Tim Hardaway Jr on his rocky relationship with his dad growing up due to basketball| Run Your Race
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Timmy Sr was on some Jake Shuttlesworth type time 😂😂
Crazy, I played against him in high school and Tim use to sit court side and watch the game. Reject autographs because he was there to support his son. You Really never know what it’s like in other people’s home.
this stupid kids are so ungrateful, it's disgusting to watch = that's why he's not going to ever be on his dad's level, in any way, shape or form
I also think it comes down to a kids perspective versus an adults perspective. Kids don't understand a lot of the whys until they are older. Then things start taking on a different meaning. The parent starts to have realizations also. Dynamics
@@andreearl3258 does he look like a “kid” to you?
@@DaFactsNoNonsense1713 why do yall ask dumb ass questions like that?... Clearly he hasn't been an adult all his life and no one is... and when he was a kid is when they didn't see eye to eye and that's what he is speaking on. He isn't referring to when he became an nba player, he is talking about during his process... Are you paying attention and actually comprehending? Or are you just shortsighted? And did you even pay attention to the full context of what i said? I doubt it but figured i would ask, to be fair
@DaFactsNoNonsense1713 to his dad he is, we act like nba players ain't still in they 20's
My dad was a 2 time all american in football growing up he forced us to play sports to practice and growing up I was good in every sport but I stopped playing in college I just didn't love it and it's like I failed him as his son. I wish I would played but I was so immature in my 19s and 20sm I'm 33 now and everything happens for a reason.
I hear I know how college footballs sucks the life out of you and quit and went and played arena football 5 after junior year of not playing let it go bra
He lived vicariously through you
@@haitianmaniac74that was convenient of you to say..
Your dad probably knew that if you played sports you wouldn't have time to get in much trouble. And sports teach you mental toughness.
Your dad was right to be on your azz.
My father was a 3x professional boxing champion from the 80s to early 00s. He trained me to box from 5-7 years old but I moved in with my mother in another state and never saw him again. I didn’t like any sports because of my asthma and I hated violence until I grew out of my asthma at 12. I loved boxing and football but soon had to pick one sport only due to concussions. I chose football in HS but lost my motivation after my mother passed and the politics of football. I didn’t see my father again until I was 26 after I left the service. My dad only talks about boxing and never strays away. I know he’s resents me not boxing but he wasn’t apart of my life for numerous reasons. I know I made the right decision for me because I saw the reality of his health manifest to him having too many concussions and injuries. I don’t want to be 35+ with severe memory problems.
Thank you for service. I wish you and your Pops well and may your Mom rest in peace. Blessings!!
Can't blame u on that ..what division did your Father fight in or was he a champ in multiple divisions
@user-rk4ey7wh9q You're not gonna get that or a name lol people believe anything on CZcams.
Your my biggest fear, a weak child
u was a fire boxer...i remember when i knocked you out at the junior nationals i was thinking u was nice.
We use to play basketball down in kendall mcarthur school on the weekends and Tim Sr and other college players, nba and overseas guys would come because those pickup games was high volume competition..Tim Sr ask some guys to talk to Tim jr( before he went on to play at palmetto high) and tell him about the game, respect of teammates and humbleness...We did that and Tim jr went on to be great in highschool and college... relationship with his dad got better and life was better for the Hardaway family...
True story.. I grew up in South florida too, but my dad is from south side of chicago. Tim Hardaway, Sr, as a child used to mow my great granddad's lawn in Chicago
@@1Kelooonobody cares about your opinion
@@1Kelooohatin azz
@@jalensewell7715Nah he’s right. Why would we care if the nigga mowed a lawn?
@@1Kelooonah you a mut for that comment
@@1Kelooowhy being so negative ?
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All you had to do was listen to your pops, thats it. You dont fight or curse your coach , and the coach dont care for you more than your pops. Same shit I tell my sons
A boy still has to become his own man and learn from his own mistakes. Coaches too often make it about their emotions.
@@MrSilus2000that's for young adulthood (20s). Teenaged kid is still a kid and still has a ton to learn. They can figure out the rest once out of the house.
@@ohdaUtube The quickest way to shut down the learning side of a childs brain is to yell. Adults are to remain poised with their emotions in check not spilling out in frustration or impatience. The coaching game needs evolving it's been the same since it's buck breaking origins.
@@ohdaUtubeplease rethink things, I hope your kids are young and you haven’t had the chance to actually raise them like that throughout their teenage years. Your pain which made you the way you now are does not need to be transmitted to your children as well. It’s not your fault that you were raised that way. Just give em love brother
@@MrSilus2000 pfft. Tell several entire country's populations that. There is no such thing as "leave no child behind" in those countries... It works entirely too well
It is always difficult for fathers to coach their kids. Because they want what's best for their kids. I noticed that with my son. He listens to other people when they give him instructions on how to improve his game, he is very attentive. But when i speak. I can see he tunes me out. Its ok for his coach to yell at him but he frowns when i do the same. It has created some very tense moments in our lives.
Does his mother support you? Respectfully, typically young men tune out dads due to their mothers. I respect what you do though King 👑.
@@flood76 I'm a single dad. Mom not involved
@@charlesllywelyngarcia8826 Salute King 👑. I'm a single dad as well. Your son will soon realize your advice. Peace.
I concur. It because some kids don't want to face accountability. Also the stubbornness of a child wants to say "I became good because of me not my dad" when reality whoever coaches or trains you would be the same difference. It's really pride hindering your ears from listening to me.
Sorry to hear bro bro, have you and him had a 1 on 1 abt this?
What's up Theo, it's good to see you doing big things since moving on from GSO, to Carolina and now NBA.
This was dope on so many levels
Very good interview.
My opinion is also a jaded one...I came from an era where we had respect, manners, humility, and gave undivided attention to anyone dealing with you. We should always treat anyone in our lives with such expressions...good or bad...hard or easy....is that the reality, especially in fragile relationships like a parent/child or coach/player, or teacher/student..hell no. But it should be! The youth doesn't understand much past their own nose, and that's ok, and it's the reason they should be quick to listen and slow to speak...and a more experienced person should over stand this fact about the young person and strive to teach firmly and well, without abusing the relationship. (Easier said than done, yet it is achieved through patience and mercy)
Well said! ❤
Subbed. I mess with yall!
Your contract is bigger than your dads biggest contract but if he played today he would be getting 200 million
Facts some might say thr reason jr could have that money is bc of sr
@@en.4392 Not might. It is. Literally. Hr created Jr
Great interview there is a thin line between being a coach/Father. I'm sure that was tough for both
Theo you got something good here champ!
Theo got the ball rolling 5:01
lol we gonna sit here and act like they not twins
Lol yo 😂
Facts i know im not tripping 😂
nah fr 😂😂😂
Where can we cop the hat?
This kinda sounds like the movie He Got Game! Glad to see them good tho ❤️
Imagine working your way out of the Southside of Chicago to have a privileged kid walking through your house/mansion acting like he doesn't have to talk to you.
If it wasn't justified THS wouldn't have apologized. Putting your kid in a better situation than you had isn't a green light to be abusive. And all abuse isn't just physical
@@future62 EVERYTHING is abuse to these coddled kids today. You can't tell a kid "no" without them needing to see a therapist later. It's ridiculous.
@@AirunDevon I tell my kids no all the time. It's fine. You not knowing what abuse is is your problem, not a societal failure
I don’t care how you grow up, fathers and sons are going to clash as the son gets older. That’s just life. What teenager doesn’t act like they know everything? At a certain point, no matter what you’re saying it can be difficult for your kids to receive from you. Ultimately Tim Sr, sat back and realized his way of relating to his son was not working and changed his approach. That’s good parenting. Had he not done that, his son is not where he is today.
kids don't ask us to bring them into the world and our struggle out of the hood is our story, not theirs. the dad was already a millionaire by the time junior came along, so that's his context.
children are by nature self centered and don't care nothing about your outside accomplishments if they feel unseen or unheard. resources don't ensure good parenthood. the days of "provider only" fathers are over as children are showing us they have more complex needs that demand a more emotionally intelligent approach from us as men.
a lot of men in the hood didn't have fathers growing up and must learn how to properly father and lead families. many others had terrible fathers and still have to learn. i'm glad these two are finding their way.
dope. I stopped coaching my son at 10u
Im tired of these athletes crying and whining about how they dad was they coach and the relationship was hard because the dad was pushing them to be something....just imagine not having a dad at all.and see.hiw hard things really are
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Multiple things can be true. Those that didn’t have are grateful just at the chance to have a father pushing us to be great. But when you already have that you want a dad first/coach second. Essentially, teach your child based on their struggles not yours, since they will not be the same because of the opportunities you have created for them.
@@superbiaant nope = no one would be talking about this guy or know who he was if Tim Hardaway wasn't a "big-time" name in the NBA = these kids need to start showing more respect + get themselves a "clue" because this is embarrassing for only them (not for their parents), for no logical/rational reasons, highlighting an extreme lack of self-awareness
@@superbiaantLack of self awareness meaning, complaining? 😂Man, this argument could easily be turned on its head just off of this. If we're being "logical", the act of complaining is universal. If you stepped on shit, you're not suddenly shitting on people who have no shoes. All this comparative suffering for what, observe and learn for yourself. Grew up without a dad and poor as fuck but I wasn't born in a war torn country so I can't complain, right? 😂 Crabs in a barrel indeed
This is Silver Spoon problems. We can't relate.
I would love to hear his father's side of the story.
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Why? His father apologized, they both agree his father was wrong.
When they say his father was from the Southside of Chicago, well his Pop absolutely embodied that myth or culture or whatever it is that comes with the saying and then when you add the fact that he had little man disease/Napoleon syndrome on top of that, you can totally understand why his son wasn’t talking to him. It wasn’t that he didn’t want to talk to his Pop. It was because his Pops was impossible to talk to. You literally couldn’t tell him sh*t. I’m from the Southside as well and it was very well known that his Pops was very unapproachable. Not only were you not getting an autograph but you were gonna get a few choice words as well. And it didn’t matter if you were in a kindergarten class or a church he wasn’t holding back anything.
@chiefgangmusic so basically a short version of Jordan lol
@@jgood4010 naw my guy. I’ve never heard of Jordan to be unapproachable. Maybe unapproachable to celebs and other athletes. I’ve definitely heard that a bunch of times but I never heard of him doing that to normals which is the total opposite of THJ’s pop. He was just a dic to normals but super cool with other hoopers. I’m not saying this was standard for both. It’s just what I gathered from my intel.
Spoiled kids never appreciate the nepotism their parents work hard to give them while still living off his father's reputation.
It's love steel sharpens steel.
Pain= growth
It's crazy Tim Jr. became the best shooter in the family
Gotta speak to your children at their level of understanding. What motivates you can deplete their entire existence. Jr made it even if he isnt his father. How many of us with great fathers actually surpass them mfs? 😂
Tim Sr was tearing that behind up. What had the bigger effect-several the beatings or the single apology?
bro never went hungry... calm down JR!
If he had listened to his dad, he would have learned how to pass the ball
And the devastating UTEP 2 Step
Twinzies. Lol
It’s wonderful that rich Black families exist. 👍🏽
Growing up in the chi i would never talk about my family problems.
Good share.
Tim Jr. had a bald head at the age 10 😂
Sounds like a brat to me😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah, a rich spoil brat
When you're coaching your kid you can't be "dad" because then you're training the to get away with not much accountability. You training or coach your kids like you would any other kid. Sometimes even more with a fine combination. You can be their dad all day and night but not when yall in that gym or trying to build in conversation to help your child. Now if you think it's hurting your relationship then simply stop coaching or training your kid and let somebody else do it and if they see good results then that's perfect but if they don't they'll for sure see what you've been teaching and lock in or be stubborn and keep things the way they are. We're so sensitive to kids that we keep sheltering them from discipline and/or being accountable.
Dam shame nowadays how ppl love to let you know that they lack empathy, imagination, human decency, or simple basic ability to be able to pay attention. Lol these ppl so hilarious they’ll tell what and how to you should feel before you even start feeling it. Then get pissed if you tell ‘em they wrong. They know everything about every situation about everyone, except themselves. Dam I wish they’d shoot a playa the winning teams from this week games since they know so much! HeII I’ll break bread and everything. Probably will even be better use then to be just talkin sh*t for no reason. Jus being all da way solid witcha.
HE’s BLACK IN AMERICA💯DAD KNEW HE HAD A WAY💯KIDS DONT SEE THE VISION UNTIL THEIR GROWN💯HE A DAMN JR ITS A LEGACY AT STAKE! FAMILY VALUES
Resenting your son for the life you gave them is insane. I'm glad they sorted things out.
It isnt resentment. It is a rigid mind. Fathers often don't parent in real time but in past preconceived notion. We sometimes think what worked for me is what will work for my son and this is not absolute at all. We then struggle when they do not respond to those teachings or coaching.
He didn't say he resented him. It's learning how to adapt to the era your kids are raised in. It's like any parent today adapting to this generation Z. The entire world has had to adapt to how different they are.
@@alifrombenhill3374dude, completely wrong generation.
All parents adapt, they are literally first time parents in a culture and society that has been largely molded by those who came before them.
Gen alpha isnt making the world adapt, they are just new born humans who are growing up in an environment that was shaped everyone before them and they are just the youngest to mold to it. Them + new innovations will them mold the environment some way for the next two generations to largely live in.
You cant blame the youngest generation for something they had no control over. Also every single time a comment is made avout some generation failing or being inept at something, thr view is wrong, and laughably so.
@@asgasg23 I didn't blame either generation. I said the older generation has to adapt to each generation and that the gap between all generations and gen z is drastically different. My pov wasn't wrong. You read it incorrectly
That's projection....Tim Hardaway Sr is legend and his father is a legend they're from the CHI where playing basketball in the wrong place or winning/losing the could get you killed. His son as he stated grew up around white kids, country clubs and private schools. It's a different life. I'd say more but it becomes political.
Bryson tiller
Austin Rivers has similar issues with Doc. Hard being a kid of a high level athlete
I can only imagine what the Jordan boys went through.
My father wasn’t there
Cry me a river. He's nowhere near as strong minded as his father. Jr is just here. But his father had bigger presence. Respectfully
Facts all the way, for sure.
@@sirhoopalot1125 🎯
Awh you didn’t have a father did ya😭oh hatin ass boy
Some family business is not everybody's business. IJS
i hate to say it but his pops only human hopefully they have a better relationship nowadays
I could tell it was rocky
If he grew up in chicago he would not be so soft.he would be a better basketball player.you protected now you soft😂
*Wait wait wait? So Tim Hardaway hasn't retired from the NBA yet???*
I thought I heard that like huh
@samakiwalker2324 OK, so I wasn't the only one that heard that
@@Gball1405😂
he was basically saying he was a first ballot hof as soon as he retired
🤦🏿♂️😏 SMGDH!!
Can you sit back and watch your kids not reach their potential
They gotta want it for themselves, my bro. And not all kids respond to force.
I understand what you mean but that’s not necessarily true. But I can admit there are levels
I had a teammate whose dad played overseas. He ended up burning out his son over coaching him. He had super potential but got burnt out his dad was so over the top all the time.
Tim's was a competitive conservative nut bout that Sunday church life. So I can imagine it wasn't ideal tim publicly condemned gay ppl as well on tv. His son a good shooter tho could be great but overshadowed by doncic and Kyrie
He dont play nothing like his dad!!! Im surprised he made it to the nba!!!
Imagine privileged kids that end up making it to the league being stressed. Sheesh
Exactly I think they over use that stress word
@@deesee2051everyone has stress dude just at different magnitudes
Tf does privelged have to do with stress ?
lmao buddy want to be rich so bad he hating
Money aside, TH Jr is just like any normal person. Family trauma can really mess with you mentally and its basically like a scar in a relationship, even if it changed for the better.
If you have a mansion and decide to have a kid, but don’t know how to raise kids, hire a full-time babysitter.
Tim voice don't match his face!!
Why does this have to be public news..name the white athlete that consistently are being asked to discuss there relationship they have with there father like in public other than the Manny Son’’s..but our people think we owe white American understanding how a kids/teenager relationship was with his Father..Whatever it was it’s called parenting..I have told this to my Sons because someone ask you a question doesn’t mean you have to answer.. disgusting..
They look nothing alike ..who is Hardaway Jrs real dad?
He looks like his mom but if she did cheat, she has a type 😂😂
Deep down inside, he thinks his father is a piece of shit. I can understand.
Until he has a son who he has to push to his potential will he realize it ain't easy especially with his mom in the way thinking he is too hard.