Nofap - EDGING is the WORST thing you can do!
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- čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
- When you do nofap, edging is probably the worst thing you can do. It takes a huge hit on your dopamine system and the massive amounts of oxyticon bond you to the dirty videos to rewire your sexuality.
He is Johnny sins from a parallel universe
Lol
😂😂😂😂👽
He is the good version.
Johnny Saint
Johnny Saint LMAO😂😂😂 haha
I have this shit and it's really hard... It ruined my life... Lost my wife and kid...and a lot of other things... and I Never actually even thought that this was why I couldn't reach my goals... So that's also another thing for people... You first need to notice it's really that why you can't do shit... Now when I started to do nofap... It really felt like I had more energy... First time my record was 23 days and then I relapsed... I was really angry about it on my self and didn't understand why it happened on day 23...and after I tried again and again... I noticed that I couldn't reach even day 7... Now I know don't edge! I'm starting now all over again but now I know I'm not gonna do that shit agaaaain!!! Succes to everyone!
Delete all social media don’t even peek at provocative pictures, because it will lead to more and more…goodluck bor
That sounds like an intense story man, I'm sorry to hear you've been through all this, but it's great to hear that you are making this positive change in your life now. Stay strong and I wish you the very best!
@@robmulder thankyou very much Rob you inspired me in a good way thanks for your video's and keep going!
U r story same like me bro
I too have wife and kid
But I dont feel and emotion to them
Now i am fighting with scrizophenia also.....
Only by God's grace you will be able to overcome. I wish you successs.
Watching this after 3 hours of edging.
God, I was such a good student, I remembered everything, I was brilliant, I had the best results in the last big exam in my school, I was the best one. But it passed a lot of times and my fap addiction got worse. A year I started fapping twice a day and my motivation and my time for the thing I loved, decrease a lot. I wasn't capable to do anything. Then, during the lockdown, I never listened to the teachers explaining the lessons, I was always edging. At the beginning of this year I managed this addiction and I returned to be an happy person: thin, good at school, dedicating time to videogames, books, films. Now... I'm failing.
I can't give up, I have to stop.
We re in this together man, stay strong, believe me, life will reward you sooner or later!
update?
Well, I didn't fap for 22 days, which is really good because my record was 4 days. I understood my mistake: the days before the 22th day I was permissive toward Instagram and Tiktok and I couldn't resist. I've installed an app to block them so now I can't install or go on the Instagram website. I'm hopeful toward the future
@@fedbat2199 Good luck on ur journey dude. I'm trying to quit too but its very hard, especially when youtube recommends videos that arouse me. I feel like CZcams intentionally does it.
@@7Frosty7 it’s all by design bro
Going clean starting from my 20th birthday! Let's all be a better person together!
How is it going
Ayo it's been a month! How are you doing so far?
lesgooooo
When I just turned 20 I was on nofap for 2,5years...
SAME AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙌🙏✝️
I have relapsed yesterday after 120 days. What I have learned? I can do it. I have never gone that long and would have relapsed everyday once or twice if I didn’t decide to stop 4 months ago. Let’s keep going.💪🏻
Have you experienced night fall during this period?
Great Job! You've got this!
Did you use the mdf app, also does the number go over 90 like 91?
You wanna relapse into a nice pretty girl even if it's a hooker so you can feel it more.
Did you jump back on?
I'm on day 97 and edged 3-4 times during this period but without the visual stimulation, been sober from explicit videos for a year. I feel like nowadays instagram is pushing adult content more and more. This leaves me questioning have i actually abstained from porn haha
Its fine. You didnt came.
Should we restart NoFap again when do edge? Im on 45 day and do this shit for one time
@@m.iqbalimanullah4941 Its your choice. If you think you should reset then reset.
@@m.iqbalimanullah4941 as long as your seed is in, youre good to go, only issue would probably be dopamine fluctuation!
@@m.iqbalimanullah4941 wow Akhi 🙏 Ma sha Allah
I edged for six months before I committed to NoFap as a lifestyle ( didn't ejaculate during that 6 months either). At my lowest point, I was edging up to 18 hours a day when I wasn't working and eventually would have started calling out sick just so I could edge. That thought had crossed my mind a few times too. I quit cold turkey and the withdrawals were hell, but they went away and now I'm in my 4th year of NoFap. I get a dopamine rush from so many things now that I always ignored before. I'm accomplishing so many things in my life now too. I enjoy feeling my sexual energy course through my body now and I control it, versus it controlling me. I transmute that energy into all aspects of my life. NoFap is real and every man should embrace it for their own good.
Thank you for making such an awesome video! Keep spreading the message bro!
Are you sure?
@@Marshall_D_preach Yes
@Jack Not 18 hours in a row, but I was edging with Albolene as a lube so that made it possible to edge that much. Now I'm free from that hell.
@Veljko Velimirovic The first month is the worst time and most go through withdrawals during this time. I certainly did. It was hell, but once I got through it, it was like a weight was lifted off of me.
man what's your tips to get passed edging? I think I just need to be around people more or get out of the house and do something. it's like the temptation is too great whenever I'm by myself at home because I just get aroused for no reason at all and then one thing leads to another.
Edging in like an alcoholic trying to go sober by spending most days (especially the first days) at a bar.
I'd expect a comment like this to have so many likes💀💀💀
This video came just in time to save me, I was doing this stuff for 2 days ago and I realized that I was thinking so much of reaching the climax all the day comparing to the week when I started the count. Thx for the great content.
I'm shocked with the number of your subscribers you deserve a lot more than that , your videos are so useful and I like listening to you so much .
I'm on day 50 of NoFap and on day 40 I added NoEdge to my rules. It had been more like 30 minute sessions (not hours) and never involved p***, but it was still a problem. Let's do this right people.
I’m on day 4 of nofap and was edging- does this mean the progress I’ve made the past 4 days is gone? Like did those 40 days have a positive impact even with edging?
@@grassdungeon8433 Edging is Not Considered as Relapse bro
@@KAN443 but it causes problem
Im in day 20,the single thing that hold me from fapping its making myself activities
Great video! Calming background setting and the quality is outstanding. Thank you for speaking about this topic.
I can't say how much I thank you, please keep continuing. You literally deserve more attention and subscribers sir !!
Bro I need help with np fap pls I‘m mentaly ill
I have found you on TIK TOK and you are so great speaker! You seriously motivate me ! Word needs more people like you!
I've never really edged. But this video really helped with my addiction in general. It gave reasons why you shouldn't, not just edge, but view the dirty video in the first place. Thank you for the help
Thanks, Rob! This video is indeed very informative. It's just so sad to know that there are lots people out there who does these kind of things not knowing that it contradicts the basics of nofap and just worsens the current situation they are in. I am on 5th day of nofap and I never knew edging was a thing nor have done it.
i recently again started edging, tho i am on my 131 day i somewhat feel like the same person that i was before nofap. i just am not enjoying conversations, working on my craft and just finding more unhealthy ways of stimulation. now it totally makes sense. thankyou so much. its time for me to get back on track
Everything explained made so much sense and helped with clarity and understanding, appreciate you taking the time to produce such content, keep at it 💯💯💪🏿
Amen
Man thank you so much, it's so refreshing to see a No Fap video that is actually dense in information and not just dumb strategies and motivational speeches
Thank you very much Rob! really wanted this topic.. Many blessings!
Thanks for your CZcams channel! I found a new purpose and changing my lifestyle! I'm feeling alive
Great video edging does always lead to relapse and it shows your brain you truly never want to let go of porn💪 stay strong guys you can conquer this horrible addiction!
Be Blessed 🙏 This is an important topic, Keep talking. God is with you. ☮
This is the most on point explanation of the topic I ever heard in my whole life .
Already at 5k subs? Man you are incredible. Keep up the good work.
Yes I've been growing fast lately. Thanks everyone for the support!
@Callis Lezius that's the app where I came from too!
Really needed to hear this man. Thank you.
Thanks for this video, mate
I have become a professional edger as my addiction became more agressive with my attempts on nofap.
It feels worst than a relapse once you get to a point of watching over 4 hours a day. I’m in such low energy and everything seems stressful and lifeless.
The origin to some urges is that you have become so used to waste the life force that comes from you and keeping yourself within this low energy. When that energy stars to build up, your first reaction is to reduce it.
Embrace your life force. Let it reshape your reality. Stay strong guys.
Thanks bruv, day 1🙏🏼
I found that too much edging caused me to end up with burning during urination, and I had an uncomfortable pressure in my stomach and ribs for several days. I no longer do it.
Love ur videos, you explaining things well, keep up the good work
Thank ,you made the most sense from most other talk shows
Im making that first step today thanks so much for the encouragement! I got plans for my future that are so massive I don't have time for this shit anymore.
Yo man... you are like reverse of Johnny sins !!
Why reverse? I also think Kissa is fiercely attractive, and I sometimes dress up as a doctor.
@@robmulder you do your own plumbing?
If Johnny Sins is the Satan guess who this man is
Thank you for this explanation. The fact that you use scientific terminology and explanations for your point makes it incredibly convincing, powerful and inspirational. I hope one day I can use this argument to convince others to implement nofap into their lives because right now most people just think I'm a weirdo 😂
Using those types of terns doesn't make it fact.
Hey , either way you're gonna be a weirdo.
Thank you brother with all my heart. I think you saved my life
I REALLY NEEDED THIS VIDEO
Thanks bro. You basically saved me. I was on a rot where i relapsed every single day without being able to even make it to day 2. Now i know why
This was incredibly informative. Great work
Edging (often without orgasm) was my favorite form of masturbation long before I learned about and wanted to try not fapping. It made my early efforts at ending masturbation that much harder. I realized one day that any man who was strong enough to stop himself in mid fap, zip it up, and walk away from an orgasm that was about to happen should be strong enough to say "no" to edging in the first place. Indeed, it worked. I was able to do long streaks without edging or fapping. Eventually, I realized how deeply I missed total celibacy when I wasn't on it, so I eagerly embraced lasting semen retention 52½ month ago and have never looked back.
So you practice 24/7 betterment you could say?
@@Liammulli I suppose so. I practice lasting semen retention.
Excellent video mate, thank you.
I literally was about to fall of the edge on day 28, this safed me, thank you so much
Did u edged for 28 days straight?
Today is my first day of No Edging. I am on 30 days of retention and I have been edging for a whole week. I want to rewire my brain so I'm letting the P and M go for good. I just have to find natural ways to get dopamine . Thank you for keeping it real and not letting us off the hook. You really enlightened me as to why it's so harmful and even counterproductive to the reason we discipline ourselves in the first place. Much love and light to you brother. 🙏🏾🙏🏼❤️
keep it up!
Also update?
That oxytocin point was absolutely new to me.. thank you sir .. we men respect you.
I couldn't sleep the whole night today.The logical part of my brain would say go to sleep and wake up early and then go to football ground.
The illogical part would say watch something pleasurable.I foolishly chose the later and kept checking on pretty girl's and their common friends in facebook.Edged myself on their revealing photos.For hours.
Then I was really struggling to decide wheather to watch some porn or not.
To be honest my mind was so fucked up that before actually looking at porn I came here to watch videos on edging.
With all honesty I was seeking validation for it from a youtuber.
I am glad your video slapped that fantasy out of my mind.I didn't watch porn which if I did a relapse would be guaranteed.
Thank you sir.God lead me to your video at the exact time when I was losing.
Only punishment I got is a sleepless night which is fair.I would be depressed right now if I relapsed.
This video changed my life ❤
Finally I understand how it works thank u so much
Thank you for this video! I was on a 9 day streak, my last streak was 12 days, then I edged just now (10 minutes not for hours then shut it off). I did feel off for about an hour but I am motivated to stay off it. I will 100% reply to this post if and as soon as I relapse (I’m not going to, nor will I edge again thanks to your video).
What day are you now?
Thank you for making this video, it was helpful
Man i think I'm gonna be owning you my life . I feel like I'm gonna be thanking you so much after a few months
going to
as in going to buy a dictionary.
Every word resonates like a bomb. Never heard anyone explaining the damage edging and perverse porn fetishes could bring on so clearly.
THANKS SIR .. this helped a lot 🙂🖤
Man U just saved my life much appreciation
I love you! Big bro ❤️
Tbh i really don't have one and my father isn't here to tell me about these things! I guess you're playing almost both ROLES FOR ME!
I've been doing this for quite a long time! I've REGRETS! BUT PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON HOW TO RECOVER FROM EDGING!
Edging Really Sucks!! It actually gives pain in the testicles with weird uncomfortable testicular sensation and “Blue balls” is the slang term for epididymal hypertension. It refers to aching or painful testicles. Thanks, Rob for providing informative content much appreciated. Our positive comments on your videos should work as your dopamine to keep you motivated :)
Bro you look like you're 10 tf you doing
I DISAGREE , HAVE NEVER HAD THAT.
Thank you so very much for this vid
Hello, I found this video by chance as a woman who enjoys edging, and to all the commenters I just want to say, wow I am so sorry you are going through this. It is not a struggle I am familiar with, but I do relate. I struggled with an eating disorder and that also included messing up my dopamine system (with sugar) and trying to restrict myself and then ending up bingeing. I remember feeling like it was in some ways a harder addiction to beat because I obviously could not give up eating entirely. I had to come into contact with my triggers every day. This seems similar for that reason. A healthy sex life is part of being a healthy adult. I hope you all realize that this and every addiction is a symptom of a deeper subconscious core wound. You don't have to beat the addiction. You have to heal the wound, and the addiction will disappear on its own. This has been my experience with food, love, internet, among other addictions. "Authentic Self Growth" has a good video on p0rn addiction as well. Anyway, I hope it might be helpful to know that I empathize with you and do not think you are bad people for having this problem. I believe you can overcome this and enjoy a healthy sex life and healthy life!
????????? What
To be honest edging ,masterbating ,watching porn is all something I’ve struggled with my whole life just like he said in the vid my energy to do anything was just laying in bed watching videos or playing the game because nothing was ever fun or enjoyable it was only when I turned 18 and found out who Jesus Christ was that I’ve been able to stop all of these things including smoking and I’ve been living a more sober n healthy life ever since now have I relapsed yes but only for a night then I’d realize my sin and pray and repent. The last time God helped me truly understand what repentance is it’s an everyday thing not Just a word or for a day it’s whenever I feel like going back remembering the repentance I’ve given to God ! I love you ! Try asking God for answers on this ! “Everyone who ask will receive” Matt 7:8
@@SCenDD I am glad you are in a better place now :) If you ever relapse again or do anything that doesn't feel good to you, remember to have compassion for yourself. You can repent and regret it, but you dont need to be ashamed or hate yourself. We are all human and make mistakes. It's okay. You are beautiful and a good person, even when you make mistakes.
@@SCenDD sounds like a step in the right direction. Remember you are not a bad person, there are real reasons you do these things (like childhood neglect or sadness or trouble in life). Also, porn and masturbating are damaging to you, but you are not bad for doing it. Cheers!
Thanks this helped me so much
Man, this was really an eye opening video. Im sure you will be a big part in helping me on my nofap Journey
Thanks, great information
Edging sounds crazy did a couple of times but hopefully not going to be doing in the future thanks for this video God bless 🙃
This video helps a lot with the bonding part. Genius.
I went nofap for 21 days. Then went edging because I was stressed and wanted to feel better. Edging got relapse since my brain takes control of my pleasure & mind. But I want to go back where I hitted my monthly goal, high energy, and productive with my day. Want to reach that natural high & dopamine even though fapping gives more instant satisfaction. Just want to live a life without letting my brain control but take back control of my life.
Thank you, you say truth.. 💯
i started edging for hours a day when i was in 7th grade. needless to say it ruined me
Same i did it this whole month, i never felt this insecure in my life.
@@kokosnuss2248 what happened?
@@nikhilraj4978 I felt empty and had no desire+ erectile dysfunction for 6 months and I only did it for 1 month
@@kokosnuss2248 now its okay ? I am also having this issues but i have problem with my urination also as some semen comes during urination .plz reply
@@nikhilraj4978 tbh I still trouble with this... it still can't get up properly and everything feels weak and slow down there it haven't got much better after 8 months.
Due to edging and many other bad habits my life has changed so much. I have gotten brain fog, decreased attention span and my grades have dropped, as well as performing poorly in school or just life in general, I feel like I've lost myself and I'm trying to find him again. Nothing feels good anymore, I force myself to feel good but it just doesn't last or feel the same. I've become more anxious and stress overtime and became more scared of things. I feel weak and my emotions have numbed over time as well as having little rageful and sad outbursts, I just feel lost.
Good explanation!
I've edged for a really long time. Damn. Until I watch this video and understand what edging is. Horrible, totally horrible, maybe that's why my life just going straight down. I was a good student, a brilliant football player, a dream chaser, and gain a lot of respect but now everything left is self-deprecating. I was too much time on dirty videos. I did think these categories were normal, that maybe it better than fapping but no. Now I have no idea if I'll be able to solve it.
You’re not alone brother love and positive blessings your way my friend
Yo thanks a lot man I needed it badly. The part about the 'bonding' with p*rn hit me really hard, made me to understand that I'm practicly cheating on my girlfriend when watching this sht
For me, personally, the main reason to defeat the habbit is my religion - Catholicism. I want purity, I want to follow the teaching of Jesus, Saints and the Church and I do not want to go to the confession every week with a feeling of disappointment.
And so, edging has been a problem for me ever since i started abstaining from masturbation. It is the worst thing and - mark my words - every time I did edging, I ended up relapsing soon.
Thank you for this video, brother.
Alright thank u so much. I think am gonna start trying also
Good timing for this video
What are the effects if you only edge for a short period? Say 10-20 mins once a week.
And what if you are doing it to imagination/sexual memories as opposed to porn??
The habit is short-term vs long-term gratification
The issue becomes dopamine.
A lot makes sudden drastic changes on multiple levels.
And the lack of dopamine from food, candy, drugs, masturbation, gaming, tv etc can for many lead to a depressed stage which can lead to relapse, before the long-term benifits has materialized.
Thank you Sir
Absolute GOLD
Thx so much brother.
Came here for lawn edging and was very confused until he explained what he was talking about........ 😂😂😂
edging just feeds the addiction and makes you want it even more
On Day 10! I feel more energetic
Thank you helping me out to start my journey with no FAP
The fact Edging and Binge Relapse are things just prove how much of an addiction p**n is
Generally I have found in the past that when I'm in an edging session (which involves looking at various pics at a time) and don't get it over with there and then so to speak lol, I don't bond to any of it as much as the other way around. I am not trying to convey this as an excuse to justify the merits of edging or anything, but when you release when looking at a particular pornographic image it actually leaves a residual image in your brain much more indelibly.
I relapsed after five days but I know I can do this . I made it to five days 🙌 now its time to go harder 💪.
If you are aware of yourself, you will note your anxiety, depression and brain fog are the worst the day after you edge. It's very bad for about 3 days, and then it starts declining (unkess you watch p. again). It's analogue to a alcohol hangover.
I’m on day 37 with semen retention and nofap and I have edged twice already the first incident was on day 32 while watching explicit videos. I just can’t resist the urges and somehow I missed the feeling of “feeling” it so I thought of giving in to the urges, touching myself and “feeling” the pleasure without blowing it and thinking it’s ok it’s still valid as long as I don’t release it. On the two occasions I didn’t do it for a long period of time, prolly under 10-15 minutes and I stopped since I’m worried I might not be able to stop it if I keep on going on with edging. And so, I’m curious about edging while doing semen retention and nofap and I came across this video. Thanks for the explanation and I’ll try my best to avoid doing edging and avoid the porn altogether. For the first month I have managed to completely dispel the thoughts of opening a porn site and watching it and then day 32 came lol
that's the problem with edging is it causes a chaser effect where you become locked into an edging routine but it leads to release, that usually leads to a full relapse, and the cycle starts over. the edging is bad for your energy and eliminating the excuses to edge will advance your mental state. i dont say this from a seat of arrogance, i say it from failing no fap for 20 years
@@walmartian I haven’t released anything to this day. Almost two months running this 18th. And oh wow 20 years. What do you mean 20 years streak?!
@@robertlouisebaker-hyde1267 no not a 20 year streak, my longest was about 340ish days. i'm on day 50ish now.. i started no fap 20 years ago but didnt understand it well enough, it just felt the right thing to do, but i failed at it until the last couple years when i found info on it.. the trigger of relapse after 340 days was physical pain from a fracture i viewed porn as a distraction from the pain which flooded me with wet dreams so i considered it a relapse as it felt like one.
Thx for this sir... I will try too stop edging no matter what.
your music saved me
Lovely insights
I love that in the thumbnail he kinda gives the vibe like he's forbidden you to edge 😂
You can't tell me what to do! I am edging to this right now.
thank you for this video.. a lot
I love everyone on this comment section your all amazing human beings and it takes alot to even get here and watch these videos. I wish the best to everyone by God's will we will beat this ! ❤️❤️🤲🤲
Oxytocin is a very interesting thing I learned. Interesting.
Wow man you are 100% correct
And can't even reach my goals, is it because of the addiction
Damn man. I just edged after 50 days clean. Hardest thing of my life. Back at it again. I want and look forward to being free of my shackles
Same 12 days and edging ruined it, it can only serve as a lessom for next time
Keeping yourself on the "edge" for prolonged periods of time will give you nervous system problems. I learned this the hard way.
What problems(symptoms) did you experience? I am curious
@@robmulder Digestive problems (IBS symptoms but most of them have gone away except for flatulence, acidity). Breathing problems. My breathing "stalls" at times and I have to remind myself to take deep breaths. Feeling "knots" in my throat or chest.
@@hekutoru_2131 BRO , i have the exact same symptoms
@@ChloroFluoroHexane Lmk if it gets better. I'm on day 6 bro
@@hekutoru_2131 brother I am going through this right now and it's pretty intense. Does it eventually get better ? How can I decrease those negative effects ? Please help man I appreciate it highly
I needed this
Thankyou for your videos. Thank God very possitive and inspirational comforting helpful meaningful very encouraging. Its a nice new year and towards the end of last year and the begining of a nice new year by Gids grave and help l am finally pressing onto more and more total deliverance freedom and ivercoming victory over all this rotten horrible garbadge. Holding onto the truths and promises if Gids word and thank God foren like him and Dr Trish and Pure Life Ministries and others giving us real good Godly wholesome possitive advice. Gid bless you keep up the good work. God bless.
Bro, here I'm a married and I came across this semen retention back in the month of March when I started practicing. So as per the count I'm in my 4th month of this journey . But however a month ago I had lovemaking moment with my partner where I edged and successfully tried to not release and that was the last time I edged since then but no release at all but I felt a drip in energy post taht for a day may be. So my question is that all my efforts to hold on to this path became zero that day and shall I recount it from zero since then or I'm still on track.
Whenever I feel like edge I watch no fap on CZcams. .. may God please forgive me and help me in my struggle to breakaway from this horrible addiction
How you handling
Day 9 and keep going 👊💪