The Dark Truth About Adultery: Consequences Revealed

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  • čas přidán 11. 08. 2021
  • #disciplemaking #purity #consequencesofadulteryinthebible
    Adultery and sexual immorality is a very real risk if you are a disciple seeking to make disciples. You are on the front lines and will find yourself under attack. A common area of attack is sexual purity, and, if you are married, the temptation to commit adultery. Here is a strategic way to protect yourself.
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Komentáře • 41

  • @12Church
    @12Church  Před 2 lety +4

    What is your strategy for protecting yourself, your ministry and your family? Whether or not a tool like this one appeals to you or not, please be sure to have some kind of plan.

    • @donnasimmons2241
      @donnasimmons2241 Před 8 dny

      My plan is simple to never commiting adultery. Firstly...,There is nothing or no one or any pleasure worth losing my salvation for. Jesus died for my sins and paid the price for the privilege of my eternal life. Nothing on this earth is worth jeopardizing that gift. Secondly.., I would never do anything to break my husband's heart. He trusts me and I promised I would forsake ALL others till death do us part. There is no temptation worth more than eternity with Jesus and the love and respect of my husband. Life isn't that hard really. Let Jesus be your example and never break a promise to anyone you love. That includes Jesus and your spouse. Pray everyday!

  • @jacquelinedotson9970
    @jacquelinedotson9970 Před měsícem +3

    Sad to say my husband's adulterous affairs for over 35 years has not caused him harm but it has caused all problems in my life as well as our children. Our two sons are serving time in prison I suffered mental emotional and financial burdens So my husband's affairs caused harm to his family whereby his life goes on untouched. I love The Lord and will continue to serve Him.

  • @andreaguenther5207
    @andreaguenther5207 Před 2 lety +7

    There is no such thing as a private sin. Everything has consequences. Even the "thoughts" of sinning cause us to lose our personal and public joy. It's like shutters that start to dim the sparkle in our eyes. This sparkle is so very attractive to both believers and the lost. I know that this sparkle is a direct result of being free in Christ. No current regrets or blatant sin. I want this!!! Thank you God that you give us a "re" button that is called forgiveness. Thank you for consequences that if remembered or thought about help us to cling to you in the battle. Thank you for Godly friends or family that are able to speak into our lives and help us hold fast to what we want and know to be truth. Thank you for Daren's awareness of his need for you and others to keep "Sparkling" openly for you! Show us how to fight personally, privately and professionally sin that hurts all relationships and our ability to love and share your love...Amen.

    • @efrainbrown1
      @efrainbrown1 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Thoughts or desiring that which is not yours is coveting!!! Yeshua spoke about the sin of coveting it is the sin of the heart.

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios Před 2 lety +11

    My wife had affair 2019 it was traumatizing we married 20 years beautful family daughter was 12 at time- a home wrecker manipulated her
    I forgave and loved and had a good fight 2019 and 2020, her ap got married 2021 and was very angry and abusive. By 2022 we succumbed to resent unforgiveness and anger. She never showed remorse or tried at all, I did it all, trips, gifts, love but was too hurtful.
    Hurting children is the most
    God forgive us. I lost my family because my wife cheated , and I even tried and still lost her
    I can’t believe it

    • @12Church
      @12Church  Před rokem +2

      Very sorry to hear about this. "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios Před rokem

      @@12Church thank you God bless you fur your love and prayers

    • @reachhonduras8955
      @reachhonduras8955 Před 8 měsíci

      I don’t understand your post.
      Did your wife re-marry?

    • @nicolapetersen1633
      @nicolapetersen1633 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Typical of this type of people. It's never them.

    • @margekeler3112
      @margekeler3112 Před měsícem

      Consider listening and reading the website and podcast of Rejoice Marriage Minstries. Not all hope is lost. God Bless.

  • @JesusChistLovesYou
    @JesusChistLovesYou Před 7 měsíci +7

    This includes lust in the eyes and heart as Jesus said, if a man looks upon a woman with lust he has already committed adultery in his heart. So remember that looking lusting, thinking of it, PORN is destroying your wife, your family, your salvation it’s sin against your wife family God yourself. Don’t do it. It’s so painful it’s horrific and it destroys marriages. ❤

  • @teresat6876
    @teresat6876 Před měsícem +2

    I have had more issues that I do not even know where to start since my x has been in so many adulterous affairs over the years so I have suffered and my children

  • @Countdown-ct7iv
    @Countdown-ct7iv Před 5 měsíci +7

    Don't loose your family by committing adultery, you might loose everything, it's not worth it, follow the law of God. Don't be filled with regrets like me. Jesus is truth and the way.

    • @Countdown-ct7iv
      @Countdown-ct7iv Před 5 měsíci +1

      And life.

    • @12Church
      @12Church  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Proverbs 5, 6, 7 and really expand on the harsh outcomes of sexual immorality.

  • @RyanREAX
    @RyanREAX Před měsícem +7

    Adultery = divorce and remarriage too

    • @sfs1167
      @sfs1167 Před 18 dny +1

      It depends upon the situation. 1 Cor 7:15=abandonment by a nonbeliever. Matthew 19:9-Adultery by the other spouse.

  • @edwindrewlo1990
    @edwindrewlo1990 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for talking about our vulnerability in this matter, Daren. Those are very powerful questions that can help a lot in resisting this awful kind of temptation.

    • @12Church
      @12Church  Před 2 lety

      It's something we've got to be intentional about.

  • @leonseva4980
    @leonseva4980 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Do not be deceived, those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.

  • @Guidance777
    @Guidance777 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Can you please pray for my husband salvation?

    • @12Church
      @12Church  Před 2 měsíci +1

      May his eyes be opened and may he turn from darkness to light and from the power of satan to God, may he receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those sanctified by faith in Christ Jesus. (based on Acts 26.18)

  • @angloaust1575
    @angloaust1575 Před 18 dny

    Even marriage has its problems
    Troubles of the flesh
    Best to stay single and pure
    Become a eunuch!

  • @jeanniemacdonald5916
    @jeanniemacdonald5916 Před 2 lety +2

    So good! …what is the billy graham rule?

    • @12Church
      @12Church  Před 2 lety +5

      The nutshell is that he would avoid spending time alone with a woman other than his wife. And there was, and is, a lot of pushback against it, even from Christians.

    • @johnknop6825
      @johnknop6825 Před rokem +2

      Billy Graham went even further in that he was not even alone with his daughter - as to not even give the appearance of impropriety. This rule will - for the most part - keep you safe.
      But even Jesus was so liberal as to drink and to be left (almost) alone with a woman.
      My wife and I take a different view in that we have a 1 Cor 7 definition of marriage. This being if the marriage fails then celibacy for life.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 Před 10 dny

    2 people each from the opposite sex who agree to marry are not committing adultery when doing so if one or both sets of parents are against that man's choice of mate. It says in the bible that is true. Time will tell if a man in that situation will be able to withstand Satan's attacks against his marriage more so than towards other marriages because he wants to keep Christian communities negave in malice divided.

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 Před 17 dny +1

    Makes me cringe!!
    Horrible evil to DESTROY OTHERS LIVES!

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios Před 2 lety

    Being away from your wife a week? makes you vulnerable geez how high is your drive ? I can see months or more okay..

  • @shaneryan9040
    @shaneryan9040 Před rokem

    I have a strange lump on my scrotum.what should I do Jesus?

    • @bobleglob162
      @bobleglob162 Před rokem

      The scriptures say, "If your eye offends thee, cut it out" So maybe apply that to your scrotum.

    • @shaneryan9040
      @shaneryan9040 Před rokem

      @@bobleglob162 thanks lord.from both me and my scrotum.

    • @reachhonduras8955
      @reachhonduras8955 Před 8 měsíci +2

      The LORD rebuke you!!

    • @shaneryan9040
      @shaneryan9040 Před 8 měsíci

      @@reachhonduras8955 is that like a referral?

    • @shanezurcher1787
      @shanezurcher1787 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Go to a Dr immediately!
      Testicular cancer survivor here...get checked out