5 SURPRISING Things God Often Uses to Reveal THE ONE He Wants You to Marry

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  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

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    • @pratiklondhe3699
      @pratiklondhe3699 Před 3 lety

      I'm in a relationship for more than 4 and half years..
      Things were really good.. we together have faced lots of ups and downs still we both sticked to our relation.. many times I've felt God has approved our relation..
      As I've seen 90% of the signs that are mentioned in this video
      But since this covid pendamic we've been in a long distance relationship.. and things changed.. the girl I loved so much and so does she.. suddenly things got worse.. her behavior changed.. and one day she confessed that she has been cheating on me since 6 months.. and doesn't want to continue further.. I was totally broke.. never imagined that she would do so..
      But I believed in God.. that whatever I've been through there is God's will behind it.. and I tried my best to pick myself up..
      But then she is asking for a 2nd chance n realized her mistake..
      And yes I've truly loved her and still I do.. and I'm ready to forget everything and accept her.. but I'm confused what is God's decision in this???
      Dose God wants this to happen??
      This bad experience???
      so that our relation may get even more stronger now.. and I'll help her to bring her soul more towards the lord?? Was this a way for something good in our relation??
      Or he doesn't want her in my life..and so I got that experience??
      Plz can anyone suggest me what should I do??

    • @jesusislord3280
      @jesusislord3280 Před 3 lety

      @@pratiklondhe3699 She's not the one for you
      So stop looking for signs that she's the one
      If you are a Christian God would NEVER bring a CHEATER into your life
      No matter his much they claim to be sorry you are being manipulated
      Move on and pray that you meet the one God has for you

  • @gracemorganspeaks
    @gracemorganspeaks Před 4 lety +427

    Good marriage advice. Whoever is reading this and going through hard times, sorrow, loss, addictions and depression. God is lifting you up dont give up

  • @dbedazzling1
    @dbedazzling1 Před 4 lety +201

    1. Your issues will cause you to become closer. There will be issues. God will put you thru afflictions.
    2. Your love will grow deeper and more intimate.
    3. You will form a new life together. You become one.
    4. No more fears of missing out on someone better.
    5. You won't know what this person will be like. They'll be better than your expectations.

  • @scottwhitley5542
    @scottwhitley5542 Před 4 lety +290

    "If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plan", lol. Good point, Mark!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +11

      lol!

    • @doragarcia6125
      @doragarcia6125 Před 4 lety +5

      Scott Whitley Many are the plans in a man’s ❤️, but, it’s God Purpose that prospers!🙌 The Lord has purport! And, who can thwart His Word! His Arms are stretched out! And, who can turn them back!🌊

    • @marthasantana426
      @marthasantana426 Před 3 lety +1

      Really wow lol

  • @sam.abadyah
    @sam.abadyah Před 4 lety +228

    I feel like I’m gonna meet my wife either this year or next year, I really feel it in the spiritual realm. I’ll shout you out when I do a “How We Met” video 😂

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +49

      No matter what, God has a good plan for you!

    • @bobstarzstarz4476
      @bobstarzstarz4476 Před 4 lety +10

      I PRAY YOU FIND HER AS WELL THAT
      GAVE ME HOPE...I IMAGINE LIKE ADAM AND EVE WE GO PRAY IN SEPERATE ROOMS THEN PRAY TOGETHER THAN UNITE .....I LOVE THE LOVE AND HOPE IN THE AIR HAVE A GREAT NIGHT MY FELLOW BROTHER ...pray I find a man and not a incubus and I pray you find a woman and not a succubus goodnight🙂💛

    • @sam.abadyah
      @sam.abadyah Před 4 lety +7

      bobbie starz No coincidence that you said that! The Most High has been placing on my heart to expose the Marine Kingdom, which houses the sexual demons Incubus and Succubus. If you’d like, I can help you out in this area by sending you some articles, books, and videos talking about this! These demons hinder marriages that the Father has for us. I pray you continually seek Yahuah for Him to reveal to you who He has for you in His due time.

    • @bobstarzstarz4476
      @bobstarzstarz4476 Před 4 lety +1

      @@sam.abadyah man do I have if you see a tribal person what does that an plz dont be afraid I come in peace and Lord Jesus Christ may stop my heart from beating if I'm lying it's hard to trust you know but yes I dont want no attachments I must admit all my past mistakes to opening portals I'm tired now

    • @bobstarzstarz4476
      @bobstarzstarz4476 Před 4 lety +1

      @@sam.abadyah this made me emotionally it creepy to think of a spiritual husband or wife I wish I could cut their head off with a sword but am I wrong to think such violence...NO I WANT THEM TO NOT BE A PROBLEM I just know ppl are spiritually still tryna connect or get me it's very sad but realistically a war my family but First Lord is worth it all my addictions is connected any help you have I know Father is my first source but I must socialize as well I pray no spirit residing among this conversation to cause strife or any confusion

  • @zaraim6238
    @zaraim6238 Před 4 lety +94

    Honestly, at the moment I'm losing hope of ever finding "the one," but I'm perfectly fine with it. Jesus is all I need. He is more than enough. All I want is to be with Him. He is my portion forever. ❤

    • @debonaesimpson3742
      @debonaesimpson3742 Před 4 lety +9

      And before you know it. You'll find someone. I understand what you're going through. God Bless 💯

    • @bryanreed7216
      @bryanreed7216 Před 4 lety +9

      I was just about to say. Are you losing faith or are you choosing to be single? The true answer to that is if a true man of God started perusing you would you go for it? To me that's the answer I'd your losing faith or choosing to be single regardless if men of God seek you or not. Don't lose faith on God despite what circumstances may be showing you He is the creator of EVERYTHING. He has your best interests in His hands ✊

    • @Alyssamdotson
      @Alyssamdotson Před 4 lety +13

      That is the best place to be resting content in the Lord. Trust His Word that says no eye has seen, no ear has heard, neither has entered into the heart of man, the things which the Lord has prepared for those who love him. They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings as eagles. They shall run and not grow weary. Walk and not faint. Teach us Lord to wait on You, for Your plans are far greater than any we could ever imagine.

    • @Alyssamdotson
      @Alyssamdotson Před 4 lety +9

      No good thing will He withhold from them who walk uprightly

    • @myvictory3802
      @myvictory3802 Před 4 lety +3

      Amen ❤

  • @divinefem8793
    @divinefem8793 Před 4 lety +83

    This just popped up on my notifications while meditating. My fiancé & I have had some hiccups but this explains it!!!! We are getting married next month! God is ALWAYS on time 🙏🏾

  • @bluishaqua7758
    @bluishaqua7758 Před 4 lety +105

    Nowadays it's hard to find someone whom to be with to be a companion to worship God as a husband.

  • @frankson4069
    @frankson4069 Před 4 lety +62

    6 year of singleness. Pray for me. Send me my bride God

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +13

      God will equip you to go pursue her :)

    • @JF32304
      @JF32304 Před 4 lety +5

      Shoot been 20 years for me.

    • @Melll5
      @Melll5 Před 4 lety

      🙏🏼 7 years for me too. Praying this new guy is the one for me. Hopefully you find her soon 🤞🏼

    • @frankson4069
      @frankson4069 Před 4 lety +1

      @@Melll5 thanks. I will pray for you too

    • @maryjoybuenavides8588
      @maryjoybuenavides8588 Před 3 lety

      Me too, I pray for that for myself

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před 4 lety +96

    Idk it is like God is telling me that he is going to connect me with someone in a romantic way. Because He keep giving me this similar word. I just pray that I recognize who he is in Jesus name. I don't want to choose him in the flesh in Jesus name.

  • @marcograndi5130
    @marcograndi5130 Před 4 lety +17

    I really want to married someday!! I am only 16 years old and still have a while to go until that happens but God has perfect timing and I trust him with his timing❤️❤️✝️

  • @maritimesteak8540
    @maritimesteak8540 Před 4 lety +125

    God's timing Right here amen

  • @Loveiswaitinq
    @Loveiswaitinq Před 4 lety +37

    These points are SO true!! Especially number 4!! With my ex, I always wondered "is this really the best for me, is there anyone better for me out there?". But now, I'm getting married to my future husband in 2 months, and those thoughts never came to me AT ALL, rather "wow, this is beyond my dreams, he is the best for me" and I've never wanted to look for anyone else. It is truly God's peace and clarity in my mind. And you can pray for that too!

    • @devinesabista7461
      @devinesabista7461 Před 4 lety +3

      God bless u sister in your journey for marriage. Just pray to him to keep u together.

    • @Fit_pharmacist
      @Fit_pharmacist Před 4 lety +2

      God bless you and your fiancés Union!

    • @doragarcia6125
      @doragarcia6125 Před 4 lety +1

      Emilyhegh Yes! I’m so happy to hear your good news! I will pray for this in my life, trusting and believing He is a Good Father Who gives good gifts!🙏✅👏👏👏💌

  • @pan-aggie3295
    @pan-aggie3295 Před 4 lety +24

    Amen, you will loose your fear of missing out on something better, one of the clearest signs of being led to the one to me.
    Thank you

  • @rachrad13ify
    @rachrad13ify Před 4 lety +24

    Everything he said is true. I found my love at 27. I knew he was the one 8 months ago but I waited until he brought us back together. Learning to love god first and yourself is so true and worth the waiting.

  • @reynaro2496
    @reynaro2496 Před 4 lety +73

    God reveal the one to me in vision, but it was like about two years ago, is like taking forever 😄 but I have faith because if it is from God it will happen. Thanks

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +2

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    • @kimberlyjredeemed6113
      @kimberlyjredeemed6113 Před 4 lety +6

      I too had a vision as well idk if he is my husband but I know that marriage is my portion 🙏🏾.

    • @txwarriorbride5112
      @txwarriorbride5112 Před 4 lety +5

      I had a dream of being in a marriage ceremony with someone, and then in 2018 a believer told me that the Lord had a husband for me. And soon. I thought it was someone else, but it wasn't! Well, sometimes people just tell you something and it may not be from the LORD. But the other dreams I have had to date have actually happened, so I am hoping that the marriage ceremony one is from the LORD. Only one problem.... could not see the Face of the one I was marrying!!🤣🙏💑🎶

    • @shy_donut8307
      @shy_donut8307 Před 4 lety +11

      I used to be in the same situation for the exact amount of time too but I stopped believing the "vision" I got when "the one" got the girlfriend he's been with for a year (met him while he was still single. Year 1 single, year 2 relationship). At this point I think it's 1000% safe to say he's not the one. After some self reflection I realized I had fallen into idolatry, it was my subconscious all along, and the "signs" were just mere coincidences. Now I look back at that time in my life in embarrassment and shame😣 I wish I never met him. I say all this to say: *be careful* . You won't actually know if the "vision" is real until you're actually dating the person and moving towards marriage. Other than that, it's best to guard your heart and move on *for good* . When we want something so badly it can seem like it was from God when in reality it was our subconscious going haywire. Also dig deep on your mental attachment to the person. I realized that the guy I thought was my future husband was actually a distraction. Two weeks before I met him, my dog died while I was on vacation. My attachment to him was rooted in trauma and looking for an escape from the pain by fantasizing about being with him in the future. I thought that after something tragic happened, God was sending me something good. But I met him once and never saw him again. Satan can talk to us too. We can either reject him or listen to him. I listened and regret thinking that guy was my future husband. The mind does crazy things when grieving and is vulnerable. I'm not saying it's impossible for God to reveal a woman's future husband to her in a vision, but that situation is so rare it's better to put it on the shelf and use logic. Keep your standards high and give your attention to guys that you *actually* can be with in real life as opposed to clinging to the hope of a one in a million dream that may never happen. A tiny part of me still wonders, but I decided it was time to put the final nail in the coffin on that and move on for good so I can have peace. It was extremely hard and painful, but it needed to be done so I could focus on other things in life and allow the right person that I'm truly meant to be with to come into my life. I'm telling you this because I don't want you to go through the pain that I experienced. Please be careful, I'm warning you. Don't fall into that trap because it'll eventually drive you crazy.

    • @shy_donut8307
      @shy_donut8307 Před 4 lety +2

      @God IS Love I don't want to crush your dreams, but he doesn't want to "surprise" us. Start getting into his word and use logic. Although there are stories in the Bible where characters received some pretty interesting visions that came true, I still think it's best to use logic instead of false hope for something that will never happen, unless you really feel that God put something on your heart. The problem with getting visions that a particular person is your spouse is that that individual have just as much free will as you do. If you got a "vision" that so and so is the one, but they go off and marry another woman, then what are you gonna do? Idk maybe y'all were actually meant to be, but the woman he's with could've been an equally perfect match too. Are you still gonna hope for something with him after that? No. People miss God's will all the time because of free will. You're not gonna spend the rest of your life waiting on him? No. It would be better for you to meet men who are serious about marriage and have the biblical qualities for marriage. That's one of the reasons why I don't believe God has a specific spouse for anyone. He wants us to make the smart decision based off of his word.

  • @selenic6149
    @selenic6149 Před 4 lety +84

    Good timing ❤️ I’m not sure why but since I was little I always dreamed of getting married. Although I try not idolize it, it’s been a struggle but patience is key ❤️ I don’t want to casually date . I want to date for marriage.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +4

      Amen, casual dating is not wise. This may help: czcams.com/video/4fNzPJIeDZw/video.html

    • @billclark5055
      @billclark5055 Před 4 lety +3

      Same. But I kept going off looks. Searching for pretty women who were too much. I think I need a quiet, calm, polite, and faithful woman. Who is also patient but, is supportive as well.

    • @aendelabreu3706
      @aendelabreu3706 Před 4 lety

      L

  • @WidyReyes
    @WidyReyes Před 4 lety +46

    Love the last point. The same can go for your career as well, I thought I wanted my childhood dream until God showed me the dream he has for me instead. What he is showing me completely surpasses what I wanted and what I was planning for myself in every way and it’s something I NEVER even would have thought I would say or think about pursuing. I wouldn’t say God changed my mind because he’s too loving to do so, but when he gave me peak inside his curtain, I felt foolish chasing my old ways and plans and rejecting the better plan he has for me. Proved me wrong from the things I’ve said years ago. Same with a spouse. Who he gives you is unimaginably better than who you’re hoping for.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +2

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @bryanreed7216
      @bryanreed7216 Před 4 lety +2

      You have no idea!! This is so accurate! I too had dreams as well but then God showed me HIS plans and they were far far greater then my own over 100 fold. God isn't like us. If we, being evil do good for our children how good will our father be to us?

    • @WidyReyes
      @WidyReyes Před 4 lety +2

      @@bryanreed7216 EXACTLY! Might be heartbreaking to let something go, but it is worth all of it to experience God doing the unimaginable in your life.

    • @bryanreed7216
      @bryanreed7216 Před 4 lety +3

      @@WidyReyes He definitely is not gonna lie it did take awhile, remember it is in His timing. But literally the timing is perfect like the big picture is beautiful. I thank God and His son Jesus for everything man.

    • @billclark5055
      @billclark5055 Před 4 lety

      @@bryanreed7216 I hope to see that then. Because I was recently getting frustrated with how long I've waited. And thought about how every girl didnt fit me before. And the one girl I thought I would love, was always out of touch. I felt so bad just earlier today. But now, I have reminded myself that it's his plan. I hope one day he'll reward me with a wife and it would sure be awesome if she turns out to be 100 times better than what I would imagen

  • @Rinni_Ds
    @Rinni_Ds Před 4 lety +25

    What God has joined together, no one shall separate.❣❤

  • @altarwork
    @altarwork Před 4 lety +5

    She just sent me this to listen to and it confirmed everything!!! You literally quoted pieces of multiple conversations we’ve had over the last few days! Thanks for making this video man. More of a blessing than I know how to explain.

  • @nicky1682
    @nicky1682 Před 4 lety +11

    This showed up on my time line. This is confirmation 💯
    I've waited since 2016.
    I've prepared and grew in my understanding of what's necessary to be a wife.

    • @devonthomas6737
      @devonthomas6737 Před 4 lety

      Interesting post, what qualities you possess spiritually and emotionally that give you indication that you'll be a good wife?

  • @ariellechanel1
    @ariellechanel1 Před 4 lety +12

    I’m praying that the Good lord will send me my husband when HE IS READY!! I’m ready for forever 💍💜

  • @beccamiller9929
    @beccamiller9929 Před 4 lety +36

    This video is absolutely perfect, Mark. These five things God will reveal if you are to marry this person is exactly what my boyfriend and I are going through as we talk very extensively about our next step, whether that is engagement or not. We have been dating for 25 months now. We have gone through a number of trials, starting new lives with career changes and new apartments, no fear of settling for either one, we have a sense of deep love that is spiritual mature together, and expectations of one another are definitely not first expected. Good job, Mark, Keep up the beautiful work. And God Bless on your work you do. Thanks.

  • @ceruleanB
    @ceruleanB Před 4 lety +4

    These points gave me so much clarity concerning things I’ve been struggling with. Thank you for your faithfulness in helping the body of Christ

  • @trishiscute
    @trishiscute Před 4 lety +16

    Hi Mark! Thank you so much for all of your videos as they are very helpful.
    And....Happy Mother's Day to all of the Mothers out there! Everyone have a blessed day! 😊

  • @starshimmerministries
    @starshimmerministries Před 4 lety +2

    You are a ray of light, my brother in Christ.✨

  • @Heyitsvickkk
    @Heyitsvickkk Před 4 lety +28

    Perfect timing. God Bless!

  • @anamcguire9452
    @anamcguire9452 Před 4 lety +8

    Great video! Of the late I just been saying, "God's timing not mine"... and it has helped me through the waiting trial. :)

  • @NewmanGopherwood
    @NewmanGopherwood Před 4 lety +7

    Word of encouragement and Faith. Anyone waiting on God for the One Keep Your Eyes on The Word and commit to God. He will send The One at the Ripe Time. God loves you and wants the very best for you so wait on Him and please never ever settle for less!
    God bless you .
    - GAJE

  • @nathansayer5021
    @nathansayer5021 Před 4 lety +3

    Amen to this! I was living in the world for my whole life and ended up getting arrested for a dui in college back in December.I felt him calling me back to where I grew up and reconnect with him. It’s been about 3 months since I’ve been back and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, I walk closer to God every single day, I’m serving in church more and he put a woman in my life that he put on my heart that I’m going to marry her one day. To everyone thinking they won’t find the one, you just have to wait on God! Only he can give you what you need!

  • @penguin34567
    @penguin34567 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you so much for your videos! I love #4 and 5 here..those are my two biggest struggles!!

  • @pequenatea
    @pequenatea Před 4 lety +3

    I cannot wait to experience this ❤️

  • @fw5680
    @fw5680 Před 4 lety +6

    These are great points! Thank you for taking the time to create these videos!

  • @CrystalTwinStar
    @CrystalTwinStar Před 4 lety

    #4!
    Absolutely the Truth!
    Your teachings are so desperately needed in the Twin Flame community!
    The people who are Godly but not fully mature in their relationship with God are being mis-led and are becoming disillusioned.
    Early in my journey I have veered off of my path but time and time again God led me back to Him.
    Just before my True Love appeared before me, my sense of trust, hope and peace had been fully restored.
    God is now working through me to show many others that HE and only He is the way to our Beloved.
    So many are trying to get there in and of their own means and it just isn't working.
    I am so honored and blessed that He is using my life as a testament to His Glory.
    Faith is the evidence of things unseen.
    I'm not Bible literate and I don't know which verse it is, but I know it is rock-solid Truth!
    Thank you so much for your work, Mark, and for being a conduit for all this amazing validation I am receiving through you!
    Blessings!

  • @mikedicewrites
    @mikedicewrites Před 4 lety +8

    Thanks for the awesome video Mark! It really is refreshing to know that there's more to a relationship beyond the initial passion. God bless bro!

  • @sony10466
    @sony10466 Před 4 lety +3

    Wow!! Mark, is all I can say. I'm beginning to feel that you are right and that God is truly using you and this medium to answer me. Believe it or not, I just prayed about this, this morning. I've been asking for the Lord to help me understand some things and here I am being presented with this message. You said some thing about challenges making us bond deeper and this has been communicated to me before. I have made bad choices before and I refuse to make anymore choices of my own. Therefore, I am seeking God's guidance and his will on this matter. I really want to do his will and not my own.. Some of the things you mentioned are what I'm seeing so thank God for you, and thank you for allowing him to use you to answer my prayers.

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 Před 4 lety

    Great video and great education!! Thanks for sharing!!!

  • @lashondarochell7584
    @lashondarochell7584 Před 3 lety +2

    Mark you are a true blessing 🙏 to the Body of Christ 🙏 GOD 🙏🙌 Blessings to you and your family

  • @LindaLove007
    @LindaLove007 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful teaching, Love this soo much 🙏🏼 Amen

  • @beavadakkoot
    @beavadakkoot Před 4 lety +3

    AMEN, me and my future husband are going through these 5 points and we are just waiting for God's timing for our marriage, using the time until then to get to know each other more and learn and prepare for marriage.

  • @PolishBehemoth
    @PolishBehemoth Před 4 lety +2

    Very nice video. God... im ready for it! Make it happen in my life! Praise the Lord!

  • @preciousramose3332
    @preciousramose3332 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow. This is a defining thing for me to find today. Thats it. Its him. I hve known him since i was 17 and now 29 now passion now reveals purpose for all those years we both had question marks. We both know deep in our hearts that God has his finger on this.

  • @GlambitiousGirlYT
    @GlambitiousGirlYT Před 4 lety +3

    I love his videos ! So easy to understand and straight to the point

  • @elainebyrd8865
    @elainebyrd8865 Před 4 lety

    THIS IS SUCH WONDERFUL INSIGHT AND A BLESSING FOR ME IN MY LIFE. THANK YOU GOD FOR MARK BALLENGER

  • @theglobalpremierfutbolshow8621

    Thank you for this insightful post. God bless you brother Mark

  • @phibakyntiew4414
    @phibakyntiew4414 Před 4 lety

    Waw, Glory to God, in love with this most importantly in love with Jesus

  • @omiquewilliams2522
    @omiquewilliams2522 Před 4 lety

    This video really blessed me and encouraged me about what it will look like when my husband and I come together relationally. I'm just excited to do Kingdom together for forever!

  • @melissaprince3229
    @melissaprince3229 Před 4 lety +2

    Love this ❤️. God is so Great ❤️🙏❤️

  • @monicamanivannan2534
    @monicamanivannan2534 Před 4 lety +2

    I really Desire and pray to God to bring the man for whom he is forming /moulding me for, very soon. I really want to live a life how God wants me to.
    A Godly married life !
    We (my husband &Me with my children )under the shadow called Almighty God. I really wish to.
    I can see nothing in front of eyes so far but I will hold unto God for he who called me is faithful.
    In Every AGW video , I learn how to apply God's word in my life.

  • @irenejoyletrero5165
    @irenejoyletrero5165 Před 4 lety +6

    I dont know but I always feel that the right person will come this year..

  • @jenellubin7120
    @jenellubin7120 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you.. I'm single I learn a lot thank you again❤🇬🇾🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @micahbreannejordan9935

    This really blessed me. Thank you!

  • @J_Peculiar
    @J_Peculiar Před 4 lety

    Very impactful!

  • @petripat5979
    @petripat5979 Před 4 lety +1

    God bless everyone
    Thanks Mark

  • @KevvoLightswift
    @KevvoLightswift Před 3 lety +1

    I don't mean to be a downer, Mark. You've made some great points. But in regards to number 4, I don't think I'll ever stop looking. Online dating has awoken a savagery in me that "there's always someone better". That's part of the reason I'm quitting it. And even a girl I'm seeing right now, though it's fun to be around her, I feel myself going, "meh."
    Maybe I'm overthinking this, but I can't remember the last time I went on a date I was actually wowwed by. Part of me doesn't want to let this gal go, because she's got so many great qualities. I don't like being alone. But I wish she really impressed me.
    I don't know. All I've had are duds for many months. And I am thinking part of the reason might be my own personal issues. Please pray for me nonetheless.

  • @danielsden2651
    @danielsden2651 Před 4 lety +31

    Great points Mark❗So important to know that God is for this relationship.
    I think a great question is to ask yourself: Can I serve God better with this person then on my own?
    Inspired by you Mark and others I started a project for biblical encouragment and challenges on this platform. Would be great if you have a look and join the journey 😊.

    • @danielsden2651
      @danielsden2651 Před 4 lety +2

      Just uploaded a video on
      5 areas in your life you should reflect on now! Check it out 😉:
      czcams.com/video/1x7nZy38mlQ/video.html

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +3

      God bless as you follow the Lord :)

    • @danielsden2651
      @danielsden2651 Před 4 lety

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger thank you so much Mark! This is definitely my desire.
      Would be so amazing if you would take some time to check out my project and leave some feedback from an expert 😊. Really thankful how it started of so far 🙏🏼.

  • @juliascott1618
    @juliascott1618 Před 4 lety

    All these videos have been popping and I believe this is a sign that god will send me a husband and I'm going to put my full trust in him

  • @jdouce6074
    @jdouce6074 Před 4 lety

    Just speechless💜

  • @shelly_1990
    @shelly_1990 Před 4 lety +1

    Perfect scriptures..

  • @traquilasmith2275
    @traquilasmith2275 Před 4 lety +6

    I needed this message. I love and i trust God's plans for me he has the right husband that he ordain for me one day. God will reveal my husband to me maybe this year or next year but one day when God time is right. God knows what's best for us. We just have to trust God and wait patiently. Im listening to this message again. Thank you God and Mark great message. God loves us and God bless everyone.🙏😊

  • @beckynyagwoka3416
    @beckynyagwoka3416 Před 3 lety +1

    I have been waiting for this one and ended up getting in an abusive relationship.. I am here because I really am not financially stable so he takes advantage of that. But I thank God because the first step He took in getting me out of this is by showing me how abusive he was and still is... But I pray to God I get out in one piece.

  • @moondragon130
    @moondragon130 Před 4 lety

    Great time for this video

  • @txwarriorbride5112
    @txwarriorbride5112 Před 4 lety +3

    OMgosh! (Looks outside to see if there is some kind of AGW angel hovering around the window) Was just thinking about the fact that I have never considered who I was in a relationship with as being an "option". Nor ever wanted to be an "option" on a shortlist of "wife candidates". I thought that me being unable to "date" more than one person at a time was a liability. Maybe it is for some people, but I think that is just what is best for me.

  • @chadmight
    @chadmight Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you for all you do . It’s help so many . May I ask : why are there SO MANY scammers on dating sites for women ?! I’m so tired of it . I mean not just a few I mean a lot .

  • @justfabbie9140
    @justfabbie9140 Před 4 lety +1

    God's timing is the best only patient and seek the kingdom of God first

  • @lifeofelizabeth2351
    @lifeofelizabeth2351 Před 4 lety +3

    Great point

  • @honorvalor
    @honorvalor Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks brother mark 🙂

  • @noahhelmuth6497
    @noahhelmuth6497 Před 4 lety +2

    I like your comment about welding still together to be truthful I never thought about that I definitely liked your sermon tonight right now I'm down because I lost my job I was hoping I could find a partner after this thing that went through but now I'm discouraged and I don't know what I want to do so I definitely need the prayers ever since eight months ago came towards me and I don't understand why I almost can't deal with it

    • @icaanacademy4560
      @icaanacademy4560 Před 4 lety

      It is all seasonal....
      This too shall pass. Trust in your father.

  • @helenavaneden1684
    @helenavaneden1684 Před 4 lety

    Its VÉRY GÓÓD THÁNK YOU Robby!!!!!!!

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 Před 2 lety +1

    So true. Lol! I’m going through this stuff now.

  • @m.n.d5949
    @m.n.d5949 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you. God bless.

  • @Nbrolfiwriting
    @Nbrolfiwriting Před 4 lety +15

    Amen!!!

  • @wolfyqueenofpentacles888
    @wolfyqueenofpentacles888 Před 4 lety +2

    I learned a lot from your channel. Amen and Amen.🙏🏻😇

  • @ccdd8538
    @ccdd8538 Před 4 lety +1

    This was pretty good

  • @bobbywilliams-clay3683

    That's why I pray for my GODLY Wife 🙏 everyday

  • @Edith-wn4hp
    @Edith-wn4hp Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much 🙏❤️

  • @pablight20
    @pablight20 Před 4 lety

    Great video 👍

  • @Yoshi-zy1bd
    @Yoshi-zy1bd Před 2 lety

    I ain't trying to meet no one until I get my health straight.

  • @wpmarie
    @wpmarie Před 4 lety

    💖💖💖 on point... 🙂

  • @tenacious-e3o
    @tenacious-e3o Před 4 lety +2

    7:34 her hair 😍

  • @devinesabista7461
    @devinesabista7461 Před 4 lety

    Really God knows the best for us only big question is when since at times we loose hope.

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 Před 2 lety

    The only one I’m having trouble with is finding my own path. Still trying to find my identity in Christ and feel as though the person i’m with has found his identity in Christ but maybe we are really at the same point in life.

  • @aliceg7576
    @aliceg7576 Před 4 lety

    Good points indeed! My circles is not suit to find life partner. I ended to give up.Last few months i confess to my best friend,we do serve together, we spend lot of time with each other until he left as he got new job.So now we ended nowhere, i broke the rules as best friend.never fall in love with best friend

  • @marcograndi5130
    @marcograndi5130 Před 4 lety

    I know right now is weird with Covid but in my beliefs, I don’t think it’s the end days yet. I believe God still has many plans for us and more people that haven’t been born yet in the future!! My goal is I really want to be a rockstar but also be married to a Godly wife and have Godly kids❤️❤️✝️

  • @marylourodriguez3295
    @marylourodriguez3295 Před 4 lety

    Amen! 🙌🏻❤️

  • @jwreck25
    @jwreck25 Před 4 lety

    Can anyone tell me what type of coat that's called at 6:02? Man that dude is fresh

  • @SonOfDavid-andMe
    @SonOfDavid-andMe Před 4 lety

    6:31 this is what I have in Mark 10:19
    19. You know the commands: ‘You must not murder. You must not ·be guilty of [commit] adultery. You must not steal. You must not ·tell lies about your neighbor [testify falsely; T bear false witness]. You must not ·cheat [defraud]. Honor your father and mother’ [Ex. 20:12-16; Deut. 5:16-20].”
    Do you remember where this verse is from?

  • @huckella2131
    @huckella2131 Před 4 lety

    Mark, do you have any advice/videos for ways to get to know someone (before starting a relationship) better? Great video, btw!

  • @roemelthon3156
    @roemelthon3156 Před rokem

    Whenever im single, this vid pop up. After 2 years🤣

  • @Kevinmoore5111
    @Kevinmoore5111 Před 4 lety +4

    I keep having dreams about my future marriage. What does that mean? Can’t wait to meet the one who God has for me!😊🙏

  • @ivankolev3735
    @ivankolev3735 Před 4 lety +2

    I am so dissapointed of life and people that I cant believe in anything anymore. God bless me...if he is there.

    • @danieljohnson3730
      @danieljohnson3730 Před 4 lety

      Iván use your heart....I have been there....look with all sinserity....it is not hard....seek Him he will know you are trying....and will answer you ...it is a promise.

    • @ivankolev3735
      @ivankolev3735 Před 4 lety

      I've been trying for a long time brotha but nothing happens. I'm always doing my best and trying with different people and yet, I meet only evil people and nothing good happens. Thanks for the support anyway brotha, wish you all good!

    • @jennyapon
      @jennyapon Před 4 lety

      Ivan Kolev awe don’t despair! 💗God hears your prayers, your hurts, disappointments he knows them all. Without the night in our life we won’t know light, daytime always comes after a night no matter how long it seems. Gods got you covered, may God bless you Ivan!!!

    • @doityourselfartoftheheart1715
      @doityourselfartoftheheart1715 Před 4 lety

      @@ivankolev3735 do what God said give up your best and let His greatnest..Listen to God brother and you'll see why those people have to left..You have to awinowledge first that Gods love is the only love that can full full our heart desire not any human not our own will..

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 4 lety +1

      James 1 is helpful. Obeying the word is key to being blessed

  • @actuallyashley4216
    @actuallyashley4216 Před 4 lety

    Great video! Just a minor mistake, ‘what god has joined together, let no one separate’ is Mark 10:9 not Mark 10:19. Have a good one!

  • @lifeascort2788
    @lifeascort2788 Před 4 lety

    Will you know that it’s the one.. like what if one year into the “friendship” I’m still having doubts and not being able to fully connect, BUT HE IS head over hills.. I don’t want to be forced by the statements, “oh just give it time”

  • @tpcchanel6808
    @tpcchanel6808 Před 4 lety

    I want to join this group guid me I have I problem relationship

  • @alexgreen1913
    @alexgreen1913 Před 4 lety

    I get only get to be the buddy :( this is my season of being single and I'm not trying to rush into anything but I hear so many stories like people just know. I suffer from OCD and it causes me to have so many doubts about any man. Wither he's for me or not. I battled this for years on end. I wish I had clarity in all of this.

  • @lynnclark9678
    @lynnclark9678 Před 3 lety +1

    Om going to make you laugh God bring my husband Ty you are my rock lol bring him home

  • @amy-leescott6061
    @amy-leescott6061 Před 4 lety +1

    Amen!

  • @DIDUKNOW7777
    @DIDUKNOW7777 Před 4 lety +2

    1 Corinthians 7:32-38 New King James Version (NKJV)
    32 But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord-how he may please the Lord. 33 But he who is married cares about the things of the world-how he may please his wife. 34 There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world-how she may please her husband. 35 And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.
    36 But if any man thinks he is behaving improperly toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of youth, and thus it must be, let him do what he wishes. He does not sin; let them marry. 37 Nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but has power over his own will, and has so determined in his heart that he will keep his virgin, does well. 38 So then he who gives her in marriage does well, but he who does not give her in marriage does BETTER.

  • @roxanaobrien4936
    @roxanaobrien4936 Před 4 lety +1

    Mark, the reference to "what God has joined together..." is in Mark 10:9 , not 10:19. Just sayin.
    Love all your teachings. I have learned lots from you

  • @lizzyflip7578
    @lizzyflip7578 Před 4 lety +3

    We need a Christian singles group where we can possibly meet our mate