How To Reinvent Yourself | 10 Easy Steps | Start Today! | The Feminine Universe
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- čas přidán 21. 06. 2024
- This video is for the ladies who are ready for a change. If you’re tired of doing the same thing with minimal to no results, if you’re tired of being inconsistent, you have the power to change that. You have the power to reinvent yourself.
I see reinvention as a way to combine the concept of setting goals with actually transforming as a person. And That combination makes the goals and changes much more sustainable.
I’ve also come to favor reinvention because it’s not a concept that’s so tied to one specific part of the year. You can choose to reinvent yourself at any stage and any age. You can decide to reinvent yourself at any day or time that you are watching this.
Here are my top 10 tips for realistic life transformation and reinvention. - Jak na to + styl
I’m SO HAPPY you mentioned NOT everyone wants to be a “Girl Boss” or “The Boss”!!! I never wanted that, I would love to be a stay at home mom! I do have a 9-5 that I enjoy, and put my best foot forward and by no means want to be the boss. I enjoy logging off at a certain time and focusing on my family. I love the “be totally honest with yourself about what you actually want” 👏 👏 love this video per usual!!
Me tooo!!🤍
Hi. Make sure whoever you have a baby by gives you the luxury to be a SAHM. I'm a sahm as well. 💘 sending positivity your way
Thank you! It feels like everyone these days are pushing for entrepreneurship! No disrespect to entrepreneurs at all they are amazing and talented but so are people who have 9-5 jobs, or work 12 hour shifts. Like me I work 3 days a week, 12 hour shifts as a healthcare worker and it’s the best for me and my life & schedule!
@Pumpkin Latte the more you make the more you're somewhat forced into it.. my husband starting a business because it offsets taxes. I have a business and it's so much work!!!! It's not for everyone and sometimes I don't even think it's for me. I don't mind having a regular job ( I teach), but making my daily pay in an hour Def makes a business look attractive. Also I enjoy my business and love sharing my gifts with ppl.
Same here!!!!
✨”We can’t trust ourselves if we aren’t being honest with ourselves.”✨
I love how you ground yourself in the Word of God.👑
Being honest with ourselves has so many internal benefits!
The Word definitely keeps me grounded and at peace. Great to hear from you, Julia💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse no wonder u are filled with such wisdom!
"It is hard to get on the right path without a destination"
Glad that resonated with you!
This was definitely it for me!
When I was setting goals for 2023 I used the Q1/Q2/Q3/Q4 system to organize it. I finish grad school in March and then I’m moving across the country at the end of June so it spilt things up nicely :)
Yes! Doing a quarterly breakdown makes things so much more manageable. Congratulations on graduation and all the best with your move!
“We can’t trust ourselves if we are constantly lying to ourselves”. What a gem.
I was very hesitant to watch your videos popping up in my feed. With all the foolishness people put online about femininity, it seems like people are making it something its not. I really appreciate how you are encouraging all women to be the best version of THEMSELVES. There are channels pitting groups of women against each other saying that femininity is about leaving just about all forms of work behind and depend on your husband. I love how you encourage women with all visions, including visions of careers and doing rewarding work. I stand corrected, I'm happy I clicked to watch! Thanks for being encouraging to all women & not putting anyone down in the process of sharing your tips. That is exactly why you will continue to grow!
My sister, I hope that your channel is monetized because this video could be a class! It resonates deeply with my value system and your recommendations are 100% on target. It really hit me when you said that we can suffer because we are scrolling very curated feeds - painfully illuminating!
Absolutely 💯!
May GOD continue to guide you as you guide us back to our true selves. I love you so much. Every video resonates with me. I am truly grateful you created this feminine channel.
I wasn't sure if being a stay at home mom was for me since I don't enjoy cleaning and cooking. Despite being good at work, I wanted to be home and have energy for my family. In the end, it's been two years and I've found that I didn't enjoy cooking and cleaning because I was tired when I'd get home from work. I enjoy keeping the home for my family now and I know they appreciate me being present for them.
As a feminine woman trying to get into Research Science (a very male dominated field) I love how you don’t advocate for a specific female role, it’s about meeting women where they’re at. I’m taking full accountability for my life and how I treat myself this year! I want to keep my softness for life.
love that you mentioned the importancy of God in your life💟
Such an important pillar for me! Glad that spoke to you!
Which church do you go to ? Myself am a Jehovah witness
I've been reading this book called Atomic Habits and it goes into depth about actually becoming the person you want to be instead of focusing on the bad habit you'd like to get rid of. For instance if someone asks you if you'd like a cigarette instead of saying "no thanks, I'm trying to cut back" you should try "no thanks, I don't smoke or I'm not a smoker". Actionable steps to actually become that person we desire to be are made up of those small changes that add up over time. I want this for all of us here. Thanks for this video ♥
I also wanted to add that I love your idea of a quarterly check-in. I actually had heard this just a few months ago from a woman who lost her husband unexpectedly last year. She was saying that as hard as it was for her to live her life without him, she said that she is so happy that he always took the time to make sure that the family checked in with each other on a quarterly basis. She told me that every 3 months they would have a family meeting to reassess of where things were financially, emotionally, and psychologically.
She said her husband is the one that came up with all of these ideas to make sure that everything was taken care of in the family. Ever since she told me this, I made it my goal to make sure that I do the same thing with myself this year. And lo and behold, here you are saying the very thing that I had already begun.
I have plans to finish some of my remodeling projects that I did not get around to finishing last year. I did make an attempt to do those things but I make a mistake of dealing with "friends" and trying to cut a few corners to save money. But in the end, I found out that it's best to go ahead and pay a little bit more for work that is of quality level, done on time, and where I can have a warranty and guarantee in case anything goes wrong. I don't have time to go around here looking for Pookie and Benjo!😁
I also had some plans to look into what it would take to receive a real estate license as well as making money by of some lucrative side hustles.
This should be a very interesting year. I plan on it being fun as well.
Thanks for sharing this, Denise! That quarterly family or couple check in could make such a huge difference in so many relationships. And as you said, it's just as important we do so with ourselves as well. Your projects and goals sound great! Keep me updated. Let's make this year absolutely amazing! 🥂💕
I've watched a few of these reinvention videos and this is my favorite! I just love the fresh perspective you bring. Love the part about being real with ourselves and how we can ruin our intuition by constantly lying to ourselves. Can you talk more about that?
I'm so glad you enjoyed it, love! I can definitely talk more about preserving our intuition, I think it's one the most powerful thing we have as women.
@@TheFeminineUniverse please do talk about it. I'll be expectant, thank you😘🤗
I definitely needed this. I have fallen waaaayyyyy off and need to start from the beginning. Reinvention sounds like just what I need!! Love your content as always. 💗
It happens to the best of us, love! So glad this was helpful in getting back on track. Make sure you get out your notebook and planner and tackle one thing at a time. You've got this Elizabeth! I'm rooting for you. Looking forward to crushing 2023 and getting some good laughs with you! 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you!! I got my new planner today actually so I'm good to go lol.
I've been feeling like I need a complete life overhaul! Careers that I've had,old friendships that played out long ago,even my wardrobe need some serious reinvention!! You're videos always show up just when I need them! Looking forward to seeing more content.🥂👑😄
Same!
Reinventing yourself will set up a new life because it will attract the people that resonate with your new energy. I began with my wardrobe..... I am already seeing changes. No lie. It WORKS. Take risks and be yourself. Have fun ladies on your new life. Stay in the Lord though.❤
Being a girl your channel is one of the most VALUABLE that i have ever come across!!! Imma watch it multiple times for sure! Tysm big sista for wonderful advices!!!❤❤❤
This is amazing! Reinvention was my plan and I was just getting it all together, halfway through this month. This video gave me a solid, concrete plan of action. If we’re not growing & changing, we’re not living! Thank you for the tools to help me succeed! I would like to learn more about purging & letting go of accumulation of “things” that seem to occur during COVID. I truly want to free up my mind to live in the present & move forward.
I don’t make them. I’m just living hunny and enjoying my life with a purpose and being a good human ❤
I respect that!
My biggest problem is being consistent 😭😭😭, great video btw🥰
Planning is EXTREMELY important. It sounds “anal retentive”, but it help with staying focused as well as helping to not becoming overwhelmed. That’s great that you mentioned that.
All of these are great tips. Thank you for sharing.
I always get so excited when I receive a notification from this channel ❤️
Always excited to hear from you, love!
This is EXACTLY what I needed. I know I need to evolve but I needed help defining who that person is!
you mentioned EVERYTHING, in this video that I am certain people could use, consistency, your enviroment, the "logging off" days to recharge,EVERYTHING! I loved watching this video and am so rewatching it in future, thank you for this video. Love you!!!
I’m always so happy when you post a new video! Your voice is so soothing and you give me so much motivation! Like the big sister I never had. Thanks for all you do! ❤
I'm always happy to share! Love all the sisters this community has given me 💕
Planning so ahead in future actually scares me. But I do plan the year, month, and week in my hands at the moment.
I can't explain the joy I feel when I see a new video from this channel 😭
I just rewatched this video in its entirety and this time, with actual taking notes and pausing when needed. May God bless you abundantly sis. Please, continue to take your time to make quality videos like all you have ever put out. Even though I impatiently await your next video, I am always forced to go back to your existing videos and I always pick up gems EVERY SINGLE TIME. So take your time angel💛
This!! Same! Lovely put so true.
I've rewatched this video 2x now, taking notes. I'm sure I'll watch it many more times!
This is the best reinvention video I have ever seen. I really wasn't expecting this level, just wanted something to play in the background while I got some paperwork sorted. Had to put that aside cause these tips and tricks are really really good ... and grounded too. I love the fact you mentioned people who couldn't get out of their environment for whatever reason and what they could do. Although that's not my issue, I love how inclusive that was. I hope that reached someone who needed to hear it. I'm subscribing x
What you said about New Year's resolutions are so true. Every year I always have the same resolutions because I always revert to my original ways. My life has been the same for the past decade b/c of this. Now that I'm entering my 30s soon I refuse to repeat this same pattern.
Thank you for the tips!
This video is filled with such sweet yet subtle wisdom that all I can say is thank you!
Every time you talk
It’s like you are talking to me and this makes me realise I deserve to treat myself better
Thank you
I'm glad my content resonates with you so deeply! You absolutely deserve it, love. Let's make this year incredible 💕🥂
This is me since this year . My spirit needed a shift and a change i have started working towards it and see possibilities and new beginnings
This is the most useful and well thought out video on this subject that I have ever seen. So many points of agreement. Thank you so much for articulating this so well, I'll be saving and referring back to this many times over the year.
Wishing all the ladies here the best success in their goals!
This is an entire word! This preaches! I feel so validated and heard. These are so my feelings and things I used to do and need to pick back up. Thank you so much. Thank you!
This is so inspiring thanks for sharing your story. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey❤
Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too.🙏🙏
@@monica64340 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
¿l learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.:)
The scheduling thing is so true, especially when you become a parent. I’ve started putting “text my best friend” on my to do list because if I don’t set reminders months will go without me talking to any girlfriends.
I'm turning 33 this year.I feel stuck in every aspect of my life.I don't know if I'm feeling pressured because I'm getting older or it's ok.Even being in a relationship for a while and no commitment as yet smt, I feel like I need to reset and switch a lot of things about myself.Im starting with the gym.Im also working on getting my own place which I feel is essential.
I really loved this!! I love being organized !! Thank you so much! Shabbat Shalom ❤️❤️
It’s a therapy listening to your voice !! I come back to your videos when I’m out of track and feeling kind of low !!
Your content is highly valuable !
Love you and god bless you ❤
Cheers to this incredible channel 🎉 I’ve watched every video and all your information and advice is always on point. I loose myself by not being consistent but your videos have helped me tremendously. It’s been my environment and not being patient. Thank you always, may God continue to bless you and that you continue to provide us with your wisdom to become the best version of ourselves.
I've been overwhelming myself recently. Thank you for this video!! Love it so much! ❤️
This is amazing!
I’m in the middle of year 2023 goals and I’m so proud of myself for staying consistent even when it’s hard. Cheers to higher salaries, moving closer to family and getting back to school. I’m truly treating myself like someone I love and it has been MindBlowing.
I legit did all of this, this year 🎉
Cheers to us 🎊
This is my favorite video you’ve posted to date! So many great gems. Going to listen again and take notes. ❤
This is one of the most grounded in reality videos I've come across in awhile. It is so motivational to me because you have practical steps about being honest with yourself, basic planning and consistency, and being ok with not wanting to be the.Girl Boss! I'm definitely wanting something inbetween, and I just felt myself breath easier and essier throughout this whole video.
I hardly comment on videos but I just had to say that this is such an amazing video. Coming from someone who watches self improvement videos like it’s my job this has by far been one of the best I’ve seen/listened to. Your voice is perfect and the goals are practical yet make such a difference. This will be my go to video for when I need a head reset. Thank you for this! You just got a new sub!
Thank you for such a thoughtful comment, love! I'm really glad you enjoyed the video and will be able to use it as a continuous resource. Welcome to the family - so happy to have you here! 💕
Okay this video is everything! So many gems that hit hard. So ready to reinvent myself!
Omg the fact that you linked this to my favorite scriptures from the word of God. Blessings sis 👏
This is inspiring. Sending love to all women who is thriving and never gives up on their goals ❤ I’m one of them 😊🙏
Fracens 📔🤵
I love the macro, mid and weekly goals. You should do more videos of just tips like this I love it. Thank you ❤
This video is everything I needed this year. You inspired me to start my channel, you inspired me to improve on my vocabulary. Thank you
Wow! Congratulations, love! So happy for you 💕
Thank you sweetheart for this wonderful video. I am at my lowest today and I really needed inspiration on what to do to completely reinvent myself and this video has given me the inspiration I needed. Stay blessed!
My mom is a wonderful woman and has been through a lot for me, but when it comes to life advices, she has had a very stressful life as a woman. These advices help me a lot to learn how to live with femininity and organization, which is sadly something my mother never learnt from her parents, and I never learned before following this channel. I love you and thank you so much ❤️
I love how practical this video is. I can actually action these points.
I agree 100% on all of the points but in particular be true to yourself, don't feel the need to be who society or family and friends want or expect you to be, its your life. Also love the tip to meal prep and shop once a week.
Thank you. I have been putting myself on the back burner for years. I am ready to take care of myself and needed to hear this. ❤
I have to put this in the universe. I absolutely appreciate and love your content. It’s everything to me❤️
This comment warmed my heart! So happy to have you here! 💕
I am so happy your video pop up after I was watching another video! Thank you for sharing with us!
I have etiquette training on my goals. Thank you for joining me on my journey of self development! Blessings.
Great information. Love it. THANK YOU for this message. I hope a lot of women are listening to this.
Thank you sis for putting hijab women in your videos, as a muslim woman I really appreciate it
God bless ❤
This I needed. It’s like a swift kick in the butt. Although I’ve already started doing the things to put me on the right track this is definitely a confirmation that I’m on the WAY TO GREATNESS Thank you.
This is great advice . We have to know our limitations and stay in our lane.
I love how you mention Bible verses in this video. I have been listening to all your videos, back-to-back, I want to hear each one! They are very informative and so real-life advice ❤ (one thing I wanted to let you know is that you misspelled “quarter,” but it’s no big deal, we get what you mean 😉) have a great day love!
just found you on the youtube. I love that you mentioned being consistent. sometimes we just need to stick with something to find if it really works for you.
Cue me taking notes! Yes!
I am in multiple situations and I really appreciate these videos as I work to improve my situations ❤
This was the best video, every tip was backed up by actual things that can be done. Loved every tip. Loved how you mentioned that you are wonderfully and uniquely created by God. Also loved that you said you can reinvent yourself at any age, any stage.
I really appreciate this video. I drive a school bus. 13yrs so far. I’m 61. I get caught up in the GO GO GO pace of this work life. A simple act as wash & style my hair helps so much but I’ll put it off till I’m about ready to jump and then I think…”wash my hair”. It took all of an hour. Which is when I seen this video and turned up the volume while styling with my Dyson Airwrap. ❤. Ty
I will strive to incorporate these steps you mentioned. Instead of what I’m doing which is allowing “how I feel” dictate not doing self care.
Wow, this may be one of the most insightful videos on life goals I have ever come across.
I know most of this stuff, but this girl helped change my life in such small amazing ways at my own pace . Keep going and never stop !
Omg thank you queen for these beautiful messages and please keep them coming ..you inspire me a lot👏😍😍
Thanks for sharing!! Awesome video!! I’m looking forward to giggling and saying “ Who am I and how did I become so awesome!!” Amen to that!!
Thank you so much. Your visuals are exceptional. I compare everything I see to them. Beauty to perfection. The hair, makeup, clothing, etc. Just beautiful. It makes you strive to do your best. I don’t get chicks who go on camera looking a mess, to put it plainly. Love all your videos and your format. Your voice is very soothing. Your channel is the only Feminine channel I watch now. I don’t want to watch someone sitting there talking.
Thank you so much for this lovely and gentle reminder of how we need to refresh our goals, dreams, our plans for the future as well as the ones that are right in front of us.
Glad this resonated with you, love!
So happy to see this!! Thank you, Sis! 🤍
You're welcome, love!
ABSOLUTE MAGNIFICENCE!
I really needed this today and didn't even realize it until I started watching. Thank you so much for the sage advice!
Wow sooo many priceless gems in this video. Re listening and taking notes! 💗
Yay!! My Friday just got better! Thank you for this video.
You are so welcome, love! 💕
I loved this video so much. I used a lot of these tips before seeing this, but now I’m going to add on to this! I loved how your family and God were your sources of comfort, I relate❤❤❤
Glad that resonated with you, Kirsten! Let's make this year awesome 💕💕
Powerful message.
I have bookmarked this one to reference for inspiration and support.
Thank you so much!
You're very welcome, love! Hope this serves as a great resource whenever you want to check in with yourself 😊
So happy I found your channel! great points and great challenges for all of us!
I love the quarterly check point.
This has to be the best video I’ve watched in a very long time ❤️
Thank you for making this video. I absolutely love it!
Your channel is my fuel source 💖 Thank you for the inspiration!
Thank you so much, I'm going to incorporate scheduling everything. That would help me immensely as well as consistency.
Thank you! I’ve been so impatient-lol! Keep them coming! 💞
Haha! I've got you, Megan! Happy New Year 🥂
I LOOOOOVED IT...really came as light in this deep tunnel...thank you Queen...I am watching the other videos too🔥👏🏾🔥
Cheers to reinvention!! Great video as always ❤
Cheers, Bianca🥂 Let's make this a great one!
You are amazing! You are changing lives with this content, honestly.
Keep up the good work!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This is such a wonderful comment! Thank you. I'm thrilled that you find this content helpful💕
I can listen to and watch this over and over.
Thank you
You're so welcome, Tee! Hope this serves as a great resource whenever you need to check in with yourself!
Thanks so much ❤ I m in the process of reinventing myself so this is just what I need.
This is beautiful, don't stop making these videos they're very insightful.
Thank you.
Hey beauty, happy new year. These tips are realistic and helpful. I have been working on my reinvention for a while, resetting and adjusting as needed. Thank you for always creating great content. ❤
Calandra! Happy New Year, love! Sounds like you're on the right track - plan, change and readjust as needed. Hope this helps whenever you need a check in💕
It found me at the right time ❤️🥺I believe that .Thank you for the tips cant wait to execute..Rebrand and Reinvent ✔️🌼It takes time but I'm here for it
GREAT VIDEO!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100%!!!!! PLEASE KEEP SHARING YOUR TRUTH!!!!
Thank you for this video it spoke to my spirit
I've been telling myself that I miss myself when I was 21 when I would take care of me from head to toe.
I'm married now finding myself in pajamas on the weekends.😢
It's never too late! Have a weekly pamper night. Get some sexier pj's. Spray a little perfume on before bed. Little things that will make you feel more feminine/getting yourself back ✨💜