STOP Giving Discounts | Start Getting More Respect | 5 Steps for High Quality Treatment

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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
  • There comes a time in life when you decide you simply want more. More from yourself and more from others. More respect, more appreciation, more recognition, more thoughtfulness. Whether it’s because you realize you’ve been accepting less than you deserve for a long time or maybe you’re no longer who you used to be. you’ve done the work and made the changes and seen the growth in yourself and you want the interactions and the treatment you get to reflect that. Whatever the reason, you know you want more, and you know deserve it. If that’s where you are, it might just be time to raise your price. To begin to move in a way that requires you to show up as your best self and requires others to meet certain conditions, requirements and criteria to have access to you.
    But as we know wanting better and getting better are two very different things. Many people will go through life wanting things they never get. Either because they don’t do anything about it, or they don’t go about it the right way. So today I want us to go over 4 steps to effectively raise your price, steps to help you realize for yourself and help you to communicate to others that yesterday’s price is not today's price. No question marks, no apologies.
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Komentáře • 662

  • @TheFeminineUniverse
    @TheFeminineUniverse  Před 6 měsíci +110

    Hi ladies!! We will be getting together LIVE today (Saturday Dec 2) @ 11am. So, if you want more, feel free to join in 💕

  • @imagoblack
    @imagoblack Před 6 měsíci +1452

    I’m a man and not your target demographic but I must say that I still get a lot from your videos. You are a treasure! Your content is balanced and full of wisdom. I will be sharing your videos with my daughters. (And my son for that matter) Keep doing what you’re doing!!!

    • @denisebrock3154
      @denisebrock3154 Před 6 měsíci +101

      Wow! I'm impressed that you chimed in and left this wonderful comment.
      You will have amazing daughters and a fabulous son by exposing them to this contact while they're still young. This is crucial information to teach them in their years where they're more open to learning and receiving correction.😉👌💯

    • @dudunhlabathi1870
      @dudunhlabathi1870 Před 6 měsíci +19

      I agree fully

    • @drecool85
      @drecool85 Před 6 měsíci +59

      Same. I’m a man and I apply a lot of these to my life too!

    • @Author_SoftwareDesigner
      @Author_SoftwareDesigner Před 6 měsíci +70

      I’m a man as well. 34 years old, no kids gets. Studying for my masters, and this is one of if not the BEST channel I’ve found on the dating arena. Healthy and practical advice. She should write a book or package and sell a course.

    • @jasmineestafia
      @jasmineestafia Před 6 měsíci +20

      Goo dad! ❤

  • @TiktokTownhall
    @TiktokTownhall Před 6 měsíci +238

    I raised that price and treatment has definitely followed. I wish I did this 3 years ago. Literally the WEEK I dropped a dusty.. a king came in stepping strong. I kicked that door completely down

    • @kairosunltd130
      @kairosunltd130 Před měsícem

      🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥wish I also did it 5 yrs ago. I'm finally getting the hang of it and things are now opening up and it's looking amazing ☺️😊🥰👑👑👑💎💎💎

  • @dianemoril7612
    @dianemoril7612 Před 5 měsíci +68

    I raised my price a few months ago and lost all my "friends". I then realized that we were not friends, they just benefited a lot more from me than me from them. and they were mad when it stopped.... so, did a very good job!

    • @sp3357
      @sp3357 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @dianemoril7612 you are so right girl the same thing happened to me when I moved away from my hometown before I left we wasn’t just on the same page I was growing and they were still stuck I had to go and leave them behind.

  • @Bed_kingnoob
    @Bed_kingnoob Před 6 měsíci +252

    I like this video. People should look at you and automatically think “hmmm this lady is high maintenance”. Stop apologizing. Stop allowing people to manipulate you. Stop slowing people to make you feel bad about your hard no’s

  • @9darshana
    @9darshana Před 6 měsíci +181

    I feel like someone needs to hear this. Ladies, if you are single and are interested in being with a man, make sure you're always presentable when you go out. I've noticed that I attract higher quality men when I wear slacks, trousers, and a nice shirt or blouse. When I'm too casual with sweat pants on I attract more undesirable men. These men are less likely to approach if you have on less casual clothing. There's just something about slacks/trousers that will turn the average undesirable man away, they may look but I promise you, they'll leave you alone. This is just something my friends and I have noticed.

  • @gracephiloe5788
    @gracephiloe5788 Před měsícem +7

    I got my a book, a pen and wifi, this channel is my self schooling, im going to graduate with first class😅

  • @nzeifunanya2052
    @nzeifunanya2052 Před 6 měsíci +194

    I learnt so many things here but my favorite and most effective remains "be ok with being put back the shelve" it only means you're too expensive for them to afford and that's totally ok.
    It transformed me. Thank you for this channel
    It's been helpful.

  • @ktiyw2685
    @ktiyw2685 Před 6 měsíci +274

    This video came right on time. I know I’ve sold myself terribly short over the years. It is time for me to value myself and radically love myself

    • @andreaviola8675
      @andreaviola8675 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Cheering you on Sis!

    • @ktiyw2685
      @ktiyw2685 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Thank you! 💖

    • @rocioruiz5622
      @rocioruiz5622 Před 6 měsíci +5

      It better late than never than never

    • @ladyd8028
      @ladyd8028 Před 5 měsíci +3

      If you don't love you, no one else will, either. 💡

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
    @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Před 6 měsíci +103

    Raise your value. ❤️
    Yes, ladies, watch out for these “shaming” phrases:
    - “You priced yourself out of the dating market.”
    - “You’re charging new car prices for a used car” (dating market)
    - “I can get someone else here for less money” (for jobs/business)
    - “You’re not going to get that kind of money for that kind of work” (for jobs/business)
    I love how you brought up that your price may indeed be too high in your current location, and you just might have to move to where your price is reasonable.

  • @fatikay5735
    @fatikay5735 Před 6 měsíci +80

    " What you tolerate, you *deserve* " 😢 gurl that hit me like an arrow 🏹 right in the hear!!! 😂❤ Painful truth!

  • @judithstuck9979
    @judithstuck9979 Před 6 měsíci +41

    I wish I would have seen this video years ago. I thought I was being devoted by acting like the desperate girl. I thought I could win men over, when I should have been raising my value. I never had a mother to tell me these things or a father who told me my worth. They should teach this as a class in school. Better late than never to learn. Thank you so much!❤

    • @journeywithme_erika1890
      @journeywithme_erika1890 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Same! It's never too late to learn a new way and thank God we got away from those in the past...now our future is brighter ❤

    • @bellecherie3143
      @bellecherie3143 Před měsícem +1

      It’s not too late ❤

    • @judithstuck9979
      @judithstuck9979 Před měsícem

      @@bellecherie3143 Amen with Jesus it’s never too late!

  • @grettalemabouchou6779
    @grettalemabouchou6779 Před 6 měsíci +62

    I am doing it. From the clothes I wear to my homes' design and even my furniture. Thank you for this message.

  • @queenamour7496
    @queenamour7496 Před 6 měsíci +129

    This is such a perfect timing. I literally had these exact same thoughts just yesterday on my 31 bday ❤

    • @sydney8725
      @sydney8725 Před 6 měsíci +6

      happy birthday!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Před 6 měsíci +9

      Happy birthday, Queen🎉🎉 I hope your 31st year is absolutely magical! So happy to have you as part of this community. Celebrate yourself, keep growing, keep glowing! Can't wait to hear what this year has in store for you 💕🥂

    • @queenamour7496
      @queenamour7496 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@sydney8725 thank you so much Sydney it means a lot ❤️

    • @queenamour7496
      @queenamour7496 Před 6 měsíci

      @@efemmary9450 thank you so much! I greatly appreciate it ❤️❤️

    • @queenamour7496
      @queenamour7496 Před 6 měsíci

      @@annengei2885 thank you so much, I appreciate you ❤️

  • @lavieestbelle6068
    @lavieestbelle6068 Před 6 měsíci +62

    I enjoy your content . It reminds me on how much I need to work.
    Get to the gym
    Find a hobby
    Continue to diversify the novels I read.
    Your content is helpful.
    Thank you so much.

  • @coloursmarieSTUDIO
    @coloursmarieSTUDIO Před 6 měsíci +37

    You know you’re on the right path when synchronicity happens. I literally out of no where said this affirmation to myself, “My price just went up.” And now I’m watching this video. Beautiful message and lesson in life!

  • @zephomalunga5251
    @zephomalunga5251 Před 6 měsíci +9

    That last one....got me...
    Just this morning I was saying to myself, I have done the work but I don't seem to meet friendships and men that meet my standards....

  • @Tala_Ta
    @Tala_Ta Před měsícem +1

    "You may be doing right things in a wrong place" is a brilliant idea! Thank you. Much food for thought.

  • @l.c.8211
    @l.c.8211 Před 6 měsíci +30

    OMG. I am about to study your videos like I am in University. I am going to become the best version of myself. Thank you sincerely❤

  • @edwardhelb1139
    @edwardhelb1139 Před 6 měsíci +19

    As a man this was needed to hear I need to raise my value and price. Awesome content for everyone man or woman despite not being your targeted audience. ❤💯

  • @mx7darling663
    @mx7darling663 Před 6 měsíci +50

    Right on time and point as usual. Raise your value please❤

  • @taxtechnicians8939
    @taxtechnicians8939 Před 6 měsíci +21

    Raise Your Value!

  • @tamaratammy8039
    @tamaratammy8039 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Raise your value❤

  • @Rozallthingsfeminine
    @Rozallthingsfeminine Před 6 měsíci +11

    Trash settles..... but cream rises to the top. Yes, raise your value smooches 💋

  • @claes9429
    @claes9429 Před 6 měsíci +21

    Raise your value girl! 💙

  • @Apiscesworld
    @Apiscesworld Před 6 měsíci +10

    Raise your value!✨

  • @SherryLight
    @SherryLight Před 6 měsíci +23

    Sis, you are so intelligent and insightful. Thank you for sharing this type of content with the world. You are CHANGING lives! Thank you for sharing your tips as they are deep and impactful. ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾💃🏾💃🏾👸🏾👸🏾👑👑

  • @shaleenison5415
    @shaleenison5415 Před 6 měsíci +15

    Raise your value!!!
    Preach gurl! I wish you were my spirit animal. Every video I take notes and journal on each lesson. Thank you for showing me how i can be better, live better, and want better.

  • @FUfon-gf5ph
    @FUfon-gf5ph Před 6 měsíci +8

    Your thumbnail showed up in my Sisters feed & she sent it to me Neither of us knew you but We Know You were heaven sent & this was a divine appt❤May Yah Bless you for your Light Wisdom Courage & Love Thank you!! Implementing Now & l👀k forward to MORE🎉🎉🎉

  • @annkimani1763
    @annkimani1763 Před 6 měsíci +10

    RAISE YOUR VALUE ❤❤❤❤

  • @paisleygarrett1975
    @paisleygarrett1975 Před 6 měsíci +6

    this is all really important and i guess deep down i’m afraid of being lonely. but i’m gonna try and be ok w my own company and god 💕

  • @Naomily
    @Naomily Před 6 měsíci +14

    Raise your value - looking forward to a video on that.
    Thanks again for yet another amazing video. It's true, I'd be ready to buy your book, at least printables with the key messages you've given us.

  • @lanapincock246
    @lanapincock246 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Raise your value! This is such a great reminder! Thank you for the video!!!❤

  • @Phenomenal3021
    @Phenomenal3021 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Raise your value ❤❤❤

  • @rachaeladu7360
    @rachaeladu7360 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Raise your value 💗🙏🏾✨… great video & perfect timing ⏱ yet again

  • @preciousnokuthula2328
    @preciousnokuthula2328 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Raise your value ❤

  • @bookbutterfly2408
    @bookbutterfly2408 Před 6 měsíci +19

    Oooh, been excited for this one! & yes, raise your price! Keep up with these next-level videos, your explanations make them so easy to understand!

  • @anettjessop9102
    @anettjessop9102 Před 6 měsíci +9

    You always Raise Our Value! Thank you!!

  • @darrienhoward2334
    @darrienhoward2334 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This is some of your best content yet and its right on time for me. Thank you!! ❤

  • @Meg104D
    @Meg104D Před 6 měsíci +7

    Yes please - would love a video on how to raise your value!

  • @lizzyo9029
    @lizzyo9029 Před 4 měsíci +1

    To the glory of God in Christ Jesus, I am almost done completing my 2nd PhD❤️. Thank you for creating a place for us to celebrate the works of our hands💕

  • @chantal4342
    @chantal4342 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you for putting together this video- along with previous ones. It has been incredibly helpful and effective in driving changes in the way I value myself.

  • @edwinaogboleoche1027
    @edwinaogboleoche1027 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise your value! Thank you for the invaluable impact you're making ❤

  • @moniquejohnson59
    @moniquejohnson59 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I manifested this video. Thank you very much!

  • @Organiclemonade7
    @Organiclemonade7 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Right on time sister 🙌🏽💅🏽 been feeling this in my spirit

  • @simoneallen2081
    @simoneallen2081 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Raise your value!!! I love your positive content!!! Thank you!!!

  • @mistysworld_
    @mistysworld_ Před 6 měsíci +6

    I love this message! Thank you for your wise words!! ❤❤❤

  • @Catherine-ew1ww
    @Catherine-ew1ww Před 6 měsíci +5

    Wow! Probably the most powerful self help wisdom I’ve heard on you CZcams. Awesome. Thank you very much.

  • @wrldtrvlr4vr
    @wrldtrvlr4vr Před 6 měsíci +3

    I needed this. Thank you. Please do another video on raising your value.

  • @FUfon-gf5ph
    @FUfon-gf5ph Před 6 měsíci +6

    RAISE YOUR VALUE❣❣

  • @FD031487
    @FD031487 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Yes!!! Loving this ❤ definitely wanting a raise your value video.

  • @Sammieox
    @Sammieox Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise your value 💛

  • @TheHperez
    @TheHperez Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise your value! Thank you!

  • @KarinaSwan
    @KarinaSwan Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this video, I needed to hear it from someone else and you're absolutely right!💮

  • @desireenunez7824
    @desireenunez7824 Před 6 měsíci +10

    I absolutely love this video! Thank you for the love and energy that you put into creating this beautiful content ❤ what you’ve shared with us is priceless ❤

  • @karolinasakowicz3627
    @karolinasakowicz3627 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Yes to the video on Raise Your Value!

  • @Stephan__ox.
    @Stephan__ox. Před 6 měsíci +3

    I know I’m selling myself short or not getting my value when I get REAL RESENTFUL…it gets disgusting

  • @karibose631
    @karibose631 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I love you work! Thank you. ❤

  • @lltidalwave
    @lltidalwave Před 6 měsíci +14

    IT'S TIME!!! I've been waiting for this all week 🩷😍

  • @gladys.glad.
    @gladys.glad. Před 6 měsíci +14

    It's time to Reset and Rise ! Thank you for your inspiring videos . Bonne journée à toutes

  • @ruthdesroches2359
    @ruthdesroches2359 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Raise your value ❤✨thank you!

  • @amelieluciol2581
    @amelieluciol2581 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You have changed me. For a better, stronger version of myself. Love from France ❤❤❤

  • @georgiaseitanidou154
    @georgiaseitanidou154 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Raise your value in my 50devorse mother thank you I really appreciate it 🙏❤️

  • @ubahchikarositta9940
    @ubahchikarositta9940 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Raise your value. Thank you for this video.

  • @mariarosatuttobene8672
    @mariarosatuttobene8672 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Valuable beyond price!
    Thank you!

  • @Victorious-Elo-Worldwide
    @Victorious-Elo-Worldwide Před 6 měsíci +11

    Raise your value!!❤❤

  • @illuminateyourshadows5861
    @illuminateyourshadows5861 Před 6 měsíci +29

    I want to take some time to thank you for your content. I’m sure you put hours of thought and love into each video because it certainly shows. I discovered your channel a few weeks ago and the way I view myself has changed for the better and my self esteem has advanced to levels I didn’t even know were possible. I’ve tried to find other feminine channels and so many of them leave me feeling worse. But your content is always so full of grounded timeless wisdom and love. You are appreciated and have a subscriber for life! 🥰🤍

  • @lakeithasiggers2087
    @lakeithasiggers2087 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hi girl hey!! this video was just one time and definitely hits the market for me! Keep the videos coming this was really needed and appreciated❤

  • @pffftt1234
    @pffftt1234 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Thank you for yet another informative and transformational video! 🥰

  • @MissK-xi9zo
    @MissK-xi9zo Před 6 měsíci

    Yessss 💯. Thank you for sharing 🙏💜

  • @nnekaeni4979
    @nnekaeni4979 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Wow your so on point. Thank you. ❤

  • @shannette_
    @shannette_ Před 6 měsíci +1

    Amazing. Thank you ❤

  • @daniellaehornamsarweh827
    @daniellaehornamsarweh827 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I so love your theme. I raised the value some time back now I'm going to add the taxes.Grest and informative video. Thank you so much.

    • @andreaviola8675
      @andreaviola8675 Před 6 měsíci +2

      "Now I am adding taxes" OH .....that is gooooooooood, that is sooooooooooo good. That may be my motton for 2024 ! Thank you

  • @rashidat1009
    @rashidat1009 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Raise your value! I need this video.

  • @vanessamuckett278
    @vanessamuckett278 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you! You’re truly a beautiful soul ❤

  • @shayafendez7702
    @shayafendez7702 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You just keep doling out these gems like a Queen!

  • @depringsmith4330
    @depringsmith4330 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I need to listen to this everyday, as a reminder. Great video!

  • @honeymoney23
    @honeymoney23 Před 5 měsíci

    Damn I ain't even know how bad I needed this. Thank you!

  • @user-xy9iu5bb3l
    @user-xy9iu5bb3l Před 4 měsíci

    True that thank you for the advice and support

  • @SweetEssie
    @SweetEssie Před 6 měsíci +2

    Raise your value! Please make another or longer video. 🙏🏾

  • @MademoiselleGisela
    @MademoiselleGisela Před 6 měsíci +3

    You are such a queen! Thank you for your valuable knowledge 🩷

  • @handr_l9397
    @handr_l9397 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise your value!❤😊 (thank you for the video, I need it)

  • @Lovingmylife24
    @Lovingmylife24 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise your value! ❤ this video

  • @esthercazeau6464
    @esthercazeau6464 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Amazing content! Thank you for this video. Was so needed. 😊❤

  • @ravellemoore
    @ravellemoore Před 6 měsíci +5

    Yesss a video on "Raise your Value" pleaseee🙏🏽💕

  • @Liz-ic6jb
    @Liz-ic6jb Před 6 měsíci +2

    I appreciate the quality of content. Thank you.

  • @asha4189
    @asha4189 Před 6 měsíci

    The visuals, the message, the topic - everything is on point! Thank you beloved. Wishing you a successful 2024 ✨

  • @tiashadae1143
    @tiashadae1143 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Love this channel so much ❤

  • @Xo_Chante__
    @Xo_Chante__ Před 6 měsíci +2

    Raise Your Value💕 I adore this channel.

  • @97eop
    @97eop Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise Your Valué ❤

  • @nola7545
    @nola7545 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I waited night and day for this to upload!!! 😊

  • @Makeupbykimberlyp
    @Makeupbykimberlyp Před 6 měsíci +5

    Raise your value.

  • @leanertina129
    @leanertina129 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love this video 💘 with some points that ring true. Would love a raise your value video x

  • @natashachisenga9524
    @natashachisenga9524 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Your voice is my therapy.

  • @margaretmcnish9947
    @margaretmcnish9947 Před 6 měsíci

    Make it plain. I love it!❤

  • @gpennant
    @gpennant Před 6 měsíci +6

    Raise your value! ....as always great video ❤

  • @thinadlamini4671
    @thinadlamini4671 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Raise Your Value ❤ 12:47

  • @Kori_2218
    @Kori_2218 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Raise your value 🙌🏽

  • @AmberGraham18
    @AmberGraham18 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Raise your value!💕

  • @arleneduncan3824
    @arleneduncan3824 Před 5 měsíci

    Raise your value… thanks Queen!