A JOURNEY FROM STUTTER TO TRAINER | Manish Upadhyay | TEDxKharghar
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- An Engineer by Qualification and Stutter by Nature.
Manish Upadhyay is a Stutter who learned his life learning through his stuttering. He transformed his biggest Weakness into the biggest Strength. Manish has helped and spoke to 50000+ people in last 7 Years on Life Skills, Personal Development, Sales, and Managerial Development. Presently running his own Corporate Consulting Firm and associated with some of the Non-Profit Organisations like 'The Indian Stammering Association' and 'Lila Poonawala Foundation' to bring change in Society. His mission is to Inspire people to take Action. An Engineer by Qualification and Stutter by Nature.
Manish Upadhyay is a Stutter who learned his life learning through his stuttering. He transformed his biggest Weakness into the biggest Strength. Manish has helped and spoke to 50000+ people in last 7 Years on Life Skills, Personal Development, Sales, and Managerial Development. Presently running his own Corporate Consulting Firm and associated with some of the Non-Profit Organisations like 'The Indian Stammering Association' and 'Lila Poonawala Foundation' to bring change in Society. His mission is to Inspire people to take Action. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Sometimes I feel so bad and I start to ask God questions, Why cant I speak like other people, Am really inspired by your speech, THANK YOU
Me to
Yes bro😭😭😭😭 wht can u do
I am also....Mujhe to suicide krne ka bhi khyal aya...😭😭😭😭😭but I know i am wrong...now i am trying to overcome it...😃😃😃😃
Same here
@@simpledrawing6129 contact me
When the thirst to speak is greater than the fear of speaking. Don't run away from the fear, make it your friend. Amazing.
Inspiration word's.
I like thiis
I'm a doctor with stammering fr the past 26 years..but surprisingly, I slowly started to overcome the issue (( currently 28 )) & in the same time, I started talking to myself..as if I'm a professor giving a lecture..& that helped me somehow overcome it...I transformed myself from a guy who is afraid to talk on phone into someone who can teach medical lessons to peers & juniors....1st things 1st...psychologically u have to accept urself first bcus change starts within u
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Then it gets reflected in the society..
Where are you from sir?? Have you done mbbs or bds ??
@@digipro5829 I'm from Andhra pradesh, india & did my mbbs from abroad, cleared fmge-mci exam in the 1st go & now got into orthopedics in India
@@dr.smbhargav2502 I just got selected in mbbs, and very depressed because of my Stammering, how could I survive 5 years???
@@digipro5829 firstly congratulations on getting into med school.....& most crucial step is acknowledging that ppl.around u will accept u the way u r bcus they have no choice than to do so bcus they love you & surround urself with such lovely people.....now u have to conquer ur innermost fears like public talking..fr that i watched videos of people with stammering who spoke about it on stage like TED ex.. .I know it sounds tough & weird but I did it & it worked fr me..so u can do it too..slowly ur mind will accept u the way u r..& like a worm in coccon u stayed in an invisible shell all these years..now it's time for transformation into beautiful butterfly....we all r with u in this..let's get the magic done..
Sir I'm also stammering from my childhood...
Now I'm a medicalstudent ...sir how to over come from the stammering ...! Sir i face lot of problem in presentation and viva ..i know answer but i didn't tell sir because of stammering ...in class when i speak .all my friends laugh on me sir...
"A stuttering is speaking at TEDX =, so magic happens." So true.
Because now he is OK
He is not stammering now
I’m 16 and I’ve stuttered all my life. After what you said I was crying because you described what I have been meaning to tell myself all my life. When I was in middle and high school I stuttered every day. It was like starring death in the eye every day. Now I’ve made him my friend. Now I have nothing left to fear in my life. At the age of 16 that’s amazing to me. And if someone is reading this you are probably shying away from a thing that you fear in your life. You don’t know how to tackle it. It’s okay you don’t have to know but if you really want to tackle it you will find a way.
Peter K Have you ever gotten help for your stuttering?
I'm 21 years old and still a stutterer. (By the grace of God) . Yes I'm thankful . I burst out at words and repeat the beginning of each word , I run out of breath very fast , and I prolong words in the middle . It was very hard initially . But you have to realize that the root cause is your lack of coordination between speaking and breathing . You must learn to do both properly. Stuttering is a mechanical defect . I often find myself stuttering much more when I'm in the extremes of any emotion . Could be happiness , grief , excitement , anxiety etc.. the key is to change how you present your speech . Make it monotonous and boring . No problem . Do this for as much as you can . Once you get the hang of it ...slowly you can start introducing emotions in your speech . But this will happen later . In the beginning you must make sure you breathe a lot (even if it means breathing after every 2-3 words ...you MUST consciously inhale , take more air and then continue to speak two more words ) ....it may look awkward , very awkward but you won't stutter . keep doing this , till this practice becomes a part of you . AFTER THIS STAGE WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE THAT BORING BUT SMOOTH FLOW BECAUSE OF REGULAR CONSCIOUS INHALATIONS......slowly start introducing emotions to your talk . Because they're very high chances of you stuttering if you get emotional when you speak . Do not do that for a couple of months.
@@afreenafreen6390 will try this , hope I will be succeed
@@afreenafreen6390 I'm 20 years old now and still a stutterer.....i'm helpless about my futures.
kshetra sahu why do you give up hope like that ? Be optimistic , there is no problem that God cannot take care of . Here are some practical tips for you from a fellow stutterer :-
1) speak only what is required . Don’t get involved in vain and useless conversations . This point is very important .
2) be calm , emotionless with a straight face while talking .
3) breathe after every word (if people notice also DO NOT BOTHER ) . This needn’t be deep , can be shallow but IT MUST BE DONE .
4) after every sentence consciously take a good deep breath and proceed .
5) repeat 1 2 3 4 .
what he says is very true: "if you speak less and listen more you will have better conversation". I am the guy who listens and is empathetic. The problem is that I am not listened to. It is just one direction. So my interlocutors pour out their personal life but do not want to know what my own life is. It is even harder nowdays when people want everything done quickly, here and now, and do not take the time to understand or even listen. Tough days for stutterers.
I m stammer but that doesn't stop me in clearing Govt job now i m working in bank during interview i own it rehearse in my mind.
Do you use any techniques? Breathing or physical? Thanks in advance.
Please give us also some tips.
Being a stammer myself , this really gave motivation..
Manish really your speech very inspiring. I am also a stammerer and I am a mathematics teacher.👍👍👍
dealing with the problem myself I truly appreciate this person
What do you do to overcome stammering?
Good...
Good
Join the Indian stammering association,TISA
I have also found special encouragement from Sharon Steed's videos.
Yes sir you are absolutly right " If we believe in magic , miracles happen in our life ". This is the Beauty of Nature.
I am a hardcore ex stammerer.. However happy to say -
1. I am a Zonal Manager in Sales & Marketing in a leading Tata Group company.
2. Along with my wife, I am first Married Couple of India who did international Cycling LRM 1200 km in least times.
3. Recorded in "India Book of Records" in cycling and represented India in 1200 km prestigious cycling in Paris(France) PBP 2019. Also selected for 1500 km London (UK) LEL-2022.
4. I have done highest study, B.E(Mechanical), MBA, M.Phil.(Management), Ph.D(Management), SAP Certified-Sales &Distribution..
Regards
Dr Prabhat Ranjan
It would be grateful if you can share how you overcame it because all I can see is people saying that they got rid of their stammer but nobody shares the process.
I am grateful to all stutters who decided to come out of their shells.They encourage me so much.
I have stammered through out my life. Sometimes I faced worst because of it. Although I stammer at lot during family conversations but I'm teacher and I'm teaching from last 5 years . With blessings of God, I have succeeded in leaving imprints on minds of students as teacher.
People like you are absolute inspiration .
Kaise thik hue aap bhai . Plz Help.
Zakir bhai can you send your number
I also stammer and have become a trainer. I am not so self conscious of it now as being in front of people delivering two day courses at a time has made me deal with it. I realise it is part of me and who I am today. We don’t live in a perfect world and none of us are perfect. I have learnt to stop wrestling with my stammer and just accept it as part of who i am. If people don’t feel comfortable around me, they’re are plenty of other people who do. As time has gone on, my stammer has improved enormously and from my experience I think it is because I have stopped wrestling with it.
I can really identify what the speaker is saying and it is so refreshing to hear him speaking so honestly and from his heart. Thank you for post this my friend. 🇬🇧🇮🇪
What has helped me tons is reading the book How To Run Your Own Life by Jut Meininger (as long as I apply it I eliminate it completely) (when you read it you'll realize that you have to turn off your Adapted Child state and little by little train your Parent state so your Adapted child doesn't intervene)... you can download it (they don't print it anymore)
How to download it Sir !
Im so proud for having been ur classmate Manish....u have come a long way....keep growing....god bless!!
(P.S- this is lakshmi shirin
Really?
Wether he really had stuttering problem
Awesome speech. Great motivation for those who face challenges in speaking
"Problems, challenges and difficulties faced by you made you what you ar today..."
That's the positive spirit!! The gimmick to take every experience as a learning...
Thank you for this sir...!
But it hurts, really hurts.
Stammering problem 😣...
Yeah
Everything goes well until the first stutter happens. Once the bomb is lit, there's no stopping it.
look once we feel one stutter don't feel bad just keep going man you got this we cant lose hope !
I relate to this so well. I prepared a campaign speech for my college mate. I started well & they clapped for me, as I got to the bridge I first stuttered in my speech, I struggled all through because instead of letting it flow I was busy trying to wrestle my fluency that I lost my composure & ultimately my speech
@@alr0743 Yes man.. I'm trying
@@victorkoladeige4353 Been there, done that.. It's very scary. However, we cannot give up. We need to fight and not focus on the fluency or how we are uttering each word. I think that should help.
Amazing , me too suffer this problem. Sometimes the entire world seems gloomy. But you showed me a ray of hope. Thanks a lot.
With stammering sometimes we feel stressed, different and not worthy. But when we watch ourselves from inside we feel more powerful, Unique and special. We feel that our mind is working better than normal speaking people. And your speech giving me strength😊. Thanks, dear🙏. One more thing to say that my name is also Manish.
Inspiring..Me too a stammer.
Sir, you speak like As if you don't have Any problem of Stutter. I have Stammer problem but I Am Stuck only few words such as. P , K , M. And i am practicing every day for Improve the my fluancy but sometimes I assume it's not Enough . I do something different like you. Really I well appreciate with you and your Speaking method. I really like it.
Action cures fear.
Fantastic speech sir...I have heard you live...You are really. a good speaker, motivator, enthusiastic person...
My Mentor Thank you so much for your positive Speech I hope the same magic can change my Life too, best Motivation from Tedx👍🏻
Found this video very useful when i was feeling low. Thank you Sir
Sir great job, today I knew many thing that statturing is also beneficial in many way, Thanks to u from bottom of my heart.
Great motivational speech for those who face challenges in speaking like me....thanks u sir.....
You are real warrior...sir...you also boost to me for next
I have a presentation with less than a week to go. I was thinking about how I'd be able to speak in front of a class because I was fearing my stutter, but this gave me motivation, so I'm now feeling it's fading away!
How did it go?!
Sir you are speaking is tooooo good I forgot that you are also a stammer 🤭
1.STATTER MEANS LISTEN MORE ....
2.TRY TO TALK
3.INTRACT WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE
4.CHANGE WORDS..
5.
thank you
Magical words... Great
Great speech no problem,sir
What happens that is happens for Good
Love you mahn❤❤❤❤
Right now I'm in situation there I have to give lots of presentation and afraid to speak in front of audience😢
he came to our college today and the confusion that i had in my mind from so many months i got answer to that.... very thankful to him
I am also a stammer I used to feel so depressed but then one day I was watching Game of thrones and was inspired by Tyrion's dialogue
That is - "Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you"
I hope this helps you too my stammer friends❤😉
Jab Main Har din Girta hu lekin fir bhi mai lekin pure josh ke
Apni life se ldai krta
Or ye jab tak mai krunga jab tak mar na jau ,
Aakhir Sas tak ye mai krunga
Improve krne ke liye
Bhut kuch sikha diya esne
Drte kaise hai lekin ab nhi drunga
Sir, I am also PWS....😊
I want to speak like you...
I have blockages on some words starting with K, P, CH, S, T., etc...
I speak fluently..but When One of these letters come first in any sentence, I have to struggle to speak.... I stop...
But I got hope from you that Stammering can be cured... 👍
YES, I CAN... & ALL PWS TOO♥️
Same problem with me
@@shilpisolanki7868 same problem
Great Speaker n Trainer who quickly get connect to the students, employees by creating atmosphere feel so comfort.
Booster for many minds...you taught me to live mindful. Thank you! Sir
I am stutter 😭
But I am happy a by
Life ❤️
Nice to hear your speech...as you told about this in TISA Bhopal National conference.
Very relatable, helpful & motivational video thank you so much sir🙏🙏❤️
U r great sir.... Love u
im creating this channel for who stutter. ...im motivated by thid msn.....salute man
Inspirational and motivational speech for all the people like us.
Thanks sir for giving motivation
I am going through depression at the moment because I’m a stammer? I’m a student and each time we have presentations in class, I find it difficult to speak out even when I know what to say...it’s so disheartening
Go infront of the class..And have a laugh on yourself..amd you will realise you won't stammer..Try this ..Good luck !
Thank you so much for this kind of information.
•) The thirst to speak is greater than fear.
•) Don't run away from fear make it your friend.
Nice sir
❤
Waow, just amazing 👏
Aapko b hai?
This is NYC video...
Super class
I'm also suffering from stuttering...
Very nice speach
I think stammering is one of the bad problem which cuse die every day in fear...due to this i hasnt went to college from 4 days...becuse fear of some new lecture will ask my name in frond of class....i am dead in this prblm...i lost my hope
Don't do this, you can do well in life. I am also s stammer ❤️
Sir, please give me some tips to overcome my stammering.
Do you use any techniques? Breathing or physical? Thanks in advance.
I can't make my fear and embarrassment my friend
So it is impossible to solve stammering
Is not stutter an adjective? And stutterer is a noun. Hence one can be stutterer not stutter.
i am also a stammer how i overcome it
Watch Dr.Mort cooper videos
"Game of stuttering" . Those videos helped me a lot
I'm also stammer.
Mera stamering problem hai uske baad bhi sarkari teacher ban gaya
I am stuttering to speak in English. Only when some important conversation or interview is happening.
I don't know why? and How to overcome this situation.
I can't speak "Redundancy"
Idol person
How u overcome this?
to MANISH UPADHYAY sir I am suffering from stuttering
Sir can u plz guide /advice me to cure stuttering I am 17 year old
I want to fulfill my career as pilot
Can u tell how can I do treatment
Okay I will start from today
Can I get your WhatsApp contact number?
@x GeneraI please contact number
@x GeneraI are you, ex stAmmerer,
And email your contact number please I can't talk here it's global that why.
I am also stammer i have that type od problem 😪😪
Great inspiration...
please drop me your consultancy website so that I can follow up for more details... thanks
You stilled stutter in some word like cahnce?
My son is 4 years old nd he stutter 😭😭😭 I’m very worried for him
I think less than 1℅ people stammer
I rarely see any person who stammer
So 12 million is wrong data
I am aboobecker please help me my stammering problem
I will be back but not as a stutter
I am a stutter
yaar ya to hum achchhe se sab bol paate yaa to gunge hote to achchha hota but ye kya bana diya jindagine
Aaj se kasam khata hu .... stammering bnd
i this prob too😑
Me also bro
00966594767322
Help me
I stutter
Mam search TISA website
Try to increase your confidence levels..the level of stammering falls when your confident ..the main reason of stammering is fear ...
..attend public speaking
Remove your fears...
Speak to yourself..
Practice a lot of speaking
Even great scientists of ISRO also stammers ,Indian actor (H.Roshan),Doctors, etc
Stammering is not a diseases / disability
भाई अगर हिंदी भाषा में बोलता तो अच्छा होता ।।
I wish this presentation was not in Indian accent
But he’s Indian so what do you expect? An Irish accent?? 🇮🇪☘️
Altaf.. I wish you idiots know how to speak Hindi.. 😂😂😂😂
Alice in Wonderland true AF.. 😂😂😂🤣🤣..
Frankly it's bad accent but I think he can improve it as soon as possible. no reason!
Sorry but can't understand his English at all.
Stammering bahoot tang kar raha hai
Babies cant run
Thank you for the speech...looking for remidies...I mean how to recover from it.
I can't say my name....
Believe in yourself ,relax when you are talking it should more help
Use long lengthening style while speaking......you can find the difference within a couple of week 🙂
Kanai Saha Have you attended Partha Bagchi sir’s class? Did it help you?
@@sambhrantdas8716 I found these are the best practices and best way to overcome this prob which I got form Partha sir's centre 😀
Great! I have joined sir’s course since yesterday and hope to overcome it too.
Love you mahn❤❤❤❤
I am also a stammer