What did you see your parents do with each other? How much influence did your parents have over your growth? How much as a child did you have to fight in order to create your individual self and/or person (regardless of whatever anyone else told you or taught you) we really have to go back to those beginnings… Now in adulthood, I will recommend seeking therapy and restoring your relationship with God in order to restore your person.
Now as for marriage (I’m not) I observe that many of us (women especially) loose our individuality/personality when we subconsciously take our husbands as God… our loyalty is to GOD first which in return manifest in our bond with the spouse.
As for men, they loose this individuality /personality when they worship women&men or things. Subconsciously dissociating themselves from their submission to God. Hence start seeing themselves as GOD (consciously or unconsciously)
Great topic and thank you my aunties 😂😂❤️
Jamie was neglecting his family and it was showing in videos… going to hang out with his friends while his wife prepared a birthday for him and stuff. He didn’t change his life after being married imo.
Nikki forced him to be a present dad 😂
I thought i was the only one who noticed that
I even beg hubby to do videos with me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 he can never be an influencer I can’t even deal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The end for me…it’s just God’s grace😂😂😂😂😂
what annoys me is those couple even when you want to be going out with and they ask if their hubby can come along like whyyyy, if your hubby comes how can we gist i beggggg let him stay home🤣😆😂
I live 450km away from my husband ..i hv learned to exist and be on my own until he comes i survive by doing things on my own.
I totally agree with you Both 100%, well done ❤
See this thing you said about attaching happiness to anyone at all ehn it's a toxic trait on its own and I'm guilty
Personally, I don’t support couples working together. But , if it works for you, then fine.
When I see a movie with my husband , I’m always the one explaining 😭😭🤣🤣🤣 like sir why are you asking me all these questions, are you not watching it too?
Nelo’s makeup - yummmmm
Hahahha
Nelo and Ada, let me share this with you.
I’m a UIUX Designer and my husband is a Product Manager.
We both are tech people. A
I have a company that teach people Product Design and my husband have a company that teach Product Management.
It works for us!
We work remotely, we see each other, we speak the same language as per the type of Job we do.
It works for us!
Just listening you, I can see you both have no idea of what you are saying🤣🤣🤣🤣 (in nelo voice)
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I didn't see the last line coming! 😂
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Don’t pause it. Omg!!! Why can I relate so much 😀🤣🤣
20:50 this part sha cracked me up...
Thanks for the gist our online aunties
Not me coming back to watch the old videos😅
I miss you both
I want my space all the time I think it’s normal. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I function well when he travels for work sometimes…
I am a master in this field. Dey your dey make I dey my dey .
I always love to watch d last part 😂u both re jst too funny🤣🤣🤣🤣space is very important, it makes u feel matured
Just because you work together with your spouse does not mean that you have lost your independence. I have seen couples who run the same business and are great working together but still have some individualism. So what works for you may not work for another….couples should learn to do what works for them and focus on your marriage.
Some couples would happily do the craziest things and it works for them but for some others, it’s a total disaster.
Me I cnt I find it suffocating , I love him but no way I like to do my own things 😂😂
Ada said if we come for her she will come for us😂😂😂😂n That Thank you 😂I love you ladies so much n totally agree I can't see myself being always be with my spouse, I don't even want to be the same like my husband.
Beautiful. Please, can you have a session where you talk about battling vaginismus as a young lady😩😩😩
I love this topic to the core ❤
There is no Manuel to marriage tho. People should do what works for them. And everyone should CARE more about the quality of their marriage.😊
It’s the last part for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
oooomg my fav online aunties in da building, yes your niece Deborah im present Ma,,,yesssooo i cant work on the same field with my hubby (Rotimi my love) nooooo(he don't even want to work with me😂🤣, also we don't like the same things like really mann this human life eehh🤣😂🤣 another thing my husband is my HUSBAND not my bestie,,nooo its krazy how some people wont accept that.
These two are the ultimate friends goals
Ah God when?
The thumbnail to this video comes across a bit shady. It's so easy to assume that you have personal beef with them even though the actual video is sensible. Please try to work on the overall tone of the message especially when it comes to these thumbnails.❤ Love the points made!
These two gorgeous women 😂😂
His money is ours mine i pay only when change is left. So happy i married in late 80ties
I always love how they end their videos 😂😂😂
When you're going to buff...when you are going to shit...follow him 😅😂
Yall are too funny tho😂
If you come for me I come for you
That got me😂
With these two people, I've learnt to catch my sub and leave others own for them. In other words, I always pick what relates to me and leave the rest.
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What of those couples channels and they are doing well,I can relate to your points
They have dropped the bomb. Sums up my life 🙌🏾 Love is sweeter when you have your own space, can take care of yourself as well and there is a ME. Loving this discussion 💚
It is the ideas you bring into reality.
I'm not married. But this is a great advise worth pursuing ❤
FOR THE FIRST TIME I DISAGREE,, I REALLY DIDNT SEE THIS DAY COMING.
Hi Ada, and Nelo💚💚💚💚💚💚
I don’t want to be with someone that we like the same thing or have the same personality. But whatever works for couples, different people different strokes.
Guys the real message is at the end🤣🤣🤣
The intro 🤣🤣🤣😂
😂😂😂😂😂the closing ooo!!! From 20:48 on constant reply please.
The ending 😂😂
I love me time and my hubby loves his time, then we love our time. Doesnt get better than that. I really enjoyed this though 😁😁.
Live and let live in summary. I always say, distance makes the heart fonder!!
Some of ur opinions i can relate
You people should co sleep 😂😂😂, Ada and nelo let me see how you can make heaven like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No formula my sweet tiets. Just depends from the couple. If you marry a man that you thought is on same page with you. Then its not case for others. I cant afford tobe without my other half close. Its my confidante . Maybe just differnt for you. And we goin for 22yrs. Its most beautiful if its your soul mate thru think and thin
Adaeze you too get mount 😂😂
This is why Aisha and odogwu fights alot 😂😂 una too get sense jare
From listening from people who have been marrying far longer than both of you. I would say, to each its own, we are all individual and what work for some would not work for others. It's not a question of normal or abnormal
Taking your last advice, going to buy glue to gum gum with my husband. T for Thanks 😃
I always say that I want to be someone with of different as me. I’m outgoing , I need someone who is calm.
Is the ending for me 😅 points noted
Aunty Nelo and Adaeze you look beautiful
One thing that couples who work together must do is to know that the other person is not the enemy.
It is not easy to accept. My husband and i work in the same industry and run our business together. He had a part time job and i did side gigs. Once any money comes in, we talk about it and plan for the family.
I'd push and give up 😂 sometimes. He's the pusher. The bad thing is at times, we have no family time because we work together and prioritise work even at night with pressing deadlines.
We now work in the same field but different companies 😂😂 My husband is a media man who vlogs and has been pushing me to start a vlog channel since because i was learning videography in a photo studio at some time. He always knows the angles and right way i should do things 😂😂
I'm basically my hubs best and closest friend unlike me that has many best friends. I love my space and take time out when i feel suffocated.
Thanks for sharing
Haaaa I feel OT love train are doing well. I feel you just have to find your person and yes you don't have to like the same things.
Wether I like it or not eh, after 19years in marriage, my dears eh, I agree with you people😂😂😂seriously may we have something to do that keeps us busy we will definitely understand what is being said here😂😂. Let each other breeeethe!!!
Okay what’s that ending??🤣🤣
😂😂 the end part
Nelo you’re my spirit animal. We need space abeg.
😂😂😂😂 the ending 😂😂
If you spend 24/7 together what do they talk about? If you’re experiencing the same thing there’s no conversations. xx
I agree with you😊
I think this being with a partner 24/7 is what affected some marriages during and after the pandemic.
Love both of you friendship I love the talk I am grandma yes you guys are right, keep up the good job and the love well done
Lool cheers Ladies , 🥂
Is the ending for me always😅😅😅😅😅